Misadventures in Atlanta

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 08:18 AM | Link to this

Morning..

Lurkesville for me today

Hello Musing come visit lurkesville today to make my day go by faster

By Sweet Tea

October 12, 2006 08:20 AM | Link to this

zzzzzz

Hey Sir Musing have a great day all!

Last time i met someone in “broad daylight” i was giving him a ticket; and we’re still friends today :)

By Apple Bottom

October 12, 2006 08:23 AM | Link to this

I find myself lately meeting people in broad daylight just about every where i go; day time/night time it does’nt matter i’m just a people person

It’s finally “one day closer to friday”

By QC

October 12, 2006 08:56 AM | Link to this

Have a fantastic Thursday - Bloggers!!!!

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 09:17 AM | Link to this

I have managed to meet my share of single men during the day. I work in the city and let me just say Atlanta has some absolutely, positively fine men! Don’t really meet too many men during the day on the weekend. I think it’s a bit of a turn off for a guy when he see’s your little 4 year old cutting the fool in the grocery store….

In my experience, eye contact often gives the green light for the approach. I have a hard time NOT making the “DAYUM” face when I see an attractive man.

You all have a great day.

Runnin thx for recommending the JT CD it is so hot. Especially that Sexy Lady track 3….he’s a fool for that one.

By SeanJohnson

October 12, 2006 09:41 AM | Link to this

Morning Blog..

Atl is the mecca for fine black women..everywhere u go …in all 31 flavors..

My spots are publix, walmart, target and quicktrip.

By Foots

October 12, 2006 09:42 AM | Link to this

Good morning all.

Do you manage to meet single men or women as you go about your daily life?

My friends rag on me about this all the time because I get approached everywhere. I’ve met two men on the way from my house to my mailbox, one had actually left a note inside (which was cute, but kinda scary too). They say it’s because I have an open face and I always look happy about something. Plus if it’s a dude that I’m attracted to, I stare a little longer than I’m supposed to and let him catch me and he will usually take the hint. But sometimes even when I have that “I wish a brutha WOULD say something to me right now…” look on my face, some still brave the approach.

I’m out more during the day, especially on the weekends, so I meet more dudes then. But nighttime is cool too. I got the meeting men part down, and I got the breakup with men part down. It’s that middle part that I can’t quite seem to master. LOL!!

Have a Great Thursday, y’all!!

By Tazzee

October 12, 2006 09:45 AM | Link to this

Morning folks!

When I lived in Atlanta Whole Foods was definitely a spot to see and meet guys. Customers and employees, just a great spot all around.

As Lah Lah said downtown Atlanta is chock full of fine men. I used to enjoy the concert series on Broad street.

There area where I live now isn’t as ‘diverse’ as Atlanta, but there’s a few youngins that I flirt with whenever I go to my neighborhood Best Buy which is at least once a month.

The last time I met a man in daylight was during tailgating.

By NCgirlfromATL

October 12, 2006 09:53 AM | Link to this

Morning All!! I usually meet men at night. That’s probably b/c I’m usually closed up in my office all day, and don’t get out except for lunch or court during the day. Plus, I tend to be dressed in more casual and funky (read: trendy) clothes at night. I’m all suited up during the day, and there are as many criminals at the courthouse as there are child support dodgers, and domestic violence victims/perps…so I’m usually not looking when I’m there.

I have also met a lot of potentials at the gym. Seems an odd place to me, b/c no one looks cute in the gym, if you are actually working out. But like my trainer said last night, there is just something about a sweaty man!!

By Thick

October 12, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this

I do meet single men when out at the grocery store, or picking up lunch. I always make eye contact, I smile and be sure to speak; say hello how are you today, or if they look frustrated I may Hi! is your day going as planned. This just sounds cordial and friendly nothing expected just being nice to the guy. I have become an expert at checking the far left ring finger at a glance. This sounds so Geisha, but there’s a particular way that I smile, and I don’t actually roll my eyes, and it’s not really a blink either, I can’t explain it. I really find that guys are on such a prowl at night that I don’t have to approach them at all. Day and night I try to make sure that my energy (attitude) is good, guys so detect the bad energy or nasty attitude.

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 10:00 AM | Link to this

Good Morning.

As you all know I am no longer in the profession of meeting guys, LOL, but I have a friend who I have formed a very tight friendship with these past couple of years who has no problems meeting guys day or night. Some days she just stuns me with her approach to men. This is the one that I told you all about I guess about a month ago that took the guy that was changing his tire some bottled water.

One day we were going to Phipps and at a stop light there was this man, Law-dy that man was fine, standing at the bus stop. He was standing there in his suit kinda posed wide legged with his arms folded in front of him. When we stopped at the light she rolled down the window and said I would give you a ride but this isn’t my car and I know we would be all over each other before we got to the next light and my friend over here may not appreciate that. That’s when I drove off. I could see him in my rear view mirror standing there on the curb beckoning for us to come back.

One other time that stands out is when I was picking up a shirt for my oldest son at Macy’s and this guy was looking at some underwear with I guess his wife or girlfriend standing right there. My friend walks up to the guy hands him a box of underwear and says these would reeeeally look nice on you. He was blushing so hard he could barely say thanks, but the woman, who ever she was, was looking like bi—- I will cut you. LOL

Watching her proves that if you have a fun personality you can meet anybody anywhere. Man, if I had met her pre-Mase we could have had a lot of “singles” fun together.

BTW she is presently seeing the tire changing guy. She is in fact bringing him to dinner at my house tomorrow night.

I think one thing about meeting some one during the day, you are usually more bright eyed and energetic. Saturday morning grocery stores, department stores, electronic stores are all good day time places.

By Thick

October 12, 2006 10:07 AM | Link to this

I like going to the Football games, other than getting emotional about the game when I finally get up to buy a snack the men are all downstairs looking good and smelling good. Another place I like to frequent on a warm summer day is the recreational park, when my little brother was in little league, man those where the good old days. I love going to pick him up from practice.

By gavi1126

October 12, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this

Goodmorning Great topic! Ok, most of the places u mentioned.. I can see how it could work. Dont know about the yoga class though, cause i would just think he’s much on the feminine side?? Ive yet to see a hot guy at the grocery store.. so, that one is out! Lunch spots is defeneitly a go go, as i’ve seen fine men eating lunch.. And Elevator is just too hot and a yes yes in my case, cause i have met somebody once. Even that though, the chances are rare.

I think it depends on the single person’s attractiveness to wheather, he/she looks or comes off desperate or not. Sad but true.

By gavi1126

October 12, 2006 10:17 AM | Link to this

Lah - yes.. on friday’s after my classes., i go to the starbucks there on peachtree with my sis and i see soo many fine guys, there for lunch.. i just put my sunglasses on and check them out lol…

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 10:22 AM | Link to this

Morning folk. I need to speak to a budget specialist about how to save vacation time for the end of the year. I haven’t taken a real vacation this year but I don’t have any time left, I might need counseling.

I’m a night owl during the summer because I can’t stand heat and humidity. I tend to leave the confines of my home and put the Xbox controller down as soon as Fall starts to come in. I like daylight connections, I want to see a woman in her natural, daily vibe. Anyone can get dolled up, tape things up, push things up, hold it together for a night out on the town…lol. Plus my weakness is a woman who can look good in sweats, a baseball cap, a ponytail and some white kicks. You look good in that and your boy will holla at you.

Lunch time gatherings are good come-ups this time of the year. I have friends who work all over the city so we can meet in Buckhead and sit on the patio somewhere and stalk (I mean holla) or hit up a mall. But those 2 1/2 hour lunches might get me a pink slip.

Lah I tried to tell ya. Track # 3,4,6,7 & 10 are the hotness. Don’t sleep on that Bobby V. either, that cd might cause some sperm and eggs to link up for the 9 month courtship…LOL.

Just ignore me the rest of the day, sleep deprivation.

By Peachezz

October 12, 2006 10:22 AM | Link to this

I’ve been meeting men at the train station after getting off work; The last time LSU was in town for a game i met this fine latino brotha name Sean, oh my goodness I’m good at meeting people when i’m doing one of my just going to make a quick run to the grocery store & come back home that never fails me, i’m always looking decent and have my cherry jubilee lipstick or my Mac lip gloss on at all times Oh well, have a nice day bloggers.

Musing I’ll be in lurkesville with “the booth” if you need me ;)

By gavi1126

October 12, 2006 10:26 AM | Link to this

@ SeanJean - lol… on my spots.. u got me laughing for real.. I do go to QT though.. for gas.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this

Good morning!

ok, reading this entry, one would think I am boy crazy, LOL.. But I am not as bad as it seems…i definitely take notice of the “head turners” and if I am in the right mood (stars are aligned, having a thin day, good hair day, or whatever else girly thing), then I may try to put down my day time mack.

Raqi, now your friend sounds like a hoot! I bet she has men blushing all over. I was at lunch yesterday with friends and our server was SO adorable, I just said, dude you are SO cute. I wasn’t trying to ask him out, but having eye candy around sure can brighten up a girl’s day!

By 3rdwheelmourning

October 12, 2006 10:29 AM | Link to this

* I think it depends on the single person’s attractiveness to wheather, he/she looks or comes off desperate or not. Sad but true* I guess that’s why I never meet anyone when I go out…… Life is grand!

By Sexione

October 12, 2006 10:29 AM | Link to this

‘Morning Blog Family!!

I seem to meet men everywhere, gas station, grocery store, you name it. And just when I think I’m looking the messiest (lol), here comes some brotha calling me “Sexy”, and I’ll even laugh at him/with him (especially if he’s eyecandy) and say, now I know I look a mess! No matter where or when, I’m usually smiling and freely chatting, so I’m pretty much approachable at any given time (even though 99% of the time I have no intention of letting it go further). Geuss I haven’t come across one who REALLY sparks my interest, YET!!!

