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DEL.ICIO.USNaughty or Nice in 2006?
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
While Santa Baby is checking to see who was naughty or nice, I am reflecting on the past twelve months of being single in the city. I must say that 2006 was a great year for me in the romance department. I have met some great guys, not all love connections, but I have two great potentials on deck going into 2007. I only met a few duds, and I had absolutely no dating drama whatsoever! My goal was to double my dating from the previous year, and I definitely did that.
Being single in Atlanta, you get the chance to mix and mingle, attend cool activities around the city, hang out with your friends, and actually enjoy the single life. You also have opportunities to be naughty or nice – which I guess depends on what you are into at the moment. I think I have had a little of both this year.
Naughty#1: There may be a gent or two that could call me the kissing bandit. What can I say - I love to smooch on cute guys that fine me sexy. It’s a tricky thing to hook up just for kissing though – I came dangerously close to floozy behavior. New rule: only kiss boys when sober.
Naughty #2 I really, really, really crossed the line of flirting with a gorgeous married man. I feel awful about it, and I vowed to get a grip, and chill out. I am not a desperate single woman that preys on married men, but at the risk of sounding like a 3 year old, HE STARTED IT! That won’t fly will it? Fine! I’ll fall back and I hope that the karma train won’t run me over when I get a husband!
I haven’t been a devilish diva all year though:
Nice# 1 I have played matchmaker to a couple of friends of mine. They have been virtually inseparable since Halloween. I have my fingers crossed for those crazy kids. They look blissfully happy! My only request is that their firstborn daughter is named after me.
Nice# 2 My friend Chris called it my “Something New Syndrome” dating. I don’t know if I would call it that, but I have explored interracial dating more this year. It has been interesting, to say the least, and I plan to keep an open mind about this. I learned a lot about myself in the process. New rule: Don’t let the opinions of others deter you from dating who you want to date.
Have you enjoyed dating in 2006?
Are there any dating trends you plan to try in 2007? There is speed dating, friend referrals, Lock and Key Parties, meet my ex parties, cooking classes, trivia nights at local pubs, or wine tasting events for singles. All of these are great ways to get out of a dating rut and mix things up a bit!
Ladies, are any of you going on a man diet? Perhaps you have decided to just take a dating hiatus and focus on other things more. Be warned that this is rumored to be the exact time when you will meet Mr. Wonderful. Stay alert and positive!
What are your naughty and/or nice dating stories of 2006?
Do you regret any unethical dating choices? Have you learned from the experience?
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By Confessions
December 22, 2006 08:44 AM | Link to this
I must admit that I was naughty this year. Well…see what had happened was…ok, a guy I was dating accidently told me his email password so of course curiosity got the best of me and I checked it and continued to check it daily. I became obsessed! I know this was a complete violation of privacy and trust but c’mon who could resist? Anywhoo, I found out things that ended up driving me crazy such as other females he was dealing with. I was paranoid all the time which to him seemed to be for no reason. I can honestly say that in this case knowledge is not power. I will never do that again.
By Mo
December 22, 2006 08:46 AM | Link to this
Good Topic Morning all that will eventually join in! Waiting for 3 o’clock! I have a twist to add already, I am going thru a divorce and dont know how to go about dating. Been separated for over a year so its like I have been divorced, so should I date or continue to be a hermit? lol And my marriage was over waaay before the separation, but I’m not a quitter…
By Qsgirl
December 22, 2006 08:58 AM | Link to this
NAUGHTY!Hmm…absolutely, all the way naughty.
Confessions, you think the email pw was stressful? I got a hold of the doggone pw to the cell phone! OMG!! I wouldn’t wish that on anybody, even though I brought it on myself huh? LOL!
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 08:59 AM | Link to this
Good morning all!! Overall, I think that I was definitely nice.:) Hopefully, Santa will reward me by sending Mr. Right my way…lol. Romantically speaking, it was mostly a year of duds. I’m looking forward to having better luck in ‘07.
hey mo!! you’ll be fine in the dating world. try e-harmony or maybe you could go to a speed dating event. this could be a way to get you acclimated to the dating scene. also, you could do group dates w/your girls. you know, maybe 3 guys and 3 women going out for dinner, that way it’s less pressure, you know?
By Mo
December 22, 2006 09:04 AM | Link to this
Hey kinderbabe Thanks for the advice! Confessions & Qsgirl you guys are up there with my ex-SO. He went snooping and found some things out that have him to this day still on his mind! All had nothing to do with him but trust violated all the way around. Hard to recoup from that kind of violation if it comes out, ya know..
