Misadventures in Atlanta

By Apple Bottom

September 28, 2006 08:37 AM | Link to this

Morning, yes men will say anything to feed women all types of fantasy’s in the early stage of a relationship. But we as females can’t blame men for doing that because we tend to play follow the leader and feed into all the things they say, and yes it sounds good and sometimes we know it’s too early hell we just met 24 hrs ago or sometimes the time frame is less than that. We just need to be more stronger than what we say we are, we need to say what we mean and mean what we say. Listen to that little voice insides i always do and it’s always right; but i have’nt always listened to that voice and ended up getting hurt. And i’m just keeping it real i’m sure we’ve all been there, done that and we learn from our mistakes as well as grow from them. I’m even guilty of saying a whole lot of sweet things to get with an ex and we had’nt know each other that long, but hey that was then and this is now. Have a great thursday bloggers.

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 09:07 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Blog

Guys, what kind of advice can you give women on how to handle those “say anything” men that we meet?

Straight, No Chaser Lady Tip: Keep your draws on for at least 30 days and don’t accept anything material for at least 90 days. Prospect-dude will respect you as a LADY a lot more.

(Disclaimer ===>) There are exceptions to this, but generally it’s real talk.

*This might be in violation of code 1.2.6 of the MLB… but I’ll take the heat on this one.

By Prince Charming

September 28, 2006 09:07 AM | Link to this

You make so many good points in the blog today about how men date pragmatically using “male” logic. Also about how (most) men take their time and when we are sure, we pull out all the bells and whistles. That was a great and very accurate breakdown of men in dating. You prove more and more every day why you are the “Wise Diva”!

The advice that I would give for those “say anything” guys is to always listen to your head, not your heart. Remember that is where your brain is. Second, never rush into anything with anyone. If he really loves you he will show you more with time. Also by waiting, as the “real” you comes out, so does the “real” him. Finally, when you do see the “real” him don’t take anything lightly. He is showing you his true self, you have to be smart enough to know if you can deal with it/him or not.

I have met one or two “say anything” woman. They are just like you said earlier. They want to be so agreeable hoping that they will be the wife before enjoying being the girlfriend. A few signs I look for is someone who never has her own opinion, never disagrees with me, says “I love you” or showing feelings that are too deep too soon, always wants to do what I want to do with no input, eats only salad on our 3rd date, wants me to meet her family and friends before we have decided if this is going anywhere, or calls too many times a day.

By Kym aka Southern Girl

September 28, 2006 09:08 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All,

I agree with Apple on the issue of falling for the okey dokey from some guys..I give everyone the benefit of the doubt that they are sincere in what they are saying or doing. Only to be disappointed later. Wise I would be unnerved if a man said to me 24hours after meeting that he wanted to marry me,however I have heard stories of couples who met and within a week just knew they were meant to be and were married months later, but then again these are older and wiser people and it was a different era, with different caliber of men and women folk.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 09:09 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone!

Yes, men will say anything to get what they want. That’s cool…the deal is NOT to stay around long enough to continue to be fed these kinds of lines. If I immediately think that someone is insincere I no longer waste my time with them…why should I? My time is way too valuable.

The way to prevent from becoming jaded is to take your time before you rush into anything too intense or intimate. We’ve said it a THOUSAND times…get to know the person before you give away the goods. And the goods aren’t always sexual…get to know someone before you give them your trust, heart, secrets, and too much time!!

By QC

September 28, 2006 09:17 AM | Link to this

Morning: There will be some good comments/advice given today but we as grown people are still going to do what we want to…keeping the panties on for 30, 60, 90, 120 days whatever the case may be when deciding to give it up, always remember safe sex is the best sex Use common sense cause you can’t always “follow your heart” i’m guilty of having the sweet nothings in my ear syndrome and i’ll admit it did work on me, but dat ain’t happenin no more

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 09:22 AM | Link to this

LOL @ QC but dat ain’t happenin no more

By QC

September 28, 2006 09:27 AM | Link to this

Hey BK ;)

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 09:28 AM | Link to this

Good Morning..

Its called GAME pure and simple.. No matter how much prepping you get, either you can recognize it or you cant..

I’ll be monitoring and throwing flags when some of you dudes get too out there with the info, cause believe the ladies will always keep their best secrets amongst themselves…

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 09:31 AM | Link to this

Morn’in All,

Interesting topic….Men will often “say anything” to get the goods?…Yes, it’s true…That’s just our nature…Look at the little men in your lives…They will lie, fight, cry, fall down, grab a chair or anything to get those cookies on top of the fridge…LOL…I guy that has a genuine interest in you will give you compliments, but he will always respect you…Whether its 30 days or not, if you feel as if all he wants is sex, then you could be right!

Now going to look up the MLB handbook to see what regulations BK have broken

By abc

September 28, 2006 09:31 AM | Link to this

I refer to ‘say anything’ men and women as those who desire an ‘instant relationship’, just add water and stir. I tend to avoid them, without some basis of friendship first, it’s going nowhere anyway. Although I must say I’ve met a lot of women like that lately, they’ll hit the sheets in a New York minute, which absolutely makes them temps, even though they obviously want long term.

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 09:35 AM | Link to this

Howdy doo!

Let me start by saying this… I’m a Scorpio, so I have a right to contradict myself. It’s in inherent, I can’t help it! That being said, I’m one of those females that doesn’t believe a cotton pickin’ thing a man says. I’m strictly an “actions speak” kind of female. But, at the same time, I still believe that special guys is out there just for me, so I give dudes the benefit of the doubt and will give a guy a chance.

Ladies, do you find that men will say anything, feeding you a fantasy in the very early stages?

I find this to be true of both sexes. But what’s so dumb about this is the fact that neither he, nor I, know what the others fantasy is. So, while he thinks he’s telling me everything I ever wanted to hear, he may actually be turning me off with all that lovey dovey ish. All I ever want to hear is the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth. When you tell me what you think I want to hear, you don’t give me a fair chance to make a decision for myself.

Do you ever find yourself playing along because it just sounds so delightful?

HELL NO!

How do we prevent ourselves from becoming jaded when we have these characters hyping up a fantasy, only to disappoint later?

The only way to prevent this is to change your outlook on the situation… Think of it as a learning experience instead of disappointing experience. Take a look at what you have learned about yourself. You can’t apply the last relationship to the new one, it’s just not fair… to either one of you.

GO FALCONS!!!!!!!!!!!

By Lah Lah

September 28, 2006 09:36 AM | Link to this

I think we will all come to the conclusion really quick that men will conform temporarily in order to get the sex. Women aren’t stupid we know this. Sometimes we go along with it because it just sounds good. We just need to learn to think beyond all the mushy stuff being whispered in your ear and let his actions speak over a period of time. Also, women need to stay focused on what they want long-term and stop settling for the “right now” , “good enough” guy.

By SeanJohnson

September 28, 2006 09:43 AM | Link to this

I agree with DK…you either can recongnize it or cant……Being that they say females mature faster than males and they surely experience things earlier in life…by a certain age they should be wise to anything thrown at them. Every day the men on the blog drop jewels to the women and i wonder to they digest them. My advise is get to know who you are dealing with..i mean really get to know them and learn from your mistakes..

By Newkid

September 28, 2006 09:44 AM | Link to this

Good Morning All!

Excellent topic, WiseDiva. I can’t wait to read all the comments on this one. My advice to the ladies is do not sell yourself short, especially when it comes to love and sex. I’ve been guilty of giving up my body too soon and like Wise said, it backfired on me. You live and learn.

Blue gave some good advice. The key is to wait and don’t just jump into something and you don’t even know what it is you have. And if you know what you want and you know that you are not getting it, don’t give up sex to try to get it, it is not going to work.

I think women have to really be mentally strong to handle what comes after having sex with someone. And if you know that you are not mentally strong enough, ALWAYS play on the side of caution and wait, test that man to see if his actions align with his words and if they don’t, wait some more or get out. It has been said before, your body is a temple and you should treasure it. Because if you don’t, who else will?

By QC

September 28, 2006 09:53 AM | Link to this

That’s true if you go into with your bright eyes wide open, game does recognize game

By Tazzee

September 28, 2006 09:55 AM | Link to this

Morning all!

I have experienced ‘say anything’ men. But honestly I don’t think its always just to get something they want. I honestly think that these men believe that I am the best thing since sliced bread at that moment and they honestly feel that they could marry me. It was after my last ‘say anything’ experience that I instituted my 90 day rule. Anything a man says to me regarding a future in the first 90 days is noted and filed away somewhere in the recesses of my mind. While I am fabulous - I want to give a man ample time to get to know me before I even consider his desire to be exclusive or anything like that. After 90 days - if he’s still saying the same things - then I might start to listen. Until then, we’re just hanging out.

ImAPeach404 - you can go to www.entertainment.com to get an entertainment book. And you are right

GO FALCONS!!

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 09:58 AM | Link to this

Now leafing through Chap. 2, pg 17 of MLB….

Actually, Blue, you indeed have NOT broken any specific rule of Man Law. You have clearly excercised a little poor judgement; however, you were saved by Clause 23, the “They should already know that” clause. See, the fact is women have known this for centuries, but they choose to ignore it. And as long as they keep ignoring what they already know to be a good rule, we’ll still take advantage of it.

But you must be watchful, Blue. True MLB violations carry a stiff penalty.

By Rip

September 28, 2006 09:59 AM | Link to this

My advice to women is learn the difference between a real man and a boy. You don’t find this out by talking to your single female friends you find these things out by talking to men or someone that has been in a long good stable relationship. I know it might sound corny but talking to older adults sometimes drops loads of knowledge on you or least lets you look at things from a different perspective. Step 1 should be have a good idea of the kind of person you want to be with and have a list of qualities you must have along with things you can tolerate along with things you will not tolerate. This should be a good starting point!

