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It ends tonight
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
I have some work to do in the “man management” department. I have to let someone go because things aren’t going that great. I know I have the tendency to bail on guys too quickly, so I made sure that I gave it a couple of months this time. I made a real effort to be understanding, patient, and any other equally draining female emotion that is required to date those high maintenance men.
There are other dating options cropping up that appear to be more compatible to me: closer to my age, active life, not too clingy/needy. I am going to woman up and deal with the un-fun part of dating: letting a guy down.
Breaking up with people takes a lot of finesse, my friends. Men aren’t usually the masters of this - they may decide to take the ever so lovely, disappearing act route. Or my personal favorite: turn into a complete jackass until she has no choice but to leave the relationship. Guys, are women just as horrible when it comes to ending things too?
I have to think of how to do it. Should I send him that All-American Rejects’ song, It Ends Tonight, in an email? Should I give him the tried and true spiel: “It’s not you, it’s me”? Does that even work anymore? If I wanted to be a big old coward, I could break up on the phone or send a text message? Tres’ tacky, I know!
If you were being dumped, how would you want to find out? Perhaps you would want an expensive meal followed by, “We need to talk” dessert?
Have you ever been dumped in a surprisingly painless way? Maybe they used humor or something unique to tell you it was over. What creative tactics have used to break up with someone? Or what’s been used on you?
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By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 8:05 AM | Link to this
grits, turkey bacon/sausage, eggs, wheat toast, assorted muffins, assorted fruit, dasani water, latte’, assorted tea,kool-aid, Orange juice, bagels w/assorted fruit spread, french toast w/whip cream & oatmeal,waffles,pancakes,french toast sticks,Cap’t crunch,raisin bran, coco-puffs,cookie crisp cerals
on behalf of the MLB enjoy ladies
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 8:07 AM | Link to this
GaMan climbs back in the bed cause he cooked with For Real and Truth and they were watching Sportscenter instead of helping most of the time
In fact Truth burned the first pot of grits……lololol
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 8:11 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday!!!! TGIF!!!
Wise Good Friday topic!! Why did I get the theme song from The Carol Burnette Show in my head……….I’m so glad we had this time together, just to have a laugh or sing a song, seems we just got started and before you know it, comes the time we have to say sooooo long……… oh my!!! lol
By QC
July 20, 2007 8:12 AM | Link to this
Morning….the “blog cafe” has a buffet style breakfast with everyone’s favorites so enjoy…this is a good topic for a friday WD have a great day all…
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 8:14 AM | Link to this
OMG!!!!! The MLB has brought the breakfast…write it down ladies…….hehehehe Thanks MLB
GAman, ForReal & Truth looks around at destroyed kitchen after burning quite a bit of breakfast
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 8:21 AM | Link to this
Goooood Mooowwwnin
Gaman Dang buddy, you out did yourself this morning didn’t you? WOW! There is so much food I don’t know where to start. Ohhhh Captain Crunch!
Slim now taking the oppurtunity to make her 3 to-go plates since no one else has made it in yet
By MsUnderstood aka MsU
July 20, 2007 8:22 AM | Link to this
Hey Breakfast provided by MLB thankyou butterfly kisses to you all on the cheek. Hello to my WLB sistaaah’s…
If you were being dumped, how would you want to find out?Honesty is the key just sit me down and tell me no need to sugar coat it
By G
July 20, 2007 8:27 AM | Link to this
When you’re the one being dumped, it really doesn’t matter. The bottom line is she don’t won’t yo a$$ no more, no matter how she puts it. Also, that consolation prize of “we can still be friends”…….keep it. It only complicates things for the “dumpee”.
BTW….Happy Friday.
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 8:28 AM | Link to this
Wise My brain hasn’t thawed out yet but I currently suggest to just tell dude that unfortunately you don’t feel that you and him are compatible enough to continue on. Say you’ve been doing much thinking on the issue and feel that, as far as being in a romantic relationship or possible LTR, you feel that it won’t work.
So i’m curious, what is it about this guy that makes you feel you and him should decease dating?
By QC
July 20, 2007 8:30 AM | Link to this
Thanks GA.man & all MLB’s did’nt see a response from y’all yesterday that’s why i came thru with the breakfast buffetit’s all good though!
Slim girl you betta get yo plates and run…Cemeeli i managed to make you “2 pitchers” of your favorite smoothies…enjoy all…lurkers, newbies feel free to join us today
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 8:35 AM | Link to this
I agree with G too about keeping the ‘we can be friends’ spill. Even if you would prefer to keep this guy as a friend, no need to speak on it. What guy or anyone for that matter wants to be told he can be your friend after being dumped. I assume if they wanted to just be friends, they wouldn’t have tried to date you in the first place.
Carrabba’s was GREeeaatt last night. Mmmm mmmm good!
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this
Thanks QC gurl, as usual we have waayy too much. I’m going to fix my plate and guess what I brought……………Mimosas It’s Friday, so enjoy!!!
I’d rather be dumped than kept around under false pretenses. And yes, G & Slim, I agree with the “we can be friends” thing, that just sounds pathetic. lol
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this
TGIF!! Good morning everyone!! Thanks to the MLB for breakfast! You guys came thru!!:0) Mo helping herself to some french toast and turkey bacon w/a side of juice
Hair flip to the WLB and kisses & hugs to the MLB
I will comment after I down my breakfast.. :0)
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this
Good morning all…Happy Friday to all my NOTORIOUS WLB and MLB.
suurrp suurrp… Cemeeli getting her first sip of fresh mango,pineapple and yogurt smoothie that QC prepared so eloquently for bkfst
Thanks to the MLB for bkfst today. enjoyed my serving of grits and bacon (again).
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
July 20, 2007 9:01 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
Wisey, just spit it out. Be honest. Tell him that you simple don’t feel that this relationship is what you are looking for…etc. Do not give that tired it is not you it is me. Just say look this is what I want..and you are not it.(well not that bluntly but you get the idea) and for heavens sake don’t tell the man we can remain friends because depending on his reaction-why in the sam hill would he want to remain your friend? Honest up front and to the point. Done.
By QC
July 20, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this
Thanks Sexi1 cause i needs me something dis merning…
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this
Hey everyone! Do your It’s Friday dance!…woo!! It’s been a loooooong long, loong week. I am SO glad it’s the weekend!
@Slimone, do you have a couple of hours? LOL..it’s going to take all that to break it all down, but condensed: he’s younger than I am, he’s Muslim, he doesn’t live in ATL, we don’t EVER agree on important things, I think he could be racist, we have completely different world views, He wants a wife and children, like yesterday, I make more money than him, he hates it, oh I could go on forever. At one point, I am like, how were we even attracted to each other in the first place!? sigh
By Lacey (formally purplepassion)
July 20, 2007 9:04 AM | Link to this
If you were being dumped, how would you want to find out?By any means necessary. Tell me via email, text, voicemail, face to face, over a open fire, heck even fly on a banner above my house, just tell me. Just like you told me you want to date me the same applies when you’re no longer interested JMO. I don’t go for the abruptly stop calling/taking my calls. Man up and say you aren’t interested anymore. I’ll respect you better and won’t have to label you as a coward.
Good morning Everyone TFIG!!! Thanks for the hot breakfast guys.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this
Wise there is a thin line between love and hate…if you continue to stall and his emotions get more into you than they are he will really be messed up. The best way is to just say it
Don’t stall or any of that mess…just tell him “It’s not where you want to be” he will man up and hopefully leave you alone…and deal with it(Being dumped) by himself. Just my thought of the whole thing..plus if you do it on friday it gives him the weekend to let it sink in
Or you can PUNK out..and play Chris Brown’s Song Never a right time to say good-bye
Dude at his house wondering why Wise changing his cd from Lufer to this
He now has a look on his face cause Wise says We gotta talk
Guys hear two things when we hear this
Little feet or I’m bout to be dumped
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this
Stay busy Wise Diva…what a great topic. But always be upfront and honest with the person that you are about to DUMP. You don’t wanna send mix signals nor cause this break up to be more dramatic or drawn out than planned. Tell the truth!!!
LOL@ If you were being dumped, how would you want to find out? Perhaps you would want an expensive meal followed by, “We need to talk” dessert? Creative.
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July 20, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this
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By Sexione
July 20, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this
QC you’re welcome!! I know I did, figured there was at least one person feeling me! lol
Wise wow!! that’s quite a list, and a condensed one at that! lol Yes, be nice, but no need to sugar-coat it, tell it like it tis!!!
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this
Good Morning, It’s Friday, Ahhhhhhhh.
Well the strait forward approach is quick. And you tend to bounce back faster because you realize that this person was not the one for you in the first place. I had a guy once let me down in a kind and funny way, he sat down and pointed all the ways we were different and how we were not compatible. All you can do is be honest with as much sensitivity as possible. There is never an easy way to tell someone that you are no longer interested. But you can say this in a nice manner, that doesn’t cause emotional damage.
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this
Good morning and Happy Friday to Everyone!
I have often wondered why, when a person says, “We need to talk”, the presumption is made that this is the beginning of the end. Perhaps it simply means, I have some concerns that I want to get out in the open so they do not fester. So…we need to talk. Just a thought.
If you were being dumped, how would you want to find out? Do not insult my intelligence with a massive charade. I am a big girl. I can handle the truth. Tell me you want to be free. Of course I might want to know why. But, if the man chooses not to provide any, that’s okay. I am a woman and can conjure many words to provide my own answers. LOL! In turn, I will simply say it’s over. No elaborate plans to soften the blow. Just a simple It’s been real…Nice knowing you…This isn’t working out…You know, there are other women out there for you…There is somebody for everybody, but I am not the somebody for you… etc., etc.
Have a Powerful, Productive, Prosperous and Positive Day!!!
By MsUnderstood aka MsU
July 20, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
@Wise
I know i don’t know you personally but judging by your blog character i would have never match you up with such a guy. Just reading the issue you had with him, sound like a straight headache..whew..but then again i have a low tolerance level when it comes with dealing with men bs.LOL
By NCGirlfromATL
July 20, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this
Wise I have to agree with Dr. Kym & Cemeeli on this one. Be straight forward, don’t beat around the bush, but be tactful. The idea is not to hurt his feelings, but to be clear about your needs and your intentions. I think the worst part about a break up is the other person asking if there is something they can do to change your mind. UUUUGH!! Thankfully, I can’t recall having ever sunk to that depth, but hearing it is almost as bad as saying it. I think it’s interesting the various ways people break up. Of course, by email (been there), text message or some other impersonal form is the punk way out. I respect a person a lot more who can be adult enough to say it to may face, in a private location, b/c the public restaurant (which is chosen to try to avoid a meltdown) is another punk move in my opinion. If you’re going to break up w/ someone, you should expect and be respectful of their emotions. No one likes to be rejected, and it’s even more humiliating to have been manipulated into not having your emotions b/c it’s in public and you don’t want to cause a scene. The public place only benefits the breaker-upper…unless the breaker-uppee just doesn’t give a dayum and pours a pitcher of water in your lap in the middle of Macaroni Grill (happened at a party my parents went to…daaaaaaang!)
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this
Good morning to the sisters of the WLB and “thank you very much” for breakfast to all of the MLB (Men Love Booty) members**
If I were being let go I would prefer for a man to cut to the chase. No need for the last supper or anything like that… If what we had was special then I would hope that he’d sit me down somewhere private and break it to me in the same respectful and empathetic manner that he’d like from me if the shoe was on the other foot. This tactic has been used on me and it was alot easier on me because he gave me the reasons why he felt the way that he did. When no reasons are provided, the other person is left wondering “What happend?” and it’s hard to reach closure of that relationship with questions still lingering in your head and no answers from the person you cared for. With that conversation I understood exactly where we stood and moved on.
…So far as breaking up over a text message, I am guilty as charged. I only did this one time. Why? It sounds cold but honestly I didn’t care how he felt because I grew to dislike him that much in a short period of time. So, when he asked me what our status was via text one day I texted him back and told him that he was now single, no longer in a relationship-Nuff said.
That’s my .02 cents…
By CoCo
July 20, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this
Wise-Being up front and honest is always best. He will always respect you for that…. SJ where are you??
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this
Besides, a couple of months really is not much time invested in the relationship. It is still the getting to know you phase, the time when both parties are determining the longevity potential. The worst is to ignore the early warning signs until one day you wake up and regrettably admit you are still with the person.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this
I agree with you GAMan. There is no easy way to do it, so just say it. But also I agree with Lacey when she says no matter how you tell me just tell me. To pull a disappearing act or to avoid me is totally unacceptable and disrespectful..JMHO
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
Guys hear two things when we hear this Little feet or I’m bout to be dumped lmsao!!! I got a good visual of that!!!
Good looking out QC!
By QC
July 20, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this
I’m not the type to beat around the bush, i’m going to take you to a nice dinner, movie or nothing….trust that it is what it is…we are finished
i don’t find nothing funny about being dumped..just be a man about and tell QC…
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By MochaTreat
July 20, 2007 9:39 AM | Link to this
Good morning GAman, Slim Wise, Sexione, Foots, Dr, Kym, QC, NC, MO, Musing, Demi, SJ300, Leggs, Jake, Lacey, Lady, Cemeeli, Ms. U and crew
It’s Friday, It’s Friday, the end of the week and the last day…I’m going to get my birhday on…I’m party on…I’m going to get my homework on and I’m going to get my praise on all weekend long!!!
Have a wonderful weekend everyone!!:-)
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 9:40 AM | Link to this
Wise Those are some very important issues to have differences on. WOW! I was wondering what in the sam hill held you two together for these few months you have been dating. Yeah, if he wants to know why you feel it wouldn’t work, simply rehash those same things you described to me.