By Confessions
December 22, 2006 09:07 AM | Link to this
Qsgirl, Ok well since you put it out there I had that too, lol! You’re right that is what really sent me over the top! Word to the wise - don’t use the same password for everything!
By Attention06
December 22, 2006 09:14 AM | Link to this
For the most part, I have been nice… I decided in May, I would be celibate and have stuck to my guns all year… when I think I have found the one, she turns out to be a virgin, which means next year I plan on being naughty..
Hey I am just a guy…
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 09:19 AM | Link to this
i’m with you mo the password thing is a no-no. i wouldn’t want someone going through all of my stuff. just like you said, that would violate the trust in the relationship. i am proud to say that’s something i’ve never done. yeah, and how do you recover from that?? it’s nearly impossible.
By Jack
December 22, 2006 09:22 AM | Link to this
good morning kinderbabe.. This subject is to much, ive been naughty this year but it might incremenate me if I tell my stories.. I might tell some later..
Mo: start dating girl.. what you really need is someone to sexually rock ur world..
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 09:23 AM | Link to this
Morning I have’nt been half as naughty as i wanted to be but it’s all good…i feel y’all about your SO’s pw oh my goodness, you can’t stop thinking about all the information you “now” know about them “when he’s not with you” Mo i wish you the best, just know once your in your “healing process” someone will come along and sweep you off your feet GOOD LUCK
By Mo
December 22, 2006 09:33 AM | Link to this
Jack you are probably right about the “rock your world” thing!! lol Even tried the one-last-time round and it just didnt do it. Once a relationship is over, its over, period! So I guess I can say in 2007 I’ll be naughty!!!
By itsmorenamorena
December 22, 2006 09:34 AM | Link to this
Buen dias Wise Diva
As I wear my naughty Santa’s Elf Hat today …I decided LAST year that I needed a “man diet” because sex had to be better than what I was getting. Besides, I had done the speed dating, Lock & Key parties, networking mixers, yadda skippy and I wasn’t satisfied. So for the most part THIS year was about working on me, and getting ready to get BACK into the game.
As I’ve dipped my pretty-painted red toes back in, so far it’s been good. Me thinks I’ll have Blizzard Booty when I need it HA! But if not, I’ll be ready to mix up the naughty AND the nice for 2007. Wish me luck :)
Happy Friday and Happy Holidays to all!
By Cinderella
December 22, 2006 09:40 AM | Link to this
Hey MO, I’ve been where you’re at. Date when you’re ready and when you’re sure there aren’t any unresolved issues hanging around.
Hey MissMe!!
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 09:42 AM | Link to this
hey jack sounds like you’ve been xtra naughty…lol. santa clause won’t be coming to your house.:)
qc you sound like me, i have a naughty backlog (or, to-do list…lol) maybe we’ll get around to it next year…lol
By Ghost
December 22, 2006 09:47 AM | Link to this
Naughty: Year 2006 was hiatus time. I’ve been a lazy single all year. I’ve attended too many parties, meet markets, events etc. and let a whole slew of women pass by without even a simple “hello”. I ignored all of the so called “signs” women send. I’ve spent too much time holding up the wall, keeping the bar wet, and preserving my vocal cords. Had to take a break for 2006.
Outlook: Maybe I’ll say a word or two in 2007.
By Jack
December 22, 2006 09:47 AM | Link to this
Hey MO: what do you look like girl? hmmmmmmmmmm…. i might could be ur world rocker for 2007..lol…
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 09:49 AM | Link to this
happy friday and happy holidays to you too morena
i’m off to run errands…check in w/y’all later.:)
By Foots
December 22, 2006 09:49 AM | Link to this
Jack Is it just me or are you extremely sexually focused?? That’s all you talked about yesterday. And you’re on it at 9:22 this morning. You just took a Viagra or something? LOL!!
By Foots
December 22, 2006 09:51 AM | Link to this
morena What’s Blizzard Booty?
By Jack
December 22, 2006 09:51 AM | Link to this
Hey itsmorenamorena: You go girl.. You need a man that will make sensoul, intense, romantic, hardcore, love to ya.. someone with a golden tongue..lmao.. damn im in a naughty mood today.. come on 3pm so i can get out of this office..
By Mo
December 22, 2006 09:54 AM | Link to this
Jack dont mess with me man, I might hurt ya!! I’m 5’0 of lovely caramel skin, thick in all the right places! Cinderella thanks for that advice! I plan on just taking it slow and just making sure I get what I want and what I can handle! No need to repeat what I am now getting out of…you live and learn!