By abc

September 28, 2006 10:05 AM | Link to this

Not to criticize the topic WD, but seems to me this stuff has been blogged to death ‘round here before… game recognizes game, how long to wait before giving up goodies, how about some bragging about how easy men find women to play, blah blah blah.

What’s your ‘blues name’? Mine’s Crippled Legs Franklin, maybe I should use that instead of abc… maybe not!

By Hot Sauce

September 28, 2006 10:08 AM | Link to this

Morning!

^5 Rip Recognize the difference between a Man & Boy because they are different althought some men do act like boys

Hello Musing

What’s up with the MLB Laws? What would make you lose your MLB Membership? lol

By Bre'

September 28, 2006 10:13 AM | Link to this

DK I totally agree with what you said. No matter how you dress it up and from whoms lips its coming from game recognize game, I’ve been called on it many of times. Men see it just as easy as women. Thing is its a choice, either you choose to follow suit or let it walk on by.

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 10:14 AM | Link to this

Blatino Blue, you indeed have NOT broken any specific rule of Man Law. You have clearly excercised a little poor judgement; however, you were saved by Clause 23, the “They should already know that” clause.

Mayne, it’s the legal loophole that’ll save you every time.

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 10:19 AM | Link to this

Per MLB’s handbook section 2.7.45 or pg. 45

I am giving full authorization for men to read and advise blog ladies strictly from our sacred laws and ethic codes…But, anyone caught copying/passing/hell stealing our sacred handbooks will face the wraith of Kym’n’Blue

God bless!!

now

F/k wit it!

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 10:20 AM | Link to this

Off Topic: Dude had this handled but talked just a little too much.

http://www.bestwebatlanta.com/humor/humorduistopofchampion_dancer.shtml

By QC

September 28, 2006 10:22 AM | Link to this

@abc my blues name is:

Crippled Gumbo Rivers wth! lol :)

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 10:23 AM | Link to this

L Boogie Is that you walking around with the fake MLB badge, goatee, and PatrolMAN’s uniform?

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 10:25 AM | Link to this

@Blue, sho iz, bru! But you came dangerously close to da edge on this one. Had an actual law been broken, you could have been considered to be in Caulk-blocking territory by some of the old-school fundamentalists who still heartily practice the tried-and-true “Say Anything” technique….. and I KNOW I don’t have to tell you the penalty for that!

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 10:25 AM | Link to this

LMAO @ MLB Patrol

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 10:31 AM | Link to this

it’s the nature of blogging abc, - I don’t take that as criticism at all. I think that any time you have a forum with a theme, you don’t have THAT much range for topics.

We know that we have new readers who actually find some of the things we write about interesting - to those who stick around each day, it does become a buffet of recyled, re-packaged, reiterated dating discussions. Also, there ain’t nothing new under the sun.

You love music, so if you were on a music blog, at SOME point, things would become redundant, so..you decide if you want to stay with it or not.

Honestly, I get many emails and people actually learn a lot, so I am glad the forum provides some outlet. You guys just have to bear with us so we can keep things relevant to dating.

(and that is a long way to say Dude, I know, LOL)

By Hot Sauce

September 28, 2006 10:31 AM | Link to this

My blues name is:

Peg Leg Gumbo Franklin (oh my!)

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 10:32 AM | Link to this

This topic is really on point with what I’m going thru now. The only thing is I waited over a year before “giving it up” and I didn’t realize that some men could “fake it” that long.

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 10:32 AM | Link to this

Say hello to “Pretty Liver Hopkins”…WTH!!! hahahahaha

By Thick

September 28, 2006 10:33 AM | Link to this

Good Morning Everyone I recently discovered that I don’t enjoy dates with these types of guys. There so busy talking about the “future” we can’t discuss and enjoy the present. To me all the hype is the same as lying. I feel as if he is trying trape me somehow because underneath all of that hype is his agenda and deception. Most often I tell a guy that I am not looking for a serious relationship at the moment, just someone with whom I have common understanding, we enjoy doing the same things, and try new things together. Usually after the first date with a guy who talks this way, I seldom go out with them agian. I get the cynical thinking, these days I find myself being the same way.

By Sweet Tea

September 28, 2006 10:34 AM | Link to this

Morning, my blues name is funny!

Jailhouse Legs Hopkins dayum lmao!

Hey Musing what’s your’s????

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 10:36 AM | Link to this

Blatino Point taken there bruhman. Screws have been tightened. LOL

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 10:38 AM | Link to this

I agree wit what my bwoi’s said….we have all used the tricks and at some point we have all fallen for the tricks. Hopefully, as grown azz folk we have left the tricks behind. When I was child…I did childish thangs, had childish thoughts, behaved like a child…now I’m grown…I do grown thangs, have grwon thoughts and put away childish ways.

If Imma deal wit you and you gon deal wit me…you best leave them “Tricks” on the pantry shelve. I’m a grown azz man…no tricks or games….either yah gon get wit it or you ain’t.

Yeah abc seems like this topic came strait out of the recycle bin. Yah know how they (women) do…find 100 ways to ask the same question in hopes of catching you in a lie or hoping you gon change yo response. LOL

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 10:39 AM | Link to this

Ooooh Tazzee, thank you SOOOO much!!! I have to add you to my Christmas list :)

I agree with Rip stating that you shouldn’t find things out by talking to your friends, but I don’t feel you should talk to other men either. I know that no one can speak for me but me… so therefore, I know the only person that can let me know about mr. right now, is mr. right now (or his momma, but you know..) Nothing will tell you more about a man than his actions. Thats the end of the story to me!

Cherri-o!

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 10:40 AM | Link to this

how about some bragging about how easy men find women to play, blah blah blah

Slow down Mista A-B-C man

A Happy Meal for you

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 10:41 AM | Link to this

my bad…

By Pepper Sauce

September 28, 2006 10:42 AM | Link to this

Musing that’s funny hehehehehe!

mine is:

Fat Money Mgee hahahaha!!!!!

which is true

By Kym aka Curly Leggs Dupree

September 28, 2006 10:43 AM | Link to this

Funny stuff

By Nokia6102

September 28, 2006 10:47 AM | Link to this

Hello y’all

my blue’s name is:

Peg Leg Bad Boy Bradley lol

should’ve been Bad Girl Bradleylena (since i’m a female)

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 10:47 AM | Link to this

Dag Tiff, thats rough.

By Newkid

September 28, 2006 10:48 AM | Link to this

My Blues name is Pretty Legs Dupree I likes that!

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 10:48 AM | Link to this

Good, A fun lively topic. I am sleepy and I have a freakin’ tension headache, so I am looking to be blog pampered today, LOL.

On Topic: After my ordeal with whitebread I became very conscious of the antics of a say anything guy. I don’t think his motive was to love me and leave me but instead was to retain a mistress. He circled in on me, found my vulnerability and worked with that. He said and did anything that he needed to say and do. After that I became leery of any guy that was too accommodating too early, that wanted to please me too early, that declared his undying love too early, and that couldn’t get me out his mind too early.

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 10:51 AM | Link to this

Yo, Candid! U ain’t nevah lied on that one.

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this

Ok Blue…You are stoopid for that dayum link dude…Hahahahahahaha…ROTFLMAOOOooooo

By Cinderella aka Crippled Foot Lee

September 28, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this

@Tiff bless yo heart! I found men can be relentless and patient creatures when they really want somethin’. But hey, don’t let that deter you from waiting next time if that’s what you’re about. That dude was a real suckaduck.

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 10:58 AM | Link to this

@ImAPeach..yeah its rough. What’s worse is that I discovered that he is sleeping with 3 other individuals where I work since we started being intimate (he accessed his email from my home and forgot to log off).

I’m going back and forth about informing them. Ughh..I’m too old for this nonsense.

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 10:59 AM | Link to this

Tiff, it sux to go through that. If this is indeed a case of “Say Anything”, it is a rare one. How soon after you ‘gave it up’ did he dip on you? Could it be possible that, through no fault of your own, his feelings just changed at some point? on the real, just asking…

By QC

September 28, 2006 11:00 AM | Link to this

BK now that was funny! how can anyone drunk do that!!!! :)

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 11:01 AM | Link to this

For the most part…you gotta use common sense.

FREE CLUES (haven’t shared any Man secrets in awhile)

By abc

September 28, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this

As a potential source of dating topics, this doctoral thesis investigates the importance of matching characteristics based on analysis of online personals data (ha, you didn’t think that was private, did you?!).

For instance, in the data analyzed, only 78% of men’s messages got replies; guys, do you think that translates into how much you get a positive response from women overall? But, 55% of all the messaging is from women; ladies, do you think that translates into how much of the effort of communication is put forth by women?

By Jake

September 28, 2006 11:06 AM | Link to this

Blue I have just sent my official report to the ethics counsel for further investigation.

LADIES-If its too early. Its BS, either Bullshyt or attraction to the way the Butt Swangs. Overall, you know when its too fast, but I an a true believer in “animal instinct.” There are occassions when the stars are lined up just right and “why wait” for what you both want now. Truth is, whether you wait or not, some relationships just don’t make it. Its like a boxing match, * Come out fighting, PROTECT youself at all times*

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 11:06 AM | Link to this

Tiff That is definately an exception. It may very well be that this dude was… hold up… MLB?! yeah this is Blue… LMAO

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 11:07 AM | Link to this

Tiff chances are guys like that can fake it so well because they are getting it on the side. While making you feel that you are special and they are willing to wait for you, there is no real pressure because they are releasing it elsewhere.