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
unless the breaker-uppee just doesn’t give a dayum and pours a pitcher of water in your lap in the middle of Macaroni Grill (happened at a party my parents went to…daaaaaaang!) lmsao
Wise Dude, we need to talk.
Dude What’s wrong Wisey, would you like to go to dinner?
Wise not really sure if that’s a good idea Weeellllll, I guess we could meet at the cafe’.
Dude Good, see you about 7. I can hardly wait…
Wise thinking awwww dayum Ok.
Later after dinner, during breakup dessert…
Dude So what’s on your beautiful mind, Wisey?
Wise I think we’re missing the compatibility mark, we’re just not meant for each other.
Dude what? But I think I luv you! Dude now knocking everything off the table onto the floor, except for dessert which ends up in Wise’s lap, begins to cry and begs for another chance
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
NCGirllfromAtlThat breaking up in public is for the drama queen/king. What happened at the party of you parents is a prime example.
Yeah ladies and gents..i think the majority of us agree. We just needs to know up front and honest. So that we can ‘get ghost’ and move on. NO ONE has time to waste….for real!!!
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
Miss U, you know my friend said the same thing to me! I think he sent his rep, he was saying all the right things, and it seemed that he was impressed by me in a lot of ways, but later, it became problematic. I am scratching my head on it myself too. He said something to me about the problem with “modern women” and I was like…ummmm HAVE WE MET?!. After seeing how he views women, I don’t know why that dude didn’t run for the hills after one week of talking to me!
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this
Good morning blogsville. Gentle hand on the lower back to the WLB. Woop Woop the mighty MLB.
GAMAN thats not right. You know I was preparing those grits for those that like them hella well done.
For Real Question: How the fug do you burn orange juice?
On topic: My last breakup was as cool as can be. I called her over and told her that it wasn’t going to work anymore. She wanted to move in together and get married and I wasn’t ready for that. Anyway, we talked for about 15 minutes and that was it. We didn’t speak for awhile but eventually she called back.
I don’t think breakups have to be that dramatic. Just tie it into a disagreement or something if you don’t have the heart to do it. For me if a chick starts getting real emotional or cuts back on the azz I start separating myself anyway.
WD was that you talking about the eye candy dude that you liked so much? Just wondering. How much younger was he ya little cradle robber. LOL
Special morning to Similac, Slim, Toe Jam, PP, WD(the heartbreaker), Sexi1 (enjoyed ya last night), Tazz (you know she’s a freak if she has azz in her name), T-Mango, NC, MOF and QCF, MSU, KB This sounds like gang nicknames.
Today is the THE TRUTHS Birthday. WOOHOO
By QC
July 20, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this
Thanks Sexi1
lol @ T-Mango
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…TGIF..regarding the topic…all depends on the situation..breaking up is mostly always hard..especially if you have history…Breaking up is completely different when u think about married and unmarried couples…unmarried couples…men are savvy…we can be complete azz holes and or do something crazy and force u to leave…and be the bad guy.tn order to get out of something we dont wanna be in.seems like women will stick it out…when u deal with married couples…its the opposite..men will stick it out..sleep on the couch and such while women are more direct and somewhat oold and cut throat…the get it in their heads that its over and they are leaving and they methodically put things in motion and leave you high and dry with just the clothes on your back and u may end up in a one bedroom on in your old twin bed at ya momma house…
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday MochaTreat Hope u enjoy your birthday and weekend.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
@ CoCo…whats the deal??
@MsU..imma need for you to be a little bit more understanding when it comes to men…build your tolerance level…your experience couldve been THAT bad..
By Foots
July 20, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this
Good Friday morning all!! Breakfast was nice, you guys did very well.
The last time I was dumped, it was a long-distance relationship from the beginning. He ended up telling me that he was breaking it off because I lived too far. Of course, there were a zillion other reasons why he did it, of which I can’t be sure of not a one. In the meantime between him breaking things off and him trying to get me back, I bought another house and moved. He was like “Why can’t we get back together?” I just used his excuse and said “If I lived too far two months ago and I moved farther out, you better believe I live way too far now.” He didn’t quite seem to get it. LOL!!
Wise The last time I dumped somebody, I told him that he was a good man and he deserved someone who would love him the way he’d wanted to be loved. To top it off with an extra appeal to his good sense, I told him that although I wanted that for him, he should want that for himself. Now how can somebody dispute that? “No, I don’t deserve to be loved the right way”? He could only agree with me.
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
Best Ways to End a Relationship Disclaimer: The following are for entertainment purposes only.
Force the person to end the relationship by belching, picking your nose at the table, passing gas at the restaurant, etc.
Avoid the person.
Leave a voicemail message. Or, change your voicemail message to say, “You have reached 777-9311. If you are Dumped Man/Woman (insert person’s name), please do not ever call me again. I no longer want to be in a relationship with you. Hve a nice life. All other callers leave a message after the tone. BEEP
Throw a party and make an announcement.
Tell him/her you are moving to Timbucktoo.
Leave a post-it note on his/her door or driver side window.
Hire a sing-o-gram to sing the top 10 break-up songs of all time.
Get a restraining order.
Fake your death.
Invite them to the Jerry Springer show.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this
Mo now singin Happy Birthday to Truth a la Marilyn Monroe, complete with a fly sundress and some stilletos Happy Biiirthday Sir Truuuuuth!! (wink) ;0) Have a great birthday Truth! Where is da party?!?!
SJ on your post regarding the married person breakup….you hit the nail on the head for the most part. Now I know I am not the average ex-so, I didnt ask my ex for a dime, child support or otherwise. And he could’ve taken everything he came with and a few other things and I would have cared less. I just wanted it to be over and the quicker (and with less drama) the better. I’ll admit that once I realized it was over, I started acting as such. No need to pretend anymore…
But the comment about the *twin bed at ya momma’s house was funny as hellz, SJ!!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this
Truth remember he said he was trying out something new…..Hot OJ to compete with Hot chocolate….lolololol
Ladies you had to be there to see it tho….
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this
TheTruth Is that why you kept trying to wear your birthday suit last night? hehehehe Happy Birthday Truth lol Yeah, we do sound kinda ruff when you put it like that.
SJ funny how the roles reverse, huh?
Wise that is classic, the ole switch-a-roo, that’s the jump-off for your convo with him…….Are you the same dude that I met _ months ago? You look like him, and you sound like him, but the words that are coming outta your mouth are different from his. Do you have an evil twin? lol
By MELO
July 20, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this
@Wise, he is Muslim and you are what?And u think he could be racist?Most muslims i know do not have a balanced view on issues including the dreaded Palestine-Israel issue. And they treat women like..well a little bit better than domestic animals!
If u are Christian, which i suspect, then u had starting off the relationship with major differences. Throw in the Palestinian question and u have potential for animated disagreemnts. So whats going to happen when u go o a period and u feeling kinda funny and like a raging bull.An explosion in the house.
PHEW! Just call him up..he is long distance anyway and say u going in a different direction with someone more compatible with you. End of story.
By abc
July 20, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
In an interview with Michael Vick that aired this morning, he said “don’t matter what happens with this, folks still gonna love me”.
What kind of crap is that? How delusional can one person be? Folks will love him while he’s in federal prison?! The NFL is going to let him play while he’s under indictment, but anyone who goes to a Falcons game or wears a Vick jersey is a straight-up fool.
On topic: If I’m getting dumped, I’d like to hear about it in plain language as soon as possible. I’d hope to deliver such bad news in the same way. You can’t really spare their feelings, so just inflict the pain and break it off clean. I’d tend to break off all contact, whether I was the dumper or the dumpee.
By Foots
July 20, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
Wise Oh yeah! You can always put on “Don’t Take It Personal” by Jermaine Jackson and just let him tell him. That should do it:
The time has come in my life For me to move on and Get on with my life.
Oh, but I don’t regret, no Every precious moment that we spent They were well spent, yes they were.
Don’t be sad, don’t be blue You have your whole life ahead of you. Love was here, now it’s gone So it’s time you keep moving on!
Don’t take it personal Take the bitter with the sweet Easy come, easy go. Don’t take it personal Take the bitter with the sweet Some good things come to an end.
No blame, no shame It was nice But sometimes thing do change We change, but we can still be friends. You have so much to Offer to someone else in their life If you reach out Oh yes you can.
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
LOL @ Sexione, ok..THAT was hilarious!oh wait, you don’t own any crystal balls do you!?
@The Truth, He is 31, but in terms of maturity, well, let’s just say he has some growing up to do.
Happy Birthday Mocha Treat & The Truth! I will have a drink in your honor this weekend, LOL
By Tazzee
July 20, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
Morning all!
It’s Friday!!!
If I were being dumped, I just want to be told. It would be nice if we could sit down and have a nice face-to-face but if not - just tell me, don’t pull a disappearing act.
Wise Apparently this guy already knows you two aren’t right for each other. It appears he’s trying to see if you will change for him - perhaps he thinks that your modern woman traits will disappear for a chance to get married. At any rate just tell him he’s not right for you, you’re not right for him - and if he’s patient you’re sure he’ll find the woman for him.
Jewel I had to chuckle to myself when reading your 9:30 comment because I was thinking two months! I can’t believe she wasted two months!!! LOL But I have to admit Wise did give it a try if she stayed in that for TWO MONTHS.
Truth I don’t know what to do with you ;-)
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
TRUTH a Happy Birthday too you!
What is up with all these July babies? My special day was lastweek the 11th. 7/11 n i’m still celebrating!!! I said lstwk, as long as my b-day flowers stay alive i was going to celebrate errday. So i change that water and arrange almost everynight. LOL@myself. Tonight i’m going to someone else’s birthday party at some Pizza joint in Buckhead…
By Foots
July 20, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TRUTH! And just for the record, that’s not my lower back!! Move your hand up about about 6 inches, okay?
SJ3G I must agree w/ your 9:49.
Jewel Any invitation to the Jerry Springer show should have most people run for the hills. WHY are there still people that show up there for that nonsense?!?
By SexyLeggs
July 20, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this
Good morning. Thanks guys for such an assorted breakfast buffet. I knew you’d come through. No let me read of that’s going on here.
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 10:13 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday MochaTreat, watch out for Truth, he may still be trying to wear his birthday suit! lol
Wise I knew you’d like that. No crystal balls, but some serious insight! hehehehe If this guy is long distance, give him a call, no need to make extensive arrangements. And if he has any crazy tendencies, definitely give him a call. lol
By Tazzee
July 20, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this
didn’t want this to get lost in the other post:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY THE TRUTH
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOCHA
Have awesome weekends and don’t do anything I wouldn’t do.
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 10:16 AM | Link to this
Happy birthday to The Truth and MochaTreat. Have a great B-Day weekend-
Hey QC
By Berry
July 20, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone, Comin out of Lurking status today.. (lightning blew out the power!heheheee), would anyone mind my nibblin a little on your breakfast treats? my stomach is “GROWWWWWWLIN” Anyway @ WISE….just thinking maybe you should just call him?!I had to let a guy down about a month ago, and it was really scary!! he kept lookin like he was ready to swing on me(yes…swing ya’ll!) so just be careful, it seems like so many people are unstable today emotionally. @TRUTH….hey there hun :) Truth sucking his teeth, cause he can’t stand this chic!
By CoCo
July 20, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
@ Wise It has been my experience that religious differences always cause issues…and yes its best to cut all ties and move on. @Mocha Treat and The Truth Happy BDay…enjoy!!! @ SJ I was wondering when you would chime in w/ ur .02. Funny and soooo true! btw (from yest) I am not celibate…LOL
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this
MochaTreat HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! Mo brings MochaTreat a cake w/a panther on it trimmed in blue and gold icing Here is your SWD-style cake!!! :0)
abc I will be going to Falcons games this season. There is a whole team of players outside of Michael Vick. So now why do I have to be a fool to support my team in my love of football?! And while I think what Mike said is a bit delusional, he might be right. The law allows athletes and entertainers to get away with so much that many people do still love them no matter what they have done. I wont comment on his guilt or innocence but to claim that people should abandon a whole team for one person is a bit ignorant dont you think?
By abc
July 20, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this
oh yeah, Happy Birthday, Truth!
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
July 20, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday Truth, My Bday was last week July 10th. Truth let me check the astrological chart..because surely you cant be a Cancer. Maybe you were born on a cusp.
By QC
July 20, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOCHA
Happy Birthday Sir Truth
QC finds a recipe to bake birthday cakes for our “birthday bloggers” i wonder do they know i can’t bake?
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this
Happy b-day…Truth and Mocha
By Foots
July 20, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday Mocha and Happy Belated B-Day to Cemeeli!!
By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream
July 20, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
What’s up Blog
Wise Diva, Slim, QC, Sexi1, GAMan, 4real and everyone else I missed
Breaking up with someone is delicate these days because people tend to have a loose screw that you never see until you tell them it’s over. IMHO, I would break it to him gently if he seems like the excitable type. Face-to-face is usually what I prefer.
Wise It seems like we are in the same boat this week! LOL. I have to cut someone from the starting line up as well. I feel bad about it, but with all the new fresh 1st round draft picks coming out this summer, his ways have gotten a one way ticket to another team! It’s time to trade up! We usually run on the same track together so if I see him there, then I will tell him there. Numbers, ringtones, and pics have already been deleted with a set of news to replace them with. I meet a really hot guy on a bike last night. He said he’s going to let me ride…. hmmm!
Well off to the mind numbing world of paper flipping. I’ll be back later. WLB Hold it down girls!!
By Lacey (formally purplepassion)
July 20, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MOCHA AND TRUTH
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this
they are having the wilson case being showned live on the net if anyone wants to watch it….just in case here is a link
http://www.gasupreme.us/
By QC
July 20, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this
Welcome to the blog Berry please, help yourself to the breakfast…
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday Mocha! Here’s your present…Mocha receives a $500 AMEX gift card, redeemable in Blogville dollars.