By Jack
December 22, 2006 09:54 AM | Link to this
LMAO foots, i have been in a naughty mood lately. Plus yesterdays and todays blog is on a naughty subject.. Plus work as been slow this week because of the holidays..
Just wait, I might heat this blog up with my naughty 2006 stories..
By black coffee
December 22, 2006 09:59 AM | Link to this
I have decided to be naughty. I met a guy a few months back and have been VERY nice. Now I find out he is on every singles dating site on the web…all active daily. Not nice. I am going to have to cut his azz loose. Do I tell him why? Or just ease on down the road?
By SlimOne
December 22, 2006 10:06 AM | Link to this
I just got out of a long term off/on relationship and was new to the world of dating in 2006. I’ve actually been frustrated in the dating world which i like to call the TWILIGHT ZONE.
My only naughtiness this year would be allowing myself to be the maintenance girl for a short while to a guy that I later found out had a gf but dayum did it feel good being naughty
As far as going forward into 2007, I guess i’ll need to stop getting excited about meeting any new potential partners. I hate to be pessimistic but I just can’t understand why the need for all the games and lies. It looks like i’ll be on hiatus in 2007 but not by choice.
By Jack
December 22, 2006 10:08 AM | Link to this
Black coffee: have a sit down with the guy and tell him what you have discovered. Give him a chance to take his single ads off the net, that is only if ur going to be in a exclusive relationship with him.. or if you dont really find him attractive then give him the boot…
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 10:09 AM | Link to this
kinderbabe yes, hopefully we’ll be able to at least cross out 2 things we’ve done on our list, lolololo :)
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this
black coffee cut his azz loose and move on!
By SlimOne
December 22, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this
Jack I can’t wait to hear some of those naughty stories…its going to be a long boring day.
By black coffee
December 22, 2006 10:13 AM | Link to this
Thanks Jack… I do really like him, but I think he may just be looking to trade up..don’t know why, cause I am a pretty good catch. I think I will not even bother. I am obviously a bit more invested emotianally than him. Why give him the chance to lie?
By Jack
December 22, 2006 10:15 AM | Link to this
hey SlimOne: is what you do for 2007 is get you a real good bed buddy, then go on a selective hunt for mr. right
Come on 3 o’clock so I can go home… damn it the clock isnt moving quick enough…urr…
By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert
December 22, 2006 10:20 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All,
Happy Holidays!!!!
Naughty in dating—- naww I have been on dating hiatus. I did have someone scratch the itch on occassions..but that is Nature not Naughty.
Nice—hmmm No one is dead and floating in the belly of the gators.
Dating Resolution for 2007- None really I dont go in for clubs, key parties, I like internet dating and meeting while out and about running errands. So goal is to Keep Loose, Keep Tight…
Black coffee-I say tell him obviously he is not someone that means anything to you so no harm, no foul. Did you discuss with him that it was all about you and him and that you two were exclusive and not going to seek to date or see other people? If not, then I really cant see the big deal. If you did and were committed to each other then yeah that might be a problem. Otherwise when you meet someone you cant really assume you are the only person they are dating.
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 10:25 AM | Link to this
Heeeeeeeey QC/KB/Foots
The first half of this year was full of heartache. Middle of the year, a few girls gone too wild moments. The last 3 months had me floating on cloud 9.
By goal for 2008 is to find one lucky girl and keep her grinning ear to ear…smiles…And to stay away from mature sisters…sorry Storm, y’all are dangerous!!!
Good Morning All
By Jack
December 22, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this
SlimOne: I dont know girl, santa claus wont even look at my chimney, lol.. ive been pretty naughty this year.. Let me think of a naughty incident that is not x rated and ill share it.
Black coffee: he cant lie if you bring up the dating sites with him standing right beside you. You have to talk to him or give him the boot. you have to find out where you stand. what are you to him?
By Blue_Kolla
December 22, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this
HO HO HO. What do you know? Been a little while, what up Joe?! Said as I roll in feeling like new money…
Merry Christmas Blog!!!*
QC ;)
Naughty: Broke two hearts this year. (I told them truthfully that they weren’t THE ONE.)
Nice: Keeps one very special chick’s head in the clouds.
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 10:31 AM | Link to this
The Love Dress
A woman goes over to her married son's house and walks in to find her daughter-in-law sitting in a chair, entirely nude. The mother-in-law says, “WTH are you doing?”“I’m wearing my love dress,” responds the daughter-in-law, “We haven’t made love in a long time.”
