Misadventures in Atlanta

By GA.man

June 8, 2007 8:19 AM | Link to this

**Good Morning all….gonna go celebrate my sons birthday weekend….ya’ll be nice or heck naw go at..lolol be safe and have a good weekend

Head nod to the All Powerful MLB

WINKS to the WLB

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this

TGIF!!!!!

Sexi hair flip to the WLB non church hugs to the MLB

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 8:38 AM | Link to this

Morning good people!!! Great Topic WD!! TGIF & everyone enjoy your weekend!:)

By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert

June 8, 2007 8:38 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

Happy Friday. Yes I have a most likely would again date someone with a record. It depends on what they were in for. White Collar crimes yes, malice murder,rape child molestation…those are unforgivable curses. So No.

I mean life has proven that people can change what is in a person’s past is just that their past.

I am sure this topic will be a interesting one Wisey.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

Great Post Dr. Kym…

By Jessica

June 8, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this

It really depends on why they went to prison. If it was for something like rape or child molestation then no. If it’s murder, it depends on the circumstances. If they stalked or beat an ex wife or ex girlfriend, NO WAY! If it’s something like a DUI or vehicular homicide, then MAYBE. I realize that all of us make mistakes. If they have truly changed and have moved on with their lives in a positive way, then I wouldn’t count them out.

By Jay

June 8, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this

Hello LadyJ How have you been.

By T-Mango

June 8, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this

Hair flip to the WLB and smooches to the MLB

I have not knowingly dated someone with a record. The main questions would be “What was his offense?” and “When did it occur?” I would make my decisions from there.

Free Genarlow Wilson…

Have a great day bloggers. Going to do community service today-

By abc

June 8, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this

I’d like to think I’d be open-minded enough to accept one’s criminal past (if they’d reformed), but it brings to mind a first date from last year (yesterday’s topic?!) where the chick detailed her jail time and the criminal records of her kids… man, I couldn’t get out of there fast enough. I was gone, baby.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this

Hey Jay I have been doing great what about you? Are you going to make the concert next Sat? Glad to hear from you!

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this

Good morning bloggers. Wattup MLB and WLB members.

GAMAN “Knocked Up” was funny as hell. Good pick man.

On topic: Cosigning the first part of Drk’s post. Minor offenses are cool but I don’t think people really change that much. If you think its easy try changing something about yourself. It’s hard as hell.

What about borderline cases like DUI’s which would lead one to believe there’s a bigger problem.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 8, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this

Morning ALL!! Hair flip to thw WLB and soft kisses to the MLB

T-Mango I agree, free Genarlow Wilson.

On topic: I agree with most who have already commented. It would depend on the offense. We all make mistakes and I understand that. But I would lie if I said the offense wouldnt matter to me. TGIF

By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert

June 8, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

You know it is Friday and in honor of His Purple Baddness…I shall be quoting from the book of Prince today.

Starting with the one I am listening to now…

Pop Life..everybody needs a thrill
Pop Life…we all got a space to fill Pop Life…ever body cant be on top Life aint very funky unless it’s got that Pop. Dig it.

By abc

June 8, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this

DUI isn’t a borderline crime. Anyone who drinks and drives is extremely irresponsible, I certainly wouldn’t be a passenger in their vehicle. Shoot, I’d call in and report them myself.

By Jay

June 8, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this

LAdyJ I’m carring your basket remember. Yes I will be there. I been great. Thanks for asking.

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this

ABC I’ve had a drink and drove before and I wouldn’t categorize myself as irresponsible.

Wasnt Genarlow 17 and the girls 15? Both minors, whats the noise about? De he force then to do something or what.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

Okay Jay see you there…Trying to fugure out a menu now as we speak…lol

By Jay

June 8, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

Just dont forget the texas margarita

By abc

June 8, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this

A single drink won’t put your BAC at .08. I’m talking about drankin and drivin.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

don’t forget the chilled Reisling…If I do food you do drinks…lol

By Notthirdwheel

June 8, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Everyone!! This is a good topic today because I am actually dealing with this topic now…. My friend is actually on her way on a 12 hour driving journey to pick up a man she meet two weeks ago. She is bringing him back to her house in Ga and they are going to live together. Well he is going to sleep in the guest room and she is going to sleep in her own room. This guy is 50 years old…. Just got out of jail again… no real job.. no furniture, no cell phone until my friend brought him one. Now granted my friend is in her early 30’s and madly in love with him. He can offer her nothing. His own mother is shocked that this is happening so fast and she introduced him to her. She won’t listen to me or anyone else! I couldn’t date someone knowing they have a jail record. It would be really hard for them to get a decent job and I can’t deal with taking care of him and me!

