Misadventures in Atlanta

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 8:29 AM | Link to this

Morning Good peolpe…This is a great topic! My preference is older and wiser not older and still stuck on stoopid!:) Anyway gotta go…Will be lurking…Peace

By HairyOne (formerly Slim)

June 28, 2007 8:29 AM | Link to this

Morning ALL and this is day 2 of the Vacation Countdown

I can’t say I’ve have some sort of ephiphany when it comes to a dating age or anything like that. I prefer to date guys that are my age and up. My experiences with younger guys have not faired in my favor which is my turn-off of yougin’s. As you get older, I’m sure who the dating pool associated with your age is going to change. Which in turn may cause you to change who you’d want to put in the lineup.

I don’t necessarily have a cutoff age. But I don’t want to feel like I’m dating my dad or a “Dirty Old Man” either. When I feel that potential gross factor, I tend to run the other way. The oldest guy i’ve ever dated was 37.

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this

Now back to my normal self

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

June 28, 2007 8:40 AM | Link to this

Good Morinig Everybody!! Great Topic Laney!

I have had my share of dating younger men (mid 20’s)each time i was disappointed. I am in my late 20’s and i am attracted more so to guys in their late 30’s to early 40’s. I believe the cause is because female mature faster than male. I realize as i get older my tolereance level in dealing with realationship just get lower & lower. I would rather deal with an older man who is mentally stable than a younger man who has no idea. .

By M.

June 28, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog.

I’m a 24 year old young professional in Atlanta and there are plenty of well qualified women here. I always say that my age range is 23-27, mainly because I am still learning and this range still has learning and growing to do. I did briefly date a 36 year old woman and that was interesting. We were just at different points in our lives. FYI, I think the official term for older women who like younger guys is “Cougars”. I’m not sure what they call older guys that like younger women.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 8:55 AM | Link to this

lol…I am a lioness til the day I die!!! lolol too funny @ M.

By Shyless

June 28, 2007 9:05 AM | Link to this

I’m not sure what they call older guys that like younger women. chile molesters, and pervs, (just joking)

By T-Mango

June 28, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

Good morning all-

I’ve tried older and younger(26ish). Can’t do younger again. At 33, so most of the folks I interact with range between 30-45 years old. I can’t make a statement that it “gets better with age.” It should…but that is not always the case. So, age is one thing. Maturity level is another. It is a critical factor.

In Lurksville, GA…

By M.

June 28, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this

@ Lady J

Ok, great you just coined the official new term! Patent pending… :)

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this

@Slim…I can’t do the younger guys…It’s a mental thing I look at them like they are my sibilings age and I know I am boderline 70s but the eighty babies are CRAZY!!! No offense just taught some and one of my sisters is off the chain…Anyway is something I never did…I am still suprised I married a guy one year older than me when I pretty much always talked to older guys…Anyway this blog is adictive and I am going to try to lurk without posting…lol

By MusingLee

June 28, 2007 9:11 AM | Link to this

I would only date up to six years older, anyone older than that would just be strange to me.

I’m not sure what they call older guys that like younger women.

M that would be called a Sugar Daddy…LOLOLOL

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…up until this year…i preferred younger women…due to me being attracted to “jazzy” type females with natural youthful beauty…that and in my mind..picturing older women more of an “auntie” type…u know.. church “girdle” wearing women with no sx appeal.I get hit on them A LOT.But recently i have ran across some Very attractive older females and the lack of games and maturity is sxy..they work out…eat right and maintain themselves with out the need of men financing it..So all is needed for me to do is add to it if needed..My age range use to be 23-36…the new age is 28-45…I have always had a thing for Clair Huxtable…some women age like fine wine..

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

No way MusingLee…Not a fair term but true bc over time that is what it is for most women!! You are fool chile!!!:)lolol

By M.

June 28, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

@ Musing Lee

Then I guess that wouldn’t be called dating then? :)

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

Good morning blogsville. Two hand azz grab to the WLB and low 5’s to the MLB. Special welcome backs to Slim aka Hairy1. I missed you boo boo. LOL

I have for the last 10 yrs dated women that are 10 to 13 younger than me and it has been great. However, I have met some really cool chicks in the late 30’s early 40’s range that are appealing in alot of ways. For one they seem to have a better grasp on their emotions and for 2 by that time they have either been married and are over that or cool with themselves.

M men that date younger women are called dogs. LMAO

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

and what is wrong with security…security does not equal gold digging you know what to me…lol

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

June 28, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone

I think I would have a hard time dating a guy in his 20s because I remember what dating guys in their 20s were about…not interested in going back to that scene. Most guys in their 20s are trying to get their career started, sow their wild oats, etc…At this stage in my life I’m looking for a partner who is on the same path and stage…career driven, but family focused! I’ve never dated anyone in their 40s either…they would have to be pretty energetic…most of the late 30s and 40 year old men I know wouldn’t be able to hang with my lifestyle….it’s pretty active. But I’m sure there are exceptions…

By M.

June 28, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

@ Laney

Since tomorrow is your last day, will you finally reveal your identity to the blog? Mia did that I think

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this

lol @Truth!

By abc

June 28, 2007 9:27 AM | Link to this

For me, within 5 years of my age is good. 10-15 years younger has proven to be not so good for me — that’s enough to put people at different stages in life, and while one can be friends with folks like that, significant relationships don’t work so well. It is a thing though, I must admit, that most women my age (late 40’s) seem to have tended to let themselves go, not keep themselves in shape, and that doesn’t work for me either. My girl is 1 year older than me, and gorgeous!

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 9:35 AM | Link to this

Lady J Yeah, it’s funny to me now because whenever a really young guy tries to talk to me I can’t help but laugh. I know I don’t look 29 but I know I can’t possibly pass for 19-22 either. This one dude was like 22 and tried to holla at me. He was trying so hard and I told him that I felt he was too young for me. So he gives his whole spill so I give in and give him my number. Well this dude showed his age really soon. Later on that night I get a text message from him but it doesn’t sound like it was intended for me. Anyway, it says something like, Bro I just met this 9.99 and I can’t wait to hang out with her. She is beautiful….So i’m sitting there like I kno this dude didn’t purposely send this text to me acting like he meant to send it to his brother. LOLOLOLOL!!! He swore up and down it was a mistake. That was too cheesy to me and so NOT believable. I never called him or took his calls after that.

By MusingLee

June 28, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

LadyJ now you know, the only reason some cute young chick gonna hang with some old dude with wrinkly ballz is for the cash flow…At 6pm he’s ready to go to bed, and she just eating dinner…LOLOLOL

By IslandGirl

June 28, 2007 9:38 AM | Link to this

Morning All

First off, I want to say welcome to Bella. I did not get a chance to post on yesterday, but I’m sure you guys had a great time getting to know each other.

Slim…I getting more jealous as your vacation grows near.

Laney, this is a great topic. I’ve always dated older men. Most people would think this is inappropriate but at 18yrs, my boyfriend was 33yrs. Our relationship was great because he was a gentleman and treated me like a queen. Since then, I dated strictly older men.

Today, my buddy is younger than I am. I can tell you in the beginning of our friendship, it was an awkward experience for me, but he is so mature that I don’t even consider his age anymore (that is another topic).

From experience, I can truly say age is nothing but a number. I’ve learned that the dynamics of a good relationship involves much more than a person’s age. I’ve dated older men with successful careers, money and a level of independence and have found some of the older guys to be less honest and set in their ways. Any which way, it really boils down to the individual person.

By Tazzee

June 28, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

Morning All!

