Misadventures in Atlanta

By SexyCool

September 17, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

um, yeah…okay…bella broke the blog…

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

Bella sweetheart, what’s up? I come in for some blog chat and there’s no one in here.

Hello Folks! Welcome to the room. NO topic taday. Bella pretty much forgot all about ole MIA.

How was everyones weekend? I had a nice weekend. Nothing outside of the ordinary. I did get to see the movie “Bourne Ultimatum.”

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

tighten up, Bella!

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Heeyy 2CPTG and SC!

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

SexyCool, give us a topic, Boo….and ummm, are you and “dimples” one and the same? if so, congrats on the impending nuptials….

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

Cemeeli We went to go see Bourne Ultimatum as well. Did you like it? I thought it was really good and action-packed!

Other than that…if you live on the east side then you need to check out a Japanese restaurant called Nagoya! It’s another Benihana’s but I think I might like this one better. NEway they’re celebrating an anniversary and has a special for half off the entrees!! The steak and shrimp is a pretty lethal combination!!

By AmazonRed

September 17, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

Boo Bella! Monday blues huh? Do you have anything to share with the class?

Foots, how did PoleLaTeaz go?

Nothing out of the ordinary for me. Training for a 5K with the main squeeze. Went to hear some live jazz at Sambuca. Watched football. Pretty chill.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

Good morning everyone. My Nana died over the weekend (my daughter’s great, great grandmother). She was 96. My ex is driving to NY to attend the funeral. I’m not going because I refuse to be stuck in a car with him for that long, nor do I have the plane fare to spare. On another note, I’m afraid to go. I have never been to a funeral nor a cemetery.

By Donald Trump

September 17, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

…you’re fired

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Hey…..Cemeeli…..

ummm, am I the only one who thinks OJ was set up out in Vegas? No, I’m not a fan of his, but that whole thing reeks of entrapment…

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

Top of the morning to ya! I went to Myrtle Beach…saw a beach wedding. It was nice. Watched some football…yes I am a Patriots fan…despite the cheating azz coach!

SexxyLeggs sorry about your Nana. God bless her she lived a very full life and saw a lot of her lineage continue to grow. I feel on not being in the car with your ex. Distance is greatest unless the situation calls for you to be near him.

As far as funerals…coming from someone who worked with dead folks… you have nothing to worry about. They can’t hurt you…worry about the living. I spent quite a bit of time at the cemetery talking to my loved ones.It’s peaceful.

P.S. If you tell the airline it’s for a death…you get a discounted rate I think.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

Thanks Staceye, I’ll check that out. I believe it’s only for immediate family (mother/father/sis/bro). My Nana is my ex’s grandmother. I am not related, but she treated me and my daughter very well (when no one else did, kooky a$$ family).

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

HI Blogsville. Minus Bella.

Bella, you’ve been late or now abscent since you started. If you don’t like the job quit. I’ve had jobs that I didn’t like too but I left. Some of us are addicted to blogging and your fugging up our groove. This is just not acceptable. The only thing worse than your actions is WD will have to carry the blog solo and thats not fair. Boo to Bella.

Whats up my lovely ladies. A few of you are REAL LATE on the Bourne thing, although it was good. LOL

Hey Sexy. I have become real comfortable with death lately. My sisters dog died friday on the vets table while I was holding her. she went in to get fixed and had an allergic reaction to the anethesia. I also buried one of my own 3 months ago. They were both 2 at the time. They were great dogs we put alot of time in training and getting them right. Its cool tho. I had a 15 yr run of great luck so a few bumps in the road won’t hurt. I do wish this shyt would end soon tho. LOL Business sucks, everything I touch dies, vacancies in the rentals. Dayuum. Oh yeah, sorry to hear about the loss.

Hey Red, Similac, Nipples, and Cool. Whats up MLB. Good post Donald.

By Foots

September 17, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

Hey y’all!

SexyLeggs My condolences to you and your family at your time of loss. I’m sure she will be greatly missed.

Amazon It was great! I can’t believe I paid money to have somebody kick my tail like that! It was an incredible workout and I can’t wait to do the class again. I may do that one once a month.

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Good day bloggers!

Leggs: Sorry to hear about your Nana. I miss mine. :(

Staceye: Patriots fan? You’re a NYer!

Here’s a topic: Dekalb P.D. is looking for the knucklehead that shot up all of those kids and other folks this morning.

When does love/passion/obsession become hate filled and dangerous?

By BlatinoBrutha aka BLAT aka "Where the HE!_!_ have you been???"

September 17, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Is the MLB going to have to take over Blog Duties from now on?

…Deep inside MIA Counter-Terrorist Unit HQ…

Poobah: Agent WD-40, we were expecting the field report at 0800 hrs. The Joint MLB/WLB taskforce cannot operate without it.

WD-40: Well you see, what had happened was…

Poobah: Save it! We already know what happened… Your junior agent, B-12, code name Miss Liberty, was compromised in an undercover sting operation. Now you know that is to be left to more seasoned agents, such as Slim112, or Ms. North Cackalaky. LIVES ARE AT STAKE!!!

WD-40: How dare you question my decision-making??? Those two were tied up on, ahem, other projects.

Poobah: Of what nature??? You mean you’re little surveillance of MLB headquarters? We know. Listen, as of this moment all blog duties are to be handled by the One and Only………JACK BAUER. Code name: The Truth.

WD-40 Passing the fK out

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

OK since there is no topic….I have a question. Since everyone thinks that I am so hard on men…I decided to get some opinions.

The guy that brought me flowers and a couple of other gifts is really trying to get with me. But I feel he is after the puddy. He has mentioned sex a few times and I have told him that I am celibate. He got upset when i would not let him come to my place. So I told him I am a female that lives alone and I have to be cautious. I can’t just let guys I just met into my crib like that. I then explained a situation that has happened to me to try to better help him understand why. He still was a little upset. Anyway, I agredd that we could sit in the garden of my condo complex. That way which unit is mine…shall still remain a mystery for now. I also told him that I will not come to his house until I feel that I know him well enough. Anyway, he keeps trying to make time with me and trying to get a relarionship started but to men he is coming off to agressive by telling me to sacrifice things in my busy schedule to see him. I am like dude I just met you and I have things I am trying to do. Business first is and will always be my motto. I am always upfront about that so that there is no misunderstanding of leading someone on.

Now another guy I met in July is trying to lock a sista down. I tiold him that nigth I met him that I don’t date nor do I want a relationship. he said he just wanted to be friends. Basically he was dishonest…he wanted more. Now I knew he did not approach me because I looked freindly. Now he keeps forcing the issue with, “where is this going”? I am like, what is “this”? We are friends. He gets upset. Saying that he wants more than that from me and I am gettiing turned off and p** off because I told him from the getty up where I stood. He said his feelings have gotten caught up in this. Not my fault.

Ok..what do you guys think about them? Remember..I have not slept with either…nor do I plan to.

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

Truth * My sisters dog died friday on the vets table while I was holding her. she went in to get fixed and had an allergic reaction to the anethesia.* Is you sis suing that vet? That is awful that something that simple lead to death.

Amazon I love bootcamp type classes. I love the achy feeling I get the next morning after a good work out. That proves I did something!

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

LadyDark The movie was good. The action was good. Mat Damon plays Bourne well….

By AmazonRed

September 17, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs, sorry for your loss.

Foots, glad the class went well. I think I will be boycotting this baby shower I have to attend this weeekend, so I may join you for Risque Ballet. I’ve been doing VERY well on working out these last few weeks!

