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DEL.ICIO.USBeautiful mistake
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
The best dating mistake I’ve ever made was in high school. Actually, I don’t know if you can call it a mistake as much as a personality flaw, because that’s just who I was. I was in a relationship with a guy that lasted just short of a year, although I could have spared myself a lot of pain if I had ended it earlier.
I was young, and I was clingy.
Not to say the young man didn’t also contribute to the dysfunction of our relationship, but looking back at the way I behaved, I’ve learned one of the greatest dating lessons that has impacted every single relationship I’ve had since then: Have your own life. Have your own friends, activities, and plans for the weekend. Your life is happening with or without that special person, but if they choose to come along for the ride, it’s a bonus.
Do you have any “beautiful disaster”-type relationships in which you learned something that has helped you to become a better dater? Maybe even breakups you’re glad happened because of how much you learned from them?
How have dating mistakes that you’ve made caused you to rethink how you view or act in relationships? Is there any advice you learned the hard way you think others should know?
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By Prize (formerly SlimOne)
August 22, 2007 8:29 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Yawls
Bella I too learned a long time ago that it was good to maintain your own life, even when in a relationship.
I’m currently learning another lesson right now but I’m not sure what it is yet. At this critical point in time, I’m trying not to adopt the mentality that you can’t trust anybody and that folks can’t change. I’m sure the lesson will reveal itself in hindsight.
By Tiff
August 22, 2007 8:50 AM | Link to this
Mornin’
I’m trying not to adopt the mentality that you can’t trust anybody and that folks can’t change LOL Let me know how that works out for you because I adopted it a year ago and can’t seem to let go of it! LOL
Beautiful Disaster Kelly Clarkson right?!! I really like that song…the live version that is. LOL
By I Sing Soprano
August 22, 2007 8:54 AM | Link to this
Good Morning I’ve learned not to drink too much around someone you really, really like. It makes you vulnerable, tipsy, and you give it up too quick. Then you’re mad cause when he was bragging about his “middle man” it turned out to be a Dr Thumb have a nice day everybody.
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this
Yes, I mentioned by beautiful mistake yesterday. He is now 12 years old.
Lesson: Look before you leap. In fact look twice. Or better yet a third time just to be certain.
By Cinderella
August 22, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
Wow the ajc is putting mug shots of animals on the front page now.
The biggest lesson I learned is to be honest and direct with how I feel. Holding it inside or agreeing with something just for the sake of being agreeable does not work and it’s unfair to myself. So now I’m a lot more vocal with my opinions and what I want.
By I ain't trying to be funny but......
August 22, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this
Okay, I know I’m going to get hit by this but why do you seem so…what’s the word I’m looking for? Just Ms It…all the time, on every subject, in every way? Not quite self righteous but something I can’t quite put my finger on. I don’t know why your posts sometimes irke me. Sorry, nothing against you personally but sometimes you seem to go on and on and on and on…every subject, all matters, every issue. Sometimes it’s just too much. Sometimes I wish you’d got back to blythering about Mase.
By I ain't trying to be funny but.......
August 22, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this
Oh, my comments were directed to Raqi.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this
Morning Everybody!! Happy Hump Day!
On topic: I think the hardest lesson I learned was to SPEAK UP in a relationship, whether it be about something you want, how you feel, whatever. I lost out on a good relationship because I simply didnt want to put myself out there and say how I really felt. I was too concerned about other stuff that in the long run didnt matter. I have always been proud of my never-let’em-see-you-sweat attitude about things but on that one, I should have put it all out there. I had nothing to lose but everything to gain!
Hey SlimOne glad you coming around chica!
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this
Good morning everyone. What’s up Prize. Girl you a hot mess with all these name changes..LOL. One of the more important lessons I’ve learned over the years is not to be clingy and have your own life. Never let a man know you’re sitting at home pining for him because you have absolutely nothing to do but be with him. He’ll walk over you each and every time.
By Prize (formerly SlimOne)
August 22, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this
Soprano Then you’re mad cause when he was bragging about his “middle man” it turned out to be a Dr Thumb OMG! We’re getting started early today I see. LOLOLOL!
By Jewel
August 22, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
To: I ain’t trying to be funny, but (Good, because you would be another unemployed comedian) Nothing personal, and Raqi is more than capable of handling herself, but really think about what you are saying…this is a blog, a site that encourages people to give their opinion on *every subject, all matters, every issue. Did you wake up on the wrong side of the bed this morning? It is waay too early for mudslinging….
Be back later to share some of my own life lessons…
By Prize (formerly SlimOne)
August 22, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this
Mo Everything is A O K! I don’t feel down, down feel depressed, don’t feel stressed. I’m at ease.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this
WOW I ain’t trying to be funny but, why don’t you tell us how you really feel. I’m amazed that you feel that way toward Raqi because I don’t get that from her posts. As they say, to each his own.
By melo
August 22, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this
SexyLeggs, u are a beautiful woman inside and out, i can tell. If u luv somebody, let them know.That pride thing u talking about does not make sense and it only hurts u. But ofcourse if the man is a Dog, then u have to walk away. But a good man apreciates a woman who expresses her luv for Him.I think. So tell him, u want him home with u or u want to gout with him. He will understand, if he truly luvs u.If he consistently gives u excuses,RED FLAG!
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
Melo thanks for the compliment, but what are you talking about further on in your post?
By Ladylike
August 22, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
Being so naive, not having much dating experience, cute but dumb. I think that was one of my beautiful disasters that I had in a relationship.
I ain’t trying to be funny but we all family, fall in where you fit in!
By melo
August 22, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this
I ain’t trying to be funny but So what if Raqi has her act together? Why would u dislike a rational common-sense minded person?
By melo
August 22, 2007 10:15 AM | Link to this
I ain’t trying to be funny but So what if Raqi has her act together? Why would u dislike a rational, common-sense minded person?
By Bella
August 22, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this
Hi, everyone!
@I Sing Soprano: my friend just had this experience this weekend! She got sloshed, had to have her man friend take her home and was really embarrassed about the whole thing, because usually she’s really in control of herself.
By Jake
August 22, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Folks:
The mistake that taught me the most was, control the flow of information on both sides. Everyone has heard the saying to keep people out of your business, but its not always as easy as it sounds. I lost a good one over mutual friends, in all the time I was with the lady, every major situation had a little interjection from some “friend”, words get changed, or meanings get crossed. Them buddies can fugg up a good thing.
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
Morning fellow Bloggers!
