Misadventures in Atlanta

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 8:26 AM | Link to this

Are we working now? testing 1 2

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 8:31 AM | Link to this

Slim is not afraid of committment So I may just lurk a while until I’m probed to make an entrance.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 8:38 AM | Link to this

good morning…i gotta think on this one.

hey slim

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 8:39 AM | Link to this

IT’s friday it’s friday..best day of the week and the last day of the week…I’m gonna get my march maddness on..i’m gonna get my sleep on and i’m gonna get my church on all weekend long

Good morning sexione slim Sexyleggs Justme Qc Raqi mo Mocha kinder foots

By QC

March 9, 2007 8:39 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers…it’s friday

I’m not afraid of committment, actually i’m looking forward to it…

i hope you all have a great day!

By QC

March 9, 2007 8:40 AM | Link to this

Morning Bloggers…it’s friday

I’m not afraid of committment, actually i’m looking forward to it…

i hope you all have a great day!

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 8:43 AM | Link to this

Happy Friday Everyone!!!!!

For me….it’s all or nothing….you can be in or on the outside looking in. Right now, I’m more than content with nothing(relationship-wise)…I’m much more focused on paying the bills (and increasing my financial success)and raising the child successfully!!

TGIF!!!!!!

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 8:43 AM | Link to this

Hey Gaman,kinder,QC,Sexione,Ling,Musing,Demi,JustMe,Mo, Mocha,Foots,NC,all

Can’t wait to hear from the committmemt phobes.

By Attention06

March 9, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this

Wow,

I have been lurking for a while, and only pop out once in while, but this Blog struck a nerve.

I am with a wonderful woman… the woman of my dreams and all that I can ever hope for. I am 99.999999% sure this woman will be Mrs. Attention06. She fulfills me in ever possible way and everyday I am thank god I found her cause I am so lucky you have her..

That being said, there is a constant nagging impulse in me to screw up… something is on the inside telling me, call old girls, flirt with this girl, screw that one.. I have no idea why I have this impulse to mess up and why my conscience wants me to be out of this relationship.

I am not scared of committment, it is all I want, but there is something that is begging me to mess up. Its strange that once i find myself content with this woman… something is constantly nagging me to mess up.

Thanks for listening

By chullato

March 9, 2007 8:48 AM | Link to this

I was once a huge commitment phobic individual, even going as far to say that I would never get married. I didn’t have my first exclusive relationship until I was a junior in college and that relationship only lasted six months.

Looking back, I remember beginning every first conversation with the same statement, ‘I’m not looking for a relationship, we can hang out and see what happens.’ Essentially, I had an out before I was in.

Is there anyone out there who is totally and permanently incapable of commitment, or can everyone do it with the right factors in place? Everyone is capable of committing. I’m loyal as a republican, any of my friends can attest to that, but when it came to women I dated, the wind was easier to catch. Erykah Badu’s 4 Leaf Clover was my theme song.

I am married now and I realized that I wasn’t afraid of committing, I just didn’t want to commit to the other women.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 8:52 AM | Link to this

@attention06 it’s just a part of you(and sometimes everyone else) remember there will always be someone thats looks better..makes more money..and may have better skills than the one you are with now..You just have to realize..just like you said you are 99.999999% sure she is the one..Man up and say i will not mess this up because if you do then you will lose the one that can make you happy then you will wonder and search trying to replace that void she left…MY ADVICE DON”T fudge it up

By QC

March 9, 2007 8:59 AM | Link to this

Slim1, GA.man, Demi, Musing, BK, JustMe, Raqi, Mocha, Mo, kinderbabe, abc, Awwwwww Dayum, erry’body

enjoy the day!!!!!

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

March 9, 2007 9:07 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All

What advice would you give to someone like my friend, who is afraid of commitment simply because he hasn’t done it in a long time?

Fear of commitment. I look for answers to this one, too. I am dealing with this issue right now…in myself. As I have said before, the lady I have been seeing for the last six months is pretty near everything I have ever wanted in a mate…but after being single for so long now (almost eight years), it is hard to want to ever get married again. Oddly enough, it isn’t the desire for other women, although lately I have seemed to have a heightened awareness of ladies around me, it is more of the fear of loss of freedom. When I say this, I mean that my life is good right now, I come and go as I please, if I want to eat at 9:00 PM or 5:00 PM it is my choice, if I want to sit on the couch in my boxers and watch a ballgame and drink a Dos Equis, I do it…if I want to wait until the next day to pick up my clothes, it is my choice, and so on and so on.

The flip side is that I love waking up beside her when we can find an opportunity to get away from her kids for the night, I love her next to me when I am just puttering around the house, and I love just having her laying beside me on my couch, talking, watching a movie, just relaxing…very comfortable.

So I am facing the dilemma of the old “why buy the cow if I can have the milk for free”. Right now, I can come and go as I please, and either choice means giving up something…and most of all, I don’t EVER want to marry someone and that person and I become total strangers again down the road. Yeah its fear, pure and simple.

plenty of women who run scared at the sign of impending seriousness in a relationship.

My first relationship out of marriage was this. She and I were best friends, great lovers, etc., but I was fresh out of a marriage, totally broke from the divorce, and seemingly no long term financial future. Did she love me? I think so, but she had been divorced for a number of years when she and I started dating. She wanted to continue the “cut buddy” stuff but wanted the freedom to continue to look for a better “ride” that could support her financially (she did not say this, but I know financial security was very important to her). When I started talking about marriage, she found a way out…with her ex-husband. Oh well.

Anyway, even those of us who do not think of ourselves as ‘commitment phobics’ it is still tough to ‘jump over that broom’…because it is painful and expensive to jump back across in the other direction if things don’t work well.

By Chocolate Peach

March 9, 2007 9:09 AM | Link to this

Moaning Folks, Interesting topic. I’m peeping in for a hot moment.

@ Attention06, Lock it on Up!! Aint nothing more out here but TROUBLE.

@Chullato, It’s funny U say that cuase that’s me ALL the time looking for a way out before I even get in. KRAZY!!!

l8tr……….

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 9:15 AM | Link to this

Good morning and Happy Friday Everyone!

Is it me, or did Laney have a “special” surgery last night?

I am not afraid to commit. Really don’t have much more to say. Besides, RandyT blogged all over my space with his post. LOL! Just kidding RandyT You always bring so much to the discussions.

Attention06 Perhaps you are not afraid to commit, but rather afraid of failing in your commitment?

Have a Powerful, Productive, Prosperous and Positive Day!!!

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

Thanks goodness it is Friday. Hello All!

The only times that I took a non-committal attitude was when I was at the tail end of healing from a past relationship, but was trying to ‘get back out there’ from a dating perspective. The let’s just kick it attitude’ was my was of protecting myself because it kept me from forming expectations. So, if I person that I was seeing did not do something it was cool because I had set myself up to expect it. Therefore, there was no disappointment on my part when he did not deliver.

Now, I’m in the process of adjusting to being in a new committed relationship. When we had “the talk” I openly shared with my SO what my relationship fears were and we discussed them. Based on that conversation and the way he treats me as his woman I’m defintely all in and happy to be in that place.

By abc

March 9, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

I don’t think I’ve ever known anyone who was a commitmentphobe. I’m tempted to say your friend exhibits folly of youth, but who knows. What’s to be afraid of, outside of having to somehow get rid of a psycho beeyotch or recover from a heartless player? Oh yeah, that!

By Tater

March 9, 2007 9:23 AM | Link to this

I’m really not sure what exactly committment means in a relationship? Is it being with one person and one person only? Is it the path to marriage? I guess that I need a better definition before I can respond..

By NCgirlfromATL

March 9, 2007 9:24 AM | Link to this

Mawnin’ All!

I think the fear of commitment comes from a fear of being disappointed. Disappointment in the relationship, the person you’re with and that you don’t have a free pass to hit what just walked past you at happy hour.

For me, I used to wait for the proverbial other shoe to drop. It’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. It always happens, and can turn me away over the smallest things. I have gotten a lot better about just letting things go where they should go, and not jumping heart first into a relationship. But, it wasn’t always that way.

I’m not afraid of commitment, but I’m also not tripping over my own feet running toward the backwards white jacket!

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 9:25 AM | Link to this

Sup Blog…

@ Attention06…that impulse you get is natural and will not go away…its part of being a man…thats why i firmly believe a man wasnt created or designed to be with one woman. Its why i dont consider getting married anytime soon…its not the fear of committment..part of being a responsible man is being able to committ to things…but to say that you are going to be with one woman for the rest of your life isnt realistic to me and i dont want to live a lie..Now emotionally i could bond with one woman…but physically.

By LC

March 9, 2007 9:30 AM | Link to this

I’m always lurking, but for some reason this struck me. I am a committment phobe. So afraid of it,I don’t even think I spelled it right. It’s not that I wish I couldn’t change it, because I do. I find these great guys (and the not-so-great) and always find myself digging for reasons to end things. I’ve only been in one serious relationship (I’m 23), and even then, I picked the fights out of that one. Maybe if the right factors were in place, I could try again, or maybe i’ll play this game for awhile.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 9:31 AM | Link to this

COme on now **Seanj you don’t want ol’ boy to be 60 and his balls hanging to the floor wishing he had ol’ girl back…sometimes it is right to say enough is enough and settle down why should he pass a good woman by just to stay single and try to hit more and more pudussy…no one wants to be alone..and i feel if he lets this one go that makes him happy he might have a hard road to follow…you know Karma is bytch

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 9:33 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

HMMMMMMMMM…..

Are you afraid of commitment? If so, what are the classic signs that you’re about to bolt? Do you know where your fear stems from? Have you ever tried to fix it?

I am not afraid of commitment as much as I am settled and totally happy with my life the way it is right now. I am working on some of things I want to do for me and my son..and frankly I am not sure if I want to share my life or him with anyone right now. Signs of bolting? HMMMMM… the discussion is had upfront that this is for entertainment purposes only..if I feel it is getting beyond that then a reminder convo maybe in order. If that doesnt work then I am out completely.

Most of the guys I meet are in the same frame of mind right now..my age or older, pretty settled, not looking for anything serious.

Actually one guy readily admits that he is not “relationship ready” he does not function well in one and he is only looking to go out on occassions, enjoy good companionship and that’s that. Works for me!

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

SJ You say you don’t feel man was meant to be with one woman but it also seems that women naturally tend to want to be with just one man….That’s like having two magnets of the same fields…the harder to try to put together the more violently they appose each other. That seems like a cruel joke from the ‘Maker’. So do you feel we are naturally supposed to be a polygamistic society?

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

March 9, 2007 9:34 AM | Link to this

Tater

Is it being with one person and one person only? Is it the path to marriage?

Either/or. For me it is fear of the path to marriage (I am in a “committed relationship”), for others it could be any “committed relationship” where they are exclusive, for others it could be an emotional but not a physical commitment. All fit the criteria…

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 9:36 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All.

By bold & beautiful

March 9, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Folks….I’m one of those females who’s afraid to committ. Deep down inside i would love to have a committed relationship with that special man. It seems when i meet a man that fits most of my requirements (not all) as we grow closer, it seems that i begin to find fault or i begin to focus on their short comings. So Randyt, i can understand the way you feel, i can do as i please, the fear of giving up that so called freedom when you are so close to that committed relationship is AWSOME!!

