Misadventures in Atlanta

By The Truth

September 19, 2007 8:42 AM | Link to this

I’m first, I’m first.

Whats up blogsville. Lets see if this will work today.

On topic: I’m not a cheetah, I’m not trying to run my prey down. It’s got to be natural selection for me. If I have to run her down to get her I’ll have to run to keep her, and that gets tiring. Its to much easier to meet a woman that has a mutual attraction than to go re-program someone that doesn’t see my obvious good traits. LOL

Also, every woman Ive cared for was more of an automatic thing.

For Real that was a great post yesterday about seeing someones value. Very true. We may think we’re gold but someone else thinks we’re shyt.

Off topic: Yesterday I upgraded from Outlook Express to Outlook 2007 (Office Small Business 2007) and what a difference. I am so fuggin excited I want to email everyone. LOL This program has everything. I do have a few bugs to work out but that’ll be done today. Woohoo.

So what I, a technology geek.

I’m now trying to get a rss feed from this blog. Then I can keep up while I’m on the road. LOL

By Dan

September 19, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

I don’t like chasing women. For me, my mantra is “I’ll offer you the choice”. Should you decline, there will be no other offer.

Don’t get me wrong I’m not being conceited, but as a good-man-in-training, I know my own value. So if the offer is extended and for whatever reason a woman declines, there’s no going back on that offer.

By AmazonRed

September 19, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers,

Don’t have much to contribute on this topic. But I had to tell The Truth I’m jealous that he has the newest Outlook. My job is still using Lotus Notes… * insert look of disbelief here *

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 8:58 AM | Link to this

Are we online?! Good morning everyone!What’s up Truth?!

On topic: If I reject or get rejected, I move on. I’m NOT sticking around to be a glutton for punishment. There are more “fish in the sea”!

By Corbin (aka C tha 1)

September 19, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this

What’s up everybody.

Off topic: Truth my job just gave me a new Dell 1720 outfitted with Microsoft Vista and I’m playing wiht Office Small Business 2007 too. But most of my tech friends told me to be careful with this new OS because it was put on the market prematurely. I haven’t had any major problems thus far, but its only been about a good week since I’ve had it. How’s your experience?

On topic: It is my belief that TV shows that depict the man in the honorable pursuit of a woman leads many good men astray as to what’s real and what’s fantasy. I have found it very seldom that a woman accepts a dude’s advances after rejecting him. Plus, as I’ve grown older and wiser, any woman that has rejected me in the past and suddenly wants my attention doesn’t receive it readily. I’ve come to the conclusion that any woman who truly wishes to submit to a man does so without rejection or second guessing themselves … their intuition tells them when they should submit.

By QC - sleep blogging

September 19, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers: I just wanted to say Hello i’m sleepy this morning…hey Sir Truth, Amazon Red,$Bill Interesting topic i had that happen to me when i was younger & did’nt know how to date…i hope you all have a great day, i’ll check back later :) hey GA.man (i know you’re lurking)

By The Truth

September 19, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

Red so sorry hun. I learned something yesterday. The microsoft rep was at Staples yesterday and told me that as long as I had MS Works 6.0 or higher (almost every computer built in the last 10 years does) I could just buy the upgrade ($249.00) vs the full blown program ($599) I think. What a coupe. Anyone wanting to play email tag hit me up. LMAO

Gotta hit the road, talk at ya later.

Hi Red, Foots, Sexy, Mo, Slim, Raqi and all the gorgeous ladies of MIA. Wattup thunder Dan and the fellas.

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

This guy at my old job(in NY of course) would always make this sound everytime I passed him. I out right asked him one day why he does that and he told me because everytime he saw me he would think about all the things he wanted to do.

Now, I found this dude to be below me and just not my type. We got into a conversation one day and he came right out and asked if we could hook up and do the ‘do’ (sex). I laughed in his face and told him that his filthy hands (he was a repairman)would never touch me.

He was hurt and I did not care, but he kept right on after me. Well let me cut the story - the sex was wonderful, best @#$% I’ve ever had!! No lie, I had him on a regular schedule - every Saturday night for about 2 months. His hands were clean outside of work..LOL!!

He didn’t give up - just changed his approach and he was not overly aggressive about it.

By Bre

September 19, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this

Amazon Red Are you serious Lotus Notes? I can’t imagine.

Corbin I bought a Dell a few months back with Vista and at first it looks good. Its out there to run against Apple they should have tweaked it a little bit more. But you need at least 2gigs for your whole system to run smooth. My other computers (work and desktop) I’m still one MS2007 its weired at first going between the two. I don’t know maybe I’m a geek but I love testing new programs as soon as they come out. I opened one small business this year and another one next year and MS Small Business is alot of help for forcast, business plan, etc.

On Topic I don’t stalk, being a woman either he or he is not interested. Keep it moving. Now I’ve had guys continue to be push there game. Then it takes one cold look and a few nice southern lady like words to have them back the heck up.

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this

Hey Red, Dan, Corbin, & all other blogettes.

QC: You’re the official blog greeter. I’ve been waiting for my hell from you. Hope you get some rest.

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Hey Red, Dan, Corbin, & all other blogettes.

QC: You’re the official blog greeter. I’ve been waiting for my hello from you. Hope you get some rest.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

What’s up Truth, QC, Staceye, Amazon, Dan, $Bill, C tha 1, Slim, Lady Dark, SexyLeggs etc, etc?

Ok, so what was the topic? Oh, yeah…

Have you ever fallen in love with someone you initially rejected? What had to happen for your heart to change about the situation?

Hmmmm… I’mma take it WAY back to junior high. There was this guy named Micheal C. (I think that’s how he spelled it). He was a little chubby in the 8th grade and very nerdy. He hung out with my best guy friend James, who may have been a little sweet, but no one really knew in those days. Well, Micheal was just head over heels in love with me and I wouldn’t give him the time of day. We were friends ONLY and I made sure that he knew it.

Fast forward about 4 years and y’all know what happened… Dude had moved away near the beginning of high school, but he came back to visit as a senior. Whoo!!! DUDE GREW UP!!! Dang, dude had it going on! He was always smart, but after a few years, his muscles had muscles, he was tall, sexy, just all that. He was pleasantly friendly to me, but that was it. I gave him my number, but I don’t think he even called! :-( How was I supposed to know at 13 what would happen four years later???

That’s the only time I really regretted rejecting a man from the get-go. The rest of them, I had dayum good reasons for that rejection.

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

NY 2 GA: What made you give in to the maintenance man?

By M.

September 19, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this

I think there is no reason to chase around anyone or as Chicago people say look “thirsty”. If she isn’t interested, keep it moving. No harm done.

@Bre

Which dell did you purchase? I think I am going to get an Inspiron. Also if you dont mind my asking, how is the small business coming? If you dont want to discuss on here, that’s fine.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. I couldn’t get the blog up at 11:20 yesterday. Oh well. If I’m rejected, I’m GONE!!! I have rejected many. Some have become “die hard fanatics.” After a few choice words (when necessary), I’m left alone.