First of all - HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE WISEST OF ALL DIVAS!!! As Samantha said to Carrie on SITC ‘welcome to my bracket’

On topic - I would be skeptical of dating a guy in his 20s, but I wouldn’t over rule it automatically. I think my cutoff for older guys is 10 years older. I can’t quite see myself with a 50 year old man just yet.

But I honestly must say that I look better with each passing year - so I can’t be mad at the younger guys for trying to be with me ;-)

By Sexione

June 28, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this

Morning……

Air kisses to the WLB, grinding hugs to the MLB

Y’all are too funny on the Sugardaddies and Cougars……

I have always dated older (except for maybe twice) because of the maturity level that most times (or should) come with age. Now that doesn’t mean I haven’t come across an old fool or two, but it is my starting point. Youngins just don’t seem to be in the same place priority-wise, sexually, mentally, socially…all that. Now I do have a limit in my mind both ways (older and younger), but it is not written in stone…….I use it on a case by case basis.

abc I feel ya……most men over 40 have let themselves go too….beer guts and whatnot….definitely a deal breaker for me.

Sexi now scanning the scene for sexy 40 sumthin dude with his head on straight (upper) and a nice body

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 9:44 AM | Link to this

@MusingLee you are right but it is some younger chicks with their head on straight who seek older men for other reasons…But you are right I see it daily when I step out in the A…It is amazing at the amount of monies being offered to them by older and I mean the older guy and most times MARRIED! lolol

By C tha 1

June 28, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

Interesting topic. My current age range is 25-35, but for some odd reason I lately come across girls around 23-24. I’m pushing it with girls 25 cause around that age most girls generally don’t know what they want. All they really know is they don’t want to be hurt by a dude … but that’s just in general.

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

Truth Glad to be back too honey. Just disregard the neosporin on my legs. I’ll be back up to Bang Your Booty Out Boot Camp standards in no time.

I’ve noticed that guys around the 35-37 year old age range tend to be very….how should I say…active…(h)orny. I thought the drive was supposed to dwindle around this age? Those are the ones that tend to gravitate towards me for some reason. I don’t know if The slimness draws them in or what but I guess because like abc mentioned, some older chicks have let themselves go. As one dude put it, they remind him of those biscuits in a can. It’s all rolled tight and pretty in the packaging, but as soon as you undo the wrapper, POP! everything boils over, sort of like pulling the string on an inflatable raft. LOLOL!

By MusingLee

June 28, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

at 18yrs, my boyfriend was 33yrs. Our relationship was great because he was a gentleman and treated me like a queen.

IslandG That’s because he wanted to bang those 18yr skins…And he was your Sugar Daddy that’s why he was such a gentleman…LOLOLOL…He’s got to be a lucky 64yr old Man where ever he is right now…hahahahaha

By Sexione

June 28, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

lol @ Slim I get hit on by everything from 9 to 99 (it seems), and I’m always thinking WTF??? is this lil dude thinking? What kills me is when the youngins say “I like older women”, and I’m saying “yep, I like older men”….hehehehe Dang, I know I look a good 20ish, but dang!! And don’t get me started on the granddaddies….okay sometimes great-granddaddies………..wooooo

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone - I’ve always dated older men (6 to 8 years older) maybe once I’ve dated a guy 2 years younger than me. It’s not that I prefer to date older men that’s just how it flows. Now adays I’m not looking to go older. I prefer to go younger because most older men that I have been meeting has been married a time and our goals aren’t the same as far as commitment.

When I was younger I remember the older ladies in the family used to say that older men gives you worms.

By Got that?

June 28, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

I tend to take people as individuals. I’ve run across a ton of so called mature women of all ages that makes me question whether women really do mature faster than men or whether they mature at the same rate, but have differing experiences. As far as age limits are concerned, there are generational gaps that I will not cross. So, that’d be probably 15 years older, but only 10 years younger. Anymore or any less is really stretching it.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this

Now the 40 and older crew seem a bit more controling to me bc I feel they are too set in their ways…Now I like ro be lead, directed and redirecteed but don’t tell me what to do and how to do it ALL the time…I am truly independent in decision making and like alot of input but I truly beat to my own drum…This group puts more fear in my fanny I may say!:)lolol

I have never been in an abusive relationship but I saw what my dad did to my mom and he wasn’t much older but those flashbacks come into play when I sniff an ounce of controling behavior!

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone!

Is this something that tends to evolve with time? This is possible, depending on one’s past experience. If one has had negative experiences with a certain age group, one might consider changing the age range. Personally, I have always been attracted to older men. In part, because of “daddy issues.” You know, looking for the father figure to replace some of the contact I did not have with my father; possibly expecting him to do what my father never did. Beyond this, I have always been mature beyond my years. Therefore, younger guys were a bore, immature, could not hold my attention; and certainly not able to teach me much of anything about love and relationships.

I am in the True Grown and Sexy age group: 40 and better. My age limit is 10 years older…not quite ready for the geriatric group.

Have you ever had the moment of realization where you started to see older — like, gasp, middle aged! — men and women as very attractive for the first time? Quite the opposite for me. Occasionally, I notice attractive, younger men.

Have a Powerful, Productive, Prosperous and Positive Day!!!

By IslandGirl

June 28, 2007 10:03 AM | Link to this

@Musing….we still talk today. He was great lover and friend. I won’t forget the things he taught me…(get your mind out the gutter…I’m not talking about sex)….lol.. He showed me respect and to not accept less than I deserve. I’m sure you’re right about him wanting to know the 18 yr old skins…lol.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Dag Slim I followed up to your response but don’t see it…oh well…lol

By QC

June 28, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers, i’ve dated older/younger Men to me it’s all about *maturity, respect, having their life in order, and just being themself….have a great day all……

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this

@ LadyJ….…Now I like ro be lead, directed and redirecteed but don’t tell me what to do and how to do it ALL the time..if i heard that from you…prepared to be controlled..lol

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Sexione That is the Youngins favorite line, “I like Older women, that’s all I date.” I’m thinking, Ahhh No. I know my purpose in life is not to teaching Growing Pains 101 & 102. lol The granddaddies are Uggghhh GROSS! I tell my cousin all the time that when you date older guys you run the risk of meeting that one thats in a whole different generation than you…You know the ones that think the women should be seen not heard, cook, clean, bear the kids, wait on them hand and foot, dress like a ho when you date but then dress like a Mormon after you get with them.

Lacey When I was younger I remember the older ladies in the family used to say that older men gives you worms I was just about the say that. You either deal with catching worms or your clothes smelling like mothballs every time you leave their house.

By IslandGirl

June 28, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

@Slim…sweetie…it gets better with age. That drive don’t dwindle. Their are a lot of over 40 yr olds having more sex than all of us combined…lol.

@ABC….that is true too some degree. I’ve been seeing alot of over weight sisters, but there are some over 40 yr women that can give me and a lot of women on this blog a run for our money.

Have any of you seen the new show on TV called, “Age of Love”? I think it aired on Monday and will continue next Monday. Check out the women on that show. You have the twenty yr olds -vs- forty yr olds seeking a 30 yr old Australian guy. The 40 yr olds look dayum good. The next they I ran three miles….shyt.

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

IG Don’t be, you’ll be there sooner than you know the end of July. Keep pushing forward till then.

By MusingLee

June 28, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

IslandG You know that ever time he and his boys are hanging out talking about they’re glory days, his “dating an 18yr old chick” story always wins right?!?! hehehehehe

By Sexione

June 28, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

QC good points!!! ^5

lol @ Slim & Lacey old men, worms and moth balls eeewwwwwwwww!!

By Raqi

June 28, 2007 10:18 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday WiseDiva (Thanks Tazzee for letting us know).

