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One of my favorite episodes of “Sex and the City” (yes, it has to come up from time to time in a single gal’s dating column!) is when Carrie shares her theory about how men are like taxicabs.

In case you haven’t been lucky enough to see this, I’ll explain: She says that when it comes to men, everything is a matter of timing, same as trying to hail a cab. If a cab drives by that doesn’t have its “for hire” light on, no matter how desperate or attractive you are, you can’t get it to stop for you — and the same goes for guys. But as soon as the cab turns its light on — or a guy metaphorically does the same, by deciding he is ready for a relationship — the first suitable woman ahead is the one who gets to go along for the ride.

One of my biggest dilemmas with men, though, is understanding what gets them to “turn on their light.” So I turn it over to my male readers today for a little insight: Guys, how do you know that you are ready for a relationship? Is it a conscious or unconscious decision? Are you aware of it? What factors play in? Are there times in your life when you are simply not open to a relationship?

Carrie implied that women are always ready for a relationship, or at least open to one, which is why they don’t get to fit into the taxicab imagery. I’m not sure I agree with this. Ladies, what do you think? Are you always ready for a relationship? If you’re not, same questions as the guys — what makes you ready for one, and how do you know that you are?

For everyone, have you ever been burned by a member of the opposite sex who truly wasn’t open for a relationship… or is that just one of those lines people use, like “I just want to be friends” or “It isn’t you, it’s me?”

Is there anything you can do to get someone to “turn on their light,” or is it a decision that a person makes for him or herself regardless of outside input?

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By GA.man

June 11, 2007 8:26 AM | Link to this

Dang its Monday already..head nod to the ALL POWERFUL MLB

WINKS and HUGS to the WLB

Need coffee…stat

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 8:26 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning Blog Fam!!

Good topic, Laney. I don’t think that women (in general) are always ready (or willing) for a relationship. Sometimes though, all it takes to change a mind (male and female) is meeting that person who makes you rethink your decision…..the WOW factor!

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog Family…Great Topic!

By Biff

June 11, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this

You’ve got to seperate the ho’s from the breedable women. That chick on Sex and the City was a ho, that’s why so many post feminist era women identify with her.

Ho’s are for these kind of fake relationships you folks talk about here on the blog and what happens when I identify a chick I want to hammer, its just a seedy side of our failings as humans.

I’m getting ready to quit my life as a stud and go find a decent girl somewhere who doesn’t have snakes in her head.

By Jay

June 11, 2007 8:54 AM | Link to this

Morning LadyJ. DId you join the BOC this weekend? Hello Everyone.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 9:01 AM | Link to this

Laney, S & C is my favorite show too and I am late watching it and still catching up thanks to on demand but at any rate…I feel after a cetertain amount of time is invested one party wants something more concrete..It can go either way but I am use to seeing the woman want more and the man saying we are friends but doing everything two people in a relationship do but committ…Sometimes a woman will cut if or it becomes the friends with benefit thing which can be draining…As some of the blog men put it is two categories and for the most part a woman knows in the beginning what the man is seeking and it is up to us to roll with it or cut it lose after what we want can’t be granted…JMO

By Jake

June 11, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Peeps:

Laney

Some say taxicab theory, I say motel. If the vacancy light isn’t on, ther is no “room” for you.

Guys, how do you know that you are ready for a relationship? you just know, because she makes want to cool out wit her instead of the other stuff you could be doing

Is it a conscious or unconscious decision? *Yep, we decide that we are ready for one lady, instead of “humpin around”..LOL

Are you aware of it? Yep

What factors play in? who knows

Are there times in your life when you are simply not open to a relationship? Unfortunately ladies, dudes are like that, there have been times in mylife when I just preferred to be single, it has mostly to do with selfishness, just not wanting to deal with the compromising of self and time; the sharing decisions and whatever else comes with a steady relationship.

Blogs Roses for the WLB.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

Morning Jay what is the BOC…I can also be reached @ bubbles0879@gmail.com anytime…

By abc

June 11, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

There’s no such thing as “it’s not you, it’s me”. No, sorry, it’s you, count on it.

I actually agree with Biff. Must be time for another cup of coffee.

By T-Mango

June 11, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

…T-Mango walks into blog party singing “How Did You Get Here” by Deborah Cox…

Hair flip to the WLB and non-church hugs to the MLB

Is there anything you can do to get a person to turn on their light? As a woman, I don’t think there is anything you can do to get a man to turn on his light. Either he is in the place where he is ready or he is not. If he is truly ready, his actions and words will be in sync. On the flip side, trying to convince him to turn on his light when he wants it off will only drive him away.

No, my “light” is not always on. In my dating/relationship life, there have been times that I have gone well over a year without being in a relationship because I just needed some me time. Time to work on becoming the best me that I can be.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

And speaking on Carrie…Her relationship with Mr. Bigg is a dangerous one that many women fall into…Meaning investing all that time in a pretend type relationship and at the end he ups and cuts it off for no apparent reason and off and marries someone else so quick their head spins…And these types produce children and then it is nothing more after that…Again it is a choice to roll with it but we as humans tend to want what we can’t have and try to believe one day we can but at the end we can’t and it’s a terible choice and a waste of good time but no one wants to be lonely long…

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 9:22 AM | Link to this

Good morning bloggers. Lets make this a great week. Real deep grinding hugs to the WLB. ^5’s to the MLB

On topic. I think most women put men in a situation where he has to make a decision, and that forces him to make a decision that she doesn’t want. I don’t think the wow factor makes a guy ready like it does a woman. It will make him deal with the chick but that “forever” thing is a whole other thought process.

Biff your a fuggin idiot. I may have said that last week but wanted to re-iterate it this week. I bet “BIFF” is a stud but your a geek that hasn’t seen azz since azz saw you.

GAMAN did you get my cosign of Knocked Up? Good pick honorable moviemiester.

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

Laney Men have to make a conscious decision to stay in a monogamous relationship…It’s guy nature to want to sex attractive Women, but a Man wanting a secure relationship with one Woman has to work at it and keep it at the front of his mind…The willingness to not stray is the difference in “Relationship” seeking Men, and the “Single for Life” Men.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 11, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

Morning All!! Monday came entirely too fast!!

Mo is singing the same song as T-Mango Good choice T-Mango

Jake thanks for my rose!! How sweet..

Hair flip to the WLB and soft kisses to the MLB

On topic: no my “light” isnt always on either. I know right now that I am not ready for a relationship. So I wouldnt dare waste anybody’s time by playing that game. I date, yes, but I dont even pretend that I am in a relationship or start acting like it, but saying “I’m not ready for this”. When my “light” is on, I know it b/c I begin to want certain things (stability being a main thing).

By Laney

June 11, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

good morning folks…currently sitting in the airport next to a kid who hasn’t stopped screaming for an hour…with my luck that child will definitely be seated right next to me on the place once I get on board. lol

hey Jake, motel definitely works as a metaphor too!

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Beauty queen wave to the WLB, semi-church hugs to the MLB

Jake thanks for the roses, they’re my favorite!

I don’t think the wow factor makes a guy ready like it does a woman. I don’t think the WOW factor makes a woman (or man) ready either, it may make you rethink your decision though.

By abc

June 11, 2007 9:41 AM | Link to this

Nah, Truth, Biff has a point, albeit roughly stated. The somewhat naive tramps on that T.V. show represent what men typically can’t stand in chicks. I know that show would make me want to throw my TV off of a 10th floor balcony. It was the television equivilent of Cosmopolitan magazine.

The chicks on that show were pretty idiotic, and men will typically be interested in nothing much more than hit it and quit it with a dumb broad who’ll accomodate that. But, if a chick thinks that anything represented on that show has anything to do with how men actually are, they’re kidding themselves. That it has anything to do how women think they are is a sad case of life imitating… oh no, I’m not callin’ that art!

Yall just watch too much T.V., that’s all there is to it.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 9:47 AM | Link to this

@MusingLee…Great Post!

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 9:56 AM | Link to this

Oh Jake great post too…Most men are not that forhtcoming…

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…@Truth…gotta agree with Biff and abc…funny thing about it is…that show and a few others.. women watch and it warps their thinking about how relationships and men and women should interact…with all the drama and fake dilemas on those shows ..it adds and creates drama in real relationships and dating by planting seeds in females heads…JMO

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 10:00 AM | Link to this

@ Musing….easier said than done…

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

ABC I wasn’t referring to Biff’s comments today. Last week he exposed himself as a racist idiot. Thats what I was referring to.

Sexi I agree it will make you “rethink” your decision.

Musing ain’t it the truth? You summed it up and then some.