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 10:44 AM | Link to this

Just curious: Did the blog title catch anyone else off guard? I thought it was crunk Friday already for a second…lol

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 10:50 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

During my single days, I preferred meeting Women during the day time…I think the Weekend is best because during the week the Ladies seem to wear their “mug face” more…LOL…I loved catching a hot young thang out at the car wash or having a quick lunch break at some cafe-like spot.

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 10:53 AM | Link to this

Runnin All I could hear in my head was….

Singing…..”Doin it in the park……Doin it after dark, Ahhhh Yeahhhhh”

By SeanJohnson

October 12, 2006 10:56 AM | Link to this

@ Gavii…QT is the spot…females gotta get gas too…lol…going/coming from work….going out/coming from going out…dont be surprised when you see a dude like me peering over the gas pump..with a devilish grin

By Peachezz

October 12, 2006 10:59 AM | Link to this

Doing it in the park; doing it after dark oh yeah…rock creek park, oh yeah rock creek park

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 11:01 AM | Link to this

runnin…ohh yea, learned that trick from Mia, gotta have an attention grabbing title to draw folks in. Clearly, your mind was in the gutter, right next to mine, LOL

By Jake

October 12, 2006 11:01 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Blog,

Lurkesville today, but daytime is the best time to meet someone. You get a clear look at the person, and its more casual and feels a little more genuine. When your out at night, you appear to be “on the hunt” even when your just making conversation. Whether it is day or night you may be thinkin what you do to her if it works out, but at night its more apparent.

By Sexione

October 12, 2006 11:07 AM | Link to this

Runnin & Musing……get your minds out of the gutter!!!!! LOL It will make you do a double take, though!!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 11:09 AM | Link to this

Any females on here ever try what that girl did in that TV commercial, when she pulled up to the drive tru to pick up her dry cleaning and spotted a dude she liked in the rear view mirror, so she handed the clerk some extra $$$ to pay for two of his shirts? I thought that was classic…hint,hint!

As far as meeting random broads on the regular, happens every day!

Most of them have that “I know you are gonna try to hit on me look” but ya boy just smiles, speaks and keeps it movin!

I will on occassion open a few doors, if I see a lady coming in that direction, but for the most part, unless she is extremely fine, I keep it short and sweet and cordial. Females are so used to dudes running up on them all the time, that it surprises them when a dude just gives them a nice gesture and keeps it movin. Gotta always be different from the masses!

I figure if it is meant to be, I will see that person again and the foundation will already be laid! You know Atlanta is a small circle and when you see that person that second time, there will be more interest.

By Chink

October 12, 2006 11:10 AM | Link to this

Mornin,

LOL …yeah the title was a bit different

When do I meet guys I think it is when I least expect it ….and it is usually in the daytime …but when I used to be out at night I did get approached more often than not.

Update I received 3 missed calls on my cell from dude last night …got some voicemail …just don’t want to hear it right now

I think I am beginning to lose feelings for him …negative seems to be outweighing the positive…

Oh well

Have a good day All

By MsUnderstood

October 12, 2006 11:10 AM | Link to this

I meet a lot of guys during the daytime; and when i see someone attractive i just smile and that usually start the conversation off.

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 11:13 AM | Link to this

Now doing the booty bump with Peachezz and singing….

“Doin it in the dark…Doin it after dark, Ahhh yeaaa, rock creek park, Ahhh yeaaa, rock creek park”

Now riding that donkey and slapp’in a getty’up

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this

Diva The fun thing about her is she is not promiscuous and neither is she loud but she has mastered the art of putting a smile on a strange man’s face.

Sexione for some strange reason a guy has never received a positive response from me by calling me sexy. Why is that? I don’t know. I have just never reacted kindly to that.

LOL runnin, Yeah I was thinking I thought confessions were done on Friday’s.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this

hey MsUnderstood, can you shoot me an email, I got a question for you. wise.diva@gmail.com Thanks!

By Candidly Speaking

October 12, 2006 11:21 AM | Link to this

What up folks and fools?

I co-sign wit Runnin, daytime gives me a chance to check you out from head to toe. See whatcha workin’ wit.

Saturday mornings at Target, grocery sto, Home Depot are the best. You can separate the champs (sweatsuits, kicks and baseball hats) from the crumbs (house shoes, head scarfs, crusty feet and faces). LMAO

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 11:21 AM | Link to this

ok Chink, you know that you are my blog sister and everything, but I wonder if you were just looking for an excuse to bounce. Are you running away from that man because you care about him?

By Peachezz

October 12, 2006 11:23 AM | Link to this

Musing you are too funny!

LL, i did that twice with this guy who works in another dept, we were always going to lunch at the same time. Afterwards, he told me he’d never had anyone to do that for him that he did’nt know “personally” but really appreciated me paying for his lunch We went out a few times, nothing serious though but we’re still friends/coworkers

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 11:27 AM | Link to this

runnin yea the track with Three Six Mafia is some fire, “Chop me up.”

By abc

October 12, 2006 11:28 AM | Link to this

I’d think that ALL men would prefer ‘doing it in the daylight’, in terms of affinity for a little eye-opener first thing in the morning, wink-wink nudge-nudge.

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 11:30 AM | Link to this

Runnin It seems to me that ol’dude Chink has a thing for stuck her in the “Friend Zone” and she isn’t taking it very well!!!

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this

Diva If you weren’t correct I’d be offended…lol.

Sexione You know you were thinking the same thing, stop frontin…lol.

Chink You have issues…lol.

Now thinking about curvaceous sales reps on the 8th floor…..my mind is telling me noooo, but my body, my body is telling me yeahhhhhh

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this

@Peachezz Yeah, that’s what I am talking bout! Sistah’s need to be more original! If you really want to get a dudes attention, always be original, confident and most of all call some dayumn shots!

From a dudes standpoint, if you don’t know him and you pay for his lunch, or put $5 on a couple of his shirts of his, at the dry cleaners or send him a drink at the social spot, I guaran damn tee ya that that cat is going to be Intrigued to the point where he will definitely holla and add you to his mental rolodex. Your stock is automatically like Walmart and you definitely stand out above any other chick within a 50-100 foot radius!

Now you gotta be selective in this process, but you only get one chance to make a good first impression, so ladies take note, I gave y’all another one for free, next time I am going to start chargin!

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 11:40 AM | Link to this

I don’t wanna hurt nobodyyy, but there is something that I must confeeeEeeeeEEEEEeeeeEEEEEEeeeeeeeEEeeeeSSSSssss……Woooooo………I don’t see nothing wroonnngggg, wit a little bump and grind…I don’t see nothing wrooonnggggg, wit a little bump and grind

Now breaking out “12Play” album

By Chink

October 12, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this

Well I just listened to the voicemail

And I did not get a APOLOGY but I got alot of why did you do that ..this is the reason why …and whole bunch of BS. And the last sentence was don’t do that again….don’t worry buddy I won’t!

Making me look like someone who just lost it …

Anyway that’s it for me

Wise there are feelings but they arent that deep …there is some attachment issues though nonetheless

Lee ..I beg to differ …not like that at all …

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

Man, you know what, I just thought about this chick I took out on a date a year ago and I was so impressed with her, when we pulled up in this parking garage and she offered out the blue a 10 spot to the attendant.

I had a look on my face,like a deer caught in the headlights and told her that I had it, but then when I got inside of the social spot, out the blue, she came from nowhere, with a Vodka and OJ. It was one of my favorite drinks, how did she know!

I tell ya how she knew, she listened very well! I had mentioned it earlier in the evening. There was no love connect between us, but we are still hella cool to this day!

Ladies, I gave y’all another one for free!

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

I don’t think so Musing. If he called 3 times he probably wanted to apologize or explain his actions. I, personally, just can’t see giving him the boot over something so minor if they are “2 years” close. She is being a bit hasty on her move IMO.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 11:49 AM | Link to this

oh Chink, bless your heart. You remind me of myself, though. Lord knows I am a bit of a control freak, so anytime a guy can impact my emotions, I get on edge because I don’t necessarily enjoy the uneasy feelings. I try not to act in hysteria. The truth is, its not a man’s job to make you feel reassured all the time, and its not our job as women to do it for them either. Nobody wants to set up that kind of dynamic in insecurity. Your actions and the way you communicate should pretty much let you know how things stand, it’s just that a bunch of stuff get lost in transition with TOTAL misreads. Eh..it sucks. Sorry to hear you guys are on the outs though.

By G

October 12, 2006 11:52 AM | Link to this

Okay, I’ll bite. Me and some buddies were just discussing this topic over the weekend. I have a buddy who rarely goes to clubs, bars, evening socials, etc. He said his luck with women is best during the day. His popular spots include the grocery, Wal-Mart, Target, repair shops, and the mall on gameday. He opened my eyes to something I never thought about.

When I go to the store I have a limited focus. Get what you need quickly, and get out quickly as possible. I hate to shop. I figure everyone is just there for that specific purpose. Yeah, I notice cuties in the store, but what am I supposed to say? “Wow, looks like we have a good dinner planned. Any chance for us sharing recipes? LOL!

I really don’t do a good job of paying attention to women during the day. I notice, they may speak, but the thought never crosses to holla. I just keep it moving.

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 11:53 AM | Link to this

Going ol skool for the rest of the day….

It never really mattered too much to me, that you were, too dayumn old for me. All that really mattered was you’re my girlfriend. And babe, that’s all that mattered to me……oh babe, Let me love you dowwwwnnnnn…..

By Peachezz

October 12, 2006 11:54 AM | Link to this

*Musing, all i can imagine is you on stage grabbing the mic acting like RKelly, lawd have mercy; LL, that’s just me i’m very spontaneous like that and see nothing wrong with it, i’ve done a couple of times at the club when i’m out with my girls and of course them cheap azz chicks almost lost it; but i got a nice thank you, several dances, great conversation & phone number and a really good friend.