I pretty much always dated within my age range give or take a year or two. The only man “older” that I dated was 13 years older, but I had no idea at the start that he was that much older. I was 25 and I figured him to be about 30-32, but he was 38. I assumed the mature look that he sported to be a result of his personality and fine men’s wear. But other than that it has always been a year or two.

I have been approached by guys that were obviously a lot younger and undeniably very much older. Those I made a personal decision to not entertain. Now my friend Lacy is 38 and is presently dating a 26 year old. She says it’s fun. Hey more power to her. My set of friends that I associate with now, our ages range from 37 up to 45, so we all are with some one very close to our age.

When I was with the older guy it was nice experiencing the maturity that he brought to the relationship. Had he not left such a horrible feeling for men all together in me I probably would have considered dating older again…but he ruined that for me.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 10:21 AM | Link to this

What do you mean SJ, I feel in a serious relationship/Marriage God, The Man, Wife…I truly belive that and not controling but leading and being the head and I follow…Lord it is like I am preaching and I am no preacher but it is not controling…If all parties are doing what they are suppose to do it will flow, I think..Were you being sarcastic or serious with your post bc I don’t want to be controlled at all…I could be over analyzing as I do from time to time…

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 10:22 AM | Link to this

Sexione I don’t know bout that. Most 40 year old men I know got a tight azz body. I must admit though I have seen some men who are not in shape but for the most part alot of men are well kept on the physical but the emotional, now that’s another story, for example: I met this nice older man, he was maybe in his mid forties. Conversation started out well but within 3 days I knew he was someone I no longer wanted to see or talk to. Our talks were always about his downfall through life and his financial position. Just talking to him was very draining. His physic was very eye pleasing but his emotional state was a total wreck.

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

June 28, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Obesity is a problem in the US regardless of your age. This epedemic has gotten a hold of our kids at such an early age. I see these little bloated people and I’m thinking about their health and social problems they will encounter. If you’re not blessed with a great metabolism create one by living a healthy lifestyle…eat right and exercise!!

Okay, I’m jumping off my soapbox and doing 20 push ups!!

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

that most women my age (late 40’s) seem to have tended to let themselves go, not keep themselves in shape, and that doesn’t work for me either.

Well, ABC, I am in my early 40s, but I have declared on this blog and to all of my friends: Expect to see me in Essence magazine’s Timeless Beauties, Fit & Fabulous (or whatever the phrase)! LOL! Staying in shape is important, not only for looks sake, but also for your health.

By IslandGirl

June 28, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

@Musinghahaha…I’m sure it does.

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Good Meerning Blogspot.

Recently, I had a encounter with an older man, 41 or 42. I thought he was just an old man, with a young child, didn’t make anything of it. Then I started finding him attractive, his maturity level, how he spoke, the way he carried himself. He’s in shape, fit, likes to eat right, that was really attractive and motivating. I found myself trusting and respecting him enough to ask for his opinion, that’s a big step for me. If the opportunity presents itself I definitely will be dating older men in the future. I probably would not go over 10 years older than myself, depending on who I met.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

June 28, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

@Slimeone

You are too funny with your comments!

Speaking of granddadies. I was out minding my own business when this guy approach me, he look to be about 40-43yrs old. I was so shock when he told me he was 55yrs old. I didn’t give him my number but i did enjoy our conversation.. He had me laughing my butt off..

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

lol One of my July goals is to join a gym…I got the baby fat off now have to tone and can stand to lose more to and just eat better all around…but a sis does like to grub on unhealthy stuff so it will be a change…Thanks LDD for your comment!

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

@ LadyJ…i was just messing with you…but i like a female that knows her role and position…it makes a relationship flourish…you have the right idea how things are suppose to be…but you also very careful who leads u..and who u make directed and redirected statesments to ..have to make sure they are qualified to lead…but once u have found the man that is doing what he is suppose to do in the relationship..maybe u will no longer have to over analyze things..just sit back and enjoy…everything is covered…

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 10:46 AM | Link to this

It’s always making the news about female teachers having affairs with their male students. Men have been dating/marrying younger women for centuries. Now the table has turned and older women are going for younger men.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

I now SeanJohnson3000, and I am preparing my mind, body, and soul for that man!!! Boy you about to make me shout bc the leader is crucial and I put a stop to let anyone lead!!! I will let God direct and I will follow!! How about that SUNDAY SCHOOL POST!!! lol,lol

By Lady Dark w/Dimples

June 28, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Lady J Good for you! When you join a gym…try a class if you’ve never joined a gym before. Unless you have a partner that will work out with you the comaraderie in the class will motivate you to stick with it and keep coming!

By abc

June 28, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Yeah, folks will be overweight and out of shape, and by the time they’re pushing 50 they’ll have diabetes, heart problems. It’s a shame, really, to see folks that you know can no longer run, couldn’t go for a hike or ride a mountain bike, get worn out just walking through antique malls or something. Forget about playing any sports. Plus, after not keeping in shape for 30+ years, imagine how insurmountable it would seem to get oneself into decent shape — it ain’t gonna happen!

65% or more of Americans are overweight and/or obese. Bet it’s a lot higher for people 50 and over. Children are more susceptible to a variety of ailments due to their inactivity these days — too much TV and video games, not enough baseball.

Thank God, I’ve always been blessed with good health. Illness or injury could torpedo the whole health and fitness thing, y’know.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 28, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Morning Part PeoplE!! Hair flip to WLB and hugs to the MLB

On topic My ex was younger than me and I havent dated anyone older than me since high school!! LOL I just prefer that he be no more than two years younger or no more than six yrs older than me.

Lady J I have lost the baby fat and then some! I have the same goal as you, gotta get in the gym and get it right! :0)

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

June 28, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

@ Slimone

excuse my typo in your name. Doing to many things at one time.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

SJ wise words though…I am tired of analyzing and assuming and figuring it out…I am just going to let it be meaning single am I til God see different…Thanks!

And I am learning it is nothing wrong with being single and having expectations and standars!

Okay enough of testifying but I had to shout it out! lol

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Lady J hope you fulfill your goal. I work out 3 days a week and have changed my eating habits too. The pay off is worth it and once you start working out it becomes a habit you just don’t want to quit.

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 10:57 AM | Link to this

Lacey I think you have a really good point I have noticed some younger men being much more aggressive in their pursuit of older women. But I think it’s for the same reasons I was attracted to this older man that I met.

By QC

June 28, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Thanks SexieOne

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

Thanks Lady Dark w/Dimples…But I so suck at aerobics…I have NO cordination and I don’t even give it a chance and you know I love to dance but always teased that I dance like a white girl…No offense to any1 bc I know most of them can dance better than me!!

I tried out for basketball in 9th grade and the coach told me I could not dripple and run at the same time and I come from an athletic family but it skipped me! lol

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

ABC There’s alot of people who aren’t over weight who have medical problems. For instance Halle Berry, she has diabetes and she is not over weight. I used to think only over weight people get high cholesterol, well that was proven wrong since I’m not over weight and mine is slightly high. Diabetes is a hereditary disease just like most diseases are.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

@Lacey (formally purplepassion)….I want to carry it out also…Consistency is so hard for me but it is my silent prayer…I will have the extra money to join…Just have to stay focus and go!!! I am a hard headed lil thang and needing kicking in the butt from time to time to carry out and execute on goals…That is why I don’t mind being redirected!!! lol

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

@Mo, We gonna do this here girlie…I am going to start at 20…10 is water retention and the other is true pounds so that is the july goal…Now how I am going to stop eating FRIED CHICKEN!!! I LOVE IT!!!