Good afternoon to SexyCool, Cemeeli, 2C, LadyDark, Truth and Staceye.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

Everyone, thank you !

TheTruth is right, some of us are addicted to blogging. What an awful feeling you get when you open the blog and BAM, nothing’s there!

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

Foots, I so planned on coming, but between Nana passing and taking my daughter to the football game I was pretty much done! Glad you enjoyed it.

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

Truth… About Bourne. I am late i’ve been going see it for weeks now. Glad I finally saw it this weekend.

Foots sorry i missed chair Saturday with you all. My lil guy was finishing a project right at time. I will take a credit and do the next. Did u do Risque on Thursday night…i menat to ask last week.

Sexyleggs Be encouraged God’s grace is sufficient! I understand where you are with death, graves and cemeteries.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

we need a dude moderatin!!!!! I’ve been saying that, how long now????

and Staceye…your situation is quite simple….you’re not dating, you’re not sexing, you don’t want the attention, and you’re leery of all men….too easy…you’re about to convert to a Nun!…..next dilemma.

By QC

September 17, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

Afternoon Bloggers! Hey Cemeeli ok, no topic…hey SexyCool why don’t you share some of your great poetry…2cptg not an OJ fan either but i say there’s something up with him getting arrested; we’re gonna need “blog therapy” before the day is over….so who wants to “play Doctor?” hey Sir Truth where’s Ga.Man

By SexyCool

September 17, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

2can…nope dimples is not me…in fact…coach and i are shacking happily in the land of the unmarried…well, mostly happy…every now and then i have to loving threaten to kick the dizzle in…(i kid, i kid)…

By Pharress_Beuller

September 17, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this

Afternoon Bloggers,

Not much to say being that there isn’t a main topic today (which is just my luck since I have some time to blog), but I do have a question.

I’ve been trying to find a new hobby and since I’m a little nice in the kitchen I was wondering does anybody know of some good cooking clasess around the city or any websites I could visit that would give me some info on finding some as to broaden my skills. Any and all input is appreciated.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

September 17, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

Afternoon All Hope everyones weekend went well! I had a blast celebrating the remainder of the birthday….and now I am tired as heck!! :-)

Will drop in later!

Sexyleggs Sorry about your loss….

By SexyCool

September 17, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

only because it was requested…

public displays…

the sexiest displays of affection usually have nothing to do with kissing or groping…

there’s something about the way happy lovers can’t keep their hands or their eyes off each other that will tell you the depth of their passion…

it can be a slight as his hand at the small of her back or her finger hanging onto his belt loop…

it can be a shared smile and a low chuckle that hints of memories and secrets that lie only between them and the percale sheets that they lay upon…

it can be a softly whispered nickname that carries a hidden meaning just for two…

it can be finishing each other’s sentences or speaking volumes without a single word…

it can be his chin on her shoulder or her hand on his thigh…

it can be that silent communication that speaks of love…

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Back in the day, I used to smoke a lot of weed…. and enjoyed it. In the mid 90’s, I lived in Liberty City. My back yard was on Charles Hadley Park (literally a fence separated the properties.) Saturday mornings at that house were the best. I’d wake up next to someone thick and beautiful, eat a big breakfast, then go in my backyard, sit in the shade and blaze one while watching the girls exercising around the park. Occasionally, I would run out of weed. Fortunately, there was a weed spot down the block, next to the corner store. On those rare occasions when my stash was low, I’d take a leisurely walk to the corner; pick up some orange juice, honey buns, Saturday’s Miami Herald and a half-ounce of good from Dread. When he was late opening the weed hole, it would throw my whole Saturday morning routine off. Then sometimes I’d see them posted up under the tree where they serve at, appearing as if they were open, but when I go holla at him, he tells me its no haps, they’re waiting for the bomb to get dropped off. Disappointed and frustrated, I would have to hop in the car, go a few blocks over to the next weed spot……I shared all of that because that’s how I felt this morning when the blog was closed…. Then when it did open….there was no have a topic….Dayum.!! I told yall this forum is addictive.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

hey QC….yeah, there’s something real fishy about that OJ situation…..how you gon’ call dude up talking bout some folks got your shyt, trynna sell it, but then you got a recorder taping the whole ordeal…..then, he gets arrested for armed robbery, yet, ain’t no guns on him, and it was obvious it was his stuff……then, held with no bail?

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

$Bill I know…But New England is not far from NY. LOL I have a Yankee fan since I can rememeber…but the Knicks have sucked since forever. Oh my bad they won the Eastern Conference in 1994. I am not big on the Giants or Jets. I like the Rangers! LOL I’m still a true New Yorker!

2CPTG if you met me..you’d know I could never be a nun! LOL

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

Good afternoon Everyone!

I see we still do not have a topic…

2CPTG I agree. The guy who called OJ about the memorabilia also tape recorded the brouhaha. This is a conspiracy. But on the other hand, OJ is bright enough to know that he has been a target since his acquittal. You would think he’d stay under the radar.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

oh, ok, sJea…..

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

Sexy You’re actually talented with the poetry…. (spoken word style finger snaps, snaps, snaps…..)

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this

Staceye, this is what I got from your long a$$ post (LOL). You appear to be an intellingent young lady who absolutely knows what she wants. I too feel that the guy w/the flowers may be after your “honey pot.” It feels, from your post, that he is hell bent on breaking you down. There are a lot of men out there who’s mission is to break a woman down, especially the one that refuses to be broken. No offense to you real men out there, but there just might be a hidden agenda. Staceye, I think you already know the real deal.

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this

Pharress: Try Viking.com

Staceye: Understood. I still “keep hope alive” when it comes to the Knicks. As far as those guys, I wouldn’t even invite one to the area where you live. That could send a false signal. If they aren’t hearing what you saying, they’ll continue to ignore your demands. In that case, they probably aren’t going to be patient with you and won’t be for you. NEXT!

By Cinderella

September 17, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this

Hey All! Didn’t nothing unusual over the weekend. My baby boy had a football game Saturday way out in the dang country. But they’re 3-0!! GO RED DEVILS!!

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this

Thanks again everyone. She was a beautiful woman who truly lived life to the fullest. Thank goodness my daughter saw her at the family reunion this past July.

Cemeeli, you are absolutely right. I know I shouldn’t be, but I am afraid of death and cemeteries. I’ve even told myself I need to visit a cemetery every so often so when I have to go I won’t freak out and knock myself out from the hysterics (if any).

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

I had one of the best weekends of my life. For you golf enthusiasts, I went to the PGA Championship, and I got hit by Tigers ball. Talking about nervous, he came over to meet me, and I also got a signature on a Tiger Woods golf shirt. :-) Let me see who is going to top that. LOL

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

Staceye You don’t like them…so why are they still around?

Dushawn You got me cracking up over you saturday mornings of yester-years….

2Can I’m scratching my head on the OJ story. Regardless, setup or not, why was he stupid enough to be hanging out with armed guys breaking into hotel rooms crying over some souvenirs??? It looks shady, but I’m still saying OJ is stupid for being involved!

By Foots

September 17, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

No prob ladies, I had a blast and I’m looking forward to Risque Ballet this weekend.

$Bill When does love/passion/obsession become hate filled and dangerous?

Good question. I was just talking to my mom about this today. I told her that I’m so lucky that I haven’t had someone try to go crazy on me like that. It’s a recipe for disaster when you have men who aren’t used to rejection or hearing the word “no”, coupled with the fact that they have nothing to lose (which is magnified when they believe that everything they have is wrapped up in that woman, so if he loses her, he’s already lost everything).