So the mother-in-law says, “Hm, maybe I should try that.”
She goes home to find her husband is not in, so she gets undressed. Two hours go by and finally she hears her husband’s car. He walks in the front door and says, “WTF are you doing?”
“I’m wearing my love dress,” says the wife.
“Well,” responds the husband, “it needs to be ironed.”
By SlimOne
December 22, 2006 10:32 AM | Link to this
Jack: I know a perfectly good bed buddy but that bed buddy has a GF….I don’t want any bad karma to follow me into the new year. Besides, I am worth more than just being a cut friend. The only bed buddy i’ll be kicking it with is Mr. Bullet….lmao! He doesn’t lie or cheat and is a true loyal friend
By Jay
December 22, 2006 10:38 AM | Link to this
Good Morning…Dr.Kym At what point do you do the exclusive speech. I find one person always seem to think the relationshipmis more than it is.
I have been tooooo nice. 2007 I’m looking to be a lil naughty.
By bella
December 22, 2006 10:40 AM | Link to this
Well my husband moved out yesterday as a Christmas gift, I guess. So I think my dating goal for 2007 is to lay off for a bit and get used to being alone for a bit and then venture slowly out with serious standards in place.I think it will be a fantastic year.
By itsmorenamorena
December 22, 2006 10:40 AM | Link to this
Thanks Kinderbabe!
@Foots Blizzard Booty is that special someone to keep ya warm when your stuck inside because of cold weather and/or snow!
Jack you seem to have advice for everyone today, huh?
By Hot Sauce
December 22, 2006 10:45 AM | Link to this
Morning! Hopefully 2007 will bring a nice man in my life and allow me to use some of “my skills” on him i have’nt been naughty in a long time but when i do!!! on my! i just hope he has a strong back
By Mister_Bazz
December 22, 2006 10:46 AM | Link to this
Morning Blog
Merry Christmas to everyone!!!!
Nice: I took my own self imposed vow of celibacy this spring. First time I stuck to it and it lasted a couple of months.
Came out of a bad ending to a beautiful relationship way stronger than I came in. No rebound chicks or player ways.
Naughty: It’s been on since this summer. I’m living a real bachelor lifestyle and I’m loving it no commitments just fun.
I really don’t feel like making any type of commitment any time soon. It’s so much easier to date when it’s Miss Right Now.
disclaimer: Mister Bazz always practices safe dating habits and is very careful with people he spends his time with. Do Not try above mentioned activities at home.
By Mo
December 22, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this
Bella I feel you girl! Hang in there! I dont know your situation but look at him leaving as a present and go into the New Year with a whole new outlook on life!
By aggressively witty
December 22, 2006 10:56 AM | Link to this
Wise, just becuase I said “hello” and asked you if you wanted to go with me to pick up MWP’s earrings doesnt mean I started it. Now just shut yer pie hole about your flirtations with me and MWP will not need to know!
hehehehhehe
Anyway I been Nice all year long and it I will be rewarded this christmas.
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 11:01 AM | Link to this
BK What’s up Baby Boi ooh i been missing you!!! it’s good to read you ;) smooches
Putting BK on my “to do naughty list in 2007”
Hey Alvin/Demi
By black coffee
December 22, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this
Great question Jay….when do you have the exclusive convo? I have not had that with dude….but I do feel as if I am 2nd or 3rd string. We don’t have to be exclusive, but I am not willing to be so low down in the “stable”… Also, man up…don’t lie to me about where you will be for the night when I haven’t even asked. Why do men feel the need to do this?
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 11:09 AM | Link to this
@ Bella keep your head up and love yourself, 2007 will be a great year for U
By Storm
December 22, 2006 11:24 AM | Link to this
HEY Demi! Where’s my mail??!!! And what makes mature women dangerous?
HEY ERRBODY!
By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert
December 22, 2006 11:25 AM | Link to this
Jay
I think that the exclusive talk should come up front. Quite a few people on the blog have state they only date one person at a time and that they tell any potential date this fact up front. As it should be. I had this discussion with another “expert” just the other day…she had several dating partners and was quite upset to learn that one partner she liked better than all the others and who she felt connected to had other women in his roster. I pointed out to her that she did as well..but of course that was a point to be overlooked. If you are a person who likes to date one guy/gal at the time tell the person you are with upfront and discuss it . Worst case they lie and say me too and later you find out they were lying. Then you know the type of character you are dealing with.
By Jay
December 22, 2006 11:29 AM | Link to this
Black Maybe he feels he is covering his butt. In the case you want to know where he be be. He feels he is manning up. Its not always a lie.