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 9:37 AM | Link to this

at the tail end of healing from a past relationship, but was trying to ‘get back out there’ from a dating perspective. The let’s just kick it attitude’ was my was of protecting myself because it kept me from forming expectations. T-Mango That is exactly where I am right now. It would be foolish of me and unfair to the next man to rush into another commitment. I must first fully heal. I must become better, not bitter. Too many men and women live unhealed lives, floating from one relationship to the next…all in an effort to avoid the pain that is an essential part of the healing process. Congratulations on your new relationship.

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 9:43 AM | Link to this

Hello Kym. The Women of Color Film Festival is March 23-25 at Auburn Avenue Library.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 9:46 AM | Link to this

@ GA MAN it’s just a part of you(and sometimes everyone else)…you said it yourself..if its apart of you then its natural..i am not saying 06 should leave his girl…but to talk and experience other women is natural…in other countries and parts of the world men have had multiple wives for thousands of years. You are a church man…u read the old testament its in there..But i bet your preacher skips over that part…

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 9:49 AM | Link to this

* Hey E’rybody* Gotta go to a meeting (of course!) I have no clue why Friday mornings are chosen.. can a woman get a break or what for crying out loud! … Sorry… I haven’t had coffee yet (can you tell?)

Interesting topic…I’ll comment when I get back.

Heeyyyy Slim

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 9:51 AM | Link to this

Hi Jewel thanks for the information…I am going to Macon next weekend to the Cherry Blossom Fest would like to see the Tubman Museum while we are there.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 9:53 AM | Link to this

@Seanj yes i said that…but just like yousaid the preacher skipped certain parts so did you..reread my post and you will see that* i told him there will always be someone that looks better makes more money..but i did say not to fudge it up….i mean if you want to you can have 50 women..but what happens when the looks and your money are gone..because sure enough the older you get you start to lose those features that could pull a woman in a minute*….get a good woman and settle down..that all i am saying… my glass is half full so i do beleive he could be happy and why should he mess that up

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 9:54 AM | Link to this

SeanJ Looks like you are the donkey in this ‘pin the tail on the donkey’ game. It is called discipline. And double Ga.Man’s post. I am not trying to convince you otherwise; do what works for you. But, do not try to discourage another man who is happy with one woman.

By red

March 9, 2007 9:58 AM | Link to this

i agree

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

GAman & Jewel I agree….do you, but don’t try to sell the BS to others. It is about discipline and maturity.

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

March 9, 2007 9:59 AM | Link to this

Dayum this is tough

It almost seems that the farther into a relationship one is, the more temptations are thrown his way. There is a lady here in my building, I think newly divorced, who just started maybe a couple of months ago. I just ran into her in the break room and every time I see her, it is so tempting. There is some chemistry, and I know I would love to “knock the bottom out of it”. We have done a little harmless flirting (if there is such a thing really), but both know it is never a good idea to “fish off of the company pier”.

My point is that I know the interest is purely physical, and I am not willing to sacrifice what I have for “what is behind Door Number 3”, but why is it that temptation always is so strong when one is farther into a relationship?

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 10:04 AM | Link to this

Kym You will love it! I went there last summer when they had the “In Concert” exhibit. It was a photographical exhibit of various artists performing. Your son will appreciate the exhibit of the many patented inventions of African-Americans. I did not know a black man invented the super soaker!

By abc

March 9, 2007 10:06 AM | Link to this

Randyt, you’re old enough to know better… start thinking with what’s under your hat instead of what’s in your pants!

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

Jewel Dr. Lonnie Johnson is why my son wants to be an inventor(at least that is his job choice this year) He did a report on him last year and we contacted his office here in Atlanta and they sent him all kinds of articles and information on him..my son thought it was cool that this man almost blew up his mother’s kitchen a few times when he was a kid…He has been warned not to get any funny ideas.

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

March 9, 2007 10:09 AM | Link to this

abc

Yeah I know. As the lady said in “LA Law” maturity is the ability to NOT act on feelings…just need to avoid temptation…I know, abc, I know.

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:11 AM | Link to this

Good morning all!!

B&B It seems when i meet a man that fits most of my requirements (not all) as we grow closer, it seems that i begin to find fault or i begin to focus on their short comings.

I feel you. This is what I went through for a period of time, still going through as a matter of fact. Everytime I met a new guy, my friends would actually set a date by which I would have run. And it basically happened. I battle with wanting the freedom that my life has now versus the way it would be sharing my life with a man. It’s has nothing to do with being faithful, that I can do, it’s just the “forever” part that gets me. I’m getting over this though.

SeanJ Check 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1. Each mentions that male leaders be the husband of only one wife. Having multiple wives was not ordained by God. Men did this because they could and because they were greedy, the women were beautiful and they wanted them. God gave Adam one wife. He could have given him more if that was the plan, especially if He wanted them to fill the earth, but he only gave him one.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 10:12 AM | Link to this

@ GaMan & JeWel..i am not looking at it as being on some playa type thing…but more as something thats innate..So its not about money and looks..or having or maintaining either..I know most people on the blog will look at it in a moral sense..But when you look at other cultures and in history..if things werent outright polygamous a man surely could have a wife and a concubine or hand maiden and it worked. If things were like that..shiiiiiieeed..i would be marry today.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

i see GAman, jewel and sexione got it straight up in here…lol.

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

RandyT why is it that temptation always is so strong when one is farther into a relationship? It is a test of will, in my humble opinion. And like you said, acknowledgement that a three-minute thrill is not worth loosing what you have. It really points back to the title of today’s topic: I’m all in, or I’m all out. If you are not willing to remain faithful to one woman, do not selfishly stay in the relationship.

LOL! Kym Maybe you should keep him away from that exhibit. LOL!

By NCgirlfromATL

March 9, 2007 10:17 AM | Link to this

SJ You are the only guy I know that wants more than one wife!!! Most men are trying to avoid the 1 they have! LOLOL!!

SJ pulls into the garage of his crib, hearing nothing…until he opens the door and all at once SEANJOHNSON, GET YOUR AZZ IN HERE RIGHT NOW!! Not knowing which one of his wives, concubines, hand maidens, or just straight cut-buddies it was, he makes a mad dash to the car and barrels out of the garage, forgetting to open the door…only smoke and his highly p!ssed of harem are left in his wake.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

@ Foots…one thing i learned about the Bible..its a lot of contradictions in it..So please dont make that your only source of info.,,

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

March 9, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

Hey SJ

Lately I have been reading a lot in the Old Testament, when kings had multiple wives (actually as I grow older, i realize how interesting many of the ‘stories’ are in the Bible). They had many wives, and many concubines, and ultimately this weakness in King Soloman brought about the destruction of the nation of Israel. Even though he built temples to God, it was his desires that ultimately caused a whole nation to come down eventually.

I don’t say this to preach, I have toooooo many skeletons in my closet as well as t-shirts, but only to let you know that historically there is almost always a price to pay. Has culture allowed it, no doubt, but there is almost ways a price to pay.

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 10:20 AM | Link to this

@Jewel…I think that everyone that realizes how important healing is reaches that place. For me, my healing time took awhile and there were a variety of reasons for that. But, the timing is different for everyone. So, take your time… You’ll be a better you for it. Do your thing,girl:-)

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:23 AM | Link to this

SeanJ You brought up the Bible and based your argument for greed on it. If you believe there are contradictions, don’t go that route.

By abc

March 9, 2007 10:24 AM | Link to this

SJ, name ONE contradiction in the Bible.

By Tazzee

March 9, 2007 10:25 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

I wouldn’t say I’m afraid of commitment, just that I know the responsibility of commitment and I have no desire to enter into it lightly. A lot of people enter into commitments without adequately counting the costs - I know I have. So I just want to make sure I’m sure when I commit. Because I too am all the way in, when I’m in. But getting to the point of ‘being in’ will take me some time.

SeanJ Innately, I want to sleep until I can’t sleep anymore each morning. Innately, I would love to partake of a lot of fattening tasty foods. Innately, I would rather plop down on the couch and watch TV rather than workout when I get home from work… There are a lot of desires we have that we deny daily to function in life. Like some have said - its all about discipline and maturity. So if being monogamous is not important to you - don’t do it. There are some folks that give in to the innate desire to eat whatever they want and not exercise. Personally, I applaud you for recognizing that you aren’t ready to deny that You are counting the costs before the commitment. As they say ‘Do You’

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 10:26 AM | Link to this

Slim scurries to find SJ a blogvest. Looks like it might get a little hectic in here….but also hands Foots a 9mm blog gun…muah ha ha

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:29 AM | Link to this

RandyT almost always a price to pay Change that to “always a price to pay” and you are on point.

We definitely have free will to live our lives as we see fit within the bounds of our beliefs and the laws of the land. But every decision, even great ones, requires sacrifice and has consequences. ^5!

About your temptations, you can look and even fantasize, but you know you have a great thing. I agree that it’s probably more of the fear of failure that allows temptations like that to take hold of us. The thing that men have to remember is that women go through the same thing too. We don’t come pre-wired to have desire for just one person. It’s just a choice that has to be made, to choose somebody and build a life with them, or to continue to run from person to person and chase fulfillment that way.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 10:30 AM | Link to this

reading these comments makes one of the many flaws of religion surface. often times rather than use religious texts to spiritually uplift, they are used to support and validate the opinion and desires of man. remember folks, all of these texts were written by a human hand equipped with human prejudices and desires. historically, every cultural has had its great and not so great practices. the norm of the time should not always be take as the “law” regardless of its source. i would hope that we know better than just because something is widely practiced does not make it right.

anywho…hope everyone is having a great day today.:)

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:31 AM | Link to this

SlimOne Don’t instigate, gurl!! You know I loves me some SeanJ!! (sometimes) LOL!!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 10:33 AM | Link to this

Seanj i didnt say that to get all the blog bullets you’re way but come on man…if you could have a wife, a handmaid, and several other women you would be married by now…..life is hell enough with one..i mean every relationship has problems and you are asking for several problems at once…what happens when your wife wants to sleep with you but your handmaiden has worn you out….what happens when you have 5 children and 2 of your 6 women decide they want to leave and they file papers to get child support…what happens when they each want the house you live……what happens when your son falls in love with one of his sisters from your 6 wives….what happens when your ladies fall for a younger man because your viagra wont work anymore…just wondering

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 10:35 AM | Link to this

Slim the blogvests are on recall (apparently the bullet-proof lining has many holes)….hehehehehe

You are the only guy I know that wants more than one wife!!! Most men are trying to avoid the 1 they have! Guurrrll, you ain’t neva lied!!!

By bold & beautiful

March 9, 2007 10:37 AM | Link to this

@Foots, It’s a struggle. I’ve gotten better, but i still have a ways too go. I’m so close but yet so far.

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Hey Tater. Some folks say that marriage is the ultimate commitment. Really though, you can be married and not committed to that person. They are not one in the same. Think about what it means to commit to doing anything. You focus your attention on that thing and you stick with it no matter what. Commitment to me is being there and seeing things through even when you don’t want to.

By Tracy

March 9, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Hi all! I’ve been lurking arund here lately and thought this would be an interesting one to jump in on.

Italic: Have you ever been burned by someone who was commitment-phobic? What happened?

Actually I was so burned that I’m still smoking. Everything was well and he left for the fear of marriage and that he just couldn’t handle it. We had been seeing each other for well over a year but he could never let himself completely go no matter how good the relationship was or where it was heading. He wanted it earlier but when it became more real, he caved under the weight of the word commitment. He never could even look me in the eye again. What a wuss!

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 10:39 AM | Link to this

Foots I was just joking. We know it’s all love up in here!