It makes me nervous when I meet a man with no hobbies, with no intense family connections, with no outside life other than a job. Because that sets off red flags in me, I won’t date them. A man has to have something else to do other than me. Because if things don’t work out, he needs to have something else to go back to, something that he fears losing MORE than losing me.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

Pharress_Beuller, why don’t you call Le Cordon Bleu (770) 723-3506. I go there for lunch every few months. Absolutely fabulous and delicious!!!

By Raqi

September 17, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

2CPTG OJ did it. Again.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

Hey Blat, you picked the right man to be JACK BAUER!!!YEP YEP!

By Bre

September 17, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

Football I was at the Packers smaching the Giants game yesterday. Gosh how good it felt to have on “cheese head jersey”. Now what I don’t get is why are NY fans such sore loosers? They were leaving when it was still 15 minutes left on the clock in the 4th quarter. Even at a Yankee game they do the same, such poor loosers.You wins some then you loose some…I had a ball though…I love football.

SexyCool Question if you don’t mind my probing. When you decided to shack was it hard for your family to take it in? I come from a GA strong rooted religious family, and the last thing they would understand is shacking up. Just wanted to know if you coucl provide some clarity on the situation.

SexyLeggs as an adult I’ve been to two funeral my the most recent as of last month. I was raised to celebrate death and morn birth, but I realized I don’t like funeral at all. As soon as I got back to NYC I changed my Living Will, so I can make sure things go as I want.

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Topic?:Here’s a topic: Dekalb P.D. is looking for the knucklehead that shot up all of those kids and other folks this morning.

When does love/passion/obsession become hate filled and dangerous?

By SowhatIamfat

September 17, 2007 1:00 PM | Link to this

Hi everyone! I went to the Stevie Wonder concert on Friday night and it was wonderful! Couldn’t had asked for more perfect weather in a perfect setting! It was sold out so we were sitting tight! I do have to as though… I saw a woman feeding her man dinner. Is this common now???

By SowhatIamfat

September 17, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

What I mean by feeding him is that she actually had a fork in her hand was feeding him like he just came out the womb. I rolled my eyes and kept on dancing. No he was not handicapped either!

By Foots

September 17, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Staceye Just like I would tell a man in that situation, if you don’t want a man to get the wrong idea, stop spending time with him like that. The disclaimer folks put out in the beginning “I don’t want a relationship” does not absolve that person of all responsibility of what happens afterwards. It seems like you enjoy the attention (don’t we all), because if you were really clear about not wanting anything, they would have turned their attentions elsewhere. Men have a short attention span these days when they experience a rejection.

If you’re not open to exploring your feelings for either of these guys, I’d say stop leading them into thinking you’re going to change your mind. They are both trying to break you down at this point, like Sexy said, which says that either you haven’t been clear enough, or they don’t respect you enough to believe you. You left the door cracked; if you want them to stop peeking in, go ahead and close the door.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

Dang $Bill, I was just about to post that we have a topic and you picked the topic I picked from you…LOL

By DEMIGOD33

September 17, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this

As part of maintaining a healthy lifestyle and being too cheap to keep spending a hundred dollars a week on gas…your boy is parking and riding MARTA on non rainy days…I save $300 dollars or more, last month.

Now, there are some fine sisters…cross that, there are fine women period riding that Dayum rail system. So far I’ve sag 3 dates: one at 5 point, Lindbergh, and King Memorial…The one I met at 5 point, WHEW!!!

I had forgotten to check the weather and left the car home.

Anyway, I am here to brag about this 5’8(with the help of 3in heels) , with 3 kid (one in a strolla), fine as wine…Dayum her good looks, baby girl was running late for the train, sista gurl pick that strolla up, and ran up them stairs…I was like Dayum that a baad Chick, straight old skool there!!!

As I was getting into the taxi, I happen to see her and the kids waiting for the bus going home and I knew she was tired as hells. Because it was raining that Friday night, I give her my cab and enough fare for the ride home…And I don’t know her name.

Little did I know, this Amazon cutie was watching the whole thing, give me a home and treated me for dinner on Sunday.

Yep, I am da MAN…Got noooooo…

Heeeeeey to all my lovely hard working sisters with kids and doing the Dayum thing!!!

DU 68TH LANE & SCOTT PROJECT REP’N!!!

Y’ALL STAY BLESS….Hey QC

I AM OUT!!

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

Ok Bill you’ve posted the topic of the day.

On topic. It truly is a thin line between love and hate, and murder. LOL I think alot of folks are unbalanced anyway. It doesn’t take much to push them over the edge. The pressures of fam, work, life are starting to wear on folks.

Staceye I think you should stop talking to the dudes. As long as you continue they feel they have a chance. Some Staceye time may be just what you need. I don’t know ifwe’ll sue. Still in shock.

LMAO@ Poobah I didn’t realize this was one big covert operation.

From now on during Bella’s week I’ll get a blog IV and get a constant drip.

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs You have my condolences.

Topic Suggestions Courtesy of The Today Show

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

Du…member back in the days when weed was just weed!! (like Katt Williams), now you gotta specify what you want….Reggie, Mid, Dro, Kush, Purp, etc….I’m like, nikka, lemme just get some Fiyah, how bout that!

Saw a few weeks ago some dreads got popped with like 250 lbs of green! I’m like dayum, why can’t I ever get so lucky and have neigbors like that!

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this

Bre:You must learn! NYers do not like to lose when it comes to the sports scene. Walking out is how we show our disapproval. Some people boo, some people throw things. No matter the team, we EXPECT a winner! Watch and see what happens if the Yankees don’t do too well. It gets ugly.

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

When does love/passion/obsession become hate filled and dangerous?

When it becomes obsession….

When you allow yourself to be obsessed with the object of your affection you become a danger to that person. You can fool yourself and say I love this person, but in reality you’re masking your insecurities and feelings of inadequacies. You hate yourself because of it…and then turn that hatred on the ones you say you love!

By SexyCool

September 17, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

bre…since i’ve got more parents than the average person…i’ll break it down…

my play stepmom was not too pleased with it, but since i’ve been thinking i’m grown for nearly two decades and they don’t pay any bills at my house, i just brushed her off…

my real father wanted to have something to say about it, since he’s a deacon now…however, he’s still paying guilt money for not being around the first 20 years of my life…so he’s not going to say anything directly to me…

when it comes to my real mom…all she wants to know is IS YA’ HAPPY?

but the way i see it…regardless of how any of the ‘rents may feel about my choices…they are just that choices and they are mine…

do you, honey…

By Page1908

September 17, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this

Ummmm no topic today? Football, O.J., marijuana, relationships? I can’t wait until basketball season starts…lol

By QC

September 17, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

Thanks SC yep 2cptg the truth might not set him free this time…hey Demi

anybody live in city of atlanta y’all know the city property & solid waste taxes are due today; they do honor “post mark 9/17/2007

By Foots

September 17, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

Foots’s random observation that has nothing to do with anything: I need to stop watching so much of the Smurfs. I had a dream Friday night that I was sitting next to my sister. She leaned over and said “You sure smell Smurfy!” I think I’m going to switch that Season Pass over to the Jetsons for a while.

By QC

September 17, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

Sorry about your Nana SexyLeggs…blog hug just remember the good times and they’ll surely make you smile :)

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

Hey Sexyleggs i liked that floetry…i wanna share that with my sweetie one day.

@SowhatIamfat I saw a woman feeding her man dinner. Is this common now??? I dont’ know if would do this in public eye at a concert. Feeding your man is VERY romantic though!!!