By QC

September 28, 2006 11:09 AM | Link to this

It’ll get better Tiff

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 11:12 AM | Link to this

@Blatino..His feelings didn’t change to my knowledge. I guess he had been feeling that way the entire time. What boggles my mind is the numerous times I walked away only to have him “Say Anything” to get me back. He actually told me he wanted to be “just friends” once and 4 days later asked me if we could make our relationship work because he was really falling for me. As Cinderalla stated he was really patient and relentless.

And he never dipped on me…I called him and let him know that we were thru. What’s funny is that he didn’t even ask why or where it was coming from?

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 11:16 AM | Link to this

Daaaaaaaaaang Tiff!!!! Do all of you guys work together???

I don’t think you should say anything to these other females. It’s not your place to say it, nor do you want to be involved in any drama at your job. You never know how the other chicks may react, and I’m sure you don’t want to lose your job behind a man. Just look at the email thing as a blessing and a sign that you should not be messing with this guy. The questions you had about your relationship were answered for you plain and simple.

See, thats why waiting “X” amount of days/months/years is a bunch of crap. If he is going to bolt, he will be gone regardless of the amount of time he has to wait. That whole year she spent with dude was a waste of time, and she might have prevented a real man from entering her life fooling with this looser.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this

Abc My blue’s name is : *Jailhouse Legs Lee *

I wonder what that means??

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 11:20 AM | Link to this

abc What a fitting “Blues Name” for Lah.

blue I’ve been in meetings all morning. It’s not me.

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 11:20 AM | Link to this

Tiff you should see if dude has a profile on www.DontDateHimGirl.com

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 11:25 AM | Link to this

Peach404 What makes you think the other women in Tiff’s office don’t already know. Some women are willing to sharing a man. I find it a little hard to believe that 4 women working together getting done by the same guy and not one of them have a clue…??!!

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 11:25 AM | Link to this

Dayum, Tiff! Yo, I hate to tell ya, but you got handled by one them old skool boyzz I spoke about. They be straight experts in the field.

now preparing to committ his own MLB violation…. @Raqi. Baby! You just hit da nail on the head. As long as weez gettin it from somewherez, we got no problem playing the luv n affekshun game with you! Ya’ll should know by now how easily we separate love from sex. Put it this way; they’re not even in the same volume of the MLB boxed set.

By SeanJohnson

September 28, 2006 11:29 AM | Link to this

@ Peaches404…u are wrong for that…smearing dudes name isnt going to change anything…

@Tiff…just move on…might be hard but its best…you prolly wasnt the only one that didnt know…Now you understand why you never shyt where you work…

By Jake

September 28, 2006 11:30 AM | Link to this

MY POINT EXACTLY 11:06 Tiff No disrespect intended, I hope non taken. I think that really sucks. I hope you don’t get sour on all dudes because of it. Its still some cats looking for a good woman to be true wit. Don’t give up

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 11:31 AM | Link to this

Thanks Prince Charming, New Kid, I appreciate your comments. I am trying to catch up.

That MLB thing is cracking me up, sounds like a bunch of hypocrites, if you ask me! LOL

By abc

September 28, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this

Yeah, but if ya wanted to stir up some sh1t Tiff, sending an email from an anonymous yahoo account to those chicks could really set off some fireworks!

Karma gonna get me for that suggestion.

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this

ImaPeach I’m soo mad at myself at this point. I thought I was doing everything the right way. I even went and got tested and initiated the discussion of him doing the same (supposedly he did so..but I neglected to ask for paperwork) because I wanted to ensure that we were both protected. Now knowing about all of these other women (keep in mind that there are several others in the same time frame outside of the ones that I work with) it bothers me. We used protection but knowing nothing is 100 proof is scary.

@QC Thanks..I know it will get better. I just don’t know what I did wrong to deserve it.

@Raqi Yeah I felt special. The other day he commented on us walking down the aisle..BIG JOKE!! I guess it will be funny to me MUCH later on. :-(

By QC

September 28, 2006 11:33 AM | Link to this

Lawd these blues names are too funny

Hey LahLah

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this

@ImaPeach..Your suggestion is late LOL I did that months before we started to date.

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 11:38 AM | Link to this

@Raqi same org different locations..we’ve never met and had no reason to so there’s no way any of us know/knew of each other.

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 11:40 AM | Link to this

MLB Patrol You are completely out of compliance with Man Law 1.. No one man has the autority to authorize such broad and sweeping statements, such as reading from the Man Law Bible.. You are also in total violation of law 2: These laws are never to be shared with the opposite sex.. There for your man pass has been revoked.. Report immediately to turn in your underwear for thongs and duct tape to tape dem ballz back. Dont make us look for you.. Listening to nowhere to run nowhere to hide while watching warriors

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this

whoa, whoa, whoa, Diva!!!

jus’ how are we bein hypocritical? On the real, unofficially, most us dudes at least use what we know of MLB as a reference. Plus we’re dropping knowledge on ya’ll today CUZ YOU ASKED.

By QC

September 28, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this

@Tiff don’t blame yourself because the relationship went sour, you probably did’nt do anything wrong but give him your all some men are just evil dogs and enjoy doing this to good women pick your head up Baby Girl and just know that it is all about Tiff and you deserve soooooo much better so NEXT

<> blog hug for you Tiff

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 11:47 AM | Link to this

Tiff sometimes shyt happens. Sounds like he was wishy-washy from the beginning. But listen you live and you learn. Things don’t always work out as planned. Sorry that had to happen to you girl. Like sean said it maybe difficult (and lord knows I know) but you have to move on.

Vent Session My director is getting on my dayum nerves. He says the dumbest shyt. Just loves to hear himself talk! If he shyts on one more thing I do today I’m going to roll up one of my files and whack him upside the head with it.

sorry, I had to let that out

By NCgirlfromATL

September 28, 2006 11:47 AM | Link to this

Blue, Blatino I may get flogged by my sistas, but PREACH!! I have been the “Say Anything” girl (on both sides) and now, in my old age, I sit back and listen…carefully. I have given the pink slip to many a brotha who stepped wrong from the get-go. But, I must say, I almost slipped recently. I’ve been in a dating draught lately, and a guy feed me the, “girl, you’re so fine, I could drink a whole tub of your bathwater” kind of line, and I ate it up!! For a minute. You know the Golden Corral commercial where the pixie hits the person in the head with the cast iron skillet? Well, that was me! WHAM! Back to my senses. He’s gone…NEXT! I’ve started to adopt a man’s mentality when it comes to relationships. I’m still very much a woman, but maybe thinking like a man will keep my heart out of trouble. Well, maybe I won’t get hurt so quickly.

But, Blue/Blatino, watch yourselves! Once you’ve been booted out of the MLB, I would imagine it would require penance of monumental proportions to get back in. Hate to see a couple of playahs go out like dat!

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 11:48 AM | Link to this

Raqi I didn’t say if they did or didn’t know, Tiff stated she was struggling with telling the other women - I was just advising this wasn’t a good idea. If they want to share, thats their business, no need for her to become more involved than she already is.

What am I wrong for SJ? Do tell…

LOL @ ABC… now, thats wrong!

Tiff, im really sorry this happened to you, but it’s happened to everybody. It’s one of those leaning situations I was talking about. It’s hard not be jaded behind a situation like that. Just take some “Tiff” time alone to help yourself get over it. Good luck girl :)

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 11:49 AM | Link to this

MLB P Furthermore no woman has any say in the man bible matters.. For that statement alone you have been sentenced to death..

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this

Thanks QC :-)

Jake I do believe that there are good guys out there because I know quite a few. I haven’t lost the faith..just disappointed in myself in not seeing it b4 things went so far. Its yet another learning experience that I had to go thru I guess.

abc I thought of that!! LOL I had the draft email ready to go this morning but thought the better of it. As Sean stated it won’t change anything. Especially not his behavior. I just wanted those that are “lurking” to learn something from my experience. I know its a common one..unfortuately.

By Jake

September 28, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this

*DK’s out of Control, Batino’s out of Control, this whole damn Blog is Out of Control!!!

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 11:52 AM | Link to this

calm down dude, I was being as facetious as you guys are with the whole concept. It’s funny to me, though. (Don’t tell all our secrets because then we will have dry dizzles forever).

Honestly, women must take personal responsibility for their dating decisions, because you guys only do what we allow. I think men consider whatever actions are taken to get some booty is excusable, and ethical, because ya’ll are men - and then there is that whole, we ain’t waiting for no sex because we shouldn’t have to hypocrisy <— that makes it funny to me.

Bottom line though, find someone who wants the same thing as you do, at the same time you want it.

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 11:56 AM | Link to this

Good morning Everyone!

Actions speak louder than words. What you do speaks so loudly, I cannot hear what you are saying. Seeing is believing. Show me! Some men will “say anything” but cannot “do everything” unless their life’s mission is to play games with women, just for sex. That is just as shallow as women who are gold diggers. Always, always, always watch a man’s actions and know what you want in a relationship.

My blues name is Hollerin’ Fingers Franklin. That might be true, since I talk with my hands! LOL!

Have a Powerful, Productive, Prosperous and Positive Day!

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:00 PM | Link to this

What up QC

Tiff You aren’t still calling him trying to get clarity or nothing crazy like that are you? No calling crying asking why, right???? No emails expressing how much he hurt you???

Just asking, women have the tendancy to do that crap.

I dated a guy in my building for a while and come to find out he was dating me and another woman in the building. WE BOTH found out about each other. Then WE BOTH found out about his fiance. He got married at the beginning of this month. Men do some dirty shyt! I tell ya. I wasn’t hurt I was upset cause I couldn’t believe Lah got played like that. Anyway, you know what I did? I left him alone, didn’t call asking why, none of that. When I see him I act as if we’ve never met. You live and you learn. Anyway but the other lady in the building that he was dating, THEY ARE STILL DATING!!! Even though he’s married. Now that’s sad. Come to find out SHE was married already!!!