A bird in the hand is worth TWO in the bush

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 10:41 AM | Link to this

Setting up booth to pass out FREE tails for the donkey

We have black, white, red, brown, purple and yellow! LOL!

By chullato

March 9, 2007 10:44 AM | Link to this

I have a question that stems from Foots 10:29 post.

If women have the same feelings of not wanting to be with one person, why in general terms, are women more apt to commit. I’m generalizing, but that has been my experience.

By Tazzee

March 9, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

“Really though, you can be married and not committed to that person. They are not one in the same.”

Foots - but they should be one in the same. If people really counted the costs before getting married, they would be one in the same. I think if someone isn’t ready to “… focus your attention on that thing and you stick with it no matter what. Commitment to me is being there and seeing things through even when you don’t want to.” Then they have no business being married. Marriage is the ultimate commitment - the fact that some have perverted the institution doesn’t take away from that fact.

By Laney

March 9, 2007 10:45 AM | Link to this

welcome to Tracy, LC, and any of our other lurkers who are surfacing today!

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)

March 9, 2007 10:47 AM | Link to this

Now Slim

A bird in the hand is worth TWO in the bush

How about both hands in the bush? LOL

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 10:48 AM | Link to this

Off topic…

It is one of those cloudy, slow, make-you-wanna-go-to-sleep kind of days…..I can barely take it….and it’s not even lunchtime!!! Dang!

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:50 AM | Link to this

Have you ever been burned by someone who was commitment-phobic? What happened?

My goodness, yes!! I was friends with a guy for several years. We had our starts and stops, basically because we’d get close and he’d pull away. I went on about my business with us maintaining some semblance of a friendship and I had relationships with other people, although my feelings for him were just as strong as they always were.

He came around again and I refused his advances for 6 months before we became a real couple. Fast forward five months: he told me one day that he would never go anywhere. Two weeks later, he was gone. We have not spoken since that day nearly two years ago, though he did text me once a few months ago to see how life was for me and he asks our mutual friends about me often.

I was heartbroken for a long time, but I blame myself mostly because he’d never been able to commit to anything. Cars, jobs, careers, homes, schools…nothing. His friends even told me later about how he never was able to stick with one thing for long. I shouldn’t have been surprised that he could not commit to a relationship. Maybe the right woman for him will be the cure for his phobia.

By Tater

March 9, 2007 10:53 AM | Link to this

Foots Commitment to me is being there and seeing things through even when you don’t want to

I really don’t like the “what if” game but here it goes. What if only one of you is committed to the relationship? The goal is to always find your ideal partner who is as committed as you are. I can only speak for myself, but I was committed in a relationship for many, many years (see RandyT’s shirts) but that committment did not flow the other way.

My point here is this. Can you be committed in a relationship with all the till death do us part, etc., without having that piece of paper telling you so? Would you be comfortable with that or is this something that women really want after a committed courtship?

I have several friends and distant family members who have been committed for more than 20 years without being married. Is marriage the means to an end?

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 10:55 AM | Link to this

Like some have said - its all about discipline and maturity.… off topic I don’t know what the hell happened to my discipline and maturity last night. I didn’t come home until 6:00 am. Wifey is p**. I slept for an hour, made it to work, conducted two meetings flawlessly, just sat down in my office and feel like I’m about to earl on this keyboard. I’m way too old for this shyt. I’m truly in the dog house.

By Foots

March 9, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

chullato It’s not the “not wanting to be with one person”, it’s that I have the ability to desire another person. Example: My man is fine, but will another dude turn my head? Yep. Will I wonder what it would be like to kiss another attractive man? Sure. Will I ACT on it? I hope not.

I’m just saying that to be greedy and to want your cake and eat it too is human frailty and not specific to any one gender.

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 10:56 AM | Link to this

Randyt How about both hands in the bush? LOL Sounds you’re all tied up then aren’t cha? lol At least if you had one great bird in one hand, your other hand is free to nurture or do what it pleases. Two hands in the bush is a juggling act especially when you have no earthly idea what the h3ll is even in the bush. lmao

I’m sure Musing could come up with a great skit on digging in the bush.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 10:58 AM | Link to this

Dushawn what in the hell were you doing till 6 in the morning…..and please dont tell me you were listening to that song bout atl…you know the one where jermaine dupree does the hook….we dont come home till 6 in the morning….come on slim help me out witht the song lolololol

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:00 AM | Link to this

I have to inject a little humor here..

As you are aware, ships have long been characterized as being female (e.g., “Steady as she goes” or “She’s listing to starboard, Captain!”)

Recently, a group of computer scientists (all males) announced that computers should also be referred to as being female. Their reasons for drawing this conclusion follow:

Five reasons to believe computers are female:

By NCgirlfromATL

March 9, 2007 11:01 AM | Link to this

deflecting a few of the blog bullets from SJ for a minute

The truth is (IMO), we all look and wonder, no matter how good our current relationship is. I think the question is, is the relationship you’re currently in worth losing, just so you can satisfy that urge to get with someone else? For some people, it is. For those people, they probably weren’t committed to the relationship in the first place. All SJ is saying (I hope I’m getting this right) is that he’s upfront with his intentions. He’s going to follow his urges. While I don’t agree with his assessment that men are naturally wired to be polyamorous, I do think that men are hard wired to be the hunters. Whether that is for food, supplies, predators or prey, I think men are more likely to be easily distracted by a pretty doe than a woman. But, as Ga.Man said, it’s a choice. Do you have enough at home to keep you from needing to go out and hunt, or is home not satisfying? And for some, is it possible that what you’ve got at home will never be satisfying? While I might not agree with everything SJ has said, I think he’s made a good decision not to get married anytime soon. At least he’s not going to bring that kind of drama to a relationship.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

@ abc…you are a smart dude…i know u read it…so u know its more than ONE contradiction so you could name one.. i am sure. I have some highlighted in my Bible. But this isnt the place/platform to thoroughly debate something like that…Most people arent openminded enough and are sensitve about their particular beliefs..

@ Foots, Slim, GaMan, and Jewel…yall know i dont wear vests…and i carry twin blog glocks…

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 11:03 AM | Link to this

Blog song for SeanJ “Stiched Up”

Where is Musing…

By Foots

March 9, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

Tater Sure, you can be committed without legal marriage, if that’s what works for you. It’s a choice that you make in your heart and mind anyway. It’s not like the day before the wedding, the couple isn’t committed, then bam, the second they say “I do” the committment shows up. There are benefits of having that paper though, but I know they will be disputed, so I won’t go there. Would I be comfortable with a man saying that he is committed to me, but refused to make the committment official? No.

It is painful when you are committed to someone and you realize that they are not committed to you. But your committment is a personal choice and you make that choice knowing that there are no guarantees when it comes to another person. Relationships are always risky that way.

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 11:05 AM | Link to this

GA.man & Dushawn

Welcome to Atlanta where the playas play And we ride on them things like every day Big beats, hit streets, see gangsta’s roamin’ And parties dont stop til’ eight(six) in the mornin’

By Laney

March 9, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

welcome to Tracy, LC, and any of our other lurkers who are surfacing today!

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:06 AM | Link to this

However, another group of computer scientists, (all female) think that computers should be referred to as if they were male. Their reasons follow:

Five reasons to believe computers are male:

By abc

March 9, 2007 11:07 AM | Link to this

Sexione, not to pour water on your joke, but as technologist, I can say that:

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 11:08 AM | Link to this

GAMAN pulls out his blog shot gun….bam bam bam@Seanj bam bam bam bam bam bam bam bambam bam reloading bam bam bam bam bam bam bam reloading bam bam bam bam reloading ….bam bam Seanj falls down due to all the blog bullets that were shot his way….now which wife will come get you…lolololol which ione will put the hospital bill on thier insurance…lololololol

By binford

March 9, 2007 11:10 AM | Link to this

When I give myself to a relationship, I don’t hold back - so it takes me a bit to get to the point where I will expose myself like that. Before I would be “all-in” I have to “hedge my bet” that this person is worthy of getting a huge step closer to my core. That hand better be strong …ya FEEL ME?

I do find it funny that in my experience, the women I dated wanted the exclusive girlfriend title so soon, while I prefer to one day be dating (in other words, it’s something that one day, you just realize - and not somebody asking for something.) and in time become a couple. Just seems to work best that way for me.

The point is is that everyone moves at different speeds and that can be a problem when one is 5 mile markers up the road - if you are the first one at that spot, be a little patient and give the slower vehicle some time to catch up. Slower traffic keep to the right :)

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:11 AM | Link to this

abc you’re taking it too serious, bruh, it’s just a joke. So much for not attempting to pour water….but it’s all good! talk about a sourpuss

By abc

March 9, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 11:12 AM | Link to this

thanks slim..love the song just dont know the words….lol

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

Shining 10-foot flashlight into SeanJ’s face, aka the fool who needs to be committed…I mean the commitment phobia man. LOL!

Where is Musing…

By Icey

March 9, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

Hey u all….I would seem to be afraid because whenever I meet a guy & he starts talking serious I find ways to try & mess things up….& these are usually what people would probably consider to be good guys…maybe thats the problem….lol..

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

@JeWel & GaMan…stitched up???…I am 57-0…no losses.. no ties… regarding discipline and maturity level…you are only as strong as your tempation…not just regarding the opposite sx…but in general.

By abc

March 9, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

Sorry, I was participating in the Wooten blog, and it made me cranky. I should know better than to hang out in that rat’s nest.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 11:16 AM | Link to this

foots i like your comment about there being no guarantee. that is so true. with anything in life, you have to do it b/c you want to. when someone else is involved there is no 100% just like you said. it’s so crazy regarding commitments we talk ourselves into something bad and talk ourselves out of something good. go figure!

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 11:19 AM | Link to this

Sexione Actually, I think ABC’s comebacks were rather humorous…

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 11:20 AM | Link to this

Slim now taking cover from all the spray of the shotgun

SeanJ You may need to start using those twin glocks…wait, are you sure you know how to use them? lol

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

GAMAN &Jewel sneak up behind seanj and undo his stiches…..now all the memories start to pour out of his body…..now seanj is 57-1 everyone loses every now and then

in the words of my girl SLIM Muahh hahahahhahah (evil laugh)

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:21 AM | Link to this

abc I saw you over there…I joined in a time or two also (One), but as you said…it can make you cranky. You have to stick and move, stick and move. lol Those folks are cutthroat!!! Obama in ‘08!!!

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 11:22 AM | Link to this

abc Have you not learned by now Wooten and Mike L’s blog not exactly good place to engage in any rational convo?

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:25 AM | Link to this

Jewel Yeah, they were kinda funny, but he was too serious…it was just a joke (and not even one I wrote). Like I said, it’s all good though….my skin is very thick!!

Foots I agree about there being no guarantee. I gave a whole h3ll of a lot to a relationship for many yrs., always tried to do right, was true ride or die chick. Many years later I realized I did the right things, just for the wrong person. It’s a crapshoot, sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. Chalk it up to the game, and keep it moving!!

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 11:28 AM | Link to this

Well SeanJ That puts you 19,943 behind Wilt Chamberlain…

By will c

March 9, 2007 11:32 AM | Link to this

Morning All, I like this topic. The first question I can relate to.

Are you afraid of commitment? I am guilty. Whenever I dated a nice girl who I thought would make a wonderful wife, I would do something to mess it up. I’m guilty of being selfish, spending too much time in the strip clubs, and hanging out with the fellas. I was always looking for someone hotter to replace what I had at home.