By Cassey

June 8, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

I work at a Prison and the one reason I would never date a convict is because on the weekends they kiss their boyfriends goodbye go to visitation to see their wifes. They lie to their wifes and go back to their dorms to their boyfriends.

By SeanJohhnson

June 8, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…regarding the topic…if a female has done a little jail time ..once she has paid her debt to society i wouldnt have a problem dating her…i would quiz her on the circumstances of the crime though…i am not a judgemental person…but i have a pet peeve about thiefs….cant stand them…she would have had to been broke and hungry for me look past her stealing…

By T-Mango

June 8, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this

Truth…here’s an article. Hope the link comes up.

[http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/LegalCenter/Story?id=1693362&page=1]

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this

Okay, had to come out of Lurksville on that one, LadyJ. There’s a big difference in dating someone with a record, and hooking up with someone who is currently serving time, and your mate who may do something to get some time. At least with the last two, you have some sort of history, and even then you don’t really know what you’ll be getting when it’s over. But to meet someone behind bars and start a relationship…………HELLZ NAW!!!!! I hope it works out for her though………awww hellz naw!!!!

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Oops, my bad, I meant Notthirdwheel

By 4everme

June 8, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this

HE!! NAW

By Wise Diva

June 8, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

so Sean, if she had done something to a man she once was married to/ or dated, something like, violently attacked him, you wouldn’t date her would you?

Like you guys have said, how much can people really change, and would you fear that they would commit crime again?

@Cassie, you know that is a real concern,not to mention, dealing with the prison culture after being released..man, talk about adjusting. I imagine that you are forever changed. Oh, and I watched “OZ” which really scared the heck out of me.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this

Hey Sexione!!! Glad you stopped through!!!:)

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this

Cassey, I saw the same thing. Dudes laying up with other fellas and then wifey visiting on the weekeend. CRAZY

I dated a chick that got a drug charge and had to do a little time. The day she got out she asked for that drug again. What a waste. I was thru with her.

3rdwheel that is wild. That chick is gonna catch it, real fast. What was ol boy in for anyway? You gotta kepp us posted on that one.

By Laila

June 8, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Hey guys. I read this blog everyday, but I don’t post, so today I thought I would. My sister is dating a guy that is in AA and NA. The guy’s only 24, so he couldn’t have been recovering too long. Is it wrong for me to look down on this guy? Obviously he used to have a problem, but who says it won’t come back. I don’t think people really change, ecspecially not that fast. It’s not the same as a criminal record, but it is a troubled past. I could see if the guy has been sober for ten years, but right now I wouldn’t give him a chance.

By Carnivore 69

June 8, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this

Can someone define MLB, WLB, and hair flip to me?

Thanks.

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

Okay, it must be time to go home….lol That should have said…”at least with the last one…”

By SeanJohhnson

June 8, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

@ WD….like i said..i would quiz her about the circumstances of the crime…if she violently attacked him…u have to look at the scenario..she coulda been abused prior..or even if they got into a fight and she got the best of him by using a weapon..i wouldnt fault her…i prolly would have done the same thing…i always say… i rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6…

By Ms. Writer

June 8, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

My friend set me up with a guy that had just gotten out of prison after 10 years and did not let me know until after she gave him my number…some friend. I tried to be non biased and give the guy a chance, so much so that he felt comfortable enough to tell me that he j&*(ed off every single day and was a porn addict. Needless to say—no more calls after that!!!! On the contrary, I have a friend who went to jail for selling drugs (5 years) got out, finished college, is a hard worker and a good person….