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 11:54 AM | Link to this

abc What is it with you men and the morning “get up”? LOL Y’all like sending us out with that look in our eyes of her man just did her right so don’t think about approaching her.

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 11:56 AM | Link to this

chink so let me get this strait. You blowing up his phone calling his job now he calls you 3 times and you won’t pick up. LOL

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

Chink & Raqi The reason I say this is because…HE is obviously going through something life changing with his mom…and Chink has found away to take the focus from his problem and turn it into a MY problem, which it is not…If she was so cool with dude and not interested in him like that, she’d take the hint and like dude stew quietly alone till he wanted to talk with her again….This is an example of a Woman thinking she has no alter motives for hanging with a guy when clearly she wants more than she lets on….He called and apologized, and now she wants to play the “chase me and say you’re sorry game” making her the victim…If dudes mom is deathly ill, making nice with you would be my last priority!

By Sexione

October 12, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this

Runnin….not frontin, I was down there with you for a sec!! Then I thought, couldn’t be…and it’s not even Friday. lol

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 11:58 AM | Link to this

yea G, see I can tell you are that type of guy that I would have to “accidently, but not really” bump into. Just OBLIVIOUS! LOL..

I don’t want to hear the men complain when we literally hand you an opening like a gift with a bow on top!

By Peachezz

October 12, 2006 12:00 PM | Link to this

You’re like a flower to tree, like words to a melody of looooooooovvvvvvvveeeee, there’s no way we could break up, no words that could make us blow our thinnnnnggggg, wer’e just……in-seperable, that’s what you are to me; incredible - it’s so wonderful to know you’ll always beeeee around…do do do do do do do oooo oooooooo

By Thick

October 12, 2006 12:01 PM | Link to this

Put the 12 play away Musing, it could really off the chain in here today.

I confess, I like going to the gym to watch men, yeah I work out, but the guys are a treat, and my power walks always offer some fine tennis shoe and short wearing guy with NO shirt, who is dark and sweating, niceee, real nice.

By Thick

October 12, 2006 12:02 PM | Link to this

Put the 12 play away Musing, it could really get off the chain in here today.

I confess, I like going to the gym to watch men, yeah I work out, but the guys are a treat, and my power walks always offer some fine tennis shoe and short wearing guy with NO shirt, who is dark and sweating, niceee, real nice.

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

Now wearing see-through linen pants and open linen shirt…barefoot with wind blowing linen suit, as if standing on a cliff..bald head shining while wearing 1996 style shades…..Singing

One, we’ll go to my room of fun…Two, dadadadadadadaaaa, 3 Cause tonight I’m gonna fulfill your fantasy Yeaaaaaa, 4 Lay down on the floor……..I’m gonna give you my 12Playyyyyyyyy

By SeanJohnson

October 12, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

@ Chink …is this the dude that althought yall dont titles ..yall pretty much are together?

By Foots

October 12, 2006 12:06 PM | Link to this

Oh runnin, watch out deh now with that RFTW!! You gon make me break out that Melvin Riley to go with it…

as we do this, Imma get you sprung, Baby got to give you some….Now whose is it?? (Yours!!) Baby, baby, I love the sound of your voice!

Don’t get me in trouble!! LOL!!!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 12:07 PM | Link to this

@Peachezz Ah, keep them dudes on they toez and you will always have you vacancies filled!

To them cheap azz chicks, they get the left overs!

By NCgirlfromATL

October 12, 2006 12:07 PM | Link to this

Musing/runningatl I saaaw you…(and him)walking in the raaaaaaaaain…you were holding haaands and I’ll never feel the saaaaaaaame!

If we’re going ole school, we gotta include O’ran Juice Jooooooooones!

By Peachezz

October 12, 2006 12:09 PM | Link to this

You’re like a flower to tree, like words to a melody of looooooooovvvvvvvveeeee, there’s no way we could break up, no words that could make us blow our thinnnnnggggg, wer’e just……in-seperable, that’s what you are to me; incredible - it’s so wonderful to know you’ll always beeeee around…do do do do do do do oooo oooooooo

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 12:10 PM | Link to this

@Wise Lurker When was the last time you put $5 on a mans shirt or sent a drink across the bar to a dude?

How bout callin up a dude and askin him on a date and treatin?

You been that route lately??

By Foots

October 12, 2006 12:11 PM | Link to this

Chink I see Musing’s point, but I know we don’t know the whole situation. You guys have been just “friends” for 2 years, but your reactions show that you have some really deep feelings for him and would like to be closer to him. I’m just being nosy, but why didn’t things take off between you two?

By Apple Bottom

October 12, 2006 12:12 PM | Link to this

Stop, Look, Listen to your heart hear what it’s saying, stop, look, listen to your heart hear what it’s saying - love, looooveee, llllllloooooovvvvveeeeeeeee!!!

By Chink

October 12, 2006 12:15 PM | Link to this

Lee

Dang I have hate email all written out and you had to say that ..PUNK (sorry I am mad)

I left him alone WTF am I supposed to do now Be at his Beck and Call …I don’t Fking think so

There is a way to deal with Life issues we all go through them and its not an excuse to be rude or mean…

I won’t send the email but I am not going to condone his behavior either …A apology would have began the communication process but he wants to play the blame game ..and I was going to play too

But I am going to chill aiight …

By abc

October 12, 2006 12:16 PM | Link to this

Raqi, nah, guys are just physically or metabolically built to be uh, ‘morning people’ if ya know what I mean. I’ve read that the more sex you have, the more sexual interest you’ll attract in general, for males and females alike.

I notice women in the gym, but I’m a lot more focused on getting through my workout and getting the heck out of there. I really try to avoid looking at them, I figure a lot of them are self-concious about being ogled by men. I know some women that won’t go to co-rec gyms because of that. I notice when women check me out in the gym, but I never act on it. I’m busy! Go do some squats, baby!

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 12:20 PM | Link to this

abc Speaking of which, the one time that I gave in to a day of sinful pleasure with the babe’s dad I performed my usual scrubba dub dub bath get right get clean routine afterwards then went to my parents to pick-up my other kid. I was standing there talking to mom and when my father left the room she straight out comes with ‘You better keep that man out of your bed’ and I’m like ‘What? What are you talking about?’ LOL Lyiiiiiing. She adds ‘I can see it and smell it all over you.’ Busted!! Now, I know that she didn’t smell nobody on ME, she was just trying to make me feel like crap. Which she succeeded in doing. Ain’t got no business knowlingly laying with a married man. HaHa

But on the note, I am out to lunch.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 12:20 PM | Link to this

I actually haven’t spotted Mr.Wonderful out on the scene in the last few weeks to do the random guy move, and I have a couple of guys in my trusty black (ok it’s pink) book that I will call to meet up to play pool, I treat a few games. Then at the Thrashers opening night last week, my date scored the tix, I paid for beverages at the game, and tipped the table when we ate afterwards - he didn’t want me to pay - so we compromised.

I come out of my pocket in good faith though, I enjoy doing it, not to invest in some booty or as a form of foreplay.

By Chink

October 12, 2006 12:20 PM | Link to this

Yes it is a relationship WITHOUT the titles

2 Commitment Phobes ..WTH do u do?

I am a mess right now …

I had the dear john letter all ready …

Calm down chink, calm down

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 12:26 PM | Link to this

I keep forget’in, we’re not in love anymore….I keep forget’in things will never be the same aaaagain….I keep forget’in how you made that soooooo clearrrr…I forget’in babe….Everytime you’re near…Everytime I see your smileeeee….

Wooooooo, got me doing a soul slide in my cubicle!!!

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 12:30 PM | Link to this

Foots You ain’t ready..lol.

NCgirl You don’t want none…lol.

Musing They trying to test us…..

*Baby, baby, baby, can’t U stay with me 2night? Oh baby, baby, baby, don’t my kisses please U right? U were so hard 2 find The beautiful ones, they hurt U every time

If I told U, baby, that I was in love with U Oh baby, baby, baby, if we got married, would that be cool? U make me so confused The beautiful ones U always seem 2 looooooosssseeeese*

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 12:32 PM | Link to this

Y’alll got me cracking up. Working like a Hebrew slave over here! So I’ll be mostly lurking today.

Chink Dang. I can’t even be mad at you. I really thought those 3 missed calls were about an apology. So HOLD YOUR POSITION GIRL!!! That’s some fragganaggle bull!

MUSING All alone on a Sunday morning….outside I see the rain is faaaaaaalling wooooe. Inside I’m slowly dying….but the rain won’t hide my crying, crying, cryyyying……Don’t you know my tears still burn the pillow….Set this place on fire cause I’m tired of your lies…All I needed was a simple hello…..(mental block, can’t remember that part!…let me just skip to the chorus) Don’t you see I’m all cried ouuuuuuuuut OVER YOU!!!!

Yeah baby!

By SeanJohnson

October 12, 2006 12:33 PM | Link to this

@ Chink…i was on your side yesterday..but if you send hate mail or act a fool..you will be wrong..dude is going through some things right now with death pending…he is acting crazy but that doesnt mean you have to too.. you did what u thought was the right thing to do…now let it go…let it burn…you can always find someone else to do your spit thingy to/with

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this

Chink, girl I wanna cyber thump you. You read like a seriously self-absorbed woman, and I know this because I battle that whole title too. I am going to post this loooonng (REALLY long) piece written by these two writers, a female (Sharon Gray) and a male (Anthony Rivers). It’s a tad flowery, and all but I certainly got the message! Just marinate on it for me, please..that’s all I ask!

Dearest Handsome,

Is it all a farce?

A devilish ploy, designed and passed down through a wicked fraternal tradition, to make an innocent succumb to the perils of premarital sex and other various faux relationship woos.

Am I your toy?

Your ultimate conquest?

Make her whimper-fall prey to the big bad wolf? Am I this said prey that has been once hunted in pure play in hunt of a quick thrill?

