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DEL.ICIO.USNot that desperate
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Paris Hilton is officially an ex-con, but do you think this will impact her dating options? I doubt it too. After all the media coverage of her stint in the pokie, I started thinking about what would happen if I went to jail. I was joking around with my friend Brian last night about what circumstances he would date someone who has been in prison. He said he wasn’t so desperate that he would have to date someone who had a criminal record.
The guys I have dated didn’t have a criminal past that I was aware of, at least they never told me. I am not sure how I would react if someone I was dating told me they served time. I suppose the circumstances of why they went to prison and how long they were there could make a difference though. Then again, I can be really snobby at times, and I would probably worry how my family would react. My father still brings up the guy I brought home once that LOOKED like an ex-con - and that was way back in high school!
When we talked about “When She Has A Past”, a reader sent me an email saying that he was lucky enough to be dating a great woman who stayed with him after he revealed to her that he served time. It really made me think about judging people’s past mistakes so harshly. I mean, isn’t it possible to change?
What are your thoughts?
If you have served time in prison, do you tell the people you are dating about it? If so, what do you say? How long do you wait before telling them?
How would you react if someone you were dating admitted to being an ex-con?
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By GA.man
June 8, 2007 8:19 AM | Link to this
**Good Morning all….gonna go celebrate my sons birthday weekend….ya’ll be nice or heck naw go at..lolol be safe and have a good weekend
Head nod to the All Powerful MLB
WINKS to the WLB
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this
TGIF!!!!!
Sexi hair flip to the WLB non church hugs to the MLB
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 8:38 AM | Link to this
Morning good people!!! Great Topic WD!! TGIF & everyone enjoy your weekend!:)
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
June 8, 2007 8:38 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
Happy Friday. Yes I have a most likely would again date someone with a record. It depends on what they were in for. White Collar crimes yes, malice murder,rape child molestation…those are unforgivable curses. So No.
I mean life has proven that people can change what is in a person’s past is just that their past.
I am sure this topic will be a interesting one Wisey.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this
Great Post Dr. Kym…
By Jessica
June 8, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this
It really depends on why they went to prison. If it was for something like rape or child molestation then no. If it’s murder, it depends on the circumstances. If they stalked or beat an ex wife or ex girlfriend, NO WAY! If it’s something like a DUI or vehicular homicide, then MAYBE. I realize that all of us make mistakes. If they have truly changed and have moved on with their lives in a positive way, then I wouldn’t count them out.
By Jay
June 8, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this
Hello LadyJ How have you been.
By T-Mango
June 8, 2007 9:03 AM | Link to this
Hair flip to the WLB and smooches to the MLB
I have not knowingly dated someone with a record. The main questions would be “What was his offense?” and “When did it occur?” I would make my decisions from there.
Free Genarlow Wilson…
Have a great day bloggers. Going to do community service today-
By abc
June 8, 2007 9:08 AM | Link to this
I’d like to think I’d be open-minded enough to accept one’s criminal past (if they’d reformed), but it brings to mind a first date from last year (yesterday’s topic?!) where the chick detailed her jail time and the criminal records of her kids… man, I couldn’t get out of there fast enough. I was gone, baby.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 9:10 AM | Link to this
Hey Jay I have been doing great what about you? Are you going to make the concert next Sat? Glad to hear from you!
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 9:12 AM | Link to this
Good morning bloggers. Wattup MLB and WLB members.
GAMAN “Knocked Up” was funny as hell. Good pick man.
On topic: Cosigning the first part of Drk’s post. Minor offenses are cool but I don’t think people really change that much. If you think its easy try changing something about yourself. It’s hard as hell.
What about borderline cases like DUI’s which would lead one to believe there’s a bigger problem.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this
Morning ALL!! Hair flip to thw WLB and soft kisses to the MLB
T-Mango I agree, free Genarlow Wilson.
On topic: I agree with most who have already commented. It would depend on the offense. We all make mistakes and I understand that. But I would lie if I said the offense wouldnt matter to me. TGIF
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
June 8, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this
You know it is Friday and in honor of His Purple Baddness…I shall be quoting from the book of Prince today.
Starting with the one I am listening to now…
Pop Life..everybody needs a thrill
Pop Life…we all got a space to fill Pop Life…ever body cant be on top Life aint very funky unless it’s got that Pop. Dig it.
By abc
June 8, 2007 9:18 AM | Link to this
DUI isn’t a borderline crime. Anyone who drinks and drives is extremely irresponsible, I certainly wouldn’t be a passenger in their vehicle. Shoot, I’d call in and report them myself.
By Jay
June 8, 2007 9:29 AM | Link to this
LAdyJ I’m carring your basket remember. Yes I will be there. I been great. Thanks for asking.
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this
ABC I’ve had a drink and drove before and I wouldn’t categorize myself as irresponsible.
Wasnt Genarlow 17 and the girls 15? Both minors, whats the noise about? De he force then to do something or what.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this
Okay Jay see you there…Trying to fugure out a menu now as we speak…lol
By Jay
June 8, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this
Just dont forget the texas margarita
By abc
June 8, 2007 9:42 AM | Link to this
A single drink won’t put your BAC at .08. I’m talking about drankin and drivin.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this
don’t forget the chilled Reisling…If I do food you do drinks…lol
By Notthirdwheel
June 8, 2007 9:50 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday Everyone!! This is a good topic today because I am actually dealing with this topic now…. My friend is actually on her way on a 12 hour driving journey to pick up a man she meet two weeks ago. She is bringing him back to her house in Ga and they are going to live together. Well he is going to sleep in the guest room and she is going to sleep in her own room. This guy is 50 years old…. Just got out of jail again… no real job.. no furniture, no cell phone until my friend brought him one. Now granted my friend is in her early 30’s and madly in love with him. He can offer her nothing. His own mother is shocked that this is happening so fast and she introduced him to her. She won’t listen to me or anyone else! I couldn’t date someone knowing they have a jail record. It would be really hard for them to get a decent job and I can’t deal with taking care of him and me!
By Cassey
June 8, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this
I work at a Prison and the one reason I would never date a convict is because on the weekends they kiss their boyfriends goodbye go to visitation to see their wifes. They lie to their wifes and go back to their dorms to their boyfriends.
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this
Sup Blog…regarding the topic…if a female has done a little jail time ..once she has paid her debt to society i wouldnt have a problem dating her…i would quiz her on the circumstances of the crime though…i am not a judgemental person…but i have a pet peeve about thiefs….cant stand them…she would have had to been broke and hungry for me look past her stealing…
By T-Mango
June 8, 2007 10:01 AM | Link to this
Truth…here’s an article. Hope the link comes up.
[http://abcnews.go.com/Primetime/LegalCenter/Story?id=1693362&page=1]
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 10:02 AM | Link to this
Okay, had to come out of Lurksville on that one, LadyJ. There’s a big difference in dating someone with a record, and hooking up with someone who is currently serving time, and your mate who may do something to get some time. At least with the last two, you have some sort of history, and even then you don’t really know what you’ll be getting when it’s over. But to meet someone behind bars and start a relationship…………HELLZ NAW!!!!! I hope it works out for her though………awww hellz naw!!!!