*If so, what are the classic signs that you’re about to bolt?

The classic signs that I’m about to bolt are when I stop returning calls in a timely fashion, stop trying to make a for the evening but instead call for a booty call late in the evening, and spending too much time with the fellas.

Do you know where your fear stems from? My fear probably comes from some unresolved issues I experienced as a youth. My parents divorced when I was 8 and my father did not play an active role in my life after that. So I never really saw how my father related to my mother in a married relationship.

Have you ever tried to fix it? No, I haven’t tried to fix it, I just run from relationship to relationship. I keep thinking the grass is greener on the other side.

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By Jewel

March 9, 2007 11:34 AM | Link to this

Time out! Time out! SeanJ Your women really have you confused…“Stitched Up” is a song by Herbie Hancock w/ John Mayer about a man who refuses to be committed to one woman.

Sexione I thought he was being his regular cranky self. LOL!

By abc

March 9, 2007 11:36 AM | Link to this

Why computers are better than women:

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 11:37 AM | Link to this

Jewel Here I am….Said while slapping the butts of the blog Ladies as I enter the room

Musing now beaten in the middle of the room by everyone whos booty he touched.

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

i am not looking at it as being on some playa type thing…but more as something thats innate..-@SeanJ

I’ve heard this statement from a few men. I’ve always felt that the “its’innate” viewpoint was weak. To me, it is a huge generalization and something that some men use to justify thinking and acting with the wrong head. It’s a cop out that is used to absolve themselves from taking responsibility for their actions.

Personally, I have had a man tell me that the reason that he cheated on me was simply because “He was a man”. WTF?? So… being apart of the male gender means that natural urgings cannot be controlled and he must be with more than one woman? That’s BS…

Now… there are men out there that have “Akon Syndrome” and desire to be polygamists. These men couldn’t hold this position if there were not women willing to be down with it. So, it is a matter of supply and demand as well.

On a larger scale, with the rise in HIV/AIDS in our community I think it behooves us to be more selective in our intimate choices and put all of this polygamy, swinging and “hit it and quit it” shyt on pause even if it is scientifically proven at some later date that the inclination to have multiple partners is part of the genetic makeup of a man.

The ratios in the ATL mat be 12:1, but numbers would be drastically different if you removed those that were infected and did not know it. So, keep that possibility in mind also when those “urgings” kick in…What if that person was infected? Is it worth the risk?… Real talk…

Back to Lurksville…

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 11:38 AM | Link to this

o.k. abc we get it!!

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

@ Jewel…get your mind out of the gutter…57-0 doesnt pertain to sxual partners.

@ Slim..are you trying to be funny??? lol..dont make me come over there and kick you in your azz with a pointy toe boot..lol

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

abc Computers can’t get wet.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:39 AM | Link to this

How to speak about women … and be politically correct:

• She is not a BABE or a CHICK - She is a BREASTED AMERICAN.

• She is not a SCREAMER or MOANER - She is VOCALLY APPRECIATIVE.

• She is not EASY - She is HORIZONTALLY ACCESSIBLE.

• She does not TEASE or FLIRT - She engages in ARTIFICIAL STIMULATION.

• She is not DUMB - She is a DETOUR OFF THE INFORMATION SUPERHIGHWAY.

• She has not BEEN AROUND - She is a PREVIOUSLY ENJOYED COMPANION.

• She does not GET YOU EXCITED - She causes TEMPORARY BLOOD DISPLACEMENT.

• She is not KINKY - She is a CREATIVE CARETAKER.

• She does not have a KILLER BODY - She is TERMINALLY ATTRACTIVE.

• She is not an AIRHEAD - She is REALITY IMPAIRED.

• She does not get DRUNK or TIPSY - She gets CHEMICALLY INCONVENIENCED.

• She is not HORNY - She is SEXUALLY FOCUSED.

• She does not have BREAST IMPLANTS - She is MEDICALLY ENHANCED.

• She does not NAG YOU - She becomes VERBALLY REPETITIVE.

• She is not a S_UT - She is SEXUALLY EXTROVERTED.

• She does not have MAJOR LEAGUE HOOTERS - She is PECTORALLY SUPERIOR.

• She is not a TWO BIT WH_RE - She is a LOW COST PROVIDER.

By MsUnderstood aka MsU

March 9, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

Hello Crew!!

Kym i am feeling your 9:36 post. Sexione i am feeling your early post also. I have am so focus in my kids/Career that i don’t have time for the relationship thing. I don’t want to commit to someone right now. On top of that i just look at how miserable my friends who are in relationship are and all the energy they used to keep there relationship going. Plus i am happy in the state i’m in!!1

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 11:41 AM | Link to this

Randyt I tried sticking two hands in a chicks bush once….It was kind’of like hiking a football.

By Mo

March 9, 2007 11:44 AM | Link to this

Morning All: Kinderbabe, Mocha, SlimOne, Sexione, GAMan, Tater, SJ, ChocoPeach, Jewel, QC, Randyt, Foots, and anybody else I forgot (it wasnt on purpose!!

WHEW!! I will have to play catch up and then comment. SJ are you okay? I see the blog bullets are flying today!!

NCGirl Thanks again!

By NCgirlfromATL

March 9, 2007 11:47 AM | Link to this

I tried sticking two hands in a chicks bush once….It was kind’of like hiking a football.

I was waiting for this….LMAO!!! Musing shoots…he scoooores!!

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

Hey e’rybody.. haven’t had a chance to read through all the posts in my haste to write what happened to my best friend many years ago. We were preparing for her wedding, it was 2 nites before the big day. We had just left the wedding rehearsal, chillin at a friends house, when all of a sudden, we got a call from her fiance, who said he “wasn’t sure”… I can’t begin to tell you what ensued.. pandemonium to say the least.

Bottom line, my friend ended up speaking with her fiance outside, privately. I’m not sure what was said in the convo, but the wedding did take place 2 days later.

We never talked about.. as I think she was just mortified, embarressed, etc..

Derrick, sitting at his desk, suddenly keels over. Unbeknownst to him, he was the target of a long range blog missle launched by the best friend that never forgot what he did… Jerk!

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 11:50 AM | Link to this

@ Jewel…my bad..i never heard that song…i was going to DL JMayer on the ipod…but she is sick…:(

@Mo i am fine..thanks for asking…although i may need a back massage later…

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 11:51 AM | Link to this

NC shoots and scores is basketball not football…and speaking of football

Has anyone gone to see the Atlanta Explosion play? They are a full contact all women football team.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 11:54 AM | Link to this

T-Mango very good points. To add to that just a tad…condoms are not always the answer (I know this would be the defense to avoiding STDs). What if by some small chance the condom broke, or had a pinsized hole. Is it worth the risk? Of course not!! sho nuff real talk

Heeyyy Musing we’ve been waiting for you!!

abc hahahahaha

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

NC shoots and scores is basketball not football…and speaking of football

Has anyone gone to see the Atlanta Explosion play? They are a full contact all women football team.

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 11:57 AM | Link to this

Kym, There’s only one kind of “Full Contact” I want to see Women play…And it would involve them all being nekeddedd.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 11:58 AM | Link to this

what it be like, musing?? :)

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 12:01 PM | Link to this

Hey kinderbabe! How are you.

Now placing bowl of milk outside front door and sneaking back inside

Tippytow on’a hammystyle

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

How to speak about men … and be politically correct:

• He does not have a BEER GUT - He has developed a LIQUID GRAIN STORAGE SYSTEM.

• He is not a BAD DANCER - He is OVERLY CAUCASIAN.

• He does not GET LOST ALL THE TIME - He INVESTIGATES ALTERNATIVE DESTINATIONS

• He is not BALDING - He is in FOLLICLE REGRESSION.

• He is not a CRADLE ROBBER - He prefers GENERATIONALLY DIFFERENTIAL RELATIONSHIPS.

• He does not act like a TOTAL ARSE - He develops a case of RECTAL-CRANIAL INVERSION.

• He is not a SEX MACHINE - He is ROMANTICALLY AUTOMATED.

• He is not a MALE CHAUVINIST PIG - He has SWINE EMPATHY.

• He is not afraid of COMMITMENT - He is MONOGAMOUSLY CHALLENGED.

• He does not UNDRESS YOU WITH HIS EYES - He has an INTROSPECTIVE GRAPHIC MOMENT.

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 12:05 PM | Link to this

Musing I am looking at the website now… most of the ladies are pretty short 5’2-5’5 but the DL has a lady 6’0 260..I think we may have to go take in a game price is reasonable..heck I need a home football team to support and they “won” their league last year. I could take my niece.

By Jake

March 9, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

What up Blog:

I’m late SeanJ, but you’ ve got back up. Everyone has made some good points, but SJ is on to something. It is only here in Western society that monogamy is so engrained into the culture. Men do have a natural desire to love many women. It requires a level of discipline to be with one woman. Maturity has nothing to do with it, its a decision, one that some don’t want to make.

I’m not sure who wrote this, but whats the logic here:

it’s so crazy regarding commitments we talk ourselves into something bad and talk ourselves out of something good. go figure!

That comment was preceeded by this:

with anything in life, you have to do it b/c you want to. when someone else is involved there is no 100%

So how the hellz can we make an assumption of what is good and bad when its dependent on the actions of another.

You can’t talk out of both sides of your neck…its not fair…LOL

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 12:12 PM | Link to this

@DuShawn.. umm, I’m sitting here waiting.. why did you get in a 6 AM?????

@WillC “I keep thinking the grass is greener on the other side.”…. No, it’s all an illusion, meant to entice. It’s actually brown, weedy and needs to be mowed..

@RandyT What if your SO (the one you’ve been seeing for a while) wants to get married???

By QueDogTeaching

March 9, 2007 12:13 PM | Link to this

What up Blog Said while speed lurking.

@Randy T What was her verbal reason for why she went back to her ex.

@Jewel That is something to be said about the fear of failure. Is that why we throw away the good one but will deal with a person who continually messes up for years.

I have seen it for years in one of my boys, if everything is going good he will do SOMETHING. It doesn’t matter what, just as long as it leads to a fight. Then he will spend the next two weeks trying to straighten it out. It is a cycle.

Blog Question Why be in a serious, committed, relationship and not want it to lead to marriage.

By Mo

March 9, 2007 12:14 PM | Link to this

SJ Back massage…from all the blog bullets skimmin you huh?

Hey Musing & T-Mango!!

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 12:16 PM | Link to this

Kym I saw them on GoodDay Atlanta once, and they really seemed to enjoy playing. However, as a Man I enjoy full speed football. And watching Women run at 2mph, just isn’t exciting to me.

Just say I have Swine Empathy….thanks Sexieone.

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

Musing Yes you do have Swine Empathy..simply because they are women you dont think they can play football? Shame….

By Tater

March 9, 2007 12:19 PM | Link to this

Blog Question Why be in a serious, committed, relationship and not want it to lead to marriage.

Because all the piece of paper does is change people who decide after X number of years in a marriage(insert time period here) that its not exactly what they were expecting and want out. That’s when it gets ugly.

Why not be committed and if things don’t work out down the road you can split amicably. If the committed relationship works out that is super.