Prize..I tell you Slim…you got MPD…yet another personality is coming out. Hell…you got more than me! LOL D*amn you are going through it right now huh girl? I was there about 3 and a half months ago. But it’s cool now. It hurt at first..now I wouldn’t care if he got hit by a bus…not that I wishing it on him. I just would not care.
Tiff I like Kelly Clarkson too..I’m really feeling her song “Never Again”! She let ole dude know how she really felt!
I Sing Soprano D8mn..I feel bad for ya girlie! But he thought he was the man huh? LMAO! Classic!
Raqi I think most of the world’s population are Beautiful Mistakes! LOL
I ain’t trying to be funny who got your knickers in a bunch this early in the morning?
On Topic: my problem is I can’t give 50% of me. I am an all or nothing type person. So if I love you then you are in my heart and i would do almost anything for you. Butonce you are out…like a vault…you can NOT get back in. My late grandpa always told me to not love anyone 100%. But that is easier said than done. When I act mean and treat a guy like crap..they keep coming back like a stray dog once you feed them. But be nice…be the woman the “claim” they want. They disappear faster than Indian Remi hair for $20 a pack at a swap meet! So I have learned not to be the nice Staceye…but the mean Staceye.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
My exact sentiment about Raqi = Why would u dislike a rational, common-sense minded person?
By melo
August 22, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
SexxyL,i was talking about u statement thus:Never let a man know you’re sitting at home pining for him because you have absolutely nothing to do but be with him
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
LOL JeweL Thanks.
But you know what is funny…I chose not to really post anything this morning. I just stated that my mistake created a child. So this person woke up this morning waiting to post that and it is irrelevant because I didn’t post anything. So how dumb does that the make I ain’t look? Things that make you HMMMM!!!
It’s amazing how childish so called grown folks can be.
Dummy next hold your insults until I actually say something.
And I can always tell who the insulter is because I know who I questioned or said something to the day before.
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this
And what the hell is so perfect about screwing someone else’s husband?
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this
Staceye Hey girl! Feels like I haven’t talked to you in a long time. How long has it been?…a week or so? lol
By Grand Poo Bah
August 22, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this
IT’S A BEAUTIFUL MORNING
After 2+ years, my (soon to be) ex finally signed the papers last night. Yes I am dancing, and people are lookng at me funny, but life is good. I have considered myself divorced for at least the last year since I bought her a house, but to finally have the courts recognize it is a huge relief.
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
I ain’t I bet you felt like it was Christmas Eve last night. Couldn’t wait until morning so you could post that.
LOL, I love it.
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
There’s bout to be a WHAT?….A Girl fight!
Whoa, We bout to throw dem bows We bout to swang dem thangs There’s about to be a what? Girlfight
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
Grand Poo Bah I am jealous!! LOL I cannot wait til that day comes for me!! I think I will shut down Peachtree St and have a parade or something. Maybe I can get Randyt and Truth to come out of hiding on that one!! :0)
By Jake
August 22, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this
LOL@Raqi You crazy!!
Hey Sexione, where are you? Are you with RandyT? I have something for you.
By Jewel
August 22, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this
Good morning Everyone!
Things I have learned in life, love and relationships…
As Maya Angelou said, “When people tell you who they are, believe them.”
Live your life with no regrets. The opportunity is now. If you love someone, tell him or her today because tomorrow is not promised to you.
Do not feel bad if after you tell them “I love you” they do not reciprocate the sentiment. You haven’t done anything wrong if it was spoken from an honest heart.
Follow your instincts.
Do not make excuses for bad behavior.
Everyone is not capable of receiving your love and kindness. You cannot control a person’s response to you…never try to make him or her love you. Either they do or they don’t. And, since love is an action word, their actions will tell.
Make sure you have a life outside of the relationship. Never keep your life on pause for someone. “Me time” is required for rejuvenation and to be capable of giving more of yourself.
Sacrifice is not an option if you have a solid relationship; it is a pleasure.
Know who you are and what is required to make you happy. You will determine that you can be happy with or without a mate AND you will have more to give when the right person comes along.
Relationships are not a completion of me, but rather a compliment to who I am and who I am becoming.
Enough for now. Don’t want to have to break Musing or GaMan’s fingers for writing me a citation. LOL!
Have a Powerful, Productive, Prosperous and Positive Day!!!
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
Jake I think Sexione went into hiding after Truth got on her case about selling Old Puddy at new puddy prices and of course the low turn-out blog meet-n-greet.
I think Randyt was cleaning out one of his closets and got trapped by an avalanche of t-shirts. We haven’t heard from him in a while. It might have been too dangerous to send anyone in to get him.
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
every major situation had a little interjection from some “friend”, words get changed, or meanings get crossed. Them buddies can fugg up a good thing.
Jake Lawd, are you stalking me?!? LOLOL!! I’m dealing w/ this exact situation right now. Other folks, all up in the koolaid, don’t know the flavor, but have lots to say about stuff they know nothing about. UGH!!
raqi My favorite phrase in situations like i ain’t is “Don’t feed the monkeys!” LOL!!
Slim’s baaaaaaaack!! Wooohoooooooo!!
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
Grand Poo Bah* congrats to you on your soon to be divorce. Isn;t it funny how peopke now celebrate divorce like a new engagement! LOL You gotta do like my girl did when she received the final divorce document…she tool a picture holding it up near her face as she cheesed so hard I thought her face was going to break. She then proceeded to send a mass picture text to all of with the sound bite, “It’s over b#tch”! Can I throw your Divorce “I’m so glad the b#tch is gone” Party? LMAO
Slim is that you? Color Purple moment…me and you us never part, maky da da! LOL
By IslandGirl
August 22, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
Happy Hump Day to everybody
Slim…keep your head up. I’m sure whatever happened…is for a reason. You will eventually get the answer to why?…then laugh about it later.
*Raqqi….you got haters? Don’t you just love them.
My lessons learned are: you can’t change anyone, you can’t make them love you back and to love God, yourself and family.
By I Sing Soprano
August 22, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
Yes ladies, i hate when a brotha does that; i should’ve known it was too good to be true. Oh well all i have to say is NEXT lol!
By I ain't trying to be funny but......