What is this world coming to????

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:01 PM | Link to this

What up QC

Tiff You aren’t still calling him trying to get clarity or nothing crazy like that are you? No calling crying asking why, right???? No emails expressing how much he hurt you???

Just asking, women have the tendancy to do that crap.

I dated a guy in my building for a while and come to find out he was dating me and another woman in the building. WE BOTH found out about each other. Then WE BOTH found out about his fiance. He got married at the beginning of this month. Men do some dirty shyt! I tell ya. I wasn’t hurt I was upset cause I couldn’t believe Lah got played like that. Anyway, you know what I did? I left him alone, didn’t call asking why, none of that. When I see him I act as if we’ve never met. You live and you learn. Anyway but the other lady in the building that he was dating, THEY ARE STILL DATING!!! Even though he’s married. Now that’s sad. Come to find out SHE was married already!!!

What is this world coming to????

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 12:02 PM | Link to this

Infamous!!! I realize you are the local enforcer of MLB statutes, but aren’t we being a little harsh. MLB Patrol sounds new, and may not yet realize the power of the Word. Shall we convene and perhaps offer a lighter sentence? I know it will not quench your thirst for blood, but it’s for the best long term.

Oh, and @NCGirl…. don’t worry about me and Blue, sugah plum. We have only leaked what we want your fairer sex to know. We can still use everything we disseminated to our advantage.

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this

FYI FELLAS… yalls MLB was edited by a woman. We already know all that crap yall are spittin!

And I’m gone

By Apple Bottom

September 28, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this

Who wrote the MLB?

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 12:05 PM | Link to this

Tiff 2 things he probably was sleeping with someone else or he figured once he got it, it wasnt worth it.. I’m leaning towards the it wasnt worth the wait..

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 12:07 PM | Link to this

Tiff

Uhmmm….You can’t tell me that YOU did not see any signs. Sounds like you were “caught up” and put blinders on and let a lot of shiid slide. No one is that good…especially us (men), we always leave clues and signs. We are sloppy when it comes to cheating.

Next time….follow your gut feelings…cause you got’em. “K”

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 12:08 PM | Link to this

@Jake… so what’s your point, bruh?

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:09 PM | Link to this

hhmmmm, what’s this???

picking book up off floor to read title.

The Woman Law Book? WLB

now flipping through pages

AHA!

Rule # 472 in the WLB… The best way to get over an old man is to get under a new one.

By Jake

September 28, 2006 12:10 PM | Link to this

Gentleman

This discussion requires tact and attention to detail. We are being infiltrated for critical knowledge by the Ladies today. Some of us have succomb to this pressure. Man up, “return MLB Codes to Elevated Defense Status” Check out Wise’s use of humor to continue knowledge acquistion. Its a Setup STAY ON POINT

By abc

September 28, 2006 12:10 PM | Link to this

Now yall chicks do the same thing as what Tiff is talking about and you know it… shoot, I remember once (long ago) this chick I barely knew put the jump on me, what a freak… the next week I see her wedding announcement in the newspaper (big surprise!), guess she just wanted some strange before she rocketed off into total unavailability. She was quite embarassed when I congratulated her and her new hubby awhile after that.

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 12:12 PM | Link to this

Lah Nah..none of that going on. I know enough not to play myself out anymore than I already have. No emails, phone calls or text msging going on from here. No Contact is the rule where he’s concerned.

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 12:12 PM | Link to this

@ImAPeach…. And yet, babydoll, ya’ll keep fallin for da same ol’ shizznit. sad.

So are you just saying that’s it’s really ya’llz fault if ya get played? I can live with that.

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 12:12 PM | Link to this

Apple, Peach, and Wisey Mae

don’t matter who wrote it…betcha if we left it laying round unattended…you’ll azz would be doing the 100 yard dash to get it and read it.

Now f/k wit it!!!

By QueDogTeaching

September 28, 2006 12:15 PM | Link to this

The differences in men and women are that most women know if they like a man or dislike a man immediately. But for most men a woman has to prove herself worthy of that real like or love. For me it is like American Express, membership has its privileges. And you have to qualify to be a member.

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 12:15 PM | Link to this

Blue I have just sent my official report to the ethics counsel for further investigation.

New coming aZZ Jake:

We of the Ethics Counsel finds Mista Blue posting @ 0907 hours (blue posted early as hell huh?), not guilty!! No further investigation is need at this time.

here is your Burgar King hat…you may sit down now

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 12:17 PM | Link to this

LahLah

The best way to get over an old man is to get under a new one.

Nah…if we (the male bloggers) had said that…you would be crying…”we ain’t no ho’s” and you would be mad right bout now.

Go figure!!!!

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 12:18 PM | Link to this

LahLah I think thats the fake WLB Book that we published 2 years ago as part of our MLB “Fool the Women Campaign”, I remember specifically approving that law!!!….Oppps, MLB is that book still in circulation?!?!?!

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 12:18 PM | Link to this

DK That may have been the case. But since he wasn’t trying to let it go it must have been worth it in someway.

Candid No signs..I have a life. Did I call every day or visit him every day? NO. Once again, I have a life. I believed what I was being told and what I “didn’t” see since I’m not the type to do drive bys or check phones. What signs was I supposed to have seen? Give me some suggestions based on your obvious wealth of experience with the subject.

By Apple Bottom

September 28, 2006 12:19 PM | Link to this

Candid of course i would read it, lol i’m just curious that’s all

^5 LahLah i thought that was it, with all that pretty cursive writing in it; lol

By Jake

September 28, 2006 12:19 PM | Link to this

@Blatino

Check my 11:06 post. Tiff’s situation

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 12:20 PM | Link to this

DK/Blatino Yoll gotta know that MLB Patrol is one of our regular females wearing a Snake (off Metal Gear) suit. I peeped it when I saw the goatee slip. Yoll know dudes ain’t giving no female permission to read the handbook.

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this

Blatino Its out of my hands the contract has already been written. The gorillas are in the midst..

LAH That came from the man laws the best way to get over one chick is to get on top of another..

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this

That MLB thing is cracking me up, sounds like a bunch of hypocrites, if you ask me! LOL

Hypocritical is your mind set…I swear you think worse than men at times…means like us!

Here is your pointy hat. Now go sit in the corner lika good girl and think it over!

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 12:25 PM | Link to this

You speak truth, Infamous, good sir. Officially ‘zipping it’(not that one, ladies. u can get at that one any time you’re game!).

…..closing his solid-black corinthian leather-bound collector’s edition copy of MLB.

By NoStress

September 28, 2006 12:26 PM | Link to this

@Infamous - what it do playboi what it do? Ya’ll got me laughin with the MLB mayne - don’t worry though I won’t give them the game today dog - I’ll continue to let some of the mystery drift on.

Hold it down playboi - I’m out.

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:26 PM | Link to this

musing no,no,no this is the real deal, it’s all coming back to me now. I distinctively remember having the lavendar silk lining installed along with the deep purple cashmere cover. It even came with the custom made Michel Perchin Luxury Pen. Yep, I remember now.

By Deljah

September 28, 2006 12:29 PM | Link to this

(fyi -I haven’t read any comments; just got on).

But to the topic of a “say anything” guy, I was wary of that with my current SO. From the moment we met, he was very open emotionally and jumped in enthusiastically. He started telling his friends and family about me right after we met. He told me he loved me within a week after our first date. Pretty much everything that I wanted to hear was said very early on.

It’s 9 months later, and he hasn’t missed a beat, slipped or tripped. He’s been consistent from day one until now. At times I had trouble believing it all b/c of negative experiences from my past and just the small amount of time. However, his consistency and integrity won me over. He’s backed up his words with actions and expressed that it was his responsibility to prove to me that he was who he said he was and that his feelings were what he expressed. I’m convinced now. :o)

The thing with him was that he was looking for a wife when we met. He expressed his agenda up front and said that he was already ready to be married. So, since he found the type person he’d been wanting (me), no drawn out lead time was necessary. He said 6 months was long enough to date, and if marriage wasn’t imminent then, it was time to move. You’ll note that I mentioned we’ve been together 9 months, LOL. Six months was just too early for me, so I pushed for nine. I’m filled with expectation right now, and I’ll keep ya posted! :o)

BTW, he’s 36, never been married, no kids. I’m 33, same situation.

By Jake

September 28, 2006 12:29 PM | Link to this

@MLB Patrol Damn Homie!! I’m wit DK, turn in your undies and duct tape dem ballz back

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 12:31 PM | Link to this

supposedly he did so..but I neglected to ask for paperwork

Tiff sweetie this is a clear violation of section 4.8.66 which clearly states in bold letters, Protect you and your partner at All TIMES!!!!

Now, may I please have buddy’s number, I will have Demi’n’dem to sent over Sexy Shaft A.S.A.P!

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 12:33 PM | Link to this

Ok, Infamous, make it so. Those were some heinous violations.

@Blue; mos def that is a possibility. The question is, Which One? maybe our own WD, perhaps???

…. still chuckling from thinking women actually believe the “Over/Under Rule” is of a female source!!!

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 12:33 PM | Link to this

Deljah That’s great..I’m glad to read a positive experience today. Good Luck!!!

