Misadventures in Atlanta

By kinderbabe

May 25, 2007 8:19 AM | Link to this

wisediva think that you passed on part of your summer cold, blog style…lol. i feel like crap!:( luckily, it’s the last day of school. yippee! couldn’t call out sick on the last day. lol

on topic: i definitely think the media plays a big role in expectations of men and women in relationships. the sad thing is a lot of people aren’t even aware that they’ve bought into the fantasy.

By Lady J

May 25, 2007 8:26 AM | Link to this

Hey Kinderbabe!!! We made it!!! Happy Friday All!! KB, I am tired as well!!! Enjoy your day Blog Family!! Peace

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 8:33 AM | Link to this

TGIF!….in exactly one week from today, I’ll be another year younger

I don’t feel I fall into the media illustration of beauty. I mean yeah it’s nice to see someone that has the chiseled body, perfect skin etc but when it comes down to it, do i just want someone that looks nice or someone that’ll treat me nice.

Do women think that a man’s height, hair, or body has to look like what we see in movies, music industry, or television?

Of course I can’t speak for all women but when it comes to height or whatnot I don’t think media has too much to do with it. Naturally a woman would be more attracted to a more healthier looking male as a good donor to ensure healthier off spring. Some thing I feel are innate but society has just exaggerated those characteristics.

By Raqi

May 25, 2007 8:37 AM | Link to this

Good Topic WiseDiva.

Sad but true. There is a website that I went on once, I will see if I can find it, that showed how images are touched up and altered to remove a natural look that society calls a flaw. When asked the question most guys and women will say “No I don’t fall the fantasy” but in reality most do.

Beauty is in the eye of beholder. However the problem is society has embedded into the mind an unrealistic model of a beautiful man or woman therefore leaving the beholder to look for something that does not exist.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 8:47 AM | Link to this

To add I think some people are kind of getting tired of the media’s portrayal that beauty=no flaws. I find it surprisingly strange when I’m run out to the store looking like a tack head and guys still approach me. I think they appreciate a women that still has her own natural beauty even when she thinks no one is watching.

By GA.man

May 25, 2007 8:54 AM | Link to this

Good Morning

Head nod to the all Powerful MLB

Winks to the WLB

I think that if you go looking for perfection you will never find it….find the right one for you…remember there will always be something you can find BAD about a person..find the GOOD and smile and the bad wont seem so bad

URANG is filled up with gas again..dang that MUSING and TRUTH know they like to ride out

By T-Mango

May 25, 2007 8:56 AM | Link to this

Hair flip to the WLB. To the fellas: Good morning to you.

This is a good topic. Well, I’m just going to go ahead and go there…

I wondered if many of us are seeking out what we see in media images when we are dating? I do think there are people that have bought into the fantasy. But, let’s be frank. The images that we see in the media do not represent the diverse society in which we live. We see one image and are expected to adopt it as our own. Furthermore, as an African American, I don’t see many positive images of Black couples on television. But, I do see alot of us allowing ourselves to be presented as buffoons within the mainstream. Flavor of Love and I Love NY are two examples of us helping to perpetuate the negative images of Blacks as ignorant, & highly sexual with low self worth.

We all know that looks matter, but how far are we taking that idea? Reality or fantasy? It depends on the individual. There are plenty of beautiful people out there with horrible personalities. Nevertheless, I do think that there is a difference in expectations for women and men. Women have always been viewed as sex objects/objects of desire. As a result, the media is constantly encouraging women to do things to maintain their attractiveness and sex appeal as we age in order to attract and keep the attention of the opposite sex. In contrast, as men age, they can still “pull” because the media portays them as being matured, seasoned, and debonair. Whether old or young, the message is men are desirable regardless of their age and less emphasis is placed on their physical characteristics such as their weight. Instead, emphasis is shifted toward their level of success and material wealth.

Bottom line is that no one wants to be with someone that no one else wants. The first thing you see is a persons level of attractiveness at first glance. But, once you dig deeper during dating you’ll find out whether they are externally and internally beautiful in their own distinct way.

The views expressed by T-Mango may not be representative of those expressed by the WLB as an organization

By cool breeze

May 25, 2007 8:57 AM | Link to this

I agree with what your friend said that mean can distinguish fantasy of the media from reality of what women really are. I’ve had this discussion with many guys about why women can’t seem to make that distinction. From the romantic movies, cosmo polls, ebony articles and other articles force feeding women crap about what a man should have at a certain age matearially, what he should look like, rules of dating and their own body image types. Was reading about how in south asia they didn’t have a problem with anorexia or bulimia and then when they started piping in cable and satellite tv girls and young women all over stopped eating and over the next couple years anorexia and bulimia became a major problem in the country. As a guy I see some of the guys in movies/tv women drool over but that ain’t got nothing to do with me. Imma have me a burger and please pass the chocolate cake (withtin reason of course.) Persoanlly I like women that are naturally pretty and wear make-up because they want to from time to time and not because they have to. Natural is better. Naturally curly hair is a wonderful, sexy, thing. A natural kind of love for me as a person (not what I have/don’t have) is what I’m looking for.

By QC

May 25, 2007 9:02 AM | Link to this

We finally made it to Friday

Morning Bloggers have a great day all

By abc

May 25, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

I consider myself mostly unaffected by such media hype and jive. I don’t consider the current Hollywood scene to be all that attractive, really; painted ladies don’t appeal to me anyway. I prefer a natural look that really is natural — for instance, I’m not kissing a woman wearing glossy red lipstick, I’ll wipe that crap off first. Nah, I wouldn’t even be out with a chick that would wear it.

Of course, folks are more and less attractive, and most would agree on which side of the fence they’re on, but that’s not based on media fantasy.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

May 25, 2007 9:06 AM | Link to this

Morning ALL!! And a lovely, bouncy hair flip to lovely ladies of the WLB, TGIF!!

on topic I think the media plays a part but I think as we mature we (some of us) obtain a more realistic view of what we find attractive. Like Slimone I have been approached more when I think I look a Hot Azz Mess than when I get dolled up. Granted I do like to see a man lookin his best, but I get a real kick out of a seeing a guy in Publix w/sweats, a sleeveless t-shirt and some (clean) sneakers on!! LOL

Get better Kinderbabe!!

By Raqi

May 25, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

The website that I was talking about in my first post is Fluid Effects. It’s unavailable now due to maintenance, but remember that name and try to pull it up later. It’s amazing what airbrushing can do.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

Hair flip to WLB

T-Mango As a proud member of the WLB I stand behind your post 100% especially in regards to what is portrayed on tv about Black Americans.

By SeanJohnson

May 25, 2007 9:17 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…TGIF…regarding the topic..I think the media does affect the perceptions of the opposite sx..But its more geared and targeted toward women when u look at the ads and commercials. And i think women themselves hold an unfair standard of beauty towards self and others. The proof is in the pudding…hair extension…weaves..plastic surgery..lypo..implants..tucks lifts..fad diets.butt shots and implants..all for the sake of beauty and image.and it changes with the season..even some men are getting in on it..calling themselves mxtrosxual..But i think like slim pionted out ..most men will seek out natural beauty even if it is flawed anyway…We all have different taste based on what we like….from rail thin to thick to voluptous and even bbw’s…So when it all boils down to it..a womans biggest critic is going to be herself and or other women based on what they see in the media and what they think us men like…

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 9:19 AM | Link to this

I think women are far guiltier of perpetuating these beauty myths than men. Women regularly wear makeup, fake nails, hair, wigs, breasts ( though the truth isn’t complaining on this one) and any other device they can muster. Then, like Slim said you see a chick come in the grocery store au natural and all you can say is dammmm. Dudes just don’t care, a shower and some smell good and its off to the races. When I was in Germany we had 3 chicks we nicknamed the mud queens. They would put on makeup before pt(physical training). The guys would be like, “we’re about to run 3 miles WTF”.