Its funny, I was talking with a lady friend yesterday and she was telling me about a co-worker that was having female problems because of the numerous sex partners she’s had. Sex in the City popped into my head. Anyway, despite the female problems this woman was still out there with “numerous” men. YUCK

By For Real

June 11, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!!

No there isn’t a way to make a man want to be in a relationship. Now there is a way to trick a man into a relationship but why would a lady resort to something like that???

As far women are concerned I don’t believe the light is always on but I do agree with Chris Rock If a women goes on 4 good dates she is ready to settle down

S&C really messed women up.. The game isn’t setup for women. Now don’t get me wrong, there are some women that can play the game but their staying power isn’t as long as a man and the consequences are different.

By Got that?

June 11, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

Laney, are you for real? There’s no value in fictionalized television. That’s why it’s fiction. It’s all made up. Granted, people watch television and make decisions based on what they see and then wonder why their lives are a mess. Just like family life is nowhere close to “Leave It To Beaver”, relationships are over glamorized and falsified on soap operas like “Sex In the City.” There are more women who buy into that b.s. and wonder what’s wrong with men. Men aren’t like that in real life and if people are so naive to fall for it, then they deserve to get what they get. Get a life. Turn off the television and go out and live your own life, not the life someone says you should be living.

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Well, well, well Hello All This is my first day back to reality with a full work week. Oh well. I did miss you all.

Anyhoo, I don’t think women are always ready for a relationship. I know there have been times that I wanted to be in a relationship but knew I wasn’t ready for one for whatever reason.

As far as what makes you ready for one…Um…it could be any number of reasons. Whenever I feel i’m ready, I don’t necesarrily have a lot of issues or baggage that would cause extra unneeded drama into another person’s life. True we all have things come up, we can’t escape that but i guess its just one of those things you feel inside coupled with your current level of maturity and ability/willingness to compromise.

have you ever been burned by a member of the opposite sex who truly wasn’t open for a relationship Yes i have because in the beginning that person stated they were ready. Then after time spent events showed the total opposite of what they previously said. Sadly, some folks use that as ‘game’ to help rid you of any guard you may have up, so they can use it to their advantage. Such is life. I don’t think you can get someone to turn their light on. Personally, I wouldn’t want someone to turn their light on just because I said so. I’d find more sincerity in them realizing it themselves. That way if it doesn’t work out i won’t have that over my head because i should’ve known better.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

Now For Real isn’t that the truth!!! Is there a woman game at all???

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Despite popular belief, all women do not watch these shows, and for some that do, it is not perceived as the way of the world. I watch tv for entertainment purposes ONLY. I never allow some show (even reality shows) to warp my thinking of life, relationships, or anything else. It is just entertainment….and they’ll do and say anything to get people to watch. I also have taught my child the same perception….and we watch a lot of the same shows, so that helps to further make my point. And some peoples thinking is already borderline insane, so no matter what they see on tv or not, they are already screwed! lol

TheTruth despite the female problems this woman was still out there with “numerous” men. And think of all the men who are hell bent and determined to get with as many females as they can!!! WOW! That reminds me of one of Mike Baisdens shows last week (I think) where this chick was sleeping with multiple dudes even though she knew she had herpes. And she was determined not to tell them, and to sleep with as many as she could. Basically, she said it was because of the level of dogtivity of men in general (I’m paraphrasing here!). And most times you would never know because a lot of time these are very nice looking women….clean, smell good, keep themselves up, etc. But even with all of that, folks are still determined to play around as much as they can. Interesting…..

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

Mawnin’

I never watched Sex. I guess I’m probably the only woman in America that wasn’t interested in that show. Or Friends lol! But, I digress. I’m not saying those shows don’t have their value, but I tend to agree w/ SJ on this one. They give a false picture of what a relationship should be. Too much drama, and not enough real life. But, I do think that Musing’s post made a lot of sense, for both men and a lot of women. Especially now. More and more women are taking themselves out of the relationship game, and are just dating. It’s funny. I’ve got guy friends who say they wished women would approach relationships more like a man, and not get so wrapped up in the emotions, but when we do, I’ve heard from these same guys that it’s a little disturbing. LOL! Once again, can’t win for losing! LOL!

By For Real

June 11, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

LadyJ Oh yes there is a game that women play all the time. I am pretty sure you know it.

Slim Welcome back to the grind.

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

SJ if the tv shows aren’t bad enough then the books they read to are pure poison. Every guy is on the dl, a maintenance man, a drug dealer, out-of-work, or a gigolo. Really it should be no surprise that we’re in the shape we are. And they devour that stuff.

Hi Slim welcome back to the week long fold.

Great post Got That. Its hard to incorporate “Leave it to Beaver** in a conversation about S&C but you did it with flair.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

Co-sign Sexi…If I played like those chicks played somebody would be hurt including me…It is FICTION…Good entertainment though I have a wild imagination and a sill alter ego so that is as far as it goes…

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

….shaking the cobwebs off, vowing never to set foot in da club again….. YEAH RIGHT!

Big Ups to the MLB!!! …. dismissive headnod to the WLB. ‘Sup GAMan, Truth, Musing, SJ, Demi, Jake, abc.

Wow, Laney. You really read my mind on this topic. A little different spin, though. My taxicab light has been firmly turned OFF for the time being. I just tired of all these fake a$$, crap talking, drink w******* out there!!!

Questions to my WLB cousins out there: Why do ya’ll talk to a dude, give him your number, act interested, ask him if he’s gonna call, then NEVER TAKE THE CALL? Why do you make a date for a Saturday evening, confirm it two days prior, then NOT ANSWER when dude tries to call and set stuff up, then text him an hour AFTER you were supposed to meet with some BS excuse? Why, if you know you’re a “Drink Opportunist”, do you not just ask for the dayum drink, instead of BS-ing a dude for 20 min before dropping him as soon as he gets you a drink, after YOU asked him to come over n talk?????

Congrats to the lower-end members of the WLB. Ya’ll have finished turning a 29yr old relationship-minded dude into “Off Duty Cab”.

The preceding comments are solely the opinion of the Grand Poobah, and do not reflect official MLB policy. Any cosigns are individual decisions.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

For Real I am talking about the same game men play but you are right both men and women PLAY!!!

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

$h!t happens.

I was very excited about a woman I met about 8 weeks ago. I followed up, made a date a few days out, the whole nine. It was during our 2nd conversation she came forward about a boyfriend…now I have all this woman’s vitals (e-mail, cell phone, home phone — everything short of a key) and she got a man! Not cool.

Taxicab confessions, anyone?

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

@ Truth…i think sx and city..girlfriends and the books allow women to unlease the “inner” w******* (hoe) out of them with out actually doing some the acts…most of the shows and books potray the women manipulating men and dating with their smarts.. looks and sx..all while maintaining careers……so i think a lot of women live through some of these shows…and even try some the moves seen in real life situations…and when they find out men are not like that…they want something new…

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 10:42 AM | Link to this

Blat Alrighty then!! Sounds like you had an interesting (and disappointing) weekend. Allow me to apologize for the misguided woman who done did you wrong! special semi-church hug to you

NCGirl No, you’re not the only one…I’ve never watched the show….Friends either! I do find it funny though how most men think that ALL women watch this mess, or read those sometimes ridiculous books, or have a bunch of girlfriends that they tell all their business to. Talk about categorizing!! But, when we say things like that about them, then we’re just hurt and disappointed. Man, where are the really mature brothers that know these things are not true???????? ButI too digress…..and you’re right, we can’t win for losing!!! Yet another reason my light is off

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

For Real & Truth thanks boo. I’m glad to back with you all but not happy to be back at work. Now i’ll just be counting down the weeks and days till Miami & Jamaica.

Blat wow! Ole girl has some issues. Maybe her bf changed plans on her and she wasn’t able to go out with you. I’m curious though, what was her excuse?

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone!

That a woman is open to a relationship is more accurate than that she is always ready. Most women believe in the full meaning of a relationship, that is, one that extends beyond the bedroom. ‘Relationship’ has become a relative term on the dating scene. Two people can be in a relationship together, yet have separate definitions. For years, I was not actively seeking a relationship. I was raising my daughter and accomplishing goals. Therefore, a man did not ‘fit’ into my life and a relationship was off limits. Towards the end of her high school career, I began to think, what am I going to do after she leaves for college? I knew that I was ready for a relationship because I was willing to make time for one. I examined myself and what I had to offer. I dealt with the daddy-issues that could hinder a relationship’s potential. I began to “open” myself up for the possiblility of a relationship. My “open for business” sign did not accept every Tom, Dick and Harry, however. I was interested in a man with depth, not one who felt he needed to impress me with lies and frivolous tales. After kissing two frogs, I think I have found a prince.