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:13 AM | Link to this

LDD I am a cheer coach currently to and was a cheerleader for a yr but I am blessed that they are talented and teach their self for he most part but I am going to a camp to learn more in July so this year I will be more active with them…

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

LadyDark & ABC Both of you are 100% on point with your posts about obesity and major health problems. My ex-SO has diabetes. During the time we were together, he constantly said, “I know what I need to do…I just need to do it.” Okay, when? The time is now. I would get so frustrated with him because diabetes is manageable by eating healthy and EXERCISING! Some people say they do not have the time to exercise…you can incorporate exercise into your daily routine.

My current sweetie has high blood pressure. I have to fight the urge to slap his hand when he adds salt to his food…After he retired from the military, he stopped exercising. A mental thing, since he no longer had to. Well, he knows my goals of staying healthy and fit. I have no desire to be with Professor Klump.

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

abc You want to be my personal trainer? lol

MsUnderstood According to the Multitasking code 23.zxl of the WLB, you’re excused. lol

Lady J in 9th grade and the coach told me I could not dripple and run at the same time and I come from an athletic family but it skipped me You just need to start out slow. Try patting your head and rubbing your stomach, then rubbing your head and patting your stomach at the same time. Do 20 reps 3 times a day. lol

By abc

June 28, 2007 11:18 AM | Link to this

Type 2 diabetes has strong genetic links, but that doesn’t mean you’ll get it no matter what, just increases risk factors of obesity, lots of booze, high fat diet, etc. Type 1 diabetes is much less genetically linked.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

Ladylike I’ve always dated older but now I want younger for mnay reasons one of them being spontaneous and on point (if you get what I mean). I’m an active person and I don’t want anyone holding me down or out of breath b/c he can’t keep up. Now don’t get me wrong some older men can do me some justice too with being well seasoned and all compared to a strong young buck who is always eager.

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Nipples that 1025 post was right on time. 100% I must admit some of my former coworkers were in their 30’s and 300lbs + and taking viagara, regularly. Still, alot of people are making concious eforts to maintain, and it shows.

Pee Pee sry Lacey. Anyone, male or female dating a child is perv, period. Even talking with a 21 yo chick you see where her head is. She may be fine but the mind is muffed. Plus alot of these younger chicks give up way to much skin to be healthy. JMHO

SJ where did the 3000 come from? Just wondering.

I’m officially moving my age range from 25-35 to 30 to early 40’s. LOL

The Truth now looks for Jewel in the Essence “50 Years old with Babies and trying to drop 100lbs” issue. lol

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:23 AM | Link to this

okay Slim will do but that concept of doing two thing at one time has hinder me from driving a stick shift car also and I want to learn how to drive one…It seems so fun!

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:31 AM | Link to this

Okay good people…SS is offically over…Until I get home in a few, Peace!:)

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

“You just need to start out slow. Try patting your head and rubbing your stomach, then rubbing your head and patting your stomach at the same time. Do 20 reps 3 times a day”. ROFLMAO Slim you are the funniest chick I’ve ever read. You must be a freak. LOL Oh yeah, Boot Camp will be open soon. LOL

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 11:35 AM | Link to this

@ Truth…..its always been there just started putting in after my name on the blog..its on my email too..3 represents a lot of things….

By For Real

June 28, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!

Lacey There’s alot of people who aren’t over weight who have medical problems. You are right but the point abc is trying to make is that being overweight will most def cause these conditions. Also, alot of women are allowing themselves to become overweight and are not doing anything about bc of all this fat and fabulous talk going around. Self esteem is cool but when you look at yourself and then your children who’s self esteem are you considering. There too many overweight kids due to lazy parents. How are going to say you love yourself if you don’t take care of yourself?

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Truth No way will I ever date a man young enough to be my son. LOL that would clearly be a case of robbing the cradle.

I beg to differ though, most people giving up the skins are the older and supposed to be wiser. There’s a lot of baby daddies well in their late 30’s to beyond 50. And stats show that the AIDS rate is rising high in that age bracket also.

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

June 28, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog

Hair flip to the WLB, winks at the MLB

Sup people? On topic: I usually date about 27-37, not quite ten years but close enough so that my mom doesn’t trip. I do hate the grand daddies that think they want some and the Similac Kids that think they can hang, but I try not to offend. I just politely let them know that I’m looking for something different. I’ve never dated younger, always dated older men. I like maturity, but I’ve found lately that guys that are older are not necessarily mature. I’ve met some teeny boppers hidden inside of some grown azz bodies!! LOL

Happy Birthday to ya Wise Diva!!! Laney sorry to hear you are leaving, but be blessed and prosper! Welcome Aboard Bella, will you be checking your “sanity bag” at the door? LOL

By Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream

June 28, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

LOL @ LadyJ… I want to learn to drive a stick shift too. For some reason, I couldn’t turn the car to the left while driving one and then the car kept cutting off. I was very frustrated. I started to buy a stick and force myself to learn, but some one said that I would burn out the clutch trying to do that. They said it would be better for me to rent a stick shift and learn how to drive that.

By For Real

June 28, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

LadyJ but that concept of doing two thing at one time has hinder me from driving a stick shift car Hmmm ok.

Scratch LadyJ off the Girls Capable of Doing Sex Move #38 list

Who are the other blog ladies that can’t do two things at one time?

By panther 87

June 28, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Why is it o.k for women in there 20’s & 30’s to say they like older men,But a man who is in his 30’s & 40’s who only likes younger women in their 20’s is frowned on?I’m 37 and is dating a 25 yr old woman but my female coworkers,family members,and other female friends thinks its a disgrace,but all of them are dating or have dated men 5 or 10 years older than them!

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

Lacey that active point is very important, I should probably consider that, especially the older was a ballplayer at one time. Every older man or woman will not be active like others.

Weighing in on the Weight Issue I use to be overweight, in fact, I was pretty Thick in my opinion. But I started working out eating a more balanced diet. Don’t get me wrong I’m having a Strawberry Chocolate Covered Cholate Waffle bowl now, I treat myself. Be rational with weight loss and incorporate it as a lifestyle change not just “I’mma lose 35 pounds”.

By For Real

June 28, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Ok add Mocha to the goofy chick list.

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

Happy Birthday Wise Diva, and many, many more!

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

For RealTrue, on point and I understand that being over weight may cause some health issues. Most of the health issues we are experiencing comes from the food we eat also. Antibiotics, growth hormones and only God knows what else they are putting into food these days and vegetables too cuz there are some over weight vegetarian out there also. Children are suffering from HB pressure and high cholestrol too. Many young people are suffering aliments that older adults used to suffer. I say it’s the food we eat. Like seafood. I refuse to eat salmon from China, Chile or anywhere else except here. Farm raised catfish that’s a no no. It’s been so long since I had catfish I forgot how it taste. Our food is not being carefully monitored and as a result we the consumers are suffering at an alarming rate.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

I knew someone would take it there but a man a car are two different things CRAZY…You betta watch who you scratch For Real lol

@Mochalatte Peach with Extra Cream…I am going to learn before I am thrity…Want to buy a sports car by thirty-five…I am going to find someone with an old honda or toyota that does mind me learning…

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 12:03 PM | Link to this

Lady J I must admit I do enjoy driving a stick at times but when I had one, living here definitely made me despise it. Imagine sitting in bumper to bumper traffic with a cramp in both legs. Arrggg!!

Truth you are the funniest chick I’ve ever read. You must be a freak. Now I apologize for my confusion but since when did being funny=freak?