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this
Oops, my bad, I meant Notthirdwheel
By 4everme
June 8, 2007 10:05 AM | Link to this
HE!! NAW
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
so Sean, if she had done something to a man she once was married to/ or dated, something like, violently attacked him, you wouldn’t date her would you?
Like you guys have said, how much can people really change, and would you fear that they would commit crime again?
@Cassie, you know that is a real concern,not to mention, dealing with the prison culture after being released..man, talk about adjusting. I imagine that you are forever changed. Oh, and I watched “OZ” which really scared the heck out of me.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 10:07 AM | Link to this
Hey Sexione!!! Glad you stopped through!!!:)
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 10:08 AM | Link to this
Cassey, I saw the same thing. Dudes laying up with other fellas and then wifey visiting on the weekeend. CRAZY
I dated a chick that got a drug charge and had to do a little time. The day she got out she asked for that drug again. What a waste. I was thru with her.
3rdwheel that is wild. That chick is gonna catch it, real fast. What was ol boy in for anyway? You gotta kepp us posted on that one.
By Laila
June 8, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this
Hey guys. I read this blog everyday, but I don’t post, so today I thought I would. My sister is dating a guy that is in AA and NA. The guy’s only 24, so he couldn’t have been recovering too long. Is it wrong for me to look down on this guy? Obviously he used to have a problem, but who says it won’t come back. I don’t think people really change, ecspecially not that fast. It’s not the same as a criminal record, but it is a troubled past. I could see if the guy has been sober for ten years, but right now I wouldn’t give him a chance.
By Carnivore 69
June 8, 2007 10:10 AM | Link to this
Can someone define MLB, WLB, and hair flip to me?
Thanks.
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this
Okay, it must be time to go home….lol That should have said…”at least with the last one…”
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this
@ WD….like i said..i would quiz her about the circumstances of the crime…if she violently attacked him…u have to look at the scenario..she coulda been abused prior..or even if they got into a fight and she got the best of him by using a weapon..i wouldnt fault her…i prolly would have done the same thing…i always say… i rather be judged by 12 than carried by 6…
By Ms. Writer
June 8, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this
My friend set me up with a guy that had just gotten out of prison after 10 years and did not let me know until after she gave him my number…some friend. I tried to be non biased and give the guy a chance, so much so that he felt comfortable enough to tell me that he j&*(ed off every single day and was a porn addict. Needless to say—no more calls after that!!!! On the contrary, I have a friend who went to jail for selling drugs (5 years) got out, finished college, is a hard worker and a good person….
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this
@ WD…the pet peeve about thieves…deals with trust…
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
T-Mango that link didn’t work. Try again please.
Sexi you been smokin’ on the peace pipe this morning? LOL
WD you know any infraction committed against a man is unforgiveable.
Laila dude is 24 and a recovering alcoholic? He must have gotten an early start.dayuuum
By Notthirdwheel
June 8, 2007 10:27 AM | Link to this
Hey Truth I will keep you posted. She is supposed to be bringing “thug life” to work on Monday for use to meet him. I told her please let me know so I can go out to lunch early and not come back…. She brags on him like he is the cat’s meow. She even said he looked like LL Cool J…. We say his picture and all I saw was Rueben Studdard. But whatever… I hope it works out and she doesn’t get hurt but when the guy’s mama is even saying why are you moving him to Georgia you just have to question why? They won’t be slapping wang wangs together because supposedly he is sleeping in the guest room… Yeah right but still…. If the dude doesn’t have a job and you do and you are not giving him any meat what makes you think he is not going to sit at home all day and do nothing…. The whole situation is bad but she knows what she is doing. She told me he was a bad teenager and went to jail for that… Hello he is 50 and just now getting out??? What’s wrong with this picture….. Also he has two kids and an ex wife and can’t afford to pay for his kids hence no drivers license…. And no I am not jealous… just in case anyone was wondering…. LOL
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 10:32 AM | Link to this
Wow, Ms. Writer! I think the guy I once dated was addicted to porn. I mean, if the collection goes past a shoe box, that’s a bit much isn’t it? He had garbage bags full! LOL..I mean, really!
By For Real
June 8, 2007 10:36 AM | Link to this
Chick: Hey baby.. I know I said we had to sleep in separate rooms but mamma feeling hot and wants some that good prison lovin..
Prison Dude: Ahhh yeah that’s what I’m talkin bout. Come on over Lamonte
Chick: WTF…
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this
SJ dang, I guess so!! lmsao
Notthirdwheel Honey, please, you do not sound jealous! You sound like WTF???, which is what most of us (if not all) are thinking. I’m still wondering what he did time for. And yes, why is it that she has to bring him to her home instead of letting him get himself together, find a job and a place to live first? Beats me, but wow!! And to top it all off, she’s bringing him to the job? Who in hellz does that after knowing someone for two weeks? I pray she has no children at home……..whew!!!
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this
The porn collection is serious and I am not against it it is just to what extent does a man look at a naked body…nothing really changes but the size meaning there is something deeper the brain is seeking…Now who do I thin I am saying this but it is JMO…lol
By T-Mango
June 8, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this
Truth…Not quite sure how to link in the blog. 2nd attempt…
(http://www.cnn.com/2007/US/06/06/teen.sex.case.ap/index.html)
By MELO
June 8, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this
where the chick detailed her jail time and the criminal records of her kids WOW abc,how did u meet her in the first place…at the parole office? A whole family in crime business,OMG.You were going to get conscripted, good u ran!!
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this
3rdwheel if you were jealous of that situation YOU would be the one needing help. I just hope she doesn’t get hurt, physically or emotionally. And he isn’t sleeping in the guest room. I guess I shouldn’t be surprised though, even Jeffrey Dahmer had suitors lining up for him and he gives the term “eaten out” a whole new meaning.
Mswriter whats wrong with wacking off everyday? LMAO
By abc
June 8, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this
She was another misrepresented online personals person. She wanted me to follow her home, but I turned right when she turned left. Man, I’d have hookers contacting me on those online personals! Crazy. Quoting prices for ‘dates’.
By T-Mango
June 8, 2007 10:49 AM | Link to this
Truth-Looks like you’ll have to cut and paste the web address in your brower (without the parentheses)…
By ccherry
June 8, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this
This is my fist blog ever but i just had to commment on the girl who is picking up a 50 year old jail bird who has nothing to offer her…When are we as women gonna wake up and WAIT and see what God brings into our lives instead of selling ourselves short. WOW!!
By Donna
June 8, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this
What do you think about someone that works for the Atlanta police department and has let someone with a long crimnal background live with them and this male person have suspended drivers license but they are driving their car, owes back child support, and is involving in some illegal activities making money but they are looking the other way because this person is spending money on her and her children.Is this right?
By Tazzee
June 8, 2007 10:54 AM | Link to this
Morning folks!
I have to agree with the others, it would depend on why he did time. I have a friend that is very successful professionally and an all around good guy. Well one night, he got arrested for speeding and had to spend the night in the pokie - does that count as doing time? But even it were prison time, I would try to find out the underlying circumstances before walking away from a guy.
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Blog, waving at’cha.