T-Mango thanks for the diclaimer, we didn’t know if you officially represented the WLB with that one. LOL

Gaman I have a new found respect for you. You are Johnny on the spot with the “URANG”” upkeep. I hope when its my turn I can do as good as you bruh. Actually I think I’ll be out of town that week. Never mind. MLB for life baby.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 9:20 AM | Link to this

*MO ohhh weee girl…I love a man with a sleeveless t-shirt on with sweats. I don’t know what it is. But the thing I like even more are boxer briefs..Hmm…delicioso!

By Jake.

May 25, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Ladies, head nod MLB, whenever ya’ll show up.

I think that there are some unrealistic images of beauty thrown at both men and women. Many of those who meet the media’s image of beautiful aren’t really attractive, but if you see someone enough, presented as such, then you will say they are good looking. Perception is often times reality. Now with all this said:

UGLY does exists, but its the same as beauty, depends on the eyes making the call.

By kinderbabe

May 25, 2007 9:26 AM | Link to this

thanks, mo :) i’m trying to hang in there until 2:30

By GA.man

May 25, 2007 9:28 AM | Link to this

Well the oil has been changed too..since Musing has put 3500 on the the *URANG riding out in atlanta,dekalb,gwinnett…showing off dem new rims and such….

MLB for Life

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 9:32 AM | Link to this

Truth I never understood women like that who could never leave out in public w/o putting their face on. I have an auntie just like that. The bad thing about chicks who constantly put on makeup is whenever you do catch them in rare form, they almost look sick. That’s the kind of thing that makes baby cry. Waaaahhhh, waahhh! Personally that’s just too much work.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 9:48 AM | Link to this

Why do you all think that eating disorders appear to be more prevalent with Caucasian women?

Nicole Richie has entered rehab for treatment for substance abuse and anorexia. Nicole checked into a clinic in Corona Del Mar, CA on May 11th, weighing only 83 lbs

By Sexione

May 25, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Blogfam!!!!

I’m just peeping in….

By Jake.

May 25, 2007 9:57 AM | Link to this

Slim

Nicole Richie isn’t caucasian, her dad is..oh yeah her daddy is white..HEHEHE

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Jake lol….Okay, maybe I should’ve chose a different example….lets see….Lindsey Lohan work better for you?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

May 25, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

SlimOne ^5 on the boxers!! I just love to see guys in what I call the natual element (sweats, sleeveless t, sneakers)! If you can catch my eye like that, you are in good with me!! WHOO-HOO!!

Truth I had a friend that would never leave w/o make-up on and it was scary to see her without it. I just dont like or need all that. Now I wear make-up from time to time, not even on a daily but that is one expensive habit I dont need!

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Mo too bad it’s inappropriate for a guy to leave the house in just a towel…That’s the Ultimate eye catcher!….with maybe a few beads of water on the shoulders…oops wrong blog

By T-Mango

May 25, 2007 10:14 AM | Link to this

Slimone-I’ve read that Caucasians do suffer from eating disorders at higher rates in the past. But, the articles never seemed to address the root of the problem. Not sure why…

Personally, I think it all goes back to images. If you look at the commercials, magazine ads, cover shots, etc…who’s images are there the majority of the time? Caucasian women. So, if that’s the image that you are being fed(lose weight, be skinny and have the perfect body), and you identify with the image presented from both gender/cultural lines, & that image is the perceived standard of American beauty… then it would appear that if you have esteem or self-image issues that you’d constantly measure yourself against the “standard”. If you don’t see yourself as measuring up to the standard you may take drastic measures to try to achieve the “standard.”

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

T-Mango that does make a lot of sense. I know a few years back body dysmorphic disorder was a topic on a talk show. I was amazed at some of the stories on there. This tried several times to remove his own leg because he felt that he should only have one. He stuck his leg in a bucket of dry ice attempting to freeze it off. He would often tie his leg up behind him and walk with crutches because it bothered him that bad.

By jraw

May 25, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Nice topic: I also think people have unrealistic expectations about how relationships work based on what they see on TV.

By For Real

May 25, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

What up Blog Fam!!!!

I agree with SJ and Truth when it comes to the media and women. The media isn’t geared towards men. It has been reported that women spend 80% of the consumer dollar. So, you know who the media will target as its customer. Therefore, you have women wearing fake hair, nails, lips, hips, azzez, and eyezez. Men like natural because we know you are going to look that way in morning, whether your hair is done, or when you are sick.

To Slim and Mo. I like to see a lady that can rock a ballcap and some baggy sweats. Oh and what is up with women and a man’s shoes?

By Raqi

May 25, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

Celebrities in their natural state.

Stars without makeup.

Beyonce without makeup.

Melanie Griffith

Courtney Cox

Vanessa Williams

Pamela Anderson

Salma Hayek

Sharon Stone

Eva Longoria

Heidi Klum

Okay that’s enough.

I am out. I have to pick up my father and his lady friend from the airport and then my son graduates this evening so I have a lot to do.

Everyone have a good weekend and a safe holiday.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 10:28 AM | Link to this

MO and Slim y’all need to clean up your bloggin. We don’t do rated x stuff here. Caucasion women know that their guys are into slim women and if they puff up their going staight to the trailer park. Don’t worry though, as soon as as sista’s figure out how to make themselves throw up they’ll be doing it too. Give them time though, they just got the oral sex thing down good. LMAO

Those chicks really were ugly without that paint on but when they were geared up their noses were in the air. It was hilarious.

Has anyone seen Demi today? (The Truth scans blogsville for Demi)I need a ride to the liquor store.

(((((((((((((BLAT)))))))))) where you at dude? You and ol girl still got the gloves on? LMAO MLB for life.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

Thank God Its Friday

Hey Blog Fam

This is an interesting topic. Of course our society has bought into the various images of “canned beauty” that is constantly flashed on television and print media. It has become such a crisis that anorexia nervosa is no longer a disease that plagues one particular society. .In psychiatry we see so many young girls of various nationalities and ages battling the disease.

My best friend recently visited California and was astonished by the amount of very slender women there. She’s a size 3 (she has always been slender) and has the appetite of a grizzly bear. If she was amazed; I’ll take her word for it. Self-esteem plays a big part in the issue of body image.

With men, some have unrealistic expectations and some don’t. It’s hard to say. I know plenty of guys that really appreciate a woman that takes good care of herself (makeup or natural…cornrows or hair weaves).

By Reality

May 25, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Reality Check: There is no such thing as “natural beauty”. If you shave your legs/underarms, tweeze your eyebrows, wax your bikini line, relax/color your hair, ect. then you are altering the state of your “natural” body. Of course there is absolutely nothing wrong with any of these things! They are quite necessary for alot of us:)

By For Real

May 25, 2007 10:34 AM | Link to this

Chick: Good morning baby…

Dude: Hey good morning to you. thinking to himself Awwww don’t she look cute with that dried up slob on the corner of her mouth and look at those pretty eyes. Let get a hot towel so she can wipe that stuff off of them.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Raqi To me Pamela & Eva almost didn’t look like the Pamela & Eva we know. WOW!

Truth A guy friend of mine said that’s why white women keep taking the brotha’s…because their oral skills were on point (with or without tonsils) and sistahs need to take heed. He also said that if we worked on the oral, then most of us wouldn’t have a problem making brothas want to propose. He always has me cracking up.

By Reality

May 25, 2007 10:40 AM | Link to this

I find that women with their own self-esteem issues relish the articles about “celebrities without their make-up” because it makes them feel better about themselves. The truth of the matter is that, yes, those ladies do look alot different with no makeup on. But when they are made up professionally, they are absolutely gorgeous. This same thing cannot be said about the average or below average-looking woman. You can’t just take any old girl and give her a makeover and expect her to look like Beyonce. Those celebs had alot to work with from the beginning. All the MAC in the world can’t make Whoopi look like Naomi Campbell!