Is there anything you can do to get someone to “turn on their light,” or is it a decision that a person makes for him or herself regardless of outside input? Absolutely not. Why would you want to change a person’s mind about having a relationship with you? Even if you coerce, persuade, manipulate—choose your word—the person, one day resentment will set in and they will be right where they were on day 1: Not that into you.

Have a Powerful, Productive, Prosperous and Positive Day!!!

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

SJ so why we have to be a hoe??? What are men that do this without the tv concept??

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Thanks, Sexi. It actually started on tuesday and the straw broke the camel’s back last night. And it was WOMEN. Plural. This is on the heels of my ex, who cried every day about how much she loved me and wanted the whole 9 turning out to be a true professional grade garden tool. May and the early part of June have really sucked for da Blatino.

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

That’s my own fault and as a result I’ve now resolved to not make any sense of a woman born after Jan. 1, 1981.

By T-Mango

June 11, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

BlatinoBrutha In response to your questions…all I can say is welcome to the “A”. You met a person that was attractive to you, but beneath the surface she was an _zz…better for you the date didn’t jump off. Don’t let the “Club Chick” turn off your light. She talked game because she was thirsty and wanted you to buy her a drank.

The MLB has members who act interested in a woman too and then avoid calls once they are made. Why do you all do it? Chances are they are the same reasons that a woman would do it to you…

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 10:59 AM | Link to this

@Slim She texted me at 815 to say she was stuck out in Douglasville with her fam and would call me later when she got back. I didn’t reply, and just gave it time to see if she would call. Of course, she didn’t.

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Blatino Please let me extend the sincere apologizies of the REAL members of the WLB…those women are not our cousins, and are in no way affliated with the WLB. However, we at the WLB hate to see a good brotha turn off his sign. Circle around the block again, Blat. There’s bound to be a good WLB woman waiting just outside the local Starbucks (with her own drink). Tip: don’t lead with the drink. It works just like leading with the wallet…you’ll be standing at the bar alone, with a lighter wallet. Your smile and personality should be enough..and if it isn’t move on and save yourself a few dollars. They aren’t worth it. big ole hug to Blatino

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

@The NSG…Too funny I am like that with men too…Too funny!

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this

LadyJ gurl, get outta my head!!! lol Men do these same things (w/o the tv and books to lead them), and they’re what? Mangardentools!!!! YES, they do exist!! And a lot of them lead with the “I’m looking for a wife” or “I’m looking to settle down” to get them where they want to be. lmsao

Jewel good for you!!

TheNSG got one……be back in a minute to share…..

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

NC Girl You are not the only one…

WHOA!!! BlatinoBrutha First, keep your money in your pocket. Show her your character. If she still says, “I’m parched”, give her a glass of water. Is water free in clubs? Try changing the scene where you hope to find a self-respecting, relationship-quality lady.

Interestingly, your rant could be that of a jilted woman. See below:

Why do ya’ll talk to a woman, give her your number, act interested, ask her if she’s gonna call, then NEVER TAKE THE CALL? Why do you make a date for a Saturday evening, confirm it two days prior, then NOT ANSWER when she tries to call and set stuff up, then text her an hour AFTER you were supposed to meet with some BS excuse?

By For Real

June 11, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

NC Do you agree with SJ or not? This is why you can’t win for losing you have to pick a side first. lol..

LadyJ Oh ok. Naw I don’t think women will be sucessful in the game that is setup for men. Atlanta is a prime example. If you want to find a game setup for a women then you will have to go to a small town where you will be one of the five “hottest chicks” in town.

Sexi You have got to stop these church hugs. Now come on here and give me a hug like a lottery winner. They are not saying that all women watch the show but it was an extremely popular show with a hugh female audience. So, someone was watching. And do you agree that 98% of the relationship books, magazines and shows are geared toward women? That’s a question for you to NC.

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

NSG at that point I would have gone into “Smash” mode…I only would have been talking to that chick until I “broke it down”….But that’s what the young Musing would have done.

Hellz, er’Man has had a Woman to do him wrong..and you won’t be the last…It’s a revolving door: Man does Woman wrong, who in turn does Man wrong, who in turn does Woman wrong…Which came first?!?!

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

NCGirl, thx. But i didn’t lead with the drink. We hung out for a while, danced, and talked for a bit before i even offered one. I try to be very careful and not be anyone’s drink fairy. But i got played for one like so many other dudes in the A. it happens. I was just p** with how she handled it. Even her girls came and apologized to me, cuz they’re the ones that told me she wanted to holla.

And I’m sorry, but really, the Cab Light is off. I really need to detox for a good long while. By the way, for those who don’t know, da Blatino is from the “A”, so I know the game. But its no less BS or frustrating.

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

@ LadyJ…not calling you one…not personally…but in those shows the females find themselves in sxual situations 90 percent of the time..that some of the females viewers wouldnt do…or should i say wouldnt do in the “light” with people knowing about it..ex…sleep with 4 or 5 best friends…numerous one nite stands..just risque sx that some females that watch the show dont par take in on the regular…now trust me…all of these things happen and very freguently…but the females that are doing these things arent watching sx in the city they are too busy having sx in the city…thats why i said some of the viewers live through these shows and it allows them to unlease the inner whre in them with out actually doing the acts…feel me?

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 11:15 AM | Link to this

Heyyyy Jewel foul play…You can’t go and use Blat’s words against the MLB that way…Ohhhh Hellzz Naw!

Musing caught with uppercut from Jewel’s purse…..looking for wholistic alternative to dentures

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

I feel you SJ and I knew you were not calling me one but I got your point brotha….Thanx

For Real you are right…You made me think about where I am from…lol

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Blat well just be glad that you didn’t waste more of your time with actually going out with Ms. MIA. Her lose not yours but don’t let the patron waving you down for a ride then say no thanks, discourage you from keeping the light on. This is no different than crap i’ve dealt with from guys. As time passes on, less and less courtesy seems to go into dating.

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

Blat sorry your catchin it in the love dept bruh. Even poobahs catch hell I guess. Sometime the best thing to do is take a break. I’m sure you’ll right that ship though. It’s hard to get the light turned on but easy to turn it off.

NSG you may want to go back further than that. LOL

By GA.man

June 11, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

Truth i got it…

I will be givin this week’s movie previews later in the week…for everyone to set their weekend plans accordinly….

Here is one freebie though….Oceans13 if you liked the first two..then you will love this one…it starts off kinda slow..but the fun and laughs come…Even though it seems forever but they do come…….The All Star cast delivers,but it is not the best…alot of one-liners make the movie what it is George,Bernie and the crew make you smile and wonder if you could ever pull of something like this and really get away with it…..*On a scale of 1 to 5 stars….(Drumrollll) i give this movie 3 1/2 stars enjoy

Until next time I am the Man at the Movies

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 11:26 AM | Link to this

@Musing: You know, five years ago I would have exacted revenge. It’s not about that now. I’ll be 28 in a couple months and the new revenge is not giving this woman the pleasure/thrill of being pursued by someone outside of her relationship. Instead, she can be out with her man and wonder if the grass is greener on the other side. It’s a no-win situation: if she’ll do it to him, she’ll do it to me. Not worth the headache at this point.

By For Real

June 11, 2007 11:27 AM | Link to this

For Real now placing rubber around the MLB so that Jewel’s post bounce off us and stick to you

Musing Here is your wholistic alternative Duck!!

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

GA.man…I am an Ocean girl…That is a fun movie to again imagine to be naughty…lol

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 11:29 AM | Link to this

Ga.man Did you happen to catch Hostel 2? My intention was to see Knocked Up but got there kind of late so i opted for Hostel instead.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

lol Sexione…You keep me rolling daily and I will try to add something with my corny self!!! lol

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

…This is an official MLB Press Release…

We, the High Council of the MLB-Musing, Truth, SJ, Demi, and Blat- have hereby decided to outlaw the song “Lemme buy u a drank” by the noted culprit T-Pain, author of the also-banned “I’m in luv wit a stripper”, due to its misleading and offensive message that the way to a girl’s pants is through subsidizing her alcoholism.

By MELO

June 11, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

Guys, how do you know that you are ready for a relationship?