Many moons ago I dated a guy who had a criminal past, let’s just say he knew his guns. This never really scared me, who knows why! He was a good person at heart but for some reason he felt he had to live this lifestyle. Well, needless to say he ended up shot in the back by some random argument. I was in my late teens, early twenties so it hurt but I moved on. Although I do believe people can change, I don’t plan to date another guy with such a past.
By MELO
June 8, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this
@Sexione and Notthirdwheel,Who in hellz does that after knowing someone for two weeks?*She brags on him like he is the cat’s meow.* That is what the itch does to all desperate, desireous and amorous women. Its the itch ladies!!
By Cammi
June 8, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this
Uhh…unless it was for a traffic violation, in the words of Whitney Houston…HELL TO THE NAW!
By Demi
June 8, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this
abc what about texting and driving, I am trying to stop
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this
I think guys as well as ladys should definitely reveal the porn collection after few dates. Some of this porn is serious. I don’t understand contantly looking at other engage. That’s on point Ms. Writer.
By Notthirdwheel
June 8, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
For Real you are off the chain! Thanks * Sexione*! I am like WTF! I thought she was a smart level headed person but the light is starting to come on and I am thinking otherwise! No she doesn’t have kids but still this is crazy. She doesn’t know this man from Adam. And he is in a “hurry” to get married too…… And he calls her every hour on the hour…. I hope he is not on the run again or I will turn him in… I always wanted to be on Cops or Cheaters with my face blurred out talking about how someone is a dang fool…. I hope she knows what she is getting herself into….. No car, no job, criminal history, old, no money and he slap no wang wang because he is going to be in the guest room dreaming about his days with Tito back in the slammer…. Now his mama lives down the street and she won’t take him back….. does that say anything??
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
Donna right? okay, we all know the answer to that…..HELLLZ NO!!! But I can believe it….
Tazzee that is not the same as doing tme….not even close!
By MELO
June 8, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this
@Donna, u sound like a jilted wife or girlfriend.If he is doing some illegal activities now and his licence is suspended , it was the same thing when u two were together, so WTF and difference!? Just move on, .org!!!
By Cinderella
June 8, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this
If you have served time in prison, do you tell the people you are dating about it? If so, what do you say? How long do you wait before telling them?
I’m still waiting to hear. Come on ex-con lurkers.. LOL!
By Demi
June 8, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
Hey 3rd and Tazzee
Hellz no Donna, some people are just that weak!!
Sup Jessica
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this
LOL @ Cammi, that’s funny you should mention Whitney considering her husband’s love of the courtroom, oh, is it ex-husband now?
welcome ccherry, Ladylike, Laila!
@Donna, welcome ..um, you already know that’s a train wreck waiting to happen. It can’t be worth it, it just can’t.
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this
Melo you read that way differently than I did, goodness.
By Mo Johnson
June 8, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this
a) Paris H. should be back in jail unless she’s being threatened - then put her in some sort of isolation area - but in jail,
b) I don’t date female ex-cons - a person’s character rarely changes, and I’m not that hard-up,
c) Genarlow should spend about 6 more months in jail just so he doesn’t get the same deal as the other kids who admitted their mistake and took a reduced sentence &
d) men are more visually stimulated than women so saying a man is addicted to porn (or addicted to spanking his monkey) is like calling him a man.
Off Topic: the following is a test to see if I can link to a web-site [http://www.wikipedia.com]
By For Real
June 8, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this
Now ladies of the blog yall be getting excited when the talk turns to bullet and ish. Why you so concern about the level of porn a man has? It’s his bullet… He doesn’t ask you why you are a member of the Energizer Battery of the Month Club does he?
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
Mo Johnson…too funny even if you are not trying to be lol…
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this
@ MoJohnson..d) men are more visually stimulated than women so saying a man is addicted to porn (or addicted to spanking his monkey) is like calling him a man….very true statement…
By lawgirl
June 8, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this
I would NEVER date a man who has served time. I once worked with an openly gay brotha and the only men he dated were the ones who were in denial. I noticed that the once common denominator these men shared was that they all had served time at one point in their lives. The time ranged from six months (habitually) to several years and the bad part about it was that these manly men lived double lives. I know it’s bad to judge, but it was shocking to see and hear the stories he would share. One story he shared was about an old “boyfriend” who was shot and killed one year and the guys baby mamma would come to our job to visit my co-worker because she knew he was a good friend of her kids father. Too bad she didn’t know just how good of a friend he was!!! One note, my co-worker did not appear to be gay, you really had to pay close attention to his behavior patterns to pick up on it…so there is no way she would have known with certainty.
Also, my co-worker brought in an ‘ol school photo album (the big thick one) and he had pictures of brothas, all of whom he had dated or had relations with and they lived all over the ATL. BUT, the only commonality that I found was that they all had served time. So you do the math. It just gives me a peace of mind not to date any man who has served time because that time in my life taught me that there is no way to tell if/when he desires a mans touch and as always LOVE can be blind. I feel I work to hard just to have it all taken away with a positive HIV test result. I know…I know….GOD doesn’t give you more than you can handle, but that is one test I would rather not have to deal with.
By Mo Johnson
June 8, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this
Re: Mo Johnson
d) but by all means ladies you may try to cure us of our monkey-spankin’ ways by availing us of your tender mercies…
Off Topic: Second try [(http://www.wikipedia.com)]
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this
ForReal….i was thinking the same thing….They always holla..”i want a man with a lil thug” in him…but today they dont want a real thug…just a dude with braids with a tape up..so green…the pizzorn thing is about their insecurites yet they prolly use that bullet they bought from star ship EVERY nite so is that diffrent or the same than a dude watching movies or the dude locked up that 3rd wheel mentioned???
By Demi
June 8, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this
Ladylike at this time I have no porn collection…Should I start downloading some now, to give an appearance of owning porn? I don’t her to think of me as gay. LOL
Making the video takes a lot of work and editing.
By ATLien
June 8, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
In reality - people don’t always disclose prison time, so look for red flags (in hindsight, there always are red flags). Background checks are very underrated too!
If the person was in prison for child molestation/rape/sex charges/murder, then everyone they date/see should be told this.
Then again - maybe knowing about jail time for unpaid child support/traffic stuff, etc., would be important - it gives you an idea of what you’ll be dealing with in the future with this person.
But! People do change. There are ex-cons who come out of prison and try to make a better life. Just beware of the ones who NEVER HAVE A DESIRE TO DO BETTER IN LIFE!!!
Have a fab weekend everybody!
By abc
June 8, 2007 11:33 AM | Link to this
Yet more motivational reinforcement as to why I need to keep my azz outta jail. Sentenced to being a jailbird beeyotch, no thanks… I’m never going to break a law again in my life.
By Officer Musirello
June 8, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this
Kicking down the door at lawgirl’s office and firing a blog round into the computer screen
That post was hella long and you must pay the fine…RIiiiipppppP
Musing hands lawgirl a $75 citation
By Hot Sauce
June 8, 2007 11:46 AM | Link to this
Happy Friday to you all, hello my favorite blogger Musing now this topic is right down my alley. Even if someone tells me they don’t have a record i still run their name.
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this
LMAO at MO.