Is this deviant and ill-composed ‘chase’ really worth future heartache of another?

Are you playing me?

What is it you desire?

My sex?

My squeals from intimacy induced dances?

I plead in lack of angst or even in seek of anything else beyond pure curiosity derived from my deep skepticism, grave fear and horrific past heartbreak. What is it that you want from me?

Woman to man—

Straight with no chaser

I present to you in all of my nakedness. My truth.

Will you let me be…let me free…leave me…

If it is so—that your intentions are tainted for other desires than love.

If you seek a lover—solely and purposefully please let it be known and save me another grudgingly heartache at the expense of my dignity.

Let me be.

If you seek a buzz—a quick sexual jolt, an exchange of temporary ecstasy—be loud with your tongue and speak your rendition of the truth. I will listen.

Do you not aspire all of my essence in which enthralls one and weaves a collage of passions and whimsical tales of wanderlust?

You see…and I whisper this from within so mark my honesty with my life and the life of my unborn.

I like divinely, adore intensely and love immensely.

That’s my hand of truth—in all is bare so I plead in earnest repertoire,

For you to reveal your earthy intentions with me. My affair. My adulation. My love

Confess now, let it generously, and mercifully unfold…

Is it, indeed all a farce, as it was softly, from above, undoubtedly told?

To me. About you.

What is it that you seek?

Dearest Beautiful…

I feel as though you mistake me for another. For I seek what most men and some women for that matter, take for granted. In my experience(s), I’ve come across women who fear what feels right. They run from good intentions and efforts that say, I do, I will, for always, forever…

I could never imagine nor fathom the idea of placing my heart on the line only to present to you a false image of the future. That to me is a waste of time that would only serve the purpose of leaving us both exhausted. Sure, unforeseeable things happen between two people but it’s always been my belief that once a man is blessed with commitment from a woman, that’s when the real fun begins…

A toy or a quick thrill?

…I feel as though you mistake me for another. For I seek what most men and some women for that matter, take for granted. In my experience(s), I’ve come across women who fear what feels right. They run from good intentions and efforts that say, I could never imagine nor fathom the idea of placing my heart on the line only to present to you a false image of the future. That to me is a waste of time that would only serve the purpose of leaving us both exhausted. Sure, unforeseeable things happen between two people but it’s always been my belief that once a man is blessed with commitment from a woman, that’s when the real fun begins…A toy or a quick thrill?

Dearest beautiful, as I said, you mistake me for another. I see and even know many who play such games to fulfill what you accuse me of. At times because of disappointments in my own relationships, I too have considered going that route. To become a man interested only in quick thrills, mindless pursuits and efforts where pay dirt is another notch on my manhood. Crazy thing though; I once discovered what I’d always believed in my heart to be true and you know what that is? In a committed relationship, love gets better; it has purpose and the sex? Very hot! Within the realms of commitment, a man is blessed with the opportunity to learn all of your pleasure zones from head to toe; physically and mentally… I crave that sort of committed exploration.

Man to woman- I present to you my own nakedness and truth for everyday I fight the very same skepticism that you carry so close to your heart. This feeling which causes you to doubt and question a man before he can even utter words like “how are you today?” It hurts my heart to have that which I refer to as the most beautiful blessing on earth (Woman) convict me without so much as having the courage to investigate my heart on a personal level.

That question you place before me; “what is it you want from me?”

I sigh whenever I hear it. My adult life flashes before my eyes because it conjures up the disappointments that I too have suffered under the guise of love. I don’t fear trying again but I do fear that after you’ve witnessed the ease in which I’m willing to share my heart and soul, you will then take it for granted or run because it’s not what you’ve become accustomed to when dealing with a man.

What is it that I seek?

A chance without early conviction… Run from me if I treat you wrong or curse me out but if I show to you sincerity, passion, kindness, comfort, support, honesty, and a desire to build something together based solely on the merits of my actions; reward me with your own sincerity. Don’t run if I treat you right… Don’t walk away from the possibility that forever could potentially be right here with me… I’m not afraid. I dream about it all the time…

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this

SJ In Chink’s defense, she said she wasn’t sending the hate mail. Sounds like she’s using caution by NOT responding to anything right now, in fear that she might say or do the wrong thing. So cut her some slack. She’s venting to us, not acting on what she’s venting. Just talking to us….. WE GOT YOUR BACK GIRL!!!! Like I said, JUST HOLD YOUR POSITION. STAND STILL and DON’T RE-act.

Now simmer down now!

By QC

October 12, 2006 12:39 PM | Link to this

Okay, i’ve stopped working and have all these good old skool songs in my head now…hmmmmmmm thanks guys!

By abc

October 12, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this

No offense intended Chink, but it sounds like you aren’t very compassionate about dude’s ailing mother and the effect that has on him, you want to punish dude for behavior you don’t like, and are experiencing significant rage on account of that. Sounds familiar to me — I dumped her azz due to repeated similar behavior. I cite it as a mental condition, ‘narcissistic rage’.

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 12:44 PM | Link to this

No one else can make me feel the colors that you bring; stay with me while we grow old and we will live each day in the spring time; cause lovin yoooooouuuuu is easy cause you’re beautiful and every day of my life is filled with lovin you; lovin yooouuu is more than just a dream come true and every day that we ooooo is more than lovin you; lah lah lah lah lah, lah lah lah lah lah, lah lah lah lah lah lah lah lah lah lah lah, dooby dooby dooby do ooo, ah ah ah ah ah ah!

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this

As I stand here contiplating all the right things to decideeeee….Will I take the wrong direction all my lifeeeeee, Where will I go with life ahead of meeeeeeeeeeee……..Who can I run toooooo, To share this empty spaceeeee, tell me who can I run to whennn I need looooovveeeeee…Who can I run toooooo when I need looooovvvvveeee…

“And scene”

By say what?

October 12, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this

LL’s post all have the woman buying or purchasing something for him or some other dude in the street. Why would a man with his dough get so excited over a woman spending her money on him. strange fellow, I tell you.

By MsUnderstood

October 12, 2006 12:50 PM | Link to this

@ Wise Diva

My email server is down. But i be glad to answer your question?

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 12:51 PM | Link to this

Wise That was beautiful….and hella long…LOLOLOLOL

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 12:51 PM | Link to this

@ say what (LOL at that name), goodness knows I don’t defend LL and his beliefs, but most men aren’t wanting to see you come out of pocket because they CAN NOT, they like the effort, the intent, and the financial reciprocity that they never seem to get on the dating scene

By GradSkool_Dropout

October 12, 2006 12:52 PM | Link to this

It was love at first siiiiiight, I knooooooow, from the way she looked at me Her eyes said it aaaall Looooong days and nights, we speeeennnnnt Until she dropped the bomb on me When she said that she Was unhappily maaaaried with children And I wish I never met her…at aaalllll Even though I love her so She got love from me But she still belongs to someone else

Sorry ya’ll…got caught up in the singin’

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 12:53 PM | Link to this

All of my purple life, Ive been looking for a dame…That would wanna be my wife…That was my intention, babe…If we cannot make babies, maybe we can make some time; Thoughts of pretty u and me, erotic city come alive. We can funk until the dawn, making love til cherrys gone…. Erotic city cant u see, thoughts of pretty u and me… boooom bum bum. boooom bum bum (that was the bassline!)

Woe woe, woe woe, woe oo woe oo woe!

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 12:53 PM | Link to this

HotSauce you don’t know nothing bout Minnie Rippinton

I stumbled on this photograph

It kind of made me laugh

Took me way back

Back down memory lane

I see you standing there

Such a happy, happy pair

Love beyond compare

Look a there; Look a there

The way you held me

No one could tell me

That love would die

Oh, why

Then I had to find this photograph

I thought I had forgot the past

Now I’m slippin fast

Back down memory lane

I feel the happiness

I feel the pain

Thought it was over

Here I go again

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 12:53 PM | Link to this

One day chile i won’t have to listen to your lies, by then i would’ve made up my own mine, shoop shoop shoop shoop, i wanna be free oh yeahhhhh, i wanna be free oh yeah

Those are all the words i can remember from the Ohio Players song - Honey

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 12:54 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Musing, I was WAITING for you to clown me, haha! You don’t have to read it all at one time, with your ADD flaring up and stuff!

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 12:57 PM | Link to this

GradSkool_DropOut Ummm, nice try guy but Carl Thomas is NOT old school dude!!! LOL!

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 12:57 PM | Link to this

Don’t you remember you told me you loved me babyyyyyyyy, you said that you’d be coming back this way againnnnn baaaaaabe…baby, baby, baby, ohhhhhh baby….I love you…I really doooooooo..Longgggggg ago anddd sooooo far away….I FEEEeeeeelllll in love with you before the second shoowwwwwww

Now looking for someone to slow dance with around the office and cup my hands onto their phat booty

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 01:00 PM | Link to this

Loddy doddy we likes to party. We don’t cause trouble. We don’t bother nobody..We’re just the men that’s on the mike. And when we rock upon the mike we rock the might RIGHT. For all a yall, keepin yall in hell, just to see you smile and enjoy yourself. Cause it’s cool when you cause a cozy condition. That we create, cause that’s our mission. So listen to what we say because this type of #$%@ happens everyday Ahhhhh YEAH!

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this

All this old school love makes me feel like there is hope for the world….

Now wiping single tear from right eye with fore finger

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 01:04 PM | Link to this

Musing That would be slow DRAG dude!!!!

I had some problems. And no one could seem to solve them. But you found the answer. You told me to take a chance and learn the way of love, my baby. And all that it had to offer. In time you will see that love won’t let you down. You said that you loved me. Said hurt only came to pass me. It sounded so convincing, that I gave it half a chance. And learned the way of love my baby. There is so much love inside me. And all that I have I give my all to you…allllll, all my love baby. And allllllll this love is waiting for you!!