By Apple Bottom

September 28, 2006 12:34 PM | Link to this

Oh it came with a pretty pen nice- nice i likey, i likey

Musing we females always find a loop hole

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 12:34 PM | Link to this

Tiff Anytime a man (or boy in your case) waffles in his conversation, find the nearest exit. He is playing with your mind. And a mind is a terrible thing to waste on any fool. Somehow, he found your weakness and catered to it. If you were confident in your decision to wait, do not let his behavior deter you from what you believe. You stood your ground and you waited. Your motives were pure. You are not responsible for his immaturity. Like I said earlier, it is pretty shallow for a man to lie just for sex. But from a man’s perspective, it is all about the hunt, the chase and the kill.

What do you hope to gain by telling the other women? A sense of the control you feel you lost? It’s possible that they already know. Hold your head up high and refuse to be a part of his rotation.

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 12:35 PM | Link to this

THE INFAMOUS DK

Nykka please!!! You can find me…In da A..In da A..In da A…

By kinderbabe

September 28, 2006 12:36 PM | Link to this

delijah i am loving your story!!! i always love to hear good love news! i wish you much success! it goes to show that every situation is unique. it’s good to be open to the possibilities that love offers.:)

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:37 PM | Link to this

Oh, look!

Now turning pages

WLB Rule # 322

Don’t believe em girl! He lyin!!!

By SeanJohnson

September 28, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this

@ Peaches404..reason i said u was wrong for that…she sounds like she may be a good woman that was caught up with the wrong dude…sites like that and women who give her male bashing advise can have her thinking all men are bad and have her not trusting men anymore..

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this

^5 Alphabet King

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

Tiff The truth is No man wants to let any woman go.. Slows the rotation.

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this

Yes LahLah you are correct, I must have been mistaken….

Now crossing arms and leaning back in solid platinum chair wrapped in buffalo leather

Blatino That MLB Book is the joint…hahahahaha

Besides if a Woman found a copy of the book you could open it…the digital DNA scan would never allow you inside…And you can’t have your son open it because of the chronological counter device…It’s really useless…and a whipped man couldn’t let you read his, cause the book self destructs once a dude loses his ballz to his lady…So, yeah, it’s pretty useless.

By Tiff

September 28, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this

@MLB Patrol LOL..I know I know (shaking my head)

Jewel I thought about telling them mainly because I didn’t want to feel as though he was getting away with it. At the end of the day I realize that the others may not care. Based on some of the convo in the emails..he’s a ship that they won’t let pass..he’ll have to kick them off!!! I’m just glad that I was strong enough to jump off the ship and save myself.

By Apple Bottom

September 28, 2006 12:44 PM | Link to this

Lah check out rule #56

now you know that’s a lie, he know good dayum well she ain’t his “sister” answering his phone at 2:35 am

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 12:44 PM | Link to this

Tiff

Ohhh Grasshopper…I would help you…but it might put me in violation of the MLB oath.

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:46 PM | Link to this

LMAO of at the MLB Patrol you can find me in the A LOL

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 12:46 PM | Link to this

Blatino Brutha New nope…Just little tired of some of the ladies being suckers soooooo easy.

I am one of the original members…along with **G,blue,DK,runnin’n’musin, and Dushawn

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 12:48 PM | Link to this

Rule # 472 in the WLB… The best way to get over an old man is to get under a new one.

Sound a little whorish huh?

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 12:48 PM | Link to this

What is so funny about this MLB work of fiction is that the wise women wrote the book and handed it to the men, along with an apple. Thanks Mother Eve. LOL!

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 12:49 PM | Link to this

NoS Whats up Pimpin.. Yeah I have been laying low too just came out to impose sanctions and revoke a few playa cards for those violating the code of silence..

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 12:50 PM | Link to this

Blue Yoll know dudes ain’t giving no female permission to read the handbook. My sweetie surrendered his copy several months ago! LOL!

By Deljah

September 28, 2006 12:55 PM | Link to this

@Tiff & Kinderbabe - thanks for the well wishes!

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 12:56 PM | Link to this

Apple Bottom yea I noticed that one.

now sitting in my comfortable executive chair made out of real “baby bottom skin”, proping feet up on the Woman Law round table exposing brown and gold Minol Blahnik stileto’s

observing Woman Law # 22

Be the very best woman you can possibly be. The RIGHT man will come along and appreciate it.

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 01:00 PM | Link to this

Tiff KUDOS TO YOU! And you will meet a man with solid character who appreciates and values what you have to offer.

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 01:00 PM | Link to this

jewel

Rule # 72 in the WLB

If in a relationship, do not be fooled by the fake azz MLB handbook your SO allows you to read.

By Bre'

September 28, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this

MLB Patrol Sound a little whorish huh Dude come on now if a man said it would be cool. Realize different methods work for different people. And more woman than you know can for sure separate sex and emotions. Its not a born gift but its a learned gift after one goes thru much bs.

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this

@MLB Patrol Damn Homie!! I’m wit DK, turn in your undies and duct tape dem ballz back

JAKE/DK LOL I ain’t walking naked for no dudes* *roll wit it

Blue Brutha please!! Better go back to your Discovery channel’s reruns with that!

Jewel a book made by women to trick women…Thanks mamma EVE!!!

By WLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:02 PM | Link to this

WLB #102—-nevah, evah, admit that you faked it.

WLB #57—- let him believe he’s runnin thangs when you know that you’re the one coordinatin’.

WLB #89.2- NEVER let them know that we want it as much and sometimes more than they do.

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this

now sitting in my comfortable executive chair made out of real “baby bottom skin”

Ms.Lah you are frightening Demi

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 01:06 PM | Link to this

Ewwww LahLah you know how many babies were shaved to make that chair, that’s a shame…and I should know, cause I bought one for my assistant…I have to oil the dayum thing er’Two days.

By Lah Lah aka Pretty Money Jones

September 28, 2006 01:08 PM | Link to this

WLB Patrol Good job….

Rule # 57 section 3…..

Get him to do whatever you want/need/desire him to do by making him believe it was his idea.

By SeanJohnson

September 28, 2006 01:09 PM | Link to this

@ WLB patrol…please tell us something we dont know….we arent 16…

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 01:10 PM | Link to this

LahLah That was sound advice given to Jewel…I will not confirm, nor deny the existance of said “fake MLB” Book…But, sound advice all around.

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 01:12 PM | Link to this

Lah The point is he has no further need for MLB fiction! He knows he has a genuine Jewel. LOL!

WLB Patrol Those rules must be the Young Adult version.

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 01:14 PM | Link to this

MLB No thong panties would suit you better than your man underwear, probably got some snakeskin print bikinis on now. With Taco Meat hangin out the sides and top.

We know where you are and more importantly we know who you are so your demise is imminent..

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 01:15 PM | Link to this

Hey Blatino :)

I have no problem admitting that I’ve been played before… maybe even twice (wink). And I have no problem admitting I’ve seen other women play themselves, but all that comes from not recognizing the rules/signs of when you are getting played. Once you’ve been through it a once or twice, it doesn’t take long for the BS dector to trip earlier and ealier in the courtship.

I will be the first to admit i’ve gotten played, no shame here. Thats how I learned a lot about myself, learned what I can and cannot deal with, and what to keep an open eye about.

Tiff, don’t listen to what DK said, he doesn’t know.

Oh that SJ… I was really just being funny. I personally would never check that site and I think it should be taken down b/c any ole body can get on there and say any ole thing they want. If a woman decides not to trust men anymore, it would probably be due to a first hand experience, not a website.

By A slippin WLB member (not LahLah)

September 28, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this

What if you’ve never mastered the skill of separating emotions and the physical so you leave em alone all together but ugh, he just so happens to (own) a “tool” that is ugh, ugh, well worthy of a friggin gold medal if it were an olypic sport? Is there a law/rule that covers how to handle this type situation???

By abc

September 28, 2006 01:17 PM | Link to this

Now, that women faking the O thing is a fairly interesting topic.

Most men know that a female’s primary sex organ is her brain, and there’s nothing we can physically do to stroke that! So if she’s not getting off one time or another, so what, from a man’s perspective… if yall were like a man, and you wanted an O, you’d just go get it for yourself, just like men do.

So why fake it? You think that in the middle of the act, we even think there’s anything we can specifically do to make it happen for you if you’re not in the right mindset? Yall be thinking about shopping lists and what’s on TV next, so fine… but you don’t have to make us feel better by faking, and it doesn’t make it be over any sooner, so what’s the point?

Just sayin.

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 01:18 PM | Link to this

LMAO @ the secret codes passing between MLB Patrol and the MLB members…LOL @ DK

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:20 PM | Link to this

Bre’ pretty lady…DK said it first I am just agreeing…therefore I am blameless…Smile

By Vee

September 28, 2006 01:24 PM | Link to this

Woman Law #12 never let him see you sweat; if he has “taco meat” around the ballz run like hell, when he wakes up tell him he “purrs like a cat in his sleep”

By QueDogTeaching

September 28, 2006 01:26 PM | Link to this

@Deljah Since he is so perfect now, what happens when he makes one mistake? How will your blog change?

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:26 PM | Link to this

THE INFAMOUS DK trying a little hard aint we…

*No blog hotdog for you…you get grits/WO eggs or cheese!

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:30 PM | Link to this

And no salt’n’pepper!!

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 01:31 PM | Link to this

I simi-agree with abc, faking it is just plain dumb. Why would I want to make you feel like you’ve accomplished something when you really haven’t???

By A slippin WLB member (not LahLah)

September 28, 2006 01:32 PM | Link to this

Musing no my brotha, you must’ve gotten your assistant that Crenshaw Baby Bottom chair.

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 01:33 PM | Link to this

WLB/LahLah observing Woman Law # 22

Be the very best woman you can possibly be. The RIGHT man will come along and appreciate it.

See…?! That’s where yoll are fuggin up at. You got 21 other things to do BEFORE playin’ ya role.