Lawgirl in jail it is sometimes easier for a guy to be a sex toy than to fight to protect his manhood. In the beginning of being turned out he abhors it. Eventually he accepts it and finally he enjoys it. This has nothing to do with physical size or strength at all. It is an individual decision that alot of guys are forced to make. Where I worked if you had a 60 year sentence you were lucky, or snitched. So, if you know with 100% certainty that you will never be with a woman again is the thought of sleeping with a man as repugnant? Just giving another view to ponder. I’ve seen some real hard hitters face down and all you can say is wtf. This is in addition to our current culture which makes this kind of activity much more accepatable.
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this
Too much porn can be a bit disturbing, that’s all I am saying.LOL And maybe I think that way because as SJ said men are very visual people, as a woman I am not. All that looking and no action, sounds boring.
By lawgirl
June 8, 2007 11:55 AM | Link to this
my legal counsel has successfully reduced my fine to a mere warning due to not having any priors.
Keystone cop Musirello continues to cruise the block in search of more blog offenders.
lawgirl e-mails Musirello a/k/a Musing a job announcement for the Fulton County Sheriffs Dept.
By Demi
June 8, 2007 11:59 AM | Link to this
Musing hands lawgirl a $75 citation
lawgirl Musing is just trying to pay for a date.
Hot Sauce hey babe, what you be bout?
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 12:00 PM | Link to this
Wise I would date someone with a record based on what they did and how they currently feel about it…I’m not dating any cold blooded murders, but if they murdered someone accidentally such as a vehicular crash…I wouldn’t hold that against them if they’ve served their time…also there is a slight difference in jail time and prison time.
Jail Time: Couple nights in the local county/city holding space, maybe even a few months.(Potential to be pumped in the booty-Low to Medium exposure)
Prison Time: Couple months to many years.(Potential to be pumped in the booty-High)
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this
HotSauce What’s happ’nin’in?!?!
Musing now giving Hotsauce a false name and photo for inspection
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 12:04 PM | Link to this
Yes, too much porn can be disturbing. And, NO, ALL women do not own (or have ever owned or used) bullets. I know, try to get your mind around that…
Ladylike that’s when they go out and stick it in every hole they can………….after looking at all that porn! lol
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 12:06 PM | Link to this
demi Man, why are you knocking my hustle?!?! LOLOLOLOL…
lawgirl I’m an independant enforcement agency…
Musing now following lawgirl all around the A, waiting for the slightest infraction….by hiding in her car trunk
By Demi
June 8, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this
Guys just dont think…Yes that are a few folks I wish to kill, but the thought of all those years and no p-dussy scares me…and Imma lil good looking dude, nonononononononooooo they are going to have to kill me on the spot…musing do a skit for me*
By Donna
June 8, 2007 12:08 PM | Link to this
No, I would not allowed the illegal activites to go on in my house that is what ask him to leave but you would think someone who is employed with the atlanta police department would have better since and realize they will bring them down
By Hot Sauce
June 8, 2007 12:17 PM | Link to this
Demi, Musing I’m good just taking it easy, this picture looks nothing like you Officer Muserillo i’m thinking about going on vacation to the U S Virgin Island but once again i don’t want to go alone and my girlfriends are sooo cheap, but we’ll see
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this
..Demi in the Pen
Warden: Demi welcome to the pen…You will be in this cell here.
Demi: Who is that dude inside my cell?
Warden: That’s your cell mate Azz’Crusher….
Demi: WTF!!! Why yall call him that?
Warden: Er’cell mate he has seems to wake up the next morning with a broken’azz.
Demi now passing the fk out!
By MELO
June 8, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this
@WiseD,Melo you read that way differently than I did, goodness See below WD!! DonnaNo, I would not allowed the illegal activites to go on in my house that is what ask him to leave but….
You can say I have a man instinct, right Wise?!!Give me half some credit, at least for reading between the lines. Been around females a long time!!!
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this
MusingLee that 12:00 post sums it up for me. If the person is known to break the law habitually they probably always will.
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this
I hear ya Sexione, maybe the porn watching can be over stimulating. LOL You are right every female does’nt own a bullet.
By Hot Sauce
June 8, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this
LMAO @ Demi & Musing
hopefully that will never happen to either of you, lol
Now taking Demi & Musing’s name off the America’s Most Wanted list
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
Lmao at Musing.
Maybe this explains why some women try real hard to get their men put in the poky. The very first time a woman calls the cops on me its over, period. F**k kids, family, any of it. 1 call and we are done.
Abc funny stuff. If you do go to jail stab the first guy that says hi to you in the thoat and start knawing on his neck. Noone will mess with you then. 100%
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 12:32 PM | Link to this
WD you have set the Blog on fire with this topic!! I, too, used to watch OZ and that show scared me to death.
For Real I need my song, Pronto!! Its Friday!!
lawgirl that’s some ole ull-ish right there. Yo girl needs some help! She doesnt know that man well enough, but to each his/her own.
MoJohnson nice to see another Mo in here, welcome!! :0)
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this
@Ladylike…I am trying so hard not to purchase one…lol
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this
Lady J & Ladylike come on and join the bullet owners club!! LOL
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 12:45 PM | Link to this
Sooo is there now a BOC (Bullet Owners Club) within the WLB?!?!? LOLOLOL…Or does being in the WLB require that you already own a bullet?
Bullet sales now putting the Good D Booth out of business
By Sue
June 8, 2007 12:48 PM | Link to this
I don’t think it would be a problem if it was a misdemeanor… I work in a very public job and I don’t think I could date someone with a felony record. I am married so I don’t have to worry, but I do think it would be a problem for me because of that.
By Lee
June 8, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this
I am in like with someone who is currently serving a 6 year sentence. He is an educated, thoughtful person who made a mistake and is now serving his time and wanting a better life. He is remorseful for what he has done and is motivated to be in a ministry to help kids stay out of trouble. We talk frequently - I may not know what will happen but I do know that this man is willing to do whatever it is to have a better life and not to fall back into his old life. He is a human being and made a mistake, I hope that he will make the most of any chance that will improve his life.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 12:55 PM | Link to this
Mo I am scared…I can’t really phantom the buzz feeling but it is getting tough and well you know the rest but anyway I will be in the club soon…lol
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this
@MusingLee…You truly keep me rolling…Stand up comedy on the Blog!!!:)
By lawgirl
June 8, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this
The Truth-I truly understand your perspective, which is why I’ve concluded that jailbirds are off limits to me. That’s precisely my point; their adaptation allows them to conform to their environment. As humans, once you repeat a particular behavior pattern, studies have shown that we are more likely to continue those patterns because we have adapted to our environment. I’m suggesting that just because one is removed from that environment, does not mean that their behavior patterns will change. I’m not judging anyone who has to make that decision or succumb to their environment, but I know I couldn’t handle dating a jailbird.
lawgirl wonders if musing used deodorant today, since he’s riding in my hot *zz trunk
By Hot Sauce
June 8, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this
Musing If you’re going to do away with the Good D Booth please be sure you have a Big D Going Out of Business Sale aight!!!!
Have a good weekend everyone!
By young one
June 8, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this
I would have to say no. I don’t really care what he was in jail for, but there is too much man on man activity going on in prison for me to ever really know for sure what went on while he was in there. Esp. if it was a long sentence. His character may be reformed but what about his sexual preferences. GROSS and NO!!!
