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DEL.ICIO.USSweet, sweet revenge
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
For the most part, I am a very nice girl.
But cross me…and you’ll see quite a temper!
Of course it would be nice if every relationship, no matter how short or intense, ended peacefully. But unfortunately, that’s not always the case. And I’m not going to lie - sometimes, I want a little revenge. I know this isn’t necessarily a good idea. But how can I stop myself from wanting the last word?
A friend of mine recently was dating a guy fairly seriously, and then he stopped calling abruptly. She called me and said “Is it bad that I really want to hurt him?” Bad, maybe … but as I see it, pretty normal.
I frequently entertain revenge fantasies. I’ve never really acted on one, but it has definitely crossed my mind to slash my ex’s tires or call his new girlfriend and talk smack or make up some dramatic lies about how he hurt me. Something. I know, awful, right? And in a slightly less deranged manner, I often want to have that final confrontation. A guy doesn’t call me back after a nice date. Rather than letting it go, I WANT to call him up and be like “You jerk! Be a man and TELL me you don’t want to see me! No girl is ever going to date you with that behavior!” But, I don’t. I just think about doing it and then chicken out. Maybe that latter example is more ball-busting than revenge, though…
But tell me I’m not alone. What terrible revenge fantasies have you harbored? Have you ever acted on them? Is there ever a case where revenge is justified?
How can you get over these feelings without actually causing harm to yourself or others? =)
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By FyreStarrter™
August 9, 2006 08:30 AM | Link to this
Laney I say go out with your gyrls & get drunk & meet someone new lol! Or better yet any physical activity that you enjoy doing go do it. Mine are boxing & tennis! TRUST the boxing DEFINITELY helps to clear up some ambiguities lol!
By Cinderella
August 9, 2006 08:33 AM | Link to this
Lets see, something I can share that wont get me locked up….
I’ve always fantasied about doing a karate-chop kick azz move like in Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon on my ex. Every time I see fight scenes like that I think “Man, I wish I could do that move on him”…hehehehe
What a fun topic Laney. Good Morning
By Ignatius
August 9, 2006 08:38 AM | Link to this
It is said that revenge is a dish best served cold. As I get older, I often find it is a dish best not served at all. The thoughts of retribution are comforting, but out of self respect for yourself, there comes a time to rise above it. With that sermonette out of the way.. The only memorable times I can recall being vengeful were: Once, after being stood up for a date, was finding out this girl really, really wanted to go see a concert coming through town. I called her up and asked her to it and she made plans and dressed up and prepared and on and on (just like I did for the previous unfulfilled date) but I neglected to buy the tickets. Or call her to tell her. Or show up to take her.
Two, oneof my ex-wives was acting irrationally once, primarily as show in front of a housefull of friends at an Avon party or something. I was taking my daughters back after a weekend visit and she is at the door going on with some argument and I turned to leave. The door smacked her on the backside (which was probably wedged anyway) and she starts screaming “Call 911! Call 911!” Fortunately this was in rural East Tennessee and no one could find the “11” key on the phone so the law didn’t show up. This was around the holidays so I picked out a nice card which would blend in with the other greetings of the season and wrote “Congratulations on making an a** of yourself in front of the kids.” She didn’t ever mention it, but in retrospect, I had done some things just as boneheaded. Other than that, the worst thing I can remember doing is running the child support check through the litter box before mailing it.
As I said eearlier, I look back on it now and it really just seemed to be a waste of time. You aren’t going to change people and you really aren’t going to make them feel repentant. If anything, vengence breeds vengence and it just becomes a destructive cycle. My advice, it’s free, do what you will, forget it, move on. In a short time you’ll look back and realize how trivial the slight or imagined slight was and just shrug it off.
Hello to my blog buddies! I just happened to catch it early in the morning when I had time to post. You all have a great day! Play nice.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 08:40 AM | Link to this
Well I see that the little blog elf has come and left Laney a present or did like a typical thief you steal an idea for this blog? I posted this exact idea on the Yahoo groups blog late last evening and whoa to my utter amazement it appears overhere all shinny at 8:00am in the morning. Hmmm wonder if some missed the class on journalist integrity? An yes dear I am call your integrity in to question early this fine morning.
By Ignatius
August 9, 2006 08:44 AM | Link to this
It is said that revenge is a dish best served cold. As I get older, I often find it is a dish best not served at all. The thoughts of retribution are comforting, but out of self respect for yourself, there comes a time to rise above it. With that sermonette out of the way.. The only memorable times I can recall being vengeful were: Once, after being stood up for a date, was finding out this girl really, really wanted to go see a concert coming through town. I called her up and asked her to it and she made plans and dressed up and prepared and on and on (just like I did for the previous unfulfilled date) but I neglected to buy the tickets. Or call her to tell her. Or show up to take her.
Two, oneof my ex-wives was acting irrationally once, primarily as show in front of a housefull of friends at an Avon party or something. I was taking my daughters back after a weekend visit and she is at the door going on with some argument and I turned to leave. The door smacked her on the backside (which was probably wedged anyway) and she starts screaming “Call 911! Call 911!” Fortunately this was in rural East Tennessee and no one could find the “11” key on the phone so the law didn’t show up. This was around the holidays so I picked out a nice card which would blend in with the other greetings of the season and wrote “Congratulations on making an a** of yourself in front of the kids.” She didn’t ever mention it, but in retrospect, I had done some things just as boneheaded. Other than that, the worst thing I can remember doing is running the child support check through the litter box before mailing it.
As I said eearlier, I look back on it now and it really just seemed to be a waste of time. You aren’t going to change people and you really aren’t going to make them feel repentant. If anything, vengence breeds vengence and it just becomes a destructive cycle. My advice, it’s free, do what you will, forget it, move on. In a short time you’ll look back and realize how trivial the slight or imagined slight was and just shrug it off.