By SeanJohhnson

June 8, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

@ WD…the pet peeve about thieves…deals with trust…

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

T-Mango that link didn’t work. Try again please.

Sexi you been smokin’ on the peace pipe this morning? LOL

WD you know any infraction committed against a man is unforgiveable.

Laila dude is 24 and a recovering alcoholic? He must have gotten an early start.dayuuum

By Notthirdwheel

June 8, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this

Hey Truth I will keep you posted. She is supposed to be bringing “thug life” to work on Monday for use to meet him. I told her please let me know so I can go out to lunch early and not come back…. She brags on him like he is the cat’s meow. She even said he looked like LL Cool J…. We say his picture and all I saw was Rueben Studdard. But whatever… I hope it works out and she doesn’t get hurt but when the guy’s mama is even saying why are you moving him to Georgia you just have to question why? They won’t be slapping wang wangs together because supposedly he is sleeping in the guest room… Yeah right but still…. If the dude doesn’t have a job and you do and you are not giving him any meat what makes you think he is not going to sit at home all day and do nothing…. The whole situation is bad but she knows what she is doing. She told me he was a bad teenager and went to jail for that… Hello he is 50 and just now getting out??? What’s wrong with this picture….. Also he has two kids and an ex wife and can’t afford to pay for his kids hence no drivers license…. And no I am not jealous… just in case anyone was wondering…. LOL

By Wise Diva

June 8, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this

Wow, Ms. Writer! I think the guy I once dated was addicted to porn. I mean, if the collection goes past a shoe box, that’s a bit much isn’t it? He had garbage bags full! LOL..I mean, really!

By For Real

June 8, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this

Chick: Hey baby.. I know I said we had to sleep in separate rooms but mamma feeling hot and wants some that good prison lovin..

Prison Dude: Ahhh yeah that’s what I’m talkin bout. Come on over Lamonte

Chick: WTF…

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

SJ dang, I guess so!! lmsao

Notthirdwheel Honey, please, you do not sound jealous! You sound like WTF???, which is what most of us (if not all) are thinking. I’m still wondering what he did time for. And yes, why is it that she has to bring him to her home instead of letting him get himself together, find a job and a place to live first? Beats me, but wow!! And to top it all off, she’s bringing him to the job? Who in hellz does that after knowing someone for two weeks? I pray she has no children at home……..whew!!!

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

The porn collection is serious and I am not against it it is just to what extent does a man look at a naked body…nothing really changes but the size meaning there is something deeper the brain is seeking…Now who do I thin I am saying this but it is JMO…lol

By T-Mango

June 8, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Truth…Not quite sure how to link in the blog. 2nd attempt…

(http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/06/06/teen.sex.case.ap/index.html)

By MELO

June 8, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

where the chick detailed her jail time and the criminal records of her kids WOW abc,how did u meet her in the first place…at the parole office? A whole family in crime business,OMG.You were going to get conscripted, good u ran!!

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

3rdwheel if you were jealous of that situation YOU would be the one needing help. I just hope she doesn’t get hurt, physically or emotionally. And he isn’t sleeping in the guest room. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised though, even Jeffrey Dahmer had suitors lining up for him and he gives the term “eaten out” a whole new meaning.

Mswriter whats wrong with wacking off everyday? LMAO

By abc

June 8, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

She was another misrepresented online personals person. She wanted me to follow her home, but I turned right when she turned left. Man, I’d have hookers contacting me on those online personals! Crazy. Quoting prices for ‘dates’.

By T-Mango

June 8, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this

Truth-Looks like you’ll have to cut and paste the web address in your brower (without the parentheses)…

By ccherry

June 8, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

This is my fist blog ever but i just had to commment on the girl who is picking up a 50 year old jail bird who has nothing to offer her…When are we as women gonna wake up and WAIT and see what God brings into our lives instead of selling ourselves short. WOW!!

By Donna

June 8, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

What do you think about someone that works for the Atlanta police department and has let someone with a long crimnal background live with them and this male person have suspended drivers license but they are driving their car, owes back child support, and is involving in some illegal activities making money but they are looking the other way because this person is spending money on her and her children.Is this right?