By Demi
June 8, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this
Hot Sauce babe, no jail time for me…plus I value my freedom. Beside we have enough black fathers in jail.
I can’t live with myself, speaking to lil Demi behind no glass
Musing funny bruh!!
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 1:04 PM | Link to this
Or does being in the WLB require that you already own a bullet? Uh oh, my membership will have to be revoked if it does. Oh well……..I like the real thang too much for that!! lmsao
ROTFLMSAO @ Musing
By young one
June 8, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this
I would have to say no. I don’t really care what he was in jail for, but there is too much man on man activity going on in prison for me to ever really know for sure what went on while he was in there. Esp. if it was a long sentence. His character may be reformed but what about his sexual preferences. GROSS and NO!!!
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this
Mo is this mental or what but it is like when I purchase it it is declaring I don’t have a man, a back up or nothing of the other sex…Trust I know it is used for other things and pleasures but I am just not at that point yet…lol Okay through venting about that..lol
By Dark Brown
June 8, 2007 1:08 PM | Link to this
My sentiments run along the same lines as most of those posted. I have and would take it on a case by case basis and there are certain classes of crimes that would be deal breakers.
And technically, I could be considered and ex-convict. I spent the night in jail one when I was 18. Mel.issa and I had the brilliant idea to go and steal an outfit to wear out to the club that night. Unfortunately, things did not go as planned. I learned a few lessons that night. 1. Do not go to jail wearing a cute little short set. It’s freezing in general population. I almost froze to death. 2. There are a lot of prostitutes and drunk women in jail. 3. The beds in jail are NOT comfortable. 4. Stealing a $20 dress is so not enough to be in jail for. If you’re going to commit a crime, it should be a doozie. 5. Don’t commit any crimes.
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this
Hey All…Happy Friday
My first love ended up going to prison for 10 year for drug trafficking. My heart was broken because I did not know he meddled in the drug game. He had a regular 9 to 5 and I did not see any of those things going on. Anyway, we stayed in touch with each other via telephone for a little while until I decided to let him go. When he got out he looked me up in ATL. Although he was a great guy, I just couldn’t go there. After ten years in prison, I’m sure he was touched. He had a strong s*x drive, so I know all that had to be spent in some way.
He is doing well now, but it is no way I could consider getting with him. For each his own.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this
Wow Dark Brown…Thanks for sharing!
By lawgirl
June 8, 2007 1:14 PM | Link to this
Thanks Demi!
Off topic:I know the dating game can be tough on the pockets. A man has to get his legal hustle on….the best way he can. LOL!
Officer Murisello passes lawgirl his real estate business card after issuing her a citation.
By NCGirlfromATL
June 8, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this
Afternoon Blog!
carbing up for tomorrow’s Komen Race for the Cure
On topic: It depends. (Sorry, For Real). It really depends on the infraction. If dude was in jail for some silly bar fight while in college, I don’t care about that. But, the major things, murder, assault, robbery, any kind of sexual assualt, drug dealing/possession (more than a misdemeanor amount of weed…that happened years ago), DUI…I’d probably have to be out. Yes, it’s judgmental, but it’s also about safety.
Musing you still in the office by yourself, boo? LOLOL!!
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this
@WLB…IG does not own a bullet…I’m waiting on the orientaton class Slim plans to teach on “Tips on Shopping for A Bullet”.
@Musing….you’re a fool….poor Demi.
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this
IG I feel you. I knew a dude who went for 8.5 yrs, and although he always said “shiiid, them nikkas would have to kill me first”, I used to wonder. Even if it happened by force, a man would never admit it. And then one day he got sick and had to have an emergency operation, they had to remove one of his ballz because the blood was no longer flowing to it (and yes, this was during incarceration). Don’t know what could have caused that, but I was like dayum!! Oh well, like u said, to each his own.
By Dark Brown
June 8, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this
So off topic - Isiah Washington got fired from Grey’s Anatomy - Why, oh why must they toy with my life like that?
and a question - last night, I was listening to 95.5 The Beat and a rap song came on. I don’t know the name of it or the performer, but the bass line was from Ben E. King’s Stand By Me - does anybody know that song? thanks
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this
@Lawgirl….that really happens..just about everybody is in the real estate biz these days.LOLOL
By Biff
June 8, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this
Well if you were a afro-american you would cut out over half the population wouldn’t you?
Why do so many afro-americans seem to think its so cool to have a criminal record?
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this
lol sexi…
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
Picture this: How about getting strip searched regularly (yes, bend over and spead em, lmao), pat searched daily, and your personal belongings searched randomly? You are under total control of some guard and if you buck they beat the crap out of you everywhere you go. Finally, your in your cell chillin and a few 275 lb dudes walk in and close the door and tell you their horny. What would you do?
By Notthirdwheel
June 8, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this
Hey MELO they have only talked on the phone and met once in person. He lives out of state and had to take the Greyhound to get here and it was love at first sight……
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:34 PM | Link to this
@Sexi….dayum..my gosh!!
By Notthirdwheel
June 8, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this
* Hey Demi* (waving my hand)
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:40 PM | Link to this
@Dark Brown…I feel you on the change with Grey’s Anatomy. I hated the season finale…now that Isiah will not be returning, I’m interested to see how things with play out.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
Dark Brown I am said to see him leave to…Wonder how the spin off will do…I am still hooked to Fraiser’s re-runs…So some do well…
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this
Ladies before you deem every dude thats been to jail/prison as being raped or participated in homo activies..u might wanna ask someone who has actually been….
By MELO
June 8, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this
@Sue* I am married so I don’t have to worry, but I do think it would be a problem for me because of that*
If ur husband/wife were locked up for three years or so for a felony, would yu dumb them?What about u lady/male blogers?
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this
ment sad…
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this
Lady J & Mo, I have not entered into the Starship store yet! But who knows maybe I’ll be adventurous one day.
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this
@Truth….I’ll die like a champ…throwing the last punch. Just strangle me, then have your way b/c I’m not doing it willingly.
By Never
June 8, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this
Would I date an ex-con?
Been there, done that, never again
I bought that “I’ve paid my debt” line and guess what? His violent azz that got him locked up in the first place was STILL violent.
I found out the hard way when he beat the crap outta me.
Never again, oh he#$ no.
By MELO
June 8, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this
@Lady J, meant, u mean
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this
SJ I agree, even some dudes who do big time (10+) haven’t had to endure that. It doesn’t happen to ALL, just many.
MELO It would depend on what he went for……
By Hotlanta
June 8, 2007 1:55 PM | Link to this
I’ll date an ex-con only if he show me how much money he got in buried the backyard. Women think because a man is not in an enviroment with other women he is not sexually active. WRONG!!!!!!
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this
@SJ…I’ve been tempted to ask my ex if he had the experience, but I can’t muster the courage to ask. It is embarrassing, but honestly…after ten years? I know he liked to draw and do art, but hellz..ten yrs… Have you ever asked someone that went to prison?.
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this
Thanks Melo!!!:)
By Oakley
June 8, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this
I don’t think its a desperate act to date an ex-con. They are people too and people make wrong turns in life. Alot of men and women really do turn their lives around. People without criminal records can be just as crazy and just as violent. If your preference is not to date an ex-con, then fine. But don’t act or treat them like they are the scum of the earth.