Happy Birthday Truth! Here’s your present…Truth opens his bag to find all the rocks Charlie Brown received on Halloween.
Hello Dr. Kym Are you going to any of the NBAF festivities?
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this
WD let me get the facts straight. please correct me if I’m wrong.
1) Together a few months
2) A FEW years younger than you
3) Muslim
4) Emotionally undeveloped
5) Out of town
6) No shared views
Did I miss anything?
Dudes do this all the time. Its called a booty call. Overlook all the bs and stay focused on the booty.
Berry why would I say that? LOL
Thanks for the birthday wishes. ((((MOCHA))) lets get together and check out each others birthday suit.
Did everyone enjoy the capt n crunch? I made them myself.
Happy late b’day Similac.
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
July 20, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone!!
Happy Birthday Truth and Mocha
I’ll be sure to drink one for you two tonight
On topic: Just be honest with me…don’t go through the whole, you’re a great person saga…because then I’ll be wondering…if I’m so great then what’s the problem. Just tell me you don’t feel the same way about me that I do about you….that will hurt, but I have to accept it.
By b.o.o.h.o.o.
July 20, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Happy friday, ya’all…Jewel, thanks for that blessing. Big fat sloppy wet kiss to Truth for your birthday, and a fantastic day to all the other b’days out there. Wise sounds like you’ve been overly patient and are overly concerned about breaking up. Just the racism part is a deal breaker for me, not to mention the “modern women” comment…don’t wast too much time or energy breaking up, and certainly no mental energy being concerned about how he will take it. It’s YOUR life! cheers in case I don’t make it back in today
By Raqi
July 20, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Put it like this: “You know how well bean pies make the perfect dessert following a pork chop dinner?…well that’s about how well we fit together.”
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Slim brings in huge cake for Truth & Mocha
Happy birthday Bips! hehehehehe
By QC
July 20, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this
Happy Belated Birthday DrKym
Hey Mochalatte’
By ut96
July 20, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this
How to break up with someone? Simple-Just be honest.Period.End of Story and don’t ever say “let’s be friends” because 99.9% the time women (and men) don’t really mean it.
By TRAVIS SMITH aka "The Blogger That Keeps It Real"
July 20, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
GOOD MORNING ROOM!!! in response to how to break up or how i want to be broken up with. if you break up with me please do it after sex!!! I think men and women should BE 21 about the situation and just sit down and talk to their mate about why the BREAK up has to occur!!! I know some women and men who just stop answering the phone,emails etc!!!
By MochaTreat
July 20, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
@MO Thanks for my panther cake!!
Thank you for my birthday wishes MO, T-Mango, Sexione, Tazzee, Cemeeli, and Wise
@Truth Happy Birthday fellow Cancer!! Don’t let me catch running around Naked!!
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this
Happy late b’day dr Kym.
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 10:38 AM | Link to this
Foots I NEVER watch Jerry Springer. What an insult to the human species!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Cases of mad dog 20/20 are being passed out for everyone to enjoy and drink….heck why not we all work tooooo dang gome hard…so (Hiccup) drink up….
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
@Raqi..LMAO (10:32)
By G
July 20, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this
Wow! It seems like WD had nothing in common with dude. The only logical reason of being with him is “eye candy”. That’s a classic reason for wasting your time with someone. The worst kind of candy………”the rapper looks sweet, but the taste is sour.”
By Demi
July 20, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
Alvin: I act like an a*******hole, do disrepectful things, or pay her a few hundred after sex.
Demi I simply let her know how I feel about her and why I do not wish to continue a relationship with her…IN PERSON.
Good Morning to All!!!
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
*@Sexione U knw if Wise says that do dude he is going to be trying to figure out the delusion thats been there this entire TWO MONTHS!!! Not a chance in hellz this relationship is to last.
MO I love birthday cake can i have some. But first can we remove that blue and gold trimming(leave the panther) and trim with burgundy and gray. CHS!!!
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this
Dang now too many people logged on..and the server just went down….they should have known everyone wanted to see…or I am just a legalhead who loves this kind of stuff….Maybe NC understands….lololol
By MochaTreat
July 20, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this
QC, GAman, Foots Lacey and Jewel Thanks for the birthday shout out! Jewel Thanks for the AMEX gift card!
By Carol
July 20, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this
I find it interesting to lurk on this blog …. I’ve only been divorced a year after 20 years of what I thought was a good marriage (go figure I would be the last to know). My question would be, have you ever discussed the things that bother you about the relationship? If I’m reading this right, you want to know how to break up because you’re not happy with the relationship. Even think he might not be either? Have you ever bothered to discuss the things you don’t like with him. The idea that people can’t/don’t/shouldn’t change is ridiculous. Life is all about change - and relationships are all about compromise which brings about change. As a society, we seem to have come to believe that we can throw people away like sandwich bags; if relationship isn’t always happy/good/up it must be wrong/worthless/best to chuck it. Insane.
By Berry
July 20, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this
Thanks QC for the warm welcome! Truth, sorry, I didn’t know it was your Birthday! Hope your day is a GREAT one, and you get all the birthday licks (heheheee) you desire! Wow this explains a lot…you LEO’s are a trip!!
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this
Best Breakup Songs
Tailor the song to the dumpee’s favorite music genre.
For the country-western:
A Bad Goodbye
Achy Breaky Heart
Another You
Better Things to Do
Cold Day in July
Home Ain’t Where His Heart in Anymore
I’m Moving On
Breakup Songs of the 70s
Fifty Ways to Leave Your Lover
After the Love is Gone
All By Myself
Go Away Little Girl
Heart of Glass
Kiss and Say Goodbye
It’s Too Late
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this
@ Truth and Mocha..happy bday…what do you yall have planned?
@ Coco…glad to hear u are active…have a seat..u can stay and be a regular on the blog…we have reached out celibate female quota..not excepting anymore
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
July 20, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this
Kym HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!!
By Berry
July 20, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday to MOCHA, and Cemeeli you guys have any plans for the week-end?…please be sure and do all the things I cannot!! (stuck home with the chillins)
By MochaTreat
July 20, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this
@Lady D Thanks!
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
July 20, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this
I like Raqi’s idea. Go with that one. Keep it light and funny.
By Tazzee
July 20, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this
abc well from now on you can consider me a ‘straight up fool’ because I will be in the GA dome with my red and black! And if Vick is playing I’ll be cheering for him too.
Dr. Kym Happy Belated Birthday!
I saw someone mention NBAF events. I will be in ATL this weekend to attend three theater events. gosh I miss Atlanta, can’t wait to move back
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this
Foots I knew exactly where my hand was. (The Truth now smiling)
Someone brought up a very good point. There are some emotionally unbalanced folks out there nowadays. For some a phone call is the best thing.
I think if you are observant a breakup should be a relief. If you watch the signs its always obvious so prepare yourself.
Right now some dude somewhere is sitting in a black suit in his apartment with bean pies all over the place saying “My Wisey Poo has left me”. WHY? WHY? WHY? (Fists raised to the heavens)
Thanks *Slim. I got it. Smooches
By MochaTreat
July 20, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
@SJ300 and Berry Thanks! I don’t have any plans…any suggestions?
@Cemeeli I hate to inform you…but there will be no removing of the BLUE&GOLD trim!!
By abc
July 20, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
No, I don’t think a Falcons boycott would be ‘ignorant’. I think the team’s management and the NFL would prefer to try and ignore the indictment. I think fans should not let them ignore it. But, I’m an animal lover, advocate of animal rescue; these charges are beyond abhorrent to me.
That indictment is 18 pages long, with 84 counts. While I’d like to maintain a perspective of ‘innocent until proven guilty’, I have a hard time imagining that of all those documented counts, he’s not guilty of at least some of them.
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
July 20, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
GA.Man I love watching CourtTV….If I had to do it all over again I would become a lawyer. I logged on and the server was down as well….
By flabredtxraised
July 20, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this
Morning Everybody, TGIF, I just wanna know why if its a mutual decision to end it, WOMEN continue to call even if WE agree ITS OVER.
I know the PIPE is good but you holdin up traffic sitting in the turning lane sexy. Lets truly be adults Ladies and make a decision that we can agree its over while you keep your weekly reservation for a late night snack.
There is no cutting to the front of the line and please call, you were not just in the neighborhood (to the crazy stalkers)Just make up your mind babygirl!
By TRAVIS SMITH aka "The Blogger That Keeps It Real"
July 20, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this
TOP TEN BREAK UP EXCUSES!!!
10. Your job is affecting the relationship we never see each other
8. The doctor said their is no cure for it
6. Its not you its your KIDS!!!
4. Im looking for a stable relationship and its not with you!!!
2. Im looking for someone MUCH BIGGER AND BETTER IN BED!!!!!
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday MochaTreat & Truth, hope you guys have a great weekend.
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
You guys gave great suggestions, I am sure you are helping a lot of folks who have to do some breaking up.
By Tazzee
July 20, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this
shoot, I have on my lavender Falcons polo shirt today
I will be baking a red velvet cake with cream cheese icing for all the birthday bloggers this evening. Meet me at Hartsfield tomorrow morning at xx:xx am to pick up your slices…
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
July 20, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
Truth and Mocha
If you had one wish what would your Birthday wish be?
By abc
July 20, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
Vick and one of his partners would execute dogs by pouring buckets of water on them and electrocuting them; by .22 caliber pistol shots; by hanging; by slamming them onto pavement. You can be a fan of someone like that?
By QC
July 20, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli you went to Carver HS?
I had a lot of cousins that went to Carver…..
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this
I guess I’m just a hot head nut for Football abc. I’m going I can’t even lie, I’m going to the game, it’s poppin. Yes, I don’t agree with everything Vick has done but I still love the the game.
Wise I’m glad I told you to be easy on his emotions I didn’t read the post regarding some of his characteristics. It would seems that he might be looking for a wife, yeah you better break it off*, of course unless your ready to jump the broom.
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
Truthy You’re welcome…I will need photos, videos and full report on my desk first thing Monday morning regarding the weekend festivites. Powerpoint is recommended but not required.
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
Berry Tonight i’m going to a b-day party. Tomorrow depends on the weather i may be at The Flags with a friend…big MAYBE.
MochaTreat … I’m just saying, the cake would taste somuch better. im just looking out for your better good. Burgundy -n- Grey fo life!!!
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this
Great questions Carol!
Personally, I like to keep dating light in the beginning, but since this guy wasn’t in Atlanta, we relied on conversations, and they just went to the heavy topics, way faster than I usually would. So yes, we talked, ad nauseum, debated, and argued, but it seemed to head to “how much are you willing to bend” discussions.
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Carol sorry for your unfortunate breakup. You bring up some great points but for those that have bben single for awhile we do have that mindset. People can be swapped in and out without notice. As I’ve said many times we are ALL “selfish bastards”. WD is a prime example. LMAO I think she should start eating bean pies and handing out newspapers with her man. She apparently doesn’t think so.
SJ I used to do this elaborate thing for the bd but I stopped a few years ago. It usually involved buying something expensive and wasting tons of money. At this point my boys take me to lunch and we laugh about how old we’re getting. Its “The Simple Things”.
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
And a Happy Belated Birthday to all that were missed!!!
SJ you stoopid!! we have reached out celibate female quota..not excepting anymore funny!!!
cemeeli And while he’s trying to figure it out, she can make her exit! lol
The worst kind of candy………”the rapper looks sweet, but the taste is sour.” I like that, G, and I agree!
By Berry
July 20, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this
Mocha, sometimes when I just need a break…(from kids, work, fam….etc), I will play tourist and book a Hotel room here in the city. I try to stay in an area I really don’t know too well (much of the A), and go sight seeing all by myself. In the evening I check out the hotel bar and mingle. You can really meet some cool people (who really are tourists) and open up a lot of doors for yourself. This was how I met the last one….Oh..on second thought, maybe just talk to em and leave! hahaaaa (can’t seem to keep myself out of trouble!!)
By SexyLeggs
July 20, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
Happy Birthday Truth
By Foots
July 20, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
flatbread (and yeah, I know what your name is)
The times when I actually kept in touch with an ex after a mutual breakup it was because we were friends before we got together or established a good friendship during the relationship. Some folks need to be thrown away, but some people you keep in your life because they add value. You don’t throw away good friends and good people because you both agree that something romantic didn’t work out. Good people are rare these days.
If this is happening to you, think more highly of yourself than to think it’s just about your wang. Sometimes a woman can see more in you than just that.
Besides, she never knows if she might need your help the next time she moves.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
What up Blog Fam!!!
Truth That wasn’t Orange Juice that I burned. It was Orange Now & Laters. I was trying something different. My bad.
Wise Have s_x with him first then breakup with him. A man can handle anything after sex.
Dude: Awwww man that was wonderful.
Wise: Yeah it was better than I thought it be.
Dude: Huh? What did you say?
Wise: ummm ummm me to I really enjoyed you but I need to get something off my chest.
Dude: Again???? Dang girl you are a machine. Give me about 15mins..
Wise: No not that… Here it is: you are younger than I am, you are Muslim, you don’t live in ATL, we don’t EVER agree on important things, I you could be racist, we have completely different world views, You want a wife and children, like yesterday, I make more money than you, and you hates it,
Dude: Huh?? I’m sorry baby I wasn’t listening. You ready for round two?
Wise: WTF!!!! I want to break up with you.
Dude: After round two?
Wise: No you stoopid MF. I don’t ever want to see you again.
Dude: Soooo, no round two?
By b.o.o.h.o.o.