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this

What Should Couples Argue About? How do you know which arguments are important and will help strengthen the relationship?

This is a good topic….I found myself asking my SO…So is this something you’re willing to make an issue? When I pose that question to him it makes him think if it’s something that’s even important to debate. Majority of the time he’ll say…no and end it!

I think the topics worth arguing about are those that will affect both of us. In other words, don’t argue with me over whether OJ did it or not…or why I support Hilary or Obama…or anything else that won’t directly impact our relationship. But if you want to debate my financial or parental philosophies….those are good discussions.

By melo

September 17, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this

Staceye,u invited this guy to come sit with u in the garden of your condo…there is hope there for the dude!! Why did u do it, if ur intention is not to let him know where u stay because u do not know him yet? I feel, inside u, there is a part of u that likes the guy and u seem conflicted about it. Why would this be a question for the blog if u already know what u want?This guy can decide to stalk u and find out specifically where u live.So why give him an opening if u intention is not to put urself out there? I suggest u not fight the feeling but give him some loving regardless of what has hapenned to you in the past. Some here have suggested that ‘U let it go’Please do so because u are only hurting yourself.

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Pharrus there are some great classes at that spot on amsterdam. Its advanced but I ejoyed it anyway. The place is the Cook’s warehouse 404-815-4993. I’m pretty good with meats but need help with side dishes. I’m getting tired of corn and green beans, LMAO My sisters recipe for mac and cheese needs to many ingredients.

I’m glad ev1 came out for the blog free for all. Funny way to get a point out Du.

SoWhat did he sing “All I do”? I know he did. Dammit. Its cool for a woman to feed a man, or vice versa. All is fair in love, and war.

Sexy go to the morgue at Grady. Spend an hour there and your fears will be gone. I used to sit on inmates at Grady and one died at 3am. Nobody came and got the body until 7am. He had already locked up. We couldn’t leave until we had a certificate of death so…

By melo

September 17, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this

thatsme, lucky yu buddy. I am equally crazy about golf and was glued to the Telly,saturday and sunday.I might have to drive to Augusta, come the next Masters. U are a lucky fan!

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this

On topic, I will never understand how a love for another person flies out the window and hurt and disgust has taken love’s place. I cannot imagine how men and women physically hurt each other. This is why I remain until I leave God’s green earth on “HIGH ALERT.” Another fear I have is waking up to someone standing over me. My house is booby trapped at night. I may not be able to get out, but I sure as hell will hear you if you try to come in uninvited. Hopefully, I have enough time to put my exit plan into play. People, I’m always thinking! Good, bad or indiferrent.

By Bre

September 17, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this

SexyCool Thanks for the breakdown…see that’s my issue too many parents in the mix. My birthparents could care less or any subject there opinion means zero.

But my God parents and the ones that practically gave me my morals. Are going to hit the roof I’m sure of it. I don’t want it to come down too choosing him over them. I just know this is going to be ugly next year. I’m going to try to lay the foundation in Nov at Thanksgiving. They have no clue as to how I feel about marriage and its not something I want right now in life. I’m okay with sharing and still growing with this person before it goes to that. We shall see… thanks again.

$Bill I even go to Knicks games they are the same there..its unreal. I think its because they don’t have any college teams to support. All they know is Yankees, Giants and Knicks….its so much to experience in sports. They need to grow up is all it is.

By Pharress_Beuller

September 17, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Hey all,

I appreciate the feedback…I’ll try all of these to see what I come up with. If there are more suggestions, by all means keep them coming. Truth, I feel you on the side dishes, but I’ve gotten better with them with the exception of brown rice (I can never get it to taste right).

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Dang! Foots are u addicted to the Smurfs gurl? Lol…Papa Smurf coming after you with a stick in them there dreams. J/K….someone in my office has Smurfs for ringtone.

By SexyCool

September 17, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

bre…if your family is more concerned with your happiness than with controlling you…i’m sure they will come around…

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

Cemeelie, I believe it was SexyCool who did the poetry.

By AmazonRed

September 17, 2007 1:46 PM | Link to this

Hey Staceye I’m a Patriots fan too. I used to live up in New England tho. I’ve been on the Pats bandwagon for a while since my home team sucks!

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

Staceye’s issue with the two guys pursuing her brings up an interesting topic. No When to say When I’ve always subscribed to the adage Persistence Beats Resistance. However, it’s a fine line between being persistent and being a pest. Fellas, if you met a female you really wanted, how long would you pursue her before giving up? Ladies how are guy’s supposed to determine if you’re playing hard to get or never gonna get? Personally, my success rate is dayum near flawless. Ironically, I remember the few women that I aggressively pursued that did not succumb to my charming advances more vividly than the ones that did. One female that comes to mind when I thnk of those I couldn’t get is Lisa Jonhson pretty, fine, brownskin thang from Charleston, South Carolina. When I was in undergrad I tried my hardest to get this girl. I took her out a few times, tried to get to know her, made it my business to be where she was just to get an opportunity for another conversation. She would not give in (and I was a big time QUE, new whip, off campus spot, my diznic was in demand like a mugg.) Similar to the scenario Staceye describes, she would give me subtle indications as if I was making progress, but I was never quite sure. I tried for a while, but ultimately accepted her disinterest. Do women send mixed signals intentionally? Speak on it, if you’re so inclined. By the way, Lisa if you happen to be reading this, it’s still not too late to give me that azz.

By SowhatIamfat

September 17, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

Hey Truth! Yep he sung that song. He did all of hits from the 70’s to the 80’s. He didn’t do the 60’s though. I was sad about that. But I guess he is a little too old to be singing fingertips….. LOL

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Sexy I hate you have to live like that. You need someone there so you can sleep lighter. For me, I have my .45 (with a spare loaded clip)and my presa canario(135 pounds of protection trained love). If someone would like to come in just give a moments notice and I’ll leave the doors open for ya. LOL My only fear is that if I shoot someone it’ll be some mothers 16 yo son. To bad tho, he violated and must be punished. Better him than me.

Melo and Thatsme did tiger wupp that azz or what? Thats a bad boy. He makes those guys look like amatuers. I watched it too this weekend and it was all I expected. Thatsme, where do you live so I can steal your signed t? LOL

By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"

September 17, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this

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the next time the blog is late, the fee will be more

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

*DuShawn, aren’t you married??????

By Bella

September 17, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

Good morning, everyone!

Never fear! I have some other duties at the AJC that tend to occasionally interfere with MIA, but know that I enjoy nothing more than our conversations each day!

Great topic, DuShwan! I know sometimes for me, it takes me awhile to figure out if I’m into a guy. So I try not to send him the “go ahead” signals if I’m not positive that’s what I want yet. But persistence helps!

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

Truth, LOL. Melo and Truth we need to get together for a round before it gets too cold (P.S, Im not bringing my autographed shirt LOL). Any cute ladies that want a tee time can come too. :-)

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

TheTruth, if you like cabbage, get some fat back, aka salt pork (already sliced). Place about 2 in oven. Cut up your cabbage and place in pot with about 2 1/2 cups of water and about tablespoon of butter, margarine or I Can’t Believe It’s Not…. Season w/Nature’s Seasoning and pour the drizzle off the salt pork into your cabbage. You don’t have to put the pork in there if you don’t want to. Cook for about 15-20 mins. You need to taste periodically to see if it’s seasoned to your satisfaction. Mind you now, cabbage gets mushy quickly so watch it.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

Dushawn, did you attend college in SC? I went to college in Charleston, SC….c/o of 9X.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this

TheTruth, it’s not bad. Some nights I’m somewhat fearful, but for the most part it’s all good. I just don’t want to be surprised. I don’t have a dog, my cat ran away 2 weeks ago (sound like a country song). I don’t want a gun in the house, but the state of affairs we’re living in where nobody really respect other people’s property has prompted me to get a gun and take shooting lessons.