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this
Hey Storm
By Precious Brown a.k.a. Thick
December 22, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this
Merry Christmas Blog, have a Happy Holiday.
By Storm
December 22, 2006 11:37 AM | Link to this
Naughty - I told someone I work with that I don’t like him, just a few days ago. “I don’t like you because I don’t respect you and I don’t respect you because you are a snake and the reason I think you are a snake is because if you were sincere about showing your appreciation for what I do for you, you would have been taking me to lunch all along instead of offering to do so when you were trying to make up for being a bstard to me yesterday. Now, don’t mistake what I’m saying. I can still work with you. In fact, I’ll work better because I’ve been honest and I can put this behind me.”
By MM
December 22, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this
The Naughty thing this year for me, is I sleept with 3 guys this year and did not return their phone calls,at that moment it always feels right , then you get sober, and say to yourself “what was i thinking”. This 2007 year will think before i get undreess.
By Storm
December 22, 2006 11:42 AM | Link to this
Nice - I’ve been ‘good’ since September and am in a committed relationship. Hoping to be married and naughty by end of 2007. We’ll see… I’ve volunteered for Habitat and took phone pledges for the Aflac Cancer center… those count as nice, right? LOL
By Storm
December 22, 2006 11:46 AM | Link to this
Heeeyyy QC!
By Jewel
December 22, 2006 11:46 AM | Link to this
Good morning Everyone and Happy Holidays!
I have been dating only one person in 2006, so I was nice enough to be naughty only to him…LOL!
Meet my ex parties…people really host such events? A party for leftovers?! LOL! I thought that was just an episode of Girlfriends. Man diet…I will date casually if things do not work out with my SO, but I have made a personal decision to remove my heart from the equation.
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this
Heeeey Storm I hit you back last night, I didn’t know if you could recieve pictures or not.
You weren’t being naughty, you were womaning up!!
By Storm
December 22, 2006 12:00 PM | Link to this
Jewell, everybody is somebody’s leftovers, so why not? LOL
OK, Naughty - Oooo! I did do one thing bad and I’m too ashamed to tell. I promise not to do it again, though, and I sincerely regret it… although, I was told it wasn’t really wrong because it was a case of ‘chronological technicality’… meaning, what happened was destined to happen waayy before it did…
By Jewel
December 22, 2006 12:17 PM | Link to this
Kym I guess your relationship news can provide an update the latest round in the Rosie/Donald squabble!
By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert
December 22, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this
Jewell I think Rosie and the Donald should just hump and get it over with. An I dont care how much money he has that combover thing he has going on looks a mess. Either go bald or get plugs.
By Blue_Kolla
December 22, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this
Storm “I don’t like you because I don’t respect you and I don’t respect you because you are a snake and the reason I think you are a snake is because if you were sincere about showing your appreciation for what I do for you, you would have been taking me to lunch all along instead of offering to do so when you were trying to make up for being a bstard to me yesterday.
Now that’s some BRUTAL honesty.
QC Just kick-back chillin’ slim. That ‘07 is looking real good for a brother already, on all fronts.
By Jewel
December 22, 2006 12:27 PM | Link to this
Storm But to herd them into one place? I would not want to be a part of that type of “meet and greet”.
By Storm
December 22, 2006 12:29 PM | Link to this
Sent an email address to you this morning to send pic to, Demi.
By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert
December 22, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this
In honor of the holidays and all the Golddiggers…
Quad City DJ’s 12 Days of Christmas
I want 12 hundred dollas 11 pair of shoes 10 finga nails 9 bags of weave 8 male strippers 7 bus passes 6 diamond rings 5 months free reeennnnttt 4 bangles 3 pocketbooks 2 earrings and a Man with a lot of money
By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert
December 22, 2006 12:47 PM | Link to this
An for the classier Golddigger…
Santa Baby
Santa Baby, Just slip a sable under the tree For me Been an awful good girl Santa Baby, so hurry down the chimney tonight.
Santa baby, a Mercedes convertible too Light blue I’ll wait up for you, dear Santa baby, so hurry down the chimney tonight
Santa Baby, I want a yacht and really thats not Alot Been an angel all year Santa Baby, so hurry down the chimney tonight
Come and trim my Christmas tree With some decorations bought at Tif-fa-ny I really do believe in you Lets see if you believe in me
Santa Baby, forgot to mention one little thing A ring I don’t mean on the phone Santa Baby, so hurry down the chimney tonight.