When u say relationship, what do u mean? I am sorry if that sounds ignorant. IF you mean long term relationship, i think a man will know once he has dated the woman for some time(time depends on each individual case) and the woman and him have a ceratin level of compatibility that he feels ready to commit. Remember also that a relationship has to have a purpose.You cannot just be in a relationship for the sake. Whats the point?Just to have a regular pudsdy?I do not think so!! In my understanding, the purpose has to be for marriage. This is what yu may be asking urself: Can i introduce her to Mum and dad, to my siblings, my aunt and uncles and how will they take her/him(u imagine their reception based on how she conducts herself).For us with large families these questions are mighty important!WILL she be able to blend into our systems/culture etc? If i feel this is a woman that i’m comfortable with and would be happy to show around family and hopefully sire kids with together for the long haul, thats when the light bulb flicks and you say to urself,”damn,TP,u need to move fast with this chic..she is it!” Laney, this topic may be too big for those who have never committed themselves to anybody. Just my sense.

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

@The Truth: At times I think about rolling it back a couple more years but 1/1/81 has proved to be the date something was really put in the water! Now that I think about it, there’s another flake wasting my time who was born in 1980, LOL.

@LadyJ: So you have a minimum age too?

@Sexione: Looking forward to your taxicab confession.

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

ForReal watchoutnah!!! I don’t want you to end up sprung after being hugged and squeezed up against all this glory!! lol I feel ya, somebody was watching (but who says they were all women?), and yes, quite a few of the books and mags are geared towards women, BUT men do these same things whether they see it on tv or read it, too!! I think society knows this, that is why most of these things are written the way they are………kind of a “this is what women deal with, and this is how you may counteract” mentality.

I think Musing said it very well……Man does Woman wrong, who in turn does Man wrong, who in turn does Woman wrong…Which came first?!?! It’s a vicious cycle, and one that will probably only get worse for many reasons!!

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

First For Real :-ppppppppppppppp!!!

Second, And do you agree that 98% of the relationship books, magazines and shows are geared toward women? That’s a question for you to NC.

Yes. Ironic, since most of those forms of media are run by men.

Blatino Well, again, don’t let one skeeze spoil it for you. You sound like me. When you’re really feeling someone, you put a lot of effort into it. So, it stinks when they pull the rug out from under you. Been there, babe! So, if you’re off duty, I undertand…just don’t stay off duty for long. You might miss that quality woman while you’re sleeping in the back of the cab!

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 11:42 AM | Link to this

Taking time to heal is the best thing to do. No point in dragging the past into your future. I hope everyone brought their blog earplugs, because I cannot sing. This one’s for you, Blatino.

“Everybody plays the fool, sometime. No exception to the rule. Listen baaaby. Woo woo woooooo.”

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

@The NSG…No 80s babies for me…I was lucky to be apart of 79…But I do have an old soul so even my age group can’t hold my attention long…lol

By GA.man

June 11, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

I am going to see Hostel today..so i will have a play by play later…also on the list this is upcoming blockbusters Fantastic Four and Transformers..well atleast when they come out

Kiddie movie Surfs up is ok art work but if you love Disney or Pixar’s movies your kids will love this one

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

Musing no offense bruh but Jewel does have a valid point. If you take Blats name off and assign it to Sexi its a jilted woman. LMAO The thing is dissapointment is the same for everybody.

Ladyj you know none of the dudes on this thing would call you a hoe. Absolutely no way, not going to happen. (To your face) LMAO

Gaman I saw Oceans 13 yesterday. I liked it the best of all. It was good.

NSG and Blat be prepared. Both of those chicks will call you guys back. 100% They’ll fu their situation and come back to what was good to them. Then run em thru the dirt, dog em and throw em out the door. LOL

By Demi

June 11, 2007 11:49 AM | Link to this

BlatinoBrutha Don’t feel bad, I was burned last friday, but she has more than maded up for it since then.

Sing it with me folk:

I am on Wipe it OFF!!

I am on Wipe it OFF!!

I am on Wipe it OFF!!

Shoulder, chest, pants, shoes

Shoulder, chest, pants, shoes

F/K-it!!

I am on Wipe it OFF!!

I am on Wipe it OFF!!

By For Real

June 11, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

NC SHE ACTUALLY SAID YES. OMG NC ACTUALLY SAID PICKED A SIDE. THE DEVIL IS LIE…

Oooops. Awwww Dayummmm she qualified her yes with Ironic, since most of those forms of media are run by men. My bad…

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 11:52 AM | Link to this

@Jewel, I feel ya sweetie. But I’ve done more than my share, including when I was married. I’ve just finally reached that point. The light is off and its gonna take a heck of an effort to turn it on. No lie: I’m even deleting numbers. If i don’t talk to you at least once every two weeks and we’re some kinda buddies, you’re out.

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

You guys are still crazy! LOL! Musing thumbing through the yellow pages, trying to find James Brown’s dentist for tooth implants…

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

Truth To funny…I hope not…LMAO

By CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME

June 11, 2007 11:56 AM | Link to this

I usually lurk but this topic is very interesting and I need some suggestions from you bloggers. I have a bachelors degree in English and a Masters degree in Managment with a concentration in HR. I really need a career. I currently work but I HATE my job if any of your organizations are hiring can you just post your company’s website so I can go and check out the jobs.

On topic: Is there anything you can do to get a person to turn on their light? No been there done that. I am a very sweet person and I like to satisfy my man. In the past when I talked to guys I would bascially spoil them on their B-Day, Christmas, really if I heard them speak of something they really wanted I would go out and get it. Part of me would get these things b/c I felt that it would make them realize how good of a person I was and decide to be with me. It took my heart being broken twice to realize that I shouldn’t have to buy no one’s love. The first time I was young(High School love) but the second time I was around 22 and I thought we would be together. He told me he wasn’t ready for a relationship but 6 months later he is engaged to be married. From that point on I promised myself not to ever try and buy a guy’s love. Don’t give me a citation Officer Musing :)

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

Yeah Lady J, same here. August ‘79 to be exact.

@Truth: I think you’re right, but it’s not a great big deal. Every day I learn something from being in this dating game. The most recent lesson was everybody seems to want options but nobody wants to be one. What do you think?

@Blat: A blog soda goes up to you in salute (sorry dude, I don’t drink).

By Jay

June 11, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

LadyJ Thats a good thing to know. What about when we say we dont want to be in a relationship, Then she beating your door down saying she want it all.

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

You’re welcome Blat! Sounds like the ills of the younger generations. But don’t let that change your outlook, women have had to deal with similar drama for years and years and years!! Stand strong!!! And I HATE those stupid songs…and to make it worse, ole boy is “butt ugly!!!” lmsao

TheNSG you’re young, and these chick are no doubt young too….can you say immature? Again, women deal with this a lot!! Don’t be discouraged! Now, I once met a guy that stated “I’m looking for a wife” (that seems to be the trend now, lol). Okay cool (I won’t run for the hills yet). We meet on a Tuesday, meet for drinks the very next Tuesday. Meanwhile, we had a few decent convos, I’m still trying to guage the chemistry, he says he already knows he’s completely interested, and would like to spend time getting to know each other. Okay, next request (a few days later) was to get together in a more one on one setting…….either his place or mine. Okay, no biggie, I let him come to mine. I even agreed that he could stay over if it got late and he didn’t want to drink and drive. Well, when I offered him the futon in my office, he decided he would go home. Fine. At that point I begin to conclude that I didn’t feel a connection, but wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt. Very next request (a few days later) is for me to come to his place to spend the night…………nope, I’ll pass. Not sure what he was after exactly, but I wasn’t interested enough at that point to find out. Basically, ish happens, when you spot it…RUN!!!

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

Touche, Blatino. Take all the time you need…do all that you need to do for you. The choices those women made were their own and not a reflection of you. Do not let this change your core.

GaMan Your mention of Disney movies reminds me of one I would love to see again…The Lion King I loved that movie. And yes, I am woman enough to admit that I cried when Mustafah died! LOL! Does anyone know where I can buy it, other than the bootleg market?

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

JEWEL I don’t know if it was a coincidence but when you started singing glass shattered in my house.

NEWS FLASH JEWEL is banned by the MLB and WLB from ever singing again, ever. Forever. The Truth is now heading out to gets his ears checked. LOL

Never feel bad about playing the fool. we’ve al been there. Its a great learning lesson and most people don’t start living until they have had an experience like that.

By T-Mango

June 11, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

In case you all didn’t know. June is F/Up Month…Jacked up behaviors and a lack of courtesy may be exhibited by your man, your lady, your spouse, your friends and B.U.D.D.Y ‘S…

Now texting my “friend” and telling him that his weekend infractions will be charged to the month…

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

@The NSG..Me too Leo for life!!!!:)

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 12:11 PM | Link to this

TheTruth why me? lol That could have been any woman! Funny, though, how men say all these things regarding women, but don’t think it’s amusing when the shoe is on the other foot!! Yes, we all have been hurt or disappointed by someone in our past (whether you’ll still affected or not), but you shouldn’t bring that drama to the next person, or discredit all people because of one or two.