July 20, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
Ya’all got me confused ‘cause I was wonderin’ what sign Trut is…accd. to AJC horoscopes, today is still in Cancer, but some say it’s on the “cusp” so we can give some leo cred there, which seems appropriate…Sensitive(Cancer)and egotistical(Leo) :)
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
July 20, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this
Thanks for all the Birthday wishes. Not sure if I will be doing NBAF this year. But I would love to go see the Kenny Leon production(the name of the play I forget).
By Foots
July 20, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this
flatbread (and yeah, I know what your name is)
The times when I actually kept in touch with an ex after a mutual breakup it was because we were friends before we got together or established a good friendship during the relationship. Some folks need to be thrown away, but some people you keep in your life because they add value. You don’t throw away good friends and good people because you both agree that something romantic didn’t work out. Good people are rare these days.
If this is happening to you, think more highly of yourself than to think it’s just about your wang. Sometimes a woman can see more in you than just that.
Besides, she never knows if she might need your help the next time she moves.
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 11:17 AM | Link to this
flabred We deal with the same thang from you guys, and we have to woman up and stand firm…….if it’s over, it’s over! So maybe you should try doing the same…stand strong! But of course, y’all will go back and forth just to get the cheerios. lol heck, I’ve even changed my # a time or two to make my point
By kimmie
July 20, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this
Raqi - Your 10:32 post, HILARIOUS!!
Carol - IMHO, working with someone and expecting them to change might be worth it if you are married. Wise and this guy are just dating. The religious differences, racism and caveman views on women are enough not to want to stick around because they are tough to overcome. Better do it now, than have to go through a divorce later.
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
It does not sound as if he is trying to keep dating. I don’t think I would date someone that was of another religious preference than mine own. It doesn’t leave much room for compatibility. Things like this should be pointed out when breaking up.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
Sexi Are you still going to Crickets 2nite? Don’t punk out now.
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this
Nipples that I won the lottery tonight and after that me and all the ladies of the WLB could lay in bed (naked) and really have a heart to heart talk. Then they’d take advantage of me. Freakiest first and then work their way back. Dam I feel violated just thinking about it.
Gaman what line of work are you in? If you don’t mind me asking.
By MsUnderstood aka MsU
July 20, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TRUTH & Mocha Treat @ SJ been there done that.. I’m drain out babbby!!
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this
@QC Yes i came out ‘93. What year your cuz came out?
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this
For Real you are so crazy, hahahaha LOL. In way that made sense though, excluding the having s_x part.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
@ Truth..i feel you on the simple things…a bottle and a good meal and i am good
@ Mocha Treat…try papadeaux’s and 300 bowling alley…hard to give suggestions ..need your type of crowd and age..
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this
The Best Way to Breakup With ABC
Wear a Michael Vick jersey.
Say, “I HATE DOGS!!!* He will think you are talking about man’s best friend, not him.
Use BIGGER words than he does.
By Foots
July 20, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
^5 kimmie You’re right. If you have material difference early on, why would you try to stay to make it work? What is the benefit to either of you? The point of dating, if you want it to lead to a LTR, is to find someone compatible enough with you in the ways that matter to you. If you already have all of the info you need about your possible compatibility, why prolong the agony?
Marriage is different. If you KNEW you were incompatible when you got married, but did it anyway, you definitely have a problem. But because you stood up there and promised them Forever, you should try to make the best of things before scrapping the relationship.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this
QC How did your friend like the restuarant?
Heyyy Celibant free Coco.
abc I understand that you are a dog lover but beast over man never. Did you know the VAWA now covers pets but there is no provision in the VAWA that covers men from voilent acts committed against them by women? Lets get our priorities straight.
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
LOLOLOL! Foots @ your 11:12 post…and again @ 11:14. I read that and did not want to expend the energy…it’s a fun Friday!
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this
ForReal what, are you reading my mind? lol I was just thinking………hmmmmmm
lmsao @ TheTruth and that wish, I am soooo not surprised! Now get dressed!! lol
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this
abc I am not a Vick fan per se and I think what he did to those dogs, directly or indirectly was horrible as well. And I do agree that the NFL should take action, though I will admit that I am not sure what that should be. But I dont think that a whole team should suffer for the off-field misadventures of ones of it team members. If you want to make an example of Vick, do so(which will be done anyway, right or wrong) but again, dont punish everyone for the indiscretions of one. Punish the one and move on.
Mocha you got it on the cake chica!! Panthers for life!!
Cemeeli I tell you what, since my grandfather used to teach at Carver, how bout I make you a cake, burgundy-n-gray icing? I can appreciate Panther love. :0)
Hey SJ and For Real
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this
Truth i am a legaleagle or legalhead..whichever you prefer…But i only handle disability cases…Social security and workman comp. I will leave all the other stuff to NC and the rest…that divorce thang is brutal…not to even mention Misdemeanor cases as well as felony cases……
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this
Sean J try papadeaux’s and 300 bowling alley That’s a great suggestion. What time are you picking me up?
Jewel Breaking up with ABC…use BIGGER words than he does LOLOLOL!
By C tha1
July 20, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this
Abc you seem like a sincable guy, but why do you wish to talk about MV and the Falcons on a dating website? Anyway I’ll indulge this. You’re an animal lover … cool, I’m not. Even though I grew up on a farm with animals I’m just not the biggest animal lover. I won’t defend MV, but I’ve been trying to figure something out… why are people so apalled at this? O.k., its gory … a bloodsport. But as someone who has had a run in with the law, a Class 6 felony is a step above a misdemenor. That’s neither here nor there. However, it seems the media, the Feds, corporate businesses, and the general public are placing this crime above or on the level murder, rape, or even snitching on the CIA, felonies much higher than a Class 6. Your thoughts.
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this
Jewel LOLOLOL I needed that laugh. ABC, dude that is your break-up scene for real!
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 11:40 AM | Link to this
BOOHOO the higher powers all agreed when they created me they hit the jackpot so instead of putting me in one horoscope slot they spread me out over 2. That way 2 different signs get the gift of The Truth. Technically I’m a cancer. Now do you understand sweety?
Foots you are a devious chick. I read that “Besides, she never knows if she might need your help the next time she moves”. Thats wicked. LOL
Kimmie you can hold on to those “caveman views” comments. That really offends some of us that really have those views. LOL
ABC I’m an animal lover myself but I don’t think they should boycott the Falcons. I don’t support male homosexuality either but I’m sure at least one of those dudes dates the man in brown. I wouldn’t boycott the team for that guys actions.
By Staceye
July 20, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this
The last dude I was dating came at me with that, “I still want us to be cool because I respect you a lot and you are a good person, you’re attractive” blah blah blah! I am like, “yo kick rocks”! I don’t want to be your friend. Just leave me the h#ll alone! Now months later he is using dumb excuses to text me….such as a book that I have of his and one he has of mine. I am like I am not that beat for a book that I already read. Are you really dying for that book back? I mean, really??? My girls says it’s just an excuse to see me. What do you guys think it is. SJ3000 , Truth & Jake*…I know you guys got something to say!
By QC
July 20, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this
Cemeeli i’m not sure but one of my cuzins was MissCarverHS her name is Brentevia Harvey
ForReal we’re going Sunday…..
By flabredtxraised
July 20, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this
I am using HER WORDS stop being childish with the name calling. Yeah im a so called nice guy, I was raised by my mother who couldnt find a good man. Yes, I know how to treat a LADY as such, when she conducts herself as one but if SHE ADMITS SHE ONLY WANTS SEX from me and im looking for something more, I have to make the best decision I can for myself.
What Honest Black Man is going to turn down a beautiful black queen who they shared some time with even though it may not work out in the long run.
Im not looking for a babymomma im looking for a Queen to start my legacy with so spare me with your feelings about how SOMEONE ELSE DID YOU.
Ladies, if you have been intentionally wronged in the past, ill apologize for the last mans mistakes, but if im giving you 110% dont analyze me anticipating a mistake on my part so you can say, “just like the last one” its hard enough to treat a good woman like she deserves when you have beautiful ladies everywhere who deserve a good man!
On that note all I can say is, “IF YOU THINK YOUR LONELY NOW, WAIT UNTIL TONITE, GIRL!!!!!”
By CoCo
July 20, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this
@For Real…hey you. Happy Friday to ya…any plans for the weekend?
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this
Best Ways to Breakup With Truth, For Real SeanJ
Say, “I’m celibate today.”
Next Friday Say, “I’m celibate today.”
Friday after next Say, “I’m celibate today.”
By MHamm
July 20, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this
I agree with Carol on this 1! I got a pretty good feeling that those issues were not discussed between her and him. However, I don’t think the vast majority of us take into consideration that WE approach whenever I am the one having problems with how OUR relationship is going. So we think we are doing the right thing when we bring it to our significant other when some preventive maintenance by both parties Together beforehand could’ve cleared up most of the issues. Hey it could’ve improved your situation WISE DIVA… that’s if you really wanted to give this brother a sincere bean pie try lol jp about the bean pie part!!
And that friend thing… please!! For me the only ways that could ever be possible is: 1. My feelings never developed strongly for this person or have diminished. 2. I’m the one who brought it to the table about breaking things off.
Case in point: I have a friend that I dated a few years back to whom I kept in contact with sparringly. She surprised me with asking me for advice on her dating situation. I was even more amazed at the fact that I was able to give it in a honest and enciteful manner to her. My feelings never grew for her… and I wanted them to because she was a delightful person. This woman who I just finished dating I can’t say the same for her. TOO MANY QUESTIONS LEFT UNANSWERED… TOO STRONG OF A FEELING FOR HER NOW AS WE SPEAK!!
By SixFive
July 20, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this
Wise Diva,
Surely whoever you’re dating reads your blogs. No?
You’ve already indirectly told him.
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
lmsao @ Jewel
ForReal you remember my favorite drink?
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
July 20, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this
Okay my only comments on Vick today…
First some background, When the story first broke about Michael Vick’s involvement back I believe 2-3 months a U.S. Senator or Representative(who’s name escapes me at the moment) sent Roger Goodall a letter letting him know that he was very unhappy to hear about these charges. The Senator/Rep(who’s name escapes me) reminded Mr. Goodell that he was the chairman of the Congressional Committee that looked into steroid use by athletes. In other words he fired a warning shot over Goodell’s head and said get on it before I do. A month or so later, enter the Feds to investigate. Now people have stated at sicking levels that it is not a Federal issue. It became a Federal issue when those dogs were transported across state lines for illegal purposes..(interstate) Also, the federal government has ran numerous sting operations-even here in Georgia into illegal dog fighting. This is not the first time this has happen and will not be the last. I am no Mike Vick fan(or Fakecons fan) and never have been. But wrong is wrong and the Federal prosecuters(sp) running Vick’s case to my understanding have a 95% conviction rate which means they didnt just pull these charges out of their behinds.
I can understand Mike Vick fans being upset but those are the breaks period. True Fakecon fans like the ones I know were fans before Mike Vick was a gleem in his momma’s eye and have only the best interest of their team at heart.
I have spoken my peace and counted to three on this mess
By Raqi
July 20, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
hmmm??!!
By MHamm
July 20, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this
LOL@Jewel!! Hey people truth be told I feel that we all have to do a better job at breaking it off with the person we have been dealing with. We leave no room for apologies and forgiveness with the ways that we do so. The climax many times have more of a negative impact than the improprieties themselves. It can speed up the healing process for both parties by lessening the load of baggage for the next person… and depending on the individual you’ve broken it off with IT COULD POSSIBLY SAVE YOUR LIFE!!
By Demi
July 20, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this
Happy Birthdays to Mocha and Truth
Kym you should have told me sooner, I would have had Zane’s midget farmers pay you a visit…in groups of twos…for your birthday, LOL Stay Bless Sis.
By Bob
July 20, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this
Good Morning - there are no easy ways but if done right you will gain a friend for life - honesty because no one likes to be used for pleasure and most of us need someone to talk to honestly regardless of pain - so forget dinner and just sit down and talk let them know that you don’t want second best and that your soulmate is still out there
By Lacey (formally purplepassion)
July 20, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this
WHAT DOES A KISS TASTE LIKE??
One day a teacher had a taste test with her students. She picked a boy to do the first test. She blindfolded him, put a Hershey kiss in his mouth and asked, “do you know what it is?” No, I don’t said the the little boy. “Okay, I’ll give you a clue. It’s the thing your daddy wants from your mom before he goes to work.” Suddenly, a little girl at the back of the room yelled, “Spit it out!” It’s a piece of AZZ!”
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this
Sexione u change your #. Well i guess after harrassment that is an opt. I just get a male to answer phone a couple times and that will do it. ALways just a friend or husband of one of my girls that says nicely. Hey dude she’s not interested.
QC Ms. B Harvey must have been b4 my time or after. I don’t remember her.
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
Suggested by MHamm Hey people truth be told I feel that we all have to do a better job at breaking it off with the person we have been dealing with
Slim standing at the podium with martian man headband on
Blogsville..Here Ye, Here Ye I’m starting a break-up rally. I say we take our torches, bats, and butter knives out into this cruel world and break up with all of our significant others, cut friends, husbands,bfs, gfs, and teachers this weekend. I don’t want to see any “Let’s be Friends…It’s me not you…my goldfish died and it’s just not a good time for me…or I have suddenly been drafted to go fight in the war on French Fries.” We must be firm and forthright! We must not exhibit angst or cowardice! And Off with Your Heads!….Oops wrong speech.
When I say ITS, you say OVER!
ITS
crickets, crickets
I said, when I say ITS, you say OVER!
ITS
crickets, crickets
By b.o.o.h.o.o.
July 20, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this
mmmm…red velvet cake, wish it were my birthday! thanks for straightening me out, trut’. and let me join “stacye” in getting the men’s advice: why would a guy keep calling after two years of living several states away? based on past experience, it’s in hopes of a booty call, but that’s pretty long range thinking.