By Raqi

September 19, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

Persistence is one thing, but harassment and stalking is something totally different. The problem is how the one being pursued is perceiving your persistence. One should know when to back off. Any mature adult should be able tell when someone is just not feeling you and when your actions are starting to creep them out. And then you can tell when someone is just playing hard to get but they reeeaaally want to be got. Know the difference and save yourself from heartbreak and possible jail time.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

$Bill been waiting for my hell from you. Glad you corrected. I was like, “He wants her to give him hell??” LOL!!!

Have you ever stayed in the game to win someone after they initially rejected you? (This could be applicable to a meet-and-greet situation, or it could be about a relationship over a period of time.)

Now, I must admit, I hung in there emotionally for a man that I loved from afar for three years. I introduced myself to him with a lame request for help and we eventually started hanging out (no sex). After about three months of that, he did something crazy and I blew up at him. He figured out that my reaction had more to do with my feelings for him than anything and because he didn’t want a relationship, he called me on it. I ended up pulling back, and we eventually became friends again, on and off.

Anyway, in the three years that we knew each other before he came to me for a relationship, I moved on, dated and had other relationships, but my heart was always with him (even though I denied it to myself). There was even a year that we didn’t speak, but nothing changed in the way I felt. I never told him though. When he started to pursue me, I held out for about 6 months before I would go out with him. It wasn’t about turning the tables, I loved him, but it was just that I wasn’t up for his drama. I changed my mind eventually, we got together, and….I still ended up with his drama. At least it put an end to that bit of history.

By For Real

September 19, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!

On topic: I DON’T CHASE!!!! I sit back and let all those playa, ballers, and smooth talker wear the chicks down first, then step in and meet a lady that is tired of the fantasy and is ready for reality.

Truth Thanks bruh. I think people would take rejection a lot better if they just realized that they are not for everyone they meet. Again, that’s why you DATE to meet people and learn.

For Real now remove the 9 volt battery that is powering the blog.

By Bre

September 19, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

M Wow I had not heard, thirsty in a long time. Brings back great Chi memories. I love Chicago…just too darn cold to live there.

I got a Dell Inspirion E1405, upgraded everything on it. Its heavier than what I wanted so I’m going to sell it and go back to what I know which is Fijitsu in December.

I have to say working full time in a very demanding high stress job then trying to do a small business on the side is by far not easy at all. I’m not putting all that I should into. But its going as good as it can be with what I’m putting into it.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

Raqi You are so right. There’s a guy on MySpace that creeps me out. I should just probably block him now, but he only pops up every few months. When he first starting sending messages, I noticed his tone of desperation and he actually was offended if I didn’t respond right away. That was too much for me, so I asked him not to contact me again.

Because he’s so bright (Foots says sarcastically), he sent me another message recently, which I didn’t respond to. He must be a genius (said even more sarcastically than before), because he sent me ANOTHER one asking why I didn’t respond before and if he did anything wrong. I’m thinking to myself *”Yeah, you did something wrong. You took another breath!” He is definitelly one who is NOT able to tell when a woman isn’t feeling him.

By Bella

September 19, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Good morning, lovelies!

Thanks to those of you who e-mailed us to let us know about yesterday’s problems. Wise and I talked with tech support here, and we’re crossing our fingers that it was a freak occurrence!

By Foots

September 19, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Foots’s random observation that has nothing to do with anything: Don’t you hate it when your pressed powder decides that it wants to break up into tiny little pieces and you can’t open your compact anymore without getting make-up dust and pebbles over everything in your path?

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

Foots: You have me LMAO. I did a BIG “oops” and made the correction. Happy Wednesday to you, Raqi, Sexy, Bre, M., Corbin and everyone that follows.!

By Corbin (C tha 1)

September 19, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Raqi I hear what you’re saying, but in your opinion, what are the distinct differences between pursuit and harassment? Also, how would you define playing hard to get versus ain’t gettin’ none?

By Foots

September 19, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this

4Real I think people would take rejection a lot better if they just realized that they are not for everyone they meet.

What a true statement, which bears posting again!

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

$Bill - he was just very honest with what he was about, he came with no games. Asked for what he wanted.

I love that in a man. Tell me what your intentions are, don’t bulls#$t me! I was married before so I’m not looking for that anymore.

I met this guy once in the club (in NY) was very attracted to him - he wanted my number after we interacted for the night. I asked him where did he want this to go - what are your intentions? He could not tell me - if he would have said - hey I would like to take you to breakfast and lay something on you - he might have got it.

I gave him more than enough chances to come out with it, but he never did. Oh well.

By For Real

September 19, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

Somebody please help me, I am trapped inside of Phoots flashback.. they are trying to give me a high right low left.. No, no what are doing with that kool-aid

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

NY 2 GA girl did he show up in his tool belt? LOL

Foots I know the feeling…rejecting the gawky not so cute boy in school and then all of a sudden he gets fly overnight and now he is oozing fine out of every pore! Sounds like a Maury show right? LOL So after I pick my face off the floor I try to cordially crack a joke about his transformation. In my mind I want to….ooh I can’t post that…ooh that neither….oh you get the point!

I’ve had a few My Space Creepers as well. UGH! Don’t they get it?

Amazon I did not know Lotus still existed.

$Bill NY 2 GA gave in because she needed something fixed…HER! LOL Her pipes were clogged!

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

NY 2 GA, do you really think that when you ask a man for his “real” intentions up front he”s going to be honest. Some will, most won’t simply because they haven’t realized that they can get the panties quicker by being up front. For most, being so frank is a turn off to a lot of women. It’s a hard call for a man to deciper…they’re just not smart enough to discern when to simply say “I just want to rock your world and move on”…LOL. Sory fellas, but it’s the truth.

By M.

September 19, 2007 10:19 AM | Link to this

@Bre

Yeah, thirsty is a throwback.

So you are interested in selling your dell laptop?

So what is your business entail?

By For Real

September 19, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

For Real: Hey sugar-butt, I had a good time dancing with you tonight and you are cool peoples, can I get your number?

NY 2 GA: Oh fat-sack I enjoyed myself too but where do you want this to go?

For Real: Look it’s Al Sharpton!!!!

NY 2 GA: Where???

For Real now running for his life.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

4Real How did you know he had a Hi-Lo?? You’re not Micheal, are you?

By QC - sleep blogging

September 19, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

Big $Bill, welcome to the blog!

Morning Foots

QC’s not as sleepy as she was 2 hours ago, it’s gotta be this phone cause it’s ringing off da chain

By For Real

September 19, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

SexiLeggs Come on now, Men are not stupid. If a dude took that route his stats would look like this:

BA: .190

H: 2

HR: 1

RBI: 1

Coach now benching playa due to slump

By Corbin (aka C tha 1)

September 19, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

Sexy Leggs I’ll actually co-sign your 10:18 post. From a man’s perspective you reach a certain level of maturity when you can ask for the draws up front and not give a damn whether she rejects you or not.

By AmazonRed

September 19, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

Yes all, unfortunately my job still uses Lotus Notes, I hadn’t even HEARD of LN until I started working here. I asked them why they didnt use Outlook and they said that LN had a lower chance of getting a virus or something. All the years I had used Outlook at the job I’d never heard of any virus wiping out the email system. I miss Outlook… :-(

Good morning to Truth, QC, Bre, Foots, SexyLeggs, Staceye and Corbin

Remember to wear all black tomorrow to support the Jena 6. And if you aren’t going to Jena, remember that Barack Obama will be at the GWCC — support him too!