Hello to my blog buddies! I just happened to catch it early in the morning when I had time to post. You all have a great day! Play nice.
By FyreStarrter™
August 9, 2006 08:46 AM | Link to this
Oh I forgot, Good Morning Everyone!!! I am of to CL again will blog later! TeeHee can’t wait to see the dishes we have been serving cold lol!
GP Hello ladies!!! Hey Page, Miss QC, Jazzy, Della & all the ladies out there have a wonderful beautiful day!!
By Starr
August 9, 2006 08:47 AM | Link to this
Morning; not feeling this topic - i don’t get revenge on anyone i let the Lord fight my battles Happy Hump Day
By 3rdwheelflunkie
August 9, 2006 08:52 AM | Link to this
Good Morning everyone and happy hump day! I have to think about this topic for a minute….
By Cinderella
August 9, 2006 09:02 AM | Link to this
Hey Kym, what yahoo blog you on?
By Jazzyone
August 9, 2006 09:03 AM | Link to this
Godo morning ya’. Younger yeah we all play games but at a certain point I learned its not worth it to do the revenge thing and keep it moving thats the best revenge for me and I would agree I let God handle my light weight and heavy weight drama.
By QC
August 9, 2006 09:03 AM | Link to this
Morning Bloggers
What’s up Fyre, 3rd
By Divine Right
August 9, 2006 09:09 AM | Link to this
what goes around eventually comes back around…I don’t want what I do to someone in a moment of stupidity to come back on me. It’s not worth my time or energy to exact revenge on someone. Life is too short to get hung up on one person if they don’t want to be with you.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 09:09 AM | Link to this
Cind I join the one that Single guy set up on yahoo.
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
August 9, 2006 09:15 AM | Link to this
I’ll just lurk today. I can honestly say that I have never had a desire for revenge on any ex, even my ex-wife (okay maybe my ex-inlaws slightly but even made my peace with them eventually).
The truth is that I truly believe that I gained/learned something from every one of them, no matter how it ended. My life was enriched by them all, and they all have a special place in my memory. I have no regrets…none at all, so no need for revenge.
By QC
August 9, 2006 09:17 AM | Link to this
^5 Divine Right
Vengence is mine said the Lord
By kevmoor2005
August 9, 2006 09:18 AM | Link to this
It takes to much brain and psychical energy to get revenge on someone. I say if it’s nothing to major then just get over it and move on. Sometimes the best action is no action at all.
By whizkid1983_1986
August 9, 2006 09:18 AM | Link to this
Congratulations to Hank Johnson for more details visit
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By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
August 9, 2006 09:19 AM | Link to this
Did think of one other comment, partly by what Jazzy said. The best revenge, if one really wants or needs it, is total indifference…not caring at all. If you seek revenge, then you are saying that person still has control over you, and that is exactly what you don’t want.
By Noni
August 9, 2006 09:21 AM | Link to this
Good Morning! Normally I just lurk but this is a pretty good topic, no matter who thought of it first.
Thoughts of revenge are a huge waste of energy on someone who probably didn’t deserve what time and effort we already gave them. That said, it’s hard not to think about it! Thankfully I’ve never acted on it, I am glad that I can look back and recognize that I behaved with integrity, regardless of the provocation. Divine Right has a great point - what goes around comes around.
By Noni
August 9, 2006 09:22 AM | Link to this
Good Morning! Normally I just lurk but this is a pretty good topic, no matter who thought of it first.
Thoughts of revenge are a huge waste of energy on someone who probably didn’t deserve what time and effort we already gave them. That said, it’s hard not to think about it! Thankfully I’ve never acted on it, I am glad that I can look back and recognize that I behaved with integrity, regardless of the provocation. Divine Right has a great point - what goes around comes around.
By 3rdwheelflunkie
August 9, 2006 09:24 AM | Link to this
What’s up QC!!
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 09:24 AM | Link to this
Revenge is for kids…as an adult you should be able to see that the person is not for you…..remember this…God does not make mistakes….there is something bigger and better waiting on you….thats my take for relationships…now if you kill one of mine then that is a different story….but matters of the heart…whatever….sticky suga in the take or egging your house gives your polesmoking (censored) too much airtime…
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 09:28 AM | Link to this
I never wanted to or felt the need to seek revenge on someone…When ever i have been wronged..i just cut the person off completely. No room in my life for people looking to do me harm. I do know some females that have done some sick stuff to dudes who cheated on them…But i wont put it out there..too low down. Its amazing how creative females can be when they are out to get you.
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 09:29 AM | Link to this
morning all..
not into revenge..once it’s over it’s over…no need to go back and waste negative energy that can be turned into something positive to help progress our people….we all have hurt feelings now and then… learn from the situation and move forward…and if we’re sitting here talking and thinking about revenge..then trust some of you guys are not ready to get married… slashing tires? makes me think of my brother’s days in college at a well known HBCU..he spoke of how the majority of the guys bought locks for their gas caps to prevent zealous women from putting sugar in their gas tanks because they mistook trysts for love….
communicate your issues…if you have to resort to physical harm or unsweetened revenge then you need to do some DEEP soul searching as you’re really not ready to involve anyone else in a committed relationship with you….
By FyreStarrter™
August 9, 2006 09:36 AM | Link to this
d- crimson esq, sugar in petrol tanks? LOCKS? Man that is some deep stuff lol
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 09:36 AM | Link to this
Good Morning,
I take revenge… Revenge that I am freshly shaven, fly and together not looking like I wished it never happened or depressed.. I take revenge that I am doing More Better, Ha! than I was when I was with you.. I take revenge when you see my new sugar baby and you know she’s the Shizzle.. I take revenge by being so nonchalant that nothing you say or do can bother me.. Yeah I take revenge alright and do it well..