OK, I gotta get back to work!

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this

“You read like a seriously self-absorbed woman”

Ain’t this some mess! Now when I said the same thing yesterday everyone came to Chink’s defense and I was too harsh, but when a fellow woman says it, it’s gospel?? Women are a trip…lol.

Diva step away from the keyboard and find a real job because you have waaayyyyy too much time on your hands to copy and paste that long azz post, dang!!!…lol. Email all that next time…hehehe.

Hot Sauce Good one but ya’ll still ain’t ready….

I don’t know what to do, girl I’m head over heels in love with you And I need to know what it means to you, yeah yeaahhhhh With all this madness goin round, I really think it’s time that we settle down You’re my only girl, and I’ll be your only man…..so tell me girl It’s about trust and honesty, That’s the way it’s supposed to be, Unconditional Love….

By G

October 12, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this

Hey Diva, would you believe I actually dimissed some “accidental bumps” for her being on the clumsy side. Of course I missed the point and just simply excused her awkardness. I guess the clumsy was actually on my part. I’m not that good with noticing the signs either. You pretty much have to hit me staight on……caveman clubs usually work!LOL!!

@abc I’m the same way about the gym. I’m serious about my workouts. I notice, but trying to holla will set my workout back. The gym can be as competitive as the club when comes to the “meet-market”. No hottie in the gym will go unnoticed, or unapproached. All the employees and muscle-heads hop on the hotties strong and quick. All of that socializing and holding up equipment gets in the way of my workout. I try to avoid the gym social days (Mon. & Tus).

By Chink

October 12, 2006 01:06 PM | Link to this

Wise

That was very beautiful

I am calm …my emotions have subsided …thinking about lunch

abc I am far from narcistic…I just need alone time now …I will leave him alone too.

One thing I hate is comparing

Everyone’s burden is different but once you start comparing apples and oranges ..you are basically judging and that my friends doesn’t get you anywhere.

I understand what he is going through but that doesn’t make everything else IRRELEVANT.

Note: I am not saying I am perfect All I am saying is that I am Human.

By Sexione

October 12, 2006 01:07 PM | Link to this

Wise…..I think you may have picked the wrong title for today, it should’ve been something like, “So You Think You Can Sing” OR “Old Skool Crooning”. hahahahahaha!!!!

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 01:08 PM | Link to this

LahLah can you tell i’m still learning! but that is one of my favorite songs

i’m an old skool lover in training

By Sweet Tea

October 12, 2006 01:11 PM | Link to this

All these “old skool songs” got me doing the wap

hey, hey, hey, bam bam bam bam - i am really working this “pony tail” of mine

By Sexione

October 12, 2006 01:15 PM | Link to this

Sweet….now that’s funny, I had forgotten all about that dance!!

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 01:15 PM | Link to this

I feel so unsure

As I take your hand and lead you to the dance floor

As the music dies

Something in your eyes

Calls to mind a silver screen

And all it’s sad goodbyes

I’m never gonna dance again Guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it’s easy to pretend I know you’re not a fool Shoulda known better not to cheat a friend waste this chance that I’d been given So I’m never gonna dance again, The way I danced with you

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this

LOL @ Sexione..I know, RIGHT?

Chink, I think it will work out fine, I just personally take friendships very, seriously. Especially if it is with a man that I may have feelings for. I don’t usually invest time in janky people, so I know they have good hearts, and I allow them a little margin of error. At the same time. ..I also hold firm to “teaching people how to treat you”…so it sounds like it comes down to picking the right time, and choosing your battles -and to pull from yesterday’s topic..if he was observing your “contents under pressure” behavior, it could say a lot about how you two resolve conflict. Just don’t throw away friendships all willy nilly!

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 01:19 PM | Link to this

Musing Your LV made me think of the day back in the early 90’s when I won Front Row tickets, A limo Ride, and Dinner at the Summit Restaurant (Atop what is now the GM World HQ) in Detroit. Luther sang to JustMe all night! I love LV this is 1 of my fav’s

AHH Yeah, twilly didlly dee……. well alright! Twlliy dee twlliy Dee……….. Throw back the rug everybody, move all the tables and chairs, we’re gonna have a funky time tonight…………. Everytime that we meet we skip and dip to the beat, Yeah! What could be better than getting together Yeah aahhhhh. The last time we partied, it ended when the sun came out. That’s why Yo Mam told you you couldn’t go out……. Stay in the House!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 01:19 PM | Link to this

@By Say What It’s not the women spending money on the dude, it’s the jesture in general terms.

It happens so rarely, that it is a breath of fresh air when it does happens! Men are expected to treat and wine and dine, but many females often take that for granted and don’t return the same favors.

The truth is that dudes have many of the same likes and dislikes as women ( i.e. the attention to detail, thoughtfulness and the listening factor), so when someone female goes over and beyond the call of duty, in most cases, we take notice.

By runninatl

October 12, 2006 01:19 PM | Link to this

“*All this old school love makes me feel like there is hope for the world….

Now wiping single tear from right eye with fore finger*”…..

LMAO @ Musing, you have lost it!…hahahaha.

“i’m an old skool lover in training”

LOL @ Hot Sauce

No work getting done today…

*Baaaabbbbbbbbyyyyyyyyy…….

I’m hot just like an oven,

I need some lovin,

And baaaaabbbbbbbyyyyyyy,

I can’t hold it much longer,

It’s getting stronger and stronger.

When I get that feeling,

I want sexual healing.

Sexual healing, oh baby.

Makes me feel so fine,

Helps to relieve my mind.*

By Rell

October 12, 2006 01:24 PM | Link to this

yea yea yea…..i am back for a moment…what is the deal CHICKENS……lol

By Thick

October 12, 2006 01:24 PM | Link to this

Sometimes on Friday I actually buy the FedEx guy breakfast he looks so happy when I do this for him. I told him that I appreciate him carrying those heavy packages for me. He is so nice and nice to look at!

By Sweet Tea

October 12, 2006 01:24 PM | Link to this

Love is a house & you got the keeeyyy, open up and let me into your heart baby; annnnnnnnnnnd iiiiiiiii aaaaammmmmmmm telling you, iiiiiiiiiiiiiii””’mmmmmmmm not going, you’re the best thing i’ve ever known there’s no way i could ever go no no no no way no no no way iiiiiiiiii’mmmmmmm living without you, i’m not living without you not living without you, i don’t wannnaaa be ffffrrrreeeeeeeee, i’m staying i’m staying and u and u and u u’re gonna love meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee oh oh oh oh oh you’re gonna love me yes un huh, um um um um, love me, love me, love me llllllllooooooooovvvvveee me…..you’re gonnaa llllllllllllllluuuuuuvvvvvvvv ha MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!

By Jake

October 12, 2006 01:29 PM | Link to this

@chink I was lurking, but dayummm. Call dude and apologize for being inconsiderate about what he’s going through, even if he was actin like he got it caught in the zipper. Be the adult and step outside yourself for a second, if he still trips then back off. IT IS OBVIOUS THAT YOU CARE! Try the Humble Pie, he will win the “stare down” because he has a real serious problem to help him stay upset!

@BlogThe ol’skool battle is wild!..LOL

Back to Lurkesville

By TheVoice

October 12, 2006 01:30 PM | Link to this

Newbie here…so if the girl says at the end of the date “you paid for way too much,” what’s the translation as far as feelings?

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 01:38 PM | Link to this

OMG Musing No not that song (12:57). I have freakin tears in my eyes right now, literally. I can’t believe it. LOL WOW. The first time the man and I had an intense heated argument while dating I told him to get the (bleep) out of my house and out of my life. I used the “F” word right there in front of my kids. The next morning which was a Saturday I flew with my kids and my oldest brother and his family down to Florida for a week. I did everything in my power not to think about Mason. When I returned home he had left a message on my answering machine singing that very song (he has a beautiful singing voice). I just sat there on my bed and cried (Man I know y’all can’t feel what I am feeling right now but this is deep). My son came in and asked what was wrong and I just said nothing sweetie, go finish unpacking your things. He wouldn’t understand even if I told him. We soon reconciled and things were back on track :-)

I don’t think I remembering having heard that song since that day. Man you got me weeping over here with a hankering to call my husband (sniff). LOL WOW!

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 01:41 PM | Link to this

Girl, tell me only this …that I have your heart for alllll ways….anddddd you want me by you side, whisper the words I will always love you….andddd forever I will always be your lover and I know if you really care…I will always beeeee there……BECause I’mmmmmmmm TRUELLLLLLYYY….Truely In love with you girlllllll….I’m TRUELLLLLLYYY Head over hills with your love….I’m ^ttttttrrrrrrrrreeeeellllllllyyyyyyyyy^…

By aggressively witty

October 12, 2006 01:42 PM | Link to this

Old school apologetic love for you suckaaasss

Ive been so many places in my life and time/Ive sung alot of songs/I’ve made some bad lines/I’ve acted out my life on stages, with 10,000 people watching/but were alone now and Im singing this song to you.

I know your image of me is what I hoped to be/I treated you unkindly but darling cant you seee/there’s no one more important to me/babbbyyyyy cant you see thru meeee cause were alone now and im singing this song to you.

By Pharress_Beuller

October 12, 2006 01:45 PM | Link to this

What up Bloggers,

I couldn’t resist….

You want my love and you can’t deny, You know it’s true, but you try to hi-ide, You turn down love like it’s really bad, You can’t give whaaaat you never haaaad

Well bless your soul, you can fool a few, But, IIIIII know the truth and so do you

You can’t hide love…you can’t now, You can’t hide love…it’s got ya (got ya), Betcha you want my love, i betcha, You can’t hide feeling insiiiiiiiiide…

You can’t pretend there’s nothing there

Yeah, The Elements are one of the illest!

Now going back to Lurksville…rockin a shiny silver suit with the V neck down to my navel (Guitar in hand). Black sparkling thigh-high boots with goldfish swimming in the soles…doing the same ol’ two step!