August 22, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this
Actually all you folks that’s coming to Raqi’s defense are newbies (sort of)and I’m just up to here with her goodness….been reading way longer than ya’ll been posting…I believe I was here when she first started posting…under scorned, then scorned no mo…so ya’ll just ain’t had ya’ll’s fill yet….gheesh…I’m just full like I said up to here, so shoot me…k? And Raqi, trust me whoever you think I am, I’m not. I hardly eva post or participate in dialog but I’m an avid reader. And last, I didn’t go back to read yesterday’s post anticipating what you had might blog today. Just happen to log in and you were posting some greatness first thing this morning…that’s all. Really people, it’s not that deep. Just passing my opinion…as all others. I’m entitled right?
By For Real
August 22, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this
What up Blog Fam!!
On Topic: I learned to stay true to yourself and to stop letting the other person’s feelings dictate my actions.
Slim I see you are back. I’m glad but I have a confession to make to you. While you were gone I had sex with Sucka, EyeswideShut, and Catwomen. I felt I should be the first one to tell you.
Staceye Man… it has to take alot of energy to maintain that amount meaness. How do you do it?
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
SlimOne what low turn out blog meet and greet? You guys had a meet and great! How the heck did I miss that. Where was it? Must have occurred during that time when I couldn’t get on the blog because I couldn’t find it.
By Jewel
August 22, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
Yeah, keep your “friends” out of your relationship! They do not need to know every miniscule detail.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this
Grand Poo bah CONGRATULATIONS. Do like I did, throw yourself a divorce party. I had 15 girlfriends meet me at Sambuca’s for dinner and drinks We had a ball that night.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this
* ain’t trying to be funny but* most coming to Raqi’s defense are not newbies. I remember Scorned and Scorned No Mo as well…
By Doggystyle(aka melo)
August 22, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this
I will be in lurksville for the rest of today, in honor of all the dogs killed by Mike Vick. This is to honor the Dogs’ and to remember them for their innovation which led to the discovery of the Doggystyle by man and the adaptation of this animalistic-like style as one of man’s favorite mating style. The Doogy, as it is affectonately called by lovers,pervets and swingers alike, resulted in the birth of many Bolgville residents today, who go by names likeI ain’t trying to be funny but,* Slim,Sucka,Sexxy,Staceye,Blatino*, to name only a few.
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this
Island You may need to do something about For Real. He’s still walking around with Black Cake in his crotch trying to lure folks into a wicked taste test. I believe he’s lost his mind.
By MusingLee
August 22, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
Morn’in All,
The best lesson I’ve learn from old relationships would be to listen to your instincts…If you feel like something has changed in the relationship, then it possibly has..Use your reasoning skills to detect what exactly is going on.
…Jewel turns around to find an “origami crane” citation on her desk.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
August 22, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
Whhhheeeeeeeeeee GaMan comes in blowing the whistle Jewel after that long azz post girl i told you….just when you think Musing and i aren’t watching we are
Here is your blog citation….$5.00
GaMan is in a good mood today…hugs and kisses
oh yeah hey everyone…lolol my girl Raqi still runnin thangs i see
By For Real
August 22, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
GrandPoobah No disrespect but all these suggestions of celebration for your divorce just seems to be wrong. I just can’t celebrate the demise of a family. Moving on bc the divorce was the best thing cool but to celebrate? It’s kinda like being glad someone is dead.
By melo
August 22, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this
Raqi,so when did somebody screw somebody’s husband? I must have been on vacation when that happenend. I need to go read that, plzz redirect me.
So ain’t trying to be funny but is actually a lady who dislikes Raqi for advising against getting her freak on. Girl,just do u, if it itches u that bad!Every woman needs her scracth on sometimes, and who says it has to be orthodox or moral. U can always go the pastor after the act.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this
Off topic if the parents on this blog should venture over to Momania’s blog this morning, you have a ring side seat to a fight over whether a child should ride the long bus ride to and from school.
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this
I wish every Man i met would’nt be so dayum insecure because of the work i do. I should just start telling them what i do part-time maybe that’ll be better.
Hi, my name is Nikkee but all my friends call me Hot Sauce. Yes i do work; i’m a Master Cosmetologist i.e. “i do hair” on da side.
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this
For Real I appreciate your confession and now it all makes sense. I found black cake crumbs in my catsuit. And about the celebrating divorce, I feel the same way you do. I started to post a Congrats but then i was like…wait a minute, that’s not cause for celebration. If it was a bad situation, i’m happy that they’ve resolved it but I can’t bake a cake to celebrate increasing the divorce rate.
Sexyleggs I believe it was a few weeks ago. Folks were supposed to meet up at Dave-n-Bustas, only a handful of folks showed up. MisU & Sexione appeared to be bitter at the turn out, then the blog fell apart cuz folks were calling bloggers fakers and all kinds of nonsense. Yeah you missed it. lol
By Jake
August 22, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
NC I could start stalking you if you want, you’d like the way I do it though…lol. On the real, it can be the undoing of what might have been wonderful. The crazy part is, you can never untangle the way info was delivered to the SO, because perception is reality.
Slim You stoopid!!..old puddy at new ouddy prices. I know, Truth went hard on her that day. since you brought up the meet/greet, where the hellz is MsU.
By Jewel
August 22, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
I Ain’t You know that’s bad English…Anyway, it is not a matter of coming to Raqi’s defense. Actually, I remember the ‘Scorned No More’ moniker. But, I am of the opinion that everybody has a right to be whomever he or she chooses to be, whether I agree or not. Because at the end of the day, we go our separate ways. I choose not to sweat the small stuff and expend my energy in more productive ways. Really, maybe there is something else that bothers you and personal attacks are how you choose to vent?
LOL! I am slow today…I had to google “origami crane. I am definitely challenged in the arts & crafts area…
Now watching Musing get the beat down by his wife for using their thank you cards to make origami cranes
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
In the words of Florida Evans damn, damn, damn! How many showed up for the meet-n-greet? I understand it was a low turn out, but who showed up. I definitely would have been there if I had known.
By Brooklyn
August 22, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
Hello blog. I can honestly say that the first relationship I had with a man ten years my senior thought me to always be one step ahead of the game, trust my instincts and to never have a man define who and what I am. But I was young and naive and oh so innocent and altho he turned out to be a complete dog, without him I wouldnt have walked away with that valuable lesson.
By melo
August 22, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this
Sexione,was crushed the most coz she had bought a new outfit to meet the fellas.And she been missing on the blog too.Go figure!
By Jake
August 22, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this
THIS JUST IN Due changing circumstances with NewsReporterMusingLee, he is now on a lifetime assignment, but he will give a Andy Rooney style blurb on occassion.
We have employed a new journalist. Her name is NewsReporterSlim, she will now be charge all updates such as the last two big stories she brought you.