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 2:07 PM | Link to this
@Melo…I would treat the situation differently b/c that is my husband (a boyfriend…absolutely no…sorry). For my husband, I will stand & support him considering the crime. If he went in to rape, murder, etc…I don’t think I can be supportive. That is a true test of forgivenes….
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 2:09 PM | Link to this
Just a question, but why so much talk about men engaging during long term jail time, don’t you all think women are engaging as well.
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this
@ Sxeone & Irie Girl…i know dudes thats been locked down for 5, 10yr bids…and things do happen…but for the most part if u wasnt a punk before u went in.Dont feed into every one is or get turned into one…As long as they knwo u will fight..win or loose you will get respect..Not getting pddy is mental…u can read…work out and focus on getting out and what u are going to do when u get out to keep your mind occupied…
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this
@Ladylike…Women don’t even have to be locked up…I look at the middle school girls daily and it is like wow…
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this
Ladylike It’s a bigger deal among men because they think it’s disgusting (when its two men), but if two women are getting down they think it’s freaky (and a turn on). However, I personally feel it equally disgusting among women and men!! My .02…
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this
@Oakley…I agree, they are people too. My preference would be to not date someone that spend a lot of time in prison. People make mistakes and the only true judge is God and he forgives. Anyway, after a long period of time locked up, you have to honestly consider the person coming out is different from the person that went in.
Not sure if any of you listen to the Michael Basdian radio show. He had a similar topic a few weeks ago and some of the ex-cons that called talked about how difficult it is for them to have normal relationships when they get out. Even the singer Lyfe Jennings was on the show and agreed. Some of the guys that come out need counseling, etc.
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 2:24 PM | Link to this
@SJ..ok, point taken.
By MELO
June 8, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this
@NeverI found out the hard way when he beat the crap outta me
Now that is what u call’once beaten, twice shy’ FO SHO!!
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this
Lady J I don’t know what to say to that girlfriend.
Sexione what I find interesting is that no men are responding to my question, that may just validate your .02…..hmmm. LOL
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 2:27 PM | Link to this
Lady J, Ladylike and Sexione the Bullet issue is not as bad as it seems. First off, if you dont have a man, you just dont have a man! A bullet doesnt make that anymore of a fact! LOL I went to a toy party where I was introduced to the bullet as a college student. I didnt buy one for another 10yrs! :0) Its all on you. I know Sexione is like “no thanks” and that’s cool, everything aint for everybody. I wanted to try something different but I have my limits too. I didnt get one to replace a man, I got it b/c I wanted to try it. I look at it like handcuffs (wow, considering todays topic), I am not about the handcuffs thing but some people like. DO YOU!! :0)
IG not the shopping-for-a-bullet class!! LOL Too funny! We will have to have a WLB meeting on that for those that wish to do so.
By Sexione
June 8, 2007 2:30 PM | Link to this
I’m outta here..everyone have a wonderful weekend!!!
By Demi
June 8, 2007 2:35 PM | Link to this
Me and the young lady was schedule to have lunch today at 1pm. I have to be back at my desk at 2pm. I left the place at 1:55pm. She was a no show, cool. How about old girl text me at 1:58pm, asking where was I. I replied, on my way back to my desk. So she text me back, saying what a sorry excuse of a brother I am, for not waiting. So I text her saying, I am sorry that you feel that way about me, but it WAS nice knowing you…You number is now being deleted.
The old me would have….
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 2:36 PM | Link to this
MO I told you it is mental!!! Your point is correct just got to get to that mental level…I am coming though…Start with a party I may go!!! lolol
By MELO
June 8, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this
Now all u WLB memebers who use the bullet, Is it not cold when u pump it down ther? I mean seriously, how can u replace a hard,thick, dark Dyck(with elevated blood veins showing) with a cold lifeless bullet?!!!
If i were a woman, i would rather date a married man,(of which i am one) than a BULLET.You cant even feel the juices flowing. C’mon ladies. U can do better than that!!
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
Bye Sexi, read you Monday!:)
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 2:40 PM | Link to this
oh Biff, you really should get out more, you don’t know many “afro” americans, I take take it? Shaking my head
By SeanJohhnson
June 8, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this
@ LadyLike…like Lady J said.. women dont have to be locked up to get turned out by another female..they are doing it now based on it being a fad ..seen on TV..etc…. i predict within the next 25 years…it will be more bi women than str8 women…when Brittany and Madonna kissed on MTV…that really opened a can of worms..
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 2:43 PM | Link to this
Melo I laughed out loud!!!! I can’t stand married men and I will buy two before that happens but I feel you with the replacement…I am like it is not the real thing and can’t get past that!!! Boy that ended my day right!!! lolol
By Shyless
June 8, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this
c’mon MELO using a bullet is not breaking up anyone’s home like sleeping with a married man!
By kinderbabe
June 8, 2007 2:53 PM | Link to this
good afternoon all!:) hey ladyj, demi, IG, mo, all of blogsville:)
By Darryl
June 8, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
I didn’t read all of the entries, but I am referring to ones about drinking and driving. Just because the blood alcohol level is below .08, that doesn’t mean an officier can’t arrest you. I have met 2 people who’s levels were less than .08 when they blew, but were arrested for “dui less than safe”. They were some where in Clayton County. ( I called Clayco Police to verify) Not sure if they were arrested by city or county officers. BTW, Moses, Jesus, Paul, and Dr.King had records.
By For Real
June 8, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this
Lets see whats popin on the blog:
98% of the WLB own a bullet. Dayumm should bought that Everyready stock.
LadyJ, Ladylike and Sexi don’t have a man but the bullet would somehow confirm that they don’t have a man. ummm
Demi’s azz is broke due to brief prison stay. No comment
Wait no Demi’s azz isn’t broke. Musing made it up but apparently Lawgirl will do anything to avoid paying a ticket. Note to self breakout old security uniform.
The blog ladies seems to think that a guy that watches too much porn is bad. Ladies be glad that man has not been able to reproduce a Jerry Springer bc if they did men wouldn’t come out the house.
If you are man do not go to jail bc your azz will be stretched. OUCH!!!!!
NC has reverted back to answering questions with yes I do agree but no I don’t agree
*Sexi is very close minded bc for some strange reason she is the only one in the WLB that finds two women doing it disgusting.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this
Lady J I gotcha chica!! As soon as I get word, I’ll hit you up!! LOL
Melo Calm down!! LOL! First off, (this is Mo speaking only) No the bullet is not cold! LOL! Like I said, its not a replacement for a man. Again, to each his own. Some like movies, some like toys. TO EACH HIS OWN.
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this
oh and on the porn thing, if you NEED it every time to get things poppin, umm that’s a problem and the same idea applies for a woman who NEEDS her toys to get things popping..that’s a proooobleem
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this
Okay good people it has been a great blog week!!! Thanks WD for it!!!! Everyone be safe and enjoy your weekend!!!
Lady J now going to the most safe bed in the A, my mama’s and crawl up for the night!!! lolol I know I am corny…lolol
Be easy…Peace!