By abc

October 12, 2006 01:48 PM | Link to this

Man, ‘Superstar’ is an oooollllld song! Which do you like better Leon Russell or Karen Carpenter? My HS GF used to dig that song.

You can’t ‘train him how to treat you’. You can try, chicks usually do that through punishment of one kind or another, but if they don’t treat you right, you can’t change that. Also, staying angry for 24 hours is a sign of something amiss that has nothing to do with him.

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 01:49 PM | Link to this

Dang MusingLee you gonna make me lose my job before I am suppose to leave. Gonna make people think I am sitting here with tears in my eyes because I hate my job or something. I think my tear ducts are broken…they won’t stop running. WOO. I’ll be back. DAMN YOU MUSING. LOL

By Jake

October 12, 2006 01:50 PM | Link to this

@chink BTW, I know that this all started because you were tryin to show some concern, but don’t make it worse by being “offended.” It’s a MAN THING, the cats dealing wit it, he may let you in, but may just want suffer alone to keep you from being the victim of his misplaced anger.

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 01:56 PM | Link to this

Now handing Raqi a blog hanky…and a good’ol church hug…In my Billy Dee Williams voice I say

“Go call your husband baby, tell him he means the world to ya”

Pharress Dayum if you didn’t steal my two step…LOLOLOL…LMAOOoooo and zip that shirt up showing all the taco meat to the ladies….That stuff is like Kriptonite around here for these chicks…LOLOLOLOLOL

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 02:02 PM | Link to this

Just to be close to you Girlllllll, just for a moment, must for an hour…Just to be close to you Girllll.

I was a lonely Man, a man with no direction with no purpose…with no one love and no one to love me….Until you came into my life ….You made my rough edges smooooth……Take my hand….

By Blue_Kolla

October 12, 2006 02:03 PM | Link to this

LL Females are so used to dudes running up on them all the time, that it surprises them when a dude just gives them a nice gesture and keeps it movin.

I figure if it is meant to be, I will see that person again and the foundation will already be laid!

You know you my dawg right?!

Chink Sounds like there’s been an exchange of POWER. But you couldn’t handle the responsibility that came with it. You changed into your Ms. Bigg Badd suit, got your chest all aired up, and got the big head. Returning a call with a firm, yet understanding attitude would’ve greatly increased your stock price.

True power is NOT wielding your sword, even though you can.

By NCgirlfromATL

October 12, 2006 02:09 PM | Link to this

Adding a touch of jazz to the mix…

I can only give you love that lasts forever. And a promise to be near each time you call. And the only heart I own, for you and you alone, that’s all…that’s all…

Now, ask me to sing it to you. I promise goosebumps…musings/SJ/Blatino/Blue your tix are at WillCall…

By Sweet Tea

October 12, 2006 02:10 PM | Link to this

Musing you are hurting us

lol Pharress stealing your two step

zip that shirt up showing all your taco meat, that stuff is like kriptonite around here for these chicks

LMAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!

By THE INFAMOUS DK

October 12, 2006 02:14 PM | Link to this

Sup people.. Music you say… Have a little Otis Redding Old man trouble..

Ole man trouble Go find you someone else to pick on I live my live now you see Ole man trouble Please stay away from me, now

Ooh yeah, Yeah

Oh I look like I’m down in my luck Please send faith to help pick me up I’ve lived this way so many years Ole man trouble

Please wash away all my fears Help me

Sometimes Sometime I get - I get a little worried ole man trouble Please Please

Stay away from me Ole man trouble Stay away from me You’re nothing but trouble Stay away, stay away Please

By THE INFAMOUS DK

October 12, 2006 02:16 PM | Link to this

Tramp! What you call me? Tramp. You didn’t! You don’t wear continental clothes, or Stetson hats. Well I tell you one dog-gone thing. It makes me feel good to know one thing. I know I’m a lover. Matter of opinion. That’s all right, Mama was. Papa too. And I’m the only child. Lovin’ is all I know to do. You know what, Otis? What? You’re country. That’s all right. You straight from the Georgia woods. That’s good. You know what? You wear overalls, and big old brogan shoes, and you need a haircut, Tramp.

By Pharress_Beuller

October 12, 2006 02:19 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ Musing

Dang! I called myself trying to be different by shaving mine off. Slap some baby oil on my chest, just so the ladies would see their reflection…oh well.

Anyway, just borrowing the two step…it’s universal.

Now up in Home Depot (still in my shiny suit) paying for some Nu Grow for the chest hair…thinking, “The women gon luv this! I hope it doesn’t burn.”

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 12, 2006 02:23 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon,

I shall join in on the fun for a sec…I am in love with John Mayer and this is my favorite song.

I dont trust myself loving you

No, I’m not the man I used to be lately See, you met me at an interesting time And if my past is any sign of your future You should be warned before I let you inside Hold on to whatever you find, baby Hold on to whatever will get you through Hold on to whatever you find, baby I don’t trust myself with loving you I will beg my way into your garden And then I’ll break my way out when it rains Just to get back to the place where I started So I can want you back all over again (I don’t really understand) Hold on to whatever you find, baby Hold on to whatever will get you through Hold on to whatever you find, baby I don’t trust myself with loving you Who do you love? Girl I see through your love Who do you love? Me or the thought of me? Hold on to whatever you find, baby Hold on to whatever will get you through Hold on to whatever you find, baby I don’t trust myself with loving you

By Sidelines

October 12, 2006 02:27 PM | Link to this

Musing, You finally hit a cord with me…dat’s my sooonnng!!!!!!

just to be clooooose to you girllllll, awwwwwhhh yeahhhhhhh, I was lonely man, a man with no direction, no purpose…chs, chs, chs, and no one to love me, but for me….and, awh gurllll then yah, yah came into my yah made my jagged edges smoooth, yah ma’ woooooo, you made my direction soooo clear, you….awhhh woman you became my purpose, my reason to livin’ girl, you see, your my heart, you my soul, your my stooooonnnnne inspiration baby, awh that’s why i’m standin’ here, singin’ and opening my arms to you, why don’t cha’ take my hannnnnddddd, awh we’ll be love forevah’ yeah….take my hannnnddd, awh we’ll be alone you and me, yeahh…..

ON TOPIC: I like many others here on the blog, usually meet guys during the day, at publix, Home Depot, usually on a saturday, wearing like runnin said, a baseball cap, jeans and some kicks…(thinking to myself), I’m really not at my best, no makeup and such…but, don’t know what it is, but dudes still hollah’….I was told it’s the naturally beauty or something. But, it’s all good though….one guy even chased me out of Home Depot one day, ok, ok…so, I told him I was gonna come back so he could give me his number, but I was honestly so wrapped up in my project I was working on at home (my grill). I was like no he didn’t chase me out of the store….lol!

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 02:29 PM | Link to this

Wise Could guys approach potential Females with an old school song??? And if she likes it, she should give you her number?????

Walking up to Lady Wise…and singing…..

Say you, say me….say it for alwaysssss….that’s the way it should be…Say you, say me…say it togetherrrr naturally

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 02:32 PM | Link to this

Music Question

Granny wants Kenny G - Night Life is the name of the song or something close to that. Anybody know what it is?

Thanks all Granny’s Baby

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 02:38 PM | Link to this

Sidelines LOLOLOL…Go head now…I wasn’t even gonna try to give the blog all of that..but somehow you did it!!! hahahahaha…Yeahhhhh

Now practicing Ka-razer with Jim Kelly…wearing a black karate gee, shirtless with sweaty taco meat showing…with red karate shoes on

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 02:39 PM | Link to this

Musing You are one wild and crazy guy in my best Richard Pryor voice!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 02:41 PM | Link to this

@Musing Lee Got an idea bruh, why don’t you try that approach on the way out the door,from the gig and see what it gets ya!

Give us a report tomorrow fella! I would be shocked as hell, if somebody don’t slap yo azz..LOL.

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 02:45 PM | Link to this

@At the blog master Why don’t you put one of those ## online now windows on the top of the blog. It would be interesting to see how many folks out there Longtime Lurkin

By Sidelines

October 12, 2006 02:48 PM | Link to this

Musing, yeah…that’s my song right there…lol! I figured I’d help a brutha’ out…But, red karate shoes????? …lol

By Sweet Tea

October 12, 2006 02:50 PM | Link to this

God bless you…U make me feel “brand new” for God blessed me with U….make me feel braaannd nnneeewwwwww! My love, i never found the words my love, to tell you how i feel my love, mere words can not explain! Precious love, you held my life within your hand, created everything i am; taught me how to live again. Only Uuuuuuuuu, care when i needed a friend, you’ve been with me thru thick & thinnnnnnnnnnnnnn, this song is for you, filled with gratitude and lovvvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeeee

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 02:54 PM | Link to this

LL If Brian McKnight did it he’d have his pants around his ankles before he got the second verse out!!! LOLOLOL…So is that a testament to how well he sings, how well he looks, or how swole his pockets are?!?!?!

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

October 12, 2006 02:55 PM | Link to this

Good Afternoon Everyone

@Chink If dude can’t think straight and you’re too emotional…a conversation won’t be beneficial. When I’m in my mood that everything out of my SO’s mouth is BS then I walk away from the situation because I know that I’m not thinking straight and I am not able to think past my emotions. It boils down to if 2 people value the friendship/relationship they will find a way to resolve the issue…one will accept the wrong just to make “it” right. There are multiple times in a relationship when you’ll be like that’s some BS, but whatever because you just want to move pass the dispute….especially if you can see the bigger picture…the relationship. Now, void everything I’m saying if what you feel is the ULTIMATE Betrayal…if not, just show some forgiveness….and seek a common ground.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 02:59 PM | Link to this

I love reading ya’ll crazy people,

Musing, chicks dig serenades (it helps if its on tune, but if its heartfelt, ya’ll can melt us)

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 03:04 PM | Link to this

JustMe Night Life?