By Tazzee

June 8, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I have to agree with the others, it would depend on why he did time. I have a friend that is very successful professionally and an all around good guy. Well one night, he got arrested for speeding and had to spend the night in the pokie - does that count as doing time? But even it were prison time, I would try to find out the underlying circumstances before walking away from a guy.

By Ladylike

June 8, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Blog, waving at’cha.

Many moons ago I dated a guy who had a criminal past, let’s just say he knew his guns. This never really scared me, who knows why! He was a good person at heart but for some reason he felt he had to live this lifestyle. Well, needless to say he ended up shot in the back by some random argument. I was in my late teens, early twenties so it hurt but I moved on. Although I do believe people can change, I don’t plan to date another guy with such a past.

By MELO

June 8, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

@Sexione and Notthirdwheel,Who in hellz does that after knowing someone for two weeks?*She brags on him like he is the cat’s meow.* That is what the itch does to all desperate, desireous and amorous women. Its the itch ladies!!

By Cammi

June 8, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Uhh…unless it was for a traffic violation, in the words of Whitney Houston…HELL TO THE NAW!

By Demi

June 8, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

abc what about texting and driving, I am trying to stop

By Ladylike

June 8, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

I think guys as well as ladys should definitely reveal the porn collection after few dates. Some of this porn is serious. I don’t understand contantly looking at other engage. That’s on point Ms. Writer.

By Notthirdwheel

June 8, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

For Real you are off the chain! Thanks * Sexione*! I am like WTF! I thought she was a smart level headed person but the light is starting to come on and I am thinking otherwise! No she doesn’t have kids but still this is crazy. She doesn’t know this man from Adam. And he is in a “hurry” to get married too…… And he calls her every hour on the hour…. I hope he is not on the run again or I will turn him in… I always wanted to be on Cops or Cheaters with my face blurred out talking about how someone is a dang fool…. I hope she knows what she is getting herself into….. No car, no job, criminal history, old, no money and he slap no wang wang because he is going to be in the guest room dreaming about his days with Tito back in the slammer…. Now his mama lives down the street and she won’t take him back….. does that say anything??

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Donna right? okay, we all know the answer to that…..HELLLZ NO!!! But I can believe it….

Tazzee that is not the same as doing tme….not even close!

By MELO

June 8, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

@Donna, u sound like a jilted wife or girlfriend.If he is doing some illegal activities now and his licence is suspended , it was the same thing when u two were together, so WTF and difference!? Just move on, .org!!!

By Cinderella

June 8, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

If you have served time in prison, do you tell the people you are dating about it? If so, what do you say? How long do you wait before telling them?

I’m still waiting to hear. Come on ex-con lurkers.. LOL!

By Demi

June 8, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Hey 3rd and Tazzee

Hellz no Donna, some people are just that weak!!

Sup Jessica

By Wise Diva

June 8, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

LOL @ Cammi, that’s funny you should mention Whitney considering her husband’s love of the courtroom, oh, is it ex-husband now?

welcome ccherry, Ladylike, Laila!

@Donna, welcome ..um, you already know that’s a train wreck waiting to happen. It can’t be worth it, it just can’t.

By Wise Diva

June 8, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

Melo you read that way differently than I did, goodness.

By Mo Johnson

June 8, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

a) Paris H. should be back in jail unless she’s being threatened - then put her in some sort of isolation area - but in jail,

b) I don’t date female ex-cons - a person’s character rarely changes, and I’m not that hard-up,

c) Genarlow should spend about 6 more months in jail just so he doesn’t get the same deal as the other kids who admitted their mistake and took a reduced sentence &

d) men are more visually stimulated than women so saying a man is addicted to porn (or addicted to spanking his monkey) is like calling him a man.

Off Topic: the following is a test to see if I can link to a web-site [http://www.wikipedia.com]

By For Real

June 8, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

Now ladies of the blog yall be getting excited when the talk turns to bullet and ish. Why you so concern about the level of porn a man has? It’s his bullet… He doesn’t ask you why you are a member of the Energizer Battery of the Month Club does he?

