Misadventures in Atlanta

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 8:34 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

Off-Topic I don’t know if any of you listen to V-103 but I have to say I am fighting tears back listening to the good God is doing in that ladies life right now. It’s so ironic that I had just got finished reading about maintaining faith in the darkest hour..not to give up. This was the perfect example of Blessings being On Time. Now she is overwhelmed with the pour over of the love of those touched by her story in our city.

Now where did I put those boxes of Kleenex

By Rell

October 25, 2007 8:36 AM | Link to this

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose?

Niether…where the garden tools….lol

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 8:39 AM | Link to this

Morning yall!

Gregg made a great decision about not having kids. Kids are not for everyone. He might have a tough time finding a female who doesn’t want to reproduce though. Good luck.

I, personally, wish I never had kids. I love my sons, BUT I wish I would have waited. Because I feel guilty for bringing them here, I work hard everyday to keep them happy and safe.

I would never do a co-parenting thingy. I want the father there by my side 100%.

I would choose marriage over having a baby. My mindset is different from when I was 25 years old. Whose isn’t right?

By Rell

October 25, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

waving @slim one…..and beautiful…chello

By Deeva4Life

October 25, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this

Good Morning! Great topic…

I’m on the fence with this one. When I was married, I desperately wanted a baby, but to no avail and obviously due to the demise of my marriage, that was a good thing. Since my divorce, my desire for children has diminished. I love kids and I’ve dated a few guys with kids, so coming into a situation where there are children isn’t a bad thing…minus babymomma drama. I want to believe that when God blesses me with my mate, this will be a decision that we make together. I’m not so opposed that if I married a man and was in love with him and he wanted a baby, that I’d say no. My other dilemma is that if he says he doesn’t want any, I don’t want to wake up at 40 and wish I’d had a baby.

If had to choose between having a child or having a marriage, I’d choose having a marriage. There are a lot of men who are already fathers, so me being a mother doesn’t mean I have to birth the child. But there’s only one way to be a wife.

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

Hi Rell!

SlimOne what happened? I would love to know.

By WTF

October 25, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this

I have a child (teen), would NOT even consider dating a man who had something against a woman with a child (get ta stepping!!!!), would NOT date a man who has a child that he is not taking care of (I don’t care whether he has visitation or not, or whatever excuse that could be used as to why not), and definitely would NOT date a man who’s looking to hang out (at my house)/come over/lay around/etc. that can’t/won’t contribute to what I’m trying to accomplish! Ya gots to pay to play!!!!!!!!!!!! And, trust!, where there’s one who won’t, there’s always one who will. And yes, I date like a man!!!!! It’s the best defense ever! Get on board, ladies!!!

By QC

October 25, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers

Have a great day!

By Dan

October 25, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this

My favorite line when asked why I don’t have kids at my age…..

“I’m having to much fun practicing, I’m not ready for the game yet.”

So until the “D” meets the one chick with good genes, nice (family) physique, and not crazy…..

You can find us practicing

By Rell

October 25, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this

this topic made me que this song up in my zune…retrospect for life - Common/lauren hill….

Girl I want you in my life cause you have made it better Thinkin we all in love cause we can spend a day together We talkin spendin the rest of our lives It’s too many black women that can say they mothers but can’t say that they wives I wouldn’t chose any other to mother my understanding But I want our Parenthood to come from Planning It’s so much in my life that’s undone We gotta see eye to eye, about family, before we can become one

By G

October 25, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

OFF-I was listening to V103 yesterday and today. Anybody with a heart would have trouble squeezing a tear or two. Much props to the ATL.

ON - I believe I still want children, but I want my own the traditional way. Meaning………….I prefer me and my SO to share our “first-time” experience, while being married. I’ve always thought that women with children will always have a bond with their baby-daddy. It’s like I would also be inheriting not only a child, but the bond also. Not meant to be a slight to the single mothers. Maybe I’ve been missing out. But I don’t think I would get the same level of respect as the man before me. At least one thing I would have in common with a “true” single woman is we can share our first child together……….as a married couple. NO ooops

Co-parenting is not new. It’s been going on for at least a generation. Baby-mama/daddy drama has been going on for years b/c of co-parenting. What are we teaching our children about family when we say it’s okay to pop out babies without marriage? “Listen to me son, you don’t need to get bogged down by a wife……….just order a baby to-go.”

By Rell

October 25, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

@WTF…date like a man…hardly hun..you just a bit jaded and masking that pain with your slight view on what the game is about

By QC

October 25, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

@ Slim1 I listened to that story from yesterday & the rest of it today….i was balling at my and i got so full because of the people coming out of no where to help her. I ask God to bless those that were a blessing to her & also bless those who wanted to give but could’nt..

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

Slim waving back at Rell & Beautiful

Beautiful Well a lady called in yesterday just to vent about her situation. She moved here earlier this month from Ohio. She came here on greyhound with her 9yr old son, who is also diagnosed with mental retardation. All she had was $20 but was expecting her son’s disability check. However, when she got here all her utilities were not on, someone had broken into her mailbox and stole the check. She doesn’t have a car. So she has to walk 35 to 40 minutes just to get to the bus stop. She basically moved here for a better life since so many things went wrong for her in Ohio. (From being molested for at least 3 or 4 years to being raped by 5 guys). She took a cab to the Social Security office to ask them about her stolen check. Of course the lady was rude and basically told her she put her son and herself in that position by coming here unprepared yadda yadda yadda. Frank Ski left the show to get someone to help with her rodent problem and it pretty much snowballed from there. Folks called in today, the dealership Nalley gave her a car. The employees there put up about $540 bucks to help with the insurance, and another guy there is going to match that amount to help with any other expenses. Johnny Cochrans daughter I believe called in to offer her $2000. Someone else called in to offer her job assistance. She did go to the job fair at Cobb Galleria, took the bus just to pass out her resume but hadn’t received any offers yet. So that’s it in a nut shell.

By Wise Diva

October 25, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this

Good Morning!

LOL @ Dan! hilarious!

So what does date like a man mean?

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

G & QC It is these moments that truly touch me outside of all this other madness in the world. The heart will never be obsolete.

By Rell

October 25, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

@slim…that story was real…and i always ask folks…why are you having a bad day..you woke, eat breakfast…got in your car, drove to your job, sat at your desk…with the promise that payday is coming…after you leave work you prolly go shopping for something…cook you a nice meal….talk on your phone..watch your cable/tivo/dvd…on your lcd tv….but all day you had an attitude….lmao…get the fluck out of here with that….

By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert

October 25, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Parenting is a hard job…Many are called but few are choosen. I am a firm believer that if you do not want children or unsure if kids are for you then dont have them. Period. I have not one moment of regret in becoming a mother. Yes, I had all kinds of wonderful dreams before my son was born, but life is what happens while you are making other plans. My dreams didnt shatter when I became a mom they were enhanced. But if a person doesnt want children then they shouldnt feel any pressure to have them. Why have a child that you may later resent .if you have those feelings under the surface they may manifest themselves in other ways.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

RELL i thought you was out cutting the grass or something… LOL instead you in here spewing enlightenment… go ‘head bruh

G some of us are single parents not from lack of planning but as a result of divorce.

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

Rell co-sign.

By Rell

October 25, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

* but life is what happens while you are making other plans*….cosign

By Deeva4Life

October 25, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Rell ^ 5 on your 9:19 post…so true.

By Jazzyone

October 25, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this

Hey ya! Not into the baby mom thing, I would like to have a child but not biologically..will adopt been setting up the foundation for it for a few yrs now almost there. I don’t do babies anyway the child I do adopt will be older than 1 and younger than 6.

Prefer to date men with children or a child to take the preasure off me..never had that biological clock thing in me…don’t want to reproduce. I will adopt a child though …never had kids because I wanted to be married to do so and at this age I won’t be having any dont’ want to take my body thru it amongst other things.

I always discuss this issue with a man that I am dating seriously because it can be a deal breaker..if he wants me to have them for him nah not my thing and I tend to not see him again if he isn’t into the adoption thing but if he wants me to busted em out it won’t work…if we are just casually dating and I want to just Toss him up heyal I don’t want to talk about that or anything else..just give me what I want and keep it moving..holla.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Good morning. I too teared up while driving. God is Good. Atlanta’s residents are good.

I absolutely love being a parent. All the ups and downs. This is the most important job I’ll ever have. Yes, it’s very hard keeping your child happy and safe, but I think it’s all worth it. I doubt that I would co-parent, and it would also be difficult to date someone who doesn’t have children. It would be even harder to date someone who didn’t like children. My watch is to protect and provide for my child not to to provide for the happiness of man who wasn’t on the same page as I am.