By Foots

September 19, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

4Real LMAO! Same reaction here, dude. I’m surprised that he didn’t bust out in a chorus of Stephanie Mills’ “You put a little rush on me, but I’d like to know you beter…Maybe next timeeeee!!!” LOL!!

By SexyCool

September 19, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

NY2GA…my question is…why did you consider him beneath you and did something change that?

By Raqi

September 19, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

Foots that’s an obvious creep borderline stalker.

Corbin IMO Hard to get is that person that initially says no but continues to flirt and maintain overly friendly conversation with you over time. Sometimes hard to get just means show me something to make it worth my while to spend my time with you. Sometimes hard to get is for people who like to be chased. It makes them feel desirable.

Now if you ask someone out and they say no without any further interacting. No friendly conversation, no cordial greeting, consistent cold shoulder then leave that person alone. They are not interested.

There was a very nice guy that use to work here that was advised to leave because a young lady that he liked reported him as being harassing. Once the woman said how she felt to him and then to her superiors he should have let it go but he didn’t. Like I said what you may feel is persistence I may interpret as you stalking me.

My youngest brother asked my friend Lacy out a few years ago and she turned him down. But every time he was down here and she was always more than pleasantly pleased to be in his company. But she continued to turn him down. Word on the street is she got got. He obviously figured why would she continue to flirt with him and entertain him if she didn’t really want him. When he spilled the news of their rendezvous’ I jokingly stated that she didn’t like him and he said “yeah right”.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Thanksk Corbin, because it’s the truth. Women like the honesty part. They know what the deal is up front. If they want their pipes unclogged that’s what they will do with no hidden agenda.

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

Staceye - No he did not show up in his tool belt, actually he was a computer repairman/technician (smiling) and he was really all about satisfying me, for hours at a time. Hmmmmm..

$Bill - He fixed me the way some men couldn’t - you are right, but he was not the only one in my rotation so it was not that I gave in because I was needy. He just talked a good game - guess I was curious at first, then ‘open’ after that. ;)

SexyLeggs - If they only knew. Ask for the world and you may just get it guys.

There is a way to go about it of course. Don’t run up and say hey nice a$$ can I have some? Ahh no - but don’t tell me you love me and blah blah blah, this is what I hear after I think that you talkin s**t. It turns me off.

My mother always said “ask for what you want the worst someone can tell you is ‘no’”. I have lived my life on that principal and it has gotten me far in life - and I respect all that do the same.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

Ok ladies…if a guy is upfront and says, “I just wanna hit that”….then can we say, “I just want you to take me shopping or pay my mortage & maintainance fees for the month”? Would that blow over well without being called a Golddigger? I mean we can actually call HIM a golddigger as well since he wants to dig all up in your goldmine! LOL Just a scenario!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

September 19, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

I am so happy Blogsville is open today!!! I missed you guys yesterday!!!

On topic: my first love, I initially was like “Oh I cannot deal with him”. He was everything that I said I wouldnt date (at that time). But I continued to talk to him and everything (he was cute and nice). Long story short he ended up being the love of my life, the one that I will never forget and he and I are still friends to this day. Because of pride we didnt remain together but man, the chemistry is off da chain! I havent dealt with anyone else yet, not even the ex-so that was as compatible with me both inside and outside the bedroom as this man! It was a lesson learned though because I had prejudged him based on simple things instead of just getting to know him first. If it had not been for my roommates coaxing I probably wouldnt have pursued him….that’s a horrible thought!

Hey Truth, For Real, Blat, AmazonRed, Foots, QC, SJ3000 (where are you?), Jake (hey babe), SlimOne, Kinderbabe, Staceye, Lady J and everyone else! Check with you guys a lil later

For Real can I get a song please!! :-)

By Raqi

September 19, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Sexycool I was pondering about that also…beneath me.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Corbin/C tha 1 No, that’s not maturity. That’s getting to a certain level where you just don’t give a dayum anymore if you approach all women like that. Not all women are random hits, some still want to be treated with a little respect.

Women already know that you want the vagizzle eventually. That’s nothing new. Put a little class to it. If all you want is the vagizzle, then channel some Teddy P. (Come on and go with me, come on over to my place) instead of Ying Yang Twins (Wait til you see my ____!).

IMO, the ONLY time where you should walk up to a woman and tell her flat out, “I want some draws” is if she is standing on the street corner renting herself out. That is acceptable in that case.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

OMG Staceye. My mother told me the exact same thing, and I live it daily. If I want something, I’m going to ask. No, is just a word. You never know what you’ll get unless you ask. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not greedy and ask for everything I see, but I will ask if I really want or need something.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Raqi I was pondering about that also…beneath me.

Well…he certainly did end up beneath her.

By For Real

September 19, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Sex-Eggs If you like the truth and str8 forwardness so much why even bother with the formalities of making dude ask for what you and he already know he wants? Don’t tell me you don’t know what he wants upfront. They dont’ call you Sex-Eggs for nothing.

Phoots I know right… I actually did that to a lady once in a club.

Ragi What is your opinon on Tracking?

Corbin That ain’t called maturity it’s called not giving fugg.

By Raqi

September 19, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

But you know I have had some rather pleasing experience with guys being beneath me so I get…Oh wait you mean beneath as in you deemed your status to be above them. I was thinking more on the lines of beneath as in under me. You know girl on…never mind. Imma be good. I have been for a while now and I shall remain.

I got some stuff I need to go do anyway. Later.

By AmazonRed

September 19, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

I’m with you SexyCool and Raqi. This guy was so uncouth, but just because he told her what he wanted it all of a sudden made things OK? Let’s not reward men for doing what they are supposed to do.

I think the only thing that changed was the moisture content between her legs. LOL.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Women like the honesty part. They know what the deal is up front.

True, honesty is cool. And you’re right, some women are turned on by sexual honesty from strangers they meet in the street. If a man approached me like that, I’d say “You’re very honest! Now excuse me” as I walked away, no matter how backed up I was. But hey, I’d appreciate his honesty.

By Bre

September 19, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

M I don’t like keeping laptops for more than 2 years. However this one is just what I thought it would be. So it will be sold or handed off to one of my neices or nephews heading to college next year.

The current small business is wedding consulting, and corporate events and road shows.

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

Sexy, NY & Staceye: You ladies are providing an education for some of us guys. Trying to be nice doesn’t work, so we have to come up with a different game plan. Thanks for sharing your “secrets”!

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

SexyCool - I was not being disrespecful of his profession or status. But he was/is somewhat of a ‘thug’ (for lack of better words). No he has not changed and I would hope that he does not change for me or anybody else. I would not consider him someone I could be serious about. But, again he is a good person and friend.

ForReal - be real, cute skit. No it’s not that easy but practice makes perfect. (smile)

Yes it all comes with maturity, tricks are for kids and I have no time for the games.

Raqi - I agree 100%, if you can still flirt and hang with the person who rejected you (me and the tech) - chances are you MAY still be in the game. On the other hand if they avoid you any way they can, let that go - it’s harassment!