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

Mo Johnson…too funny even if you are not trying to be lol…

By SeanJohhnson

June 8, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

@ MoJohnson..d) men are more visually stimulated than women so saying a man is addicted to porn (or addicted to spanking his monkey) is like calling him a man….very true statement…

By lawgirl

June 8, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

I would NEVER date a man who has served time. I once worked with an openly gay brotha and the only men he dated were the ones who were in denial. I noticed that the once common denominator these men shared was that they all had served time at one point in their lives. The time ranged from six months (habitually) to several years and the bad part about it was that these manly men lived double lives. I know it’s bad to judge, but it was shocking to see and hear the stories he would share. One story he shared was about an old “boyfriend” who was shot and killed one year and the guys baby mamma would come to our job to visit my co-worker because she knew he was a good friend of her kids father. Too bad she didn’t know just how good of a friend he was!!! One note, my co-worker did not appear to be gay, you really had to pay close attention to his behavior patterns to pick up on it…so there is no way she would have known with certainty.

Also, my co-worker brought in an ‘ol school photo album (the big thick one) and he had pictures of brothas, all of whom he had dated or had relations with and they lived all over the ATL. BUT, the only commonality that I found was that they all had served time. So you do the math. It just gives me a peace of mind not to date any man who has served time because that time in my life taught me that there is no way to tell if/when he desires a mans touch and as always LOVE can be blind. I feel I work to hard just to have it all taken away with a positive HIV test result. I know…I know….GOD doesn’t give you more than you can handle, but that is one test I would rather not have to deal with.

By Mo Johnson

June 8, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Re: Mo Johnson

d) but by all means ladies you may try to cure us of our monkey-spankin’ ways by availing us of your tender mercies…

Off Topic: Second try [(http://www.wikipedia.com)]

By SeanJohhnson

June 8, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

ForReal….i was thinking the same thing….They always holla..”i want a man with a lil thug” in him…but today they dont want a real thug…just a dude with braids with a tape up..so green…the pizzorn thing is about their insecurites yet they prolly use that bullet they bought from star ship EVERY nite so is that diffrent or the same than a dude watching movies or the dude locked up that 3rd wheel mentioned???

By Demi

June 8, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

Ladylike at this time I have no porn collection…Should I start downloading some now, to give an appearance of owning porn? I don’t her to think of me as gay. LOL

Making the video takes a lot of work and editing.

By ATLien

June 8, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

In reality - people don’t always disclose prison time, so look for red flags (in hindsight, there always are red flags). Background checks are very underrated too!

If the person was in prison for child molestation/rape/sex charges/murder, then everyone they date/see should be told this.

Then again - maybe knowing about jail time for unpaid child support/traffic stuff, etc., would be important - it gives you an idea of what you’ll be dealing with in the future with this person.

But! People do change. There are ex-cons who come out of prison and try to make a better life. Just beware of the ones who NEVER HAVE A DESIRE TO DO BETTER IN LIFE!!!

Have a fab weekend everybody!

By abc

June 8, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this

Yet more motivational reinforcement as to why I need to keep my azz outta jail. Sentenced to being a jailbird beeyotch, no thanks… I’m never going to break a law again in my life.

By Officer Musirello

June 8, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Kicking down the door at lawgirl’s office and firing a blog round into the computer screen

That post was hella long and you must pay the fine…RIiiiipppppP

Musing hands lawgirl a $75 citation

By Hot Sauce

June 8, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday to you all, hello my favorite blogger Musing now this topic is right down my alley. Even if someone tells me they don’t have a record i still run their name.

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

LMAO at MO.

Lawgirl in jail it is sometimes easier for a guy to be a sex toy than to fight to protect his manhood. In the beginning of being turned out he abhors it. Eventually he accepts it and finally he enjoys it. This has nothing to do with physical size or strength at all. It is an individual decision that alot of guys are forced to make. Where I worked if you had a 60 year sentence you were lucky, or snitched. So, if you know with 100% certainty that you will never be with a woman again is the thought of sleeping with a man as repugnant? Just giving another view to ponder. I’ve seen some real hard hitters face down and all you can say is wtf. This is in addition to our current culture which makes this kind of activity much more accepatable.

By Ladylike

June 8, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

Too much porn can be a bit disturbing, that’s all I am saying.LOL And maybe I think that way because as SJ said men are very visual people, as a woman I am not. All that looking and no action, sounds boring.