By Rell

October 25, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

yea i hate folks that keep an attitude but has so much….i know what it is like not to have…and not having a way of getting it legally….even when you plan to the end..things out of your control can happen..so i felt that story…and i felt the support she got today…i tell folks all the time just be thankful you woke up this morning…and start your day from there

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this

mornin…….

By Dan

October 25, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

@ Sexyleggs

I feel you ma! I never really knew the totality of the moment until I saw Knocked Up. When ole girl said “…my vagina will never look the same!” I laughed til I almost passed out.

And to ladies with kids, sometimes you look more beautiful there, esp. when you taking care of your kids.

But that was the funniest line in a movie ever!

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

Morning all…

Some dude just pledge $25,000 to that lady on the radio. WOW…God is awesome.

On Topic: I have alwaya said I dod not want kids. I do not want to have a kid because people think I should or that is what is expected of me. It’s hard to find a guy who does not want to knock you up. If I had to choose between marriage and baby..I would chose marriage (God help me)! I may resent that child later..and I would never want a child to feel the pain of being abandoned (not physically) or feeling like they are unwanted. It’s a feeling that messes with you for the rest of your life. I don’t like to date guys with kids because of many reasons. Its funny..I love infants..but between 2-12…I can’t stand them! LOL But should Ichange my mind..I am all for adoption..after I have achieved the things I want in life. I think motherhood would hinder me in my goals. I love and need my freedom to travel and shop when I want to. To know that my money is mine after I pay bills is a great feeling. My friend is a single mom and she struggles and I thank God I do not have her life. Her life is my birth control…so is her son! (LOL)

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert, Many are called but few are choosen. EXACTLY!

WiseDiva, I may be wrong, but I believe “dating like a man” is when a woman call’s the booty shots. Her heart isn’t really into the person she’s dating, she’s just out to get hers. Much like many men do. However, when a woman does it, she’s labeled a slut, w*******, garden tool, etc. When a man does it, it’s a notch on his bedpost. More and more women are making that after midnight call on their terms and not on his. I’ll do me, before I let you walk over me. I guess that’s the sentiment. Hey, I may be wrong, but I doubt it.

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

On-topic

Would you consider a “co-parenting” arrangement with someone you know? Most definitely not. As bad as the outlook is on actually getting married and having kids looks, I’d much rather have a child with my husband than with a friend. I think we need to get back to valuing true family households. The lack of happy 2-parent homes contributes to the demise of society and kids seeking out tv, friends, and celibrities for guidance.

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose? I guess at this point in time, I’d choose marriage…(see answer to previous question)

Have you ever dated someone who doesn’t want children and you do? How did you handle it? Nope, never came across that. Most guys just say they aren’t ready now but look forward to kids in the future.

By Jewel

October 25, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone!

I am out of the baby-making business. My daughter is 21…why would I start over now? Fortunately, my SO is fixed, so we will not have to go down that path. I now find myself repeating a phrase my Beloved Grandmother would always say: “Look at the condition of the world. If I were a young woman, I would not want to bring a child into this world.” That was over 20 years ago.

There are certain things a child needs for proper nurturing and development. Having parents who live separate lives by choice is not one of those things, in my humble opinion. This excludes single parenting as a result of divorce or the end of a relationship. I would never consider co-parenting even if I did have the mindset for more children. People need to realize that having children should not be a selfish act. The desire to parent is filled with responsibility. No child enters this world with an instruction manual. So, even if couples “prepare” for child rearing, life can take you by surprise. What if one parent dies before the child becomes an adult? What if one parent changes his or her mind after 6 months? Five years? Ten Years? Yes, the same can happen to married couples. I guess my point is a person should base their decisions on what is in the best interest of the child, not simply what “fits” his or her lifestyle.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this

good morning

SexyL thanks for that definition, cause i was wondering too.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Dan, I have been told to rent/buy that movie on more than one occasion. Also, when you posted And to ladies with kids, sometimes you look more beautiful there, esp. when you taking care of your kids., it reminded me of a phone call I got last week. This guy has been trying to come over once my child goes to sleep or even stop at his place after work for a glass of wine or two. He said “he finds me so attractive because I keep saying no and that I’m putting my child first in everything.” I thanked him for the backhanded compliment all the while looking at the phone like “DUH, isn’t that what I’m suppose to be doing. KnockedUp is on my list for viewing this weekend.

*

By Jazzyone

October 25, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

I would chose marriage over a child since I always wanted to adopt anyways…childhood experiences governed that for me.

Dating like a man for me (My guy friends have always said I date like a man) has nothing do with the aspect of sex for me. Ive always been told that its my ability to handle the emotional side of dating like a man. Always been told I could be the character Robin Givens played in the movie Boomerang. LOL

By Rell

October 25, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

@slim one…cosign lady

The lack of happy 2-parent homes contributes to the demise of society

^insert black family…cosign

@sexxyleggs..is that what a MAN does or is that what a BOY does…a man will value his seed and who he runs up in..trust that…so many of you have dated BOYS disguised as MEN..but i know this street goes both ways..i dont label anyone..if you wanna have sex do it..does not make you a w******* or anything else..actually i like women that are not afraid to do them

waving @2c….and staceye…cosign your post…i have been in that space before in my life…

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

October 25, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Morning All!! Great topic!

Before I got married I was nonchalant about having kids. It was one of those if-it-happens-fine-if-it-doesnt-fine type of things for me. Then I got married and pretty much had the same attitude. I just never has a strong inclination to be a parent but I didnt totally do away with the idea either. By a fluke I got pregnant (on BC Pills, took some antibiotics and didnt read the fine print). I was kinda passe about it the whole time until I had my son. All I could do was just pray that God stay with me and help me to be the best parent possible. I wouldnt want to date a man without kids at this point though b/c I am DONE! I did proclaim that if I didnt have any by 35 (or anymore) then oh well, and I dont want to have the pressure of dealing with a man that wants a child.

Off topic: V-103 had a sistah in tears too! What a story…

By Dan

October 25, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

@ Sexyleggs

Can you blame him?

By Jay

October 25, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

This topic hits home for me. I’m often asked, why I don’t have kids. My answer has always been, I want to be married first. At my age I would love to be a father. It has to be done right. Why is it that a man with morals is thought of as gay because he dont have kid’s everywhere? I would never agree to co-parenting.

By Raqi

October 25, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

My entire adult dating life was as a parent and I ran into a lot guys who did not want kids or who did not wish to date women with kids. I have much respect for those guys who let it be known early on and just as much disrespect for those who felt that way but were trying to shoplift the puddy and then bounce.

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

what up Rell….I’mma be cocky and say this……you’d (whomever) would love my kids!!!……wasn’t married before they got here, but eventually married (then ultimately, divorced) their mother…..

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

Staceye, I’ve been waiting for your post because I already knew most of what you would say. However, I laughed at My friend is a single mom and she struggles and I thank God I do not have her life. Her life is my birth control…so is her son! (LOL) I bet it is!

By Foots

October 25, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

Jay This topic hits home for me. I’m often asked, why I don’t have kids. My answer has always been, I want to be married first.

That just shows how lenient our society has become. The question I get asked is no longer “Do you have any kids?” but “How many kids do you have?” Like they EXPECT you to have at least 1 if you’re a certain age. And if I say that I don’t have any because I’m not (and have not been) married, I get the “Well, you don’t have to be married to have kids” line. And my reply is “Well, YOU don’t. But I do.”

Would you consider a “co-parenting” arrangement with someone you know?

Nope. I don’t think this is in the best interest of the child. It seems selfish to me to bring a child into that kind of confusion. Bring back the true family!

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose?

I’d have to say I’d choose marriage. I’m on and off about marriage most times, but it’s better to me than the alternative (living with someone, dating multiple people).

If I don’t marry and I still want to raise a child, I do feel that adoption would be an option for me, taking care of and providing for a child who is already here.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Rell you’re right, that’s what boys do disguised in a man’s body! After a while, the woman realizes she has a boy on her hands and not a MAN!

JazzyOne, thanks. Your definition also defines “dating like a man.” It’s not always about sex, but it will always be about handling the emotional side of dating. IDGAF could be the motto.