Mocha You and Lady J are treding in deep waters with the stick shift talk….Rent one? lol

For Real what’s up babe? So exactly how many moves do you have in that manuel of yours? and how many of those are you actually capable of performing? And No the tootsie roll doesn’t count as a move

panther 87 To answer you question, I just think it has that icky factor. “Old Dirty Man seeking Fresh Naive Moldable Tender Roni”

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 12:09 PM | Link to this

Lady J & Mocha Actually, one weekend I came home from Ga Southern there was a new car sitting in the driveway. I was so excited since it was a total surprise. My excitement quickly dissipated when I looked inside and saw it was a 5-speed. My stepdad told me to hop in and I learned how to drive a stick that same weekend. The hardest part is getting out of 1st and of course being on a hill. Once you get a feel of the car and have the listening part down, you’re good to go. Next thing you know, you’ll be setting up drag races in the back of the Wal-mart parking lot. Vrooomm vrooomm!

By For Real

June 28, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Lacey I feel you on the food thing but the human body is an amazing creation. If we would make our children exercise or go out and play like our parents did us then we wouldn’t see soooo many overweight kids. Parents have made these kids too soft. I read a story I believe in Philly that said summer school was cancelled bc it was too hot in the build. Back in the day they would have opened the windows and turn lights off and kept going.

By SmileyC

June 28, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

As most know I am 23, I’m a LEO so my birthday is coming up in Aug. Anyhow; I have always dated older men. I prefer men my age and above. The oldest person I have been in a relationship with was 9yrs older then me. I presume I date older men b/c I’m not on the same wavelength as some of my peers. I have a lot of friends who are a few yrs. older then me as well. I could possibly pass for an 18-20 yr old. Most people say I look very young, they card me for everything! It’s so annoying! Although, I look young most of the men who approach me are much older then me. I remember this one guy was trying to talk to me; he was like you look like you are 16 yrs of age. I was like if I look like I am 16, WHY are you talking to me! My brother was with me at the time, got rid of him. But the max for me is 10yrs older, cause I don’t want to be dating my dad in stuff…you know…my parents are young! Almost 40…

By IslandGirl

June 28, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

@*panther 87 *…DO YOU. Your girl is 25 yrs old- she is grown and your grown. Stop worrying about what folks say. You’re the one that will have to deal with the relationship…

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

HHHHEEEEEEEE’SSSSS backk

Whew!!!!! South Ga will make you miss Atlanta and the traffic……thanks for all the well wishes……

My country behind kin folks made me glad to come home

Oh yeah ya’ll know i got to do my report on that Hot Mess called the BET AWARDS

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Pee Pee is that a public service announcement? LOL So true tho. Questionable food at best and total lack of exercise are going to do this world in. Its not just america anymore. Japan and other countries are showing cracks in the wall too as they become more westernized. Smoking, drinking, Playstation. What a combo.

Mocha and LJ I learned to drive a stick after buying one in Savannah and driving to Ft. Stewart, a 45 min ride. I wouldn’t recommend that to my ex wife. I was a rolling road hazard. People were honking and shooting the bird at me because the car was rolling everywhere. Looking back it is hilarious but those folks did not appreciate my youthful vigor. LOL Start in a parking lot.

Whats up with this rash of folks killing their mates and families? The wrestler, the cop killing his gf’s husband. WTF is going on? Doesn’t anyone know how to just leave nowadays? LOL

Ladylike how much weight did you lose? If you don’t mind me asking.

By For Real

June 28, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

For Real: Oh yeah baby I am ready. You ready???

Chick: Oh yeah I’m ready too baby but I can’t get it out 1st..

For Real: Awww Dayummm cmon.. Now if it shut off I ain’t doing no mo four play.

Chick: Awwww why not?

For Real: Hellz naws.. I’m gonna kick start yo azz

For Real passes out from trying to push and jump in

By For Real

June 28, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

Panther87 I think your parents and friends are right. You should do the right thing and give her to me. Why should you go thru all this pressure with your folks. The MLB is here just for those things.

Remember, membership has its privileges

By QueDogVacationing

June 28, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while just chillin.

When I was younger, I wanted the older, more mature, had it together woman. So I have dated a few women older than me. My earliest was when I was a freshman in college, and an older woman (28) at church saw me out one night and said that I wasn’t a little boy anymore, (That was a good night) fast forward to one Sunday at church when my mother told her rather loudly to leave me alone and let me go out with young ladies, and she emphasized the word young.

But as I have gotten older, and more mature, and gotten my self together, I am more attracted to younger, more vibrant, and still want to be in love without the luggage of past heartbreaks. Just my thoughts.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 12:26 PM | Link to this

You’re right For Real things has changed. TV, computers, video games and other devices are taking place of outdoor fun. Then again on the other hand being outside is dangerous too. Children are being kidnapped by a snap of a finger too. When my kids were young they played outside everyday. They played eat and sometimes used the bathroom outside. LOL Now you tell a child to go outside they look at you like being outside bad is a bad word.

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

What’s up Truth, I have lost about 30 pounds so far. Many of my friends are big girls so they think I’m getting too small but what was thick then is still now, it’s just smaller.

By For Real

June 28, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

Musing can you help me out with one ramdon thought that I have been having?

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 12:35 PM | Link to this

Ok where do i start…wow Mo’Nique did her thang…but come on..dancing so hard your feet SWELL up and a shoe pops off…..U know they had Oxygen tanks for the girls..lolol(Dont get mad)

Then my,my, my what in the hellz was *Jennifer Holliday smoking..she looked like she was about to eat someone..or she was trying out for the Wicked Witch in the new version of THE WIZ

Kelly Rowland I dont know what it was but EVE saved her performance….wow then to bring Michelle and Solange on stage with Beyonce(Shake-e-moma) wowowowoow….though i must admit i overall liked the show..it had its fair share of big let downs….for one how come the Sound System sounded sooooo weakk….come on BET…..this aint the first time ya’ll did a show….

But the biggest props goes to my girl erika big budda badu wow she has really gotten thick…keep eating yo greens and cornbread…..yes ladies your fair share of *Eye Candy was there also….Tank, Geniune,Bow Wow, Omarion…LL…And Charlie Murphy(lololololol)

Will someone tell *Jennifer Hudson to change her Stlyist also…that dress makes everyone thinks she is with child..come on now…all that money in Hollywood and they cant get a better dress

GaMan now paying the teller for long post….fifty….one hundred…..two-fifty

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

@ Slim..i gotta agree with truth..u are a funny chick…thats kinda rare..Do you show that side to men u date? How do you switch the mood..from jokes to sensual?

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Slim I apologize, those were suppose to be to separate comments. “you are the funniest chick I’ve ever read” stands alone. My personal observation is you must be a freak. Is that better? LOL

Personal observation: I just got out of the shower and looked at myself nude. Not bad for a guy my age, but I could be better. I have always been blessed not to have a beer gut (my waist is 34, 35 after a good meal lol) but I could stand to hit the weights again. It never hurts to lose 5-10 lbs. So, my question is, whose in it with me? (LOOKS around) We can post our lost weight on the blog. My goal is 10 lbs and I always shoot for 2-3lbs a week so we’re talking about 4 weeks. Whose game? LOOKS around again. We can motivate each other.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

I’m going to have my lunch it’s made in China, package in Bagdad and shipped by unknow source.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

Personal observation: I step out the shower this morning. I looked in the mirror and say dang my boobs aren’t so perky any more. I look at my stomach and nod and say just I can stand to lose a couple of inches there. I turn around and look at my butt and fell the fugg out because it looked much more different in jeans. LOL

TruthI commit myself to lose 8 lbs in 3 months.