By QC
July 20, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli, not sure what year she came out but all of the Harveys, Collins, & Harrisons were all my 1st cuzins….just like the Kimbro’s at Therell HS are my 1st cuzins hey Demi
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this
Slim wondering where did everybody go
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this
Is it me, or is this topic dying faster than the only black male actor in a movie? LOL!
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this
Slim I know i heard you say you was having a good Firday but you went WAAAAAYYYYY left field on that one.
LOL,while trying to figure what kinda sorority/faturnity…is this some strange MODERN cult?
A sista aint into that corporate break-up with my folks, move to Isreal, marry some dude that’s married to all the WLB and kids err where type of cup. WTH???
By PK
July 20, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this
Roses are red, violets are blue, dude I’m just not that into you.
By Staceye
July 20, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this
Oh well…I’m out for the day….enjoy your weekend and be safe…please Slim do not get arrested for pimpin’ Truth & SJ3000.
By MHamm
July 20, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this
LMAO@SlimOne… Sweethaeart I am a rare breed!! I guess that’s why I am single now. Women be like “can dis (add expletive here or just say brotha lol) be real??”
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this
cemeeli yes, but that’s only after ignoring (and firmly stating “don’t call me again”) for awhile. This one would always say, “I’ll leave you alone if you want me to”, but would always resurface at a later date. No need to go thru all the changes, just change the # and call it a day. lol
Slim OVER!!
lmsao @ Lacey
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this
Hey Foots how are you
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this
Jewel Is it me, or is this topic dying faster than the only black male actor in a movie LOL! The first thought I had was Jada Pinkette in Scary Movie. Did her debut last more than 34 seconds? lol
Joke
At her wit’s end, the young wife finally took pen in her hand and wrote to a lovelorn columnist:
“I’m afraid I married a s_x maniac. My husband never leaves me alone-he makes love to me all night long, while i’m in the shower, while i’m cooking breakfast, while I’m making the beds and even while I’m trying to clean the house. Can you tell me what to do?
Signed me, Worn-Out
P.S Please excuse the jerky handwriting.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this
@ Slim…10ish…wear red dress capris.red thong..red heels..u can pick the shirt
@ Moeisha…whats good?
By Demi
July 20, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this
QC Hey you!!!
Some punk boy s**:
I sent text messages to all my lady friend and past lovers (most of whom I still talk to) I was nice knowing you, but I now longer have any need for female friends.
some never text me back…most left some Al Qater like texts and email
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this
Question for the WLB: If a guy was looking to meet a woman that was sincere about wanting to get married or have a ltr, what do you think he should look for and where should he look?
This is an honest question. I want to hear a womans point of view.
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
Question for the WLB: If a guy was looking to meet a woman that was sincere about wanting to get married or have a ltr, what do you think he should look for and where should he look?
This is an honest question. I want to hear a womans point of view.
Jewel you ain’t right. LMAO
By For Real
July 20, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
Sexi Your favorite is Red Bull and MD 20/20 right? lol.. I remember but you will have to say *Sexi needs a Long Beach For Real to the bartender in order to get your drink.
Slim Put the Irish Coffee down and please step down from your boss’s desk people can see up your skirt. Oh and you do realize it’s Friday don’t you?
Hey Mo I got your song coming up.
Hey back atcha Celibant free Coco. I don’t know what I will be doing this weekend. There are so many people in town I may just let them have the city this weekend.
By QC
July 20, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
IT’S OVER, IT’S OVER, IT’S OVER
QC don’t have a man; just agrees with SlimOne, did’nt wanna keep hearing the dayum crickets!
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this
Joke #2
Having escorted the young lady home from their first date, the rather reserved man was invited in for a nightcap. As the chick prepared the drinks, the fellow strolled around, feeling rather uneasy, admiring her apartment.
“Be Careful if you sit on the couch,” she cautioned. “If you press down on the arm and pull forward on the seat while pushing against the back cushion, it turns into a bed.”
By lucky
July 20, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
My ex broke up by not coming home just never showed up after 6 yrs> We have a son together He had been cheating all long in the relationship. So let it be I hope they are Happy. God has a better plan, plus I deserve better. We as women will stick it out but a man will not. So to each its on I am not bitter mad at first But things worked themselves out, there are a lot of nice guys in the ATL. I feel for her.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this
@ Kym…this is my final comment on the Vick situation….i have is back/support him..just like i would have anyone who looks like me back.including yours and abc’s..when they are are right i will have it..and when they are wrong i would have..i read abc’s comments and they are funny..yall kill me..u never know when u will need your people….yall worse than them..
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this
Sean J So i’m going to wear capris w/a shirt that i can pick out all under the red dress you want me to wear? Do you realize how hot it is outside to be wearing all that ish?
Truth If a guy was looking to meet a woman that was sincere about wanting to get married or have a ltr, what do you think he should look for and where should he look? Well as far as what he should look for, the guy would need to first figure out what type of qualities he wants his wife to have.
By Demi
July 20, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this
regardless of how nasty a person breaks up with you…after the age of 25, you should be able to handle your emotions like an adult. Instead of a acting like a two year old child
Another thought, some people just enjoy hurting people because they can. My ex was pi$$ off at the way I handle our breakup…verycoolcalmandcollect…
well she did hook me up with up with the girl I am with now, so we’re cool.
By Harvey
July 20, 2007 1:10 PM | Link to this
99% of you girls think you are breaking up in the kindest way when in fact you are doing it the worst possible way.
This is the biggest bunch of claptrap I have ever read:
“I told him that he was a good man and he deserved someone who would love him the way he’d wanted to be loved. To top it off with an extra appeal to his good sense, I told him that although I wanted that for him, he should want that for himself. Now how can somebody dispute that? “No, I don’t deserve to be loved the right way”? He could only agree with me”
Trust me when I say this is infact the worst possible way to end a relationship — you are dumping someone, and then patronizing them on top of it. It doesn’t help, it hurts.
In actuallity the best way to a dump a guy, from his standpoint, is to firmly tell him face to face that you don’t want to see him anymore for specific X,Y,Z, reasons, provide examples, and say that’s it.
Girls don’t want to be confrontational but giving a guy a specific short list of clear reasons why you want out is, in fact, the absolutely easiet way to let someone go, because they can understand it and move on in very short order. It works a heck of a lot better than the wishy washy nonsense written above.
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this
Joke #3
A man was cruising in his open sports convertible and stopped beside an attractive young thing & invited her to take a ride. As she got in, she slyly informed him that she was a witch and could turn him into anything she wished.
“Go ahead and try!” he answered with a smile. She leaned against him and whispered something in his ear. And sure enough, he turned into a motel.
QC Thanks for your support. Slim now sending ‘break-up’ messages to all of QC’s soon-to-be bf’s.
By b.o.o.h.o.o.
July 20, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this
@PK - yea, nice and simple! Good on the jokes, ya’ll
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this
enjoying the jokes
ForReal dang, is that the secret code phrase? lol
QC I feel ya, me either! lol
Truth I don’t know why I feel like this is a trick… This type of woman can be found various places. Look for? Open communication, interest in those things, family lifestyle (if she has kids), maturity….to name a few. I still feel like this is a trick…….Truth can’t be trusted… hehehehe
By QC
July 20, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this
lol @ Slim
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 1:20 PM | Link to this
Breaking News
Michael Vick was seen sitting on the 50 yard line of the field singing Who Let the Dogs Out!
just kidding
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this
Truth On your question…My honest opinion is only the man himself can determine what characteristics, behaviors and qualities he wants/needs in a wife. Only he can identify and prioritize the things that are important to him. As I date, I found that that list is different for each man.
Where should he look? Go to places, participate in activities and join organizations where there will be women with interests similar to those he holds-like minded people…stay out of the club and the strip club.
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this
Slim Auight u been in the pot today. Are you at work? You’ve had me laughing all day.
QC I agree b/c my friend (he doesn’t know he will be) is just that, a friend. I have a feeling i will be using some of these suggested ‘how 2 brk up’ post from here real soon.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this
@ Slim…lol…i meant the dressy capris…my bad…i was actually trying to see what i would want u to wear being that u are a slimmy…i am so use to azz and curves that look good in anything and nothing at all…not saying u wouldnt look good in any and every..
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this
Sexi why do you think this is a trick? I really want to know. I need this for my own information. And yes, I can be trusted.
Slim you can do better than that. Give a dude the inside scoop.
By Niyahh
July 20, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this
Unity Concert: A Night of High Praise, Sunday, July 22nd @ 6pm Tabernacle Baptist Church 475 Boulevard SE, featuring: Atlanta Masonic Choir, Robert Weaver/the Weaver Chorale, James Pulline & Remnent, Courtney Jones & Proclamation, Bishop Lawrence & Open Door Radio Choir, His Word in Motion Dance Team, TBC Anointed Voices & James Jackson & Atlanta Praise: Mistress of Ceremony Monica Lisa Stevenson. Great Door Prizes to be given away along with “Gas Vouchers”, come enjoy some great Singing & have a high time in the Lord
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this
Ok Mo I know I said I would have your song but in honor of Wise soon be ex I have to play the world greatest begging song of all times.
Like da hear it, here it go
Girl, you know I love you No matter what you do And I hope you understand me Every word I say is true ‘Cause I love you
Baby, I’m thinkin’ of you Tryin’ to be more of a man for you And I don’t have much riches But we gonna see it through ‘Cause I love you
oh…oh…oh…
Some men need lots of women For their passions to feel But I want only you, girl If it’s in, if it’s in, if it’s in God’s will ‘Cause I, ‘cause I love you
I, I love you, baby With all my heart and soul Oh, oh, oh, oh Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
I Love you I need you I want you I need you
Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh your love makes me grow stronger It keeps goin’ on, oh, baby I’m glad I found you I just love to be around you, oh, baby You’ve been so good to me Oh, baby Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh
Hmm, hmm Hmm…hmm…mmm… You know One time things got so bad until I had to go to one of my friends and talk to him And I told him, I said, “You know I’m having problems with the woman that I love It seems that I call her on the phone and I just can’t get her to answer And then I went to her house and I saw her car parked in the driveway I knocked on the door, but still my knocks went unanswered And then I went home and I-I watched television until television went off And then I played my records until I just didn’t want to hear them anymore And finally I went to bed, but I found myself waking up a few hours later And the tears were running down my face” And my friend told me, he said, “Lenny, You just oughta forget about her” But I told my friend, I said, “You know Maybe you’ve never been in love like I’ve been in love And maybe you’ve never felt the things that I’ve felt” But this is what I told my friend I said, “You know, sometimes you get lonely You get lonely, you get lonely” Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh And I cry, I cry Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, oh And the tears would fill up in the wells In the wells of my eyes, aww baby And then it got so bad, it got so bad Till one time I thought I’d roll myself up in a big ol’ ball and die And then I met you, darlin’ And you smiled at me Oh, oh, it was such a pretty smile, yes, it was And you reached out your hand You helped me (Helped), you helped me (Helped me), you helped, oh I’m glad, baby, I’m glad, baby Oh, oh, oh, baby, ey, ey, ey I won’t ever leave you, baby I won’t ever grieve you, baby I’m gonna love you, oh, oh, oh, baby I’m glad, I’m glad, baby Oh, oh, yeah, baby, oh, oh, oh I love you, I love you I love you, I love you, oh I love you, I love you I love you, I love you I love you, I love you I love you
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 1:29 PM | Link to this
T-Mango So what do you look for then…..inquiring minds want to know from the ladies…what draws you near the man you want
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:30 PM | Link to this
Sexi Yep that’s exactly what it is. If you don’t like it I am sure I can use my imagination to come up with something else.
By it's okay
July 20, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this
I’ve tried it all and none of them worked. I even wrote him a 10 page - “Let’s be Friends letter” and he didn’t want to hear it. I even told him in person we were breaking up and he wasn’t hearing it. I’ve tried to ignore him and he had refused to leave me alone. Needless to say - he went to prison for the next 16 years - so that ended it.
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this
Harvey I agree with you, I want want a woman to be honest with me no matter how painful it maybe…
“I told him that he was a good man and he deserved someone who would love him the way he’d wanted to be loved. To top it off with an extra appeal to his good sense, I told him that although I wanted that for him, he should want that for himself. Now how can somebody dispute that? “No, I don’t deserve to be loved the right way”? He could only agree with me”
This is why we have so many dogs and 0es. Experiences has taught me…if a woman tells you the above…you are a piece of shyt.
Better off being an being an A$$
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this
Truth Okay, innocent until proven guilty..lol. But, I’m sure you have some insight on this after all the experiences you’ve had, right? So tell us what your answers would be to those questions.
Slim pass the dutchy on the left hand side… hehehehehe
ForReal what time are you rolling thru?
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this
Ceme I guess I’m still feeling the effects of my Top Shelf Long Island from last night. lol
SJ3K oh, well that makes more sense and hmph! I see you trying to dig yourself outta that hole. Just so you know, for that little stunt, no wangrubbing for you after dinner.
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 1:38 PM | Link to this
For Real that is a tight azz song. If your going thru a breakup that song would kill you.
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this
breaking news…
Severe weather heading into metro area Storm watch in effect until 7 p.m.
By J
July 20, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
this blog is a straight-up hook-up place … wow, you people are desparate! get lives!
By tina
July 20, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
Being friends is not always a bad thing in my opinion after a break up. I think it depends on what the reason is why it came to an end. Sometimes it’s just not the right time for a relationship depending on the circumstances. Beinf friends can lead back to a relationship with that person if both parties have been honest and still love each other. Not all break-ups are caused by cheating and etc. Just my opinion.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
Sexi Should be there about 8ish. I have to stop by Musing’s crib to pick out an outfit and some shoes.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this
Slim you are one funny chick. I love the way your mind works. wangrubbing funny…
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this
ForReal I have an ex that can outbeg Keith Sweat, and he would sing that song to me whenever he knew I was getting tired of his crap. HAHAHAHA At first it was kinda cute, then it just became annoying….still like the song though. lol
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
Hmmm?