By Reality

May 25, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

I find that women with their own self-esteem issues relish the articles about “celebrities without their make-up” because it makes them feel better about themselves. The truth of the matter is that, yes, those ladies do look alot different with no makeup on. But when they are made up professionally, they are absolutely gorgeous. This same thing cannot be said about the average or below average-looking woman. You can’t just take any old girl and give her a makeover and expect her to look like Beyonce. Those celebs had alot to work with from the beginning. All the MAC in the world can’t make Whoopi look like Naomi Campbell!

By abc

May 25, 2007 10:43 AM | Link to this

I noticed a long time ago that women in warmer climates like Florida and California (and maybe men too, I haven’t noticed, but hey — and I’m talking on average, here) take better care of themselves, and keep themselves in better shape than women in the midwest, such as in Nebraska, Kansas, Iowa, Michigan. I figure it’s because more than half the year, the midwestern chicks are dressed like the Michelin man and avoid going out into the brutal weather, while the ones in warmer climes are out in shorts pretty much year round, and have more of a conciousness about it due to the exposure.

I disagree that one can classify ethnicity by weight or body image. There’s too many fat white chicks for that. I read the other day that overall, 71% of American men are overweight or obese.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

Reality

There’s plenty of natural people out there who do not shave or wax and hardly comb their hair for that matter…

By NCGirlfromATL

May 25, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

So when it all boils down to it..a womans biggest critic is going to be herself and or other women based on what they see in the media and what they think us men like…

Well said SJ

Hair flip and hip shake to WLB* Big ups to MLB

T-Mango You’re on it today,gurl!

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

May 25, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

For Real you described my weekend-going-grocery-shopping gear or I-am-just-doing-me gear with the baseball cap and sweats!! LOL As for the men’s shoes, we can get them in a smaller size. I dont do this often but if I want a pair of Nikes and they dont have them in my size for women, then I try mens. But also going for the kids shoes works too. But I am short with a small foot so I can take advantage!

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 10:51 AM | Link to this

Reality well maybe we should’ve said Naturally Tweeked Beauty lol

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 10:52 AM | Link to this

Slim that is the second time you’ve mentioned the tonsils thing…LOL…ny truth to that??

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

ABC If you live in an area where the average low temp is 85 degrees and high is 102 degrees..you won’t wear much clothing. When I first moved to ATL…I hated the fall/winter seasons…too much clothing, but necessary. With that in mind, you generally want to look good when wearing less clothing.

The last time I visited home, I perspired like crazy and lost a lot of “water” weight… hypothetically do you think that affects weight.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 11:02 AM | Link to this

Island Girl I guess you missed it a while back when we had that discussion. I would assume that it would help. I’ve had mine out since I was little so I wouldn’t know for sure. However, Laney did just get hers removed so I guess we’ll hear the verdict from her once she heals. lol

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Raqi that was scary. Eva, Pamela (does she have some monkey in her?) and even my baby Selma look like trolls without makeup and Melanie’s knee’s made me want to ralph up breakfast. YUCCCCK If they’d of had Oprah I’d be throwing up yesterdays meals.

Any dude can go to any park or store and pick up a chick that looks better than those girls without makeup.

Reality I gotta disagree with you on this one. Take away the silicone and makeup and all you got is a fat wallet. These chicks don’t have much to work with at all. Now I know why all these chicks are having nervous breakdowns ( have you noticed this trend that started with Mariah?), they have to see themselves in the mirror everyday. LMAO

(((((((((((((((DEMI)))))))))))) the good liquors gonna be gone soon.

**Slim, alot of sista’s have been promoted to head master based on sheer skills alone. They have definitely caught on. They know a good man is easy to swallow. Salad anyone?

Minor blog jack. Am I the only dude tired of seeing chicks shaved to look like little girls? Your a grown a* woman, let that fro flow ( but do keep it trimmed). I’d like to hear others opinions on this. Hair or bare down there?

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 11:09 AM | Link to this

Slim, I’ll look forward to hearing her report on the issue.LOL

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

Truth What you don’t like the mohawk cut?… thought it made the issue of getting hair stuck in your teeth less of a problem.LOLOL

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

Truth You sound just like my guy friend talking about a chick being a “Head Master or Head Monster”…and my same friend said he likes the hair down there; trimmed up of course. Some men like it and some don’t.

I’ve only done the bare thing once and i vowed to never do it again. Dayum that ish itches when it tries to grow back! had Slim with both hands in her pocket trying to scratch it on the sly

Truth, you can hop a ride on my new Segway to the liquor store if and only if you sponsor a sistah on a bottle of Goose. How bout it?

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 11:24 AM | Link to this

IG I thought it was called ‘The Landing Strip’, so has it changed to Mohawk now?

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 11:30 AM | Link to this

Slim, nah it’s still called the landing strip…just that the mohawk cut is back in style…LOL

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 11:43 AM | Link to this

Racist Letter Put in Employee Mailboxes

By demi

May 25, 2007 11:48 AM | Link to this

Slim that’s one of the reason I’ve stop date white woman…their oral skills are nothing to play with

Truth dude I have 12 points on my license, do you really want me behind the wheels?

By abc

May 25, 2007 11:53 AM | Link to this

The notion that anyone excels at particular sex acts due to their ethnicity is absurb in a very extreme way. You all must be joking.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

Slim baby thats sweet you riding me on your Segawy. I get scared though so I’m gonna hold on “real tight” and I think I got a hole in my pants but I’ll try to control my poking. Oh yeah, I got you for a 1.75 liter bottle (thats the big one). While we’re out lets look for Demi. I think he fell asleep in the Urang. It should be easy to find a car with civic parts taped to it. Lets ride out. But first can you get that scratching thing under control? Not sexy. LOL

The first time me and my girl got together and I saw that hair it was a total turn-on. It had been years since I saw it, all these chicks are bald now. IG anything that goes with good lovemaking I can deal with. Hairs, scratches, fatigue. It’s all good as long as I can take a long nap afterwards.

There’s nothing sexier than a chick in Publix with some sweats and a tee.

MAJOR NEWS BULLETIN The Truth is single again. I decided against marriage and the only thing left was to end it. She’s not to fond of relationships that aren’t going anywhere. She really was a great chick but she had 1 major flaw, a child. The Truth can’t do the chillin’s. Time to look up some old thangs to get this thing started right.

By Jake.

May 25, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

IslandGirl/Slim

I do not care if it shaved or not. I am looking for the “pink”. The hair is like curtains, just slide it out of the way to get to the sunshine.

Now if you are a shaver ladies, please be sure that there is no stubble…LOL

By Ladylike

May 25, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

I landing strip is good but I have found that keeping a trim and clean edges is much more easy and cheaper.

By Ladylike

May 25, 2007 12:02 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon Errebody,

I landing strip is good but I have found that keeping a trim and clean edges is much more easy and cheaper.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 12:07 PM | Link to this

Jake LOL..

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 12:10 PM | Link to this

Demi So you’re another one professing that the myth is true?

Slim now calculating odds the her caucasion grandfather gave her the Good DT gene

abc I can’t answer that being that I’m not a man…but i’ve heard that too many times from black men.

MEN Really how can it be that different? What are sistahs not doing that non-sistahs are?

Truth I think I got a hole in my pants but I’ll try to control my poking

You trying to get us arrested for driving with an open container? lol So you and your girl just broke up…you cool with it?

Jake LOLOLOL Jake likes his girl to put tie-backs on her curtains

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

Okay, I’ve got a lot on my plate today and just had the MIA up.. just in case.. and would’nt you know that it would have to be Truth bringing me out of lurksville…

The Truth is single again. I decided against marriage and the only thing left was to end it. She’s not to fond of relationships that aren’t going anywhere

Didn’t you just say the other day that after reading so many of the posts here, you have a better understanding about women, and that you were actually thinking about making a committment to your girl???? Don’t make me direct quote you -‘cause I will!… What the heck happened, and don’t try to play me with the she had a kid thing.. that’s just something you are trying to hide behind..um, um, um… Go on…do tell..