By For Real

September 19, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

Here is your song Mo

(Take me home) (Take me home)

Baby, I know you’re wondering Why I won’t go over to your place ‘Cause I’m not too sure about how you feel So I’d rather go at my own pace

And I know and you know That if we get together Emotions will go to work And I may do something I might regret the next day And end the hurt

Oh, I don’t know The way that I feel I’m so afraid of a one night deal

I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby Because I need you tonight I wonder if I take you home Would you still be on love baby Because I need you tonight Ho-home!

Your love is…

(Take me home) (Oh, oh, oh)

Lately, you’ve been expressing to me Just how much you want to make love I want it just as much as you do But will you still keep in touch?

You say I’m teasin’ But I do have a reason Don’t let your feelings fade ‘Cause you will have me And sooner than you know it If you could only wait

Oh I don’t know The way that I feel I’m so afraid of a one night deal

And sometimes I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby Because I need you tonight I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby　(Home, home - Home, home) Because I need you tonight

I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby Because I need you tonight I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby (Home, home - Home, home) Because I need you tonight Ho-home!

(Spoken) And on the real side If you love me　 (huh!) You would wait!

Ooh… no no no no no…　No-oh!

I wonder if I take you home (Home, home - Home, home) I wonder if I take you home

Your love is… (Ho-ho-home)

I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby Because I need you tonight I wonder if I take you home Would you still be in love baby Because I need you tonight Ho-home!

(I wonder, I wonder, I really, really wonder) Home, home - Home, home (Take me home) (I wonder, I wonder, I really, really wonder) (Take me home) Your love is… So good

(Spoken) Guy: They say beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder You’re not sure you’re the holder of my eyes I gave our relationship more credit than it deserves

Girl: No, it’s just that I feel you’re rushing me

Guy: Ok, ok…Since you don’t love me… and don’t wanna be with me

Girl: No, it’s not that.　It’s just that I’m afraid of getting hurt…I don’t know. I just keep asking myself….Should I REALLY take you home? What do you think?

Take me, take me Take me home Take me, take me Take me home Take me, take me Take me home [Repeat once while she continues]

Home, home - Home home Ooh… no no no no no… No no no no no…. No! (Home)

You’re down on your knees, begging me please　Ho-home! (Take me home) Take you home…

Will you still love me If I take you home…..

Will you still love me If I take you home…..

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

I remember in Junior H.S. a guy named Michael had a crush on me. He was very smart then (much like myself). He was very nice, however, he had a very, very high butt that I couldn’t get with at the time. He would walk me home from school on a daily basis. Like I said, he was very nice. I lived on the 5th floor and would often run up to the roof and watch him walk down the block. His high butt on his back truly bothered me, and I stopped letting him walk me home from school. Every so often I still think about him. Ok, call me shallow back then.

By For Real

September 19, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

ARed I agree we shouldn’t be rewarding women for doing what they are supposed to do.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

You guys may be taking this the wrong way. Honesty is real cool. However, I’m not saying I like men to come up to me and point blank say they want my panties all the time. What Staceye originally posted was that once in a while it’s actually refreshing to have a brother just come and be honest with his intentions. Honesty in most cases is quite refreshing. I’m not advocating being a “man hoe” about it.

By M.

September 19, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

Bre

Oh ok. I had a Dell before and they are pretty good. I hope all goes well with your business. I may have a lead for you. My good friend got engaged friday and they are trying to make it happen here in Atlanta. I think they are expecting about 200 people.

By AmazonRed

September 19, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

Wasn’t no one talking to you, 4Real. * smile *

And to get a song, all a girl has to do is ask?

By QC

September 19, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

For Real you really sound good….you can sing Bro!

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

It’s not every man that tries - gets what they try for. Let’s not get it twisted here. A mutual attraction/desire must be present.

As far as the ‘tech/repairman’ I was attracted not only to his honesty but we; again, became friends. I ended up liking a lot of things about him before we had our Saturday night meetings.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

$Bill I hate game. Just be you. If you are a nice guy for real and you really are interested in getting to know me as a person…then do that. But if you are tryingn to hit it, be honest. Granted I will not oblige, but as you can see there are wowmen who are ok with that. So as it was stated earlier…”No” is simply a word. If she says no….there will be someone who says yes. The problem comes in when Mr. I Wanna Hot IT is playing the nice guy role to the girl who wants more than that. By lying to her he is scorning that woman when he breaks her heart. When all he had to do was find the one who was on the same page as he. Then all problems would have been avoided. case in point…juts be real with your intentions.

For Real you took it back. I was like 4 thinking I was the Black/Dominican version of Lisa Lisa. I even tried to do my hair like hers. What can I say..being and only child left me with nothing but time and open ground to be creative. I think I was the only 7 year old who knew how to sew things by hand and machine.

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

Generally speaking, most men don’t go to clubs to dance, women do. By the same token, most men don’t date in hopes of establishing long-term relationships, women do. Initially, men’s motives are far more shallow. This may sound crude, but I believe it to be true. Furthermore, What does the term dating seriously mean anyway? What…you can’t joke or smile on the date? All dates are casual. If fate dictates, they evolve into something more serious. It’s futile for one to attempt to make a conscious effort to establish exclusivity in a relationship. That’s something that happens naturally, most times unknowingly. Granted, you can verbalize what you’re looking for and your date may have the exact same agenda, but that’s no guarantee that your interaction will result in a successful union. In my opinion, it’s all chemistry and timing. Neither of which is in your control. I realize as we get older and begin to feel that desire to wed and start a family, we narrow the pool of potential candidates and only entertain those that meet a certain criteria. However, even those encounters are casual. I’m a firm believer in lust at first sight. Most men don’t date in search of a wife; they date in search of some azz.
What normally transpires is that at some point during the subtle pursuit of the panties a friendship develops. Ultimately, the women’s substance, character and spirit supersede the man’s initial intentions and he discovers he has no desire to be with anyone else but her. (actually, I posted this yesterday and it just showed up..)

By Foots

September 19, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

$Bill No need for the change in game plan. If your approach is classy and respectful, please keep it that way. It is much appreciated.

By Bre

September 19, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

M Thanks I greatly appreciate that. I’m flexible with being in ATL…my email is bjohnson@wbgent.com.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Sexyleggsawwww..I must defend Michael. I too have a high booty! LOL I guess it will come in handy when I am old…at least it won’t sag to the back of my kneecaps! LOL My trianer calls me onion booty…bubble booty, etc. I feel for Michael! LOL

By SexyCool

September 19, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

NY2GA…so you still consider him beneath you?…i’m not sure i follow your logic…oh well to what…it’s not really my business anyway…

as to the topic…with as much dating as i have done in my life…i have ended up with people who i initially placed solidly in the friend zone…i have also dated guys who initially showed no real interest in me…

as to my current relationship…i always like to say that the chase never ends…and it shouldn’t…the chase keeps things fresh and interesting…you just have to be a little more creative after you’ve been in a relationship for a while…

and completely off topic…i have lost 14.5 pounds since july 29th…YAY ME!!!

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

Sexy/Staceye/Foots: Message received…thanks!