By lawgirl

June 8, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this

my legal counsel has successfully reduced my fine to a mere warning due to not having any priors.

Keystone cop Musirello continues to cruise the block in search of more blog offenders.

lawgirl e-mails Musirello a/k/a Musing a job announcement for the Fulton County Sheriffs Dept.

By Demi

June 8, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this

Musing hands lawgirl a $75 citation

lawgirl Musing is just trying to pay for a date.

Hot Sauce hey babe, what you be bout?

By MusingLee

June 8, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this

Wise I would date someone with a record based on what they did and how they currently feel about it…I’m not dating any cold blooded murders, but if they murdered someone accidentally such as a vehicular crash…I wouldn’t hold that against them if they’ve served their time…also there is a slight difference in jail time and prison time.

Jail Time: Couple nights in the local county/city holding space, maybe even a few months.(Potential to be pumped in the booty-Low to Medium exposure)

Prison Time: Couple months to many years.(Potential to be pumped in the booty-High)

By MusingLee

June 8, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

HotSauce What’s happ’nin’in?!?!

Musing now giving Hotsauce a false name and photo for inspection

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this

Yes, too much porn can be disturbing. And, NO, ALL women do not own (or have ever owned or used) bullets. I know, try to get your mind around that…

Ladylike that’s when they go out and stick it in every hole they can………….after looking at all that porn! lol

By MusingLee

June 8, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this

demi Man, why are you knocking my hustle?!?! LOLOLOLOL…

lawgirl I’m an independant enforcement agency…

Musing now following lawgirl all around the A, waiting for the slightest infraction….by hiding in her car trunk

By Demi

June 8, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

Guys just dont think…Yes that are a few folks I wish to kill, but the thought of all those years and no p-dussy scares me…and Imma lil good looking dude, nonononononononooooo they are going to have to kill me on the spot…musing do a skit for me*

By Donna

June 8, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this

No, I would not allowed the illegal activites to go on in my house that is what ask him to leave but you would think someone who is employed with the atlanta police department would have better since and realize they will bring them down

By Hot Sauce

June 8, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this

Demi, Musing I’m good just taking it easy, this picture looks nothing like you Officer Muserillo i’m thinking about going on vacation to the U S Virgin Island but once again i don’t want to go alone and my girlfriends are sooo cheap, but we’ll see

By MusingLee

June 8, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

..Demi in the Pen

Warden: Demi welcome to the pen…You will be in this cell here.

Demi: Who is that dude inside my cell?

Warden: That’s your cell mate Azz’Crusher….

Demi: WTF!!! Why yall call him that?

Warden: Er’cell mate he has seems to wake up the next morning with a broken’azz.

Demi now passing the fk out!

By MELO

June 8, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

@WiseD,Melo you read that way differently than I did, goodness See below WD!! DonnaNo, I would not allowed the illegal activites to go on in my house that is what ask him to leave but….

You can say I have a man instinct, right Wise?!!Give me half some credit, at least for reading between the lines. Been around females a long time!!!

By Ladylike

June 8, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

MusingLee that 12:00 post sums it up for me. If the person is known to break the law habitually they probably always will.

By Ladylike

June 8, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

I hear ya Sexione, maybe the porn watching can be over stimulating. LOL You are right every female does’nt own a bullet.

By Hot Sauce

June 8, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ Demi & Musing

hopefully that will never happen to either of you, lol

Now taking Demi & Musing’s name off the America’s Most Wanted list

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

Lmao at Musing.

Maybe this explains why some women try real hard to get their men put in the poky. The very first time a woman calls the cops on me its over, period. F**k kids, family, any of it. 1 call and we are done.

Abc funny stuff. If you do go to jail stab the first guy that says hi to you in the thoat and start knawing on his neck. Noone will mess with you then. 100%

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 8, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this

WD you have set the Blog on fire with this topic!! I, too, used to watch OZ and that show scared me to death.

For Real I need my song, Pronto!! Its Friday!!

lawgirl that’s some ole ull-ish right there. Yo girl needs some help! She doesnt know that man well enough, but to each his/her own.