Old Puddy at New Prices…Sexonomics in 2007
Meet and Greet…The Fallout
You guys give her a hand..lol
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this
For Real I am very hyperactive so I have a lot of engery…so it’s not that hard to keep up my meaness.
You don’t see the happiness for Poo Bah? On one hand it is the demise of a family..however..it’s not prolonged agony of unhappiness. Some people stay together for the wrong reasons….fear of being alone…for the kids…fear of starting over. But if you are smart enought to know when to call it quits before you die old and miserable…then you should be happy.
It’s funny you mention the glad someone is dead thing. I would never be glad someone is dead. However…if they had hurt me, I would go to the funeral just to make sure it was really them. Not to mention I’d be thanking the Lord that it had nothing to do with me. I know…it’s sadistic. is the Dr. in? I’m coming to lay on your couch! GA Man, Jake & Musing are coming to get me now..I do not get a citation…they take me directly to jail!!!
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this
LOL melo. My youngest is the product of my rendezvous with a married man. That’s why when the topic read Beautiful Mistake, I said my son is a mistake that I don’t regret, therefore Beautiful to me. Now how that made someone think that I am saying my life is perfect beats me.
It is so easy for me to pass by posters I don’t care to read like that last post by “I ain’t”. Why is so hard for others?
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this
I ain’t I have to agree w/ Jewel. It’s not about coming to Raqi’s defense. She defends herself just fine. And I certainly can’t say that I always agree w/ what she says. But, attacking her isn’t going to change who she is or what she decides to share on the blog. If you don’t like her posts, ignore them. There are plenty of bloggers whose posts I routinely ignore, and who, I’m sure routinely ignore mine. No big deal. Like I said yesterday, it takes too much energy to stay mad at someone. Keep it moving…
Jake LOL!! Aaaah…an inviting stalker? That’s new! LOL! Seriously though, you’re right. Folks are talking out of turn, and are about to get silenced!
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
Staceye, if you don’t mind me asking how old are you? You are a staunch NYer, but I can see through that tough veneer. Oh yeah, been there, done that!
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
Hey Musing
By For Real
August 22, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
off topic: Can men you the “young and innocent” qualifying statement to excuse our actions?
Slim yeah i’m responsible for the black cake but the african american dolphin flooded your basement.
Det. Hot Sauce If you are an officer of the law, then it’s not insecurity the men you date are experiencing. It’s fear that if yall break up you will put an APB out on him for killing a cop.
SexyLeggs This country is turning into and raising a bunch of soft azz kids. They act like it has never been 100 degrees and I have never seen a school bus with air condition. Millions of kids rode school buses without A/C and sat in classrooms without A/C why all of sudden kids are soooo soft.
By Special Assignment Reporter MusingLee
August 22, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this
Looking into camera 1, holding onto a telephone pole for dear life
Hello everyone I am Reporter MusingLee…I am here on location in Mexico City to expose the singles dating scene of Mexico during hurricane season…In my expose you will see the underworld offfffffffffffffffff….
Musing is blown the f/k away by Hurricane Dean
By MusingLee
August 22, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this
Hey Det.Hot Sauce…LOLOLOL
Still poppin caps I see!
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this
melo ha ha ha she bought a new outfit for Dave-n-Busters? LMAO! I personally think she was highly disappointed by the fact she may have felt she’d get better results than any meet-n-greet attempts in the past. JMO
NewsReporterSlim Coming up at 5 our own former NewsReporterMusingLee is listed in critical condition resulting from and Origami Attack causing massive paper cuts to his head,chest and arms. We’ll also have a special investigative report from our guest reporter For Real on Multiple Personalities.
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this
lol @ ForReal Now that’s funny! I would never do that to anyone; but it really bothers me because i do want to date and have a steady Man in my life. right now i only have friends, then the black/blue police strip i have on my car does’nt help me either. ay shawty you da po-po? wth! So we’ll see….are you single ForReal ;)
By IslandGirl
August 22, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
Slim….I can only imagine how you felt finding crumbs in the crouch of your cat suit.lol Real needs to stop eating red meat….its bad for your health…the bigger question is…who was wearing the cat suite while he was eating?.jk lol
Sexyleggs…the blog was a mess following the meet/greet episode. We’ve not heard from Sexi since.
By For Real
August 22, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this
Staceye Poo Bah’s happiness is not mines to see but I do know what he think has just ended is actually the beginning and whatever emotions or feelings that were not resolved in his marriage will most definitely be there in his divorce. Divorce ain’t easy, it may seem like the fix but it could be the root of future problems.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 12:28 PM | Link to this
SlimOne about celebrating divorce, its not so much about celebrating the divorce as it is about knowing you are doing the right thing by not staying in a bad relationship. For some though, there is a need to celebrate. If your marriage was emotionally, physically, psychologically draining then of course you would celebrate. For me (emphasis on me), its knowing that my child will no longer have a look of panic on his lil face when his father and I are closer than two feet. Its also knowing that I dont have to worry about not arguing in front of him or worrying about he will react. But also b/c I honestly felt like my marriage was put together by me and my husband, we didnt seek God in it. So now I look forward to celebrating my new life and all that it has to offer as long as I seek God in everything I do.
Just my .02…..
For Real ahem do I have to ask???
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this
Musing You are still funny & my favorite blogger! I’m not poppin’ caps i’m just trying to make some new male friends Where’s Demi is he flying through hurricane Dean as well?
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
It’s fear that if yall break up you will put an APB out on him for killing a cop.
Ummm….just asking a question…but eerr uuuh…How she gone put out an APB if she’s dead?!? Just askin’…LMAO!
Sup Det. Hot Sauce!
In my expose you will see the underworld offfffffffffffffffff….
Well, one thing is for sure…For Real ain’t the only one w/ the Black Cake. ReporterMusingLee what exactly do you call…THAT?! And why did you go out to report the news with just a towel around your waist? That’s like Beyonce performing a show in a flimsy top and no bra and wondering how it is that she flashed a whole arena of folks. LAWD! Exhibitionists…
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
Mo Yes, I agree with all you said. I also would not expect anyone to stay in an unhealthy situation. I was only saying it feels kind of funny to actually celebrate divorce, not necessarily a stab at the reasons why. I’m glad for anyone who can get out of a bad situation but i was indirectly speaking in terms of the state of marriage in our society. Thats all. If you’re seeking God’s guidance then there’s nothing anyone else can say. No judgement here cuz Slim shole ain’t no saint. lol
By the way, where is For Real? I think i need an emergency EarMuffmunchilectomy
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this
I guess he’s not single he did’nt answer me; have you ever been to the shooting range? Now that would be the perfect date to take a “Real Man” to the range - right Musing?