By AmazonRed

September 19, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

NY 2 GA, there is obviously more to the story than what you have conveyed here, because what we see is some crass jerk that you felt was thuggish and beneath you (key phrase). Then all of a sudden he straight up tells you that he wants to get in your pants and he lets you.

So how do you go from that to freiendship? Were you always a little attracted to him and just hated his approach? I mean there are a lot of holes in your story…

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this

SexyCool Congrats on the weight loss girl. You said, “yeah me”! All I can think about is the girl that plays London Tipton on The Suite Life of Zack & Cody. She claps her hands very fast and says that. Is that what you’re doing? LOL

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

$Bill - Yes, you should still be nice to the ladies and learn from your mistakes also.

Nice and honest helps. It’s all the fluff and unnecessary stuff that some of you say that just gets boring.

Some ladies need to hear all that stuff, okay for them. I’m pretty confident in myself, so there are certain things that don’t impress me at this stage of my life anymore.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

Congrats SexyCool.

By india

September 19, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

hello, everyone, i hope your not tired of me interferring into your chats, but i’m on vacation this week and i’m bored, i find your chats very interesting. where are you looking for your dates?. i think when your not looking for a mate that’s when someone will appear, hope that does not sound corny. please give me feedback.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

DuShawn, EXCELLENT POST!

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

Cool: Congrats on the weight loss! How’d you do it?

Staceye: Is your trainer a guy? Sounds like he wants to “peel your onion”.

NY: Thanks for your explanation. I have a better understanding.

Du: That’s about as straighforward as one can get.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

Staceye, my daugther has me watching The Suite Life w/her. I had to laugh at your “yeah me.” Hey girl, who are you watching the show with?

By 2CPTG

September 19, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

hey y’all…….sJea, you lost 14 lbs?? go you!!!

Du, tell ‘em again…it’s lust at first sight, we don’t see your nice personality, character, and all that other good stuff upfront…..

By Royal Chic

September 19, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

Morning greetings….

Dushawn-Thanks for your candid breakdown of the differences between men and women in dating….I enjoy reading you when I log on….you always bring logic and TRUTH to the discussion…..

I agree that dating is taken far too seriously leaving women with unrealistic expectations that result in heightened frustrations amongnst men….dating is an exploration of both the potential suitor and yourself. Every encounter will not end in marriage or ‘happily ever after’ but it prepares you for the chemistry and timing of THE relationship worth waiting for….

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

SexyCool - I did not mean it in a nasty way. Our characters are just different - he considers himself ‘hood’and I don’t place myself in that same catagory, is all.

Congrats on your weight loss, stick with it.

By SexyCool

September 19, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

$Bill…45 - 60 minutes of cardio 5 days a week…usually on the elliptical or a 3.5mi walk…(not doing any weight training at this point, but will begin incorporating it in the month of october)…maintaining a daily caloric range of 1320 to 1650…tracking it all on a free diet website called sparkpeople.com…(if you check out the site, my profile is SexyCool13)…

15 more pounds to go…date to reach target weight 11.20.07…i am aiming for laila ali’s size…5’10” at 170lbs.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

India i think when your not looking for a mate that’s when someone will appear girl you ain’t never lied! That is what’s going on with me now. Now that I am not looking for anyone and I want to be alone…dudes are coming out like roaches in a project pantry when the lights go out! Go figure huh?

$Bill my trainer is a girl who was my friend first. She helped me lose the weight that the prednizone (for my asthma) put on me. She would always say, “ooh you are losing weight…but that onion is hanging on for dear life…oh well lets just keep it shaped!” LOL

Sexxyleggs I have no kids…I am a big kid. I love the Disney channel. I go to sleep to it t night. Love that show, and Hannah Montana, Raven, Corey in the House and yes I did watch the High School Musical 2 before I got dressed to go to the club! LOL

By Daria Sofiyeva

September 19, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

I say go with your initial gut feeling. Its usually right and will carry you to the same point quicker as if you give in to the persistence of another.

By NCGirlfromATL

September 19, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Congratulations SexyCool!! What are you doing? I’m interested in details, cuz there’s gotta be a better way than what I’ve been doing!

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

AmazonRed - more to the story of course. I did say I was cutting my story short - this site is not big enough to handle the whole story.

But he was never a jerk in his approach. He has a certain style about him besides being what he calls ‘hood’. And he has always been honest to me, always a plus good or bad.

Yeah a certain attraction was there. We communicated at first because we had to and I saw the different side to him through that.

Then from there we got more personal, which is when he asked to ‘get in my pants’. We talked for about 4 months before we ended up where we did.

Sorry to have been so vague may have come off a little misleading.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

2CPTG tell ‘em again…it’s lust at first sight, we don’t see your nice personality, character, and all that other good stuff upfront…

Did you not know that it’s that way for women too? I’m initially interested in a man (who I haven’t previously met) when he walks up to me because I’m attracted to him. My attraction to him keeps me in the conversation. How am I supposed to know about your volunteer work and your passion for cooking and your funny jokes, and the way you call your mama every Sunday when I first meet you? We’re not psychic. Don’t be fooled into thinking that men have lust on lock. Some type of chemistry has to be there for a man to even get a foot in the door.

By AmazonRed

September 19, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the follow up NY 2 GA. I get it now. You know how things can come across so wrong in text. I was reading your tale like “what in the world?!” ha ha ha

By Single Girl

September 19, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

I have been a longtime lurker of this blog and I really enjoy the conversation that you guys have. Dushawn, gotta give you your props…You always put it down with your post….You to Truth…

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

Staceye: dudes are coming out like roaches in a project pantry when the lights go out!

YOU ARE CRAZY FUNNY!

SexyCool: Keep up the hard work! You’ll reach your goal before you know it. I’m going to help my new lady with her exercise routine which will also help me/us. The quality time and the results will be fulfilling in the end.

By NCGirlfromATL

September 19, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

DuShawn I agree. I think the real problem w/ dating is the expectation that comes with it. Despite what people might like to believe, everyone has some kind of expectation. It may be for the dating to lead to a long-term relationship and marriage. Or it may be simply a quick hit and run. Or something in between. We’ve discussed this before though. As far as persistence goes, there’s a fine line between persistence and stalking. I don’t waste my time, and don’t want to have my time wasted. So, if a guy isn’t interested, I’m moving on down the road. If I’m not interested, I’m doing what I can to be kind, but not give the impression that you have a chance…i.e. I will speak when I see you, but we’re not going out for lunch/dinner, etc. Now, when you get to stalker mode, you gets the gas face!!

By Dan

September 19, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this

@Foots.

Dig it, if a man walked up to you and told you all those things:How am I supposed to know about your volunteer work and your passion for cooking and your funny jokes, and the way you call your mama every Sunday when I first meet you?

You would think he was a psycho. So we try and tell you as much in an initial conversation as we can. The rest is a slow, hopefully romantic, process that takes time.

By 2CPTG

September 19, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

Foots, you’re funny….with us menfolk thinking we got lust on lock……

By SexyCool

September 19, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

i just wanted to take a minute to give major kudos to one of my girlfriends who absolutely refuses to get involved with a guy who will not take her to his house…

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

What up Yawl It’s utterly impossible for me to even think about trying to read all these posts w/o getting caught.

A guy friend of mine once said that whenever he hears the word NO, he simply takes it as Not Now.