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 12:15 PM | Link to this

Ladylike I agree.

By Jake.

May 25, 2007 12:23 PM | Link to this

Slim tie-backs, nah sweets, I was blessed with great thumbs.

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

@Jake - thanks for the 12:23 comment! (Ling now going to the restroom in an attempt to remove the coffee stain from her blouse. She was reading Jake’s comment about “thumbs” and nearly ruined the blouse she just got out of the cleaners!lolololol)

Hair flip (just got it “done”) to the WLB

By T-Mango

May 25, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Linguist…Call him out (LOL)

Truth…you didn’t get scurred did ya?

C’Mon, you can tell the WLB…

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 12:31 PM | Link to this

Jake LOL…quit before i have to drive all the way home to get my pocket rocket.

By Wise Diva

May 25, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

ixnay on the landing strip topic, geez, guys!

By Wise Diva

May 25, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

LOL, you guys try to stay on topic, I know some of you are bored with it, but let’s not open a can of worms with the whole sex acts discussion.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 12:41 PM | Link to this

Ling good morning hun. I told you all I was considering marriage. I did that but in the end it wasn’t right. If she didn’t have a kid it would be a no brainer, she is a great chick. I will not rule out marriage though in the future. It could be fun with the right chick. She deserves a man that will be there long term and I’m not that guy. *Slim I am real cool with it. Its not the end of the book but the beginning of another chapter. We had a great run but now its time to move on. I’m gonna miss that booty though. The best I ever had.

Jake lmao at your curtains. I thought I was warped.

MLB we need to get the keys from Demi, this dude is a rolling road hazard.

Slim are you a redbone too?

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 12:46 PM | Link to this

Has there ever been a black Bachelor?

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this

Truth well how did she take it? I wouldn’t call myself a redbone at all. I’m not that like. I like to think of myself as a caramel sistah. lol

By For Real

May 25, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

abc I am going to have to disagree with you on that. Experience is what makes them better at it. Black women start late therefore lack the experience and the effort to compete.

Demi 12 points!!!! Dayummm bruh.. Too much Varooom on the Yamaha huh???

Slim I got 99 problems but an itch ain’t one

Truth Man don’t let Ling get in your business. Standby what you said. Remember MLB rule #20 - Stick with the bit until you die Oh and also remember MLB rule #258 - 3 months and its ok for a MLB member to call her but you know For Real loves the kids. lol…

By Jake.

May 25, 2007 12:50 PM | Link to this

Wise

Awwwww…Mannnnnn (said in my 8yr old whining voice)

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

Now what i want to know is what do Grown azz men see in little kids…that’s a sick twisted fantasy. I know ads and commercial are always pushing the slim, young and beautiful, but this world is crazy.

By T-Mango

May 25, 2007 12:54 PM | Link to this

Slimone -There’s never been a BB.

By demi

May 25, 2007 12:56 PM | Link to this

SlimOne I really believe white women practice: I am virgin, so I can’t do that right now. But can I give you …. instead?

Until they enter college.

By For Real

May 25, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Mo Here is your song for today:

summer, summer, summertime time to sit back and unwind

Here it is a groove slightly transformed just a bit of a break from the norm just a little somethin’ to break the monotony of all that hardcore dance that has gotten to be a little bit out of control it’s cool to dance but what about the groove that soothes that moves romance give me a soft subtle mix and if ain’t broke then don’t try to fix it and think of the summers of the past adjust the base and let the alpine blast pop in my CD and let me run a rhyme and put your car on cruise and lay back cause this is summertime

By For Real

May 25, 2007 1:01 PM | Link to this

Still mixin..

Unemployment at a record highs People coming people going people born to die Don’t ask me because I don’t know why But it’s like that and that’s the way it is

People in the world tryin to make ends meet You try to ride car train bus or feet I said you got to work hard you want to compete It’s like that and that’s the way it is Huh!

Money is the key to end all your woes Your ups, your downs, your highs and your lows Won’t you tell me the last time that love bought you clothes? It’s like that, and that’s the way it is

By T-Mango

May 25, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Black women start late therefore lack the experience and the effort to compete.*

Out of context, this seems like some Fragaknacle Bovine Scatology. For Real…can you explain this statement further. (we need the Walmart version)

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

For Real You are truly a fool…LOL

T-Mango The network probably feels like no one would watch it. I guess the closes thing we had to a BB was Flava of Love. I heard they are supposed to do a roast on Flav just like they did with Pamela Anderson. That’s going to be a train wreck i’m sure.

demi If you say so, but i guess there’s some truth in that. I watched a special a few months back about how young teens view s3x. I was amazed to hear 11, 12, and 13 years old talking about participating in Lipstick Parties. UGGHHH!

By demi

May 25, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

SlimOne babe, in this world, R.Kelly can sleep with 12-14 years old girls and still be treated with respect…Ladies will blame the little girls for being too fast and Dudes will blame R.kelly for going below the age belt.

We can only do what women allow.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

For Real LMAO thanks for reminding me of rule #258. Its gonna be some lucky dude that rolls up on her. I thought I had some good luvin before but that chick had fire. She had a little caucasion in her too so maybe thats where the skillz come from. The Truth starts reminiscing as his wood grows.

Demi I think they don’t carry around alot of the issues that some sista’s do. A week after they meet you their sharing their paychecks. They’re socailized differently.

Slim we had actually slowed down alot after I turned down her marriage offer. The only other step was forward or backwards. I took a step back. The way I look at it I can find another woman with alot of her traits but without the kid. The Truth* always gets what he wants.

T-Mango I didn’t get scurred. (Said while sweating and teeth chattereing) It was more a logical decision.

By For Real

May 25, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

T-Mango Sorry about the spelling. I am multi-tasking today but to clear it up for you.

They have been sucking golf balls thru water hoses longer than yall have so therefore they are more willing and experienced at perfoming such feats.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 1:19 PM | Link to this

Slim, don’t forget the Rockdale county scandal a few years ago with the school kids that were having…lipstick parties.

By For Real

May 25, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

Still mixin…

Have you ever met a girl that you tried to date But a year to make love she wanted you to wait Let me tell ya a story of my situation I was talkin’ to this girl from the U.S. nation The way that I met her was on tour at a concert She had long hair and a short miniskirt I just got onstage drippin’, pourin’ with sweat I was walkin’ through the crowd and gues who I met I whispered in her ear, “Come to the picture booth So I can ask you some questions to see if you are a hundred proof” I asked her her name, she said blah-blah-blah She had 9/10 pants and a very big bra I took a couple of flicks and she was enthused I said, “How do you like the show?” she said, “I was very amused” I started throwin’ bass, she started throwin’ back mid-range But when I sprung the question, she acted kind of strange Then when I asked, “Do ya have a man,” she tried to pretend She said, “No I don’t, I only have a friend” Come on, I’m not even goin’ for it This is what I’m goin’ sing

Come Blog Fam let me hear you….

You, you got what I need but you say he’s just a friend And you say he’s just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he’s just a friend But you say he’s just a friend, oh baby You, you got what I need but you say he’s just a friend But you say he’s just a friend

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 1:23 PM | Link to this

demi I guess so…but I would assume that the adult would be the one to have better judgement, only in a perfect world.

Truth If her having a kid is what the issue is, were you not aware she had a child from jump street?

By Sunshine

May 25, 2007 1:24 PM | Link to this

Truth “She had a little caucasion in her too so maybe thats where the skillz come from.” What the hell is that supposed to mean? I just had to come out of the lurk zone to ask u about this one. Surely you aren’t implying that white women are better in bed than women of other races? And I’m not talking about that ridiculous stereotype about them being “orally skilled”.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

Whats a lipstick party?