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this
Hey NCGirl What is Black Cake?
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs I was at the meet and greet. Although it was only 5 of us..i had a nice time meeting those that I did meet and getting free drinks from dudes who came over to the bar. You know how we NY’ers do it girl….with my tough veneer! HiJake & For Real!
Raqi we all make mistakes. So don’t let anyone get to you mama. You owed up to it like a woman. So it’s done.
For Real sometimes the fact that two people who should not be married is the root of the problem. Just love someone is not enough. When you realize it…then you cut your losses. Poo Bah what is your take on this, since this is based on you?
Mo AMEN sista!
By Grand Poo Bah
August 22, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this
Mo, Staceye, SexyLeggs,& For Real
I do not have a party planned, although I may grab a beverage with buddy tonight. For me it is a relief that I can finally move on with my life. I see both sides, I agree with For Real that you don’t celebrate then end of what was once the most important relationship I had.
Any celebration I have is about starting a new chapter in life. I hold no bitterness to the former Mrs. Poo Bah, I will focus on me and enjoy what I have.
With that being said, I think I’ll take a looooooonnnnngggg lunch and will catch up with everyone later this week.
Poo Bah out, Peace!
By jazzyone
August 22, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this
Ya off the chain up in here today…ohmy!
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
Det. Hot Sauce i wouldloe to take a man to the shhoting range. Then ask him what his intentions are for me while I’m trying to get my aim right! LOL
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this
We interrupt this program to bring you a Public Announcement from presidential candidate Barak Obama.
Mr. Obama: Good Morning general. Actually it’s my mistress…uh…Mrs. Raqi that would like to have a word with you. Here you go sweety the floor is yours.
Mistress Raqi: After the recent events that have taken place, Barak…I mean Mr. Obama and I have I needed to publicly make the following apology.
“I apologize that I have been fortunate enough to experience life and a lot of its hills and valleys. I apologize that I would rather make fun of my bad experiences and laugh about them rather than hate myself, God and everyone else for the mistakes I made. I apologize that I don’t mind telling others about the crap I allowed myself to get into. I apologize that I married a man that don’t mind laughing with me about my past and the things that I experience now. I apologize that I choose to make the best of things and be happy. And last but not least I apologize for being me.”
Now I bow my head and tuck my tail and go to lunch. I’m sorry. NOT.
By If ya really want the truth.....
August 22, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this
all of y’all are newbies to some extent!!!! If you weren’t reading or posting when Mia started this blog then you are a “newbie” to someone! Truth be told, I don’t see not one moniker on here today that can actually call themselves a Blog OG! however, I can, so therefore, all of y’all are newbies!
By melo
August 22, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
Det. Hot Sauce,why dont u plan another meet and greet, with Bella and Wise’s help? That would be a more credible plan. Some of u singles up’n here seem like u really missing on some action and luving! Every good woman deserves some action!!
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this
Grand Poo Bah I understand b/c I have no ill feelings towards Mr Mo* either. I just realized, before him, that is was truly over. I hate that it ended the way it did, but I learned a lot about myself and I got a beautiful baby out of it. And truth be told, I couldnt have chosen a better man to be my baby daddy! LOL But WE couldnt make it, too many red flags that we missed that were issues for us. Our season came and went so its time to move on. I hate that I wont have what my parents have, been married 37 yrs! But what’s mine is out there, right Jake!! ;0) (just messing with you Jake)
By Grand Poo Bah
August 22, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this
Staceye I agree wholeheartedly that staying together would have been wrong for me. I am in an easier position than others because we did not have children so I could selfishly think only of me. I hated making the decision to end the marriage based on the fact I felt I did not have a true partner. With the struggle I had before I was ready to finally go through with it, factoring in kids would have more than doubled the process.
I think the deciding factor to me was I saw older couples still together that seemed miserable, and I did not want to be in that situation. I did factor in her feelings, and weighed them against my needs, and what I predicted my best chance for happiness would be. That’s the best part, because I weighed it so heavily, I beleive I will always be happy with my decision.
The other side is that now that the papers are signed, I can let go of any bitterness and hopefully remember the good times we had.
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this
Raqi * I’m sorry. NOT* That sounds more like Borat than Mr. Obama lol
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this
Hot Sauce Black Cake is what For Real calls his wang…it’s also known as the African American Dolphin. A few days ago, Slim was telling a story about a dolphin she was stalking on her vacation, and FR took the opportunity to…well…For Realize it. And the black cake came from a convo (the same day, I think) about Slim & Island Girl looking for a jamaican place that served good black cake. Again…For Realized for your enjoyment. LOL!
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Staceye
good idea Stace
By LorDemi
August 22, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this
Det. Hot Sauce hey sis…
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this
Melo why don’t you and I just go out sweetie ;)
Ah ha! thanks NC
sounds tasty Black Cake
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this
melo It sounds like your ‘meet-n-greet’ is more of a orgy style gathering.
Melo: Hi I’m Melo, Meet Lil Man.
BLog chick: Hi Melo. Meet my Peaches
Melo: You have a very good looking camel toe if i can say so myself. Would you like to have a drink in one of the private rooms?
BC: Um..a little cold are we?
Melo now running to the restroom to put his wang under the hand dryer
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this
Hey Demi! how you doing baby, have you been flying around in all this heat???
By Page1908
August 22, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this
LOL ya’ll are off the chain! Hey jazzy!!
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this
Gotta find something to eat for lunch guys; i’ll check back later.
By LorDemi
August 22, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this
Det. Hot Sauce and Bay, Fugg them weak triggas…I’ve dated lady cops before, all cats need to know, they want someone who can help them take their mind off work…to sit back chill and just enjoy life…Negative: High stress job
It sucks knowing your SO may not come home…I nearly loss a cute friend out of Philly.
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this
Melo now running to the restroom to put his wang under the hand dryer
Dang…now I can’t even dry my hands w/o thinking of this.
LOLOL!!
By LorDemi
August 22, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this
Det. Hot Sauce Fly were in this heat??!!! Aww hell, can I be your driver…You boy got shots and mad driving skill (12 points on the lic.), I can make GoGo Power Wheels do 360s for no apparent reasons…
Musin the civic need an oil change and tune up…And can I get your old black book, you don’t need it any more for real For Real…Dayum, B-l-a-c-k C-a-k-e??!!! you are hell bound huh? LOL
Demi is flying outta this Beeeeeeotch!!!