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 09:37 AM | Link to this
Good Morning,
I take revenge… Revenge that I am freshly shaven, fly and together not looking like I wished it never happened or depressed.. I take revenge that I am doing More Better, Ha! than I was when I was with you.. I take revenge when you see my new sugar baby and you know she’s the Shizzle.. I take revenge by being so nonchalant that nothing you say or do can bother me.. Yeah I take revenge alright and do it well.. Because the best revenge is looking your best afterwards..
By darkbuty
August 9, 2006 09:37 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone
Okay, Eric Benet’s song When you think of me is the best revenge. I love after a breakup when I move on and find a new love and the old one wants to come back. It’s a win/win situation for me regardless….if he wants me back..too bad, so sad..if he doesn’t…who cares because I’ve found a great new guy!!
Hello baby how ya been, nice to see your face again Strange to see you comin’ ‘round, when you’re the one who put me down We were such a happy pair, but then another man was there So forgive me I don’t understand just what you want from me As you can see my life’s been good, I moved the family out the neighborhood And all my dreams I’ve realized to think you said it was a waste of time It’s never hard to make new friends when you’r making Benjamins Now did I hear you say again, You’re still thinking of me? Chorus: Do you feel like dying, do you break down crying Do you fall down on your knees Don’t want to go on living, does your world spinning When you think of me All I had was love to bring, But you was on some ol’ material thing Looks like you’re still trying to drive them mad, but it’s not easy when you’re credits bad I didn’t know that I could feel so blue, It took some time but girl I’m over you Would’ve gladly gave my life for you, You should have thought the whole thing through All those nights with your girlfriends, Was just a front for you and him Y’all was s’posed to leave for Honolulu, leaving yo’ a*s was ‘bout the best he could do Dry your tears now baby it’s O.K., I’ll introduce you to my fiancee Now tell me baby say again, you been thinking of me?
By Thick
August 9, 2006 09:44 AM | Link to this
Good Morning,
Just walk away, let it burn, walk away, no talking, no arguments, no revenge, waaaalllllllllk awaaaaaaay. It feels so good. Nothing gives you more pleasure than putting it behind you and letting them sift thru the ashes.
Happy Hump Day.
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 09:44 AM | Link to this
Yall bammas are so high minded. Laney wasnt even saying GET revenge she was saying THINK about revenge. Everyone of yall has had a situation where you THOUGHT about some get back. Its human nature. Not acting on it is mature, but you done thought it.
Also, if revenge is such a juvenile and petty thing, and it takes up too much energy what makes yall holy rollers believe that “god” deals in that kind of pettiness? Its too petty for you, but right up god’s alley? YRB
By 1+1
August 9, 2006 09:45 AM | Link to this
morning to all my real folks out there…keep spittin that gangsta realism, Kym!!!
Twin, do ya thang, boi!
By 1+1
August 9, 2006 09:45 AM | Link to this
morning to all my real folks out there…keep spittin that gangsta realism, Kym!!!
Twin, do ya thang, boi!
By Lord Demi
August 9, 2006 09:46 AM | Link to this
REVENGE IS THE FOR WEAK AND EMOTIONALLY RETARDED
But Mayne! Its feel good kicking the dog while he’s down or crushing the human who grinded you into the ground and leaving you naked in the cold…
Starr you are right, it’s better to leave your enemies in God’s hand and your heart guilt-free…
qc/storm/gavi and dem girls…and the power puff girls toooooooo Sup!!!
mean while at the Men’s Podium Prep Rally
To the Fellas: Some of these women are loose and needs to be man handle by real Men! Now let us go into Corporate America and get back our women, we must deliver them from evil!!!!
After reading yesterday’s blog, I fear we’re too late.
By abc
August 9, 2006 09:46 AM | Link to this
This is a fine example of a chick affliction. When guys talk about psycho beeyotches, this is what they mean. How anyone can feel justified in any way to seek and take such revenge is completely beyond me.
By Skegee(formerly SheSpeaks formerly Skegee)
August 9, 2006 09:49 AM | Link to this
AGGWITT…what does YRB stand for?
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 09:50 AM | Link to this
@agg I agree with you. I wonder when the little sneak thief will response? That’s ok dont response go with the I am the bigger person act. Taking credit for another’s idea…hmmmm. ellow journalism at it’s finest right here folks!
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 09:51 AM | Link to this
aggressively you know what they say about assumptions… people don’t always think about revenge…and if relationships aren’t based on jumpoffs.. but there was actually friendship involved prior to pursuit of something greater..then it’s less likely that a person is going to think of being vengeful.. I didn’t say anything in my post about going through with it..but the thought alone is negative energy that could be well spent doing something greater…
to your second point…God does not operate in confusion..
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 09:51 AM | Link to this
Now dont get me wrong I have wanted to Kickin the door wavin the 44 but ultimately I had to put my best face on it and do it my way.. I likes to see someone stew in it. Am I a bad person? Who cares because it feels so good afterwards..
By Lord Demi
August 9, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this
Blue’s word Yea Right By-ch
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this
Sorry the Y fell off my Yellow journalism statement.
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this
cause SPED…..it says in the bible….
Romans 12:19, NIV. “Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: ‘It is Mine to avenge; I will repay,’ says the Lord.”
But i forgot you are the coolest one on this piece….excuse us bamma’s shir…..we’s a sorry mr AW for questionin you’s smarts shir..lol
By Ignatius
August 9, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this
I think AggWit hit it. It’s not the action, it’s the concept. Frederich Nietszche said “The thought of suicide has gotten me through many a dark night.” I think revenge is the same way. It’s an emotional outlet that doesn’t require action.