Midnight Motions

By the Time This Night is Over

Spanish Nights

Northern Lights

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 03:06 PM | Link to this

I am soo sleepy! I didn’t go to bed last night at ALL - ugh..exhaustion. - Insomnia sucks.

Is anyone doing anything exciting this weekend? Atlantic Station should be a nice day time place to mingle, especially with the Taste of Atlanta event, foodies mount up!

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 03:07 PM | Link to this

All these love songs really make me wish i was in love, can somebody pass me some soft “blog tissue” please….thanks!

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 03:07 PM | Link to this

abc while riding in my car going to lunch I listened to some Pick Up The Pieces by KennyG featuring David Sanborn. How’s that for compromising?

By abc

October 12, 2006 03:15 PM | Link to this

Raqi, huh… now I’M going to throw a Sanborn CD out my car window! Dang!

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 12, 2006 03:15 PM | Link to this

Here’s a song for the break up…John Mayer again..

SLOW DANCING IN A BURNING ROOM

It’s not a silly little moment It’s not the storm before the calm This is the deep and dying breath Of this love that we’ve been working on Can’t seem to hold you like I want to So I can feel you in my arms Nobody’s gonna come and save you We pulled too many false alarms

We’re going down And you can see it, too We’re going down And you know that we’re doomed My dear, we’re slow dancing in a burning room

I was the one you always dreamed of You were the one I tried to draw How dare you say it’s nothing to me? Baby, you’re the only light I ever saw I’ll make the most of all the sadness You’ll be a bytch because you can You’ll try to hit me just to hurt me So you leave me feeling dirty Cause you can’t understand

We’re going down And you can see it, too We’re going down And you know that we’re doomed My dear, we’re slow dancing in a burning room

Go cry about it, why don’t you? My dear, we’re slow dancing in a burning room Don’t you think we oughta know by now? Don’t you think we should have learned some how?

By Tazzee

October 12, 2006 03:16 PM | Link to this

Its a lazy afternoon, just the kind of a day made for loving you. Soon the evening breezes will start to blow, baby grab your hat now ‘cause here we go. Oooh I love the things you do and the way that I feel when I’m close to you. I have dreamed so long is it really so, baby grab your hat now ‘cause here we go. Of to wonderland…

Now that is one sexy old school song right there.

By Sidelines

October 12, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this

WD, already have tickets for “taste of atl”…this is my first here in the “A”, so i’m looking forward to it!

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 03:25 PM | Link to this

I’m not doing anything special this weekend, i’ll be staying close to home doing a little house cleaning, laundry, washing my hair, etc etc etc….a lot of my coworkers are participating in the Aids Walk

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 03:27 PM | Link to this

Raqi Girl Granny never get’s the name of the sons right - Bless her Heart! I search until I am blue (no pun intended - I think) then if I can’t figure out what the heck it is I pick something by the Artist she wants and send them to her in Texas!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 03:28 PM | Link to this

@MusingLee No offense bruh, but you ain’t no Brian McKnight!

Some cats can get away with murder, if they have a job that involves being seen on TV.

Average dudes can’t do the ish that they can do. Example, if one of these chicks on here showed up at her car and Brian was in the backseat singing, that chick would be surprised, but she ain’t callin no police. You do that ish and yo azz goin to jail and might receive a beat down in the process.

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 03:34 PM | Link to this

LL LMAO…Man you ain’t lying….That chick would be like…”Ohhhhh, dayum is that Brian McKnight singing to me?…”Ahhhh, dayum..Musing GTH outta my car m/f!!”

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 03:35 PM | Link to this

LL, you don’t know, Musing could be better than Brian, LOL. If the guy isn’t looking like Ned the wino and has a bad odor, it could actually bring a smile!

you are so cynical!

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 03:39 PM | Link to this

Oh yes WiseDiva I will be spending my weekend in the Blue Ridge Mountains with my husband, his brother and wife and their 2 yr old, and his mother and father. And just like last year we will be stuck in the cabin guest room that has extremely uncomfortable twins beds while the other get a nice king size bed. We will enjoy a day of hiking, which I will be sure to do, because if not I will stuck at the cabin with his mother which we all know is just the dearest person in the world. If I refuse to go I come off as the snobbish biotch in the eyes of his family because this is their family tradition. It will be soooo much fun. Yeaaaa Me (as I do a cheerleader leap) Can’t you just hear the sarcastic excitement in my voice.

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this

raqi you’re a trip girl. Good luck with that trip.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this

Raqi, please don’t catch a charge this weekend, LOL. You be sure to schedule some quiet time alone, and a quickie in the woods, and you may just make it through unscathed!

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 03:46 PM | Link to this

Y’all ain’t gone believe this!

I just walked back to my desk, sat down and Luther popped up out of nowhere and started serenading JustMe

He said….

The world’s sweetest lady lives around my waaaaay and I think that I’m in Love. Hey there Sweetheart you don’t know what you’ve done, I was just so lonely now I only think about your love sweet love and your the sweetest one…. I’ve ever known; Your the one, the sweetest love, I’m in love forever with the Sweetest Lady, and I know she loves me too! Hey there Sweetheart girl we live beyond this You are so amazing I’ll forever be in love, sweet love, sweet love, cause you’re the sweetest one, I have ever known, everrrrryyyyone, says it’s love and we belong together, the sweetest love, you’re the one and I’m in Love Yeahhhhhh!

Now fanning myslf cuz Luther luvs JustMe

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 03:47 PM | Link to this

@Wise Lurker Yo know yo azz is full of it! You would be the main one reachin under the seat or in the glove box lookin for your gat, tryin to blast on a MF!

Dude be tryin to get a note out duckin and ish!

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 03:48 PM | Link to this

Raqi Don’t be like the cheating wife on Grey’s Anatomy and get Poison Ivy on your goodies - LOL

I’m cringing at the thought of it - ouch!

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 03:50 PM | Link to this

UM WE WILL NOT BE DISCUSSING QUICKIES ON THIS BLOG MS. WISE DIVA

THIS IS A BLOG OF INTEGRITY AND SUCH FILTH WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.

LMAO. Girl, you know I’m kidding. I’m sleepy too. I couldn’t resist.

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 03:51 PM | Link to this

Anybody peepin this Mike Baisden show on the radio? He is talkin bout Swingers and I am taking notes over here…hummm.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 03:56 PM | Link to this

Cracking up…man hush! I can hardly respond because I am laughing too hard at that! hahahahaha!

all i can tell you is, some men have that swagger, charm, charisma, and sex appeal to make ladies swoon. ..if they don’t mind making a spectacle of themselves, they really could score some points. It COULD HAPPEN! eyeroll

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 03:58 PM | Link to this

Anyone dressing up in your office for Halloween?

By Tazzee

October 12, 2006 03:58 PM | Link to this

Saturday - Falcons football academy for women during the day, Old School Saturday at night.

Sunday - Tailgating, football game, more tailgating, and then end the evening watching more football.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 04:03 PM | Link to this

LOL @ LAH LAH! Ok, you got me, and put it just how I usually do - too funny!

By Lah Lah

October 12, 2006 04:03 PM | Link to this

tazzee me and a few friends were thinking about attending the Falcons thing on Saturday. But I think I would rather eat at the TOS.

By Thick

October 12, 2006 04:03 PM | Link to this

Raqi yeah girl, stay away from “mother”, Wise Diva on point with the quiet time in the mountains, but the quickie in the woods sounds like an adventurous winner, go for it!

I have not actually planned anything for this weekend. I’m sure I’ll find something to do, nothing solid as of yet.

By THE INFAMOUS DK

October 12, 2006 04:04 PM | Link to this

I was born by the river in a little tent- Oh and just like the river I been a runnin’ ever since - It’s been a long, a long time coming but I know A change gon’ come oh yes it will - It’s been too hard living but I’m afraid to die - Cuz I don’t know what’s up there beyond the sky - It’s been a long, a long time coming but I know - A change gon’ come oh yes it will

By MusingLee

October 12, 2006 04:04 PM | Link to this

Now singing “Cold Blooded”…while ducking bullets from Wise and dropping out of back of moving car

Who do you, Girl who do you belong to…My point of view is….Girl, I think you’re HOT!!!….If we talked, what words could I describe…There’s no dictionary book to explain how you look…Girl I think you’re so, Sexy,sexy,sexy….COLD BLOODED

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 04:07 PM | Link to this

@Wise Lurker See now you tryin to go and change it up!

You know as well as any other broad on this forum, that them Brian McKnight types will get away with far more ish than some random dude(s)!

It’s like there are three sets of rules with y’all, one set for the random dudes, one set for the married dudes and then the get away with murder rules for the Denzel Washington types.

Y’all a dayumn trip!

By Tazzee

October 12, 2006 04:08 PM | Link to this

Lah Lah - I wish they would have had the taste on a different weekend. And then they have the nerve to have G. Garvin at Atlantic Station at 2pm on Sunday!!! What kinda mess is that - having him there during the game? If they would have had him on Saturday, I would have skipped the academy.

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 04:12 PM | Link to this

It’s stuff like this that I call BS on. I love the brother and wife like they were my own blood, but dang they are going to have a 2 year old sleeping between them. Take the darn twin beds. And the mom and pop probably haven’t did the do since 1982, put their old behinds in there. It ain’t even about the do, while it is a little because I know my husband, but it’s about making a common freakin sense call. And those darn beds are uncomfortable.

I got me some reading material that I hopefully get to glance at. Last year we all tried to sit and watch a movie (quality family time) and his parents talked through the entire movie. Asking what’s gone happen and speculating about what’s about to happen.

That man knows I love him, LOL.

By Raqi

October 12, 2006 04:14 PM | Link to this

Alright people I am out. Good night.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 04:15 PM | Link to this

Tazzee on Saturday he is scheduled to be at the Camp Creek Shopping plaza - the BN bookstore I think. ..not that I am a stalker or anything.