But the topic reminds me of that show Family Matters with Urkel chasing Laura. He’d always say, I’m wearing you Doooowwwn!

Go figure

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye, I know you don’t have any children. I was being funny. Ok, you are truly a big KID! Nothing wrong w/that.

Hey Truth, wassup?

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Hey Foots,For Real, QC, Truthster,Dushawn,NC, and rest of the gang

Foots I have a compact right now that i have to leav in a ziploc bag because it turns everything brown. Ugghhh! I hate it when that happens.

By cool breeze

September 19, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

Nope, No today means No forever. I am not chasing anyone down and playing games. This woman and I were having a conversation about dating and she said that “just because I say no today,doesn’t mean I’ll say no tomorrow.” What kind of twisted thinking is that?

By Demigod aka MR.SOMEONELIEDANDSAIDICANCOOK

September 19, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

Most men don’t date in search of a wife; they date in search of some azz.

That is so true…Until I woke up one day and realize, “Dayum, I am in love with this woman here and I don’t want anyone else, but HER.”

Before y’all ask, the rice look kinda funny but taste good as Hellz…Atlease I didn’t f’k up the chicken…Alvin: For real.

YOU ALL HAVE A BLESS DAY!!!

By Foots

September 19, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Dan You’re right, I don’t even want to know all your wonderful qualities in the first 10 minutes. But I was giving that example in response to the fellas trying to tell the ladies that they don’t know how wonderful we are when they first meet us, they just see a piece of meat. In my opinion, all first meetings are like that, for men and women, unless you get to know the person through work, church, school, other organizations, etc. We use our five senses to interpret that person before our brains really engage to find out who that person is. How he looks, how he smells, how his voice sounds, how he feels (cause I WILL feel a dude in some form or fashion while talking to him), how he….well, maybe just four senses to begin with. LOL

Hey, it’s fine, I know that a man approaches me because he is physically attracted to me. I’m glad that he is. But if the wrong words come out that mouth, I’m borrowing the gas face from NCGirl. LOL!

By BennyB

September 19, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

If I want something, I’m going to ask. No, is just a word. You never know what you’ll get unless you ask. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not greedy and ask for everything I see, but I will ask if I really want or need something.

I hope that you are as generous as you expect other people to be because the opposite is called “Narcissism”.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 1:46 PM | Link to this

cool breeze Where ya been?!? What kind of twisted thinking is that?
That’s the kind of thinking that can get cha kilt!

By Dan

September 19, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

@Foots. that’s why I got the bender ball and STAY, stay in the gym.

If the sway don’t get it, the swole will.

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Footshow he….well, maybe just four senses to begin with. LOL you’re trip…lol

By For Real

September 19, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

For Real: Hello. I am glad you decided to have dinner with me. I don’t usually do blind dates but decided to give it a shot.

Chick: I’m glad too because I usually don’t do blind dates either.

For Real: So, tell me about yourself.

Chick: Takes a deep breath Well I started out as an embryo…

For Real pushes Chick out of her chair

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

BennyB, I am generous. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not asking anybody to take care of me or even to pay my bills. However, if I need something I will ask. You will either say yes, you can handle this particular request or you will say no. Nothing wrong with asking. I am in no way conceited.

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

Cool Breeze - could she have been married or in a situation at that time for her to say that, did you ask why? Or did you just leave it at that? (Re: no today may not mean no tomorrow)

If she was just playing games, good for you for not entertaining that mess.

By NCGirlfromATL

September 19, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

he….well, maybe just four senses to begin with

Ummm DuShawn which sense is he NOT using? LOLOL!!

Sup Slim!

Y’all it’s a sad day in the NC house. Some of you may remember back in December how happy I was to get my braces off. Well, sadly, my orthodontist apparently didn’t handle my case as well as she could have, and yesterday I had to get them put back on. No, my teeth weren’t all jacked up to begin with. Just needed to adjust some things to keep the whole TMJ thing from being a problem. After 2 1/2 yrs of pain and no corn on the cob (ugh!), I was soooooo happy to get those blasted things off. But, my ortho sold her practice to someone, who is apparently waaaaaay more competent than she, and after only 1 visit for my retainer check, he said, “We need to put them back on.” So, another 6-9 months of this mess. The migraines have resumed….booooooooooooooooooooo!!

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs - I think we may be lost sisters..

I understand you - we both were taught the same thing by our mom.

It does not have to be something material or of substance - just in general life as a whole.

For instance: I get on a plane with my friend we search for our seats and find that a woman with an infant is sitting right behind us. I say I’m going to ask to change our seat my friend says they won’t do it and she sits down. I asked the flight attendant and she gives us different seats.

She could have said no, but you never know or less you ask.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

For Real pushes Chick out of her chair

Dang For Real, why you had to push her out of the chair!! LOL!!

NCGirl Oh goodness, I feel for you. I remember those days. It’s still hard for me to eat corn on the cob and ribs and mine have been off for five years! I hope they are not making you pay for this…

By 2CPTG

September 19, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this

off topic, in relation to kanye and 50’s battle for the most albums sold……ummm, I think both albums are below avg….ain’t gon’ say they’re garbage, but they’ve done better!

By For Real

September 19, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

Lunchtime Ops:

What up Slim

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

EXACTLY STACEYE. Just ask, you never know.

By BennyB

September 19, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

Nothing is wrong with asking, fine…then nothing is wrong with exchanging …it’s even fair. You want something? Maybe if you give me something I want that you have, I’ll think about it….Fair enough?

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

NCGirl & Foots What used to irritate me more than the corn on the cob and ribs….is the hair that always used to get caught in my braces. I’m sure you both have experienced that….right? ;)

By For Real

September 19, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

Hey NC can I offer you some laffy taffy? It’s Scrawberry!!!!

NY2GA & Sex-Eggs I agree with your approach to life as I share the same belief. Now which one of yall need a maintainance man.

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

Whatever BennyB, you miss the entire point with your dumba$$ sarcasm.

By NCGirlfromATL

September 19, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this

Foots Awww heck no! That was the 1st thing I told this new ortho! I’m not paying for jack! I’m still paying for the 1st set! LOL! In fact, what about a refund? (still waiting on that one)

In response to For Real’s lunchtime observations:

Okay is it just me but I just find absolutely funny as hellz when I see blind person on a cell phone with a seeing eye dog (why do they call them that?) and a walking cane.

Ok For Real…there you go…on a rocket, in gasoline drawers, smoking a cigarette and drinking lighter fluid. Whooosh!

Why can’t people feel when they have a weggie. They can! But, do you really want to see someone digging that weggie out of their butt? Eeeww!!

Maybe it’s me but when I see white high heel shoes I think stripper. Or clear heels! It’s not just you! LOLOL!!

Ladies are you attracted to guys in tight jeans? I mean does that really work? Nooooooooo!! All that means to me is low sperm count, 1980s, and he must be living in his mama’s guest room (notice I didn’t say basement!) I don’t want a man to bust a sag either. How about buying jeans that fit properly?

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

LMFAO!! For Real - you are a trip my friend.

My pipes are fixed, and checked on a regular basis. Thanks, I will refer you to someone in need.