The surest sign to tell that a man is in love is when he divorces his wife.
A really promiscuous girl is one you can have a good time with even if you play your cards wrong.
Women are the kind of problem most men like to wrestle with.
The reason no one ever gives the groom a shower is everyone figures him to be all washed up anyway.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this
Truth Like I said, it is the greatest begging song ever written and song. Dude actually wrote this for gf that broke up with him. After she heard the song they got back together. They evenually broke up for good and he said she ask for royalities for being the inspiration for the song. lol..
Oh and Al Green has a song that probably #2 called How to Heal a Broken Heart.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this
nice hit on the song For Real
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this
Sexi I ask because all my experiences have been trying to get some azz. I’m talking about a woman for a long term type situation.
T-Mango that sounds pretty good. I don’t do strip clubs or clubs so thats not a big thing. I’m just trying to get a womans input, as if she were talking to a brother or male friend. What would you tell him?
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this
ForReal well in that case, I’ll definitely be able to spot you in the crowd! lol Do I get one hint (since you never gave me one)?
By QC - TGIF!
July 20, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this
Slim you had “top shelf L.I.T.” is there anymore cause i needs me a drank qik, fast & in a hurry…
QC sitting at her desk singing “7 Whole Days by Toni Braxton”, 7 whole days ahhhhh have’nt heard from you, i’d rather be on my ownnn, yes on my ownnnnnn
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this
Slim realizing For Real’s compliment on my jokes is a ploy to get himself a wangrub too….”Real, AIN’T NO MO WANGRUBS!” lol
Sexione Now if you’re going to be in the rotation, you gots to play by da rules. puff puff pass…not puff and puff and puff and puff then pass lmao
By Foots
July 20, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this
flatbread Maybe she DOES just want you for your wang. Who knew? If you got it like that, get it like that. If you don’t want to get it from HER, stop answering the phone.
Hey GA.Man. Things are great! I got my (ahem) car fixed last night and everything. LOL!@@
Harvey I take it that you’ve never broken up with a guy before? When you do, get back to me.
And by the way, he WAS a good man, and I didn’t feel for him the way he felt for me. He did everything right. He wasn’t the one for me. I didn’t love him. I told him the truth. I let him go so that he could find someone who did.
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this
If I were a gambling woman, I would bet that Harvey is the poor sap Foots let down in a very classy, diplomatic manner.
By NCGirlfromATL
July 20, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this
If a guy was looking to meet a woman that was sincere about wanting to get married or have a ltr, what do you think he should look for and where should he look?
Truth (I took off the “ish” since it’s your birthday and all)…We’re everywhere! It’s hard to say where to look. The grocery store (notice what’s in her cart…does it look like she’s buying for 1 or more than 1), the bookstore, at the gym, wine bars/tastings, museums, at the dealership getting our cars serviced, in the Chic Fila drive thru! LOLOL! If I could tell you where to find us, then I supposed I’d be in the same place as the guys who were looking for the same thing. And since I can’t seem to find where they hang out….
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this
My bad Truth the title of the song is How Can You Mend A Broken Heart
By Jake
July 20, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
What up peeps:
I’m too far behind to catch up, but as for the topic, I say, just do it. If you can’t handle it anymore, get out, staying in a fugged up relationship is just bad bizness.
MLB, I must let you know, I snuck off to Lenox today, I saw this chick with the shortest, tightest shorts that are legal in public, and the Camel Toe was literally talking to me, I saw the lips move…LOL
She was wrong as hell for that, but I shole did enjoy it.
By abc
July 20, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this
C tha 1, I don’t watch TV so I don’t know about the sensationalism; it seems that’s all the media does these days is sensationalize. Obviously, animal cruelty is less severe than rape and murder; Vick’s lying to federal investigators is about the same as Libby (and Rove and Cheney) lying to Congress about outing Plame. Vick will do jail time, though, if any of the charges are proven. That Libby gets off because of Presidential cronyism isn’t a reason to write off the justice system altogether.
I think public outrage and media sensationalism is focusing not just on that it’s dogs fighting, but that the animals are terribly mistreated, even tortured and mutilated. Sick stuff, it exposes something about them that’s beyond character flaws. If Vick plays this year, I think the sideshow will somewhat eclipse the games themselves. I wonder if the Falcons or the NFL think that it’s worth it.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this
For Real now writing the lyric down on a piece of toilet paper for when he sees Sexi tonight. Oh, oh, oh cough, cough, cough
By Niyahh
July 20, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this
J nobody’s desperate on here, what a dumb azz comment to make; so what if someone hooks-up on here, you sound like you need somebody. Now respond back with an attitude like i know you’re going to do punk
By Tazzee
July 20, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this
The Truth that’s a tough question. I think it depends on what a man wants. Does he want to start a family or needs a woman that loves kids? Try some place where folks go to volunteer with the youth.
But overall, I think what’s more important is how they connect - at least for me. Because she can want the family, burn in the kitchen, be a great mother and then be boring as all get out. Can you spend the rest of your life with someone like that?
For me, I don’t look in any particular place. I learned a few years back that just because he looks good on paper doesn’t mean he’s the man for me. The question I ask myself when getting to know a new person is ‘can we hang out’
By Lacey (formally purplepassion)
July 20, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this
I can’t be friends with an ex. It nevers works out. Friendly breakup I’m for, friends after breakup-against. We won’t enemies and we won’t be chummy friends talking about our day either. If the date/relationship was unsuccessful then move on and don’t hold on to what you thought you had. It prevents you from finding what you’re suppose to have. I’ve tried to be a friend with an ex and all the while I was thinking in the back of my mind that maybe we can work it out since we’re getting along so well. That was a complete lie b/c while I was skinnin and grinnin being his friend, he had already gotten into another relationship and as a friend he didn’t reveal it to me, she did.
By Foots
July 20, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this
For Real ^5 on the Cause I Love You. The Jacksons’ have a beautiful song about unrequited love called “Push Me Away” off the Destiny LP. Check that one out.
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this
J Please tell me how you figure this blog is a desperate ‘hook-up’ place? Now my guess would be since you’ve peeped into our dating blog, this fine Friday, that you don’t have much of a life yourself? Could be wrong…after all it’s just my assumption.
J We’ve been seeing each other for..Hmmm..I’ll say about 2 minutes and I just don’t think it’s going to work out. You’re bitter @ss hell, whenever we go somewhere your ego always calls shotgun for the front seat, your farts smell like chitterlings soaked in throw up, and I’m tired of stepping on your black crusty toenails that you bit off with your teeth! I’m sure there’s a clown out there in this Whole Wide Universe that is Right for you. But hey….we can still be friends right?
By melo
July 20, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this
&J*this blog is a straight-up hook-up place *as if there is anything wrong with that. Is ur canal sealed permanently?
By SexyLeggs
July 20, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this
MochaTreat Happy Birthday to you.
By Foots
July 20, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this
Niyahh I love all y’all, but how you gone tell J to kick rocks after posting about a Unity concert?? LOL!!!
Slim This smedium blog vest is a little tight around the “women”. You got one with a built-in C cup?
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this
Foots that’s good ain’t nothing like a good oil change(Smiling hard at you now) lol
So are you gonna go back and do the 90 day thang with the wangmaster…or you gonna wait 3000 miles like it is recommended..(Now really smiling)
Dang girl…you got me thinking now….hhhmmmm too bad Lil GaMan coming up this week…but i can wait
I got about two weeks worth of stuff for us to do..so the fun begins Saturday morning…
By For Real
July 20, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this
Sorry Wise but this is to help you prepare. Guess who wrote this song for Al Green?
I can think of younger days when living for my life Was everything a man could want to do I could never see tomorrow, but I was never told about the sorrow
And how can you mend a broken heart? How can you stop the rain from falling down? How can you stop the sun from shining? What makes the world go round? How can you mend this broken man? How can a loser ever win? Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again
I can still feel the breeze that rustles through the trees And misty memories of days gone by We could never see tomorrow, No one said a word about the sorrow
And how can you mend a broken heart? How can you stop the rain from falling down? How can you stop the sun from shining? What makes the world go round? How can you mend this broken man? How can a loser ever win? Please help me mend my broken heart and let me live again
By Lacey (formally purplepassion)
July 20, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this
Tony Toni Tone sang it never rains in southern california, maybe I need to move there b/c it rains everyday in cloudy atlanta, ga. I can’t get my swim on.
By Berry
July 20, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this
Uh Oh Ya’ll the violence is beginning again! hehheeeee….too funny!
By QC - TGIF!
July 20, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this
Hey Jake how you doing baby?
By Foots
July 20, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this
Slim!! I think I just threw up a little in my mouth. LOL!!
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this
Oh my, I see the rain isn’t the only falling right now! lol
Slim my bad, puff puff pass…hehehe
and the Camel Toe was literally talking to me, I saw the lips move rotflmsao Heyyyy Jake
Truth I see some good suggestions so far. So, you’re thinking of turning over a new leaf, huh?
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this
For Real funny, my girl had me singing like lenny while I was handcuff to the bed…I turn into C-Murder during the two hour she was looking for the key.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this
we belong together and you know that i’m right…why do you play with my heart…why do you play with my mind… said we be forever…said it never die….how could you love me and leave and never say goodbye…when i cant sleep at night without hold you tight,girl each time i try i just break down and cry..pain in my head i’d rather be dead…spending the night round..and around….although we come to the end of the road….still i cant let go…it’s so natural..you belong to me..i belong to you…go..to the end of the road….
giiirrrll i know you reallly love me you just dont realize..you’ve never been there before..it’s only your first tiiimeee…maybe i’ll forgive you…maybe you’ll try..we should be happy together…forever you and i…
will you love me again like you love me before…this time i want you to love me much more..this time instead..just jump in my bed..and don’t let me downn
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this
QC If it was legal to take an alcoholic beverage out of an establishment, I would’ve brought you a whole pitcher of L.I.T. lol (hiccup) Well…half a pitcher at least. lol
Foots We’re going to have to get you some cough medicine for that tickle in your throat. Things are great! I got my (ahem) car fixed last night and everything. And who gets a tune up on a 2008 model? hehehehehe
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
I recommend immediate membership for Niyahh. Did someone get called a punk or what?
J, this is a place we come to hang out at to waste some time during the day. We just have fun. If that upsets you then bounce, punk.
Tazz thanks for the words. I’m a pretty cool dude to hang out with, although I’m just as comfortable inside as out. Should I post my specs for the WLB’s perusal? LOL
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this
Lacey I’ve been trying to get my swim on too, but we needed the rain so badly I can’t complain. Oh well…
Slim gurl, we should just call you butter, cause you on a roll! lololol
By Niyahh
July 20, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this
lol @ Foots girl stop!, i want you all to come enjoy yourselves not worrying about who’s hooking up with who. Besides it’ll be nice, i truly love this blog!
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this
Wow, It takes all kinds to make the go around.. is it 5:00 yet!?
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
Foots/Jewel(hey bay) that may come off has classy to some, but most men wants the cold hard Truth.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this
Alvin..man you just made me bust out laughing…told ya bout that chaining up stuff……lolololol
By SlimOne
July 20, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this
Foots I regret to inform you that there are only B cup women blog vests left. However, you can use one of the male blog vests, just turn it upside down. But I must warn you, the hole will be a little closer together than the women vests. LMAO!
By Niyahh
July 20, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this
Thanks The Truth, i except
off to lunch now
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this
For Real Thanks for the song, babe!! can I have a drink to go with that?
Slim you are too much chica!! LOl
Truth on your question, I think you should first figure out what you want in a wife and then seek out those qualities.
whaddup Jake
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this
I second that motion Truth i think Niyahh deserves it…man that was a call out..and no responce….a complete shutdown…lolol
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this
Sexi everyone has to drop the shield one day. Just wondering where to go and what to do when that day comes. Birthdays make a bruh remember thats he’s getting to old to chase cat.
Foots if your packin C’s I have a special “Truth” version vest that’ll hold you. The cup is so lifelike you’ll swear its a pair of hands. LOL
Jake tell me you took a pic for the butlletin board at MLB Hq. I know you have a camera on your cell phone. Please tell me you took a pic. Please.
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
@GaMan
These are the things draw me closer…
Belief in God, mental stability/good physical health, integrity, honesty, strength,respectfulness,intelligence, loves himself/others are important characteristics for the man for me to have.
More importantly, The man that I want and need is in the phase of his life where he is tired of playing the field(putting women on rotation) and truly wants to invest himself and his time into building a friendship/relationship with someone. He wants monogamy. He is not afraid to be vulnerable. He ready to give and receive love.
I believe in letting a man lead, but he has to know where he is going. So, I like a man with vision. He should be supportive of me and my dreams… View me as an equal partner in the relationship… He should want to have children…believes in giving back to the community…He is artistic/creative/talented…has a sense of humor…dog lover(lol)…willing to ride the peaks/valleys of life with me… is patient and kind…a good listener…a problem solver…likes to try different things…knows how to have fun…dedicated to his family.
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 20, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this
Sexione we should just call you butter, cause you on a roll You said you want me to roll another one? j/k lol
Alvin I would’ve loved to have been the locksmith to get that call if your girl didn’t end up finding the key. I can picture it now, seeing you trying to sign the waiver (not using your hands) dismissing me from any liability in the case of damage of property.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
@ Niyah…can you hook a brother up with a gas voucher???