Speaking for Tater… I have no desire to ever get married again. I would desire to have a committed relationship though. I just don’t believe that a piece of paper is going to change how committed I am to that person.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 12:20 PM | Link to this

everything is good musing thanks for asking.:)

jake part of your post referred to comments that i made. i was commenting on the array of posts/comments that had gone on early today. the first part that you referred to was w/my agreement to comments made by foots regarding nothing being guaranteed. the second part was my feelings on how folks generally respond to relationships…talking themselves into not so good (bad) situations and talking themselves out of ideal or “good” situations. if you noticed our topic started out as commitment phobia. my second comment was based on that. you can easily decide if something is good for you or not. it’s called intuition and it’s not based on another person. hope this has given you more clarity. see what happens when you read to fast??? lol.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

everything is good musing thanks for asking.:)

jake part of your post referred to comments that i made. i was commenting on the array of posts/comments that had gone on early today. the first part that you referred to was w/my agreement to comments made by foots regarding nothing being guaranteed. the second part was my feelings on how folks generally respond to relationships…talking themselves into not so good (bad) situations and talking themselves out of ideal or “good” situations. if you noticed our topic started out as commitment phobia. my second comment was based on that. you can easily decide if something is good for you or not. it’s called intuition and it’s not based on another person. hope this has given you more clarity. see what happens when you read too fast??? lol.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

everything is good musing thanks for asking.:)

jake part of your post referred to comments that i made. i was commenting on the array of posts/comments that had gone on early today. the first part that you referred to was w/my agreement to comments made by foots regarding nothing being guaranteed. the second part was my feelings on how folks generally respond to relationships…talking themselves into not so good (bad) situations and talking themselves out of ideal or “good” situations. if you noticed our topic started out as commitment phobia. my second comment was based on that. you can easily decide if something is good for you or not. it’s called intuition and it’s not based on another person. hope this has given you more clarity. see what happens when you read too fast??? lol.

By Mo

March 9, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

SJ Back massage…from all the blog bullets skimmin you huh?

Hey Musing & T-Mango!!

By jeremy

March 9, 2007 12:22 PM | Link to this

QueDogTeaching

Blog Question Why be in a serious, committed, relationship and not want it to lead to marriage.

Simple, because money is involved. I’ve know plenty of friends who got cleaned out by their wives. When you get married, its a legal “partnership” when the scale is slanted for the female. If you were married and lost your behind in a divorce settlement - I’m sure you wouldn’t rush back to have it again.

and there you have it.

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 12:24 PM | Link to this

Kym I didn’t say I don’t think they can play. I’m saying they don’t play fast enough…LOLOLOL

What happens if a receiver gets open 45yards down field….Will she have to come back cause the quarterback can only throw 20?

By Tater

March 9, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Blog Question Why be in a serious, committed, relationship and not want it to lead to marriage.

Because all the piece of paper does is change people who decide after X number of years in a marriage(insert time period here) that its not exactly what they were expecting and want out. That’s when it gets ugly.

Why not be committed and if things don’t work out down the road you can split amicably. If the committed relationship works out that is super.

Speaking for Tater… I have no desire to ever get married again. I would desire to have a committed relationship though. I just don’t believe that a piece of paper is going to change how committed I am to that person.

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 12:25 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo!

Hey QC!

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 12:27 PM | Link to this

You know what happens when I get wrapped up in a topic of interest …

Called Hubby.. “Baby, I know we’ve been married a long time, but do you think we are committed to making this marriage work?”… (I knew I’d get crickets and tumbleweeds).. “Ling.. are you blogging again?” … “um..well .. uh.. gotta go.. I have a training class to prepare for..”.. click…

By Tater

March 9, 2007 12:29 PM | Link to this

Blog Question Why be in a serious, committed, relationship and not want it to lead to marriage.

Because all the piece of paper does is change people who decide after X number of years in a marriage(insert time period here) that its not exactly what they were expecting and want out. That’s when it gets ugly.

Why not be committed and if things don’t work out down the road you can split amicably. If the committed relationship works out that is super.

Speaking for Tater… I have no desire to ever get married again. I would desire to have a committed relationship though. I just don’t believe that a piece of paper is going to change how committed I am to that person.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 12:30 PM | Link to this

Musing YOU READY

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 12:34 PM | Link to this

Seanj walks in on one of his 10 women…Gaman and Musing look at each other in shock to see QDT there

Seanj: what are you doing? **Wife#2: you have more than one..so can i

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

QDT “Blog Question Why be in a serious, committed, relationship and not want it to lead to marriage.”

now handing you the purple and gold blog trophy for asking a very poignant question

By chullato

March 9, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

@jeremy & tater Common law marriages are recognized by most states. Even if you do not marry, you partner may still be entitled to a percentage. If you are not living together, you are fine. Otherwise, they can still take half, man or woman.

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 12:36 PM | Link to this

Linguist “umm, I’m sitting here waiting.. why did you get in a 6 AM?????” That’s the same question Wifey is going to ask when I walk in the door this evening. My answer will be “…..No excuse…..Stupidity…..I apologize….I didn’t fck anyone and turned down some head. That’s the truth. Baby, I love you…fix me something to eat…I’m tired as shyt….I need to lay down”* That will be the end of the conversation for me, but it will take at least a week of being superdaddy/husband to get this back right. She’s madder than a mutha fugga.

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 12:37 PM | Link to this

Mr. Swine Empathy Musing So now we get the real you think because the QB is female she cant throw..Good grief are we still living in the 19th century? Expand your mind there fair Southside High.

By Tater

March 9, 2007 12:38 PM | Link to this

chukkato Common law marriages are recognized by most states Not in GA anymore.

By Tater

March 9, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

chullato Common law marriages are recognized by most states Not in GA anymore.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 12:39 PM | Link to this

Flowers Dushawn..candy take her out to eat..wash her feet do the clothes…wash the dishes and clean the house

By Mo

March 9, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

DuShawn 6AM!! Oh you gots to tell WTH you were doing? I am with wifey on this one!

HEEEEY QDT (wink)

GAMan & Musing could one of ya’ll open the Blog Bar so we can cool this blog off some?! Its getting heavy up in here for a Friday!!!

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 12:40 PM | Link to this

Hey Mo!

MusingLee-What’s up? Will you be anchoring in the newsroom today? (lol)

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

Blog bar is open…dayuuummm where is Justme to run thangs for me…oh well Slim you got the bar until justme comes

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 12:42 PM | Link to this

Justin Is that you masked as Jeremy??? LOL!

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 12:43 PM | Link to this

GA.man I’m always ready! LOLOLOLOL. Now strapping on customized blog vest

Dushawn, Man take your Lady to shoe shopping…That’ll kill all that noise…At least until bedtime. LOLOLOLOL

2 in the morning, Dushawn deep in sleep. awaking to find wifey standing over him with a pillow

D’s Wifey: OK, now where the hellz were you….And who offer you head m/f?!?!?!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 12:44 PM | Link to this

Music playing Welcome to the six o’clock news We have a devloping story with one of atlanta top businessman…Musing is on the scene..what we have so far is that Seanj is inside with his 10 women…Musing can you give us an update

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 12:47 PM | Link to this

DuShawn LOL! I caught myself in wife mode when I asked you that! Just from my perspective.. If all is well in a relationship.. meaning there’s no history of adultery, foolishness, etc.. we tend to worry if our SO is okay There’s nothing worse than having catastrophic expectations .. was he in an accident? Is he in the hospital and can’t call me?, etc… Once he walks through that door, physcially unencumbered he’s suseptible to a whole ‘lotta rage… worrying is a bytch

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 12:49 PM | Link to this

What would happen if men got pregant

• Maternity leave would last two years….with full pay.

• There would be a cure for stretch marks.

• Natural childbirth would become obsolete.

• Morning sickness would rank as the nation’s #1 health problem.

• All methods of birth control would be 100% effective.

• Children would be kept in the hospital until toilet trained.

• Men would be eager to talk about commitment.

• They wouldn’t think twins were so cute.

• Sons would have to be home from dates by 10:00 PM.

• Breifcases would be used as diaper bags.

• Paternity suits would be a fashion line of clothes.

• They’d stay in bed during the entire pregnancy.

• Restaurants would include ice cream and pickles as main entree’s.

• Women would rule the world.

By AnchorMan MusingLee

March 9, 2007 12:51 PM | Link to this

Hello I’m MusingLee,

I’m here at an upscale Atlanta neighborhood where police say a Man by the name of SeanJ was by his 10 wives….Crime investigators say that SeanJ was beaten so severely that he ishhhed on himself. Apparently all 10 wives play football for the Atlanta Explosion. Reports state that he tried to run away, but was caught from behind by “Sticky Hands Mable” and dragged back into the house where he was then kicked in the ballz by “Left Foot Sally”. I’ll have more of this story as it unfolds.

Back to the news desk.

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 12:52 PM | Link to this

OH PLEASE!!! Everyone, like DuShawn said my answer will be…It is not what he said, it is what he did not say. No married man has a valid reason to stay out until 6am w/o his wife having prior knowledge. And, it is not only about whether or not he cheated…he could have been hurt in an accident…no cell phone handy?

By QueDogTeaching

March 9, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

@ Jewel your 9:43 post How did you find out about something like the film fest.

By Jake

March 9, 2007 12:53 PM | Link to this

Dayum kinder, I saw it first time, you didn’t have to triple post it. Yes, I did see that the topic was commitment phobes, I don’t think men have a phobia, we just committed to ourselves first, and sometimes self says a lot of stuff to you:

Self: have a lot of friends, one piece of azz ain’t enough for you.

You: I think I found someone who can fufill my needs

Self: Are you serious?

You: Yea, I’m getting out the game.

Self: Good luck crazy azz, you’ll be back, see you later.

Months down the line

Self: Hey man, how you doing, I told you that I would see you again, shawty who work with us fine azz hell.

You: I’m cool

Self: No you’re not, main thang been nagging us to death, ain’t what it used to be, go get us that “puddy”

You: Yea, you right, fugg that.

(Flirt, hook-up wit chick from work, hit it)

Self: I told you so, dumb azz, now we gonna lose the good thang at home

You: But, you said go get us the “puddy”

Self: Yea, but why listen to me stupid

You: Cause we the same person you azzwhole.

Sometimes you can’t keep yourself from being yourself.…LOL

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 12:57 PM | Link to this

Dushawn How many times did you repeat the phrases “What had happen was…” or “I am a grown-a* man I dont have to check in..”

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 12:59 PM | Link to this

GA.man Um, I’ll need For Real or someone else to tend bar for a while. My hands are tied at my other job right now. But I will give everyone a complimentary shot of Patron for any inconvenience on this Friday.

By QC

March 9, 2007 1:02 PM | Link to this

have a great weekend Bloggers

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

LMAOooo @ Jake. LOLOLOLOLOL

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:03 PM | Link to this

Welcome back to the news desk I’m Your co-Anchor along with Musing lee

A follow up to our lead story…Wifemaster Seanj is at Grady they are proferoming emergency surgery to remove a 4” heel shoe from his body Musing is at Grady with an update…”Musing” so what’s the latest…..

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:05 PM | Link to this

Ok Ok Jewel…Jake…Qc…Dr. kym..Mo anyone want to run the bar we are following this top story and i cant get there right now

By QueDogTeaching

March 9, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

Randy T On your 9:59 post Don’t do it. Leave the work place “Hit” alone. And definitely don’t “Hit” more than one. You will be standing between two women on your b-day, in an IHOP parking lot, while they argue over who is going to take you home because you are too drunk to drive. (True Story)

Also never “Hit” a neighbor. You will look out your bedroom window because you are wondering where your girl is and you neighbor will be in your driveway having a heart to heart spilling the beans session with her. (Also a true story, twice)

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 1:06 PM | Link to this

QueDog I am on the email distribution list.