MLB Patrol I smell a cat… I mean a rat.

By Bre'

September 28, 2006 01:34 PM | Link to this

I hate it when MLB makes me smile Now I can’t stop…..

aslippinWLB I understand your problem but overstand the necessaity of the tool. He is not and will not be the only one. Once you cross the power of mind over the body lessons you come to realize this. Weakness if first found in the mind…..everything else is last.

By A slippin WLB member (not LahLah)

September 28, 2006 01:36 PM | Link to this

Woman Law # 12.7

As it relates to “taco meat infested ballz” it is perfectly ok to offer to hot comb the ballz or use a mild relaxer on the ballz. Never risk the chance of loosing a good thing due to nappy ballz.

Woman Law # 12.8

As a precationary measure, lather ballz with petroleum jelly before applying hot comb or hair relaxer.

By aggressively witty

September 28, 2006 01:37 PM | Link to this

So how much would you pay for someone to come into your office and smack the shyt out of a coworker you despise?

I am thinking of doing this and calling “the people’s elbow” It would be like a singing telegram but the person just walks up to whoever and just smacks them into next week. I am thinking of hiring either nothing but grandmas or ex cons who are other wise unemployable.

By abc

September 28, 2006 01:40 PM | Link to this

@Imapeach, yeah really… and besides that, men would likely think if ya want one just come on and get it! That’s what the man is doing! But women aren’t really like that, they need a mindset that’s quite different from a man’s. Now, men can help the right mindset along in a woman, but it’s mostly up to her, there’s not that much a man can do about it. Regardless technique, size, stamina, whatever.

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 01:40 PM | Link to this

Now informing MLB operative “King” to step up his game…We must continue to control the pu..”Minds” of certain WLB executives

By A slippin WLB member (not LahLah)

September 28, 2006 01:41 PM | Link to this

He is not and will not be the only one

Thanks Bre, I know. Mentally, I know what’s best, that’s why I left him alone. Just had a moment not even about him, just the “tool.”

I’m ok now.

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 01:42 PM | Link to this

the blog is straight comedy today, guys.

@Blatino - no that definitely wasn’t WD.

And let me send an official request to watch the profanity, and use of the n-word

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 01:42 PM | Link to this

abc Some women fake it so that you will hurry up and get the h3ll off….it does make it go faster because you don’t have to keep flapping in the water like a duck and going NOWHERE!

Also, we really don’t want to have to nurse a bruised and shattered ego all the time.

Just thinking out loud

And some women do take care of themselves….you know that!

By abc

September 28, 2006 01:43 PM | Link to this

…and just shave the dayum balls, it’s a matter of hygiene.

By MLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:43 PM | Link to this

MLB Patrol I smell a cat… I mean a rat

Blue so do I. Soon as you find one, please let us know…hope it aint you!

By MusingLee

September 28, 2006 01:43 PM | Link to this

Agg I love that idea…LOL…I’ll even dress up as Rick James and work for you…Smacking the ishh outta people for the hellz of it…Hehehehehe

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 01:44 PM | Link to this

Yo, MLB Patrol, like I said, the women ain’t gettin played, dude. They playin themselves.

and @slippinWLB, chil’, ain’t chu nevah hurd of a friend foulk???

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 01:45 PM | Link to this

To springboard off of ABC’s argument on the “fakin’ it” issue. Why is it a dude’s job/responsibility. You should be at least 75% responsible for your own “O”. The term “monkey hands” probably has no meaning to half of the women so therefore half of you aren’t helping the dude accomplish anything either… Peach404.

By DuShawn

September 28, 2006 01:46 PM | Link to this

ABC “Most men know that a female’s primary sex organ is her brain, and there’s nothing we can physically do to stroke that” Personally, I enjoy getting some good brain.

By Jake

September 28, 2006 01:47 PM | Link to this

Blue

MLB Patrol I smell a cat… I mean a rat.

Been Stankin up the place all Morning.

By Lah Lah aka SWA (Single With an Attitude)

September 28, 2006 01:48 PM | Link to this

blue you funny. You’re right though. Probably need to change that to rule # 1

Woman Law # 2

Don’t fake it! If you have to work to make sure he’s strait. Let him work to make sure you’re strait.

By Bre'

September 28, 2006 01:52 PM | Link to this

aslippinWLB Small key is to admit it to the tool not the tool holder. Now see that’s even more mental power…That goes further than separation of mind and tool. Second key is be careful to check the tool holders mental stablity…not all of them can handle the truth its not them but what’s attached.

By WLB Patrol

September 28, 2006 01:53 PM | Link to this

WLB#1—-love yourself 1st before you can love anyone else

By A slippin WLB member (not LahLah)

September 28, 2006 01:54 PM | Link to this

Blatino I’m not capable of just having friend folks. I’m an all or nothing kind of lady.

Turning on my afternoon stories, Men Law Board from Mars/Women Law Board from Venus, while re-writing eviction papers for King.

By abc

September 28, 2006 01:54 PM | Link to this

@Dimples, nah, see… what I’m sayin is that in the middle of the act, men aren’t all that concerned about it if you’re not getting yours, unless they’re young and inexperienced. We figure if you’re not feeling it, your’re not feeling it, for whatever reason, and so what. If it’s a persistent condition, it’s about sexual compatibility, and she’s not the right one for that specific reason.

Chick getting hers doesn’t hurry me up. I think yall are kidding yourselves with all that faking the O stuff. If a guy just can’t get you off it’s most likely you’re just not feeling him, not due to something specific to him, but due to something more specific to you and the way you think and feel.

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 01:56 PM | Link to this

abc The one or two times that I did fake it was to protect the ego of the naive. With the first husband I didn’t know how to fake it; with whitebread I was learning some new tricks so wasn’t about to cheat myself by faking it LOL; with the nature guy was when I learned how to fake it; and with the man I don’t have to fake it and wouldn’t get away with it if I tried.

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 02:01 PM | Link to this

LOL @ DuShawn

By Page1908

September 28, 2006 02:03 PM | Link to this

LOL @ DuShawn

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 02:03 PM | Link to this

Well, then, slippin, it’s like this: all of you is gonna get none of his tool. If you’re ok with that, then proceed as planned. If this presents a problem for you, i.e. you’re already Pita Rolled and Richard Whipped, then you may have to rethink your philosophy.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 02:03 PM | Link to this

abc I KNOW that there are some guys who are concerned about their partner’s enjoyment. Now, I’m not talking about someone who is faking ALL the time…just some of the time…off night….

I think guys would like to think that’s it’s about us in those situations…but it’s YOU who are kidding yourself if you believe that in EVERY case

I don’t disagree about if your mind isn’t there then there’s nothing you can do…but then there are times when you just may have an off night…

Personally, I wouldn’t continue to date someone where I had to fake it…I would try and work real hard with the dude if he’s worth it, but if we’re not compatible…then we’re not.

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 02:06 PM | Link to this

abc ”..men can help the right mindset along in a woman..”

That right there is the truth. Anybody can be persuaded and I will never lie and say there aren’t times when I needs a little persuading. Sometimes I am willing but not quite where I need to be.

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 02:07 PM | Link to this

LOL @ ABC killin’ ‘em while wearing his Maslow hat. hahahahaha… Man, I think you lost them.

By LorDemi formally of MLB Patrol Group

September 28, 2006 02:07 PM | Link to this

Walk in like George Jefferson

DK here I is!!…with ballz still intact

Blatino Brutha true tha…true tha, dem ladies often are the cause of their own down fall.

Blue and Jake Y’oll need to chill…We could have the MLB Laws posted in every major news outlet…Do you really think they would even bother to read between the lines, better yet believe that it’s true?

Alvin Feel free to cut me down…you best to believe I will be on here 10am tomorrow morning…Acting like shyt aint happen!

By abc

September 28, 2006 02:10 PM | Link to this

Off night, sure, happens to everyone… happens to men too, betcha… but why fake it then? When that has happened to me, perhaps I’ve just been lucky it’s with a woman who’s feeling the emotional connection, happy to be there for me. I don’t feel bad about it, it makes me feel good. That’s a girl I’m going to treat extra special. Isn’t that the kind of partner everyone would like to have?

By NoStress

September 28, 2006 02:10 PM | Link to this

@Blue - can’t endorse that one dog - normally I don’t break protocol but on this one I have to come cross ‘dem picket lines. If it is 75% her own responsibility to get her cum on then your 25% ain’t much to establish a return ticket voucher. Man your mindset has to be that when she opens the jelly jar that you spread it so nicely she got to taste it her dang self and then call and curse her mom out for never telling her it could be this good.

Females on the other side of the coin - there is an art in communication and control if buddy ain’t hittin it right you got to know how to turn the tide and talk that dude into your spot and let it do what it do. if you just lay there thats on you, and you just made two bad choices in one night.

By A slippin WLB member (not LahLah)

September 28, 2006 02:11 PM | Link to this

Blatino no, I’m not Pita Rolled or Richard Whipped. Although I liked him a whole heck of a lot, I knew/know he wasn’t “the one.” I was just blinded by the…… “tool” going cold turkey ain’t the easiest thing but I will proceed as planned. I’m cool now.

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 02:14 PM | Link to this

Demi Mayne, I was about to put the APB out on ya champ. *L Boogie has been acting up today. LOL

By Hot Sauce

September 28, 2006 02:14 PM | Link to this

Woman Law #1

Make sure he knows who’s it is when asked; “who’s d* is it!?” lmao!!!!

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 02:19 PM | Link to this

not all of them can handle the truth its not them but what’s attached.

I can see you hold a ruler **Bre’

Thinking…That will not dooooo…nonononononononooooooooo

LOL

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 02:19 PM | Link to this

clutching my pearls

oh my…umm, please be careful guys. I wouldn’t want things getting too carried away, remember where you guys are commenting.