;)

By SexyCool

September 19, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

NC…most guys and some chicks have no idea what proper fitting clothing looks like…

By Corbin

September 19, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

NC Girl, Foots, and Du back in the day my braces were the bane of my nerdy existence. Like NCG, my orthodontist applied braces on my grill twice! A horrible experience to endure as a kid from 3rd - 8th grade. I even wore my retainer until I was 21! But it’s all gravy now, they haven’t shifted much at all. I guess Ma knew what she was doin’ cause a sly smile here and there can get you out of a jam every now and then.

By For Real

September 19, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

Okay Phoots since you have all the answers:

By Foots

September 19, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

DuShawn Yes. I mean, no.

LOL @ relating asking for a change in airline seats to a man coming right out and asking for some azz! Dang, y’all! Is it THAT casual?!?

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

For Real Why can’t people feel when they have a weggie If you aren’t used to wearing drawers on a daily basis then it becomes natural to have your pants up in your azz. It’s sort of like wearing a thong; only differenc is, instead of having a string in your dookie shoot, the whole seat of your pants are stuffed in the crack like caulking in a window seal.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

cool breeze RUN…she is psycho! She may boil your rabbit! LOL

For Real LMAO…you are going to to hell in a Kroger brand ziplock bag for that skit!

Why can’t people feel when they have a weggie. I sure as hellz can feel it!

Ladies are you attracted to guys in tight jeans? I mean does that really work? Hellz no…I think he is suspect…batting for the other team…skittles (tasting the rainbow)!

NCGirlfromATL sorry about your braces girl. I have yet another root canal to go through! So I feel your pain.

*NY 2 GA8 Girl I feel you…I do not like to be one a plane near kids. I am not trying to deal with screaming and the parents who does not have the common sense to take that kid to the bathroom until they get them quiet.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

For Real speaking for the perky breast bra wearing women…we want them to remain perkey so instead of gravity pulling them down we help keep them up. As for the saggy breast women..I guess the figure its useless they have already sagged to the waist and now they have a “Twaist”….t** & waist all in one! So what’s the point of putting on the over the shoulder boulder holder?!? LOL

By For Real

September 19, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Hey everyone did you hear, Slim doesn’t wear draws and she gets weggies all the time. Anyone else getting moist???

Oh I ment NC but you can answer if you want to Phoots

By Corbin

September 19, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

over the shoulder boulder holder Damn Staceye! LOL

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

Foots - asking for some lovin’ is not that casual of course. But if you have the right method and swag - it could ‘feel’ just as easy.

Ever heard of ‘the road not taken’, same concept. Instead of saying later on - dang I should of, could of..

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

Corbin,FOOTs & NCGirl I never wore baces. I was just bulshytin. However, I have gotten served some fiya neck from a chick with braces. I was tentative at first, but baby had skills. So NCGirl I’m cool with your dental work. A precedent has already been set.

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 19, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

Hello Everyone!!

On topic I rejected a guy initially and we ended up dating for 4years….At first, I wasn’t that attracted to him physically and I told him that we could be friends. He continued to pursue me and the more I got to know him I realized how great a guy he was.

SexyCool I had a girlfriend who dated a guy for almost two years and only went to his house once….And that was right before they broke up. I would ask her over and over….why won’t you go to his house? She was cool with it…until he broke up with her.

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

For Real It’s not that I don’t wear undies, it’s just that all my undies are crotchless….not by design either. My camel toes always seems to make a hole for breathing room. lol

By The Truth

September 19, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

Ok folks, work is done and tme to have fun. I read thru some of these posts and I have a question for the fellas.

If you ask a chick straight out for the azz and she says yes do you really want it? I mean in these times you know it wasn’t your game that got it. She simply got tired of carrying that thing around and wants you to hold it for a minute. I’ll pass. If they cant pass the taste test I’m out. All booty ain’t good booty.

Hey Slimmy, Staceye, Foots, Mo, Qc, Bre.. and all the othrer lovelies in here. This is my second hello by the way.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

September 19, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

Hey all, I am so glad ya’ll are keeping it light in here, cause some people are definitely conspiring to make Mo act a dayum fool…WHEW!

Staceye it has been a minute since I heard over the shoulder boulder holder!! LMAO at that one..

Dushawn You’se a mess!!

And no For Real, tight jeans on a dude is so horrible and unattractive. Mo getting a visual of cramped balls….ewwwww…

By Bre

September 19, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Truth Hello, how are you?

I’m trying to be focused today with this crazy market. Not much time to read, just skimming here and there.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Truth how ya doin’? Smooches!

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Truth It depends a lot on the female. If she’s a mature, straight to the point type chick. she may force you to be direct and forthright. I have had some to tell me Dushawn, stop bullshytin and tell me what yu want.

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Oye Vey!! SlimOne goodness I spit my water clear across the room..LOL!!

By Foots

September 19, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

Slim the whole seat of your pants are stuffed in the crack like caulking in a window seal

That’s my visual for the day!! LOL!!

4Real Why come all women do that little walk when they trip and who taught yall that walk?

Women do that, don’t we? LOL

By Cemeeli

September 19, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

Hi Everyone! I got away for min. Tryin ta speed-read n catch up on reading today’s post.

For Real can I add some observations to your list? NO! okay here ya go…

Observation:

• Why is it that people say; it’ll ‘make-ya-slap-yo-mama’ when something tastes good? Why can’t I go slap my daddy?

• Why am I prolly the only black person in Chocolate City a.k.a. ATL that has not seen most of T. Perry’s movies/playwrites? and no, I dont’ feel deprived…

• Why is it that when you become a certain age you call your child (which you named) another family members name? AND you also say; Boy u know yo’ name!

• If I see one more person say ‘Good Morning’ and it’s almost 5:00p…. imma explode? Where they been all day…sniffin’ bleach?!!

Check yall later Blog Fam.

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Truthster I’ve already spoken to you babes. Don’t make me have to come do a smack-dat-@ss drive by on you….again!

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

DuShawn (applause)Re: stop bullsh#$g and tell me what you want didn’t that feel better than reading each others mind and possibly being wrong?

Tell the truth.

By NCGirlfromATL

September 19, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

Why do they call those dogs “Seeing Eye Dogs”? I mean duhhhh.. Ummm, cuz the dog’s eyes can see…(Slim can you check 4Real’s temp to see if he’s ok?)

Would you be offended if I offer you a phish sandwich? You stoopid! Yes! And stop phishing!

Why come all women do that little walk when they trip and who taught yall that walk? LOL! Mama taught us, so when we did trip as little girls, you wouldn’t get a free peek at the underpants. Fresh boy!

Why do women wear pants with shoes they had tailored for heels? B/c if we didn’t, they’d be too short when we wore heels…duh! Don’t you know about cooooooooordinating?

Why do women that no longer has perky breast not wear a bra and why do women with perky breast wear a bra? For the saggy breasted women, to keep the bresticles from getting mashed in the lap belt when we put on our seatbelts. For the perky chicks, to torment you men who would loooove to see bouncing perky breasteses!

When did grits get so popular that they sell in a Mexican resturuant? Now, that’s a question I can’t answer. They sell grits in Mexican restaurants down there? That hasn’t made it to NC yet. Weird.