By Jewel
December 22, 2006 12:48 PM | Link to this
Where is Musing with a “Meet My Ex” party skit…
The Businessman’s Medical Problem
A businessman returns from the far east. After a few days he notices stange growth on his penis. He sees several doctors. They all say: “You’ve been screwing around in the Far East, very common there, no cure. We’ll have to cut it off.” The man panics, but figures if it is common in the East they must know how to cure it. So he goes back and sees a doctor in Pakistan. The doctor examines him and says, “You’ve been fooling around in my country. This is a very common problem here. Did you see any other doctors?”
The man replies, “Yes a few in the USA.” The doctor says, “I bet they told you it had to be cut off.” The man answers, “Yes!” The doctor smiles, nods, “That is not correct. It will fall off by itself.”
Psychiatric Hotline
We’ve all had the annoying experience of calling up a hotline and waiting on the phone for eons to hear all the choices the lucky touch-tone dialers receive. Well, think how frustrating that would be if you were calling the…. PSYCHIATRIC HOTLINE The telephone rings and an answering machine answers… “Welcome to the psychiatric hotline.” If you are obsessive compulsive, please press one repeatedly.
If you are codependent, please ask someone to press 2.
If you have multiple personalities, please press 3, 4, 5, and 6.
If you are paranoid/delusional, we know who you are, what you want, just stay on the line so that we can trace your call.
If you are a schizophrenic, listen carefully, and a little voice will tell you which number to press. If your are manic depressive, it doesn’t matter which number you press….no one will answer any way.
By FyreStarrter™
December 22, 2006 12:48 PM | Link to this
I’d have to say in 2006 I have been WAY TOO NICE! But I did have a blast will all my new friends & they helped me to drop the duds as quickly as they showed their pretty teeth lol! Not sure if in 2007 if I am going to be naughty or not. I just don’t the point in all that right now. BUT I can say 200& BRING ON THE BUTTERY NIPPLES (it’s a cocktail you guys lol)! More partying & LESS time stressing over dating bs!!! YAY!!!
By QC - Merry Christmas Bloggers
December 22, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this
Kym i love that song now i’ll have it in my head for the rest of the day..
what’ cha gonna get her for Chrimas say what’cha gonna get that boyyyyyy, oh baby baby :)
By Storm
December 22, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this
HEY BK! I know, it was brutal. My lack of tact is something I’ve needed to work on for some time, but I haven’t really done so. I have begun waiting a few hours or days before responding to things that make me passionate, so I can calm down and find a more gentle way to express myself. I must confess, though, that some of it is that I like the shock factor.
By Storm
December 22, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this
Hola, Fyre! Enjoying this LOVELY weather?? LOL
By SexyCool
December 22, 2006 01:22 PM | Link to this
naughty?…nice?…
depends on who you ask…
man diet…2003…was interesting…have no plans to do that again…ever…
unethical dating choices…who hasn’t?…most won’t admit to it…but given how much fun it is to stray from the stray and narrow…forbidden fruit is a helluva drug…fortunately…maturity combined with common sense has me making better choices now…lessons learned, trust…
By Dr. Kym Relationship Expert
December 22, 2006 01:23 PM | Link to this
Okay and not to leave out my love of country music A new christmas classic
Merry Christmas from the Family
Mom got drunk and Dad got drunk At our Christmas party We were drinkin’ champagne punch And homemade eggnog Little sister brought her new boyfriend He was a Mexican We didn’t know what to think of him Til he sang Feliz Navidad Feliz Navidad
Brother Ken brought his kids with him The three from his first wife Lynn And the two identical twins From his second wife Mary Nell Of course he brought his new wife Kaye Who talks all about AA Chain smokin’ while the stereo plays Noel, Noel, The first Noel
Carve the turkey turn the ball game on Mix Margaritas when the eggnog’s gone Send somebody to the Quik-Pak store We need some ice and an extension cord A can of bean dip and some Diet Rite A box of pampers , some Marlboro Lights Hallelujah everybody say cheese Merry Christmas from the family
Fran and Rita drove from Harlingen I can’t remember how I’m kin to them But when they tried to plug their motor home in They blew our christmas lights Cousin David knew just what went wrong So we all waited on our front lawn He threw the breaker and the lights came on And we sang Silent Night Oh Silent Night o’ holy night
Carve the turkey turn the ballgame on Mix Bloody Marys cause we all want one Send somebody to the Stop ‘n Go We need some celery and a can of fake snow A bag of lemons and some Diet Sprite A box of midol, some Salem Lights Hallelujah everybody say cheese Merry Christmas from the family
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 01:34 PM | Link to this
Storm word? I am unable to check my yahoo account at this time. But I will soon as I’m home.