By T-Mango

May 25, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

For Real and Truth-LMAO.

And on that note…I’m out to jump start my weekend. Y’all have a safe holiday weekend, too.

By SeanJohnson

May 25, 2007 1:31 PM | Link to this

@ Sunshine…i say we have a friendly competition..we just need the WLB and the other females sign up…we can decide and disprove this stereotype once and for all…and i am willing to be one of the judges…

By Berry

May 25, 2007 1:32 PM | Link to this

Truth…”She has a little caucasion in her too so maybe that’s where the skillz came from”…..WTF..see that’s why us sistah’s have such a hard time in relationships…is that what all you brotha’s think??? please let me know..

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

Sunshine relax hun. That was a joke, we do that here. It helps lighten the moments.

Slim yes I knew about the kid but it wasn’t a big issue in the beginning. Like I said I really hadn’t considered marriage so no need to worry.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

Truth Well try to use your imagination as much as possible but the girls all put on different shades of lipstick…do some things with their mouths on the boys and like Skittles….See the rainbow. Gotta keep it rated-G

By Jake a.ka. Bennett

May 25, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

Ladies

I have had some different experiences and I must say I love how my sistahs do it and everything else. Black women are wonderfully giving when its a good lovin coming back.

I think they just fuggin with ya’ll, but you see the name and I ain’t in it…lol

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

IG they also had a special on Rockdale county some years back due to a high rate of Syphilis. I hope those numbers have dropped since then.

By Jake

May 25, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

on my way out, ya’ll be cool

By DuShawn

May 25, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

after I turned down her marriage offer. That brings up an interesting point. Would you blog ladies ever propose to a man? I believe it’s more common than one might think. My wife asked me to marry her, gave me a ring and all. It was so surreal it caught me off guard. I didn’t know what to say. I thought she was playing, but she was dead azz serious. I never answered her and she never pressed the issue any further. Several months later I bought her a ring and proposed to her in the traditional manner. Occasionally, I will jokingly bring it up. I’ll say something like ”yeah…you wanted to lock this good diznic down. That’s why you asked me to marry you.” She normally catches convenient amnesia and acts like that shyt never happened. When I talk about it she gets a little embarrassed. Actually, I think it took a lot of courage to expose herself to possible rejection and humiliation. Then again, the risk was minimal. She knew I wouldn’t say no. I still wear that ring today.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

Berry that is not why sista’s have problems with relationships. Originally I said it as a joke but it sure did spark a flame in here. Personally I don’t care what caucasions do because I don’t date them. The sista’s I’ve dated have been GREAT lovers so I’m not complaining.

SJ let me know when the competition begins, I’ll be ready.

slim I love the taste of caramel.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 1:49 PM | Link to this

Du I’d much rather prefer the man to ask me. I really don’t see me seriously asking a man the big question. I would like to think that getting married was something he wanted to do, going through the whole thought process and getting the ring. It would be so much more official to me.

By For Real

May 25, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

I would like formally second Sean Johnson’s motion.

SJ When is the lottery to determine who goes first?

Berry “see that’s why us sistah’s have such a hard time in relationships” If that’s the reason then why not change that one reason?

By Sunshine

May 25, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Truth Joke huh? I read this blog every day, so I know all about the jokes and fun:) I don’t really believe you were joking though!

On Topic Do men take a woman’s looks into consideration when choosing a potential spouse more so than when they are just casually dating? Do you guys think about how your children will look with different women?

By demi

May 25, 2007 1:54 PM | Link to this

SlimOne on a serious note, communication is the key. I wasn’t always good at eating chocolate pies with strawberries in the middle…But I was willing to learn…so I started watching lesbian flicks…And in return those ladies have made my toes curl and eye roll into the back of my head.

So ladies, if you really want to learn how to pleases your man…Go and rent a few RuPaul videos

Or you can buy one of my life size doll equip with a functioning tongue and manniehood…for 19.95!!

For ladies who require live bodies to practice on…Musing, the Truth, or myself are available for 20 dollars per minute.

And if you’re thick and sexy wit it, I’ll throw in a free p-dussy beat down session.

Now reopening “Good D booth”, just in time for Memorial Day

By For Real

May 25, 2007 1:57 PM | Link to this

Still mixin…

It’s been a long time, i shouldn’t have left you Without a strong rhyme to step to Think of how many weak shows you slept through Time’s up, i’m sorry i kept you

Thinking of this, you keep repeating you miss The rhymes from the microphone soloist And you sit by the radio, hand on the dial, soon As you hear it, pump up the volume Dance wit the speaker ‘till you hear it blow, Then plug in the headphone ‘cause here it go It’s a 4 letter word when it’s heard, it control Your body to dance (you got it) soul,

Ditects the tempo like a red alert Reaches your reflex, so let it work When this is playing, you can’t get stuck wit The steps, so get set and i’m a still come up wit A gift to be swift, follow the leader, the rhyme will go Def wit the record that was mixed a long time ago It can be done but only i can do it For those that can dance and clap your hands to it

I start to think and then i sink Into the paper like i was ink When i’m writing, i’m trapped in between the lines, I escape when i finish the rhyme… I got soul

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

A guy I know was engaged to this chick really because she had some great dome. Everything else he said wasn’t up to par but he’s glad he came to his senses because he would’ve married for the wrong reason.

By Berry

May 25, 2007 2:00 PM | Link to this

For Real I can’t speak for all of us, but I’m down for whatever in a relationship, it’s just I get so sick and tired of brotha’s finding some reason, or making some excuse for why they date white women..if that’s what you like just say so, but don’t say it’s because we (sistah’s) don’t do this or we don’t do that! Truth yes the flames were a rollin all up and thru here!! You knew better!

By SeanJohnson

May 25, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

@ 4real…the lottery will be next week when we have more females present…we will have rules…such as limited to no use of teeth…hands optional…have brackets like the ncaa tournament…plus rankings..bets and side bets…Ladies come out show your skills..win the grand prize..lol

By abc

May 25, 2007 2:03 PM | Link to this

Slimone, if that’s what they’re telling you, I’d fire up your lie detector in advance. They lyin’.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

DuShawn, that’s a cute story. I don’t think I can muster up the courage to do it. I perfer the tradional route.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 2:06 PM | Link to this

Du I’ve had a few chicks ask me to marry them. I thought it was refreshing but it still doesn’t affect the final decision. I still have a pic of a chick that formally proposed to me on the back of a picture I wanted.

Sunshine and Berry if you noticed the regulars didn’t reply. Its not that big of a deal but maybe you just need someone to listen to your gripes. Maybe thats why sista’s have problems with their relatonships. I was joking, end of discussion.

Slim I’m officially asking you to marry me. I need a ride to get around in this heat. LMAO

By Sunshine

May 25, 2007 2:08 PM | Link to this

SJ

I almost wanna take you up on that offer! We do need to set the record straight once and for all!

By demi

May 25, 2007 2:11 PM | Link to this

SlimOne same way you’ll pass on a brother you like, huh? Dude can only say yes or no.

guess it’s safe to say, they skip over slim’s post, to which the Truth replied in a now famous post.

Heeey berry/sunshine!!! now handing them free coupon which read, “Good D”: Admit One.

By Berry

May 25, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

@ Truth…Oh my bad!! I guess the “regulars” already know your an AZZ!! guess I should read more often..sorry!

By demi

May 25, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

SeanJohnson LOL you’ve been to those shows too huh?

Fee: $60.00

The woman who causes dude to loose control first, wins $300.00.

Mayne, I miss those days, off to lunch

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Ling gets some ish started and then leaves.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

SJ

What’s the grand prize?