Wow, the moon must be full…….the men are starting to sound like the women, and the women are starting to sound like a more intelligent version of the men………..lmsao!!!!

By Demi

June 11, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME

Hellz to the no, please change your name first!!!

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

@Jay call the cops she will get the drift if you are serious and not playing games like wanting her behind close doors and playing her to the left in public…Crazy is what crazy does!!!:)

By MELO

June 11, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

@ANYBODYPart of me would get these things b/c I felt that it would make them realize how good of a person I was and decide to be with me. It took my heart being broken twice to realize that I shouldn’t have to buy no one’s love If ‘being good & sweet’ a person includes buying the men ‘things’ and dishing the pudsy like u are Elizabeth Omalami, then ur are going to have lots of heartbreaks babes! Date and flirt but never be the one to provide cheap and easy sex.If u want longevity, that is!!

As for the job, just network more and more, getting urself out there to meet different folks and attending networking events and poslishing ur resume! Good luck.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

lol

By His 1st Cousin

June 11, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

GENARLOW WILSON WON HIS APPEAL

By Demi

June 11, 2007 12:21 PM | Link to this

The NSG dude, you’re slow…28 years old dudes with mature mindset has no business mess with women under the age of 32…you’re just asking to be burned

Get yourself a 33 - 36 years old mature woman, who has it going on and enjoy her company.

shoulder, chest, pants, shoes

By Demi

June 11, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

The NSG dude, you’re slow…28 years old dudes with a mature mindset has no business messing with women under the age of 32…you’re just asking to be burned

Get yourself a 33 - 36 years old mature woman, who has it going on and enjoy her company.

shoulder, chest, pants, shoes

By Demi

June 11, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

The NSG dude, you’re slow…28 years old dudes with a mature mindset has no business messing with women under the age of 32…you’re just asking to be burned

Get yourself a 33 - 36 years old mature woman, who has it going on and enjoy her company.

shoulder, chest, pants, shoes

By QC

June 11, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

@ Can anybody help Me what type of work are you looking for?

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

Thank you Jesus!!!!

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Well, Truth. That’s typical of a stubborn man with selective hearing…I told you to get your earplugs… And no, I do not do window repairs! LOL!

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

T-Mango so sorry to hear June isn’t the month for you but it is a good month for me so far. This Gemini tends to always shine around this time of year.

Slim now wondering what T-mango’s ‘friend’ could’ve done to get infractions charged to the month

By Laney

June 11, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Melo, I was talking about serious relationships, committed and monogamous — you’re right that’s a big thing for someone to handle! Which is why, I think, sometimes people just aren’t ready for the responsibility…

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

good post MELO…

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 12:33 PM | Link to this

@Sexione: I think you know what he was after, and knowing is half the battle. From observations and such, I see the guys women are less defensive around seem to be the ones who hurt them most. Selling dreams and $#!t. I’m not saying wear the chastity belt all day but I swear these “prayed up” dudes are clouding up the game for real! You knew what dude was after and didn’t bite. It is what it is.

@LadyJ: Which day is your birthday? Mine is the 12th.

@Demi: One step ahead of you. Thanks for sharing the wisdom though.

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

lol @ Demi I think I’m in that in-between age group that makes it more difficult…….at the ripe young age of 38, my limits are no more than ten (and that’s too much) yrs older and no more than 3 or 4 yrs younger. Now, I’m rethinking that “10 yrs older”, it should be more like 5 or 6 yrs older. Whew!

By CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME

June 11, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Melo Thanks for the advice but me and this guy had decided to stop having sex a month before everything went down. It wasn’t cheap and easy also.

Demi what’s wrong with my name?

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

@The NSG…8/17…It’s a Falcon’s pre-season game that day so Lady J will e doing something to that affect…lol

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

Off topic CNN is reporting that the judge is releasing Genarlow Wilson. Wow!!

For Real It wasn’t a qualification of the “Yes”. Just pointing out the irony. Oh and :-pppppppppppppppppp!

By Cassie

June 11, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

Back from Vacay, and saying hello to all the blog family….also weighing in, albeit late, from the female POV….no, women are not ALWAYS ready for a relationship. What a stupid thing for anyone to think! There are times in your life that you are really just looking to have fun, or to be alone, or to explore life…and a real relationship doesn’t necessarily factor into that equation!

By T-Mango

June 11, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

Slim…Nothing against Gemini’s, just a timing coincidence…would’ve said the same thing if the month was currently July (lol)

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

Melo who is Elizabeth Omalami? just wondering.

Sexi so sorry hun. I picked your name randomly. LOL The real twisted part is we all want the exact same thing, we just go about getting them in totally different ways. Men more intelligently and women more emotionally. (Had to get Sexi back)

Genarlow shouldn’t of won his appeal. He should of won his first case.

does anyone remember Kimba the white lion? I think the Lion King was based on that. Same story line.

Let me say something wild to get Ling out of the closet. LOL

NSG “was everybody seems to want options but nobody wants to be one”. I like that line. So appropriate.

The Truth ain’t goin to no scurry movies.

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

and the women are starting to sound like a more intelligent version of the men LOL! Sexione You are right…I am about to start pulling some chest hairs!

By Jay

June 11, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

LadyJ Are you a falcons fan? If and when Vick is cleared. Management will have him getting married and dropping his hip-hop persona.

By CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME

June 11, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

QC I would like something in the HR field or any administrative postion would be fine.

By Jay

June 11, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

Can Home DEpot Corp office is always looking for HR. I will see if I can get the web site for you.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

Jay I am a NFL fan and came to like the Falcons more and more…Never been a Vick fan perse but I am trying to support him regardless….Are you for the home team?

By Demi

June 11, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this

CAN ANYBODY PLEASE HELP ME

From the moment you post, you are family…do you really want us adressing you as CAPHM…a bit close to Cap. H’e Man don’t you think? LOL

You read like a smart dude, make up something right quick, if you don’t mind.

By The NSG

June 11, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

@LadyJ: A Falcons preseason game was exactly how I celebrated last year. Big love to Leos.

@TheTruth: Yeah, the “options” thought is an original. Helps me to keep things in perspective.

@Demi: I feel you though. I’ve dated as much as 12 years older, according to how well we get along. Dating older brings about some awkward social situations and that’s been the truest test of where you stand, or so I’ve seen so far.

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

@ Slim….where is that 300 bowling alley located…

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

T-Mango now charging all said infractions to the whole 12-month calendar lol

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 1:11 PM | Link to this

TheTruth I knew that was it….hehehehe!! semi-church hug for you!

Elizabeth Omalami is Hosea Williams daughter. And what was that about her giving it up?

TheNSG yeah, you’re right. And even if he was sincere about it, his tactics were way off base!! Even funnier, I never heard from him again after declining his offer. That weeding out process is no joke!!!

By QC

June 11, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this

@Can anybody help me

email me MissQC@gmail.com

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 1:15 PM | Link to this

Sean J It’s off of Chamblee Dunwoody…Savoy road to be exact. Check out the site [here[(http://www.3hundred.com/corporate/index.htm)

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

lol @ Jewel

That whole Vick issue is starting to get on my nerves. Either they need to charge him or stop trying to trap him!!! Some of the ugliest blogs on AJC have been about him. And I wish he would stop making bonehead decisions and start being a mature human being, he should know that there are too many haters who would love to see him lose it all. Married? Don’t know about that one. And what about the herpes?

On another note, the Cavs need to bring their “A” game tomorrow!!! Last night was a travesty!!!

By Jake

June 11, 2007 1:20 PM | Link to this

NSG, you meant preyed up didn’t you. Many women get played by the “Saint”, the one who said he was trying not to succomb to the weakness of the flesh. (cough, cough, Bulshyt…LOL)

Anything after “1981” is a waste, I looking for a “69” model….pun intended…hehehe

By For Real

June 11, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

T-Mango Why you blasting on my birth month? Don’t be mad with him it happens. Yall should just try again tonight. Here is little suggestion exhale when he enters

I’m with yall on this age thing. The only models I will take are a 78 or earlier. I believe all models made after 1978 where made on Monday.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

Sexione…I am disappointed with the NBA…The pride and love for the game has been lowered…I did not watch it all this year…The organnization needs revampingg…I know the guys will blast me but the team concept is gone and it is “I” “Me”…Anyway my sports vent for today…lol

By Tenacious

June 11, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

Demi you like my new name. I am a female by the way. Unless you prefer to male and females as dude which is fine. LOL

QC I am emailing you in a few secs.