By DASvenus
August 9, 2006 10:00 AM | Link to this
good morning bloggers
i believe in a balanced world… for action there is a reaction… for every emotion there is a counter-emotion. revenge is lost respect’s counterpart. the only way to avoid it is to zero it out… which means walk away. you have to remove the source … when you lose respect for someone, or that respect will revert to revenge and another sort of game begins.
i could be wrong but i dont think so
By MusingLee
August 9, 2006 10:00 AM | Link to this
Morn’in All,
Hope er’thang was cool while I was away!
On Topic: I don’t do the revenge thing now that I’m older…I always come out on top anyway…When I was younger I took a little pleasure out of the misfortune of people that crossed me, but lately I just hope for the best on both sides and keep the chains moving.
By Time
August 9, 2006 10:00 AM | Link to this
AW so you don’t believe in God and that he deal with petty situations as well as people coming from one bamma to another
By BOLD & BEAUTIFUL
August 9, 2006 10:02 AM | Link to this
Good Morning, i agree with everyone. The best revenge is no revenge. You overcome evil, by what? Doing good, that’s what the bible says. Don’t get me wrong, i have thought about it in the moment of anger, but, just as laney said i’ve chicken out, and realized, what goes around comes around. If the wrong was done to you in a viciously, oh, look out, it’s coming back in one form or another.
By Time
August 9, 2006 10:02 AM | Link to this
I’m not sorry for anything and Sped is so the right word for someone like AW who thinks he knows all!
By Divine Right
August 9, 2006 10:04 AM | Link to this
but the thought alone is negative energy that could be well spent doing something greater
these negative thoughts can also be taxing on your physical and mental health
By Starr
August 9, 2006 10:04 AM | Link to this
Very well said Rell(period)
God said it and that settles it
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 10:08 AM | Link to this
Good Morning, I co-sign what DK said in his 9:37 post. I’ve always believed that success is the best revenge. However, I have never had a woman to do anything to me that deserved any type of revenge. On a side note why do women get so angry if a brotha stops calling them. Why do they feel the need to receive a formal dismissal. I was taught that “sometimes the things you don’t say, says it all”
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 10:10 AM | Link to this
The bible also says “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God” but that doesnt stop all the prosperity ministry now does? That doesnt stop YOUR hustle to try and attain wealth?
LOL @ taking the bible as a literal text. That in and of itself deems any discussion I would have with you moot.
Crimson, you got mighty defensive about that thing. I said “everyone of yall has had a situation” this leaves the revenge thought open to a rack of things, not just ‘lationships. But to me its disingenious to say you leave revenge to god, but you dont think about revenge because in order to leave something in gods hands you had to think about it, no?
By Starr
August 9, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this
Morning 1 + 1 (wink wink) ;-)
By chink
August 9, 2006 10:12 AM | Link to this
Good Morning
I have thought of revenge on some who have hurt me but realized the energy it was taking from me …. these days I dont let too many people bother me I am patiently waiting for my dues.
The most I will do is leave you alone …I think sometimes guys like when girls stalk them and such it makes them feel like they did a number on them…when I let them go I think they surprised (hurt)that it is that easy for me ..oh well life goes on ….
By SCORNED (Raqi)
August 9, 2006 10:13 AM | Link to this
AHHH, Laney you done went and dug up Scorned’s grave with this one. LOL I had laid her to rest.
My ultimate revenge fantasy use to be that after my son had grown up, Whitebread would find himself deathly ill and in need of a blood or organ donation and my son being his only child would be the only eligible donor. My son would walk into the hospital room and tell his father to go to h3ll.
Now seeing how happy my son is and it looks like whitebread just might actually love his son, that thought makes me feel eerie. That’s one I definitely hope the Lord forgives me for.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 10:14 AM | Link to this
Said in my best Sean Connery voice
“You wanna get Capone, here’s how you do it. He pulls a knife, you pull a gun. He sends one of yours to the hospital you send one of his’s to the morgue, That’s the Chicago way!-Sean Connery in the Untouchables. I love that quote, and when I think revenge after being hurt then this quote comes to mind everytime. We all think about hurting someone doesnt mean we will act upon it.
Sneaky thief..you think you have a temper.
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 10:18 AM | Link to this
Time the problem isnt that I think I know it all its that YOU think I do. I never profess to be master of the universe or the smartest person you know (even if I believed it to be true I would never make the statement) I am a sarcstic psuedo northerner. I like to get people riled up and I like to be contrarian.
My point here was that most of the initial posters got so caught up in what they inferred from laney’s post that they did not get to the real topic and this happens a lot on this board. People read the topics but comprehension and the ability to speak to said topic is an issue.
Lastly, I am sure that God loves having people like you and Rell on his side. I mean the name calling is the christian thing to do.
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 10:20 AM | Link to this
AW far from defensive… I’m simply responding to you.. if you take that as a defensive tone then that’s really on you because I’m very calm…something some simple is not going to get a rise out of me…
I never said leave revenge to God.. you have me confused with someone else…
By Lord Demi
August 9, 2006 10:22 AM | Link to this
Why do they feel the need to receive a formal dismissal. I was taught that “sometimes the things you don’t say, says it all”
Dushawn Blue and I made the same statement two week age, you know the mean ladies of the blog cut us down….
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 10:24 AM | Link to this
Scorned that is wild cause my revenge fantasy was centered around doing my dad dirty, well just as dirty as he did me. He is a long time deacon at a church in DC and I used to just imagine going to join the church, being a good and faithful member, then exposing him for the fraud he was. Never did it, and its not cause I am above it, or cause I am better than that, cause I am petty. Its cause I couldnt/cant stand actual church.