By Rell

October 25, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

*He said “he finds me so attractive because I keep saying no and that I’m putting my child first in everything.” *

^^what a simp, this is whats wrong with the game now…he wants you to stop by for some wine….lol, that brother needs a hobby….ladies if you wanna know what simpin is…read above…he is going hard for the arse and using that brown nosin comment to get him in good

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

i am tickled pink that coach already has kids…so, by choosing to be with him…i am already in a co-parenting situation…it’s the coolest thing for me and the littlest one to be at the house and he will run up to me and say, ‘i love you, insert real name here‘…but to me the most special indicator of my impact on their lives is when they accidentally call me mommy…makes my heart well up…so, technically, i’m already a mother…

as far as me HAVING a kid…as one who has had an abortion and then a miscarriage…and now has a surgically shortened cervix that would make any pregnancy high-risk (meaning complete bed rest from the moment the second line shows up on the stick)…my chances of succesfully carrying a fetus to full term are pretty slim…

that being said…some days, i still wanna be somebody’s biological mother…other days, when i see some of the things that friends go through with my thoughts are dis is some bllsht…

all told…my desire to become pregnant and have a child of my own depends on what day it is…

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Jay I like your answer. If I were to chnage my mind it would be because I got married and we compromised and had one. Because I am not doing that torture to my body more than once. I get asked all the time why I don’t have kids..like its something wrong with me because I chose the right way intended by God to be a parent.

Raqi Shoplift the puddy!?! LMAO

Sexyleggs I tell you…I thought I wanted a kid until being around hers…its not secret..she knows he gets on my last nerve! I have 0 patience.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Dan, you ask “can I blame him?” No, I’m a good catch (yes ForReal IMO). However, I’m having difficulty with what Raqi said. How do you discern this sentiment from someone truly interested in you = … but were trying to shoplift the puddy and then bounce. I think it’s getting harder and harder to trust for both sexes to trust the other. Some want a relationship and some want just puddy/dyck. Those that are upfront are easy to deal with. Yet, those that are undercover about their intentions make it hard for all of us. Again, I may not have stated that clearly for some, but hopefully you got my drift.

By Jazzyone

October 25, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

Foots^5 i get that all the time as well and people do that snap thing with their tongues and say well you don’t have to be married to have kids thats silly..Im like um there will be two of us doing this thing or nothing at all I can control what comes out of this body and what goes up in it…period….

By Rell

October 25, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

waving @sexycool….ummm you would be a cool mommy…and shortie looks at you in that way…you are mommy feel me….jus like i am daddy….but i digress

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Rell, had to laugh at your post. That’s exactly why I keep saying NO. Like I said, I thanked him for the back-handed compliment all the while thinking Yeah Right!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

October 25, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Jazzyone & Foots I agree with you guys wholeheartedly which is why I had my son after I got married, even if it was by fluke. I wouldnt choose to have a child out of wedlock and since I can control that, I did. And while other folks may not agree, I am not them! LOL

Staceye I have zero patience as well which is easier to control with my own child, but when you get someone else’s…..Woo-sah

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

One thing that I would like to express is that I’m thankful for my baby’s daddy. He takes good care of us even though we are thousands of miles away. I’m so lucky to have found a guy who does not dodge the responsibility of providing for his son. It makes it easier on me to raise him. He pays his child support on time every month ($900), and when I need a break I call him up and ask him to buy a plane ticket. I do add this blessing in my prayers er day.

By kinderbabe

October 25, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

good morning all! hope you’re having a great thursday. as far as baby momma drama goes…that’s something i definitely won’t be going through. i am unable to conceive naturally. that’s one blessing that i am coming to accept b/c whoever puts in 15K plus to make a baby w/me in the lab definitely is THE ONE…lol. surely a man who made that type of investment to have a baby isn’t giving me drama.:) also, there’s always adoption. i wouldn’t make either choice though w/o being married. i think it would work out better for me under those circumstances.

By Rell

October 25, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

@sexyleggs

Those that are upfront are easy to deal with. Yet, those that are undercover about their intentions make it hard for all of us.

^^this is what “nice guys” do….they are scared to be upfront..because they fear the reactions of telling the truth

off topic….back story on american gangster

http://nymag.com/nymetro/news/people/features/3649/index1.html

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

life is going to be so grand, imma go to school, get a job, find a man

he will pledge to love me till death us do part, he will support, we will be a team, a blessed start

we will decorate the nursery and prepare for our blended life, but i now have gas, my feets bloated, do i still look cute?? still your wife?

hormones raging, i’m demandin and downright mean, you feelin pressure w/no help it seems

and now he’s here and we havent spoken in weeks, our child’s cries become our new anthem, we walk to his sporadic beats

i dont know you anymore, loneliness cause tears to stream, i worry, annoy you and pray to Him Supreme

but this has all ended up a life we neither want, what we ‘have’ is not a life, its a ghastly front

for what shouldve been, what couldve been, where have you gone my friend

now i’m in an involuntary co-parenting situation, working through the issues and expected frustration

for the very best reason

it all comes at a hefty price, whateva life throws your way, be realistic is my advice

sorry for the long post, but that was good for the soul

By Jay

October 25, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

I was always told it takes a generation to change the cycle. I hear some women say they dont need a man. they can raise a child by themselves. Is that being selfish or the way society tells us its ok? Staceye ^5 Divine design has it where a man and a woman was the way it was intended.

You don’t have to be married to give birth to a child. You can be responsible.

By For Real

October 25, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!!

I would rather have a child than be married. Children are your only legacy.

Slim With all the gifts that she is receiving, I hope they teach ole girl to fish too.

2E’s I promise I will not get you pregnant. I put that on everythang I love How is Friday morning for you?

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

One of my greatest blessings are my parents. They’ve been married for 48 years and still very much in love. Everyday I have a shining example of how to be a true father and husband. When I woke up this morning, wifey had my girls dressed adorably and they were about to leave for work and school. Before they got to the bedroom door, without me saying a word, they instinctively returned to my bedside to give me our traditional goodbye kiss and hug. When they left, I woke lil man up, helped him brush his teeth and wash up, ironed his clothes, got him dressed, turned on Dragon Tales (I know the entire theme song), and hopped in the shower. On my way taking him to school, he said: “To Infinity and Beeeyyoooonnnddd!!!” I’m like What? He said, “Daddy, that’s Buzz Light Year. Could you get me a Buzz Light Year costume for Halloween?” I told him “DuShawn, you know I got you.” You can bet your last dollar, I will find a Buzz Light Year costume…I love being their father.

By Poppa Grande

October 25, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Good Morning to you all….

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and don’t have any children. We have gotten the kid question since 5 minutes after the wedding ceremony!! (We were still in the church thinking whoa, we’ve only been officially man and wife for 5 minutes so now we are supposed to make a baby right away in the morning pews or something?!)

Anyways, we are now making the move towards kids. We know that there is more to having kids than just making them. I want her to be healthy as well as the child. With her being an attorney and me in law school to become one, our time has been limited. She is considering changing careers (maybe teach law) to get away from the billable hour demands that attorneys have. a few of law firms in Atlanta have daycares with them now. We should give an idea of the hourly demands of an attorney. (Attorney doesn’t have the excuse to leave to pick up the child.)

We wanted to be a part of the child’s life and not just be the financial backer.

Offtopic sort of: For those who are parents or Big Brothers/Big Sisters/Mentors etc: I would like to recommend the Tubman Museum in Macon. I’ve taken my lil brothers of the past there. There are rooms that just have the inventions that African Americans have made. Its really special to see the wonder in kids eyes to see what we have contributed to society. I find it really important to show you males that you can make a difference in the world and not be an entertainer (rapper and ballplayers are nothing but entertainers). The fact the term “The Real McCoy” refers to a black inventer, etc.

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

DasV (yea, its me) did you post that for me? that was me 100%. thanks!

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

DasV, that was also good to read.

By chink

October 25, 2007 11:45 AM | Link to this

God has blessed me with a beautiful child …I wake many nights just to watch her sleep and she is seven years old. I would be lost without her…what am I missing that I could do without her ………nothing important.

I am alittle afraid of the preteen era but you know what I am still prepared.

Nothing like continuing a legacy …

Children get on your nerves so would a husband/wife but you have the ability to shape that child and prepare her for the world …nothing compares really I don’t think there is a comparison…apples and bok choy.

By Jazzyone

October 25, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

@Du* I love you being a father as well..very endearing….