By SlimOne
December 22, 2006 01:35 PM | Link to this
I have 9 more days left to use my leftover naughty cards before they expire!
By Storm
December 22, 2006 01:44 PM | Link to this
Demi, when you get home, send it to my home address: hunibrowne@aol.com
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 01:45 PM | Link to this
I can say 2008 BRING ON THE BUTTERY NIPPLES(it’s a cocktail you guys lol)!
Now placing butter (low fat) back in ‘frig. Dayum!!!
By Hot Sauce -
December 22, 2006 02:06 PM | Link to this
I just had some rum cake and i think i might be WUI - working under the influence
By Storm
December 22, 2006 02:19 PM | Link to this
Mmmm, rum cake,mmm… said in my Homer Simpson voice Now you’ve done it, HotSauce! I WANT RUM CAKE!
LOL@ WUI! I wish!
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 02:32 PM | Link to this
sTORM If i could pass it through the AJC i’d gladly share with you..hiccupp! ;)
By Dreamer 3K
December 22, 2006 02:40 PM | Link to this
Ms. Wise Diva, I respect the fact that you own up to over the line flirting with a married man. Occasionally when the topic comes up here, there is such bitter acrimony from the women, even hell and damnation from the holier than thou crowd.
The simple reality of life is that life isn’t so simple. It’s complicated as hell. Meeting your soulmate, to the extent she/he exists, doesn’t mean that others cease being attractive, witty, interesting and all the other things we find attractive.
We’re human, and by definition there is a healthy mix of naughty and nice in all of us. So while we should work to overcome our humanness, sometimes we don’t. Sometimes we can’t. But an occasional lapse does not diminish our core goodness, if our core is indeed good.
In short, let’s resolve to maximize the nice, minimize the naughty, but in either regard, let’s not beat ourselves up (or others) when we (or they) cross the line.
By Storm
December 22, 2006 02:42 PM | Link to this
Dayum! Is we da only ones here, HotSauce??
By Storm
December 22, 2006 02:48 PM | Link to this
Well said, Dreamer!
By FyreStarrter™
December 22, 2006 02:53 PM | Link to this
Storm I was until the bottom dropped out a few minutes ago. & great day went to h3ll AND FAST! Heck right now I wish I even had some rum cake myself lol! Anybody have any really GREAT news today(good will not even CUT it lol sorry)?
By Mo
December 22, 2006 02:56 PM | Link to this
Hot Sauce Pass some of that rum cake this way!! I could sure use that! mmmm…..rum cake….
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:00 PM | Link to this
Seems that way, we’ve been left out here all alone; what iz weez gone do???
i’m going to get a piece of cake and eat it for you, i’ll be right back girl
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:01 PM | Link to this
Seems that way, we’ve been left out here all alone; what iz weez gone do???
i’m going to get a piece of cake and eat it for you, i’ll be right back girl
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:01 PM | Link to this
Seems that way, we’ve been left out here all alone; what iz weez gone do???
i’m going to get a piece of cake and eat it for you, i’ll be right back girl
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this
Seems that way, we’ve been left out here all alone; what iz weez gone do???
i’m going to get a piece of cake and eat it for you, i’ll be right back girl
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this
Seems that way, we’ve been left out here all alone; what iz weez gone do???
i’m going to get a piece of cake and eat it for you, i’ll be right back girl
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:10 PM | Link to this
FyreStarter I’ll eat a piece of “rum cake” for you also girl, it’s gone be allright
By Storm
December 22, 2006 03:10 PM | Link to this
OK, HotSauce, was the computer hung up or are you just rubbin it in??
Fyre, the weather so yukky, I’m afraid my parents won’t make it here today.
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:20 PM | Link to this
Mo here ya go sweetie; i’m giving up “rum cake” it makes me hit enter too many times
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 03:21 PM | Link to this
Storm my my my such a tasty email addy, LOL
Heeeeey Hot Sauce
By FyreStarrter™
December 22, 2006 03:24 PM | Link to this
Storm They haven’t let AL yet have they? I would hope not. It’s really all icky. It’s days like today that I wish I had a private jet at my disposal so I could fly them in for you & then me fly AWAY loL!
Hot Sauce Thanks Chica, but NO I don’t think it will be alright lol. NOT anytime soon. But that still doesn’t mean we cant WUI until the wheels fall off lol!!!