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 1:07 PM | Link to this

DuShawn…A married man stumbling in at 6AM on a Thursday night and was not with his wife? Hmmph. You may need to go home early with a bouquet of your wife’s favorite flowers and one of those Blue Mountain cards.

That is…if the locks haven’t been changed at your house already and your clothes aren’t waiting for you on the porch…

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 1:12 PM | Link to this

GaMan You did not like my “Nice & Healthy” nonalcoholic bar.

Kym Yeah, he said it…under his breath…

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 1:13 PM | Link to this

Gaman Ummm.. have you heard of multi-tasking? We women do it all the time.

Now, back away from the newsdesk and open the %^%$#@! bar!!!!!!!!!!!

now in my sweet silky I’m too sexy for myself voice… with a hint of purring… “GAMan, can I get a courvy please?? straight - no ice”

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 1:16 PM | Link to this

Jewel Have you gone to Horizons Theatre over in Little 5 Points?..I saw 3 Sistas there last year..going to a few more shows this year. 3plays 45.00 cant beat it.

By AnchorMan MusingLee

March 9, 2007 1:17 PM | Link to this

I am outside Grady right now where it appears that a second set of ten wives have shown up, bring the total to 20. They claim to be SeanJ’s second set. One Woman I spoke with says that if SeanJ ever wakes up from his coma, she’s going to put her foot up his’azz.

That’s the word here.

Musing end telecast and immediately starts divorcing his many wives to set them free

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:18 PM | Link to this

Ok you are right jewel..no healthy stuff here….

ok the bar is self serve until Justme gets here …name your drink and it is here for you please mark down everything you drink ok

Here Linguist double shot because you asked so nicely

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:21 PM | Link to this

Seanj wakes up from comma and now is on the Dr Kym show……..along with Musing and his 10 ex wives

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 1:22 PM | Link to this

Jake Hey sweetie. I have to ask…so what you are saying is that most men have multiple personalitites? lol inside your head dude and outside your head dude

Linguist Gurl, you know they can’t multi-task….lol

DuShawn Why do you all always have to go and f’ck up when things are sailing right along……and what is so important in the streets? Some folks will never learn

By Jake

March 9, 2007 1:25 PM | Link to this

Dayum QDT, you didn’t have any shame id you…the neighbor…LMAO

You right about the workplace hit, but me is guilty, on several occassions. We do it because its the easiest, the workplace hi is dangerous causes she see you on a daily, knows your personality, a usually really like you= recipe for drama where you make your doughnuts, always a bad move, but I couldn’t stop myself.

Randy
I have my hands on the side of my head making devil horns,

“do it, you know you want to get her, do it, do it, do it”….HEHEHEHHEHE

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 1:26 PM | Link to this

DuShawn I have a better question…..how would you feel if your wife stayed out all night, came in at 6am like it was no big deal?

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:27 PM | Link to this

oh Sexione you owe me another shirt cleaning for yesterday…..you are not right….lol

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 1:28 PM | Link to this

Sexione Why you gotta go and turn stuff around? Huh? Why you asking those kinds of questions? LOLOLOL

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:33 PM | Link to this

He know he(dushawn) messed up and boy did he do it in a bad way…lol it’s time for reflection and healing..lolol (remember the titans)…..you need to figure out what you need to do to get back in the house

By Chill

March 9, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

What’s up everyone? I’m a longtime Lurker and this blog is exactly what I’m going thru now. I have always been a commitment phobe, plus I enjoy the casual dating thing way too much. Anyway I’m 26 and can’t count on less than one hand how many relationships I’ve been in, better yet being involved to the point where “I’m all in”(Never). Currently involved with a great girl now but still coming to grips with the loss of freedom to holla at other females. I’ve never cheated, but I’m increasingly getting more open to it, plus she’s not my wife. I know a lot of females probably won’t agree, but I believe a guy can have a physical relationship with a female and still care deeply about and want to be with his girlfriend. Now marriage is different. If you make that commitment before your family and god then you should honor it but until then…free game.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

GAman we’re up to what 2,3,4 now? awwwwdayyuumm!! (Where is Awwww….Daayyyuummm?)

Musing you know that little monster named karma, right? lol At least I hadn’t thrown in the part where she tells him that she turned down some candy licking..hehehehe

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 1:36 PM | Link to this

Kym No, I have not. That is a good rate. What type of productions do they normally have?

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 1:39 PM | Link to this

Don’t forget!!!!

With its theft of one hour of sleep, daylight-saving time begins at 2 a.m. Sunday, arriving three weeks earlier than normal and marking the first change to the nation’s time standard since 1986.

By cool breeze

March 9, 2007 1:41 PM | Link to this

why is it women always go to the child birth thing as a reason to think they are tougher/stronger than males? Please. Men make the baby and women carry the baby and give birth and it’s the way things are. get over yourselves thinking men couldn’t deal with it. Bottom line is we don’t have to cause we’re guys so a waste of time and silly wondering what it would be if guys had to. Men rule the world and always have. Who in the old testament had more than one wife besides the kings? I’d like to know. Women are huge commitment phobes. Most carry around that baggage which one of which is fear and that’s because most women don’t know what’s good for them as far as men are/were concerned and too busy chasing thugs/knuckelheads and when they screwed them over it makes it hard for them to trust othercats even though othercats ain’t done nothing to them.

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 1:42 PM | Link to this

Jewel Regional theatre productions by local playwrights..They are doing a production of “The Bluest Eyes” this year. http://www.horizontheatre.com

By cool breeze

March 9, 2007 1:44 PM | Link to this

why is it women always go to the child birth thing as a reason to think they are tougher/stronger than males? Please. Men make the baby and women carry the baby and give birth and it’s the way things are. get over yourselves thinking men couldn’t deal with it. Bottom line is we don’t have to cause we’re guys so a waste of time and silly wondering what it would be if guys had to. Men rule the world and always have. Who in the old testament had more than one wife besides the kings? I’d like to know. Women are huge commitment phobes. Most carry around that baggage which one of which is fear and that’s because most women don’t know what’s good for them as far as men are/were concerned and too busy chasing thugs/knuckelheads and when they screwed them over it makes it hard for them to trust othercats even though othercats ain’t done nothing to them.

By Foots

March 9, 2007 1:47 PM | Link to this

Chili If you truly care deeply for someone, you try your best not to hurt them intentionally. If hurt is felt, at least let it be unintentional. She’s a great girl, you think so yourself. If you want to risk losing her, do you. Otherwise, do unto others as you would have them do unto you.

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

Welcome Chill Maybe one of my more “well versed” blog sisters can chime in on this one. I’ve downed a courvy and getting ready to have my second…

“I believe a guy can have a physical relationship with a female and still care deeply about and want to be with his girlfriend”

Ummmmm…. nope, ain’t buying that. I know it’s your perspective, and there’s nothing that I can do about that; however, sleeping with one woman, and in an emotional “committed” relationship with another woman (who by the way believes that she is in a committed relationship) is called (insert sounds of drumrolls here)… cheating. Plain and simple.

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 1:48 PM | Link to this

To all concerned, I spoke to wifey around 3:00am and told her I was cool. It’s extremely rare for me to hang out like that, especially during the week. I definitely violated, but lets keep it in perspective. I got home at 6:00 was in the office by 8:30. Painfully struggled thru a hectic day. Checked my bank account. The mortgage, car insurance, phone, cell phones and Direct TV were automatically deducted today. I got external auditors sweatin me and CFOs constantly emailing with additional task. All while she’s laying up at the crib on those high thread count sheets, under that warm, thick comforter, watching Young and the Restless on my 50” plasma. All I did was come in the house a little late. She’ll be all right.

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 1:50 PM | Link to this

This song dedication goes out to DuShawn: “A Thin Line Between Love and Hate” by The Pretenders

Its five oclock in the morning And youre just getting in You knock on the front door And a voice sweet and low says Who is it? * *She opens up the door and lets you in Never once asks where have you been She says are you hungry? * *Did you eat yet? * *Let me hang up your coat Pass me your hat All the time shes smiling Never once raises her voice Its five oclock in the morning You dont give it a second thought

I see her in the hospital Bandaged from foot to head In a state of shock Just that much from being dead *You couldnt believe the girl Would do something like this, ha You didnt think the girl had the nerve But here you are I guess action speaks louder than words

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Dangggg, Jewel girl, I’ll give you props for pulling out “It’s thin line”…LOLOLOLOLOL

Now hearing it’s a thin line in my head all day

By Jake

March 9, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Sexione Exactly, you know how in the cartoons you have an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other.
That’s our real life: Sometimes you know you shouldn’t, but dayumed if you don’t want to. The angel in you is present most when you have a good woman on your side, she can counter a lot of the natural devious behavior. (don’t smile too hard ladies, some of you bring the devil out…LOL), but the lil devil is always there saying, drink this, smoke that, get her, your girl won’t find out, just cover your azz, its cool.

Then you hit a certain point where you fight the bad off yourself, but we’re always capable of digressing. See: Randy’s 9:59.

My bad RandyT, you’ll be out from underneath that bus soon…LOL

By abc

March 9, 2007 1:52 PM | Link to this

Lamech had 2 wives. Abraham’s wife’s maid, Hagar, became his wife, bore Ishmael; then his wife Sarah bore Isaac, and made Abraham kick Hagar and Ishmael out, thus starting the majority of controversy between Muslims and Jews/Christians. Jacob had 2 wives, Rachel and Leah, but that was due to their father’s deception; he had children with both of their maids, too. That’s just in Genesis.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 1:53 PM | Link to this

Nice one Jewel

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

Cool Breeze It was a joke: something said to provoke laughter. Joke. J-O-K-E. Joke.

By G

March 9, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

Commitment? People still trying that stuff?LOL!!!

If you’re a person that’s set in their ways as a single, it’s hard to shift gears if or when another person is involved. Complacency is that thorn-tailed devil that keeps us single. Every time you think of a positive reason for commitment, “complacency” is that other “c” word that thinks of a negative. Sometimes it’s not even about commitment. Sometimes it can be as simple as…..”Am I going to ask this girl out for a date, or am I going to do what I’ve been doing (i.e. hanging out, drinking @ the bar, whatever)?”

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 1:56 PM | Link to this

i’m opinionated but not to that extent, jake lol didn’t mean to triple post. i won’t even touch the convo w/self thing. that’ll open a whole ‘nother can of worms…lol.

abc you need to check out my 10:30 post

By abc

March 9, 2007 1:58 PM | Link to this

…what about your 10:30 post?

By Mo

March 9, 2007 2:01 PM | Link to this

GAMan & Musing I will handle the bar! But you know its a mess in here since you said “free for all”! LOL

Mo tries to restore order since GAMan said bar is self serve, trying to get everybody from behind the bar

Alright,….what’ll ya have”

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 2:02 PM | Link to this

Thanks Kym.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 2:04 PM | Link to this

Jewel on point!! ^5

cool breeze If you’re referring to my joke, it’s just that a joke. Get over yourself!!! Look at it this way, you wouldn’t be here if it were not for a strong azz woman……..puuuleaaazzzeee!!!