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 10:25 AM | Link to this
Morning all
Kym Let me JustSay I ain’t surprised!! It’s a dayum shame!
On topic: The best revenge is to live well and be well and when that chance encounter happens between you and an Ex lover, them seeing you at the top of your game will make them kick the sh!t of of themself. Now since I did not learn that tidbit of information until I was at least 25 Y/O, I do have so funny shyt to share.
JustMe = Driver Best Friend = Scorned Woman
Now mind y’all my giril took ole boy several times, so I have many instace of revenge that made us laugh til we cried…….
1) He lived in a basement apartment, his bed was near the wall/window….. that dummy f’d over my girl and left his apartment window open. Let me just say when antifreeze get on your mattress, you need to buy a new one - LOL
2) Their baby needed some things but daddy cried broke. Later that same night we are out crusing downtown……. and who do we see with another chick in his ride???? You got it! Homeboy and he tried to ignore my girl, not a good move on his part. 2 lessons learned :-) L1 Cazel glasses do not stop mace L2 Tinted windows shatter but the tint will hold the glass together - LOL
3) My Last one for today (I hope) When a tireis puntured with a butcher knife, it makes the SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH sound and the car tilts to one side PDQ!
Personally, I’ve never taken revenge on a guy. I have busted a few windows, but they were right there watching when I did it so It wasn’t like I was sneaking or anything….. all is fair in a fight right??
PS - I was looking Dayum scrumptious when I ran into my Ex in Detroit - This revenge thing has me thinking…….. I dumped him for someone else….. could it be? Would he do that to me?
By Noni
August 9, 2006 10:26 AM | Link to this
To answer DuShawn, because it feels disrespectful to us. It’s better to just say hey - sorry, it’s not working for me than to not say anything at all! It just smacks of a little boy running away rather than a man standing up and saying good bye. It’s just one of those things that makes men and women different.
By chink
August 9, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this
Agg
I have to agree with you today …
It is not enough to quote the bible to show what a good person you are ….actions speak more louder than words….
Personally I don’t like quoting the bible ..most people who do end up being hypocrites.
By Jazzyone
August 9, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this
…speak for yourself…Nothing is to petty for GOD…Oh gee…Drama..Holla’
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this
Crimson in the words of a not so great lawyer I know…2shay
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 10:30 AM | Link to this
@ AggW…man i really cant see a camel going through the eye of a needle…you think that is a misprint?
By Laney
August 9, 2006 10:32 AM | Link to this
Kym! Where’s your blog? I wanna read it. Hilarious — because I actually prewrite all my entries for the week the previous Tuesday and Sunday…so this one was written a few days ago. Maybe you were lurking in my email, huh? LOL.
To Dushawn: I think the getting upset over not calling is a respect issue. I feel like if I invested my time in a gentleman long enough to go on a date the least he can do is spare 5 minutes to call me back and say “thanks but no thanks” instead of leaving me wondering and worrying for days. But maybe this is a whole topic in itself….
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 10:33 AM | Link to this
AW so you basically you just in love with the personality of AW..you like to see your ish in print…i can dig it…and i understood lamey’s topic but hell i was just speaking on it…did not know we were being graded…but now i know thanks..name calling SPED is no different than BROAD so take the panties out your (censore) ho type…you always talking about somebody a fraud..what about you lame…..you think that your witty comments are cool but to me homes you’s a lame that really backtracks all the witty ish you say…
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 10:33 AM | Link to this
What up 1+1 Hey I wonder if the editor is going to hand out an award for merit at the next staff meeting to Sneaky thief for her overwhelming dedication to taking credit for others ideas. Sneaky thief
By Blatino Brutha
August 9, 2006 10:38 AM | Link to this
Ok, I don’t know if anyone else has said this today, but I’ll go ahead anyway:
IF YOU HAVE THIS BIG A NEED FOR REVENGE, THEN YOU’RE CLEARLY NOT OVER THE PERSON, AND BY THAT, THEY’VE ALREADY WON
Listen, we’ve all been hurt, some of us badly. I was married to a woman for eight years who never appreciated the hard work I put in to the relationship, and cheated me more than once. The only way I’ve been able to get far along in the process of getting over her is to let go of my anger. In fact, the most hurtful thing I’ve done to her is to simply be completely business-like, with no emotions, in all our dealings since she left. The biggest blow came when, at the table to sign our divorce papers, she asked me if it was at all hard for me to sign. I said simply, “No”. She knew I meant it, and that was able to inflict more pain than any “revenge” ever could have.
Like Ivanna Trump said once: “Living well is the best revenge.”“
By QC
August 9, 2006 10:40 AM | Link to this
Hey 1+1 i hope you have a great day!
What’s up Jazzy
Musing I really did miss you, so could you make up for the time you were gone please???? Thank You <..>
By Divine Right
August 9, 2006 10:41 AM | Link to this
aggwit Laney wasnt even saying GET revenge she was saying THINK about revenge.
I don’t understand what you mean?? The question Laney asked was Have you ever acted on them? Is there ever a case where revenge is justified?
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 10:43 AM | Link to this
Agg Wit because in order to leave something in gods hands you had to think about it, no? I’m with you on that ish!
I did take revenge on a former employer of mine. I Quit in the middle of the day and made them give me a big azz raise before I would come back a few months later!
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 10:43 AM | Link to this
No sneak thief I wasnt lurking in your email and thats okay I didnt say it was my blog I said this idea was posted on the Yahoo groups blog started by single guy back on July 3rd and I posted this idea late last night. Please spare me your cluessless act and drama. I am perfectly clear on how a sneak thief like you operates. But we all know that half of these topics are not your original ideas. You couldnt buy an original idea out of that stringy head brain of yours.