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

abc honey i’m lost….If they’re telling me what? sorry

By For Real

May 25, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

SJ That’s funny as hellz boy… Brackets… Hey put in the Dirty Souph region.

By kinderbabe

May 25, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

hey demi how’s it going?

i see you all are doing your thang…lol.

hey berry! you’ll get used to it after awhile…just keep the word “ignore” at the front of your mind…lol

By Berry

May 25, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

Sorry Truth that was a bit harsh!

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 2:29 PM | Link to this

What up Blog…

On Topic: I’ve never been into chicks that wear much more than lipstick; and since I prefer the natural, I pretty much avoid the females wearing masks.

Off topic: So where is the big jump-off tonight?

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

Truth

I’m pondering about what you said regarding your relationship. Why did you stay with your girl so long if you always had reservations about kids? I know the pooh nanny was good, but if you knew that was not enough to keep you around, why stay?

By abc

May 25, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

Slimone, I was referring to your 12:10 post.

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Island I know the pooh nanny was good,…*

Just like Good D will keep a chick on a rope, some Good P will keep a brother coming over.

By Ladylike

May 25, 2007 2:44 PM | Link to this

On Topic, Lately it seems as though women are being depicted in films and print ads in a more natural and realistic view, I find this comforting. Men have always been viewed in their natural state and in all body types, but I have notice some guys in recent films, videos, and prints ads with too much makeup on – Not Attractive. As a woman who enjoys being natural I think we are sometimes held to unfair standards of beauty. I will never look like a female on the front of Vogue, unless that’s Jennifer Hudson of course.

By NCGirlfromATL

May 25, 2007 2:46 PM | Link to this

Bluuuuuuuuuuuue!! What’s up?

SJ You are so crazy! LMAO!

Slim I’m officially asking you to marry me. I need a ride to get around in this heat. LMAO

Slim don’t fall for it, gurl! He’s just trying to make sure his permanent butt print is in the passenger side of the Bentley. Ain’t gon happen, pahtnah! LOL!!

Now wiping down the inside of the Bentley to remove Truth’s finger print smudges on the chrome and wood interior…and…is that ketchup on the floor mat?!? Who let Truth eat french fries in the car?!?

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

May 25, 2007 2:47 PM | Link to this

Wow a sistah goes to lunch and comes back all this!!! Can’t we all just get along? LOL

For Real thanks for my song! Perfect fit w/my sundress and sandals today!

On topic (at least that last one) I would propose to a man. I prefer it be done the traditional way w/me being asked though.

By SeanJohnson

May 25, 2007 2:50 PM | Link to this

@ Sunshine….maybe u should…the record really needs to set straight…yall havent never really got props in that dept and they are over due..

@ Irie Girl…the Grand Prize…is priceless..if u win the title..no telling where the skills can take u in life…plus its something u can always fall back on …u know how shady the corporate world is….lol

By For Real

May 25, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Question for Blog Ladies

What celeb do you look like?

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

Ladylike As a woman who enjoys being natural I think we are sometimes held to unfair standards of beauty.

I think that would be the perfect opportunity for the rare jewel to resist all of that extra and really shine.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Whew Big Brother has been in here for a minute so I’ll have to try to catch up. But from what i can see we’re about to start the play-offs….So what’s the prize for 1st and second place?

Slim now setting up a booth to inspect the judges fully equipped with gloves and measuring tape.After all, the participants do need something to work with.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Blue I guess…Good D won’t mess my head up…thats for sure.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 3:00 PM | Link to this

Slim on bended knee Truth will you marry ME? I need a new set of ear muffs.

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

NC What’s up slim? :)

SeanJ u know how shady the corporate world is

Dude, why am I picturing Bill Clinton kicked back in his high-backed chair and Monica Lewinski under the desk? LMAO

By BlatinoBrutha -

May 25, 2007 3:01 PM | Link to this

BLOGFAM WHATUP!!! BIG UPS MLB!!!!!

just gonna lurk today… great topics. everyone have a great weekend! and yes, me n gurl are still at it.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

@SJ..the Grand Prize…is priceless

Yeah right…..

IG wins the prize for best skillz, but did not know the event was being video taped. Now the video is being sold on the internet along with Parris Hilton’s video….Buy one Get one FREE

Hellz to the nah

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Truth I was in a meeting, and was on my way out the door, but some inner voice said… Truth is talking about you! … So, not to worry dear… I’m preparing my response.. You should receive it shortly..oh, and yes… GA.man I heard the MLB’s money is a little short this month.. Please give me my citataion in advance.. it should help the MLB get back on track..

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:06 PM | Link to this

Island In that case, I’ll give you the choice two categories in which to place yourself - (A)That 15% of women that are actually mature and possess self-control… or (B) you ain’t neva had no Good D. LOL

By DuShawn

May 25, 2007 3:08 PM | Link to this

Island Girl Don’t be naïve. That good “D” will have you looking for a brotha in the daytime with a flashlight. I could see you now……..”Yall seen DuShawn?”

By demi

May 25, 2007 3:09 PM | Link to this

Ladylike Jennifer Hudson…now thats one fine sista.

Hey KB, would you like to try your skills at the “Good D” booth, LOL last day, huh?

Gangsta head nod sup blu

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Sean J its something u can always fall back on …u know how shady the corporate world You trying to promote a M.L huh? (monica lewinsky)

Chicks Boss: I need to see you in my office, its regarding your performance.

Chick: yes sir. What wrong?

CB: well the last few quarters you have not met the specified quota. You’ve been verbablly warned with no improvement. We like having you around the office but i’m not sure what you are contributing to our company.

Chick: well sir, I’m sure I can add something to your benefit. Did you happen to read the fine print on my resume?

CB: let me pull up your file

Boss reads the fine print

Boss: so it says here you were in the top 3% ‘Head’ of your class and you also have had a tonsilectomy in college. Why didn’t you share this sooner?

Chick seen leaving bosses office with new promotion and a Shout it out stick trying to remove the evidence from her blouse

By Ladylike

May 25, 2007 3:12 PM | Link to this

I am off to the Weekend!

You guys have a great weekend, and WLB I know you all can handle things.

Peace & Love

By For Real

May 25, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

IG The MLB doesn’t have step. We have trophy celebration and give you or should I say the winner some flim credits. The MLB will even negotiate a second flim depending on sales.

So come on ladies we need the celebs look-alikes. The brackets will be broken down by celebs.

Slim Me first and I cut the sleeve off my Batman Suit.

By NCGirlfromATL

May 25, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

What celeb do you look like?

I don’t. LOL! Too much to live up to…or to live down.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

Du good “D” will have you looking for a brotha in the daytime with a flashlight LOLOLOLOLOL hilarious Slim putting her head down…thinking it’s so true

IG I’ve never had any D that made me want to commit a crime or anything but I have had good D. Slim now turning to google for help to find him

The problem is when dudes KNOW their D is da bomb….Thats how girls end up having to find another ride home from work because she let him use her car while he’s out driving around another chick. lol

and no this has never happened to Slim

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:17 PM | Link to this

What up Rhydah.

By Sunshine

May 25, 2007 3:18 PM | Link to this

For Real

I’ve been told that I look like Gabrielle Union (only lighter) :)

By GA.man

May 25, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

Dang i go to Dave and Buster’s with Lil Gaman and all of this

Demi give me back the keys…shhhhhhhhheeshhh you and Musing

GaMan now filling up URANG again for weekend patrol with all the fellas

Hey MLB to show the ladies we know how to do it….we just closed on a 9 bedroom 8 bathroom house…it comes with a movie room, hottub…Did i say hottub 10 car garage and much much more

By For Real

May 25, 2007 3:20 PM | Link to this

NC Come on now everyone looks like someone else. Stop avoiding the questions.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

Demi and Blue I’ve had great D…Oh yeah….