By Wise Diva
August 22, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
sometimes I really wonder what people are thinking when they post their comments, LOL. Too funny.
By Lady Dark w/Dimples is ENGAGED!!
August 22, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this
Hey Everyone!!
My SO popped the question in Los Cabo, Mexico!!!!
On topic: All of my relationships and breakups have been beautiful mistakes. Some mistakes were extremely painful and hard to face, but after murdering them several times over in my mind…I started to appreciate the things that they taught me. The best lesson learned is knowing that having someone who truly loves you means more than sweating the small stuff….
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this
For Real, I was a little surprised to read your post about Momania. My name is “Koolaid House” over on that blog. Nothing wrong w/walking. We all dealt with the heat back in the day.
Raqi your 12:47 post was funny as heck.
Grand Poo bah, your 12:56 post resonated with me.
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this
Congratulations Lady Dark!! That is so great!!
First Musing, now you! Dang, it’s not going to be a dating blog for long if this keeps up! LOL!
sounds tasty Black Cake
Why is it that everytime I see “black cake” I think of Prince?
Aaaaww eatin’…eatin’ up the Black Cake…aaaaaaaw eatin’…eatin’ up the Black Cake…
By melo
August 22, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
All of my relationships and breakups have been beautiful mistakes, now how’s that for fatal irony..after accepting a proposal? Congrats anyhoLady Dark w/Dimples!!!
By Cinderella
August 22, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
Congratulations Lady Dark!! I hate you LOL
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this
NCGirlfromATL you are a fool. I’m hollering over here.
By Page1908
August 22, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this
Congrats, Dimples! We will celebrate with some drinks next time you are out my way!!
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this
Lady D Congrats! Give us all the mushy details.
By Bre'
August 22, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this
Congrads Lady May your journey together be full of love and joy.
Hey Demi
By melo
August 22, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
Det. Hot Sauce, are u a PoliceO for sure? I never been handcuffed, even on friendsexsly terms,so i’m curious.
By Lady Dark w/Dimples is ENGAGED!!
August 22, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this
Thanks Everyone!
We were at the resort in our room getting ready to meet our other friends for dinner/partying. He started walking around the room, pacing, and I was on the bed looking at restaurants and such…He started talking and I didn’t even look up from the magazine. He stared talking about how much I meant to him, how I changed his life, how I’ve stood by him,etc. The sweetest thing he said was that I trusted him enough to support him while he became a better person (and he didn’t know anyone else like me who would do that)… by this time I was looking up and he had the ring in his hand. He got on his knees (in the bed) and asked me if I would do the honor of spending the rest of my life with him. Of course tears were strolling down my face by this time and he was all choked up….but he proudly reminds me that he didn’t cry though!
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this
Lady Dark CONGRATS!!! I know for sure that I will be hanging at Fox Sports more often!! That is where you met hubby right?! LOL!! Wish you nothing but the best. Mo now planning to lift some gifts from Lady Darks reception like she did Musing’s :o)
By Jewel
August 22, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
Lady Dark CONGRATULATIONS!!!
Now queing Jeffrey Osborne “We Both Deserve Each Other’s Love” for Ms. Lady Dark and her fiance
By Lady Dark w/Dimples is ENGAGED!!
August 22, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this
Awwww…you guys are going to make me start crying!!!
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this
DarkDimples go somewhere with that mushy crap. Don’t nobody want to hear that. LOL Just Kiiiidding.
CONGRATULATIONS GIRLY
By SlimOne
August 22, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this
Lady D Yeah, i heard about that eye infection that seems to affect only men, it suddenly caused their eyes to water. lol But nonetheless I’m very happy and excited for you.
By Ladylike
August 22, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this
Congratulations LadyDarkDimples, I’m so happy for you.
By Jake
August 22, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this
Congrats Lady Dark, thats wonderful, and just so all Beautiful Ladies don’t miss this, let me re-post this:
The sweetest thing he said was that I trusted him enough to support him while he became a better person
Patience is a virtue!!
By MusingLee
August 22, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this
Musing wearing his tight silver Commodores pants and Mr. T knuckle rings….Puts on some “Just to be Close to You” and sings like Lionel Ritchie
Congrats Lady w/2D’s!
By Tazzee
August 22, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this
had to come out from lurking for this one.
CONGRATULATIONS LADYDARK!!! When’s the bachelorette party? LOL. Seriously, I got a little teary eyed reading what happened. Wow, last week it was Royal Chic and now you. I love it, I love it, I love it!
And since I’m here….Raqi shake off the haters and keep it coming lady. from one of the Blog OGs that doesn’t hide behind other monikers… since March ‘04
By Jake
August 22, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
Mo Come get me sweetie.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
CONGRATULATIONS LadyDarkDimpleS!
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this
Melo another meet and greet…you trying to get at me boo? LOL
Lady Dark w/Dimples I knew that was gonna happen. Congrats! But I must warn you…here comes GA Man with my citation* but I am willing to pay it!
Marriage is not a word. It’s a sentence (a life sentence).
2. Marriage is love. Love is blind. Therefore marriage is an institution for the blind 3. Marriage is an institution in which a man loses his Bachelor's Degree and the woman gets her masters. 4. Marriage is a three ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring and suffering. 5. Married life is full of excitement and frustration: In the first year of marriage, the man speaks and the woman listens. In the second year, the woman speaks and the man listens. In the third year, they both speak and the NEIGHBOURS listen. 6. Getting married is very much like going to a restaurant withfriends. You order what you want, and when you see what the other person has, you wish you had ordered that instead.
7. Son: How much does it cost to get married, Dad? Father: I don't know son, I'm still paying for it. 8. Son: Is it true Dad? I heard that in ancient China, a man doesn't know his wife until he marries her. Father: That happens everywhere, son, EVERYWHERE! 9. Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock. 10. They say that when a man holds a woman's hand before marriage, it is love; after marriage it is self-defense. 11. When a newly married man looks happy, we know why. But when a 10-year married man looks happy, we wonder why. 12. Eighty percent of married man cheats in America, the rest cheat in Europe. 13. After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin. They just can't face each other, but still they stay together. 14. Before marriage, a man 'yearns' for the woman he loves. After the marriage the "Y" becomes silent. 15. it's not true that married men live longer than single men, it only seems longer. 16. When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing - either the car is new or the wife is.Nah..but really though..that was a sweet proposal story…one to tel the kids & grandkids. *”Daddy tried to propose in spanish since we were in Mexico but what he really said was will you spank my monkey?” LOL
Cinderella D@mn girl…you let Lady Dark know straight up that you are hating you now! LOL
By Lady Dark w/Dimples is ENGAGED!!