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this

GAMAN welcome back. Sorry to hear about your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

Thanks Truth

By SlimOne

June 28, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

Sean J I didn’t realize that funny chicks were scarce. I might need to start popping out some funny offspring then. lol To answer you question I’m like this most of the time. I’m the one in the family that always finds something funny to say about a situation. So if i’m with a dude that’s a dud, then I’m outtie 500. I can’t deal with a person with a stale @ss attitude.

How do you switch the mood..from jokes to sensual? Come on now SJ, I thought you knew me better than that. Believe me, I have no problem with making the transition. Just like that Michael Jackson song…That’s Just another Part of Me.

Truth LOL, yous a skrait knucklehead…So I should’ve read your post like a telegram? You’re the funniest chick I’ve ever read. stop. You must be a freak. stop. I really want to share my old toenail collection with you too. stop Anyway, I personally don’t like the term ‘freak’ as an adjective to describe me. As previously stated on past topics, I am merely comfortable with myself.

By kinderbabe

June 28, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

hey everybody! on topic i definitely prefer dating someone older. i’m in my early 30s and don’t find that i have a lot in common w/men my age or younger. the guy i’m involved w/now is 9 years older and it’s a great fit. our maturity levels are similar as well as our interests.

GAman you’re hilarious w/your BET awards commentary. i’m glad i’m not the only one who though jhudson was pregnant…lol. her stylist needs to be fired! plus, girlfriend needs to investment in a good old-fashioned girdle…lol.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 1:09 PM | Link to this

Ya’ll know that’s what i do….if it happens i will tell it…almost as bad as the host having LL pull her shoe off cause she was toooooo tired from dancing to get it off….

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

Slim thats it exactly. Like a telegram. My mind is like a series of random thoughts. Stop. LOL Ok, from this point further Slim will never be referred to as a freak. Simply comfortable, real comfortable, comfortable as hellz. Let it be written, let it be law.

Pee Pee 8 lbs in 3 months? Are you on Slim Slow or what? We gotta get this thing done and then our work is maintenace. Hi protein, low carb, running sweating, physical exertion. Sounds like my boot camp, HMMMMMMMMMMMM

SJ can you imagine dating a chick like Slim? Right in the midlle of lovemaking she cracks a joke and you laugh so hard you lose your wood. Its a wrap. LOL

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

lol @ Slim…Truth I am gonna get it brotha…Hey Ga.man…Family will work the las nerve…I want to hang my sister sometimes…I am like were we birth from the same people…

Hey Kinderbabe!!!

Another thing about an older man I think their wooing skills are better…I was listening to 104.1 and a song was on “Hey I abeen watcing for such across the room…anyway I turned it to 103.3 and of course T-Pain was saying got money in the bank blah blah so no pun either way just think older is more tactful at wooing and I loved to be wwoed…I think most women do love being swept off their feet and for it to be done throughout the duraion…

Disclaimer I am in grad school on line and the key is participation and posting so since I master this blog I am going to master that 4 week class…When I did it before my posting sucked but did the work without a problem now I am posting like crazy in class bc I post like crazy on the blog!!! Why not use it tomy advantage!!!

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

Working too hard, that’s almost everyday. Anywho!!

You are funny to read Slimone.

And Truth I don’t mind a challenge I’m sure I can take it. I will loose another 10 pounds by the end of July.

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…i know its a part of you…a side u dont/cant hide…..i just wanted you to tell me in 3rd person…as far as females being funny…i think its umcommon because for the most part men and women look at things from diffrent perspectives so our sense of humor is different…a lot of females are more silly than funny..

@ Truth…lol…slim aint THAT funny….

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

Hey Lady J

By NCGirlfromATL

June 28, 2007 1:45 PM | Link to this

Heeey GA!! Glad you’re back, and Peace & Blessings to you and your family

On topic: My general age range is 33-40. Yep, it’s narrow, but I think there’s a maturity level that seems unique to that age range. Younger than 33 is still too close to the 20s for me, and I think something happens once you pass 40. It’s a different level of maturity that I don’t think I’ve reached yet. So, I think I’d get frustrated with a man over 40. Dunno for sure, b/c 40 is as old as I’ve dated. But, I don’t think I’m quite ready to go older yet.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 1:51 PM | Link to this

Hey sexione,mo,raqi,lacey,qc.laney,wise…welcome bella

head nod to the fellas…..MLBforLife

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Truth since I took the vow of celibacy I have work out in the gym to make up for the sx I used to have 3 x’s a week LOL…

By For Real

June 28, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Truth Speaking of losing your wood. I remember this one time at band camp j/k at college me and this chick was watching a Rage in Harlem. Well things got a little touchy feely so we went at it but left the movie on. Well I am going at it real good when I hear the part of movie when the Champ is studderring calling Po-Po a ppppunk mmmmother fffffu. I couldn’t stop laughing. I had to stop. She was mad as hellz which made it even more funny.

By QC

June 28, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

Ga.Man, Truth & For Real aka the Real 3 Muskateers y’all are keeping me awake today…..

Hey Kinderbabe

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this

@SmileyC…I am a Leo too and my 10yr high school class reunion is my bday weekend!! I am too excited!!! Enjoy your day my fellow lioness!!!

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

hey there Nc

By kinderbabe

June 28, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

hey ladyj and QC:)

By kinderbabe

June 28, 2007 1:59 PM | Link to this

hey ladyj and QC:)

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

ok here is another….why did Keisha Cole’s weave look like someone ran over it with a 69 Chevy pick-up………lololololol

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

Sorry to hear about your lost Gaman my prayers are with you an your family.

By Sexione

June 28, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

Heeeyyy GAman glad u made it back!!

Welcome Bella, I don’t think I’ve actually said it…….as someone metioned earlier, you may want to check your sanity at the door lol

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this

Truth Thanks hun for passing that law. Now I can let the real freak…Oops,I meant comfort come out. lol I see you might have a program for losing weight but do you offer anything in the realm of just toning up?

Sean J Well me being able to see things from more than just one perspective is a blessing and a curse. In life I often can narrow things down to at least two things but find it hard to make a dayum decision. I almost end up going one way, only to bust a Uey and try the other thing too. Slim is crazy like that. And about being silly versus funny, I guess i’m a little bit of both.

Lacey Sex is great exercise. I was going to suggest that but refrained.

4Real I think you meant Harlem Nights

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

I have a confession…Since way back when I was in college I never watched BET…I watch the girfriend marathon that is about it…I read online and here people talk about the awards but never sat and truly watched it…Can’t watch lifetime either…lol I am so out of loop with videos…

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 2:10 PM | Link to this

Welcome back, GaMan.

Anyone interested in going to Play Date this Saturday? I receive their email notices and they now have a SINGLE MAN EXCHANGE PROGRAM!!! LOL! Lawd have mercy! They want the single women to invite their high-quality single male friends. Apparently, the best single women in Atlanta will be there. Quote: bring out some available men then there is more of a selection for the other ladies. Selection? Like in the produce aisle at Publix or Kroger?

By Tazzee

June 28, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

Truth I’m in, my goal is another 15 by August 30 - going on another trip on August 31 - so I want to reach my next goal by then. Pee Pee 8 lbs in 3 months? Are you on Slim Slow or what? - LOL, you are wrong for that one!

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

GA.man Keyshia Cole needed to have on some more comfortable shoes. She was walking like she stuffed a size 9 into a size 7 shoe. And Diddy needs to vow not to ever lip sync again. It’s lip syncing people, it can’t be that hard!

By For Real

June 28, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

Lacey celibacy What’s that and are you taking something to get rid of it? It sounds nasty….

Hey QC. Hey NC. Hey Kinder

MLB & WLB Sports question:

Who do yall think the Hawks should take. My picks. Hortford & Law and look to make a trade before the season starts.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this

GamanWhat about Ciara wearing a bag imitating a dress at the awards?