IG is one of those ladies that can have a great sex life and still make rational decisions……never have been the emotional chick.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 3:22 PM | Link to this

For Real I personally don’t think I look like a celeb but i will tell you what other folk have said. I’ve been compared to the Sister Sister chicks and Aaliyah (which i guess that depends on how my hair is)

Who do YOU resemble? Oh yeah, and i’ll need you to remove that big ole belt buckle too before we get started.

By GA.man

May 25, 2007 3:25 PM | Link to this

Ling stop getting all your info from crackheahs…the MLB is in good shape….we are sitting pretty cause we dont have to shop all the time…plus every member gives his fair share

Ahhhhh we just bought a nice Villa* you ladies of the WLB are welcome to the party…it will be next tuesday

But watch out cause Musing and Demi are in charge of the entertainment..and Blat and QDT got something special they ordered, but i can’t tell you about it

SeanJ and DU got one on one classes going all night long

Plus i heard you ladies are leaseing your cars so talk about broke…..

By SeanJohnson

May 25, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

@ Irie Girl..see…thats what Truth and 4real was talking about earlier…dont be shy with it or scared.. its nutting to it…it wont be broadcasted like that..we will be blinded folded..and yall will be given a number that represent your ranking and bracket region..based on the area u are repping..ex…lithonia..college park..

@ Slim…nah..not promoting LM..this is a lock door event..no snitches allowed..or camera phones or camcorders

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 3:30 PM | Link to this

Slim removes 3 pair of football socks from For Real’s pants.

For Real You’ve been disqualified from the judge panel on the basis of falsifying stats.

Who’s Next?

By kinderbabe

May 25, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

demi how long has this booth been open? and have you passed the health inspection codes….lol you know you have to have your certificate and such up before you open a business. oh, and what’s the capacity of this so-called good D booth? lol j/k the last day was great. we had a cookout and were outside all but 2 hours of the entire school day. it was big fun!

forreal you have me thinking…i don’t think i favor any celebrity, not that comes to mind anyway.

By NCGirlfromATL

May 25, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

For Real I’m not avoiding the question. I really can’t think of a celebrity that I resemble.

By Wise Diva

May 25, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

maybe that was an attempt to get pictures of the female bloggers circulating. Go ahead fellas and ask outright, how (un) fine are ya’ll?

By QC

May 25, 2007 3:35 PM | Link to this

Hey BK

have a great weekend bloggers!!!!

By For Real

May 25, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

Sunshine Gabrielle Union Check. The MLB thanks you.

Slim Sister Sister chicks and Aaliyah Check. The MLB thanks you. BTW, it is called a Utility Belt and I can’t take it off the buckle is rusted. Oh and I have been told I look like seem to me every dark skin bruh that comes out (movies, sport, singers & rappers). So it just depends on the female that is looking.

Ling Said she knows what I look like. You thought I forgot didn’t you Ling. I am still waiting for you to tell me where you know me from.

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:38 PM | Link to this

IG IG is one of those ladies that can have a great sex life and still make rational decisions

What that statement says to me is that you have only realized 85% of the power of that Good D that you say you’ve had - meaning you’ve probably been holding back, afraid that you “might lose yourself”.

By Hot Sauce

May 25, 2007 3:40 PM | Link to this

Hey everybody, hope all is well with you all; so who’s cooking some Que over the weekend? I’d love for someone to come to my place and break in my brand new grill i’ve had for a whole year. Is Musing blogging today? hello Demi, SJ i’m going to probably hang around for a minute

By DuShawn

May 25, 2007 3:42 PM | Link to this

Island Girl “never have been the emotional chick.” That statement is oxymoronic. Emotions are a part of a female’s genetic make up. It’s a part of you, just like estrogen. I will give you the benefit of the doubt. Maybe you can control yours better than most. However, rational decisions can be subjective. That Good “D” will put you under a spell (I have seen it happen to the best of them.) Before you realize it, you would make a rational decision to search for me in the daytime with that flashlight. Everyone else would think you’re insane, but in your rational mind you’re just trying to find DuShawn so he can beat it again.

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:43 PM | Link to this

Wise You know I was sitting here waitin’ on some answers right?! LOL

By For Real

May 25, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

Slim HAHAHAHAHA Dang girl you got me with that one. Dayummmm 3 pair of socks. HAHAHAHAHA

Kinder & NC Come on now, I am sure someone has said Kinder you look like…. or NC you remind me of….

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:45 PM | Link to this

QC I was looking for you earlier. Hello and have a nice weekend.

By Cinderella

May 25, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

Eyecandy calls me his lil Salma Hayek.

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

Truth Didn’t we go down this path a few weeks ago? .. You know.. Single mothers, and the opinions that men have about them? I won’t bore you with what my responses were, as I know you too could research my previous posts.. So, I’ll get straight to the point. You claim that we, members of the WLB, have given you better insight to women.. You said this just the other day and yet you advise us that you broke up with your girl, and then come in here wagging your tail, blaring the trumpets with…“MAJOR NEWS BULLETIN The Truth is single again. I decided against marriage and the only thing left was to end it. She’s not to fond of relationships that aren’t going anywhere. She really was a great chick but she had 1 major flaw, a child. The Truth can’t do the chillin’s. Time to look up some old thangs to get this thing started right.

As though you are proud of this feat…. Uh, I think not.. I probably would’ve left you alone had you not said If she didn’t have a kid it would be a no brainer.. But typical Truth has to beat his chest and declare his manliness eschewing the virtues of a childless woman.. tisk, tisk, tisk.. If you are really interested in what the women on here have to say, you’d heed this warning… If all things are equal - the things that you want in a woman - cooking, cleaning, God Fearing, driven, ambitious, devoted, etc..- and you find that woman - but she brings a child with her - hold it now… and you don’t want her because she has a child… than you are really quite shallow… and this characteristic is one that many a man wears on his sleeve… He thinks it’s something that no one can see.. But.. Aha! He is wrong.. Women can sniff a shallow, self-centered, ideological man 3 miles away… And while she may give you a little of her time, she will never give you her heart.. So, keep playing women the way you have and you’ll find yourself very much alone… But then… being alone is probably a good thing for you.. Right?

Unless this child of hers was the spawn of Satan, kicked you in the shins every time she/he saw you,.etc.. Then to cast her aside for being a mother is … low.. Really low.. But I have to remember, that you aren’t really interested in a “significant other”.. Just an other… opps! I said that before too.. Didn’t I ??

Not to worry… I won’t completely ignore your future posts..(smile) Just know that this member of the WLB is waiting - with baited breath- for these types of responses from you. And you know me… you won’t get a free pass!

(Ling, begrudgingly sends you a blog (((hug))), as she knows, one day in the not so distant future, you’ll come to regret your feelings about dating women with children)

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 3:49 PM | Link to this

Truth where are you? Are you trying to skip out on my proposal?

In the tone of Three 6 Mafia

For Real let me see your utility belt, is it rusty?

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 3:50 PM | Link to this

The Truth would like to announce the nuptials tween Slim and himself. Baby can you come and pick me up? Smooches.

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Now cueing up that Al Green joint (just for IG)- Love’ll make ya DO RIGHT… it’ll make ya do wronnnggg.

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 3:53 PM | Link to this

ForReal… Hey Hon! …(said while snickering).. some things are better left.. well.. unsaid..

By DuShawn

May 25, 2007 3:55 PM | Link to this

I often hear that I look like a mixture of Craig mack and Sam Cassell with a hint of Shabba Ranks.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 3:56 PM | Link to this

Blue

Hmmmmm, that’s an interesting theory, but IG has been touched in the right places….

By NCGirlfromATL

May 25, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

For Real For Real…I just asked one of my friends, and he couldn’t come up with a name either. I’m not trying to be cagey. But, I really don’t think I resemble any famous person. Sorry!