By lawgirl112
June 8, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this
Demi sounds like ‘ol girl was on CPT time!! I can’t stand when someone disregards MY time. ~uughh!~ And then she had the nerve to catch a ‘tude. People amaze me.
By MELO
June 8, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this
meant to say,* WARM,hard,thick, dark Dyck(with elevated blood veins showing* But u get the drift.And GRIP,ladies. Its different with a bullet.There is no grip what so ever.
Just close ur eyes for a second and imagine yrself holding MELO’s!!
By Lady J
June 8, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this
Hey KB…get at me later…peace
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 3:04 PM | Link to this
For Real Sexi is very close minded bc for some strange reason she is the only one in the WLB that finds two women doing it disgusting….ummmm, no she is not, it is disgusting!! I am not down with the cat burglars either! LOL
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this
Hey Kinder…happy friday
By MELO
June 8, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this
@Lady J,Melo I laughed out loud!!!! * I am glad u saw the fun side of it.MOesha is likeMelo Calm down!! *, like i meant some harm to her personaly. I see sexual tension in her, the sort of frustration a woman gets when she aint getting it or not getting it right!!!HEHEHE
By For Real
June 8, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this
Lady J: I am not sure if I want to use this bullet..
Bullet: Come baby just slide in.
LadyJ: Ok Imma try it. Oh it’s cold
Bullet: Buzz, buzz
LadyJ: Oh ish that’ nice real nice
Bullet: Buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz,
LadyJ: OOOOH ISH F/K ALL DEM NEGROES. THANK YOU SLIMMMMMM!
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this
Biff your a fuggin idiot.
Off topic
A MOTHERS LOVE
I just left Lowe’s a few minutes ago and a lady was in there with a severely handicapped boy. Anyway, she’s standing there for a few minutes and they come out with the forklift and ride by the kid and hit the horn a few times. The kid lights up in joy. Come to find out the mom brings the kid in every few days to give that boy a reason to laugh. A mothers love, nothing like it in the world.
Ladies, that bullet could never do to you what I can.
By NCGirlfromATL
June 8, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this
For Real Lurn two reeed! I said very specifically what kinds of crimes would be off limits for me. Plus, I said that just to get at you! LOL!
By PinkSherbert
June 8, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this
That’s a HELL TO THE NO!
Been there done that…once a criminal, always a criminal. At least in my experience.
By Shyless
June 8, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this
MELO you need to talk to your wife with that mess! and then it’s men like you that wonder why women have trust issues. Dang!
go home and look in your wife’s lingerie drawer…bet she’s got a bullet.
By Qsgirl
June 8, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this
Hello All, I’ve been reading and laughing, just not posting. But, this one is sooooo close to home.
I am currently involved with an “ex-con”. We have a history of 16yrs. For those that are posting about what they think happens in the prisons, please please talk to someone who actually knows something about it. There are so many willing participants, they don’t need to rape. The old cats, prey on the ones who are weak minded and scared. By the way, in the male prisons, there are soooo many female guards sexing, giving oral and anything else they can possible do, there is no need for male on male interaction. The guards bring in the own condoms, lube and porn and even have the nerve to try and cope an attitude with you at visitation, especially if they get turned down. They feel like, if they offer the men should take it. Never mind them being BUTT AZZ ugly. Some of them give the guys getting out their phone numbers. I guess they think a guy they gave oral to, wants a lasting relationship? My partner was tested before he left the prison, and we played “you show me yours and I’ll show you mine”, on the HIV tests. All is good!
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 3:13 PM | Link to this
@Mo…cat burglars….LOLOL!!!!
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this
Melo from my reading this blog I see you have been taking long hard looks at yourself. LOLOLO
Truth A Mother’s Love, that’s heartfelt, how sweet.
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this
wow, Qsgirl, thanks for sharing your experience..(even though I am trying not to get a visual on all of that), but nonetheless, very interesting.
By MELO
June 8, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this
@Shyless*go home and look in your wife’s lingerie drawer…bet she’s got a * U sound angry, why?!Got trust issues with ur hubby? Both of u may need to try the swinger lyfestyle.U need to relax a little! The way i throw down and based on her own testament(usually in tongues & a bit of mexican, when i’m in the act) my wify dont need no bullet! I got her pudsy on lock down, literally. And she is good too, i got admit.
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 3:26 PM | Link to this
and Melo, ummm you really don’t have the right equipment to say for sure what you would do,,if you had what we had, I’m just sayin’ , how would you know? LOL
By MELO
June 8, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this
@Ladylike,Melo from my reading this blog I see you have been taking long hard looks at yoursel
Its always a good hygiene technique,in case u dont know already.Better watch out for that prostate and testicular cancer!!
By Qsgirl
June 8, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
NP Wisey! Girlfriend I could tell you some stories, that would make your head spin. I know mine did!
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
June 8, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this
How did the topic go from prison records to sex-toys?
By no way
June 8, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this
No. Never. Next question?
By Princess
June 8, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this
Melo It was great reading all your comments.
Have a great weekend everyone!
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this
Melo obviously you didnt read my comment closely. When I said “calm down” I also added “LOL” behind that! I was laughing at you, no tension here sweetie. I know you wish that were the case but its not! :0)
Start talking about s3x and men get all defensive…..get your boxers out a bunch and read before you post!! Thanks gosh Melo is married!! GEESH!
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this
Qsgirl I worked at a spot and I’ll tell you the dudes get lit up in there. Q may want to ease your mind or maybe he was in a medium level joint or low but I worked in a max and those dudes got straight plunged. I had a work crew of 16 dudes and over half of them were recipients of man love, the other half were pitching. You may have protection if you join the muslims (a gang in prison) or another organization like that but at some point your gonna get checked and alot of dudes come up wanting. There are guards that get down with the inmates but they usually get snitched out by the inmates for reduced time after a few go rounds. I’ve had dudes come up to me with bleeding behinds and if they didn’t tell me who did it I couldn’t help them. They had to go deal with it or snithch. Ask Q about that. Also, if Q didn’t act out why would he need a HIV test? Just wondering.
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this
@Kym…you should know better, we get bored and the topic reverts to something sex related….just more fun. :-O
By MELO
June 8, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this
Happy weekend Mo and Princess,Wise,LadyJ,Ladylike,e’rbody. Hope Mo and Shyless get their groove on this weekend! Not from the BULLET ofcourse,PLEEEZE!! And if u need help, i got ur back, ladies(MO). No tell, tell.
By Mo (now known as Moeisha)
June 8, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this
Melo have a good one!! And thanks, but no thanks!! I got that under control!! LMAO!! But I’ll keep you in mind if my bullet ever dies and I cant get some new batteries!! ROTFLMAO!!
By Ladylike
June 8, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this
The change in topic may be closer than we think. I’ve known men to go to jail for several reasons but I am more concerned about what goes on during his stay in jail. How do you send a person to jail to get rehabilitated when jail itself is a violent atmosphere that to some degree is allowed to thrive. I agree with IG some counseling may be needed after you have been released.
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
June 8, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this
I see Paris H is going back to the pokey…and she is going to do the whole stint. Good for her! It will build her character or get her a book deal.