By C tha 1
July 20, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
Abc, sometimes I think the general public are naive to the reality that surrounds them. As an American I know I live in the best country on Planet Earth, but I’m also fully aware it is far from perfect. People make rules and people break rules. Simple as that. If you ain’t cheatin, you ain’t tryin’. But that doesn’t sum up MV’s mess.
I’ve been exposed to dogfighting, “experts” say that those exposed to it are a danger to domesticated animals and small children. I say show me the study. I admitted I’m not the biggest animal lover, they’re like dependants that you can’t write off on your taxes. But my brother absolutely loves them. Still I don’t hate dogs on any other animal for that matter. And I never fought dogs for that matter.
In sum, you have people who treat dogs like other humans. They dress them up, play with them, feed them, and love them to the point where you almost take away its natural insticnt. On the other hand you have people who treat dogs like any other livestock. It’s simply a stock that lives … you feed it and care for it to the point where you need a return on your investment. Those that practice this either sell their dogs or gamble they can beat another dog … thus the training begins.
Is it right? Uuuuhhh … honestly there is a fine line between a fully domesticated dog, and a straight up canine w/ game blood that is not that far removed from a wild wolf. JMO. Do you think its cruel to neuter a dog? I do.
By Lacey (formally purplepassion)
July 20, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
@ Sexi1, I would do the indoor pool but the chlorine is much for me to handle. Maybe I can get a couple of lapses in in the morning. J good self observence!!
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
Lacey I am Co-signing your 2:01 post!!
Tazz you are sooooo right…let see if we can stand each other for more than 5 minutes, FIRST LOL
GA.man it was 2hour of hell afterward…I will do it again, with the key close by.
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this
okay what i miss?? To long of a read to catch up…i see there were some songs played for some body r sumthin like that. Alvin has tried to switch gears. J got snapped on by Niyahh. Slim and Sexi somewhere in puff puff pass Land. What else??? I think that’s as much as i could hit up til now.
GAMan what’s up with movie reviews?** Since the weather looks if-y for The Flags i my catch a movie and some bowling tomorrow.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this
Very well said T-Mango..girl you might be alright…..**
GaMan taking notes that T-Mango..has alot going for herself, she might just be…just be….
Ya’ll didn’t think i was gonna do that here did you!!
Ya’ll crazy
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this
Slim gurl, meet me in the cut, we bouts to put it in the air……..okay, let me stop! lol
Truth it sure does!
By For Real
July 20, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this
Oh and Wise I forgot to inform you that both of those songs are brown liquor songs.
Awwwww Cmon Slim rub my wang for me pleaseeeeeeeeee! Oh and can you do it counterclockwise?
Alvin You crazy dude.. I ain’t letting nobody tie me up. But you are wild boy
Phoots Since you got someone to change your oil. Can I be the one that helps with your throat problem. You seem to be ahemming alot later. Oh and you probably already answered this but I was probably starring at your C cups when you said it, do you have your tonsils?
By Foots
July 20, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this
Alvin/Demi That was the cold hard truth. He loved me, but I didn’t love him. So I told him. Did y’all want me to make something up? Or should I have just sent a text message?
By Jewel
July 20, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
Blog Song Dedication
Now playing I Wanna Go Outside in the Rain in honor of today’s topic and the weather outside…
I wanna go outside in the rain It may sound crazy, but I wanna go outside in the rain ‘cause I, I think I’m gonna cry And I, I don’t want you to see me cry I want to go outside in the rain, It may sound crazy, But I want to go outside Once the rain starts falling on my face You won’t see a single trace Of the tears I’m crying Because of you I’m crying Don’t want you to see me cry Let me go, let me go, let me go!
I want to go outside in the rain
Once the sun comes out And the rain has gone away I know I’m gonna see a better day Right now I think I’m crying Because of you I’m crying Don’t want you to see me cry, Let me go, let me go, let me go!
I want to go outside In the rain. It may sound crazy, I say it may sound crazy
I want to go outside I want to go outside
Hurts to see me cry… Don’t want you to see me cry I got to walk out the door I can’t stand it no more…
I want to go outside, yeah yeah.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this
Wise here is your man after you break his heart
Do you ever think about me…do you ever cry yourself to sleep….in the middle of the night when you awake are you calling out for me….do you ever remisnce…i cant believe i’m acting like this….know it’s crazy..how i still can feel your kiss
it’s been 6 months 8 days 12 hours since you went away….yeeea i miss you so much..and i dont know what to sayyyyy…i should be over you i should know better, but it’s just not the case..it’s been 6 months 8 days..12 hours since you went away…
do you still feel the same ..has time taken away the pain….
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this
@Truth If I was talking to a male friend or a brother who was looking for a wife …
I would tell him to look for a woman that complements you… A person that brings value to your life by bringing something to the table.
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 20, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this
Oh my goodness! Have you all seen that clip of Tammy Faye Baker????? She looks soooo bad due to her inoperable cancer. Oh lawd, I feel so bad for her…All Jokes aside
http://www.newsnet5.com/news/13714254/detail.html
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this
Cemeeli bad things is that most good ones come out today….i dont have them yet to review…but hey check out Transformers or Live free or die hard..or even License to Wed i will have previews next week on the stuff that is coming out today…it willbe an inside weekend if the weather keeps going the way it is showing right now
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this
T-Mango That’s what’s up!!! Totally has the be the Man with a heart for GOD first. All the the better love for himself therfore he will love me the way GOD and I want him to love me. Because no-one else has such a hi esteem for MY cares ther than GOD!
G-man asked ever so nicely…cool point 4 u…usually men think they know what women tend to want from them. Most times they have no clue unless they spend time to find out.
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this
You guys need your very own reality TV show, and honestly, I think a good number of you are part-time stand up comics!
Good job For Real, LOL @ brown likka songs..nice.
By Foots
July 20, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this
Truth Is Foots gonna have to put you in an illegal police choke hold? Get your hands off the women!! LOL!!
4Real You are silly!!
Slim/Butta Love It’s purring like a kitten now (pun intended).
I cosign on what T-Mango said about the type of qualities she wants in a man. I look for most of the same qualities. I think that’s why I’m able now to keep it movin if I don’t like what I see or if it turns out that he lacks my non-negotiables. You first have to know what you want. You can find those things (or not) in a person rather quickly.
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this
Slim I may be a fool, but I am still fine as Hell…you would problely join in on the fun.
By NCGirlfromATL
July 20, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
Just how does it sound when a camel toe speaks? Hmmmm…
CT: (muffled) WTfmmmm…bleech…ptui! What is this? Denim? Rayon? Spandex? Oh noooooooo…it’s the sisters! Poly and Ester! No wonder I feel like I’ve got an old sock stuck in me…and what’s that smell? Smells like…sniff sniff…hot dogs and Captain D’s! UGH!!! Ptui! I think I just threw up a little in my…well…camel toe mouth thingy whatever…and who left this thing here…is that a string? WTH?
Sorry Wise, but they just keep talking about that talking Camel Toe…it had to be done!
By For Real
July 20, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this
T-Mango Are you Celibant free?
By melo
July 20, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this
iam out, need to go cozy up in this cold,rainy weather. But i have a question..why is it legal for humans to box and bludgeon each other in the ring, kickbox and brutalize each BUT not legal for animals to dogfight.These are animals and they are being put on pedestal higher than humans.Its beyond animals(Dogs)to fight? Give me a break!
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this
Slim I saw Tammy Faye and bless her heart, she does look bad. I feel so sorry for her, she is so fraile. On a lighter note girlfriend still had her makeup on though! What kind of cancer was she diagnosed with?
Mo is contemplating the qualities she wants in a mate….I’ll take a lil of Truth, a lil of SJ, a side of Jake, some of For Real, got to have some Demi & GAMan……. LOL
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
Thanks just want a woman’s view on that…You know sometimes…i will admit it..cause heck i see soooo much of the entertainment part of life…i will see things and get them twisted at times….but i hold true to myself..and in the end I know that the part of happiness in me…wins
We all want someone..to know and love and hang out…i think that’s why we look for our bestfriend..when we are looking for a wife/husband and for those that will never ever ever get married…friend, it is soooo true that once you find yourself and can be happy by yourself, love is right around the corner waiting for you.
you know when you aint looking for it…that’s when it happens
By For Real
July 20, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this
NC I am professional Camel Toe communicator. Now I know what you are thinking. For Real is professional picturetakker. Well picturetaking pays the bill but my passion is Camel Toe communication.
If you want to understand your Camel Toe better I will be more than happy to help. And yes in this case I would be more than happy. I’m free on Wednesday’s.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this
NCGirlfromATL you a str8 fool…..the cont. adventures of the Talking Camel Toe
this part of the program brought to you by….Tampax….“we still here..sticking it ya’ll go by your local store and pick some up…..you know your camel will thank you for it
By For Real
July 20, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this
Mo I’m first!!!!
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this
Foots nope, I like the fact you are up front and honest…I personally dislike a woman telling me about my good quality doing a break up.
I just want the truth and that’s it.
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this
Slim that was gross. I feel sorry for her. WOW
Toe Jam I was only trying to help wherever I can. You ladies know I’m here to do whatever I can for you.
We just had some real bad weather roll thru here. I’m scared. Can a wLB memeber come over and hold me?
T-Mango who knows where I’ll find my little love bucket. It seems like you’ve thought this thing thru pretty well.
By abc
July 20, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this
Yall are twisting it up about the dog fighting. It’s not about the animals fighting per se; it’s about the severe and inhumane treatment they receive in being raised, trained, and executed, and peripheral crime such as stealing people’s pets for the fighting dogs to tear apart as part of their training. No animal deserves such treatment.
Now, dog racing isn’t much better. Greyhounds are routinely not well treated during their racing careers, and over 20,000 are killed each year, by gunshot, clubbing, starving. In Spain they hang them for public spectacle. My dog is a retired racing greyhound, best dog I ever had.
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 20, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this
Sexione Uh-oh! I made a boo boo. When I was trying to sneak and meet you at the spot, I tried over my shoelace and dropped the ‘piece’ in a puddle of water….dang, did i just create hydro? LMAO!
For Real If you’re good I’ll throw in a figure 8 one time.
NC I was wondering what Camel toe sounds like….lol
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 3:15 PM | Link to this
Mo thanks for having me in the mix….Smiling
By Sexione
July 20, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this
I’m outta here…should’ve been gone…peace!!! Good weekend to all!!
ForReal See ya!
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 20, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this
Mo She has lung and colon cancer. I don’t think anyone has ever seen her without her makeup on and probably never will. She just seems like such a nice woman.
Truth Sorry bruh. Just think about how i felt when i made the mistake of watching that and eating lunch at the same time. Bless her heart though.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this
For Real I am talking about a lil of your qualities….oh wait, that didnt come out quite right….I mean, I want a lil of your personality and that of some of your MLB members as well….ah hell that didnt sound too right either!!* Get ya mind out da gutta!! ROTFLMAO!!!
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this
Melo I don’t think many of the boxers are force into the ring and killed upon losing…*in the under world, this is true.
By Jake
July 20, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
Hey, Mo,
QC how you doing?
Truth Sorry dawg, the Toe had me so dazed and confused I could not get the phone out of the holster….LOL
Shawty was fine, but she know she should not have had it hangin like that. One of those I’m turned on, but turned off moments.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this
@ Moeisha…dont write a check your azz cant cash…literally…
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this
Truth i’m curious…do you mine telling how old you are today?
By C tha 1
July 20, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this
Abc if that’s the case with racing dogs, why is that legal and fight dogs illegal? It seems like the gov’t can tax one gambling endeavor while they can’t tax the other. Before all this is said and done PETA and the federal gov’t are gonna beat their chest until some stark hypocrisies are brought to light.
By DuShawn
July 20, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
“Or my personal favorite: turn into a complete jackass until she has no choice but to leave the relationship.” I’m ashamed to say I have done this. It’s the cowardly way out. But it takes a man with honor and maturity (or stupidity, depending on your point of view) to dismiss some fiya neck and snapper just because he realizes the relationship will never progress. Personally, I have never been dumped. I have had only five committed relationships. There was this one situation; I was in serious relationship for a few years. We lived together and I was considering marrying her. Gradually, our relationship deteriorated horribly. Towards the end we barely spoke to one another and slept in separate rooms. I was ready to ask her to leave. She beat me to the punch and told me she was leaving me. My response was ”you need me to get you some boxes”. When she left I celebrated. I felt emancipated not abandoned. In retrospect, she was an outstanding woman, just not the one for me.
By For Real
July 20, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this
Mo If I take my mind out of the gutta. Can put in your pants? It’s got to go somewhere.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this
GAMan you got it!! (wink)
SJ dayum a sistah cant give a compliment up in here?!?! And I am not in the business of bouncing checks.
Slim & Sexione are either of you guys working the blog bar cause I needs a drank ASAP! (WHEW!)
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this
Melo if you want to be a gladiator and step inside the ring thats cool. Don’t send a dog to do what your scared to do yourself. That’s some coward shyt. I got these dudes puffin on some cats nuts in jail.
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 3:37 PM | Link to this
Mo Demi say thanks…
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 3:41 PM | Link to this
Similac I’m 44 today.
Dam Jakes hands started shakin? LOL I would of loved to c that 1.
By QCF
July 20, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this
I’m doing really good Jake all this rain is making me frisky
By Jake
July 20, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this
Mo
Thanks baby, now come here so I can give you a sweet kiss on the forehead, and a playful slap on the azz.
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this
@ C1…dude..horse racing..dog racing…bull fighting…hunting..dog fighting..its all the same..its a witch hunt…if u read the indictment..for them to word it like that…they not only had to be there..because even if u were there u wouldnt remember all that ..u would have to had to record everything…the public is so naive of how things operate…
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this
Well I see Demi and GAMan got my compliment, while For Real is trying to see my ‘Vicki’s Secrets’ and SJ implies I write bad checks!!! LMAO!!! The MLB is a mess!