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

DasV and now he’s here and we haven’t spoken in weeks, our child’s cries become our new anthem Dayum…. I’ve been there too. We had three babies in five years. Everyday has not been like the one described in my previous post. I changed shyttie diapers for six straight years. My 3 year old still sleeps in the bed with us almost every dayum night. I’m thinking about changing his name from DuShawn to CB……(c** blocker)

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

chink, the preteen years are nerve whacking. The drama, the attitude, the sucking of the teeth, etc. But, there are many, many small bright moments that outshine just aboutanything. My child is 13. Woke her up this morning and she jumps out of bed to run into my arms while I cover her w/my big bathrobe planting a good morning kiss on my cheek…man, that felt good.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

Rell, the story is so captivating. This write up might make it difficult for many to stay away from the theatres on the 2nd and not spend $$.

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

Jazzyone What a difference a day makes. Yesterday, I was a tricked out slut with no morals and today I’m father of the year.

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

For Real I didn’t get the impression that the lady was the type to wait for someone to catch a fish for her. Either way, she has been blessed by the goodness of others, so it will all turn out for the good.

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

Mo when it’s mine..I am stuck with it…if I babysit I can send then home and I am done! LOL

DuShawn wow…the sensitive side of you is nice! Now you want to call the baby CB? LOL that is too funny. He doesn’t want anyone touching his mami…that includes you. Shorty knows what he’s doing! LOL

By Foots

October 25, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Beautiful He pays his child support on time every month ($900)

very much off topic Girl!! Times have changed!! My dad better be glad that he was paying child support in the time period that he was. My parents got divorced when my sister was 12 and I was 7. He paid $100 a week for both of us together. for 6 years. And when my sister turned 18 (on a Saturday), on Sunday he paid $50. LOL!! My mom had to take him back to court to get $75 a week!!

By Jazzyone

October 25, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

Du to me you have never been a tricked out slut you have been you and living your life you want to and thats what makes me appreciate you feel me. I’own care what the heyal this blog says about anyone…I see the bigger pic…

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

DuShawn, Yesterday, I was a tricked out slut with no morals and today I’m father of the year.

Just keeping doing what you are doing. I think no less of you because of yesterday’s blog. ;)

By Jay

October 25, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

Foots Sounds like Pop was watching the clock thinking how he going to spend that extra $50. What about the people that thinks paying child support is being a parent. Then you have the parent that thinks that is her check for 9 months of labor.

By Willie Dynamite

October 25, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

Whats Hapn fellow blogsters?

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose? As being Married with children I can defintely say I could choose children. As mean as it may sound not a month goes by that I don’t think i could be without this bytch (hey it happens). I’ve never ever thought that in regards to my kids. My kids are the best thing to ever happen to me.

I wouldn’t trade the shyttie diapers, crying, sleeping in my bed, all of the above for nothing in the world Nothing.

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Foots & Beautiful I can beat that. My dad paid $63 per month for both me and my sister. He told me one day that he couldn’t wait until we turned 18. WTF! It’s a good thing we had free lunch at school. lol

By Deeva4Life

October 25, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

Willie Dynamite in the words of the illustrious Flavor Flav…WOOOOOWWWWWW!! But at least you’re honest…LOL

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, I can beat that…my ex is suppose to pay me $58 a week and he can’t even do that. Talking about sad! This is 2007! Yes, I took the lowest percentage offered by the court because I knew he couldn’t do anything if I went higher. It’s a damn shame that he can’t do this…..SHEESH. So, when you guys talk about parenting, I AM THE PARENT IN EVERY SENSE OF THE WORD. $$ don’t make the parent. I don’t and can’t depend on his $58 that may or may not come. Does he feel bad, yes. Is that important to me? HELL NO!. What’s sad is he won’t do anything about it…one of the many reasons we are divorced (financial that is).

By Foots

October 25, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

Slim LOL!! Yeah, I think that trumps all!!!

Jay I think that’s what my dad thought, that paying court-ordered child support made him a good daddy. I still get my hackles up when he tells his friends and co-workers back home how he helped with my homework, got our clothes ready for school, how he helped me through college, how he helped me with my first house, etc. I don’t embarrass him in front of strangers, because we both know the truth. I made it through by the grace of God and the prayers of my mama.

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

willied…not a month goes by that I don’t think i could be without this bytch…

i feel you…on the days that have stretched into a week since coach and i have been a happy couple…i think to myself…what the fcuk am i doing THIS for?

but things eventually get better…they always do…

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, Foots, when i was given my child support judgement in court, all it was was God. he promised me that he will take care of thangs for me. he also told me that all the pain i felt would be temporary. i never doubted him.

my ex said “Angie, you know i can’t afford this”. i said “that’s funny cause the judge said you can”.

By G

October 25, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

Jay wrote @ 10:26…This topic hits home for me. I’m often asked, why I don’t have kids. My answer has always been, I want to be married first. At my age I would love to be a father. It has to be done right. Why is it that a man with morals is thought of as gay because he dont have kid’s everywhere? I would never agree to co-parenting.

Not only me, but my whole crew co-signs to this statement. We’re all single, down to earth, good looking, never married, with no kids. Hard to find good women in Atlanta on the same page.

As for my married buddies, most would choose the babies over the marriage.

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

men are not the only ones who get the how many kids do you have? question…my response is always…probably not as many baby’s mommas as you’ve got…

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

I spoke to a close potnah of mine the other day. He informed me he recently moved back home with his mother. She’s like my mom too. I’ve eaten literally hundreds of meals in her home. Now she’s extremely ill. Stage 4 cancer. They tried several treatments with little improvement. The health care providers are talking Hospice. He told me how his put Mortgage business on hold to personally care for his mom. He said he prepares all her meals, bathes her and gives her pedicures. I told him she did it for you. Children are a blessing in more ways than one.

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

Slim now daydreaming about what G’s crew look like. Hmmmm:We’re all single, down to earth, good looking, never married, with no kids. Hard to find good women in Atlanta on the same page.

What age group are you and the homies. LOL!

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

G do all your boys have the same thinkin on dating single mothers??

BTW IMO the bond doesnt just come from having a baby by someone, and if anything, you’d be respected in a better way by someone who once had a head; we’ve got experience on our side.

By Pharress_Beuller

October 25, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Would you consider a “co-parenting” arrangement with someone you know? I doubt it, but who knows how I would feel 10 years from now if I’m not married and still want a kid.

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose? Honestly, a child. My jaded thoughts on marrige tend to sway, but my thoughts on being a father are concrete.

Have you ever dated someone who doesn’t want children and you do? How did you handle it? Hmmm, a young lady I dated earlier this year for a few months told me she didn’t want to have kids about two months after we were dating and it was a big turn off to me…I respected her views, but I know I at least want one and I wasn’t going to try and change her mind in something she felt adamant about, so needless to say we just decided to be friends.

At the end of the day who knows what our decisions will be when we come face to face with them. Five years from now I could be on some Cliff Huxtable shyt…

…Pharress now noticing one sleeve being longer than the other on his Gordon Gartrail shirt…”Deniiisssse!!!”

By Willie Dynamite

October 25, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

Sexy You aint neva lied. It does get better but for those days/week you think some pretty extreme thoughts. Happily married is a day to day term.

Du you still a tricked out slut with no morals. J/K homey, them kids will change ya whole thought process. Changed my life, made me a better decision-maker.

By G

October 25, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

LOL @ sexycool….Usually I don’t have to ask how many kids she has. I can usually tell within 2 minutes……..The majority of nice looking women that are easy to approach, talk to, and get along with are the ones with children. The stuck-up, eye-rolling, non-covo cutie in the corner is usually single.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

LOL@thats funny cause the judge said you can

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this

Sexyleggs $53 a week equates to about $232 a month. But to only have to pay $63 a month for two kids and still bytch about that is poposterous. What in the world can a child do for $31.50 month? I maybe small like an ethiopian but I sure don’t eat like one. I couldn’t even eat at Ci Ci’s Pizza with that amount and buy a 5-pak pair of hanes her way. LOL!

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

Willie D, dawg, you took the words right outta my mouf, Du, you still a tricked out slut…LOLOLOL….said while passin’ the presidential, lookin’ at Du’s wedding photos trynna pick which one of them bridesmaids down wit the get down!

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

Not really LOL @SlimOne. I thought you said $63 a week. Ok, your father gets the dirty award for that one. Guurrlll, I feel you on the stocking tip. I’ve been stockpiling since August. Hell, I’ve been stockpiling on most things for her and for myself when $$ are tight…LOL. Winter months are no joke on one’s pocketbook. We are all better people despite the bad, or non-existent fathers we had in our lives. Because of that, our children will be too.

By Bre

October 25, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

Greetings to all, I hope you are having a good day.