By Tazzee

June 28, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

Dang Jewel If I was going to be in ATL I would be there with you. I even know which guy friend I would bring - on the surface he seems like a great catch - it takes a while to figure out he has major issues, LOL.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this

Tazzee I’m not paying Truth a bit a attention ppppsssss Losing weight at a fast rate is not healthy. I average 2 lbs per month so to lose 8 lbs in 3 months is on target. I’m not trying to be a bean pole LOL Just maintaining the size I wear- an 8.

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

lol @ 4Real and lol @ Jewel…I am yet to do a Play date but get the emails…I am going to check out Seasons tomorrow in Tucker…Heard good things…

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

@For Real I don’t have a clue about the Hawks or NBA just want my baby Kobie happy!!! lol

It is almost that time…NFL that is!

By Tazzee

June 28, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

Lacey I got you, it’s not like you have a lot of weight to lose and I’m going to encourage you on your 8lbs just like I would if it was 28!

Slim Slow is still funny, though

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

LOL For Real you’re so silly…ssssmmmmmaaacccckkkk smearing bubble gum flavored lip gloss on the tip of your ear lobe

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 2:32 PM | Link to this

@ 4real…hard to say…had the center from Georgetown came out..he would be perfect for the Hawks…but i guess Hortford will do…He is a power forward…and they need a real center..but he is phyical…Law is a good look..but i really like the lil pg from ohio state…he may be a reach at 11 though..on a side note…why is the quality of females that goes to the Hawks game way better than the Falcons games…The Hawks games are serious…depending on who comes to town..

By Tazzee

June 28, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this

Lady J - you like Kobe??? or as a good friend of mine refers to him Kobiatch? I haven’t thought kind of that lil sucka since he entered the NBA tombout he refused to play for the Hornets (I lived in Charlotte at the time).

Oh well, you’re still my girl though…smh - her baby Kobiatch…

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:37 PM | Link to this

Sex is great exercise. I was going to suggest that but refrained Slim you know I got ya back!

lawdy lawdy do I miss those excercise, even my eyes got excercise b/c it was always rolling to the back of my head.

By Sexione

June 28, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

lmsao @ the awards!!!

Jewel that sounds interesting……hmmmm

LadyJ don’t feel bad, I don’t watch BET either (other than the awards, and I don’t care if I miss them), can’t stand most videos either…..oh well! lol

I’m outta here…….till tomorrow!!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 28, 2007 2:39 PM | Link to this

Lady J I heard Seasons was aiight. Some of my girls went and they liked it so I may frequent there myself sometime this summer.

Truth I will do the weight loss/tone up program! I want to lose about 5lbs more but I need to get these legs back in shape and get my arms toned up some.

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

LOL! Tazzee I was thinking about inviting Longtime Lurker LOLOLOLOL! They would ban me forever!

By Tazzee

June 28, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this

SJ3000 As a regular attendee of Falcons games, I won’t take offense to your question. But if I were to take a stab at an answer, it would be because folks mainly go to Hawks games to be seen, not to actually watch a game. Personally, I wear jerseys to the Falcons games. But when I got to a basketball I dress a little jazzier and put on a little rouge.

By the time I make it into the GA Dome, I’ve loaded and unloaded the truck for tailgating. Assisted the grill master and been out in the elements for at least 4 hours. I usually smell like smoke (grill smoke, not cigarette smoke) too. But before we leave the tailgate site, I try to throw on a little rouge, LOL.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Thank you Tazzee Girl Power!

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this

As a proud 1st yr Season Ticket Holder SJ what do you mean dear about quality…I feel the NBA let alone the Hawks and Falcons too have loss their touch but I love the NFL…lol

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

Mo Slim sex on the washing machine, spin cycle, now that’s vibration along with the aerobic workout. LOL

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

@Tazzee…I love the NEW Kobie…The brotha grew up and matured and became a man…The haters think he is a cry baby and a punk but he is good people!!! #8 am I…His wife found her place to and I am glad they are still together regardless of the ring and money!!! He showed a human side and rebounded gracefully!!! Kudos to Kobie!

Be back shortly!

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Lady J I went once last year with my girlfriend. The age group appeared to be 23-35. Too young. My girlfriend and I were the only ones 40 and over, until these two old fogies decided they wanted to play Uno with us. My sweetie and I have decided that is one event we do not need for entertainment. They had a lot of fun games, just not the crowd we prefer.

Truth Does that weight loss plan include 9.5 lbs of ego? LOL!

By kinderbabe

June 28, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

hey forreal

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

celibacy What’s that and are you taking something to get rid of it? A snicker bar b/c on the back it says Satisfies For Real

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

@ Taz and LadyJ…dont get me wrong…i see some nice looking females at the Falcons game.sprinkled about….but the Hawks games..maaaan…the females come looking good.in packs.might be the due to the season..it being fall and winter and boots and tight jeans are in..

@ LadyJ…I see you have a thing for Kobe..i know u like to over analyze things…..dont be surprised in a chance meeting with dude..you yourself being..”analyzed”..lmao

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 28, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

Ladylike I hear that on the washing machine!! But since I am newly single I am having to find other means of releasing some energy. Hence why Truth’s weight loss thing is okay for me!! Aerobics here I come!!LMAO!!!

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

Pee Pee, Tazzee is trying to get us beefin. You know I meant that in the best possible way. LMAO (It was funny tho)

Alright ev1 thats in lets get started. Hold on, I have to finish this cake. Dam its good. Really, 2-3 weeks is a healthy goal for me. We need daily updates on your activities people and that means cupcakes and twinkies. Full disclosure.

Slim for toning I do have a referral program where I send you to some soft dude that will make gentle love with you. You know how I get down baby. I’m The Thruth.

Mo I can help with those legs. What I do is put them on my shoulders and…Lmao

Hi QC. I want to officially change your name to *QT meaning cutie pie because you always come in here late as hell and say hi to folks and its real cute. Let me know and I can get your name change thru without the 47 pages having to be filed. I knows peoples.

Pee Pee before you even ask, NO. And wWHAT IN THE HELL IS A VOW OF CELIBACY? Is that french?

By For Real

June 28, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

Kobe’s Wife: Cmon baby he want be back for another 4 hrs. Let me take this ring off.

For Real: Are you sure. Man that ring is nice as hellz.

KW: You like the ring huh? You can have all of this (while laying on the bed nekked in the W position) or you can have the ring.

For Real snatches the ring and dives out the window you can hear him say MOB babyyyy

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

lol @ SJ and Mo, get out there girlie…take it slow and enjoy!!! It is many new spots in the burbs that are quaint and groovy…Now SJ I have to ask meet who Kobie, yeah right and he is MARRIED!! So I doubt that…One day on ESPN they was like Kobie would you go to ATL and he chuckled he just wants a team that is all!lolol Now who am I a fake Pamela Oliver!! lol

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

Ladylike I’ve never experienced Washing Machine love but i’ve always heard about it. I’ve just never thought about washing clothes and having sex at the same time. lol

By Always ON

June 28, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

Jewel Any further information i.e. links or email to the play date event on Saturday would be greatly appreciated! How do you get on their email list?

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

Truth Celibate/Abstinence from sx. shrudding my shoulders don’t akc like you donno LOL. Can you imagine being celibate for the rest of your life like the monks and nuns?

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

4 Real For Real snatches the ring and dives out the window you can hear him say MOB babyyyy Boy I’m about to be crying over here laughing at you. ROTFLMAO!

Truth I don’t know how a soft dude can tone me up. That one has Slim scratching her head.