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 02:20 PM | Link to this

Aiight, ya’ll gotta go, but dayyyyum this one was fun. Hold it down, BK, L-Demi(i was startin to suspect), Candid, DK, AggWit, etc. I know you know this, but remembah, bro’s before h….

By Cinderella

September 28, 2006 02:20 PM | Link to this

when she opens the jelly jar that you spread it so nicely she got to taste it her dang self…oooo lawd! (fanning myself wildly)

By abc

September 28, 2006 02:20 PM | Link to this

Where’s my MLB award for ‘Promoting Better Sexuality through Big O Honesty’?

By SeanJohnson

September 28, 2006 02:21 PM | Link to this

@ Deep Buty…i feel what you are saying..I have always been that way…I learn a long time ago..if make sure she is satisfied…she will always come back…literally

By Page1908

September 28, 2006 02:21 PM | Link to this

LOL OMG NoStress! LOLOL…haaa aww man. hey there…cheesin

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 02:21 PM | Link to this

Woman Law #1

Make sure he knows who’s it is when asked; “who’s d is it!?” lmao!!!!*

Must be a counterfeit copy of the WLB Manual floating around. I know that this ^^^ isn’t the same #1 Chick Law stated earlier.

By Sweet Tea

September 28, 2006 02:22 PM | Link to this

Musing check your schedule for next thursday evening, let me know if you can join us at the “shooting range” aight!?

By Bre'

September 28, 2006 02:23 PM | Link to this

shhhhhhh Demi I’m just saying you know how it go

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 02:23 PM | Link to this

Reverend NoStress did you just use the word cum to talk about sexual relations? LOL

By Deljah

September 28, 2006 02:27 PM | Link to this

@QueDogTeaching: My SO isn’t perfect. He was very upfront about that himself as well! LOL Our relationship hasn’t been all starlight and roses, as we have had some real challenges that could’ve derailed us. But we’ve gotten through those together, and that’s given me confidence that we can handle what the future holds.

Thanks for asking. I’m open to any other questions. :o)

By Blatino Brutha

September 28, 2006 02:29 PM | Link to this

Oye, Page! explicale a estos tigres el valor verdadero de un Negro mezclao con Colombiano…. ;)

By Page1908

September 28, 2006 02:30 PM | Link to this

LOL Cinderella! now searching for Martin Luther Kang church fan…LOL

LOL NoStress! cracking the F up…man, I am SHOCKED!! Man, where is that dude Runnin! He needs to see you showing out today! LOL @ open the jelly jar

By LorDemi formally of MLB Patrol Group

September 28, 2006 02:32 PM | Link to this

Blatino Brutha LOL Yes Siiiirrrrrr!!!!

By Page1908

September 28, 2006 02:33 PM | Link to this

Oye Blatino! Mijo, no se nada porque no entiendo Ingles mucho..LOL…oh well My name is lenit and i ain’t in it! LOL

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 02:34 PM | Link to this

SeanJ leave it up to you to combine my name…LOL

But I wholeheartedly agree, if I get an idea that the dude doesn’t care about pleasing me then THAT’S a turnoff right there! I want to see him smile (or some derivative thereof) because he’s pleasing me…I smile when I’m pleasing my partner because I’m glad to do it!

And you’re right…it will keep us coming back…not literally LOL!

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 02:36 PM | Link to this

Unless brother has money…Ladies can dem less bless brothers do?

My homegirl is divorcing buddy for that very reason…yes I am guilty

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 02:41 PM | Link to this

NoStress You missed my point champ. Laying it down proper is Basic Man 101. That goes without saying, if you want a follow-up with said chick. I was getting at what some women perceive to be a man’s sole responsibility.

Now barring the every-blue-moon-I’m-under-the-weather outing, if both parties are on the case then there should be no shortage of “O’s”. Hope I cleared that up for ya…

And just in case I slipped by the women, if you’re unfamiliar with the term “monkey hands” ask around and add that to the top of your repertoire.

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 02:45 PM | Link to this

Okay I will be the one to issue out the hand sanitizer to cleanup the smut coming off these keyboards. LOL

Communication is the key seriously. Without it there is no relationship.

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 02:48 PM | Link to this

Ladies what can dem less bless brothers do?

sorry

By ImAPeach404

September 28, 2006 02:50 PM | Link to this

NoStress… wow, um! You’ve got me watching my back to make sure nobody is behind me reading that post! You laid it down though :)

Back back Page :)

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 02:51 PM | Link to this

blue monkey hands

I guess you’re saying to the ladies if you want something done right then do it yourself???

By abc

September 28, 2006 02:54 PM | Link to this

Yall are perhaps not quite getting it, and SJ, you are kinda playing into it… it is when they see you going through your whole big bag of tricks and moves and it still is not happening for her that she figures WTH, go ahead and fake one this time and not only will he still feel like he is the man, it will be over that much sooner because American Idol is coming on.

Better to be honest about it, give of yourself due to the emotional bond we would hope is there, accept that there is not anything dude can do tonight to get you off because you just arent feelin it, and let him appreciate how much you are there for him. Honesty wins. And not to forget, dude will almost always get his anyway, and if you dont get yours and demonstrate that its okay (rather than faking something you dayum well never fess up to), both are better off. Say it aint so.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 02:59 PM | Link to this

abc It’s not that we don’t get it…it’s just the approach that some women use for THAT night…we might not want to have that speech tonight….because American Idol is coming on LOL.

By Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 03:00 PM | Link to this

Darkbuty I guess you’re saying to the ladies if you want something done right then do it yourself???

Naah, I’m saying women step ya game up to Tier 1 in vaginal control.

By Thick

September 28, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this

Ohhhh, I’m back and these men are talking, guess I can’t miss this.

By Ms. Thick

September 28, 2006 03:03 PM | Link to this

Ohhhh, I’m back and these men are talking, guess I can’t miss this.

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 03:04 PM | Link to this

Raqi Hope you have a case of the sanitizer!

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 03:04 PM | Link to this

ABC You’ve been reading my books, ha?

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:06 PM | Link to this

abc Plus, if you know it’s an off night…why go through all the drama…?? It’s easier that way…he may NOT need any lessons or further instructions…again, just an off night…

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 03:08 PM | Link to this

ABC Your comments are for mature minds only.

By Sweet Tea

September 28, 2006 03:08 PM | Link to this

Blue_K how many tier’s are there to the “vaginal control” huh?????

By DuShawn

September 28, 2006 03:09 PM | Link to this

I think a lot of the fellas are watching too much Oprah. Some sound like Ralph Tresvant (Mr. Sensitivity). So overly concerned about pleasing a woman sexually, starting relationships, openly communicating and treating women honorably. Whatever happened to the squirt ‘em and desert’em brothas. Where are my no good brothas that ride them hard, send them home soiled with sore jaw muscles.

By SeanJohnson

September 28, 2006 03:10 PM | Link to this

@ abc…i understand your point ..and i agree its not the mans repsonsiblity to bring a female to an orgasm but to help her… its suppose to be an enjoyable experience by both parties…i communicate with females before during and after so we are on the same page..i can only speak for myself on this..but i enjoy everything about a clean fine womans body..so if she happens to have an orgasm or two or three from me appriciating and enjoying it..then so be it…i am not selfish in that regard..

By abc

September 28, 2006 03:13 PM | Link to this

Freud, ha… it’s an interesting subject to me, because of the pathology, yeah, for sure. Women do it to placate a man who (most of the time, unless a chronic lousy lover) wouldn’t care that much, would far more appreciate a woman who could face up to herself just not being into it that night being the reason why, and if she so demonstrated that by not faking it, would in all likelihood enjoy the many emotional benefits of a man that truly appreciated how she was there for him.

That kind of emotional connection is what all women want from a man, and yet they undermine that by faking orgasms. Makes no sense to me.

By Lah Lah

September 28, 2006 03:14 PM | Link to this

Dushawn!!!

You should be ashamed of yourself. Squirt em and Dessert em???

That’s horrible! You should be ashamed!

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 03:14 PM | Link to this

Where are my no good brothas that ride them hard, send them home soiled with sore jaw muscles.

sound 85% of the blog ladies type of men….

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 03:16 PM | Link to this

Dushawn they still exist, no worries. They have also met up with the females that crown them their PK’s, making them pick up their dirty draws and get out once they serve up the O’s.

Some guys should know that is all they are good for with the chicks, she too will say anything to make you feel like you were the best.

By Lah Lah

September 28, 2006 03:18 PM | Link to this

sean

i enjoy everything about a clean fine womans body..so if she happens to have an orgasm or two or three from me appriciating and enjoying it..then so be it…i am not selfish in that regard.

Lawd have mercy,

now fanning myself with work papers

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 03:20 PM | Link to this

Tea how many tier’s are there to the “vaginal control” huh?????

I don’t have and exact tier count on VC but I can tell you that it’s a large percentage of the overall quality of cat - and the 4 levels of cat that I know of are:

By Raqi

September 28, 2006 03:20 PM | Link to this

Okay here’s my last comment.

When IN a relationship:

There will be days when you will pleasure each other;

There will be days when only one pleasures the other.

There will be days when a kiss is sufficient affection;

And there will be days when just the holding of hands expounds your love’s progression.

By Ms. Thick

September 28, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this

DuShawn yo Mama need to spank you tail, that was so off the meter. Shaking My Head, hoping all the no good brothas have turned over a new leaf and are going straight!

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 03:24 PM | Link to this

ABC Like Jewel said - Your comments are for mature minds only.

Demi sound 85% of the blog ladies type of men….

Ummm… yeah that.