Although I see myself having kids, all of my friends swear I will never slow down to let it happen. But you get older and wiser to only see the thrill of the chase hurts the body with age. At one point in life I thought of co-parenting with no hesitation. It allowed for both of us to get what we wanted. Now today I’m sure I would not do it, but I would take children over marriage. There is a bond between mother and child that not even words can come to ones lips to describe. A mother would give her last and only for her child, although mine did not. I’m not jaded by it. A husband/father well he might think a few times before giving his last to his wife. Esp if they are fighting that week. LOL. I’m dating someone now who has 2 kids and strongly leaning toward not having anymore. And until the relationship evolved I thought I was fine with it. Then something clicked in me that was clear that one day I want to give the gift of life from my body. So we shall see……

By The Truth

October 25, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville. Long time no see. Hope all is well. I’ve peeped in here a few times and see everything is still off da chain.

First, blogsville give WD a standing ovation. Ol girl brings it on a regular. (Stand your azzes up and clap, lol) She carried this spot for longer than she should have to.

Second, I came by to clear up a few things so this may be one long azzed post. LOL

I stopped blogging, after going cold turkey and all the sweats and shaking that goes with that, because it was time to move on. I can now only blog under my therapists supervision and still have a major jones for chocolate. This was becoming a guys against the girls thing and thats not where its at for me. While theres some differences of opinions in any camp, every time I’ve ever fallen down or raised the bar it was a beautiful sister that was by my side. I cant be mad at that. I’m sure alot of dudes can look back and say the same thing. More times than not I was the cause of the troubles I was involved in. The Truth has been nothing but lucky when it comes to women, minus a few brushes with the demon broads. LOL No harm no foul.

So, given the opportunity to concentrate on where I’ve been or where I’m going I choose the latter. As bleak as things may seem sometimes there is a bright future out there for us and I want to head in that direction. Rell said a mouthfull this morning, we are all blessed to be here and be healthy with food to eat. Everyone can’t say that.

I will say that in a real sick and twisted internet kinda way I have gotten to know some of you and have developed a real liking for you. Through blogging and sharing the ups and downs of daily life I guess that can happen.

A special salute to For Real and Slim who could guaranteed make me cry laughing about those crazy azzed skits. That was some funny shyt.

DU that 1126 was what life is all about. They have us all out here chasing dreams when the real deal is sitting at home waiting for us. Even tho there were many times I wanted to come thru your screen with my 45 you have proved to be one of the reallest dudes I have met/typed with/ wtf ever you call it. LOL Just take it a little easier on the other side because if there was more real cats standing up like you they wouldn’t be having these convo’s. When I grow up I want to be just like you. LOL

I feel good knowing Willie D , For Real and the gang will keep it coming from a mans point of view. Ultimately we’re not enemies. We just have to learn how to work together as a team, the way it was supposed to be. These folks have got us whitewashed.

I wish you all nothing but the best and just wanted you to know that. No hurt feelings, no bad memories, just preparing for the future. If I have hurt or angered anyone here, I apologize. If you hurt or angered me I forgave you 5 minutes after it happened. LOL

When we read the papers (Sorry AJC) and watch the news we forget that there are good people out there like those in blogsville. Thank you all for reminding me of that.

P.S. someone was talking about travelling in europe. My .02 get a eurailpass and hit all of europe. They have a great flea market in Paris, wild clubs in amsterdam, beautiful scenery in switzerland, and even tho most people hit the major cities in italy, jump off the train in some small city and enjoy their way of life for a day or 2. Its eye opening. They’ll give you a class in what family is all about. BTW, they love sisters over there so doors will be opened if you carry yourself right. LOL If you make it to Greece hit Corfu.

By Jewel

October 25, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this

Speaking of child support…did anyone see the segment this morning on Fox 5? This man was released from prison after 18 years once it was proven that he did not commit the crime (rape). Now, his son’s mother is suing him for unpaid child support for the last 18 years…of course she wants a portion of the $300k he will receive from the state. His lawyer is contesting. I say he should give something directly to his son. I wonder if the ex-girlfriend believed him when he said he said innocent…

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

i wish i would of met yall two years ago. i would of begged you guys to hook a sistah up!!!

we’re all single, down to earth, good looking.

By binford

October 25, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

A man and woman are the foundation for their future family. You build the solid foundation first and you never forget that the person next to you is the person you chose, for better or for worse.

After kids, people often forget that. That’s a huge mistake.

I’m not a Christian, but I remember going to service one time and the preacher saying (and I’m paraphrasing here) that your wife/husband should be your first earthly priority. And I agree with that. While most any parent would sacrifice their own life for their childs - if you neglect the foundation, the house will fall.

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this

Afternoon everyone.

Would you consider a “co-parenting” arrangement with someone you know? At this point, never. I would never voluntarily choose to be a single parent or a co-parent. I benefitted greatly by having both my parents in the home GETTING ALONG. I owe it to my kids to try to give them that same experience as much as I can.

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose? I’d definitely chose marriage. If I found a true life partern, I’d want him by my side. My children would grow up and leave home, so I’d chose to grow old with the love of my life, if I had to chose.

Have you ever dated someone who doesn’t want children and you do? No. I don’t know if that would be a deal breaker but probably so. Part of me feels I could be okay if I found out I was barren, but I’d want a partner that would at least be on board with having a kid, if I just had to have one.

binford, are you around today? I see you left me a message yesterday. :-)

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

The Truth, hi babe. even though i don’t know you that well, i missed you. :*

By Rell

October 25, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this

@beautiful..you met us now..so what is the problem..two years ago you were not ready..you are where you are suppose to be…feel me

@binfold..cosign

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Thanks Truth. Take care of yourself! You have truly been missed.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

theTruth the truth is that was long post… heeheheee. it seems like a goodbye, or a hello after a long absence… whicheva, i appreciated the acknowlegment that here in blogsville its all good.. kisses (but no tongue like what you get from some) LOL

By melo

October 25, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

Truth whats up with that long ominous post? U good. Kids, i luv them more when they are young to about 13 yrs. Right now, I am fighting my 14 year old daughter and her raging hormones.All i want is 4 her to go to college. I hope she realizes that. But BIG UPS to all the single mothers.I have sired 3 babies in a two parent home. Its no joke raising a kid in the USA, even when its the two of u.

By G

October 25, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

@ DasV: All of us “prefer” women with no children, but some of us are willing to “open up” to the idea of seriously dating women with children. I don’t think it has anything to do with the quality of women, just the baby-drama that sometimes come with it. Baby-daddy is always trying to tie-up mama from moving on from him. Have to get along with the kid(s).

As far as experience on your side……….it’s kind of like someone telling you the end of the book before you finished reading. The only one who benefits is the one who knows.

@Slim: We’re all in our 30s.

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

coincidental that truth would post as he has today…just this morning, i was considering the fact that if i took the time that i spent blogging and invested it in working on some of my short term projects/long term goals that i would begin making hella progress on some of the things on my 5 year plan…

but…that would be WAY too much like right…

By kungfu grip

October 25, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

no tongue?? coming from you Dasv is a joke

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

Okay, so binfords crew and Gs crew are both on the radar. LOL

By Alvin

October 25, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

I wouldn’t trade the shyttie diapers, crying, sleeping in my bed, all of the above for nothing in the world Nothing.

You damn right!!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

October 25, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

Kisses to Truth…glad that you dropped in for a spell. :-)

SexyCool agreeing with your last post 110%!!

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this

G’s 30’s huh? Me 29 + You guys 30’s= x(possibility) Now let me see if i can remember my algebra…gotta find X. lol

Truthster Awww, preciate the shot out. Don’t forget to grab my lil azz on the way out. Sort of the equivalent to rubbing the log for good luck on The Apollo. :-D

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

**I wouldn’t trade the shyttie diapers, crying, sleeping in my bed, all of the above for nothing in the world Nothing.

You damn right!!! I’ll double that damn right…LOL

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

anybody ever had sex on their job? the hottest chic in the whole damn building happens to be the cleaning lady……so if you try to call and I’m still at the office, I’m cleaning up!

By Rell

October 25, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

@amazonred…..i did not get my cookie yet

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

kungfu LOL. stop playin. most think me sexy, few know it for sure. and why you hiding behind your fake moniker. iffn you got sumtin to say, come on out and say it… and get that grip twisted back up on ya…

By Willie Dynamite

October 25, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Leggs You know what time it is, As Staceye would say I gotta get my visual for the day. Whats the attire?

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

Blog Question

MEN How would you feel about your girl/wife/long-time SO being a surrogate mother for another family member or close friend?