By Demi

June 11, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

Sexione Trust, 37 - 43 mature ladies are the bomb!!! But at age 28, I too young for them relationship wise, but dating…nothing but fun (outside of the bedroom). There’s nothing like feeling appreciated after a date or outing with them.

No you Slim, Mo’s, and Lady J, but younger women trend to make you feel like shyt and that you’re wasting your time, if you’re not in the “game”.

I am not looking for a mother (one is all I need), but Dayum!! This woman ask me ‘How’s your day’, listen to my few complaints, and sent me my way, feelings like a king, .9 and .45 in hand, ready to bust a cap in any pretender, LOL

I simply a few of her favorite items from bath and body works, along with a thank you card…if I was 5 years older with the same mindset I have now. We’ll be at the court house at 2pm and partying until 6am the next day. LOL

Plus old girl got money…Demi is now getting beat down by WLB

By For Real

June 11, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

NC I bet you don’t like multiple choice questions do you?

Vick: Hey there Sexi we have been dating here for 2 weeks and I want to marry you.

Sexi: Marry me?!?!?!?!? Wow. I don’t know… What about the herpes

Vick: I make 134 million dollars

Sexi: Here baby… take your valtrex and Yes, I will marry you. (in Rick James voice) F/K it, valtrex for everyone it’s a celebration!!!

By For Real

June 11, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

NC I bet you don’t like multiple choice questions do you?

Vick: Hey there Sexi we have been dating here for 2 weeks and I want to marry you.

Sexi: Marry me?!?!?!?!? Wow. I don’t know… What about the herpes

Vick: I make 134 million dollars

Sexi: Here baby… take your valtrex and Yes, I will marry you. (in Rick James voice) F/K it, valtrex for everyone it’s a celebration!!!

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Alrighty with the age thing…lol

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

Jake ‘69 model right here babe!! hugs and kisses

LadyJ I feel ya, I’ve only been watching the playoffs (sports withdrawals I guess). I didn’t bother with the season itself! I’m ready for the NFL season to begin! And (fellas) didn’t I say that LeBron is no MJ!!! Maybe after several more yrs, but no time soon!!! hehehehe

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…thats a dance site….what am i suppose to be checking out????

@ 4 real,Musing & NSG…i recently starting dealing with older chicks and they are more str8 forward and easier to get along with and bring more to the table…mentally, finacially and physically..

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 1:35 PM | Link to this

For Real & Jake I believe there is some truth in the year thing. Me and a friend of mine were discussing the generations after us. I’m a ‘78 and she’s a ‘77. I just don’t understand.

Demi I appreciate the disclaimer. Here have a full body hug for my appreciation. :-D

By T-Mango

June 11, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

For Real…Uh-Hmmm, I see you got jokes as always…That ain’t the issue :-)

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 1:43 PM | Link to this

Okay I will be blog sistah to the blog brotha’sI did not make the cut….lolol Too funny!!!

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

Sexione You sort of lost me…I am not a football fan. Certainly would not be a Fakeon (Ode to Dr. Kym) fan since I was not born in the ATL. Nevertheless, since I do not mind sharing my opinion, Vick is an ugly, overpaid athlete. As soon as the owners find someone faster, better and prettier with less media drama, Vick will get put on the side of the road with the trash…

By Demi

June 11, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

Tenacious remind me not to get on your bad side I realize my error too late, my baad sis…It’s call laziness on my part, I speed read your post.

You know your name rhymes well with delicious, right?

Tenaciously Delicious

Just messing with the english language abc.

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

Sean J I’m not sure what happened. 300 site is www.3hundred.com Try that this time.

By Officer Musirello

June 11, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

Can anybody please help me you get a citation for that long’azz name and yelling it at er’body…

RIIIIIIIIPPP!

Musing now leaning back on his wheely shoes and zooming away

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

T-Mango yes, I think For Real thinks he’s a comedian. hahahaha, very funny!! Valtrex for everyone…………lmsao!! That was funny. But seriously, you would think with all that money, dude would be able to buy a cure. Oh well, I hope he gets his act together.

Demi yes we are! Too bad most young dudes don’t understand, good for you that you do!! Do yo thang!!!!

By Tenacious

June 11, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Demi That is so True. LOL

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

SeanJ that’s cause older Women ain’t trying to front…They want a Man, and they are willing to put it out there who they are, what they want, and when they want it…Not to mention, they’ve had time to learn how to cook, anddddd the “Cat Scratch” is the bomb diggidy…They know how to do that lil’move with their hips by then too.

By abc

June 11, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

Tenacious, audacious, capacious, ceraceous, curvaceous, fallacious, flirtatious, hellacious, herbaceous, horatius, loquacious, predaceous, salacious, sebaceous, vexatious, vivacious, voracious

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

^5Sexione:)

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

Jewel Don’t hold back now, tell us how you really feel!! j/k I did kinda skip around there. I was saying I didn’t watch the NBA season, I’ve been watching the playoffs, though. And I’m ready for the NFL season to begin. And yes, there are a lot of mixed feelings re: Vick. Some like him, some hate him, I guess I’m middle of the road…

By Jake

June 11, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

Slim On the real, it seems like the last good crop of kids got here around 79ish. Its not really there fault, as time has gone on, society has gotten irresponsible. Just look at TV for one example and there are many, we used to have Cosby, Diff..World, Family Ties, Growing Pains, to name a few. The content had a message, you might make even if your parents were lousy.

Now its Charm School, New York, Idol, Colleg Hill, Wifeswaps, Bachelor, reality evrything, kids growin up with nothing of substance, and getting worst by the year.

LadyJ We’re sorry..hehehe.

By Demi

June 11, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

the sex laws are funny, buddy got 10 years, but cause the ages difference was 2 years…but a 38 years old dude will get 1 year in jail followed by, 3 years of probation for messing with a 14 years old girl. That isn’t right.

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

Thank you, Demi, Musing, SeanJ For recognizing the truly Grown and Sexy…not the think they are grown and trying to be sexy! LOL!

By Jake

June 11, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

abc You just showing out now.

cat, rat, bat, mat,pat,sat,hat, and I, Tat,Tat, Tatted Up!!

By Jay

June 11, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

what is the protocol for a older man dating a younger woman? Sexi I read some of those blogs. Everyday it is ugly. It always end up being black vs. white. He said he didnt have herpes but warts.

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 2:13 PM | Link to this

Demi dayyuuummm! that is not funny, it’s ridiculous!!! Well, God forbid it should ever be my 14 yr old, cause dude wouldn’t have to worry about any laws..but mine!!! And trust, they would neva find his body! Our government is a joke!

By T-Mango

June 11, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

T-Mango now singing Reunited and It Feels So Good by Peaches & Herb

…as of 2:03PM today all charges against said “friend” in 12:10PM post for the month of June have been dropped…(Case #777-9311 is now closed)

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

lol Jake And remember ALL we all were young so…Age can be a mental thing for the most part!!!

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 2:15 PM | Link to this

Some people may be ready for a relationship saying their cab light is “on” but when you go to get in there is no room for you to sit. I recently dated a guy just like that. He said he was ready for a relationship I mean ready for the whole nine yards, but his actions told a whole nother story.

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

Musing are you able to give abc a citation for excessive & excessive use of ryhmezone.

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

Off topic: Why did I see a dude standing on the corner with an “I’ll Work for Food” sign, just yards away from a store with a “Now Hiring” sign…And I’m pretty sure they would pay in cash, and not food.

Random Thought: WTH happened to corn nuts, or the candy cigarettes that blew candy smoke????

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 2:19 PM | Link to this

Just a note to the blog men and I know most don’t but don’t entertain the younger chick at all…Keep focus on the older chick so the younger chick won’t be wondering especially when she knows she gots what it takes…but I guess that is too trying to be grown and sexy and NOT!!! LOL

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Scrolling back to the Blog, Jewel glimpses a headline that reads: Hilton says she will no longer act dumb. Jewel thinks to self, So does that mean she will just ‘be’?

By abc

June 11, 2007 2:22 PM | Link to this

Yeah, but the District Attorney filed a motion of appeal, so for the time being, Genarlow is still in jail. What a travesty of justice.

By Demi

June 11, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Charm School is one on the worst shows on television right…I know I ask this before, but they’re faking acting, right?

A hug from Slim cause unexpected arouser…ummmmmm, I like that.

Demi is now setting up darkens cubicle on Peachtree St.

