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Tuesday, September 26, 2006
Romance & Finance
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
Ok so money is not exactly the most romantic subject but the fact is, money matters a lot in dating. Even in the early stages of dating, it is the silent, third partner that is hanging out with you two. Money can be a tricky thing on the dating scene.
I have dated Mr. Money before and honestly there were many times we never agreed on money matters. He was very smart with money, financially secure, and a saver and I was a spoiled Daddy’s girl who loved to spend and get pampered (oh how I miss those days). We had vastly different upbringings and that meant we were diametrically opposed when it came to finances - and boy did it show. All he talked about was money and how he refused to be poor again - which was understandable and admirable even. However, when it came to my views on money, he felt that he knew more, he made more, and he had the most power. I learned a lot about dating and money while I was dating…Mr. Money.
I do feel that it is important to not see money as a challenge in dating, though. Practically speaking, it is just something we should be mindful of. It is important to find out whether you see eye to eye on financial matters when dating, but when do you bring it up?
What happens when you are a fan of valet parking but you are dating someone that refuses to pay to park? Or what if you cut coupons and your date is embarrassed when you pull them out? Can it really work? Can your opposing beliefs regarding money issues co-exist?
Are there ways to tell if you are financially compatible when you are just dating?
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