DuShawn Mayne you be lunchin… LOL

By THE INFAMOUS DK

September 28, 2006 03:27 PM | Link to this

DU Thats real… Ridem hard and put em up wet..

By Sweet Tea

September 28, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this

Thanks Blue_K

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this

That kind of emotional connection is what all women want from a man, and yet they undermine that by faking orgasms. Makes no sense to me.

We get the emotional connection regardless….that’s what you’re missing We get to snuggle and cuddle AND watch American Idol!!

I mean really…it’s one freakin night…no one wants the drama!!

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:33 PM | Link to this

Plus, since I care about you…I might want you “to do you” tonight! And then watch American Idol

By abc

September 28, 2006 03:34 PM | Link to this

What drama? I have to figure that if your man would get so upset because you don’t get the O, and he assumes that it’s because of something he did or didn’t do, that indicates very strongly that he’s not very good in the sack. Plainly, he’s not the right one to be your man, and vice versa. Lack of sexual compatibility.

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 03:36 PM | Link to this

Some guys should know that is all they are good for with the chicks

AMEN for thoses type of sister…Now firing blog rounds in the air!!

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 03:39 PM | Link to this

DarkButy I mean really…it’s one freakin night…no one wants the drama!!

The point is that if it’s just one night why lie? Then you’ve made dude think that he hit it right and so he puts on the same show again and again and now its, “He ain’t doin’ shyt”, to ya girls; when in actuality it your fault. All you had to say was, “Sorry, Baby I wasn’t in it tonight…” and then work that out in the morning before work and it’ll be all good.

But the real is that a lyin’ female will see no foul in telling lies, large or small… about whateva. So to that I say, “Show me your stripes… zebra.”

By DuShawn

September 28, 2006 03:41 PM | Link to this

Wise “making them pick up their dirty draws and get out once they serve up the O’s.” The difference is I don’t think most men would feel used or disrespected in the least if a woman only wanted them for sex. If a woman told me to put on my clothes and step immediately after she bust a few, I would be like “Cool, I’m out……call me when you need me”. Most women would not tolerate being treated like that. If it’s that good, they may come back a few times, until their self respect outweighed their physical desires.

By Jewel

September 28, 2006 03:41 PM | Link to this

Raqi Love that 3:20 post. So true. If everything centers around the orgasm (male or female), what else is there in the relationship?

By QC

September 28, 2006 03:41 PM | Link to this

Ok, have y’all seen the video email of Miss Peachez Fry Dat Chicken?

lawd have mercy, somebody need to come up with a “blog rap video” for us, Musing????

Oh and let’s not forget the infamous Chicken Noodle Soup w/a soda on the side

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this

Abc it’s just an unnecessary discussion to have if I’m still interested in making love to you that night…if I’m not in the mood, but still want you to have a good time…then I might just play the role. The drama is NOT with someone getting upset….it’s in having an unnecessary conversation…that’s drama to me.

Again, I’m talking about one night…not a running history….sexual comptability is already established if he’s my man….

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:45 PM | Link to this

Blue Y’all better be glad that some women are faking it…it’s the only way that some of you have the egos that you do have…!!

By abc

September 28, 2006 03:46 PM | Link to this

Co-signing BK on that one… if you allow him to think it’s due to him, or even train him to repeat the same show by lying to him, see now, that’s something about women that men really don’t like… pushing off the blame, making him feel bad for something that is to do with you.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:48 PM | Link to this

Blue And your missing my point…it’s NOT a repetitive action. If he’s YOUR MAN, I’m assuming that he’s already established that he’s a good lover…so there won’t be in derogatory remarks made to our friends…

But just like women don’t understand everything that men do…why are y’all trying so hard to understand why some women do what they do???

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this

Y’all better be glad that some women are faking it…it’s the only way that some of you have the egos that you do have…!!

It’s a true statement…but I retract it!!

By abc

September 28, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this

Because in this case, it’s something that every woman on the planet has done: fake an orgasm. It’s a curious thing in that it’s unnecessary, pointless and even counterproductive to what women want from men, and if he finds out you faked one, even quite destructive — evidence of lying, and a slam on his manhood. The classic chick attack is telling that she faked orgasms. Look, I’ve been a big enough windbag about it for one afternoon, if you still don’t get it, I give up!

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 03:55 PM | Link to this

DarkButy why are y’all trying so hard to understand why some women do what they do???

Ummm… to be better men to our women??

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 03:56 PM | Link to this

Here it is, my lady friend heart is broken and I am quoting scriptures (with bible in hand) to help her, in a time of need. I have not been to church in 6months.

I feel so so so dirty…Yep I am going to hell

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 03:58 PM | Link to this

Er’time I get ready to comment….I fall out laughing at something. Yoll are FUNNY 2 ME!!!!!

By Hot Sauce

September 28, 2006 04:00 PM | Link to this

Hi, i’m HotSauce and i’ve faked orgams several times, it was they only way he would get up; since he could’nt really “get it up”

Where is Musing

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 04:00 PM | Link to this

DarkButy It’s a true statement…but I retract it!!

Why fall back off your point?

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 04:01 PM | Link to this

This blog is getting heavy. Somebody other than myself, ABC, and DarkButy pick it up and run with it.

By Lah Lah

September 28, 2006 04:03 PM | Link to this

QC send me that email. I wanna laugh.

By Foots

September 28, 2006 04:05 PM | Link to this

Ain’t this a blip? When I pick a day to actually work, that’s the day when y’all truly cut up in here!! Sorry I missed all this…

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 04:06 PM | Link to this

The difference is I don’t think most men would feel used or disrespected in the least if a woman only wanted them for sex

Ms.Wise This is some of the best sex…thinking I can go all out without worrying about any knife in my back

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 04:07 PM | Link to this

We’ve been rubbing y’all on the heads and telling y’all good job since y’all were 2yrs old on the football field…nothing has changed! LOL

I’m done too!

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 04:08 PM | Link to this

Y’all better be glad that some women are faking it…it’s the only way that some of you have the egos that you do have…!!

Nope the sign of a weak brother

By Foots

September 28, 2006 04:13 PM | Link to this

Um, sorry to interject, but no lie, my Blues name is “Jailhouse Foot Rivers”. What a coincidence, considering my blog name… LOL!!!!

By Candidly Speaking

September 28, 2006 04:17 PM | Link to this

BK and ABC

Mayne, I gave up long time ago…cause they see/read and hear what dey wanna read/see and hear. You could talk til the Great Wall of China fell and dey still would be going on and on. Let dat shiid ride.

By QC

September 28, 2006 04:18 PM | Link to this

Lah i don’t have your email addy :(

Does BK have it? If so i can send it to him and he can send it to you….

By abc

September 28, 2006 04:18 PM | Link to this

George Walker Bush’s blues name is Ugly Sugar McGee.

By Deep Dimples formerly aka Darkbuty

September 28, 2006 04:19 PM | Link to this

Blue Why fall back off your point?

Because I’m a sweet, sensitive female and I thought that was a low-blow…even if no one was offended!

By QC

September 28, 2006 04:20 PM | Link to this

Foots now dats funny

BK I sent you the email

By Bre'

September 28, 2006 04:20 PM | Link to this

Dushawn 3:41pm post If only they were really out there like that….thinking to self, when was the last time I ran into one that had the right tool and workings to have me treat him like that 3years later dang it still thinking.

By DuShawn

September 28, 2006 04:29 PM | Link to this

What I’m hearing the women say in regards to faking one is that they do it to spare the man’s ego without discouraging his effort. I think guys are guilty of the same thing in some instances. Fellas, at some point in your sexual travels I know you have run across the female with the green neckwork. You definitely don’t want to discourage her effort, so you try to get into it, but you are not enjoying the experience. You try to subtly communicate some pointers without hurting her feelings, but she’s in need of much practice. Eventually, you make her stop and move on to the next act. If asked how it was, you can’t be totally truthful. So you spare her ego. You don’t want her to give up. Practice makes perfect. I just would’ve preferred if she got her practice before she met me.

By QC

September 28, 2006 04:39 PM | Link to this

abc lmao!!!!!!

By Page1908

September 28, 2006 04:39 PM | Link to this

LOL @ HotSauce! Yeah, let’s not even go there about the ones who can’t get it up! LOL

By LorDemi

September 28, 2006 04:41 PM | Link to this

Bre’ that’s only because you keep running into all the wrong dudes…I tell you what…Post an ad on craigslist…Ask for a pic of them and manhood…Enter the size you are looking for…Meet them at a public location…If you like what you see, tell them to whip it out…They must have test resent test result (less than 3 weeks old)

I responded to ad such as this, back in my younger days…Men if you are bless, disease free, and the girl is a cutie go for it!!!

By Hot Sauce

September 28, 2006 04:43 PM | Link to this

Flava Flav’s blues name is:

HOLLERIN LEMON BROWN dayum!

good nite, Page yes girl let’s not talk about the limpy dycky’s

By Sigmund Freud Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 04:52 PM | Link to this

Candid/ABC dapps

By Mailman Imposter Blue_Kolla

September 28, 2006 04:56 PM | Link to this

QC Delivered…

By Wise Diva

September 28, 2006 04:56 PM | Link to this

Have a good night everyone.

By The Sarccastik Squared

September 29, 2006 08:07 AM | Link to this

It’s a game that every man plays. How many women we can conquer. Especially when the odds are like it is here in the Atl. (12 to 1)…When I was single I wanted to get my 12, my homboy’s 12, and the neighbor’s 12. A man is trying to slay (i’m saying that in a medival since…probably not a good word) as many women as he can because when we get married..the consensus says he must stop. Some do, some don’t. It is what it is…. http://sarccastikenterprises.com