August 22, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this
Yes,Mo it was Fox!
Okay, Raqi, I’m going to woman up and stop with all the mushy talk…but give me one more week..LOL
Page I’m there first week in October..put it on your calendar!
Thanks again everyone Jake,Tazzee,Musing,ladylike, Jewel,NCGirl,Raqi,Slim,Cinderella,Page,Bre,Melo…sorry if I left anyone out!
By Lady Dark w/Dimples is ENGAGED!!
August 22, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this
Thanks SexyLeggs and Staceye!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
August 22, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this
Lady w/dd this is for you:
Woke up this morning…..to breakfast in bed..the coffee was hot and the eggs i got was righhhht…so righhhhtt
Girl i got to tell you…you just tooo good for me..the things that you do…make its easy loving you..even a blind man could see oooh ohhhh
eveery night i get down on my knees and give thanks for you and the thing that you do….cause only a fool would let go of you…
loving you is so easy for me to do….said it like ABC..123 i’m loving you..just keep loving me…it’s a shame..it’s like abc..123
driving in my car..i see something that would look good on you…oooh i cant ignore..but hell i cant afford it..whats a simple man like me to do
if you should ever leave me..i’d go out of my mind…cause i want you..i need you…..need you..i dont want to be wasting my time…eveery night i get down on my knees and give thanks for you..the things that you do…cause only a fool would let go of you…loving you is so easy for me to do..it’s like abc 123
COngrats from the bottom of my heart…to you and yours
God says rejoice with others in thier time..cause yours is coming
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
August 22, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this
Staceye no citation due to happiness on the blog….
By Det. Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
Yes Melo I’m in the Law Enforcement category; i use to work for Dekalb Co. Police now i moved up.I have a special pair of handcuffs for you Melo
CONGRATULATIONS LADY D
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
Jake Ohh, I like the way you say that! ;0) On my way babe!!
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
Staceye where did you get all that jibberish about marriage?
By Cinderella
August 22, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this
Yeah I’m honest about my hatin’ but I am happy for her…grudgingly
Tazzee I didnt realize you started posting in March ‘04. Me too. I’ve just changed my name since then.
By Lady Dark w/Dimples is ENGAGED!!
August 22, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this
Thanks GA.man and Det. Hot Sauce!
By 2CPTG
August 22, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this
Lady D, if you are who I think you are, go ‘head girl….congratulations!!!! like Tazz said, from one of the Blog OGs that doesn’t hide behind other monikers… since March ‘04
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this
Off topic for all of you tea lovers go to www.importika.com. Check out “Teaposy. This is a tea that opens up into a flower. It’s beautiful and the tea is delicious.
By Jake
August 22, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this
Mo After you catch me, I’ll teach you how to say the special phrase!!
“Boy, come get this p#@$y”..lol
By Cinderella
August 22, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this
Tazz come to think of it…and may be March ‘05. Heck I dont remember. I cant remember my kids names half the time.
By Tazzee
August 22, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this
Cinderella Hmmm, I thought I knew who you were - but I may be wrong. I was thinking we met at Dugan’s karaoke back in Spring ‘05
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this
Jake LMAO!! You can teach me how to say the phrase and I will make sure you follow the command!! ;0) (wink) But something tells me that wont be necessary!! LOL
By QC
August 22, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this
Congrats my Blog Sistah LDD
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs the marriage stuff was a joke I received as an email from my homegirl today.
Cinderella I cant remember my kids names half the time. Don;t feel bad…I’m my mom’s only child and she calls me eveybody’s name but my own!
By I ain't trying to be funny but.....
August 22, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
I’m still entitled to my opinion….Raqi sometimes gets on my nerves. I’ve been here since MIA…not hiding behind any moniker. As I stated pretty much a lurker…just to mushy sometimes…my opinion. I’m sorry you’re so perfect. I’m sorry you’re so wonderful. I’m sorry life is just darn grand. I’m sorry you’ve been a peach at putting such a great spin on thing. Honey, you’ve not done anymore than the rest of us, that’s why it’s called life. Some folks don’t need to get on the airwaves from day to day and describe how they turned things around. Heck, we all pretty much did what you did (as I stated it’s called living), so it’s no grand thing to do what most of us typically do….grow up. You gets no hero cookie for that!!! IMO
By Cinderella
August 22, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
yeah that’s me, you came with Suga & Spice.
I remember 2 was supposed to show up. yeah I’m calling you out! really though I never got the pleasure to meet you :) I miss alot of the old crew.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
August 22, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this
Cinderella I cant remember my kids names half the time. My mother will call me and my sister by each other’s names and get mad when we ignore her!! LOL I tell her “you named us and YOU cant remember who is who?!?!” Its funny to me!
Staceye I have a feeling I will do that to my child, call him by every name but his own!! Its a mom thing!
By Jewel the Tea Lover who doesn't have to change her moniker to admit it
August 22, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this
Thanks for the site, SexyLeggs. Once, I had some regular pekoe tea with fresh rose petals…it was fantastic!
By Bre'
August 22, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this
Tazz and 2CPTG Long time no see, glad you are lurking.
By For Real
August 22, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
NOW WE HAVE SOMETHING TO CELEBRATE CONGRATZ LW?D’S
Mo imma play this one in honor of Lw/2D’s here you go tell me what you think 2D’s:
If I ever held a hand It was only because I’d never held your hand That was part of the plan I had 2 get it right if I was 2 be your man
And if I ever kissed your lips I needed time 2 cross the others off my list (off my list) A higher high 2 the trip (trip) I wanted U 2 go, that was my wish - yes it was (Ooh my) Friend, lover, sister, mother/wife Air, food, water, love of my life If I ever shared a bed It was only cuz I wanted 2 live up 2 what the people said, oh yes (What they say?) (What they say?)(What they say?)(What they say?)