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this
what up people? qc, fyre, blue, alvin, mo, hot sauce, e’erbody…lol
the traffic is crazy! out there…whew!!
fyre i think i found the info you were telling me about for the party at crown plaza. i saw it in this week’s creative loafing. it’s the one in buckhead right?
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:31 PM | Link to this
Hey Alving you want some rum cake?
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:33 PM | Link to this
hello, kinderbabe be careful out there it’s so nasty and it’s going to be cold on Christmas Day
dayum shame i ain’t got no MAN to buy gifts for or come over and fix me breakfast in bed
By FyreStarrter™
December 22, 2006 03:34 PM | Link to this
Kinderbabe Nah boo its in Perimeter Center. Do you need me to send you the page again?
Party Info
By FyreStarrter™
December 22, 2006 03:40 PM | Link to this
Hot Sauce yeah I was wondering how much of the cake is CAKE & how much is RUM lol!
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 03:42 PM | Link to this
Have y’all ever watched a video on tv and actually pictured yourself doing that video while you’re singing along with it??
I do it all the time like that Cierra video “Promised” that is sooo how i really am but just shorter, that’s my jam!
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 03:44 PM | Link to this
i know that’s right hotsauce i was thinking the same thing as i was out and about…
fyre i know about the perimeter party at the marriot, we talked about that yesterday. i think i got you confused w/someone else who mentioned another party that is being held at crowne plaza in buckhead. i think the website is www.nyeinatlanta.com it was listed in the creative loafing too, i saw it today but hadn’t heard about it on any e-mails. i’m going to double check though.
By kinderbabe
December 22, 2006 03:47 PM | Link to this
correction it’s www.nyeintheatl.com
o.k. everybody…i’m outtie once again!
have a wonderful, fantastic, joyful holiday weekend!
back atcha next week.:) peace!
By Alvin
December 22, 2006 03:52 PM | Link to this
Hot Sauce sure I would love some rum cake, hand fed of course…I feel you on not being able to buy gifts for a special SO. Baby Phat had some nice jean, boots, jackets, and clothes on sale this pass weekend. It really sucks not having a young cutie (worth) to purchas(ing)e gifts for. Oh well, more clothes for me and baby boy, LOL
By FyreStarrter™
December 22, 2006 03:53 PM | Link to this
Kinderbabe the one I just sent you is the Crowne Plaza Ravinia in Perimeter Center NOT the marriott lol but I think you get the idea! Have a safe Holiday weekend all!!
By Page1908
December 22, 2006 03:58 PM | Link to this
Merry Christmas Bloggers! Hey QC you need to send me some warm weather, it is FREEZING here in Phx (40 degrees and drizzling)…I think I need a cut buddy for tonight..lol
By Hot Sauce - WUI
December 22, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
MERRY CHRISTMAS EVERYONE
HAVE A BLESSED, SAFE HOLIDAY!!!!
leaving work drinking a 20 oz coke
good nite!!!!!
By I Hate Rude People at Christmas
December 22, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
Speaking of rude, inconsiderate and “Grinch-type” people at Christmas:
What is the deal with the “lady” wearing the reindeer antlers on her head behind the Cumberland Mall Post Office stamp counter (NOT the main counter) ?
That is the most rude, bad-attitude-having, hateful Postal employee I have ever had the misfortune of encountering. She makes it clear rather quickly she has no tolerance for “Whitey.”
Has no one ever told this lady of the difference between using your “inside” voice when indoors versus using your “outside” voice at innocent customers who just want to pick up some mailing supplies?
Would it really kill this woman to be civil or even smile at someone whose skin is of a lighter hue?
Thanks for the chance to express.
Merry Christmas to EVERYONE!
By Kevin Mathew
December 29, 2006 11:17 AM | Link to this
Dear Georgians, my name is Kevin Mathew and I am a citizen of Georgia. I came upon the website of Mr. Keith Lynch who claimed that he was unjusticely accused of causing his wife’s death. I first thought that he got what he deserved, but after purchasing his book, I discovered that he named real people who work in law enforcement and officials. I think Mr. Lynch is telling the truth of the injustice that has occurred to him in DeKalb County because no official has denied the charges that are listed in the book (Dirty Justice), I’ am now wondering why, and the people of Georgia should be asking the same question. The injustice, which has happened to this man and his family, happened so easily it could happen to any of us! Below is an email from a radio show Host explaining Mr. Lynch’s book stating Georgia’s damaging legal system. Do we want the world to view Georgia as and backward society or is the truth hard for us to handle.