Yep! I am bringing sexy back…

By Jewel

June 11, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

ABC Now I see why they call you A-B-C. Now, give us the etymology and use each word in a sentence…

By For Real

June 11, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

Dang Jewel you must be an Arizona Cardnal fan?

T-Mango Oh. My bad… just trying to be helpful

Sexi Now I understand the reasons behind the church hugs.

Slim On the real tho it does get a little dicey after ‘78. It’s like they don’t want to work buy they want to be millionaires. I’m singer, I got my inscent business, I make candles, I got my own record lablel, I make baskets, I design t-shirts, I’m professional shopper,…….

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this

@abc…So he has to stay until the court date of Appeal? My mom ask and I did not know what she was talking about bc I thought he was free and over but oh well…Life have it’s curve balls…

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

Musing hahahaha, you should have pointed dude in the direction of that store! I still see the corn nuts (I never like them) in some stores. Now those candy cigs, I hope they stopped making them……..can you say “subliminal message*?!! We used to love those things too, but now that I’m older and wiser and a mommie…….they need to neva make that mess again!! And I’m sure there are some stores that still have them. What about the bubble gum cigars? wooooo, that brings back memories……

purple good point!

By Demi

June 11, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

Charm School is one on the worst shows on television right…I know I ask this before, but they’re faking acting, right?

A hug from Slim cause unexpected arouser…ummmm I like that.

Demi is now setting up darkens cubicle on Peachtree St.

Yep! I am bringing sexy back…

By IslandGirl

June 11, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

Hey Everrrryyyybody

All hail to the lovely ladies of the WLB and a wave to the guys of the MLB

Big Up to Slim, GA, NC, Real, Sexi, Truth, ABC, SJ, Demi, T-Mango, Kinder,and the rest of the blog fam

Hope everyone had a great weekend

@Real….you know you’re wrong for that Valtrex skit….lolol

@Jewel…while you sure got that off your chest…regarding Vick…lolol

Later…back to lurksville :-O

By abc

June 11, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this

Tenacious, refusal to give up. Audacious, acting out without embarassment. Capacious, large. Ceracious, waxy. Curvaceous, uhhh… well, thick, then. Hey, it ain’t illegal! But that was pasted from rhymezone. Rhyming dictionaries are cool.

Tenaciously fallacious, capaciously curvaceous, fat girl couldn’t tell you nuthin’ but a lie, baby!

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

Jake You’re right. The younger generations are simply products of world as they know it. Just Friday I was in Stonecrest Mall. I saw a group of 3 young guys filling out applications, probably for a summer job. Anyway, as soon as I was impressed by the effort it was short-lived when I saw one of the guys get up sagging his khaki slacks! WTF! Why would i want to hire someone dressed like nice but bustin a sag!! My mom would’ve slapped me in the back of the head if it was me. And Cosby, Different World was definitely a must see every week. I recall one time when Cosby’s message was about sex and that led to a conversation initiated by my mom on if i knew what a virgin was. It’s crazy that I even remember that.

T-Mango I see you dropped all charges today. I hope, like in Paris’ sitituation, that we don’t get another update talking about he’s back in the slammer. lol

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

For Real they don’t want to work buy they want to be millionaires. I’m singer, I got my inscent business, I make candles, I got my own record lablel, I make baskets, I design t-shirts, I’m professional shopper boy you ain’t neva lied! Back in the day the only time i came across this was in HS, from our fellow candyboy in school. Now everyone is trying to sell everything hoping for a quick buck. It’s funny you mentioned the incense thing. A dude was selling them in Dugan’s one night. He had all these crazy names for each scent like ‘One night-stand or Back dat azz up’….personally I didn’t want to smell the second one. lol But everyone knows that errybody in ATL is in the music business. I dated a guy for almost 3 years that felt the need to be ‘up in the studio’ all the time. Neva heard anything more than a demo from him. Now i think he manages a grocery store. probably plays his demo’s over the loudspeaker…lol

Sexi & Musing let’s not forget about those wax candies where you had to bite off the end to drink the juice inside

By For Real

June 11, 2007 2:48 PM | Link to this

abc Put a nice track on that and i will get T-Payne to sing it.

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Musing Hey buddy. Did you ever find out where your fiance got that ‘special scrabble game’? I think I know someone that would love to own it. lol

By Red Khezu

June 11, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

Ah SSDD. This Khezu is going back to his cave, maybe a better topic will arise.

By Sexione

June 11, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

lmsao @ Slim

Peace out!!!

By For Real

June 11, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Slim Dang girl you got a good memory if you can remember way back to 1988 when you was a virgin. lol..

I met this really, really fine 20 yr old and everything was going smooth until she told me she was trying to be a designer. I kept calling her a shoemaker. So she got upset and left. Said something about me hating.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 11, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

Whaddup errbody Whew!! Its been a busy monday already.

For Real you know the deal boo, what song is it today?

^5 to whomever mentioned models ‘78 and back!! I am a ‘75 baby!! :0)

What’s up WLB and MLB

By Jay

June 11, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

Slim you are straight crazyyyyyyyyyy……. Walking into the food depot….Whats that noise over the pa system.

By For Real

June 11, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

Hey Slim remember you promised me we would play Jinga together for my birthday.

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

@ Slim…as long as they were looking for employment they get props from me…khaki pants sagging can easily be addressed..too much is put on appearance..rather than character these days…

@ 4Real…MTV cribs…sweet16..videos and myspace got their heads phcked up…

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this

Slim Those were my favorite…Now if I were to eat them, I’d need to eat about 20 at a time just to wet my lips.

By Demi

June 11, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

Jewel of course, but you gotta have the mindset to roll with those ladies.

Lady J there are some great younger ladies out there, but most are tied up with lames dudes or still hurting from previous relationship…After 33 or 34, WOW!! These ladies are battle harden and thinking like dudes.

Sexione I am right behind ya with the flame thrower savage by Dr.Kym.

By Lady J

June 11, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

ok good people peace…

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

For Real Yeah it’s amazing that i kept my V-card longer than you did. lol (remember we used to say that. Now I think they straight ask if you fuggin)

Youngin’: what’s up girl. Mmmm you shole iz fyne. What you bout to do?

Young Chick: I bet you tell all dem gurls dat but imma bout to go to 3rd period.

Y: you know you shole thick in dem thighs too. 3rd period huh? well you know i wanna hang out wit you right?

YC: well i figured dat. what you wanna grab summin to eat after skool?

Y: well dat depends?

YC: on what?

Y: you fuggin?

By BlatinoBrutha -

June 11, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

The entire blogFAM, that’s MLB and WLB, gets citations for straying waayyyyy the hellz off topic today!!!

OK, Blat is issuing an announcement!

Blatino has decided NOT to permanently leave the Cab Light off. Rather, he has used his MLB connections to obtain a limousine license. Heretofore I shall be known as Blatino’s Luxury Transport, servicing only the upper eschelon of WLB Clientele. Reservations can be made at atlien78@gmail.com.

No sense leaving a good vehicle parked in the garage because a few lousy customers dirtied up the interior. And I’m gonna let God do the detail work!!!

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

Welcome IG and Mo. don’t let em work you like Kizzy. (This is a test to find their true age, see if they remember that name)

The Raiders are going to win it all this year. 25% no 10% LMAO

By kinderbabe

June 11, 2007 3:16 PM | Link to this

hey everybody!:)

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

Blat Blatino’s Luxury Transport is Blt, your named after a sandwich, its hard to roll with that.

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Sean J You’re right in a perfect world. However, that is not the case realistically. With us knowing that we are constantly being judged on appearance in jobs, as in other cases as well, why automatically put that strike against yourself, you know. Hellz, folks judge other people based solely on appearance everyday, in dating, in just walking through the mall, going out to eat…etc. It’s not necessarily right, but it is what it is.

Jay It’s funny but I wouldn’t even be surprised. He’d probably risk his job hoping some top music exec runs in the store for a box a cereal and go, dayum who is dat singing or playing dem beats…all up in customer service asking about it. lol Occasionally, he had some decent material but i never p** on his dreams.

4 Real so when is the Jenga Party going down? I’ll have to be sure to wear that lime green wool jumpsuit my grandma made for me back in ‘93 for the blizzard. I’ll even let you take pictures.

Musing yeah I know. It was almost frustrating eating them things. THen if you bit it the wrong way, you’d just end up eating wax and no juice. My favorite thing was ring pops, cry babies and the dipstick koolaid joint.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 11, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

Truth I told you I’m a ‘75 baby so I know exactly who Kizzy is!! LOL

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

You go Blatino!!!!