Jake That’s funny…I got a good visual on that!!

abc the old testament, right? Then God destroyed the world and started over……

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 2:05 PM | Link to this

wow dushawn you changed your tune quickly. guess the concern is over…lol. what a mess!

abc the post spoke on the biblical references you made.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:12 PM | Link to this

thanks Mo..here is another 50.00 for your tip bar

Nice save Dushawn hope it all works out..but still but the flowers

By Mo

March 9, 2007 2:14 PM | Link to this

GAMan thanks for the tip, but er-umm….you know ya girl is only 5’0 tall so how about a step stool round here for the liquor on the high shelves!! LOL!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

oops forgot about that..we had one in the back ..that’s if Musing didnt break it…..oh here you go….now you can reach everything

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 2:16 PM | Link to this

@ Sexione… the old testament, right? Then God destroyed the world and started over…explain your point if you dont mind.

By QueDogTeaching

March 9, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

@Jewel How do I get on the list, also do you or anyone know about 2nd Saturday, or Old School Saturday. Keep hearing about it but no info.

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 2:17 PM | Link to this

DuShawn … naw, naw, partnuh there’s still no excuse for being out that late, even if you bring home the bacon and fry it up in the pan.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 2:18 PM | Link to this

Mo double shot of Jose Cuervo and a lemon wedge, pls…

DuShawn the tone of your last post kinda made it sound like you feel it’s ok because you work and pay the bills and she doesn’t…….right/wrong?

By Jake

March 9, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

Now that Dushawn is finished at the “man podium”, I believe he’ll be taking a few questions…Good one bruh, you had to spell it out to calm the natives..LOL

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 2:20 PM | Link to this

GA.man Flowers no doubt. It’s going to be the silent treatment for a minute. Getting some azz is out of the question. I’ll smooth it over. My neighbor’s wife recently found out he has new baby from another woman. If all else fails, I’ll compare my behavior to his.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:21 PM | Link to this

Que take it from another bruh…it is ok..but it is normally packed like a can of sardines…lots of ladies but dayummmmmmmmm can a brother get some space..i went once just to see what the hype was about…bottom line…spilled drinks on my shirt,pants and shoes…a couple of phone numbers…toooo many crazy azz folks….money better spent on dinner and a movie alone..trust me lol

By Mo

March 9, 2007 2:23 PM | Link to this

Hey Sexione here ya go Mo sliding shot down the bar and dont forget these, the lemons come sliding next

GAMan thanks for that stool! Whew!

DuShawn I am putting you out of the Blog Bar! Take it to the house man! Aint tryin to have wifey bustin up in here causin a ruckus!!

By NCgirlfromATL

March 9, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

DuShawn I was all set to deflect some bullets for you, until you listed all of the stuff you did today…like you deserve a cookie for doing your job, homie! LOLOLOL!! I will say this, you’ve taken some heat here on the blog today. That should warm you up pretty good for what is likely to be a very cold reception at the crib for the next couple of weeks. Plug in that electric blanket, bruh…the shoulder ain’t gonna be the only cold thing in the house! (for real, good luck!)

By G

March 9, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

(www.oldschoolsaturday.com)

QuedogI’ve been at the past 4 or 5 and they are off the chain. They usually hold them at either the Westin Hotel (W. Peachtree) or 755 (@ Turner Field). The one tomorrow night will be at the Westin. Tickets online are $10 and $20 at the door.

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 2:25 PM | Link to this

Mo

can I get another coury - please?

I’m still waiting (along with sexione) for a plausible answer on why DuShawn chose to stay out so late* ;)

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 2:26 PM | Link to this

In the back woods of Arkansas, Mr. Stewart’s wife went into labor in the middle of the night, and the doctor was called out to assist in the delivery. To keep the nervous father-to-be busy, the doctor handed him a lantern and said, “Here, you hold this high so I can see what I’m doing.” Soon, a wee baby boy was brought into the world. “Whoa there Scotty!” said the doctor. “Don’t be in a rush to put the lantern down… I think there’s yet another wee one to come.” Sure enough, within minutes he had delivered another little baby. “No, no, don’t be in a great hurry to be putting down that lantern, young man… It seems there’s yet another one besides!” cried the doctor. The new father scratched his head in bewilderment, and asked the doctor: “Do ya think it’s the light that’s attractin’ them?”

By Mo

March 9, 2007 2:28 PM | Link to this

Linguist Sorry about that chica!! Here ya go, one coury comin atcha!

By Foots

March 9, 2007 2:31 PM | Link to this

G (said in my Sofia voice from Color Purple) I loves Old School Saturday, God knows I do! But will it KILL EM DEAD to turn some air on up in that camp?? Cause that $10 don’t cover air, you have to bring your own.

I may be wrong, but you know I’m right… LOL!!!

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 2:33 PM | Link to this

QueDog I signed up while attending an event at the library, but you might be able to sign up on their web site. Auburn Avenue Research Library. Some man mentioned that to me at a Play Date event last year, but I do not recall where it is held.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

SJ I was merely pointing out that God destroyed the old b/c he was not pleased, then started anew. If we’re gonna have bible study, I will need to run home and grab one, though….lol

Thanks Mo…leaving a nice tip in the jar

Linguist I’m curious to know how he’d feel if the shoe was on the other foot. Men can dish it out, but 99.9999999% can’t handle it. Been there, done that, got several t-shirts!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:34 PM | Link to this

No Foots the air is covered from 9 pm until 11pm then when the crowd comes..the air is turned off so ppl will buy more drinks….lol

By Foots

March 9, 2007 2:38 PM | Link to this

GA.man Oh, okay. Thanks for clearing that up!! LOL!!

Jewel http://www.playdateatl.com/index.cfm

They are going to start a new event called “Paint By Numbers”. It sounds like so much fun. Click on “New Event” for the details on that.

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 2:41 PM | Link to this

Sexione exactly! What’s not good for the goose, is somehow good for the gander.. go figure! I guess if a man goes out, hangs out all night that’s one thing.. Let a woman do it, and many (erroneously) would call her a sl_t.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 2:42 PM | Link to this

@ Sxeone…no need to go home…Bible Study is on Tuesday nites by the way…where is Deacon Do Good Georgia Man..lol..i went to the barbershop…and i come back and you and Musing got jokes..lol

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Hahahahahah I am here…Gaman is here…..

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 2:45 PM | Link to this

Thanks Foots I was referring to his question about Old School Saturday. From everyone’s responses, it is a club atmosphere? I am on Play Date’s email list also. That Paint by Numbers event does sound interesting.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:49 PM | Link to this

Hey Seanj atleast we made sure you got out of the hospital fine…lololol and dont forget you did get to go on the DR Kym show…..lol

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Now back to our show….Jerry Jerry Jerry today we have Seanj You say you have 10 wifes and 4 handmaids right…….

take it Musing

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 2:51 PM | Link to this

Linguist If wifey went out with her girlfriends occasionally and came home at 6:00am, I would be cool with that. As long as she called and let me know she was safe, I would tell her to have fun. I probably would be sleep when she got in and not know what time she arrived. Now, if she were to do that consistently, I would have a problem with it.

By Jake

March 9, 2007 2:52 PM | Link to this

Oh well, here comes the equality/empowerment movement…LOL

Linguist/Sexione Just for ya’ll, so you can party til ^am, I’ll spin that Beastie Boys.

you gotta fight!, for your right!, to Paaaarrrrttty!..HEHEHEHE

By Kelli

March 9, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

and there you have it ladies, as long as they are paying the bills, men don’t expect you to say a word when they behave like single bachelors. I’ll give you so called “grown men” one thing, you find the right woman to marry to pull that mess with.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 2:54 PM | Link to this

@ GaMan aka Deacon Do Good Georgia…yeah good looking out.I dont mind being the brunt of the jokes..

By G

March 9, 2007 2:55 PM | Link to this

Yeah, it was a bit humid at the last oldschool jam(Westin). That was alright with me b/c I needed to sweat that cognac out of my system. Besides, when have you ever been to a crunk party that was comfortably cool?

By abc

March 9, 2007 2:56 PM | Link to this

Sexione, yeah, Old Testament… Noah’s Ark has been on view in Turkey for 25 years or so, Abraham is descended about 10 generations or so from Shem, one of Noah’s sons; Jacob is Abraham’s grandson, from Isaac.

By Sexione

March 9, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Sexi is out…have a safe weekend all!!!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 2:57 PM | Link to this

Seanj no prob…we got Demi a whole lot worse…lololol

By Foots

March 9, 2007 2:58 PM | Link to this

DuShawn As long as she called and let me know she was safe

My only question is: Did you call to let her know that you were safe?

Okay, one more: If you’d be fine with her staying out til 6 in the morning, then why do you think that what you did was a mistake? Apparently, you DON’T do this consistently…

Jewel Sorry, I was reading too fast. It’s not really a club atmosphere, cause I really hate the club thing. But I just go and dance to that good old school music. You can buy drinks, sure, but it’s (supposedly) smoke-free and centered around dancing, not the normal club behavior.

By kinderbabe

March 9, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

que go to www.oldschoolonline.com you’ll find everything you need to know there about old school saturday. it’s $10 before 10 p.m. $10 in advance and $20 at the door after 10 p.m. check out the website for more venue info. i’ve been to quite a few and it’s a nice grown event. i like the fact that i leave w/o the smell of smoke in my clothes…lol

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 2:59 PM | Link to this

Jake If I can get Mo to move the drinks out of the way, can Sexione and I dance on the tabletop? Pretty Please??

GAMan and Musing now coming over to Ling trying to hand her a liability waiver. Ling, taking a lighter out of her purse for just such ocassions, lights it on fire, and steps - pretty black pumps first - onto the bar and begins fighting for her right to party

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

But DuShawn That is where the dots in your story do not connect…you said you called at 3am. Why was she mad when you arrived at 6am? No need to answer. Really. You are not coming home to me.

GaMan & Musing We need a report from a trusted news source WGMM.

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 3:02 PM | Link to this

GA.man if SeanJ had ten wives he’d come on the blog complaining about all ten worrying the ishh out of him…LOLOLOLOLOLOL

SeanJ: Hey, blog why do we have to have 10 wives….It’s too many to deal with…What about the good ol’days when Men had one wife. That’s how it used to be in the New Testament!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 3:03 PM | Link to this

ok i am done working as if i did some work today…time to go watch basketball…high school and college…you all have a great and safe weekend….and oh yeah Dushawn if you need the couch let me know…lol

keep doing yo thang Seanj

By Mo

March 9, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

Linguist Why are trying to turn this bar into Coyote Ugly? LOL

Jake I need you to get some Biggie going up in this bar!

Mo pours some out for Biggie

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 3:05 PM | Link to this

Linguist See that’s why we don’t allow folks behind the bar.

Musing sees ling is tipsy and leads her to the secret room behind the bar…Clapping his hands twice, a chandelier drops down and some Barry White starts to play………Musing exits 15min later waves sweated out

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:07 PM | Link to this

Hi everyone! I have no idea what everyone’s talking about i just wanted to stop by to say hello; where is my baby daddy Musing has Demi checked in yet, i personally would love to in a committed relationship if i could find a man who can deal with my job, i don’t know why that’s always the issue, hey SJ how are you? I’m going to try to hang around for a while maybe Musing will pop back in

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Jewel Also upcoming the Dogwood Festival in Piedmont Park..April 14-15. Wednesday WindDowns will start up soon as well in April and Jazzfest in May. See folks lots of dating ideas in great venues for little to know money spent.

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:10 PM | Link to this

Hi everyone! I have no idea what everyone’s talking about i just wanted to stop by to say hello; where is my baby daddy Musing has Demi checked in yet, i personally would love to in a committed relationship if i could find a man who can deal with my job, i don’t know why that’s always the issue, hey SJ how are you? I’m going to try to hang around for a while maybe Musing will pop back in

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 3:11 PM | Link to this

know-no money

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 3:14 PM | Link to this

Foots It was a mistake because I had to go to work this morning. She was mad because I called at 3:00 and said I was on my way and didn’t walk in the door until six. Additionally, we were supposed to go to the comedy show and I cancelled.