Truth I got these dudes puffin on some cats nuts in jail well I’ll be dayummed! tellin it like it is…
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
July 20, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this
C1 for the record PETA and other animal groups protest dog racing as well.
Yes I am a dog owner(mom) and proud of it. My dog is my pet but also provides protection. If anything happens outside that is not right she sounds the alarm and heaven help anyone who tries to harm me or the boy.
By abc
July 20, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this
Racing is regulated, to a greater or lesser extent, making the atrocities seem less severe, but in truth, I consider them abominations that should also be illegal. Raising animals solely for entertainment, and treating them inhumanely to the extent that they suffer and die from it, is immoral.
I think the indictment is based on someone on the inside ratting everybody out, so eye witness testimony could be involved.
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 20, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this
Attention BlogMen I am officially breaking my vow of celibacy. If you’re interested in the free festivities, meet me off of Fulton Industrial at 11:30…bring tips.
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 20, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this
Ok all i am out…. * have a great weekend*
As always..if you got problems Put GOD in them …he can fix anything..you can take that to the bank
One love Peace
MLB for LIFE
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this
Don’t send a dog to do what you’re scared to do yourself.
I agree.
And why is my co-worker wearing a saint jersey with a picture of Mike Vic holding a pitbull puppy???!!!
Now the fool he’s going around (with double fist pumping in the air) chanting, “Free Mike Vick, Free Mike Vick!!!”
By Cemeeli
July 20, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this
Truth 44 hum, after the last few days of reading your posts. I visualized that you couldnt be no more than 34. With that said, you’re the only one that can call me Similac.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this
Jake thanks babe…kisses right back atcha along with an azz slap..LOL
QCF I think this kinda weather does that to everybody….dayum celibacy
By T-Mango
July 20, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this
For Real…Not celibate, just selective….
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this
I’m with you QCF this rain is bringing out frisky side of me!
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this
@ Moeisha..i apologize…how can i make it up to you?
By The Truth
July 20, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this
Dr Kym if you want some help protection training your dog let me know. (Depending on what type it is) I’m getting some footage of my dog doing some protection work and I’ll post it on here.
PETA has done more to harm animals than the dogfighters. Look up their history and convictions.
Ok ev1 I’m outta here. Have a great weekend and I’ll see you on monday.
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
SlimOne WHY Fultion?? What’s wrong with Jimmy Carter??? LOL
By Ladylike
July 20, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this
Now see T-Mango it’s really hard to find something I think qualifies even when I do think I want to break my vow.
By DuShawn
July 20, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this
SJ3000 ..because even if u were there u wouldn’t remember all that I agree, that have dates, purse amounts and the names of the dogs in the fights. Some of which happened four years ago. Truth Every dude that fights dogs is not a coward. I have known many killer, hustler, gangsta type cats that raised and fought pits. Wasn’t nothing punkish about these brothas.
By QCF
July 20, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this
MO how many day left 85, lol
Have a great weekend all
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this
The Truth Dayum!! I hope I am in shape and mature wild once I hit my 40’s
LOL
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this
Yea right QCF, blame it on the rain, that’s not why you feel frisky! LOL
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 20, 2007 4:19 PM | Link to this
Alvin Why not Jimmy Carter? Hmm…Good question. On second thought, wouldn’t your place be better?
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this
Slim LOL you know it is…
By will c
July 20, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this
If you need advice on breaking up, check out this blog, http://how-to-lose-a-guy-in-ten-days.blogspot.com/
By QCF
July 20, 2007 4:30 PM | Link to this
Hey WD you know you’re right!
1st time WD called me out i feel real special…thanks girl! how many days left MO, Slim, Mocha, WLB>85!!!!!!
By Jake
July 20, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
Goodnight ya’ll, I’m out for the weekend. Hey Ladies, go out lookin sweet this weekend, MLB, find’em.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
SJ Hmmm..let me see…first I’ll have nice massage and we’ll go from there! (wink) ;0)
QCF lets just say I’m glad I have no prospects or it would be on an poppin today (open the windows, listenin to the rain and let the neighbors…..ohh let me stop) LMAO!!
T-Mango Not celibate, just selective ^^^^^555555
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this
@ DuShawn…most of that is fabricated..written to sway the opinion of the public and the jury and the judge…all they need was dog bones and they could make up any negative thing they wanted.and fools would convict him before he as step foot in a courtroom…folks are sheep…believe nothing that u hear and half of what u see…i guess he was a full time dog fighting kennel owner and a part time nfl quarterback foor the last 6 years
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 4:40 PM | Link to this
@ Moeisha…nothing problem..thats a given with me…let me know when u are ready
By SeanJohnson3000
July 20, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this
@ Moeisha..that shoulda read..no problem…dont let it go to waste….u better enjoy yourself..
By Wise Diva
July 20, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this
It’s been quite an interesting week on MIA, thanks everyone for joining in!
Be safe on the wet roads everyone, have a wonderful weekend.
Diva Out
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 20, 2007 4:53 PM | Link to this
SJ I dont plan on letting this go to waste!! Who knows when you will be so nice again (wink)….now I like light oils and be nice & slow, ‘k? :0)
By Alvin
July 20, 2007 5:03 PM | Link to this
Night All
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 23, 2007 8:24 AM | Link to this
We BLBing again? (Bootleg Bloggin)
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 8:28 AM | Link to this
Slim looks like it!!! Whats hannenin? lol
By Like Butta (formerly SlimOne)
July 23, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this
Sexi1 Nothing much chile. Just a typical Don’t-want-to-be-here Monday. lol
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 23, 2007 8:42 AM | Link to this
Ok today’s topc oh Hey everyone in blog lad…..I am your host today
Why is is that “When you don’t have someone…you can’t get noone?…But when you meet someone..everyone comes comes and keeps coming out of everywhere?
Ok give me your responces and remember ya’ll be nice!?!
Just kidding everyone….i don’t know what’s up
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 8:45 AM | Link to this
I guess we were so off da chain last week, they decided to put us on a temporary time out.
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 8:45 AM | Link to this
Slim gurl, tell me about it!!! I need to be generating some independent $$$ so I won’t have to be here. The weekend just zoomed right by! And WTH is up with the blog? Geesh……lol
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 23, 2007 8:51 AM | Link to this
Bella…..oooohhhhh Bellllllllla
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this
Well, looks like we will have to crank it up right here! Funny how this seems to happen on certain days………all willy nilly! lol
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 9:00 AM | Link to this
GAman We’ve discussed that topic before. It’s something about the confidence that a person has who is already involved with someone, that others tend to notice and find attractive. Like the way I put it before, there is something about a ‘kept man’ that women flock to.
By Raqi
July 23, 2007 9:00 AM | Link to this
LOL I’m in the office pretty much all day and just my luck my time waster is on the blink.
By kinderbabe
July 23, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this
good morning everyone! i was wondering what happened to the blog…lol. hope everyone had a great weekend.
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this
Sexione now putting passing out her Blog Conspiracy Theory pamphlets instead of the usual muffins and coffee
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this
GOD gives adam a companion
God asked Adam, “What is wrong with you?” Adam said, “I’ve got nobody to talk to.”
God said that He was going to make Adam a companion and that it would be a woman.
God said, “This person will gather food for you, cook for you, and when you discover clothing she’ll wash it for you. She will always agree with every decision you make. She will bear your children and never ask you to get up in the middle of the night to take care of them. She will not nag you and will always be the first to admit that she was wrong when you’ve had a disagreement. She will never have a headache and will freely give you love and passion whenever you need it.”
Adam asked God, “What will a woman like that cost?”
God replied, “An arm and a leg.”
Then Adam asked, “What can I get for a rib?”
The rest is history…..
By SeanJohnson3000
July 23, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this
@ Slim..is a kept man the same thing as a man that wears in shirt in his pants?
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
Well I guess we have free rein to ACK A FOOL….hehehehe
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:13 AM | Link to this
Slim I know, right? Between your theory of us being bad and my theory (I won’t disclose right now, lol) we’re sure to come close to the real deal……..hehehehe!
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this
A wife was making fried eggs for her husband for breakfast. Suddenly her husband burst into the kitchen.
“Careful… Careful!!! Put in some more butter! Oh my God! You’re cooking too many at once. Too many! Turn them! Turn them now! We need more butter. Oh my God! Where are we going to get more butter? They’re going to stick! Careful… Careful!!! I said be careful! You never listen to me when you’re cooking! Never! Turn them! Hurry up! Are you crazy? Have you lost your mind? Don’t forget to salt them. You know you always forget to salt them. Use the salt. Use the salt! The salt!”
The wife stared at him and asked, “What the heck is wrong with you? You think I don’t know how to fry a couple of eggs?”
The husband calmly replied, “I wanted to show you what it feels like when I’m driving with you in the car.”
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 9:21 AM | Link to this
Sean J Morning babe. Kept man=shirt inside pants?….Hmmm, not necessarily. Funny question tho
By GA.Man AKA "Mr. Entertainment"
July 23, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this
Sexione you oe me another shirt cleaning
By MusingLee
July 23, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this
Morn’in All,
Where’s the blog today??? Hmmmmmm….Looks like a day of BLB’ing.
By The Truth
July 23, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
Good Monday bloggers. Deep passionate open mouth kiss to the WLB. Light handshake to the MLB.
Sexi its to early for you to have me laughing. Save those for later when the blood flow has reached my head. LOL
BELLA is in bed with a hangover.
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
Sexi now setting up cleaning machine in her home office. Now where are those darned chemicals.
GAman send that shirt right on over, I have a special going on today! hehehehehe Oh, the address is 1 ShowEmWhatYouGot Lane, Atlanta, 33333. You can pick up by 1! lol
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this
A man and his wife were having some problems at home and were giving each other the silent treatment.
Suddenly, the man realized that the next day, he would need his wife to wake him at 5:00 AM for an early morning business flight.
Not wanting to be the first to break the silence (and LOSE), he wrote on a piece of paper, “Please wake me at 5:00 AM.” He left it where he knew she would find it.
The next morning, the man woke up, only to discover it was 9:00 AM and he had missed his flight.
Furious, he was about to go and see why his wife hadn’t wakened him, when he noticed a piece of paper by the bed. The paper said, “It is 5:00 AM, Wake up.”
Men are not equipped for these kinds of contests. God may have created man before woman, but there is always a rough draft before the masterpiece.
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
Truth sorry…ok, I’m not! lol I just feel like lettin it all hang out right now! Get your minds outta the gutter! And what did you do to Bella? I thought we had warned everyone about you already! lmsao
Everyone else should be here soon!!!!
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
GAman You betta be careful with that Bootleg Cleaners Sexione calls herself running. I could’ve sworn the only chemicals she was familiar with using was Bleach and Hydrochloric acid. Gaman now picking up his stone washed 3 piece suit from Sexione’s Self-Bleaching service
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
July 23, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this
Uummmmmmm…..we really have got to stop this BLB!!
Morning ALL!! A “Hey Divas” to the WLB and soft kisses & hugs to the MLB
Since we can have our reign of the place, anyone care for some dranks up in here?!?! LOL It is monday…
By Lady Dark w/Dimples
July 23, 2007 9:45 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone!!
Lady Dark wipes her mouth after Truth tries to tongue the WLB down
Sexi Thanks for the Monday humor…I am cracking up off them…
By The Truth
July 23, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this
LMAO @ Sexi. Its apparent Sexi is trying to get a blog war started since there are no referrees. MLB don your vests.
Sexi I want a picture of you. do you have one for me?
What ever happened to Cassie and Randy? HMMMMMM
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:52 AM | Link to this
Okay, since we’re free-styling today, any topic ideas?
Sexi now climbing onto think-tank to try and come up with a topic that hasn’t been discussed in a while Man, I may need a drink for this! lol Otherwise, I can vent about how fast I was driven to P** this weekend……..hmmmm
By MusingLee
July 23, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
The Monday topic is up folks.
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 9:55 AM | Link to this
Mo Is it still too early for a glass of wine? Slim will be sleep at her desk before 11…zzzzzz
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this
Oh, and Truth, how you gone try and stick your tongue down everybodies throat? You know you wrong for that…..
Heeyyy LDD you’re welcome!
Gaman now picking up his stone washed 3 piece suit from Sexione’s Self-Bleaching service LMSAO!!! Oops, must’ve picked up the wrong bottle. lol
By SlimOne
July 23, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this
Question How come when folks get finished doing the dirty deed with someone that is not their significant other do they get more affectionate and lovey dovey when they do get back around the SO? Is it guilt making them appear to appreciate them at that time or what?
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this
Okay, I guess I can’t tell y’all about how I was driven to Pi$$edAsHellzVille without changing the name! hehehehehe
Truth sure I do….not with me now, but I can send you one this afternoon. What war? It wasn’t me!! I guess you’re referring to the end of the joke……..I didn’t write it, it was the end of the joke. Now put those vests up, and laugh! lol
Heeyyy Mo gurl, you must’ve been reading my mind! Let’s get this party started, right?!!
By Sexione
July 23, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
See y’all at the new house!!!
By The Truth
July 23, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this
Nipples don’t wash off my tongue job. You know you like it anyway. Why you gotta act like this in front of your sista’s? It wasn’t like that last night when my tongue was all in your…
Wouldn’t it be nice if they upgraded the speed of this blog. It takes dam near 5 minutes to post some shyt on here. While their at it, how about an avatar/pic on our posts? Lets start a blog riot. We’ll make our demands known to the higher ups and if we don’t get the response we want we’ll send in Vick and his pit bulls. LOL