Women Would you ever consider being a surrogate mother for a close friend or family member that was unable to have a child?

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

Damn 2C, where do you work, a construction site.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

Damn 2C, where do you work, a construction site?

By LorDemi

October 25, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

Hey Bre’, Dasv, SexyLeggs and Slim

DasV remember, alot of single guys without children are selfish and want to come first…Until Li’Demi came along, I couldn’t relate to single moms all to well…now I will date a single woman with one or two, without a second thought.

By For Real

October 25, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

Said while rubbing on Slim’s log…*

Trth God red yo. I hpe evrhin is col wt yo.

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

Slim I’m with you…G’s crew is sounding good enough to make me come back to the land of dating! LOL

G is your crew short, fat or look like they are in they 30’s? LOL

Truth how ya doin’? Since GA Man isn’t here to give you the citation for that long azz post….I’ll let it slide!

Slim, Foots & Sexyleggs My bio-dad had $35 a week taken from his check for child suport and let him tell it he paid my way through private school. My mom put that with $65 other dollars a week and made it my allowance. I can count all the stuff he has done for me on my hands. And he wants to try to play proud papi on graduations and great moments in my life. Honestly if I were to get married, he would be invited to the wedding out of respect for my grandparents. But his name would not go on the invite or program…nor would he walk me own the aisle, my dad would. Since he has been a real father to me. Foots you good not to call your pops out on his lying/false bragging. I have so called mine out for the liar he is.

By Beautiful

October 25, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, couldn’t do it. i’m a emotional creature. one look into those big beautiful eyes and i’m done. and if its a GIRL, hell to the naw!

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

WDynamite, tweed skirt (w/hues of baby blue and black) stopping at my knees, black turtle neck, black stockings, peep toe black sling backs and of course, ankle bracelet….I’ll this in to spice things up because I’m feeling bad…no panties.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this

LorDemi screaming with laughter at your candor

and on that note:

my children taught me how to laugh - at myself my children taught me how to teach - myself my children taught me how to have patience - with myself my children taught me how to be content - with myself my children taught me how to ‘clean up’ -myself my children taught me how to ‘cook’ - myself my children taught me how to ‘take out the trash’ - myself my children taught me how to iron out -myself my children taught me everything i know - about myself

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

For Real I’ll give you a mere warning this time. But in the future, both hands must be used in the rubbing of said log per Code 69-68-OWEU.1

LorDemi Hey I brought you this scarf to use in your flights around ATL since it’s kind of breezy out. Slim clears throat Just pay no mind to that powder that seems to have gotten on it.

Staceye Definitely has my interest peaked. Things that make you go Hmmm…lol As far as the bio-goes, we had this discussion on the blog a while back. I got so much backlash for saying I wouldn’t want him to walk me down the aisle. Being that I don’t want to relive that, i’ll just say that I really don’t feel that i’m his to give away. It would have to be my mom or my current father figure, Pops. He did the overly-proud parent stunt at my graduation. We marched in, he grabbed me in the middle of it all, picked me up and spun me around. All the other unsuspecting parents took it as WOW,he really adores his daughter. However, he hadnt helped me do papers or projects in school. Hopefully he’s being a better dad now to his youngest daughter with his current wife.

Beautiful I believe I’d get too attached to the child from going thru the pregnancy to just give it up & relinquish rights. I’d probably whisper in the childs ear that You know I’m yo real momma right?

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

sorry blog that is difficult to read without the appropriate returns. i had a hard time reading it and i know what it says.

heres the repost

my children taught me how to laugh - at myself

my children taught me how to teach - myself

my children taught me how to have patience - with myself

my children taught me how to be content - with myself

my children taught me how to ‘clean up’ -myself

my children taught me how to ‘cook’ - myself

my children taught me how to ‘take out the trash’ - myself

my children taught me how to iron out -myself

my children taught me everything i know - about myself

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

WillieD “Happily married is a day to day term.” Truer words have never been typed. I have said several times marriage has an ebb and flow just like the tide. A few weeks ago I couldn’t stand her azz. She’s naggin me, saying I’m in the street too much. I’m telling her to shut up, clean up around this mafugga and cook something. Getting some azz was out of the question. I’d stay up late watching TV and go sleep in one of the guest rooms. We were barely speaking. Gradually, we started to forgive and act right. We took a family trip to Savannah this past weekend and fell back in love. I just took her to Maggiano’s for lunch. She’s like; “dayum the salads in here cost $15.00!” I jokingly told her; “see what happens when you treat your man right.” She said she wanted to treat me to Miami this weekend. I’m leaving the office at noon tomorrow and we’re out. After we ate, the waiter boxed up what we couldn’t finish and brought the leftovers in two separate Maggiano’s bags. I said; “See baby, that’s why the salads are so expensive they give you these classy bags.” She said; “shiiid next time I’ll bring my own dayum bag.” I asked our server to add a slice of the chocolate cake to go. The bill comes it’s about $40.00. She looks at it and says; “dayum…..one slice for $7.00, I could’ve bought you a whole chocolate cake from Sam’s Club for five dollars.” I had to laugh because she has always been like that when it comes to bread. It reminded me of one of the many reasons I married her.

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Rell, what have you done to earn your cookie?

G, how tall are you and your friends? LOL

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

yeah, I’m on a construction site with my laptop……that would make me the Superintendent, wouldn’t it????

By Jewel

October 25, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

LOL! SexyLeggs has become Willie’s cyber mistress with the daily attire descriptions! LOL!

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

rell/2…have either of you ever describe any of ya’ boys *or any other man for that matter) as good looking?

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

LOL @ sEXYlEGGs being Willie’s cyber-mitress

By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert

October 25, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Off-Off-Off Topic

I dont know if Foots is out there..But you were talking about things to uplift and get people to do better. I dont know if any of you have heard about the campaign the Deputy Mayor of Dallas is doing to get the youth to pull their pants up. But check out this link.

Pull your Pants UP

Also, take a listen to the song that a rapper in the Dallas area wrote to promote the campaign..this is what should be blast from car radios.

Now back to regularly scheduled blog

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

nah, SexyLeggs…..just ain’t a lot of folks that look like me and you, ‘round here……I use reverse racism to my advantage up in here…..there’s some black females, but no other black dudes, so I get away with murder!!!! Last week, one chic sent out an email suggesting we play “guess the baby” for some other chic’s upcoming baby shower…I politely responded back, “If you can find anyone in this entire building who possibly resembles me, then I’ll participate; if not, count me out”

By LorDemi

October 25, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

DasV i can relate to that, thanks for posting..

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

LOL @Jewel, so it seems…it’s all good!

SlimOne, I couldn’t become a surrogate because I so love babies. It would be hard to give it up. If I should co-sign for something like this to truly help a dear, dear, important friend in my life, believe you me I would have talked to myself until I was blue in the face. Because the word “promise” is one of the more important words in my vocabulary, I would have to make sure I could live up to doing something like this before I consent.

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

my children taught me how to ‘clean up’ -myself So true. A while back, I hung out on a weeknight with some hustla potnahs of mine, none of whom work. We hit the strip joints and a few clubs. I got home about 4:00am, got a few hours sleep, woke up hung over, had to get lil man together and get to the office. Eyes red and burning, feeling horrible, can’t find one of his shoes. I looked at him and said to myself…..I got to do better than this.

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this

ummmm, NO, Sexy Cool……what I look like saying, damn dawg you look good in them jeans….da fvck!

Rell, dawg you looked kinda tight out there in our flag football uni’s…..shiiiid, I can’t even describe another dude!

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Foots I finally got a bat call from you know who. I’ll get to see if this size 8.5 will fit uncomfortably in that big butt later on today. Just glad no one had him hemmed up.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

DuShawn, that’s a parent!

By Willie Dynamite

October 25, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

Leggs DaaaaaYuuuummmm

Das CoSigning all of that

Slim/Staceye Are you relatoinships with your Father getting any better with time? Me and my pop wasn’t cool for a long time cause he wasn’t round much. As I got older we sat and had a few Man2man talks. He admitted that he was a lousy Dad,selfish and scared of being a Father and didn’t know how. I can say now that we are like potnahs. I use that as daily motivation to be all that I can right now to my kids.

DU Mayne me and wife had a moment not too long ago and we took the weekend away to Savannah. We hung out like folks on River St. and did it up. We went to the shoe show and now everything is good. Work in progress homey.

Jewel Please believe it is room on the Cyber team for you too.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

DU-man smiling you know??! without sayin a word, dem chilren will knot you up with guilt if you not living right….