Why does a grill cheese sandwich cost $5? Cuz they aren’t using that gubment cheese anymore. Kraft is expensive, yo!

DuShawn Well, I guess it’s nice (ahem) to know that at least 1 guy isn’t afraid of the hardware (ahem again) in my mouth! LOLOL!!

By Cemeeli

September 19, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

Hey Slim you got out to i see. Early release program like me?!? OR are you about to ‘spaz out’ if you don’t get your blog fix?

What’s the subject today for real…?

By BennyB

September 19, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs

We all know that “if people ask you to give them what they want, they are called abusers, if they ask you to give them what they need (cannot get otherwise); they are called human”.

dumba$$ sarcasm???

You just could not handle that only those who are willing to give shall dare to ask.

NY 2 G

You got to be kidding; you just ask what you paid for period. You’ll be dumb if you did not reclaim to get what your money worth. The flight attendant gets paid just to do that….You did not ask anything in this instance and you did not receive anything that you didn’t pay. There is a big difference between asking and being extrovert or street smart

By For Real

September 19, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

2E’s over the shoulder boulder holder that funny. when do you go out braless and how many time have you gone out pantiless?

It’s official Slim has given For Real a semi. Hmmmmmmm crotchless!

By Tazzee

September 19, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Afternoon Folks!

There was this guy from college that I rejected because he ‘appeared’ to be too soft. At that time I was into football players and Que’s. He was a nice church boy in the acting troupe with me. A few years later, after I had matured, I realized he was a good guy. I never tried to date him or anything like that though. As a matter of fact, there are a few guys that I rejected during my wild college days that I would probably date now.

Oh well, you live and you learn…

By $Bill

September 19, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Truth: If I had one too many Heinekens, I’d consider doing the job. Personally, if she’s mature and makes herself very clear, I’d want quality puddy without all the BS. Let’s do it!

By SexyLeggs

September 19, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

Staceye, I’m going to let you handle BennyB. I’m through with him.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

NY 2 GA Oye vey…spoken like a true NY’er…and we don’t even have to be Jewish! LOL My mom says it all the time. When I say it here most people don’t know what I mean!

Cemeeli Why is it that when you become a certain age you call your child (which you named) another family members name? AND you also say; Boy u know yo’ name I am my mom’s only child and she still forgets it. I get called her sisters’ name and then she finally gets frustrated and says, Oye chica! I have been reduced to (english) Listen Girl!

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I have to have some form of release or you’ll see me on the Amber alert screens around ATL talking about I beheaded massa and ran away with her blackberry.

By SlimOne

September 19, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

For Real PUT THOSE FRANK N BEANS UP BOY! How many times i have to tell you not to play with yourself on the job. Strikkkkkeeee Twooooooo! I’m sending you to the naughty chair for 30 minutes with NC and don’t come back until……

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this

BennyB

Guess my point was - some people settle for less and I don’t. Yeah you are right, but why should I beat around the bush if I know what I will and will not accept.

Somebody has to be taken advantage of sometimes - I just don’t think it should be me, do you think it should be you? Guess that’s the NY in me.

I don’t think this world will be handed to me on a silver platter because I ask for what I want - but so far it has worked to my liking.

You are too busy thinking that I want someone to come up and ask me hey NY can I have some puntang - negative, not my point. But I don’t want you to think that you have to stroke my ego to stroke my a$$.

I have been told ‘no’ many of times and I have said ‘no’ many of times also, but guess what - there was one less question to be asked.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

Question: Why does it seem like “maturity” is often associated with “sexual promiscuity”? Why isn’t maturity associated with self-control and selectiveness?

By Cemeeli

September 19, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye If my mama calls me my sisters name one more time! Chile i went ahead and just started answering to it. It takes her to long to catch it. LOL…Den she gets upset and say That’s not your name…

Slim I’ll provided the weapon. @ I beheaded massa and ran away with her blackberry. looking for my unc’s rusty machete now! LOL

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

Staceye lived there (NY) all my life, some of my best peeps are Jewish. Can’t lose the NY in me cause I moved to GA.

;)

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 4:27 PM | Link to this

*For Real8 I have gone pantiless one time (in the US) LOL! But I wear a bra 98% of the time!

Benny No…those who ask for what they want are smart direct people. I am one. I will say and ask for what I want. Usually I get it. But as they same..closed mouths don’t get fed! CEO’s of companies are that way as well. They didn’t just wait for things to fall into their laps. They have the mentality of, for 1,000 no’s….there will be a yes. That yes will be worth all the no’s. The world will not stop turning if someone says no. That is like thinking..I want a big house Lord, but then not going to him and asking nor doing what it takes to get it! I think that is what Sexxyleggs was getting at.

By Tazzee

September 19, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

Foots - great question!

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

Foots I don’t think Maturity is associated with promiscuity. I believe the maturation process, especially in women, is often accompanied by a sense of self worth, confidence and reduced inhibitions. The latter is often misconstrued as being promiscuous, when in actuality it’s empowering.

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

NY 2 GA again…spoken like a true NY’er! LOL

By Staceye

September 19, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

NY 2 GA lived there (NY) all my life, some of my best peeps are Jewish. Can’t lose the NY in me cause I moved to GA Are youmy susta’ from another mista? We are too much alike? LOL

By Foots

September 19, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

DuShawn MANY men have used the “you’re a mature woman, so come on!” line on me before. There are several instances on here today where “maturity” has been a prerequisite for questionable sexual attitudes and activities. We’ve been told over and over again that it’s empowering to be like that. What actually makes reduced inhibitions/promiscuity so empowering? Do men just say that to women to ensure a steady stream of azz? Is it not just putting yourself in bondage in a different way?

By NCGirlfromATL

September 19, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

I’m sending you to the naughty chair for 30 minutes with NC and don’t come back until……

Ummm…I don’t want any parts of anything where the words naughty and chair are associated with For Real. No thank you!

By BennyB

September 19, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

Staceye

CEO’s have a lot of credentials and experience to give back to their companies. It’s a give and get relationship and it’s fair. My point is “Only those willing to give shall dare to ask”. Asking just because you want something and not scared of no is pure insanity.

Adult’s people understand that you got to give to get. Lovable people are those who got more to give and less to get and annoying people are those with less to give and a lot to ask. So homeless people are not annoying? What the difference when you ask without anything to give in return……

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 4:49 PM | Link to this

Staceye Ya never know..

By Foots

September 19, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this

BennyB Only those willing to give shall dare to ask

I like that! I should put that on my auto-signature at work. So the next time somebody asks me for something, they’ll know that I’ll get em back next week! LOL!!

By DuShawn

September 19, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Foots truly mature women control their sexual situations. They are not easily manipulated. Lets discuss this more tomorrow

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

Did I say that I did not want anyone to ask me for anything. I also believe in what goes around comes around. So if I can ask for something so can you. And if it is something that I can help with or give I do, if not then I just can’t - I expect the same.

I am not sure what you are exactly referring to but let me whisper something in your ear -ENRON-

You make knowing what you want sound selfish..it’s a good trait in my book.

By Foots

September 19, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

DuShawn Bet!

‘Night all…

By NY 2 GA

September 19, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this

Tata for now!