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

SlimOne runs in frantically, hair frazzled with smoke coming out of her ears. She turns music off, runs to bar throws back 3 shots of henny then slowly walks to the middle of the dance floor, turns around…….AND MOONS THE CROWD! She turns music back on and plays Will Smiths “Get Jiggy with it”

By NCgirlfromATL

March 9, 2007 3:19 PM | Link to this

Musing see my 10:17 post. LOLOL!

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 3:21 PM | Link to this

@Foots Good questions.

DuShawn-Based on your previous posts your night out was not above board. Yeah, you may have been with your boys (giving you the benefit of the doubt here). However, you mentioned that you had to turn down oral services which were offered during your night on the town. What establishment on “the up and up” offers that type of services?. It ain’t the movies. Not the Applebee’s.

So, that means you were socializing around some hoes… Not that you messed with them, but you were around them-

Come on brotha, we’re all grown folks. Most places in the ATL close between 2-4AM(some even earlier on a schoolnight). There is nothing good to get into out there after a certain hour anyway…only trouble waiting to happen.

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

Musing there you are, how’s your day going so far? i’ve missed your silly comments & skits, i popped in today just for you, what’s up????

By Mo

March 9, 2007 3:23 PM | Link to this

SlimOne now you know GAMan & Musing aint gonna ever let us run the bar again with you running amuck!!

Friday comes around and errbody is off da dayum chain!!

Mo now takin a shot of Patron

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 3:28 PM | Link to this

Dayummm, Hey HotSauce!

Now slapping five…70’s style w/two hands

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 3:31 PM | Link to this

NCgirl Yeah, that sounds about right….LOLOLOL…hahahahaha…running like hellz!

I can barely stay sane with the Woman I have, I don’t need anymore than 1.

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 3:32 PM | Link to this

Layoff Dushawn it will go down at home something like this: He will apologize do something nice (something that should have been done awhile ago) to make it up(break out his Superman Cape), she will give him the “evil eye” for a few days or the “only speaking to you because I have to” treatment. An then at some point it will blow over and all will be right in the kingdom. Until the next screw up.

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

Mo, can you pass me some Paton please, i’ve always wanted to try it

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 3:33 PM | Link to this

T-Mango This is my last post on this subject. I had no idea my wild night out would dominate today’s discussion. I was hanging with the QUE’s. It was one of the bruz birthday. We started at the MBAR, ended up at bruh crib. Some females came thru and we turned it into a old school house party.

By SlimOne

March 9, 2007 3:34 PM | Link to this

Mo I just lost my mind for a minute. Masta riding me hard for a dayum Friday afternoon!

Slim stops for a minute, takes another shot of henny, fixes her hair to get herself together before she goes POSTAL up in here

By Mo

March 9, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Hot Sauce You havent had Patron?! Here is a double shot on me! But dont tell GAMan or Musing. They try to keep the liquor on lock round here!!

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:36 PM | Link to this

Hey Musing what’s up baby, you missed me? I have’nt stopped thinking about you since the last time i was here; don’t forget you owe me some time at the shooting range

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:39 PM | Link to this

Thanks Mo i thought it would come with some salt or a twist of lemon to suck on, i could use another one of these; besides i’m not on duty and it’s been a rough week, where’s Demi

By Mo

March 9, 2007 3:44 PM | Link to this

DuShawn Now you should have known hanging w/the bruhs was gonna get you in trouble!! I have seen Dad, big brother, an uncle or two and my best friend get in trouble with wifeys over hangin with the bruhs!! LOL!!

Hot Sauce No problem. Keep sweet talking Musing and another shot is yours!

SlimOne you cant run the bar AND drink the bar up!! LOL

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 3:46 PM | Link to this

@ T-MangoSo, that means you were socializing around some hoes… Not that you messed with them, but you were around them-…thats was sooo funny to me…..How many times have i heard that..lol women act like dudes dont get at them when yall go out…relationship or not…

@ Sup Hot Sauce…what have u been up to?

By T-Mango

March 9, 2007 3:47 PM | Link to this

@DuShawn…I don’t think that sistas on this blog would’ve jumped all over you if you gave us this info before. Why was this a big secret? Without the detail that you just gave me..it sounded like you may have been creepin’.

Have a good weekend to you and all-

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 3:48 PM | Link to this

No problem Foots Thanks for the insider’s report on the old school event. I don’t do clubs, but I am an old head, so I love old school music. I will not tell you how excited I became last Friday when Tom Joyner played Rapper’s Delight! LOL! I remembered about half the words! And, I am taking myself to see The Isley Brothers…when music was music…

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Hey SJ just working, training, working & more training i’ve got to take me some time off so i may try to get me a couple of days rest next week; i’ve missed blogging with you guys i see you all have a lot of new bloggers. I often sit up and think about some of the funny comments that were made, my favorite is when i invited Musing to the shooting range and he said no cause i’ll have him runnning around naked, dodging bullets with a toothbrush in hand, lolololol

By Mo

March 9, 2007 3:51 PM | Link to this

Hot Sauce Sorry , here is your lemon and salt! I just figured you would want the shot straight up! LOL

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:52 PM | Link to this

Hey SJ just working, training, working & more training i’ve got to take me some time off so i may try to get me a couple of days rest next week; i’ve missed blogging with you guys i see you all have a lot of new bloggers. I often sit up and think about some of the funny comments that were made, my favorite is when i invited Musing to the shooting range and he said no cause i’ll have him runnning around naked, dodging bullets with a toothbrush in hand, lolololol

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 3:54 PM | Link to this

Mo i saw that..that oneis coming out of your check….lol

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

Mo i’m not a “real drinker” i can take straights shots like a lot of people can, but i’ll try almost anything once

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 3:57 PM | Link to this

Mo i’m not a “real drinker” i can take straights shots like a lot of people can, but i’ll try almost anything once

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

Jewel Isn’t Mr Big doing sometime in the Bighouse?

By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert

March 9, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

Jewel Isn’t Mr Big doing some time in the Bighouse?

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 3:59 PM | Link to this

HotSauce Hello and No I’m not going to the range with you…Never trust a big butt and a smile….Especially when she’s holding a gun.

By Linguist

March 9, 2007 4:01 PM | Link to this

Night All Got to get home to hubby before 6 am

winks DuShawn ;)

By Mo

March 9, 2007 4:03 PM | Link to this

Dayum GAMan, got eyes in the back of his head!! LOL! The least you could do is let that slide since I had to restore order to the chaos you left me!

Hot Sauce its all good, I understand

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

ok this time Mo dont make it no habit…lololol

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 4:06 PM | Link to this

lololol, Musing now you know i would’nt let nothing happen to you; if you change your mind let me know ;) so what about lunch??????

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 4:09 PM | Link to this

SJ are you still single?

thanks Mo so who is GA.man is he the Patron Police if so we have something in common :) ain’t that right Musing

By Mo

March 9, 2007 4:11 PM | Link to this

GAMan see if I help out by running the Blog Bar again!!! Do you know how hard it is for short folk to restore order from behind a bar when they can barely see OVER it?!?! LOL

Hellz I need another shot just for that! LMAO!!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 4:13 PM | Link to this

No hot sauce me and Musing own the blog bar…and the blog tv station…how are doing?

By Mo

March 9, 2007 4:15 PM | Link to this

Musing & GAMan are the Blog Bar Supers! They keep a tight ship, even on Fridays! Musing hasnt been on me too much today, but that DAYUM GAMan is riding me!!!

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 4:17 PM | Link to this

I guess we could invite you to the blog party also..hot mamma i mean hot sauce

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 4:18 PM | Link to this

HotSauce My lady would beat me over the head with my spoon collection if I were to go to lunch with you…She’d come home and find HotSauce poured all over Musing.

SO: Musing WTF is you doing with all the hotsauce over your body…Nekedddeddd.

Musing: Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhh, I can explain.

30 secs later Musing is tossed through the 2nd floor bedroom window….followed by all his ishh

By Jewel

March 9, 2007 4:21 PM | Link to this

I thought so too, Kym. But apparently he is out. He better be at the concert! His ex-wife and Sommore (sp) are performing as well.

By SeanJohnson

March 9, 2007 4:22 PM | Link to this

@ HotSauce…he is the mayor of this piece now…Deacon Do Good Georgia…u want me to hook yall up??

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 4:24 PM | Link to this

Mo Can you please report to the secret bar conference room? And bring some peanut oil.

Now clapping hands twice again

Time to pay for all that free liquor.

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 4:34 PM | Link to this

Don’t worry HOT Seanj just little upset cause i beat him the election by 5 voyes and he asked for a recount but there were hanging chads……..lol

By GA.man

March 9, 2007 4:36 PM | Link to this

votes…oops

By DuShawn

March 9, 2007 4:37 PM | Link to this

I can’t believe all the females on the blog bought that line about hanging bruz last night. If it worked on them, that’s the story I’ll tell wifey….and i’m sticking to :)

I’m out… off to the florist.

By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a Closet FULL of T-shirts

March 9, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Que Dog, Jake, and Linguist

Had to go out, so i will make this short. I KNOW, it is just so tempting. My mind is making dates my body will never keep, but that little Devil on my shoulder does whisper (hellz he shouts).

Re the lady who went back to her ex, it is a long story that did not start out that way and involved children. She actually went to him after I threw her house key on her porch. Someday i’ll fill in the blanks. have a great weekend all.

By Mo

March 9, 2007 4:42 PM | Link to this

Musing

I am on my way….The drinks have already been taken care of. If you wanted to just get me in the secret room you could’ve said so! (wink)

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 4:43 PM | Link to this

Aight Musing maybe we’ll meet one day; SJ nah no hooking up here i won’t have any free fun time until April, besides he needs to know what’s up with HotSauce 1st but it’s all good. Well my time is up here now, i’ll pop in one day next week SJ i see you avoided my question, have a wonderful weekend everyone Musing hold onto those spoons maybe we can use them one day ;)

By Hot Sauce

March 9, 2007 4:44 PM | Link to this

Aight Musing maybe we’ll meet one day; SJ nah no hooking up here i won’t have any free fun time until April, besides he needs to know what’s up with HotSauce 1st but it’s all good. Well my time is up here now, i’ll pop in one day next week SJ i see you avoided my question, have a wonderful weekend everyone Musing hold onto those spoons maybe we can use them one day ;)

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 4:47 PM | Link to this

LOLOLOLOL @ Dushawn…Game, Set, and Match! LOLOLOLOLOL

Now closing the dimly lit secret room door…Doing a little two step towards Mo while holding two glasses of Courvoisier…..Now spinning like the temptations…Lionel Ritchie playing in the background

By Mo

March 9, 2007 4:51 PM | Link to this

DuShawn Remember I just said I have some family that got in trouble for “hanging with the bruhs”! I didnt say anything about whether they were believed by the wifeys or not. That is for her to determine! But stick to your story if it’ll help you out.

Musing thanks for the drink, now what is the meaning of this “meeting”? (wink)

By MusingLee

March 9, 2007 4:56 PM | Link to this

Night All,

Yall have a great weekend…I’m heading to the car show on Saturday…Maybe some of you other bloggers will be there.

Later guys and girls.

By robert

March 13, 2007 11:14 AM | Link to this

i think so too