By Qsgirl
June 8, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this
Truth, this is one of those subjects, that we could go back and forth about all day. But, you know what you know and nobody can tell you differently.
He did get into fights, and there was blood visible. No, he was not in a MAX facility. Also, I don’t get down with girl on girl sex, but I get tested. So, if you know you are in a situation, were people are getting down on the derty, the test is free, a better question is why not? I wouldn’t dare ask someone, in or out of jail, straight or bi, black or white, why they got a HIV test?!
But like I said in the beginning, you know what you know and EVERY case is different. Have a great week-end…OUT!
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this
Hey NCgirl…IslandGirl counseling after jail ain’t gonna help. That’s something they need during prison.
..Demi in counseling*
Counseler: So what have you learned from your stay in jail?
Demi: I’ve learn that I shouldn’t do wrong..I should use my time constructively…and never sleep with my booty pointing away from the wall.
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this
have a great weekend Melo..you and your lucky wife, LOL.
Dr. Kym, I feel bad for her! I would be kicking and screaming for my mama too, LOL. Then again, if my mom found out I caught a DUI charge after she was nearly killed by a drunk driver years ago, umm I would need to go to prison to stay alive. She would KILL me.
By kinderbabe
June 8, 2007 4:16 PM | Link to this
hey IG happy friday to you also! looks like we’re finally getting a little rain.:)
dr.kym i am SO glad that girl is going back to jail. i want to give the judge a high five. lol
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this
Ladylike there is no rehabbing in prison. Its a slave labor camp. The inmates worked jobs that paid them .50 to a dollar and hour and they produced products(army fatigues, office equipment) that were sold to govt agencies and private organizaions. What corporation can compete against those hourly wages, especially when the govt is providing health care, housing, and food? None. If you needed help before you went in your mugged up for real after you get out. I’ve had inmates tell me exactly how to get to a dealer and get a kilo of coke, how to break it down and exactly how much I’d make after I paid back the dealer. After 30 days I’d have over a million in cash. No joke. So if you were a small time dude going in your gonna be the equivalent of a phd when you come out. There are alot of real smart cats in there, they could have used that mind for alot of other things.
Also, there are predators in jail. They actively pursue guys and take them by force. Some we had to house in single cells on 24 hour lockdown because they would rape any guy we bunked with him. One guy got beat so bad his eye was out of the socket, and yes it was for sex.
By Shyless
June 8, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this
Paris needs to quit all that drama. She’s going to the freakin jail not prison. Dang!
Her medical condition was probably she was allergic to the 20 thread count cotton sheets.
By Dr. Kym-Relationship Expert
June 8, 2007 4:25 PM | Link to this
Wisey
It is about personal responsiblity. She is in a secured wing..not the general population. Nervous breakdown my Aunt Fanny…she better take a sedative..eat that bread and water and go to sleep. This is a life lesson…she should have called Martha Stewart and asked her how to deal with the ladies in the pokey.
By Island Girl
June 8, 2007 4:26 PM | Link to this
@Musing……ROTFLMAO!! and don’t forget the age old wisdom, “don’t drop the soap”.
I’m out…have a great weekend..see you on Monday…God’s willing
By ATLien
June 8, 2007 4:32 PM | Link to this
The Truth - seriously, u need to take ur message/testimony to the misguided/knuckle-head kids out there. Yours is the kind of information they need to hear (esp. the part about 257.lb horny dudes, yuck), because when kids hear about prison life these days, the part about getting pumped, getting trains run on them, etc., is not being disclosed!!!! Qsgirl I’m not trying to rain on ur parade but HIV has been known to show up YEARS after the infection. HIV makes up and plays by, its own rules.
By lawgirl112
June 8, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this
The Truth wow!! you’ve got some stories. I’ve come to realize that jail/prison is another world that most of us would never be able to comprehend. No matter the education level.
Also, I can’t remember who wrote the girl who wrote that her and her boyfriend exchanged HIV results, one negative doesn’t mean it’s conclusive….a repeat should be taken at least six months later so that it would cover any recent activity prior to the initial test.
I dunno, I’d like to keep my rose colored glasses off on this one!!!
By Demi
June 8, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this
Well she more than made up for it and on company time at that!!
Sooooo, I can’t be upset anymore.
By Wise Diva
June 8, 2007 4:48 PM | Link to this
that is so true Dr.Kym, and I bet she won’t catch another DUI charge after all of this, gosh I hope she doesn’t!
By Demi
June 8, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this
The Truth or Musing I need a smart mouth comeback for her texts:
See I knew you wanted me, you can’t resist me.
thanks for the help too tired to think
By MusingLee
June 8, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Demi…I would come back with a “Itchh Please”
By Demi
June 8, 2007 4:58 PM | Link to this
Well Dayum Musin I am in counseling now??!!
now skeet skeeting all over civic
demi is now on the run from the cops for public nudity…I ain’t going back to jail!!
See me run B - ish!!
By The Truth
June 8, 2007 5:02 PM | Link to this
Shyless lmao at 20 thread count sheets. To funny.
Unfortunately you can’t tell kids that kind of stuff today. Politically incorrect. We wait til our kids get sentenced to 40 years and then scream racism. The thing is the laws have been on the books (as unfair as they are) for years now.
By GA.man
June 11, 2007 8:46 AM | Link to this
wowo what a day i missed
By Jacque
June 11, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this
Stop using this blog for your personal communication device. The already have a tool for that….it is called a telephone !! It is very disrespectful to the columnist to use this blog to hold your “concert chat”. Please do that somewhere else and stick to the topic at hand. You wouldn’t go to someone’s house and take over. Why do it here? Manners are useful EVERYWHERE.
By tenisha edwards
June 11, 2007 9:16 AM | Link to this
it would depend on his drime, i mean i wouldnt date a rapist or child molester. i have dated ex-cons. they are no diffrent from anyone else. they are people locked up that shouldnt be,for example ,william mayo. college educated black man who did nothing wrong yet sits in a georgia prison. check out his web page. freemayo.com
By tenisha edwards
June 11, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this
I wouldnt date a rapist or child molester.I have dated ex cons. they are no diffrent from anyone else, with the exception that they have served time.remember you are only a situation away from being an inmate. What about people who are wrongly convicted? Example, William Mayo, a college educated man who was convicted of a crime that he didnt commit and who the real perpertrators admitted to the crime, yet he still sits in a Georgia prison. Check out his web page, freemayo.com
By JustAskin'
June 11, 2007 11:04 AM | Link to this
To answer the question. I married and divorced one and dated another. They spent their time in out of jail. If you can deal with the state or county funded vacations, go for it! Keep in mind you might want to keep bail money on hand. Happy Monday…why can’t it be Friday?
By Chops
June 11, 2007 1:37 PM | Link to this
I would never date a Jailbird, I met this young woman and she invited me to her place, she didn’t even know if i was an undercover Cop,the first thing she did was to go for the smoke pipe,after about 5 minutes her phone rang, she also sell that stuff. I ran out of her house. If she got busted what would i say to my peers? They would believe i was involve in selling thah stuff moreover I am a black man. I have several friends you were arrested for crimes they did not committ but that stigma remains with them. I don’t need a Jail Bird in my life and need a progressive woman without a record. Thank you