By QC
August 9, 2006 10:43 AM | Link to this
Morning Demi have a cool flying day!
By Blatino Brutha
August 9, 2006 10:43 AM | Link to this
Ok, I don’t know if anyone else has said this today, but I’ll go ahead anyway:
IF YOU HAVE THIS BIG A NEED FOR REVENGE, THEN YOU’RE CLEARLY NOT OVER THE PERSON, AND BY THAT, THEY’VE ALREADY WON
Listen, we’ve all been hurt, some of us badly. I was married to a woman for eight years who never appreciated the hard work I put in to the relationship, and cheated me more than once. The only way I’ve been able to get far along in the process of getting over her is to let go of my anger. In fact, the most hurtful thing I’ve done to her is to simply be completely business-like, with no emotions, in all our dealings since she left. The biggest blow came when, at the table to sign our divorce papers, she asked me if it was at all hard for me to sign. I said simply, “No”. She knew I meant it, and that was able to inflict more pain than any “revenge” ever could have.
Like Ivanna Trump said once: “Living well is the best revenge.”“
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 10:44 AM | Link to this
@ JustMe…that was funny…you either have A LOT of HEART or the dude in your story is charmen soft…although i am not big on revenge or a woman beater…i am “quick” to catch fist and throw left hooks..If a female ever tried me like that…she better have a good dental plan…because her grill would definately be gone…lol
@ chink…you are right about people who quote the Bible…but thats a whole nother can of worms.
By Lord Demi
August 9, 2006 10:46 AM | Link to this
Noni some women do not appreciate your honest and will kill you for it. Sometime it is better to just disappear. Remember some women as well as some men, can’t handle rejection. For an example: One of my friend avg. 10-15 a month, but will go crazy if one woman reject him. You will have to ask Dushawn why, because I don’t even understand that dude…
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 10:47 AM | Link to this
But umm rell the difference is I am not claiming to be part of the God Squad. I name call with impunity because i dont “answer to a higher power” or have a book i like to quote to prove my points. I am a free thinker and I am petty. So name calling is not above me. You on the other hand with your bible quotes and lord loving should very well be above that. But let me guess, we all fall short of the glory of god thats why you are glad that your father is a forgiving god.
Rell, you ever heard the saying “i never let a statue tell me how nice i am?”
This applies to you in reverse. A grown man who consistently uses LAME as his descriptor of someone is depressing (someone may also say this of a grown man who uses broad, and frankly, it may be). And really my goal in life is to not be viewed as lame…because you admit I am witty, but I am just so lame that the wit is “backtracked” by the lame. How can I work on not being lame? Maybe i will start by not ever saying the word lame or sped after the age of 14!
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 10:47 AM | Link to this
Noni Your response actually provided useful insight…I think most men that choose not to have that final dismissal conversation make that decision not because it’s easier for them, but they do that to spare the woman’s feelings. It doesn’t take a man to say “I don’t want to see you anymore. Lose my number!!” Any coward can do that. I also believe that the need for a formal dismissal is contingent upon the level of the relationship.
By Tazzee
August 9, 2006 10:49 AM | Link to this
Morning folks!
I have to agree with AggWitt, you guys are taking all of the fun out of this topic. First let me state that I have never exacted revenge on someone that has done me wrong. As a matter of fact, when the wife of an ex called me (separated guy that I met at a speed dating event) I spent more time comforting her than trying to destroy what they seemingly were trying to put back together. With that said, I have thought of doing many a dirty thing to some folks. Doesn’t matter if the relationship started out as friends and the break up was fairly amicable, usually the reason for the break up - or looking back on the relationship and seeing how much time I wasted - brings some naughty little thoughts to mind.
In the end, like someone said earlier, the best revenge is indifference.
Oh and when the married ex I referred to earlier finally got divorced and called me to tell me he was getting married to someone else - I took out my anger on my punching bag. Thinking of revenge and releasing it in the gym is one of the best feelings/workouts.
Hey Ignatius
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 10:50 AM | Link to this
Divine, you are right.
By MusingLee
August 9, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this
QC Judging from the tone of a few of the posts…It would seem that a few bloggers went bike riding this week and fell, banging their ballzz on the bike frame on the way down…Er’one is all swollen, on edge, and walking funny.
I’ll lurk until er’one feels better.
Now unplugging salt spraying machine, wondering who put this here
By Raqi
August 9, 2006 10:57 AM | Link to this
Yes, Agg I will be the first to admit that being hurt has made me think some evil things about some people. I have never acted on it, but have sure thought it. I do attend church and therefore I know the need to ask for forgiveness so I am not a shame to admit to a wrong thought or deed.
It’s funny though, the bible speaks against fornication or sex outside of marriage and that hasn’t stopped people from coming on here talking about their rotation or who they have bedded or who they are trying to bed, but they can’t admit to having an evil thought. The last time I checked Lust was an evil thought. So what’s the difference in the two: evil thought of revenge and lusting.
I see that this topic didn’t turn out the way I think Laney intended, so I am out.
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 10:58 AM | Link to this
ok thats enough entertainment out of me for the masses….so it is whatever you say AW….just keep the jokes coming…
tazz your right and i am done…..
By "Longtime Lurker"
August 9, 2006 11:04 AM | Link to this
@Laney This sounds a little childish and immature in my opinion.
The only person you are hurting is yourself, with revenge tactics,nobody wins in these types of situations.
Sure, we all have feelings of having somebody knocked off from time to time, but your maturity and rationale should kick in and tell yourself to let it go!