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 3:24 PM | Link to this

@ LadyJ…i am sorry…but Kobe although hell on the court…is a sucka…Dude.. “analized some lil room service house keeper then…cried on TV to his wife about it after he was accused of taking it.that big azz stone aint gonna make her forget about that..u take care of that in house…His pops TOLD him not to get married let alone marry that chic.Even her dad said her and her mom are gold diggers…I aint gonna mention how he put Shack on blasted…..when he got caught up….

By For Real

June 28, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

SlimDaComfortableOne I like that… Now let me hear you purr after saying it. But don’t purr like the old chick in Distinguished Gentleman. EWWWWW!!!! Nevermind..

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 3:27 PM | Link to this

Siimone that’s usually done by those with children in house. Most parents hide from the kids, wash, and get their groove at the same time. LOLLOLLOL

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

FDA just issued a ban on all seafood from China b/c of antimicrobials Yes that includes shrimps. If you go shopping tonight and you see a pack of 30 shrimps for $5.99 please don’t buy it. Now I know why Captian D’s and Long John Silver has shrimp dinners for so cheap b/c they get their seafood from China.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 28, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Truth my legs are already strong enough, I just want them toned up!! LMAO!! You are too much!

Lady J I will be out there soon enough. I plan to fully enjoy my new single life!!

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

Jewel I cant believe you turned on me like that. I thought we were better than that. Apparently not. THe Truth is hurt to the bone. However, if I could cut off my ego I’d be severely underweight. LMAO

Kobe is still a punk. Although he’s a great bb player. He can’t make those around him better (think mike and Scottie Pippen) and thats why they lose. I think I have some old bright gold trunks with purple stripes 70’s style crotch hugger shorts in the closet. If he cant get the job done I’m going active again. LOL “Kobe to The Truth for another ally oop.

Sj I feel you on the Hawks gms. Hotties everywhere. If your with someone special tho do a night gm at Turner Field on a cool night. Me and ol girl had a ball. Sorry The Truth is getting misty eyed riminiscing. I gotta go. Sniff sniff

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

@ Purple Passion….i doubt anything u eat for LJS or Capt D’s ever swam anything except for grease…

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

I know SJ…We all live and learn and experience is what…Now I don’t care for Shaq so again I support Kobie…I was not in favor of the marriage or race either but hey to each his own but I still feel he has grown over the short years SJ…We all have a CLOSET FULL OF MESS!!! lol Analyze that! lol

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

Wait one dayum minute Truth how the hellz you gone change QC name just like that, but make me fill out 47 pages of paper?

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

Lacey gurl thank you for the tips but u making me noxious over here. But lately I have been asking where the meat comes from, I’m starting not trust some of the countries we do business with.

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

Slim now putting on Ertha Kitt costume with fish net stockings waiting on Real to give me some good physical therapy Purrrrrrrrrerrrrrerrrererererer

Ladylike I have to be sure to put that in my “Keepin It Hott” journal for whenever I have kids. Now that I think about it, I think I use to do that kind of thing when i was in Highschool. Tell my mom I’m downstairs with (insert boys name here) but little did she know we were studying anatomy.

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

@ LadyJ…whats in your closet?

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Play Date

When: Saturday ~ June 30, 2007 Time: 8pm until 2am Where: Crowne Plaza Ravinia (across from Perimeter Mall, off I-285) Directions: 770-395-7700 Who: Singles, Couples, Groups, EVERYONE **(And all selections for the exchange program) What: Food, Drinks, Music, and GAMES! Why: Because…the single ladies are out to PLAY! Cost: $5 before 10pm ($10 after 10pm) w/ FREE parking

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

thanks again all

Bella I sure hope they(Laney and Wise) told you about us..it is one thing to be a sub..but to be here all the time is CRAZY…lololol

Jewel let me know about this fishing…i mean Playdate….hit me with the info..you still got the email right…

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

Ok all ….I am outta here….until next time….if you got problems…put GOD in them and he can fix them….you can take that to the Bank Trust me my family made me use this….alot this week…lolol

One LOVE

MLB for LIFE

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

Ladylike Who said I was a gurl?? I could be a man who likes purple lace :)

Gotcha! I’m all WOMAN

Better to be noxious now by reading than noxious by eating those muggs form China

By Always ON

June 28, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

Jewel Thanks!

By Lady J

June 28, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

@SJ3K, inquiring minds what to know…:)

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

GaMan Read my beautiful, full lips: I AIN’T GOING TO THAT THING!!! LOL! Besides, they are looking for high-quality men…Maybe you should go…I think Tazzee is the only one who understood the full context of my post.

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 4:07 PM | Link to this

See Lacey, that’s I’m not on this blog telling all my business because we would be surprise as to who we are all talking with. LOL

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

Pee Pee someone posted that using my name. People are trying to get us beefin. Its a conspiracy. The Truth is now backpeddling.

By For Real

June 28, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

EWWWWWWWW stop Slim That’ just nasty. Can we play jinga instead???

Jewel The play date thing looks interesting.

By GA.man AKA "Mr. Entertainment

June 28, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

They are very beautiful too….chica….ok oooh maybe i might catch one of ya’ll at the Mall of Ga then….lololol

ok I am out for real this time…Jewel hit me on the email….

By MusingLee

June 28, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

Jewel Is this a swinger’s conference???LOLOLOLOL…You know Demi will be there if it is…hahahahaha

He’ll be wearing a gold body suit, some Snoop Braids, and holding a step ladder to reach the taller ladies.

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

Jewel I just went back and read your post. LOL, okay you funny.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

Trust ladylike It’ll be like finding out the person on the other end of a sx phone call is a 80 year old man with a partial grill in his mouth. LOL

Truth I think it’s For Real impersonating you.

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

4 Real I’m not really feeling like Jenga today. How about Battleship instead? Slim trying to sink his D-attleship

By SeanJohnson3000

June 28, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

@ Demi…lmao…yousa fool

By Demi

June 28, 2007 4:28 PM | Link to this

He’ll be wearing a gold body suit, some Snoop Braids, and holding a step ladder to reach the taller ladies.

You Dayum skippy!!!

Now searching blog manson for Swinger’s Conference Room

Good Afternoon to All

By For Real

June 28, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

Awww hellz I know I got to now Musing. You got a sick mind….

By For Real

June 28, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

Slim How about play hide and go get it but you have cover one of your eyes.

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this

That’s okay, Ladylike. You will get “Better with Age.” LOL!

You guys are CRAZY! LOL! Looks like Always ON Demi will have some fun Saturday night! LOL!

Jewel now unsubscribes to Play Date email notices…

By The Truth

June 28, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this

Jewel the playdate thing looked like fun on the site. Was there something that made you not like it?

By Ladylike

June 28, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this

Lacey In some cases on the blog I think it is. Well people I’m out, gotta go.

Laney you take care and I’m sure you will be very happy and successful along your journey.

Peace, Folks.

By Demi

June 28, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this

Jewel blog roses to you babe, cause you know I am going, LOL thanks for the heads up

By Jewel

June 28, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

Truth The age group. Too young. Just like OSS (Old School Saturdays). Judging by the pictures on the website, the crowd looks under 40…old school wannabes, in my humble opinion.

By SlimDaComfortableOne

June 28, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

For Real I have a better idea. We can play connect the dots. We’ll take turns placing the dots, the other one will try to connect them. I’ll go first. Slim places a dot on her dookie shoot and one on Real’s mouth.

By Lacey (formally purplepassion)

June 28, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Good nite Everyone!

By For Real

June 28, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this

Slim I don’t have a problem with that.

For Real with Truth like force sends the two dots up Slim’s previous small dookie shoot