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 04:16 PM | Link to this

JustMe Girl, I’m sorry. I couldn’t co-sign on the Luther thing because if he popped up in my office….I’d be like, ahhhhhhhhhhh!!!! you’re supposed to be dead!!!! hahahaha (ok, I know I’m going down for that one….) Give me somebody with blood running through their veins!!! Tell KC & JoJo to come holla at a sister. (I’ll have some crack for them to smoke on in between songs…)

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 04:18 PM | Link to this

I’m just a sucker for your love, sucker for love, i’m just a sucker for love, sucker for love, sucker for yo love bbbbbbbaaaaaaaaaaaabbbbbbbbbyyyyyyy

Musing that’s for you

By Bre'

October 12, 2006 04:19 PM | Link to this

Anyone going to Howards’s Homecoming this weekend?

By Tazzee

October 12, 2006 04:28 PM | Link to this

Oooh Diva - what time? I might have to try to swing through there. Hmmm, G. Garvin - Falcons - G. Garvin - Falcons. If he’s going to be there during the time when the players come talk to us and sign autographs, I might not make it. But if its later - I’ll skip out on the football drills to see G.

Who am I kidding? I was planning to skip out on the drills anyway - don’t want to mess up my ‘do before OSS.

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 04:28 PM | Link to this

I don’t have my virtual boxing gloves on today LL, I will let you have that one, hmm but if I were feeling “jazzy in the mouth today, I would just tell you that some days you really make me wanna thump you, LOL

You will pontificate ad nauseum, and God help the individual who tries to make any kind of counterpoint when you’re on one of your rolls. There’s just no room for dialogue in your one-man show. You always want the last word and to be right!

I was ONLY trying to say that wealth and looks is not who a man is, yea that definitely draws all kind of women to him - just like a woman’s facial beauty, cup size, and ass-to-waist ratio will have guys breaking their necks to please her. So really, that doesn’t mean women can’t appreciate a regular man serenading her out the clear blue…im just sayin!

ok maybe I do have one of my virtual boxing gloves on.

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 04:29 PM | Link to this

@4th you know u wrong for that

By Thick

October 12, 2006 04:30 PM | Link to this

Yeah Wise Diva you’re right, he will be on Camp Creek Saturday at BN. I’m not a stalker either but he does look good when he is cooking!

By NCgirlfromATL

October 12, 2006 04:30 PM | Link to this

Hot Sauce 4 U!

*Love them and leave them…That’s what I used to do…Use and abuse them Then I laid eyes on you, It was pain before pleasure…That was my claim to fame. With every measure, baby Tasted teardrop stains, yeah

I was cold as ice long ago, baby, baby I wasn’t very, very, very nice, you know…Sugar, sugar, sugar.

Then I kissed your lips And yoooou…turned….ooooon…my fiiiiiiiire, baby And you burned me up within your flame Took me a little higher Made me live again You turned on my fiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiire, baaabaaaaaay Then you showed me what a love could do Fire and desire, baby Feel it coming through and I thank you baaaby*

phew…Don’t bring up Rick James without the Tina Marie!

By JustMe

October 12, 2006 04:33 PM | Link to this

4TLH Girl Luther Loves me so much he faked his death just to be with me. I refused to share him with the rest of the world. Now when I least expect it, girl, he sangs to JustMe and girl I know he means errrrry word of it! - Don’t Hate - ROFLMAO

So glad tomorrow is Friday

Have a good night all!

By T Zigga

October 12, 2006 04:35 PM | Link to this

Longtime Lurker is just mad that no one wanted him until he got some money. So I guess he figures that all women apply that theory to all men.

Little does he know, its the money that makes women put up with his arrogant rantings. If he had any sort of personality before he got the dollas, he would have had a good woman in his broke days too.

By Thick

October 12, 2006 04:37 PM | Link to this

Okay Wise Diva, I can’t help it, so don’t come find me and be tryna kick my a#%, but I think you and LL are so cute. Y’all make me laught everytime you guys get started.

Tazzee I think it’s at 2:00 or 3:00 p.m., but let me check to be sure.

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 04:38 PM | Link to this

JustMe Ummmmm, ok. So I’ll be saving some of that crack I put aside for KC & JoJo, for you to take your second hit for the day. Girl, you crazy!!! You know when he singing SuperStar, he ain’t thinking bout cha!!! He had his shades on so you couldn’t tell that he was singing to the fella that was with cha! LOL! (sorry, trying to survive these last 22 minutes at work!)

By Hot Sauce

October 12, 2006 04:41 PM | Link to this

NC that’s my jam!

Now i’ll have that song in my all the way home, night night peeps

By 4theLongHaul

October 12, 2006 04:43 PM | Link to this

JustMe OK, and I’ll add to your foolery….the REAL Michael Jackson actually lives with me and sings to me every night. He just paid this white woman to fool the world into thinking she was him….while the real, brown-skinned, big nosed one is with MEEEEEEE!!!! YESSSSS!!

There’ll be no darkness tonight…lady our love will shine…lighting the night….just put your trust in my heart…and meet me in paradise…now is the time…GIRRRRRL! You’re every wonder in this world to me…..a treasure time won’t steal awaaaaaaaay! So listen to my heart….lay your body close to mine. Let me fill you with my dreams, I can make you feel so right. And baby through the years, even when we’re OLD and gray..I will love you more each day….cause you will always be the lady in myyyyy liiiiife!!!!

OK, maybe not the real dark brown one w/ big nose, but the slightly lighter one w/ slimmer nose and jheri curl. Awwww yeah!!!

By itsmorenamorena

October 12, 2006 04:44 PM | Link to this

Y’all are too fabulous today! I love the ol’ skool. I’ve just been grinning and singing right along with y’all…

*My ol skool contribution - *

*When the world seems bright and you’re all alone And you don’t know quite what to do Let your mind drift away into paradise and say This is heaven I know, I feel it sooooo in my heart

Oh baby, oh baby, oh babeeeeeee

Now I can feel A love that’s for real Cause I’m looking high above I can see, I can see Heavenly love…..

This must be heaven, I don’t wanna lose you baby, no no no This must be heaven, if I loose you, I lose my whole world This must be heaven, don’t you leave me baby, no no This must be heaven, don’t you ever leave me baby, no

You, you and I We share a love that will never die And it feels and it feels so good to be a part of you, yea baby I feel our love more each day And every night I say This is heaven, I know, I can feel it soooo in my heart….

My my my myyyyyyyy…..

I’m living on a cloud Waiting for you to come around And to show me what to do Search no more, search no more…I have youuuuuuuu….

This must be heaven, girl you mean so much to me, yea baby, yea baby This must be heaven, more than the eye can see, you know girl, you know This must be heaven, don’t you ever leave me alone This must be heaven, no no no baby

Yes I’m loving you Put my trust in you Yes, I’m loving you….yes I’m loving you baby Yes I’m loving you Put my trust in you Yes, I’m loving you….yes I’m loving you love… Yes I’m loving you Put my trust in you Yes, I’m loving you….yes I’m loving you Yes I’m loving you Put my trust in you Yes, I’m loving you….yes I’m loving you baby Yes, I’m loving youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu!!!!!!!!!!!*

Off to Homecoming(http://www.howarduhomecoming.com). Y’all have a great weekend :)

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 04:45 PM | Link to this

LOL @ T Zigga!

Thick noooooooo, girl LL couldn’t handle my jazzy mouth, LOL. I will forgive you for that don’t let it happen no mo

but I swear he is the exact type of guy I spent my entire 20s stressing over..the successful, confident man, with the Que swagger, stubborn as an OX and always flexing his manhood. I don’t think the 34 yr old would mesh well with that type anymore (I’m convinced of that yup)

By Kym aka Southern Girl

October 12, 2006 04:50 PM | Link to this

Damn Shame have a love song day and not mention Mr. Biggggg at all

Can I go on my way without you Whoa…how can I know If I go on my way without you Whoa…where would I go

Set sail with me Misty lady, set my spirit free New love to find And though I leave another behind

I’ll always (Come back to you) I’ll always (Come back to you) I’ll always (Come back to you) I’ll always (Come back to you)

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 04:50 PM | Link to this

hey morenamorena! Have a safe trip! Bre, are you going too?

OK, ya’ll thanks for keeping my head off the desk today. LOL. The music lyrics were so niiiiiiiice!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 04:50 PM | Link to this

@Wise Lurker Girl, I,I,I,I Love you! Every word I say is true! Cause I loooove you!

@T Zigga Sorry, I was knockin em out back in the day as well! Only difference in now and then is the quality factor went up!

By "Longtime Lurker"

October 12, 2006 04:51 PM | Link to this

@Wise Lurker Did you say you wanted to hump me in that last convo?

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 04:58 PM | Link to this

uh NOO..it clearly says THUMP, as in mollywop upside your thick skull. You read it right the first time chump. LOL

Have a good evening blog friends - DIVA OUT!

By Wise Diva

October 12, 2006 05:00 PM | Link to this

ohh and my old school contribution! the elements baby! Earth WIND AND FIRE!!!Reasons Now, Im craving your body, Is this real Temperatures rising, I dont want to feel Im in the wrong place to be real Woahh and im; longing to love you Just for a night, Kissing and hugging and holding you tight Please let me love you With all my might

Reasons, the reasons that we hear, The reasons that we fear Our feelings a-wont disappear

Oooh! and- after the love game has been played All our illusions were just a parade And all the reasons start to fade

(thanks D for helping me out)

By Thick

October 12, 2006 05:00 PM | Link to this

Here some advice for LL talk less, and give more action. Like I said some time back you be flexing too much and everybody know you a man, stop acting like women don’t know! That’s a free one, share that wit’cha homeboys.

I’m out!

Have a Fabulous Evening All

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