By GA.man

May 25, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

LING LING LING LING

OOOOhhhhhhh heckkk nawwww!!!!!!!

you gots to get 3 tickets for that lonnnnnnnggggg azzzz post

Riiiiiippppp

Riiiiiippppp

Riiiiipppppp

GaMan smile and hands Ling her tickets…”Have a nice day”

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 3:58 PM | Link to this

Ling Damn, that post of yours had the chauvenistic man in me wanting not to co-sign; but you laid it down… nice and neat. Blog stars to you slim.

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 4:00 PM | Link to this

Who was it that asked what the members of the WLB looked like? Demi? (I’m too lazy to scroll up!) … Well, since I’m a celebrity in my own home - I clean up, make dinner every night, sneak the kids sweets when hubby is not looking, you know the drill … then I guess I just look like …. me! hahahahaha!

By DuShawn

May 25, 2007 4:02 PM | Link to this

I’m out… Wifey and the kids gone for the weekend. It’s about to be ugly. Untamed dog in society…..not your ordinary Huckleberry Hound.

Peace and Chicken Grease!

By Wise Diva

May 25, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

whoa, Ling, you broke it down to the last compound with that one. beaming with pride

By demi

May 25, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Hot Sauce how are you sis.

Linguist that’s funny…Cause plenty of sister have told me what a fool I am for taking care of another man’s seed. Not many women wants a dude with a child, no matter how well she is treated…I know this from experience.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:04 PM | Link to this

Truth wait just a cottin pickin minute before you marry us off. I’ll need at least a 3 day trial first. I like to sample before I buy.

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

GAman… Here Hon - I’ll pay for the citation with my WLB Black American Express Card “cause that’s how we do it! :)

@BK… I had my blog vest on when writing it.. you know how Truth(y) gets when he gets a burr up his butt!

By kinderbabe

May 25, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

forreal i can’t think of one person…i’m racking my brain here…lol. i’m gonna call one of my friends and ask.

By abc

May 25, 2007 4:08 PM | Link to this

While I wouldn’t string anyone along in spite of it, but because I know it in advance, I’d not go for a chick with young kids either. Maybe my reasons are different from Truth’s, in that I’ve raised mine and just plain don’t want to endure teenagers anymore.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:10 PM | Link to this

GA.man gets back to MLB headquarters only to find a notice on the door announcing “Property for Auction This Weekend”

Ling I’m sure you’re thirsty after that post. Here have a Goose-n-pineapple on me.

By Linguist

May 25, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

Gotta run Blog Fam, have a great, safe holiday weekend…

Be good Truth… Be really good! (winks)

By demi

May 25, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

I am called “Blade” around this office park when I am p** and Eddie Murphy when I am in a good mood.

so I guess I look ok, LOL

By For Real

May 25, 2007 4:12 PM | Link to this

GOTTTTT DAYUMMMMMM DuShawn It should be a law that you cannot mention Sam Cassell and Shabba Ranks in the same sentence.

Slim No my Utility Belt isn’t rusty just the buckle so I have to do it in full costume. So, the cut off sleeves on my Batman Suit didn’t do anything for you huh? That’s suprising.

Ling Oh you are such a tease… Give me a hint..

Ok NC I believe you. MLB who do think NC resembles?

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Blue now tightropes the fine line of MLB Violation.

Ling Now see, you’re SUPPOSED to be blown out and realize the full power of the Good D; which is why you’re supposed to be super-selective when it comes to who you give the Good P to and not every T. Paine that’s buying drinks at the club.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

Dushawn tsk tsk….Do we need to send Nanny 911 over to the crib to ensure you’re well behaved this weekend unsupervised? We know how you likes to give out Good D coupons….

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

DuShawn and Blue

It’s funny to me that guys think that good D can always mess a woman’s mind up. I’m confident enough to tell you that is not always the case. I wish some good D would make me walk the streets in a towel with a flashlight at noon looking for DuShawn. LOL

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 4:20 PM | Link to this

For Real MLB who do think NC resembles?

Ummm… the invisible woman?

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

For Real You know I loves you rockin that w/o the sleeves. What do you think about my boy shorts, wife beater and flip flops i’m rocking?

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 4:29 PM | Link to this

IG It’s funny to me that guys think that good D can always mess a woman’s mind up.

I’m not saying that Good D is the ultimate form of hypnosis, but I have seen it make a chick get out of bed at 3 in the morning and drive all the way across town… just to make sure that no other chick was getting it.

Now cueing up that Gnarles Barkley - Crazy” I remember when, I remember, I remember when I lost my mind…

By For Real

May 25, 2007 4:31 PM | Link to this

Slim You put a cold beer in your hand and you can cheat on Truth with me.

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

BK Let’s not leave the men go a little loo-loo over some grade A top notch Punani. Dudes crying like Cuba punching the air if they were to find out someone else got a taste of that fine wine.

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

Aight, every be cool, be careful, and be safe; and remember the cops are not off this weekend. Peace out.

By The Truth

May 25, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

Slim baby, you can’t handle 3 days with The Truth. But lets kick it off anyway.

Ling you kow I love you but if you ever post something that long again I’m going to put you over my knee. Listen, life is what life is. I don’t do other brothers kids and thats it. Some dudes do it some don’t. If I decide I want kids I want my wife to be as excited as me. Not ” I got this baby, this is old hat”. If that makes me shallow than so be it.

I’ll discuss this with my new wife Slim. Baby, please don’t leave me out here like you did earlier this week.

Whose that MLB stuffing his shorts with socks. Dam.

Have a great weekend MLB and WLB members as well as the new independents.

By Mo (now known as Moeisha)

May 25, 2007 4:38 PM | Link to this

IG I am co-signing with you girl!! I am not the average emotional chick either. Hadnt dealt with a man yet that hasnt told me at some point “I feel like the chick in this relationship b/c you are so un-emotional”. Now I have had some GREAT “D”, even from a cutty buddy. Dont mean I’m attached and doesnt mean that there is more out there if I found your “good d”. I aint out there getting at errthang with a third leg just calling it like it is. The man that has me in a towel looking for him in the daylight w/a flashlight…..cant see that. Feenin is one thing, being a dayum fool is another!! LOL

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:41 PM | Link to this

For Real I haven’t signed my name to nothing. But ever since that sock scandal, I’ll need to check you out first. I don’t want to pass up my free 3 day trial with Truth for a mini-snickers…know what i mean verne?

By demi

May 25, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

Blue_Kolla it’ll have old girl knocking on your door at 2:00 am, while wifey is in the house with you…3:01 am wifey done left your a$$…3:30 am old girl is back at your house for a quick beat down…Her husband comes home at 4:15 am…I don’t miss those day

By Wise Diva

May 25, 2007 4:46 PM | Link to this

Have a safe and fantastic weekend, everyone

By demi

May 25, 2007 4:50 PM | Link to this

SlimOne it’s not the P, but how fine old girl is that does that. A man who is in love with a woman, normally act the fool…And he knows she’s not right for him

By SlimOne

May 25, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

Dayum Demi You weren’t doing it like that back in the day were you? That sound too close to losing a limb or the way folks are these days, a life. Slim can’t die over no D

By Blue_Kolla

May 25, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Slim Let’s not leave the men go a little loo-loo over some grade A top notch Punani.

No doubt, which is why a dude will do a lot of wild sh!t just to get to it.

Mo “I feel like the chick in this relationship b/c you are so un-emotional”.

That dude is suspect. Ain’t no real stand-up dude EVER gon’ feel like he ain’t carrying a stick. Feel me?

I’m out for real this time yall.

By Island Girl

May 25, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Everybody have a great weekend

Caribbean carnival activities are going on this weekend…

Blue let me know about that proposition?

By GA.man

May 25, 2007 4:57 PM | Link to this

Wrong Slim aint nuthing for sale here

By demi

May 25, 2007 5:01 PM | Link to this

SlimOne just a lists of things that were leading to my demises…

Night All

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