MoJohnson nice to see another Mo in here, welcome!! :0)

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

@Ladylike…I am trying so hard not to purchase one…lol

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

June 8, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

Lady J & Ladylike come on and join the bullet owners club!! LOL

By MusingLee

June 8, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this

Sooo is there now a BOC (Bullet Owners Club) within the WLB?!?!? LOLOLOL…Or does being in the WLB require that you already own a bullet?

Bullet sales now putting the Good D Booth out of business

By Sue

June 8, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this

I don’t think it would be a problem if it was a misdemeanor… I work in a very public job and I don’t think I could date someone with a felony record. I am married so I don’t have to worry, but I do think it would be a problem for me because of that.

By Lee

June 8, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

I am in like with someone who is currently serving a 6 year sentence. He is an educated, thoughtful person who made a mistake and is now serving his time and wanting a better life. He is remorseful for what he has done and is motivated to be in a ministry to help kids stay out of trouble. We talk frequently - I may not know what will happen but I do know that this man is willing to do whatever it is to have a better life and not to fall back into his old life. He is a human being and made a mistake, I hope that he will make the most of any chance that will improve his life.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this

Mo I am scared…I can’t really phantom the buzz feeling but it is getting tough and well you know the rest but anyway I will be in the club soon…lol

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

@MusingLee…You truly keep me rolling…Stand up comedy on the Blog!!!:)

By lawgirl

June 8, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this

The Truth-I truly understand your perspective, which is why I’ve concluded that jailbirds are off limits to me. That’s precisely my point; their adaptation allows them to conform to their environment. As humans, once you repeat a particular behavior pattern, studies have shown that we are more likely to continue those patterns because we have adapted to our environment. I’m suggesting that just because one is removed from that environment, does not mean that their behavior patterns will change. I’m not judging anyone who has to make that decision or succumb to their environment, but I know I couldn’t handle dating a jailbird.

lawgirl wonders if musing used deodorant today, since he’s riding in my hot *zz trunk

By Hot Sauce

June 8, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

Musing If you’re going to do away with the Good D Booth please be sure you have a Big D Going Out of Business Sale aight!!!!

Have a good weekend everyone!

By young one

June 8, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

I would have to say no. I don’t really care what he was in jail for, but there is too much man on man activity going on in prison for me to ever really know for sure what went on while he was in there. Esp. if it was a long sentence. His character may be reformed but what about his sexual preferences. GROSS and NO!!!

By Demi

June 8, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Hot Sauce babe, no jail time for me…plus I value my freedom. Beside we have enough black fathers in jail.

I can’t live with myself, speaking to lil Demi behind no glass

Musing funny bruh!!

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this

Or does being in the WLB require that you already own a bullet? Uh oh, my membership will have to be revoked if it does. Oh well……..I like the real thang too much for that!! lmsao

ROTFLMSAO @ Musing

By young one

June 8, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

I would have to say no. I don’t really care what he was in jail for, but there is too much man on man activity going on in prison for me to ever really know for sure what went on while he was in there. Esp. if it was a long sentence. His character may be reformed but what about his sexual preferences. GROSS and NO!!!

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

Mo is this mental or what but it is like when I purchase it it is declaring I don’t have a man, a back up or nothing of the other sex…Trust I know it is used for other things and pleasures but I am just not at that point yet…lol Okay through venting about that..lol

By Dark Brown

June 8, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this

My sentiments run along the same lines as most of those posted. I have and would take it on a case by case basis and there are certain classes of crimes that would be deal breakers.

And technically, I could be considered and ex-convict. I spent the night in jail one when I was 18. Mel.issa and I had the brilliant idea to go and steal an outfit to wear out to the club that night. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned. I learned a few lessons that night. 1. Do not go to jail wearing a cute little short set. It’s freezing in general population. I almost froze to death. 2. There are a lot of prostitutes and drunk women in jail. 3. The beds in jail are NOT comfortable. 4. Stealing a $20 dress is so not enough to be in jail for. If you’re going to commit a crime, it should be a doozie. 5. Don’t commit any crimes.