Eventually, that person will get theirs in the end.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 11:04 AM | Link to this
@Raqi when you take credit for something that is not yours does it ever turn out like you hope? What is that quote bible folks, I may quote it wrong. You take something from someone you have to pay it back 7 fold? Something along those lines.
Sneak thief
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 11:04 AM | Link to this
Let me try another revenge scenario I have had to bring the topic back.
My last gig I had the WORST boss ever. I men the worst. I was lucky enough to be in a position to leave without having another job lined up and for like the first 2 months I was out of work playing golf everyday I just KNEW I could go pro. My revenge was going to be to go pro, get the old company as as a sponsor and make them fire that dude and give his job to someone else on the staff he treated like hot garbage. like I said, I am petty and have an overactive imagination, not a good combination if I ever lost my mind and actually acted on revenge thoughts I have.
By olderandwiser
August 9, 2006 11:06 AM | Link to this
Good morning, all. Good one, Laney.
I had momentary thoughts of payback with my ex-husband for the serial cheating that wrecked our marriage and my ability to bear children, but I didn’t act on them. He wasn’t worth going to jail for. I simply cut off all contact after we divorced, moved away and moved on. Time heals all wounds. Today my ex is a solitary 60-something with four ex-wives and two daughters who rarely call or see him. Time wounds all heels.
I just read this passage in an article by Dr. Dean Ornish:
“When you are really angry with someone, you empower the person you hate to make you stressed out or even sick. That’s not smart. When you forgive someone, it doesn’t excuse their actions; it frees you from stress and suffering. This is true for nations as well as individuals.”
True. I would add that forgiving does not mean forgetting. The trick is to remember the lessons you learned and use that knowledge in positive ways. Living well is the best revenge.
Sidebar: I regret this is my last blog post. There’s just too much happening now personally (upcoming wedding, new house) and professionally (new position, starts Friday).
“One thing about trains: it doesn’t matter where they’re going. What matters is deciding to get on.” ~ The Conductor in “The Polar Express”
Two parting life lessons:
Forgetting to welcome or include those who are outside the usual demographic; straying off topic; starting or engaging in flame throwing; and making cutting remarks or insults in gutter language is disrespectful and defeats the purpose of a blog about dating. Dating, people. Present yourself like someone s/he would love to meet, go out with, perhaps marry.
Remember that you will get out of this blog only what you’re willing to put into it. Share your stories and lessons with a humble heart; learn from others with an open mind. You just never know what can happen.
I’ve learned something here every day. I hope I’ve brought something to the party. God bless you, and y’all be easy.
Affectionately, olderandwiser
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 11:11 AM | Link to this
ok for the enjoyment for you all….i recieved a dear john while in the corps….from my H.S. sweetheart..she told me that she was sleeping with someone else and pawned my class ring….i was in japan at the time so i was heated…but here is what i did….i keep in contact with her….i kept up the begging routine….so when i get back state side all of sudden she is seeing the light…she wants to get back together…so i am like cool lets do that…..she comes over, starts crying and apologizing for hurting me…saying what can she do to make it up to me…..i said let me pee on you….she was mad at first..but i talked her into letting me do that…so after that….she is crying and confused saying why did you have to pee on me to feel better….i assured her that it was ok…i still loved her the same….upon leaving to report back to duty…i give my number to my lil brother to call her and get at her….long story short 6mons later he did the same thing to her…..how is that for family loyalty and get back…..either this could be true or something i thought up…either way i wanted to add something to the topic.
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 11:12 AM | Link to this
SeanJ you either have A LOT of HEART Back in the day, I was a Billy Bad Azz (and today my advice is usually sommmin like “Don’t Try Me Try Jesus”. Ole boy knew she/we did it, but what could he do, he was dead azz wrong for playing my girl like that and he knew it. He did get her back one time. He threw a brick the the window of her moms Oldsmobile 98, busted the window and knicked up the dash board.
AW For someone who or have a book i like to quote to prove my points. You sure are implying/using a lot of the verses containes therein. - I’m JustSaying
By Laney
August 9, 2006 11:17 AM | Link to this
Kym, baby, I promise there was no theft involved. I don’t know about this other forum (someone wanna fill me in?). And I really think you need to stop being so full of attacks toward everyone else. Please don’t yell at me, or anyone else — and everyone else needs to stop picking on you as well, I should add! It’s a good topic. Great minds think alike.
olderandwiser, you will be missed greatly. Good luck with all your life changes, hon.
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this
Older, congrats on all the newness that life brings you! good luck on the gig and in your marriage.
Kym, couldnt you all both have come up with the same idea around the same time? Great minds right? You and laney have great minds that thought alike about this. I am sure somewhere on the innanet there are about 9834078583743 post in 75 different languages about this very topic.
By 1+1
August 9, 2006 11:19 AM | Link to this
revenge?
the ability to post while banned!!!!
By Laney
August 9, 2006 11:19 AM | Link to this
oh, and “Longtime Lurker, I freely admit this is a totally immature thing on my part. At least I maybe get some points for never acting on it? I know that it’s not very holy of me but darn it, sometimes I just can’t help wanting them dead. LOL
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 11:21 AM | Link to this
while in the corps during bootcamp i had to use the head alot because i was always nervous…neva knew what was coming next..so needless to say i would get the plt in trouble cause WILL always had to use the head….so er morning we would have to drink two canteens of water before going to use the bathroom…this is torture for a guy…n-e-way in boot camp i got into er day with somebody different…nature of the beast i guess…some i won alot i lost..hell i was 155 of nothing feel me…so on the ones i lost i would wait until the fire watch went to sleep..switch out canteens with the dude that just wiped me…i would pee in the one i switch out..so in the morning he got a little surprise…this is a true story….