By cluess

September 17, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

I need help…How do I learn how to perform oral sex on a guy….

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

2CPTG Yeah.. I did go to school in SC.

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

2CPTG, I went to college in SC. South Carolina State University. Home of the bulldogs.

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs your name wouldn’t happen to be Lisa would it? “By the way, Lisa if you happen to be reading this, it’s still not too late to give me that azz.”……I was just kidding….(Unless you gonna do it;)

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

I am literally laughing while on the floor at you cluess. Honey, go get Superhead’s video and take notes. Check out how she uses her hands. Have to give the girl her props.

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

Props out to Sexycool for the poetry.

Dushwan* Do women send mixed signals intentionally?* I think i did this with a date i had over the weekend. The person that i went out with was having waaay more of the “I’m feeling you” (me) during dinner than i was. I was very nice maybe to nice. Now i know why it took almost 3weeks for me to take him up on the offer in the first place. Not that he wasn’t a nice looking guy or nice person in general. I think that it was just that he tried to hard i think. Very overwelming with the compliments (is that possible). Dude was the ULTIMATE gentlemen the whole night(which is what i look for) and he made me laugh but it was something about him. The ‘eyes’ spoke different. Oh yeah i look pass the first 20min of convo and goodlooks and nice attire when i’m on a date (just one of my things). Ususally I will look u right in the eyes and try to discern the genuineness of you. Then if the vibe does not give me good feeling i’ll give ponder. You might get another chance but b/c of the none genuine feel and get and then you tryin to overly impress i check out right around 20min into the date. So for the next 1-2hrs you’ll get the basics from me. I’ll smile and show my dimples and keep you engaged because that’s just me being cordial. Sending any subtle indications that i like you…no not really. A guy probably wouldn’t really know if i was not interested in him on the date b/c I want him to enjoy his self even if i’m not…so i stay attentive until i can get out of there.

He’s been texting my phone since the date about how he couldn’t have planned a better time. I have not responded Day 3. What is a girl to do?

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this

Confusing love with obsession It is presumptuous think the obsessor is capable of controlling his or her behavior, since obsession is a form of delusion and excessive preoccupation with a person. It is wise for the object of the obsession to remove themselves from the relationship at the first sign of a red flag. Which leads me to Staceye’s dilemma…

Staceye If you are truly not interested in entertaining either man’s company on the same level they wish, you should leave them alone. State what you want/don’t want and let your actions confirm your words. If a man thinks he has a chance, he will do whatever it takes to turn your “no” into “yes.” It sounds as if neither is respectful of your wishes. Maybe they are complete idiots. Maybe it’s because you are sending mixed signals…might not be your intention, but this is what they are thinking. Let’s be honest: All men want sex, eventually. Whether this is his only intention remains to be seen.

LadyDark I agree with you. It all depends on what is most important to the relationship. Some topics must be discussed now or they can ruin the relationship later.

SexyLeggs DuShawn is our resident blog adulterer.

SexyLeggs/Truth How about replacing that recipe with smoked turkey necks instead of salt pork…and, chicken or vegetable broth (Kroger’s brand is good) with water?

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Today’s Joke: Why didn’t the skeleton cross the street???? He didn’t have the guts…hee hee hee.

By mqew

September 17, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Afternoon my people - I’m usually intent on lurking but I kinna like the blog today with eight million topics. Also, Staceye’s comment got my attention. I’ve lurked for awhile but wanted to piggyback on Du and melo’s post, and add it’s very hard for some women to leave the Mars population alone completely. Even if it seems like it will be in your best interest if you did just that. Trying to maintain your sanity, by leaving them alone may not be your answer. Your actions seem to be a bit ambiguous, because if you didn’t want to be bothered then simple don’t answer their calls. If a man has approached you with the idea of “getting in”, he’ll take whateva you give him… ie friendship. WHATEVA!!! As long as it will get him in. Also, just as a side note. If you are letting them occupy your space, maybe you’re not ready to be rid of them. If that’s the case, you shouldn’t be upset if (and when) they try to cross the line, BECAUSE THEY ALWAYS WILL!!! (But maybe you don’t mind just as long as it’s your way. The when, where, how, and etc on your terms… that’s cool too, just don’t get upset if they try to speed stuff up.)

Pharress - Cooks Wharehouse is the bomb. They have a new one downtown Decatur as well.

Sexy - sorry about your fam.. will send one up for you and yours.

Bre - Oh he!! naw you went to the Pack game! Oh I wish. I too would love a cheese head thingy. I love Brett!!!

Du - Did you forget about “the sticky” I think that’s one to.

Sowhat - My friend went as well and was mesmerized. I think she said he did 28 songs! Wow!

Any one going to see Bjork tonight?

By melo

September 17, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

cluess,do a live demo on a mature guy or guys.They will let u know if u getting it right..thats easy!!

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

Bre:No matter what, have fun! Leggs:Sexy and a great cook too! thatsme: Wish it was ME! Bella:Are you patronizing us bloggers? We just want the blog fixed.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

Jewel, I use smoked turkey necks in everything. The salt pork drippings gives it that “just like grandma’s” look and taste. I will, however, take you up on the broth. Never thought of that. Sounds really good.

Also, thanks on filling me in on DuShawn. Now, I understand.

DuShawn, no, my name isn’t Lisa. Please, leave my ex-boyfried of this = Nelly…LOL

**

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this

Sexy/truth/Jewel I cooked cabbage last night. I use Turkey bacon and about 1.5 tablespoon of extra-virgin olive oil. I season it with season salt and red pepper…just throwing another alternate recipe out there!

I also use the chicken broth at times(the one that says 33% less salt) when making cabbage, but I mainly use the broth when cooking collards.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

Cluess, if you really want to do it right, you have to have deep feelings for the guy…it comes naturally then.

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Jewel thanks for the response to Staceye. Think i will use your advice about ‘turning it off’. The guy that was my date has no clue i’m not interested. I just dont feel him. And because i have this “NO TIME TO WASTE” mentality about dating…i should go ahead and say i’m not.

Question: Since he has been texting me can i text him with the i’m not interested response?

Should i give it another chance? Maybe i was harsh.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

ummm, thatsme, did you know an Alpha Sweetheart named Cheryl Washington? She was one of my sweeties in college…..It was a goal of mine to have a gal at every school in the state…since I was an athlete, I wanted my own fan club wherever we played….Du, the more you post the more you’re sounding familiar, specially with the Que references, and being from FL….though I was/am an Alpha, I went to erybody’s parties and stepshows….SC State’s, Claflin’s, Benedict’s, all of ‘em!!

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

Sexy I love a woman that can cook. I’m not a big cabbage eater but when my sister cooks it its good. I dated this girl that loved to cook but she enjoyed cooking and serving so much she never taught me what she knew. She’d just say sit down and get ready.

I’d teach you to shoot (I’ve always qualified sharpshooter, shameless self promo) but in the process of standing behind you to show you proper form then dropping my hands to your hips so you can fire you’d either shoot the ground or turn around and shoot me. LOL I taught a few women to shoot and they were addicted to the power. I mean really got off on it. I understand tho if you have kids.