By Island Girl

June 8, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

Hey All…Happy Friday

My first love ended up going to prison for 10 year for drug trafficking. My heart was broken because I did not know he meddled in the drug game. He had a regular 9 to 5 and I did not see any of those things going on. Anyway, we stayed in touch with each other via telephone for a little while until I decided to let him go. When he got out he looked me up in ATL. Although he was a great guy, I just couldn’t go there. After ten years in prison, I’m sure he was touched. He had a strong s*x drive, so I know all that had to be spent in some way.

He is doing well now, but it is no way I could consider getting with him. For each his own.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

Wow Dark Brown…Thanks for sharing!

By lawgirl

June 8, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this

Thanks Demi!

Off topic:I know the dating game can be tough on the pockets. A man has to get his legal hustle on….the best way he can. LOL!

Officer Murisello passes lawgirl his real estate business card after issuing her a citation.

By NCGirlfromATL

June 8, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this

Afternoon Blog!

carbing up for tomorrow’s Komen Race for the Cure

On topic: It depends. (Sorry, For Real). It really depends on the infraction. If dude was in jail for some silly bar fight while in college, I don’t care about that. But, the major things, murder, assault, robbery, any kind of sexual assualt, drug dealing/possession (more than a misdemeanor amount of weed…that happened years ago), DUI…I’d probably have to be out. Yes, it’s judgmental, but it’s also about safety.

Musing you still in the office by yourself, boo? LOLOL!!

By Island Girl

June 8, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

@WLB…IG does not own a bullet…I’m waiting on the orientaton class Slim plans to teach on “Tips on Shopping for A Bullet”.

@Musing….you’re a fool….poor Demi.

By Sexione

June 8, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

IG I feel you. I knew a dude who went for 8.5 yrs, and although he always said “shiiid, them nikkas would have to kill me first”, I used to wonder. Even if it happened by force, a man would never admit it. And then one day he got sick and had to have an emergency operation, they had to remove one of his ballz because the blood was no longer flowing to it (and yes, this was during incarceration). Don’t know what could have caused that, but I was like dayum!! Oh well, like u said, to each his own.

By Dark Brown

June 8, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this

So off topic - Isiah Washington got fired from Grey’s Anatomy - Why, oh why must they toy with my life like that?

and a question - last night, I was listening to 95.5 The Beat and a rap song came on. I don’t know the name of it or the performer, but the bass line was from Ben E. King’s Stand By Me - does anybody know that song? thanks

By Island Girl

June 8, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

@Lawgirl….that really happens..just about everybody is in the real estate biz these days.LOLOL

By Biff

June 8, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

Well if you were a afro-american you would cut out over half the population wouldn’t you?

Why do so many afro-americans seem to think its so cool to have a criminal record?

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

lol sexi…

By The Truth

June 8, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Picture this: How about getting strip searched regularly (yes, bend over and spead em, lmao), pat searched daily, and your personal belongings searched randomly? You are under total control of some guard and if you buck they beat the crap out of you everywhere you go. Finally, your in your cell chillin and a few 275 lb dudes walk in and close the door and tell you their horny. What would you do?

By Notthirdwheel

June 8, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Hey MELO they have only talked on the phone and met once in person. He lives out of state and had to take the Greyhound to get here and it was love at first sight……

By Island Girl

June 8, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this

@Sexi….dayum..my gosh!!

By Notthirdwheel

June 8, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

* Hey Demi* (waving my hand)

By Island Girl

June 8, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this

@Dark Brown…I feel you on the change with Grey’s Anatomy. I hated the season finale…now that Isiah will not be returning, I’m interested to see how things with play out.

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Dark Brown I am said to see him leave to…Wonder how the spin off will do…I am still hooked to Fraiser’s re-runs…So some do well…

By SeanJohhnson

June 8, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

Ladies before you deem every dude thats been to jail/prison as being raped or participated in homo activies..u might wanna ask someone who has actually been….

By MELO

June 8, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

@Sue* I am married so I don’t have to worry, but I do think it would be a problem for me because of that*

If ur husband/wife were locked up for three years or so for a felony, would yu dumb them?What about u lady/male blogers?

By Lady J

June 8, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

ment sad…