Demigod smooches - kungFu i a kissing again… come out, come out. wherever you are heehheeheeee

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

I haven’t heard from the guys on this question

How would you feel about your girl/wife/long-time SO being a surrogate mother for another family member or close friend?

By LorDemi

October 25, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

SlimOne you’re talking sidish, don’t make me come flying to your office space…You’ll belike Demi is superman’n this H…

I am Out, Peace!!

By G

October 25, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

@Red: Most of us are average height btw. 5’9” and 6’. One is 6’2”, but he’s been single the longest. None of us are fat. Most of us work out to some capacity in the gym.

By For Real

October 25, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Slim meeting her daughter after 7 yrs….

Adopted Mamma: I’ll agree to you seeing her but you cannot tell her who you are.

Slim: Okay. I’ll tell her I’m her Auntie Slim.

AM: I’m not playing.. If you mention one word about being her mother I will have security drag your azz out here.

Slim: I promise I will not say anything. I just want to see her one more time.

AM: Okay but don’t dare say a thing

Slim: I want…

Slim’s Baby Girl: Hello pretty lady, I like your skirt.

Slim: Well hello to you. Aren’t you just the sweetest little girl on the planet.

SBG: Well thank you. Who are you?

AM: Honey this AUNTIE Slim.

Slim: thinking to her I’M YO MAMMA!! Ummm that’s right, I’m your mmmmm Auntie Slim.

SBG: Well I have the prettiest Auntie in the world. And your hair looks just like mines.

Slim: I’M YO MAMMA SBG!!!! I’M YO MAMMA!!!!!!

AM: WTF!!! I knew this trick was going to trip. SECURITY!!!!

Security snatch Slim up so fast that her skirt flies up and to everyone’s surprise, Slim isn’t wearing any underwear.

AM: Ewwwwww get that heffer out of here!!!!!

SBG: Said while looking down inside of her pants She must be my mamma!! My CT looks just like hers!!!!

AM passes the f/k out.

By Jewel

October 25, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

Ditto Dr. Kym on those saggin’ pants…I heard Les Brown make these two statements about our young men a few years ago on Tavis’ radio show, not a direct quote…

Spell S-A-G-G-I-N backwards… *AIDS= Addiction to Incarceration and Death Syndrome

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

Willie Dynamite I have initiated many heart-to-hearts with my dad. I really believe that he just feels lost & don’t know how to get his footing back so-to-speak. It’s almost as if he lost touch with me. I was daddy’s little girl when my parents were married but once she got re-married, he slowly stopped making it a priority to spend time with us. It’s so funny that this came up because my mom found this paper I wrote 10yrs ago for class titled a Problematic Father. I couldn’t believe I wrote about this & turned it in. So just last week i forwared it to him just to read. He never commented on it. He said he was too scared to read it. If it wasn’t so long for this blog format I would post it. One part really had me laughing which referred to him telling my sister he sent us some money in the mail. But that my mom or step-dad intercepted the mail so we couldn’t get it. However, he didn’t know my sister was the first one to get home everyday and check the mail. So i guess she stole it from herself. LMAO!

By Rell

October 25, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

@2c….lol, dude you are funny….i already told these ladies….i am ugly big head hunchback of notre dame…i dont get looks…and chicks dont know want me….i just like to look at pretty women….lol

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

ARed…why don’t you just set up a meet and greet for G’s and Binford’s friends that way y’all con determine if there is any interest on either part (or parts, plural)?

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the response G. I your 6’2” friend isn’t saddled with issues, have him call me. LOL

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Did yall hear the story about what SUPERMAN DAT H- REALLY means?

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

SexyCool, I don’t think I could bring the blog world into real life reality! I’m just having fun on here. These guys could look like Quaisimoto in real life and I could look like Shrek. LOL!

By Rell

October 25, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

@slim one…yep…basically you….on the back…apply sheet and when she wakes up in the morning you just superman that……LAME TO THE 10TH POWER…not even funny…but ooooooo well

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

Yes, I got the meaning about 2 weeks ago and thought about posting it here, then changed my mind. Anybody want to read it’s definition?

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

matter of fact…tomorrow is the weekend…meet for happy hour or something…or meet at a sports bar on sunday to watch some football…

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

matter of fact…tomorrow is the weekend…meet for happy hour or something…or meet at a sports bar on sunday to watch some football…

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Sexy Cool….I need an ego boost; all these cats sharing their vitals, and what not…….ummmm, I’m cute aren’t I….in my own way, right? (said with the look of an innocent child)…y’all cats really need to stop!

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

SUPERMAN DAT O

So here’s the deal. Most dudes have been in the situation when you’ve been trying all night to sleep with a certain young lady.Y’all have been messing around for hours & you’ve tried everything from ‘I’ll still respect you in the morning’ to ‘Just let me put the head in’ but she keeps shutting you down hard like a faulty car trunk. Well, according to our songwriter/rapper Soldija Boy, now’s the time to give up and ‘Superman Dat O’!!! So basically, you let her fall asleep and you commence to ‘take things into your own hands’, you know, make it a party for one! Hopefully you catch my drift.You then ‘release’ on her back while she’s sleeping. Next, you take the sheets and cover her up with your little soldiers still on her back. W hat happens next is actually the funny part! Throughout the night, your liquid love will dry and wind up sticking the sheet to that lovely lady’s back. When she awakens the next morning, she’ll stand up with a sheet stuck to her back like a cape!

My friend, you have just Supermanned dat O!!! LOL LOL LOL

By Rell

October 25, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

@AmazonRed….lol, having fun…i am with you on that one sis…this is fun….and for the record….stop talking about me…i am quaisimoto…lol…

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

Rell, you’re right it is not funny, it’s degrading much like a “golden shower.” EWWWWWW! I find it amazing that someone would even consent to the golden shower part. She’s sleeping in the superman…..scenario.

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

ARED…don’t be scurred…i have brought the blog to reality a couple of times…and it was HOT!!!!

of course, that was before coach…LOL…

By NCGirlfromATL

October 25, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

Heeeeeeeeey Truth!! I was wondering where you’d been! Nice post! Missed you, mayne (and your knutbuster jeans and holey, rocked over Pumas) LOLOL!!!

DuShawn Glad you told that story. I was having a conversation w/ my mom recently about how so many people now think of relationships as disposable. I can’t tell you how many phone calls I’ve gotten from people who were having a rough period w/ their spouse, sleeping in separate rooms like you and your wife, and they were ready to throw it all away. Usually over something they each knew they didn’t need to be doing, but were too stubborn to stop. I keep trying to tell folks, “it’s cheaper to keep her!” And if they don’t believe me, they do when I quote them a fee to get divorced!

It’s a shame people don’t more real effort into a relationship and adulthood than they do.

It’s been nice lurking today…hold it in the road folks! Sup Slim!!

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

2…your good looks, sexiness and charm all speak for themselves…i ain’t gotta say nothing…we just gotta get some of these folks out of hiding…

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

2C I have had sex with someone at their job on the over nigtht shift when he was supposed to be watch the stick exchange overseas…we had a meetin gin the conference room…the copier (I think we made a copy of my booy)! LOL

Sexxyleggs you ain’t got no drawers on? Ooh you a cougar fo’ sho! Can I be like you when I grow up?

Dushawn I am with your wife on the money logic…I get cheap with guy’s money as if it’s my own. I had an ex that took me to South Beach and I tried on these shoes without knowing how much. I thought $150-$200. So when I liked them and said that I wanted them the sales lady said they were $750.00. My man was pulling out his wallet and said that was nuts and I would not let him do that. However, I did say if you wanna blow $800 put it on my next condo payment. You can call me crazy but you can’t call me stupid! I know what counts! LOL

Slim when your dad picked you up you should have walked away saying, Pligga Neeze”” in the words of ARed!

Willie I have not spoken to bio-dad since 2001. I ran into him at his parents house when I went to visit them in 2005 and since he was with his friends out front. His first and only words to me in 4 years were insults. So since he belittled me…I did it right back in front of his friends and that has been the last words ever uttered to that man. He is a sad old womanizing person who gets off on putting others down. I don ot need his negativity in my life. I have a dad so I dont need him. At least yours admitted that he was lousy….mine thinks because he shot some sperm to help create me that no matter what he does to me I am supposed to take it and keep quiet. I have never been that way…even as a 3 year old child who stood up to him when I felt he treated me wrong.

G The ones over 6 ft sound like prospects! LOL

Slim you and your CT (LOL)!

By the way…what does Superman that h mean?