Cluess because i’ve turned over a new leaf and am trying to HELP more people I’ll volunteer to be your practice piece. No teeth tho. LOL

Thatsme while I love to watch i’ve been banned from every golf course in america, forever. I’m a course hazard. If I went you’d have to wear helmets. LOL

Pharrus my rice is always right on time. I’m pretty good at that. I do get jealous tho when folks pull out a whole meal and everthing is like pow. I’ll get there. I thought the classes would help me but they were so advanced. They had ingredients I nerver heard of. Dayuum.

By melo

September 17, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

if you really want to do it right, you have to have deep feelings for the guy…it comes naturally then SexyL,why are u talking like u got skillz..or do u?Lol

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

LDw/D, thanks. I cook all the time, and I’ve never thought about the broth. I have always made my own pot likker. I have been cooking with Nature’s Seasoning for about 19 years. I absolutely love it. I came across it when I wanted to make some homefries, but wanted to try a different seasoning. I even use it on salad when I don’t want any dressing.

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this

LOL! SexyLeggs That is how I still rate my cooking…it has to look like Momma and Grandma’s. Salt pork…you must be from the North. Down here, they call it fatback.

LadyDark I use broth for all my vegetables and rice. It gives it more flavor and minimizes the amount of salt. You measure your seasoning? You are not old school! LOL! Try the Kroger vegetable broth on those collards next time…mmm, mmm, good.

Has today’s topic become “Cooking with the Blogs Ladies”? LOL!

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

Jewel You wrong for that! I do NOT measure my seasonings…only the oil…gotta manage the fat! LOL

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli: Have you been communicating with this guy on the regular despite your lack of interest? If not, less/no contact will get your message across.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

I have excellent skills in both rooms. Dang, kitchen doesn’t end with room.

Truth, tell me something you really want to make and I’ll see if I can walk you through it. Or, darling, if you like, I’ll come by and make it for you.

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

DuShawn is our resident blog adulterer. Jewel, I’m noticing a disturbing trend in your post directed towards me. I sincerely hope your derogatory references are in jest.

Regarding the cabbage preparation: try it fried. Heat olive oil in a large saucepan, dice an onion, thrown it in there, let them brown slightly. Add chopped cabbage and cover. The cabbage has a lot of water in it already, so it will steam. Stir occasionally. Season to taste (Lawry’s seasoned salt, black pepper, a little garlic salt.) It should be ready in about 20 mins. Don’t over cook it. This way is healthier and it won’t be soggy like in a lot of Soul Food Joints, it will be steamed like at the Jamaican spots. Imma mean man in the kitchen.

By Page1908

September 17, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

lol @ “FAT BACK AND SALT PORK”!

By cluess

September 17, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the advice..I relaly do like this guy & want to please him…Im just not experienced…who is superhead…is that a porn video

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

LadyDark/Sexy/Jewel: Where can I get Nature’s Seasoning? Is it too salty like Lawry’s?

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

Jewel yes, I’m from The Bronx, NYC. I still call ground beef “chop meat.” My friends still laugh at me. I have never thought of the broth when making rice. That’s it, no more water for me. I’m definitely old school, I don’t measure a thing. When you’re pot likker taste good, it’s on and popping.

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this

DuShawn that’s pretty much how I prepare mine…in a wok and covered!

Look at Chef Garvin..I mean Chef DuShawn!

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

SexxyLeggs yes…my long a$$ post! LOL But you know I feel all guys are after the honeypot. So that is why I brought it to the WLB & MLB to see if it was just me being my cynical self or were my thoughts valid. So, I am correct in this case huh?

I will never understand how a love for another person flies out the window and hurt and disgust has taken love’s place. I cannot imagine how men and women physically hurt each other. I have seen how it transformed…that thin line is easily crossed. Love & hate both being strong emotions. It’s like God vs. Evil….God vs. Satan.

**My boss even offered to take me to get a gun and show me how to use it without shooting myself! LOL I’m good with a knife, swords, machete…but never really had much practice with fire arms.

$Bill You are right. I should not even have invited him to my proximity. But I thought I was mediating a situation without going against my own rules. I refuse to be alone with a guy until I feel comfortable with him. The more they push..the more I pull. They are either not understanding what I say…or just seeing it as a challenge because I am saying no to everything. I would think it would make them leave me alone.

Lady Dark w/Dimples girl I don’t know why they keep coming.They haven’t even sniffed it. LOL

Bre as a New Yorker we are quite arrongant in some things! LOL That is why we are such sore losers! Come on…if Yankee fans can roll over to the Mets Stadium (another NY Team) in bigger crowds than the Mets ..and yell “Mets Suck” and boo them like them with in the Bronx…that is true arrogance in the flesh! LOL

Foots I don’t spend time with them. They are both complaining that I am always too busy. I let them know I have things to do and I will not change my plans. So….no leading at all. I have not not seen either one more than 5 times since I have met them.

Girl I love me some Smurfs, Flintstones, Jetsons, Tom & Jerry, Snorks & Thunder Cats. I think I wil lose my mind if Gem comes on!

Truth I don’t even call them..they call me. The one that said he was gonn astep back and check his feelings still texts me and calls like he never said that> So I’m confused.

SowhatIamfat when I used to date…I used to feed my man…like if I had something on my plate that I wanted him to try I would feed him.

Melo honestly I felt bad that he went out and bought me all thse nice gifts…including champagne and my favs from Godiva. Though I did not ask for them…the thought and the effort was already done. So I figured I would meet him half way.

Dushawn LMAO you are funny…still wanting to hit Lisa up huh? I think we try to be nice when we are not interested so it may be misconstrued as, “I’m wearing her down” syndrome. Sometimes a guy can be too aggressive which make a girl question his intentions and these days his psychiatriac state.

mqew I feel you. I will try to further cut them off further. Oh I like Bjork…she’s weird! LOL

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

cluess If you don’t mind me asking…how old are you? Are you in a committed relationship with this dude?

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Cluess is “clueless”! LMAO!

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

Truth it cant be that bad. LOL 2CPTG that name sounds very familiar. What years did she attend SCSU?

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

I’m sorry, cluess, but I’m still laughing. Yes, it’s a porn video. Superhead wrote a book but the same name because she gave head to just about anybody and everybody in the music industry. The girl has skills. She may not have any elasticity left in her mouth, but she has skills.

Thanks DuShawn, I haven’t had fried cabbage in a long time. I’ll make that next time. Just made cabbage about 2 weeks ago.

Cluess don’t fret about it. You shouldn’t be doing that right off the bat anyway…JMO!

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

DAMN STACEYE! You covered everything! What numbers should I play in the lottery? LOL!

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Staceye What part of NY are you from?

Okay, my sister just called and told me that my niece and nephew were taking a bath and my nephew asked my niece…why are your privates cut in half?

I fell out of my chair!! Out of the mouths of babes!!

By SexyCool

September 17, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this

$Bill…nature’s seasoning can be found at any grocery store…

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli Did you pay for your meal/entertainment? Texting is tacky if you think he really likes you and expects more. A phone call as soon as possible is best.

DuShawn For as long as I have posted to this blog, I have noted anyone’s (male or female) comments that seemed adulterous and disrespectful to their union. I am capable of doing that by discussing the topic separate from the individual. I remember you were hot in the collar after I made the “I Think DuShawn Loves His Wife” comment. I still think that was a good one My comments should not be offensive to you if your comments are for entertainment purposes only. Please do not track down my URL and pay me a “visit.”

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Laughing at you Staceye w/I’m good with a knife, swords, machete…but never really had much practice with fire arms. Sound like a typical NYer. We will use a knife in a minute.