By IslandGirl

June 11, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

**Truth..you’re right..they working me today. Of course, Kizzy is a character from Alex Haley’s movie, “Roots”. One of my friends sister was given that nickname…lol

By Blat's Motorized Wonderland

June 11, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

@truth…. good point. How ‘bout Blat’s Motorized Wonderland??? BMW, Grand Poobah of the MLB, is in the house!!!

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

SJ Hit me up…gotta question for you!

Blatino Glad to hear it! Now, don’t be fooled by the professional look…check the feet first. Quality women have quality toes! LOLOL!! (checking out my fresh pedicure)

Musing LMAO @ the homeless guy comment! When I was in school, there was a homeless guy who would sneak up on you in the parking lot as you were getting out of your car. He’d give us the same line, after he got cussed for sneaking up on us….I’m a good Christian man, and I’m just lookin’ for somethin’ to eat…can you help a brotha out? The problem was, he was on the other side of campus from the cafeteria, and across the street from a Burger King. Sometimes, we’d get some extra food from BK (if we had enough student loan $$ left over) and get him some food. He’d take it, but only if he hadn’t had a chance to get his rap out. One day, one of my classmates told him she’d go over to BK to get him some food, and he got mad b/c she wouldn’t just give him some $$. I guess BK doesn’t sell Yack, does it? Hmmmm….

By IslandGirl

June 11, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

Blatyah know we had another meaning for BMW back home, “big man wood….lolol

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Blatino don’t let Truth change your ride’s name, stick with Blatino’s Luxury Transport it has more class. Blat’s Motorized Wonderland sounds like an ol’ pimped out mobile. (wink,wink)

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 4:05 PM | Link to this

Blat I like that. Plus its always easier to pull ladies when they see BMW.

Cool MO and IG I didn’t want to come out and card you but we been havin rumors og youngins in here.

By MusingLee

June 11, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

Ohhhh, island girl…You are making me irie.

Musing now shirtless, wearing a grass pant suit, and flip-flops made from hemp strands.

By Jake

June 11, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Speakng of old school sweets: WHy don’t they sell Big League Chew anymore, when I used to play baseball, I’d have a mouth full like it was tobacco, spitting on the dirt and evrything.

Oh, thats why they don’t sell it anymore…LOL

SeanJ Can’t ride with you on that, its good to see one try to be something but too many of these cats look awful, and they proud to be that way. Tats all up on they necks, braided out, lips black as tar from killin roaches, just out of touch with reality.

Too bad they are going to wake up at 23, if they make it and realize I haven’t had a job before, didn’t go college, this rap ish ain’t working, and I’m broke.

By then its too late, which is the main reason why you gotta ride wit heat, because crime is some of these fugg-ups future.

By Blat's Motorized Wonderland

June 11, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

Ok, let’s vote. BLT or BMW???? LOLOL

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 4:14 PM | Link to this

Blat don’t listen to purple. Chicks gonna be saying “you remember that guy named after the sandwich”. BMW is cooler, plus they can call you BEEMER.

I’ve been dating twenty yo chicks for the last 10 yrs, it may be time to up the age bracket based on recommendations from the MLB members. Those youngins sho do know how to wiggle that azz tho. My current ex is 13 yers younger than me.

Take a look at that kid on the front of AJC, he looks yellow. Cancer is a terible thing.

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

Plus its always easier to pull ladies when they see BMW.

Blatino I thought the whole point of this was to avoid the “buy me something” women? I’m with Purple…stick with the BLT. And be sure not to let Truth trick you into giving him a ride anywhere. You’ll never get him out of the car, and he’ll leave empty Funyon bags and Mountain Dew bottles all over the interior. We’re just getting the funk out of the Phantom.

By IslandGirl

June 11, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

@**Slim….good point about being judged on appearances…it’s the world we live in.

Regarding old skool candy what about nowalaters, mary janes and whachamacalit (sp?). Ring pops were my favorites.

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

Ladies all those in favor of Blatino’s Luxury Transport let me hear you holla!!!

By Blat's Motorized Wonderland

June 11, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

@Island Girl, I’m lovin that comparison. Points for the BMW name!!!

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 4:23 PM | Link to this

@Jake…all in takes is a older cat such as you or myself to pull their coat to the “game”..And if they are willing to work thats half the battle.like i said…the appearance can easily be corrected and from the looks of it…it may be working itself out by itself…thanks how trends come and go..i see a lot of cats dressinng less thugged out…more casual…i know in the 80’s i was polo or izod down..with sperry and timberland topsiders..str8 preppie…BUT was str8 out of the hood…

By Blat's Motorized Wonderland

June 11, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this

NCGirl, good point. This is gonna get interesting. Go easy on my boi Truth though. You know he can’t help it. Sorry bruh: I just got the detail bill for the .URANG. It’s comin outta your dues.

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

IG/Jake/Musing Ole skool candy? Two words: Pixie Sticks! Rip off the top, tilt your head back as far as you can, tip it up…Skraight sugar to the brain!

Slim I used to get the Fun Dip from the ice cream man! LOL!

By The Truth

June 11, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

NC you don’t need to keep bringing up those funyons. It was one time and I apologized to the WLB already. That was not my mountain dew, I left the grape soda.

Blat don’t listen to them, come by and pick me up and we’ll ride and talk about it. Can you take me by the grocery store? Purple sent me an email saying she was going to get you to paint the limo purple and she was gonna have you wearing a shirt with lace all over it.

MLB for life baby.

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

Good going NC

By SeanJohnson

June 11, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this

@NCATLIEN….sup? u looking for me………

By IslandGirl

June 11, 2007 4:33 PM | Link to this

@Musing….you have to get the good quality hemp for those flip flops to hold up …of course an upstanding citizen like myself can’t tell you where to get it though…lolol

@Truth…no shame in my game…I’m ‘72 all the way. What’s up with the young guys (college bound and highschool)trying to get with older women. I was dropping off my son to hang out with a couple of his friends the other day and one of the older (18-20 yr) boys approached me with some lines. I told that boy I’m old enough to put him accross my knees for a good spanking. lol.

By For Real

June 11, 2007 4:35 PM | Link to this

Slim Now you remember how I play jenga don’t you??? And for some reason the lime green wool jumpsuit that nanna made for you does something for me. I keep getting images of Debbie Allen in her jumpsuit with those ‘70 breasteses. And Slim we all know you got some ‘70 breasteses.

Blat BMW bruh…. These women know good and well if you told them to call you BLT they would run for their lives.

Old Skool candy: Boston Bake Beans, Alexander the Grape, and Red Hots. The combination of these candies with some penny cookies gave me the runs for two days.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 11, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

old skool candy?!?! So many to name: lemon heads, alexander the grapes, jawbreakers, cherry bombs, Boston baked beans and my favorite freshen up gum (with the jelly in the middle)!!!

Thanks Truth glad I could verify that I am indeed grown and sexy!!

By For Real

June 11, 2007 4:39 PM | Link to this

NC Said the Ice Cream Man use to get her Fun Dip. Awwww ish NC

Ding, Ding Baby I got some hot ice at the crib for you

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Truth OFLMBO

By Demi

June 11, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

IslandGirl hellz I was just put down hard, by a 41 looking 31 sista with no make up, sexy sexy. I said “Babe, I thought you were my age.”

By IslandGirl

June 11, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

**NC…dang…I remember those…talk about flash back.

By NCGirlfromATL

June 11, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

LMAO!!! For Real You stoopid! Hot ice?

SJ check your email.

By SlimOne

June 11, 2007 4:45 PM | Link to this

NC I use to love the large pixie sticks that came in the long plastic tube thingy with the stripes going down the side in the color of the flavor you had. Then if you got too crazy with it and got the tip wet, you’d have to cut the top off. But i also loved the screwballs from the icecream man.

By Purplepassion

June 11, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

Oldsckool candies- *Sugar Daddy, Sugar Mama and Sugar Babies *( a whole darn family!) I’m still wondering how many licks does it take to get to the center of a Tootie Roll pop, I always stop counting after @60. :(

By For Real

June 11, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

NC That is the ice the ice cream trucks used to keep the ice cream frozen. It would burn your hand so we used to call it hot ice. For additional pleasure we would happen to acquire some hot ice and throw into water the reaction. It looked like a valcano errupting.

By Jake

June 11, 2007 4:54 PM | Link to this

SeanJ A nice Polo remains a staple of the wardrobe. If I know the cat, I try to skool’em, but these lil dudes will make you want to whup em.

IG give credit for havin some nutz

Blat Keep as BLT, if any starts talkin sandwiches, tell’em its a “Miracle Whip”

 

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