Now I’m livin’ instead Everyday just 2 say U’re the only one who’s in my head (The only one) (The only one)
Oh yes U are And if I ever made U cry All I have 2 do is think about it and I just wanna die (I just wanna die) (I just wanna break down and die, die, die, die)
How I’d ever make it by (I don’t know) without U, baby (without U, baby) I don’t know (No!), I hope I never have 2 try, yeah (Please don’t ever leave me)
Oh, listen 2 me (Ooh my) Friend, lover, sister, mother/wife (My sweet, sweet friend, lover, sister, mother/wife) Air, food, water, love of my life The eyes of my child I see every time U look at me (I see a sweet baby smile) A sweet baby smile like a light that shines 4 all 2 see (And if I ever held a hand) If I ever held a hand Oh, ‘twas only cuz I’d never held yours That was part of, part of the plan I had 2 get it right (right) if I was 2 be your man because… (Ooh my) Friend, lover, sister, mother/wife (Friend, lover, sister, mother/wife) My, my, my, my air, my food, my water, love of my life (I love U) (Everlasting life) Teacher (teacher), healer (healer), feeler (feeler), sight 4 sore eyes (Let me look at your eyes - U’re so pretty) Oh, yes U are, baby (Ooh my) Don’t U know U’re my friend, my lover, my sister, love of my life (mother/wife) Yeah, baby, yes U are {Te amo is I love U} (Ooh my) Friend (te amo), lover (te amo), sister (te amo), mother/wife (Hug me, hug me, hug me baby, U are my life) (I’ll stay with U 4ever) {x2} Till death do us part, baby (Yes sir!) Air (te amo), food (te amo), water (te amo), love (love of my life) U are the only, only love of my life My friend, lover, sister, mother/wife
By Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this
What day & time does RunHouse come on anyone, anyone???????
By Raqi
August 22, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this
And yet you continue to read. Let get of this thing before I get banned.
But then that would make some people happy.
By Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this
One of these good ole days; when i get a “real good Man” i’m going to whisk him off his feet & take him some where really nice and propose to him; hopefully he won’t turn me down
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
Staceye, I thought it was yet had to ask. Didn’t think you were that jaded. Girl, I was going to call TheTruth or ForReal and have him lay hands on you! It’s all good now!
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this
ForReal, the words are beautiful.
By Jewel
August 22, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this
Actually, Raqi, I think he/she has paid you a compliment…I do not watch her show much, but that sounds like Oprah and she makes what, billions of dollars doing it? Taking the bad and the ugly and choosing to see the good AND learn a lesson or two so that you have the ability too appreciate life. Hmmmph. But really, this is old. It’s best to leave some people in their own misery…
By Hot Sauce
August 22, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
Have a nice evening everyone, i had a great time today. Probably won’t join you all again till a couple of weeks, so take care
ForReal, just let me know when you’re ready to be hand cuffed ;)
By For Real
August 22, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this
Hot Sauce I am single and I have been shoting since I was 8. A female officer of the law lives down the street from me and she drove her bf so crazy he moved to Minnesota and vowed he would never, ever, eva date another female officer. He warned me not to do it.
By melo
August 22, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this
I ain’t trying to be funny but and Raqi, thats why a blog party aint hapenning..u ladies got too many cat fights going on. But its really sexy when ladies fight tho, sometimes.I just went into the bathroom after readingI ain’t trying..but and felt really HARD when i started thinking about her 3.27 long post about Raqi!!
By 2CPTG
August 22, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this
‘sup Bre….yeah, I lurk from time to time now, and comment when time permits…
Cinderella, you’re right, I did renege on y’all that night….however, if we haven’t met yet, I doubt we’ll ever meet…had my moments (and fun) with y’all blog gals…..
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
ForReal, HotSauce never said she was a police officer. Just said she works in law enforcement. Don’t assume anything. Let her come out flat and tell you she’s an officer. Shyt, I have special handcuffs too…LOL
By Jake
August 22, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this
I aint
You spoiling the day, I’m not sure who you are behind the bullshyt moniker, but newbie or not, I sure am tired of your azz today. Also, you don’t get a special prize cause youare an original blogger. As my old coach would say, “we’re happy to have you, but we sure as hellz don’t need you” Now, with that said, I won’t say your post have no merit.
@Raqi, there are times you do come off arrogant. The confidence that life has given you can rub like conceit; but in your defense, you have admitted your questinable acts, and you were right, you didn’t say anything today, somebody is just ready to bytch today, whoever she is…lol.
Now ya’ll post about me since I jumped in the middle…hehehe!!!
Mo You are right, no directions needed.
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this
HotSauce no offense to you, just realized you never said you well an officer so in essence ForReal has a chance (if you want him).
By NCGirlfromATL
August 22, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this
Now ya’ll post about me since I jumped in the middle…hehehe!!!
Jake And yooooou know…and that time…remember when you did that thing…and yoooooou said. And I’m sick and tired of you saying…and if you pull that ish one more time…I’m gonna…that ish ain’t funny, man! Who do you think you are? Don’t you know I’ll….ooooooo…it’s gonna be on like popcorn. Yeah! My name is Ed…and when you mess with Ed…you’ll be dead….yeah!
You’re cracking me up today!!!
By melo
August 22, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs,u about to start ur own fight with HotS..u ladies are a trip. Anyway, i want u both in a threeSme!!
By MusingLee
August 22, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this
Dang sounds like a blog reunion is about to break out…All we need is for runninatl and EastPoints Own to show up…Hahahahahaha
*Dayum runnin still owes me 1 buck for a grape soda *
By Staceye
August 22, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this
SexyLeggs For Real is always saying he wants to lay hands on me! LOL
jake put on your vest..bog bullets are coming! DUCK! LOL
By MusingLee
August 22, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this
Late Lunchtime Observations:
Hot Wings should not be eaten at the bus stop…Where are you gonna wash your hands?
If you can’t cross the street before the light changes, don’t look at me and hold your hands up, you should probably be running by now.
Why the hellz would I buy a “pizza” from Subway???
When are folks just gonna wear their pants around their ankles??? If I’m gonna make a fashion statement, I’m gonna make a big one.
By For Real
August 22, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this
Raqi and Ain’t I have a way to settle your dispute. How about each of you write a post about the freakest thing you all have done. BUT, you cannot use a vowel in writing your post. The Blog will decide which tell is the freakest.
Sexyleggs For Real has enough Black Cake for the both of yall.
NC Since 2D’s is off the market now you can have her portion of Black Cake.
By melo
August 22, 2007 4:55 PM | Link to this
Its ALL GOOD yu’all, ain’t trying to be funny but says she dropped some Red juice on her knickers this afternoon..thats why she was feeling so frisky.
Its that time of the month!!
Nanite ALL!!
By SexyLeggs
August 22, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Good night all…be safe!