$Bill, you can get Nature’s Seasoning from any supermarket. It has a blue top with a yellow label that says “Nature’s Seasoning.” It’s not as salty as Lawry’s to me. However, because Lawry’s is red, you need to use some Paprika with the seasoning. Paprika is merely a browning agent with a small hint of a taste.

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Sexy I can’t let you cook for me or you’d have me under your spell. I have no defences for a woman that takes care of me. I’m weak. I just need some help with my side dishes. I need to have about 4-5 under wraps and ready to go.

Did any of you Scs alums know Piper? She was there in the mid 90’s. Red bone, dd’s, fine as all get out. Thats in Orangeburg, right?

Pharrus you may not need classes with this many cooks in the house. lol

By melo

September 17, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

SexxyL, is superhead video really out there? I need to buy it, if so, or can i get it for free. I think she got more skills than the average gal. Plz let me know!

By $Bill

September 17, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

SexyCool: Thank you! I’ll give it a try.

By For Real

September 17, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

This is how I felt when the blog was not up. You know how when were out drinking heavily and you wake up in the middle of the night with the bubble guts and you rush to the bathroom and relieve yourself only to discover that there is no tissue paper… Well Bella that’s how I felt…

Leggs Sorry to hear about your Nanna and BOO. I hope that helped with your fear.

2E’s Stop lying to yourself and date girl. Here is tip for you until you are ready for a relationship you shouldn’t accept any gifts from a dude. So start dating dudes and have a good time and you know where to come for your to get your Black Cake fix.

Sexyleggs Oh and I forgot to give you this a blog smack to the back of your head for this comment: if you really want to do it right, you have to have deep feelings for the guy…it comes naturally then

On that note cluess zipppppppppp!!

OJ knows where the WMDs are too!

I know some of you might not find this funny but I did so here you go.

Have you ever seen a blind women with a seeing-eye dog, talking on a cell phone while trying to walk down a flight of stairs with her blind stick? I pulled my bike over and watched until she made down the stairs. Now I see why people like NASCAR.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

Thatsme, not sure when she started, but she was around when I crossed the burning sands in spring ‘92….in fact, I met her at this party that was held at the fairgrounds (at least that’s what it looked like)…..she was short, yella, and hella sexy…from NJ…does that help?

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

Awwh phooey @Truth. Yet, you’re a smart man, because I will make sure I captivate you at all times. Ok, let’s stick with the sides. Let us blog cooks know what you want to master.

Again, cluess, how old are you? Don’t be scared now! You already told us you want to partake in one of the “ultimate” pleasures.

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

I was gone by then truth. I graduated from SCSU in 93.

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Oh. I still call ground beef “ground beef.” LOL! I’m from the middle, as in Midwest…St. Louis, The Lou. LOL!

DISCLAIMER: This is not a debate. My opinion only. Cook the dark green cabbage leaves for about 10 minutes before adding the lighter ones. Total time 10-15 minutes, depending on the amount of cabbage being cooked. They will not be soggy.

Now, who likes broccoli and spinach?

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

Melo, yes Superhead has a video out, it’s made by Vivid Ent…she’s in a scene with Mr. Marcus……and lemme tell ya, it’s hot! Buddy had to back up off it! skillz ain’t the word for what that gal can do with the manhood! tombout spit and erythang!!! Shawty was like, “this ain’t shyt, you learn this in Head 101” …….Boi!

By cluess

September 17, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

Im mid 20’s is that bad

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark My skills in the kitchen are not to be played with. Yesterday, when I got home from church, I made a roast,(with the baby carrots and potatoes), some yams, fresh cut green beans (not frozen or canned) yellow rice, blue berry muffins and a big pitcher of Red Kool-Aid. All prepared while simultaneously laying on couch, drinking some Heinekens and watching football (and Iron Chef America during the commercials.) I like to cook.

Jewel I remember you were hot in the collar after I made the “I Think DuShawn Loves His Wife” comment. I still think that was a good one Ironically, My wife and I watched that movie for the first time on DirecTV pay per view this weekend. By the way…I’ll see you after work….(j/k. It’s all luv.)

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

You guys have me laughing so much over here. All I can say is THANK YOU. Even with the slap to the back of head, I’m still laughing.

Melo, a friend of mine has the video. I’ll see if I can get it and copy it for you. I’ll let you know in the blog later this week. I have to agree with you, she has more skills than the average gal hence her name!

By Cemeeli

September 17, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

Jewel He paid for dinner. I was not a horrible date. Iguess i just feel bad because he had such a goodtime and want to go out agian.

Thanks for the advice.

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

You know what 2, I think I know who you are talking about. She was a friend of mine.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

Jewel, I love broccoli and spinach.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

@2CP, your right, Mr. Marcus had to back up from that. I don’t think there’s anyone out there that can deliver like she can. The girl is FIERCE! Do you remember how she was working her wrists. Man o man!

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

thatsme, did she change her major like every semester? I wanna say she drove a lil red escort….her cousin was that dude who played Sams in Lean on Me..the one who was about to jump, when Mr. Clark said do it expeditiously….

Melo, you can download that flick for free…..

By NCGirlfromATL

September 17, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

Posted after speed blogging

Sup y’all.

Du LMAO! All I could think about while reading your Saturday, chillin’ and smokin’ post was, “…no barking from the dog, no smog…and mama cooked a breakfast with no hog.” LOL!!

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

If you type Superhead in any search engine it will give you a link to the video. The girl is outstanding, no doubt. SexyLeggs I’m impressed with your ability to unabashedly critique her techniques. I’ll bet you’re not too bad yourself.

By BlatinoBrutha aka BLAT aka "Where the HE!_!_ have you been???"

September 17, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

See…. This is what happens when you leave the bloggers to our own devices…

By Dan

September 17, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

You know for some of us that do lurk… Y’all could’ve popped in on the Friday post to let us know the blog was up.

That’s bad homeboying!!!

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

2CPTG Yes she did. Now I know who you are talking about. LOL

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark w/Dimples I am am Uptown girl from Manhattan!

LMAO…why are your private split in half…CLASSIC!

* SexxyLeggs* I think come out of the womb knowing how to use a blade! LOL

Girl first you put all of us up on Chrisette Michelle…now we get the “Heads Up” on Superheads video! You should do side gig in promotions! LOL

For Real you always messing with me! I’m watching my figure so no Black Cake for me! LOL

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

Cemeeli I asked because my practice was always to pay for my own meal if it is just a “date” (especially the first one) and I know I am not interested…or there is a possibility that I never will like him for more than friendship. It is his choice if he insists on paying.

By india

September 17, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

i want to thank everyone who responded to my statement a few day’s ago. i hope to relocate to atlanta within a few month’s i’m an assistant manager with wendy’s so i can easily transfer to a wendy’s in atlanta, can anyone give me any advice on some good apartments in atlanta i make 30,000 per year. thanks.p.s i travel to atlanta often to look at apartments but any advice from anyone will be quite helpful

By thatsme

September 17, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

Stayece where are you from Uptown. Im from Uptown too. 115 Lenox Ave.

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

Sexy make a copy for me to hun. I loves to see a woman that enjoys her work. LOL (This message is invisible to everyone but Sexy)

Sexy I need a few casseroles, something I can put with my meats to elevate them.