Jewel* Spell S-A-G-G-I-N backwards… wow…I never thought of that. But it’s so true. It’s ignorant and to think these guys think they look good with their pants hanging off their azzez and gold grills. Now they’ve got an anthem to it, “I’m So Hood”!

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Rell, we are two peas in a pod then. Cracking mirrors where ever we go!

SexyCool, I am scurrred. My wedding story is not gonna start with “so I was cruising the AJC blogs…” LOL

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

Jewel & Kym Off topic My position regarding the saggin pants issue is ambivalent. I think it’s a ridiculous fashion trend that makes our youth look like buffoons. However, I don’t think it should be a legal matter. There is a conscious, deliberate conspiracy by the powers that be in this country to give as many black youths felony records as possible. This takes away their true power of citizenship…. the right to vote. Between the ages of 11 and 30 I was stopped and searched by police at least once a year. It was always you fit the description of ….., or you didn’t come to a complete stop…. or some other fictitious bullshyt. Now under the guise of public decency, they have come up with another avenue for harassment and random searches. What’s so ingenious about this plan is they have some black politicians leading the way. I would venture to say 50% of the kids walking around saggin, got some weed in their pocket. In my opinion, if these types of ordinances are passed, they will equate to 50% more felony convictions 50% less votes, and 50% less politicians elected with our communities best interest at heart. Just food for thought.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

stacyE you sure that was you humpin at the job… you sure you werent watching wit a bag-o-popcorn and vending machine drank… j/k

By Rell

October 25, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

@ar..word…..stay in hiding…we dont want to see…lol

By Adam

October 25, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

Are you someone that prefers to be child-free?

Yes

If so, have you always felt this way?

No, it was my Dream to a father and a husband, to know the joy of holding my child high knowing it was a part of me. But through out my own experinces in life I have realized that this Dream had to be Sacrificed for my own well being.

How does this impact your dating life?

I do not date.

Would you consider a “co-parenting” arrangement with someone you know?

…… I don’t have sucker wrote on my forehead, need I say more.

If you could only choose between having a child or having a marriage, which would you choose?

I’d adopt a child.

Have you ever dated someone who doesn’t want children and you do?

No

How did/would you handle it?

Like anything else in stride, I would accept this, its wrong to try an control someone.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

Staceye, yes I’m a true cougar…LOL.

ARed and Rell, but you guys look fine. Your personalities are beautiful that’s for sure. That in and of itself transcends to your looks.

Staceye, I’m with you on belittling your dad back. How dare you talk to me like that after not speaking to me for 4 years and this is all you have to say. BAM, before you know it you’re mentally bleeding from my verbal beatdown. You don’t respect me, I won’t respect you. Point blank!

By Foots

October 25, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

For Real OMG!! My CT looks just like hers!!!! You a fool!!

Kym Thanks for the link. I’ll check that out.

Slim Yeah, I finally caught up the the knuckle head too. His last words were “I’m at work, lemme call you back later”. Is it later yet?? LOL!! If I didn’t love him so much, I’d hate him!!! But that’s my fam…

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this

whew! thanks, I needed that Sexy Cool….was beginning to think I had fallen off…LOLOLOL….and, tell ‘em again about blog life meeting real life….

“get it 2, get it!!!……gal, you’on know my real name by now!”

By SlimOne

October 25, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

For Real Now i know why my mom didn’t put me in skirts too much as a child. I really didn’t wear skirts until they came out with the skort (skirt with shorts underneath) Slim needs good CT support. hehehehehe

Sup NC

By Foots

October 25, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

DuShawn I would venture to say 50% of the kids walking around saggin, got some weed in their pocket. In my opinion, if these types of ordinances are passed, they will equate to 50% more felony convictions 50% less votes, and 50% less politicians elected with our communities best interest at heart. Just food for thought.

LOLOLOLOLOL!!!! Wouldn’t it be easier if these kids would just stop walking around with weed in their pocket??????

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs, what a nice thing to say. Thank you.

Rell, go back to hunting yams, you jerk! LOL

By Rell

October 25, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

@dushawn…cosign…they go after saggin pants..but not economic empowerment…or the aids in our community…no they attack the aggin word….or worse than that..the pipe line of drugs into the country….nope this is just another move to check mate the black man….

another food sample for you

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q1Et1siZhTk

By Wise Diva

October 25, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

I will co-sign on SexyCool’s assessment of Mr. 2, that dude is cut like.. whoa..

By Rell

October 25, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

I LIKE COUGARS……I LOVE ME A HAWT MATURE….HEY SEXXXY LEGGS…LOL

By Wise Diva

October 25, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

ewwwww, now I don’t want to hear that song anymore, and I should thank you for that.

By Jewel

October 25, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

You know DuShawn, I was going to post a counterpoint to the saggin pants issue. Hadn’t quite collected my thoughts. But you are right. I am not fully abreast of the wave across the country to make it illegal, but notwithstanding, I think this is another opportune time for the adults to stand up and show our youth a more excellent way. It might be another plot, but why should we make it easy? Why stand at the bottom of the cliff, looking up at the rocks as they come crashing down? (I know. Not the best metaphor…this is off the cuff.) Somehow, we must embrace our youths’ need to gravitate to negative behavior and teach them self-pride and that they are of GREAT value. We have talked about raising children on the blog today. One key factor in raising your child is to know how to lift them up, not simply berate them and tell them that they are wrong.

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this

Wouldn’t it be easier if these kids would just stop walking around with weed in their pocket?????? wishful thinking…lol. We would come out better giving away free belts.

By DasV (yea, its me)

October 25, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

SOS 8:4

By Poppa Grande

October 25, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

How would I feel about my wife being a basically loaning her uterus?

I wouldn’t care for it at all. Even if it were family or friends. Heck, I don’t even loan money to most of my family why would I loan my wife’s womb?!?! My sound selfish, but it is what it is!!!

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

SlimOne, in my day they were called “Coolotts” (sp).

By 2CPTG©

October 25, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

damn…..the Lady in Red just gave me kudos; thanks!……..I think I just got a woodie!

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

DasV yes…I actually was doing not watching this time! LOL

Sexyleggs trust me I have bled mentally over the years from his torture whenever I did see him. My aunt (mami’s sis) tries to get me to talk him with the, “if something happens to him” talk. I am like..I do not wish him bad…but I am numb so it would not affect me.

By Rell

October 25, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

@ar..i am a jerk…lol, i will take that..you get a pass today on the jokes lady…but tommorrow..who knows..i remember er thing…lol..still heart you…..stay pretty..peace until tommorrow

By SexyCool

October 25, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

for those who are wondering, but want to know what i look like…

check out my blackplanet page…dlcat13

i will put up my myspace page as soon as i remember what my username is…

By Staceye

October 25, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

Sooooo off topic: I’m ready for Halloween parties this weekend..I got a few costumes to work. What about you guys?

For Real…I may stop by your party sweetie. I may have to pull out the dominatrix costume for you! Wink wink!

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

Jewel I agree with you. Kids are so easily influenced. What’s funny is that if every rapper started wearing their pants jacked up high like Erkle on Family Matters and made that the new cool style, saggin would no loger be an issue.

By SexyLeggs

October 25, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Good night everyone. Leaving a tad bit early today. Be safe!

By DuShawn

October 25, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

I tell you what…next time me and wifey argue, I’m not sleeping in the guest room. Imma SUPERMAN THAT O !!

By For Real

October 25, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this

Du I agree with you. What’s next, they are going to force all black women to wear weave?

By AmazonRed

October 25, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Rell, you are my favorite yam hunter. Much success in your yam hunting expeditions. Make sure they are warm with a light fluffy steam… Til tomorrow!

By Wise Diva

October 25, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

you just got a what? What’s your address? LOL,I’m kiddin

Everyone, have a great evening! Tomorrow is FRIDAY!

By Dan

October 25, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this

As a thirty year old man that still wears white t’s, and does from time to time sag…I have to say this.

From then to now, my wardrobe signified my inclusion in nothing, did not belie my intellect, nor did it make me less of a man.

To those that deemed me a criminal (while making straight “A’s”), and to those who would write me off now as immature, I would say……

SCREW YOU! The clothes are comfortable and cheap, they wear just about anywhere I go, and when the occassion presents itself, I have everything from Cosby sweaters to a form flattering Tuxedo (and yes I own it).

So the next time you see one of the young boys with his draws showing think, he may not be able to do better…but tell him to pull them pants up before you break the azz he got left.

“It takes a community to raise a child” At least it did with me, and I’m glad they took the time