Ladies, if your not liking your jobs and the futures bleak brush up on your skills. Look what it did for Monica Lewinsky and Karrine. LOL

By Jewel

September 17, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

SexyLeggs Have you tried broccoli with sauteed garlic and red pepper flakes? The amount of red pepper flakes depends on how spicy you like your food. Me, I’m chicken, so just a pinch will do. Dice fresh garlic cloves and saute in olive oil with the red pepper flakes. Saute maybe 2-3 minutes. Add fresh (cut up) or frozen broccoli (florets), chicken broth (of course), butter or margarine, salt and pepper. Cook to your preferred doneness.

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

India contact Pro-move. They will be able to assist you in finding your apartment.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

cluess, you’re in your mid-20’s. Nothing wrong with that. However, the only sure way to get hella good at it is to practice. And, I don’t mean on a different subjects. Find that special someone first and then practice on him. Ask him to help you w/the technique. Everybody has their own style.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

India, say lil mama, you get what you pay for; so it depends on what YOU want to do with that 30k per year….if you wanna have some change leftover after payday, then there’s always vacancies in the SWATS, and elsewhere, but, if you value privacy, cleanliness, and safety, then outside the perimeter is where its at….but you may not have much left over after rents due.

By india

September 17, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

i want to thank everyone who responed to my comment a few days ago your comments were very helpful, can anyone give me any advice on apts in atlanta i will be transferring jobs soon i’m an assistant manager with wendys i make a little over 30,000 i’m looking for an apt that’s not too pricey but in a good area, i travel to atlanta 2times a year i look at apts and ask questions but people always point me to the bad areas of atlanta any advice would be helpful thanks

By india

September 17, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

i want to thank everyone who responed to my comment a few days ago your comments were very helpful, can anyone give me any advice on apts in atlanta i will be transferring jobs soon i’m an assistant manager with wendys i make a little over 30,000 i’m looking for an apt that’s not too pricey but in a good area, i travel to atlanta 2times a year i look at apts and ask questions but people always point me to the bad areas of atlanta any advice would be helpful thanks

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

Hey Du, I recognize talent when I see it. BTW cluess, superhead’s real name is Karrine. I can’t remember her last name, but I know what she can do…LOL

By melo

September 17, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

2CPTG, u think she know what SWATS mean?

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

Truth here’s one… BROCCOLI RICE AND CHEESE CASSEROLE

1 medium onion, finely chopped 2 10oz pkgs of frozen broccoli, cooked and drained 1 stick of butter 2 can cream of chicken soup 6 cups of wild rice 1 clove of garlic 3 cups of shredded cheese, your favorite

Preheat oven to 350°F.

In a skillet melt the stick of butter. Sauté onion and garlic, until onions are tender. Set aside to cool.

Steam the frozen broccoli until thawed, then drain well. Let cool.

Cook wild rice according to directions. (Use any type of rice desired; wild rice is exceptionally good in this recipe).

It is important to allow the warm ingredients to cool before mixing everything together so the cheese doesn’t melt too soon.

When sufficiently cool, reserve 1/2 cup of the cheese and mix remaining ingredients together. Put in a oven-proof baking dish or casserole dish (or 2 if needed).

Spread reserved 1/2 cup of cheese on top. Cover with foil.

Bake for 20 minutes, remove foil; bake an additional 5 to 15 minutes, or until cheese on top is hot and bubbly.

Make approx 12 servings, recipe can be cut in half.

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

September 17, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

okay, Everyone take this quiz! Quick, before 5pm!

http://www.essence.com/essence/30datesin30days/quiz_datingetiquette.html

You got to post your results!

Here are mine!

Your score is: 3

(0-4 points) You Are : Polite, but a Pushover You’re kind to a fault and you may be letting your dates walk all over you. Remember, your time and your company are valuable. If the guys you’re dating can’t see that, then you definitely need to work on showing it to them. And not just so they know-but also so that you don’t forget.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

Jewel, can’t do red pepper flakes. I like spicy food, but not hot. However, I’m like you, I’ll do a pinch. I’m going to try this dish.

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this

**I am from Inwood (past Washington Heights) 218th/Broadway. But as a child I live at 65th and Fifth Ave. Then momy wanted to live closer to work so she moved us uptown.

Sexxyleggs he last name is Steffans. I got the book! LOL

By Foots

September 17, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

india Not too pricey, but in a good area? I agree with 2CPTG, try OTP: near Camp Creek Marketplace, Austell, Smyrna, Marietta, and Dunwoody are the areas that I know most about. Check with ProMove though. They’d have a much better idea of what you can afford.

By 2CPTG

September 17, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

hmmm, before I say Good point, Melo, she did say she visits 2x a year, so maybe. If not, she can do what she just did, and ask!

By Bre

September 17, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark One of my ex’s in NY is in that Essence contest..too funny but whomever he gets, she is getting a good thing.(that is for sure)

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:52 PM | Link to this

here are my points Your score is: 6

(5-9 points) You Are: A Sophisticated Lady You stand up for yourself without putting your guy down. You’re making waves when necessary without causing a tsunami. Keep taking the high road and you’ll never have to worry about any bad press. After all, if it doesn’t work out with this guy, he may rave about you to your future husband one day.

By Pharress_Beuller

September 17, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

It’s Karrine Steffens…man, I remeber seeing that before she became famous some years ago. My boys kept telling me about her and I just thought she was just your average run of the mill actress…man was I wrong…we called her the pied-piper. Let’s just say I’ve used that as a visual instructional for my past girlfriends.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

I’m glad to read the part about “taking the high road,” because that’s exactly what I said I did with my ex for my daughter’s sake….woo hoo!

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

Fellas, If yall want to prepare a quick meal for your lady, don’t sleep on those Bartolli’s Frozen Pasta dishes. Get the seafood alfredo one. Everything comes in one bag. Pick up a bag of frozen Jumbo Shrimp (peeled and veined) and the all in one Cesar Salad (with the croutons and dressing all in the bag). Dump the pasta ingredients and additional shrimp in a big non-stick skillet and add a little seasoning. Prepare the salad. Everything is ready in 20 mins. Pair that with a nice chardonnay. Light the candles, put on the Luther….its a wrap. That’s my free playa lesson for the day.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Thanks Staceye. I thought a MLB would offer her last name first. Man, we women are up on our game. Everyone should post their answers tomorrow. Copy and keep for tomorrow.

By DuShawn

September 17, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

India There are some nice inexpesive 2 bedrooms in Lithonia on Evans mill rd close to I 20. It’s a Wendy’s down the street too. I think there called Evans Mill Place or something. You may want to check it out.

By Staceye

September 17, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

Lady Dark Your score is: 9

(5-9 points) You Are: A Sophisticated Lady You stand up for yourself without putting your guy down. You’re making waves when necessary without causing a tsunami. Keep taking the high road and you’ll never have to worry about any bad press. After all, if it doesn’t work out with this guy, he may rave about you to your future husband one day.

By The Truth

September 17, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

Thanks Superhead, I mean Sexyleggs. LOL I got it.

By SexyLeggs

September 17, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this

DuShawn, what if your date has a funny tummy and processed food doesn’t sit well with her. As for me, I will bring it up each and every time. I don’t do those everything in a bag meal. I’m not accustomed to eating like that and my stomach knows it.

By melo

September 17, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

MELO OU…but hoping i get a superhead type woman one day.I will be HARD non stop!!Any takers out there?

By Foots

September 17, 2007 4:59 PM | Link to this

Your score is: 6

(5-9 points) You Are: A Sophisticated Lady You stand up for yourself without putting your guy down. You’re making waves when necessary without causing a tsunami. Keep taking the high road and you’ll never have to worry about any bad press. After all, if it doesn’t work out with this guy, he may rave about you to your future husband one day.