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 11:23 AM | Link to this
There is one revenge scenario that I still harbor deeply. Years ago my only sister was married to this cat that was physically and mentally abusive. She and my mother were reluctant to tell me about it while it was happening because they knew I would sacrifice my freedom, mask up and go hunting. They have been divorced for over a decade and she has since remarried. However, I still want to touch this dude for putting my sister through that. I promised my family I wouldn’t pursue him. After all these years, I’m sure he thinks its safe, but if our paths ever cross………
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 11:29 AM | Link to this
@ST I am not yelling at you, and I sincerely doubt you and I would ever think alike. I am sure the topic is posted other places, I posted it on the Yahoo blog after the 2Can and Das show spilled over there on yesterday. An I am not so removed to think that single guy a moderator on this blog, would start another blog on another site, which by the by has a link to this blog, and you would remain clueless that it exsist spare me honey, you are not talking to Buffy or the cheerleaders. But that is okay you too have revealed your realness and not that I know how the game is played, I am ready to play. So is your little statement my warning to play nice before you have me ban me like you did 2Can?
By Lord Demi
August 9, 2006 11:30 AM | Link to this
MusingLee, I think it’s the heat. The summer is the time to sit back and relax. All I feel from this blog is anger and resentment. It is affecting my abilities to fly, Musin’s black flash, and runnin from donning instigator jersey #00
with Chris Tucker gay aspirin voice: Love, Peace and Happiness people you can do it do it do it
By Cinderella
August 9, 2006 11:32 AM | Link to this
@olderandwiser best wishes to you! I’ll miss reading your insightful posts. And thanks for that bit of blog advice :)
By Starr
August 9, 2006 11:33 AM | Link to this
^5 1 + 1 = U ain’t neva scared, ha ha
oh behold the “no nonsense power of being banned off something they have no control of
By Divine Right
August 9, 2006 11:33 AM | Link to this
If I have a falling out with someone and I go and slash their tires today, what is stopping that person from doing the very same thing or worse to me tomorrow? What does taking revenge accomplish in the very end?
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this
Just, I know the book cause I lived the religious life for a long time. I use the verses to prove how interpretations of it can be used to support any argument.
Damn Rell Kelly. That was cold blooded (if true) actually even the thought is cold blooded. now dats a good revenge story.
By MusingLee
August 9, 2006 11:36 AM | Link to this
Was 2 really banned?!?! LOL…Hahahahaaaa…Dangggg. How the ham sandwich do you get booted out of a virtual space??? Hahahaha….2 I’m sorry brutha but the concept itself is hilarious to me.
Did someone actually go to his home and take his mouse? Hahahahaaa….Better yet, Someone from the organization went over and installed a “Net Nanny.”..heheheheheeee
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 11:36 AM | Link to this
OW Bye Bye, Congratulations, Best of Luck and Don’t be a lurker when you come back (You will come back) :-) and You’ll be missed till ya do!
By "Longtime Lurker"
August 9, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this
@Laney You gotta remember that “you” have to be the bigger person in situations like this!
Side bar: I went to “Bed” at the Glenn Hotel last night, on Marietta St. for their first “Pillow Talk Jazz night” (now every Tuesday, from 8:00pm til 10:30) and it was fabulous! It is free and everything was on-point! Just an FYI…
By Lord Demi
August 9, 2006 11:42 AM | Link to this
Rell(period): you need to sue R.kelly and Dave Chappelle…* you’ll be hella rich!*
By danielle
August 9, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this
Laney A guy doesn’t call me back after a nice date. Rather than letting it go, I WANT to call him up and be like “You jerk! Be a man and TELL me you don’t want to see me!
Let’s be real, if he tells you what you THINK you want to hear, would you really be satisfied, or would you then wonder if it’s the truth. I don’t think you would have accepted any explanation because you’re hurt from the rejection.
Have you ever made a decision and after some time thought maybe it wasn’t the best decision?
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 11:48 AM | Link to this
yea it is true AW…..like i said revenge is childs play…i say that cause i can speak on it….
By DASvenus
August 9, 2006 11:54 AM | Link to this
OandW the space you free up by not posting I hope is filled with as much sincerity and geniune-ness as you have always come in your posts, just in fewer words…. LOL… wishing you the best with everything new in your life
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 11:57 AM | Link to this
it is real eazy to get down on somebody..half the time they will let you….most people have not heart when it is time to dance…feel me….same thing make you laugh, make you cry….thats why you have to watch who you mess ova….cause what would a cat do if you ish in a brown lunch bag then light it and throw it on his window…he gonna jump out running that mouth piece…then you let him have it mid sentence with a fist or bat…now he laying there sleep with flaming ish on his window….feel me…we could go all day on revenge ish
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 11:59 AM | Link to this
it is real eazy to get down on somebody..half the time they will let you….most people have not heart when it is time to dance…feel me….same thing make you laugh, make you cry….thats why you have to watch who you mess ova….cause what would a cat do if you ish in a brown lunch bag then light it and throw it on his window…he gonna jump out running that mouth piece…then you let him have it mid sentence with a fist or bat…now he laying there sleep with flaming ish on his window….feel me…we could go all day on revenge ish
By Candidly Speaking
August 9, 2006 11:59 AM | Link to this
*Well, Well,….let’s see what the Pre-K class is upto today. *
Kym Keep “bangin dey heads.” You know “sneaky peeks” always thank dey the only one whose smart.
JustMe LOL @ U. *Thanks 4 keepin’ it REAL
1+1 What up Cuz?
So, only a couple of yall have ever thought bout gettin somebody back…ummm Ohh, I forgot, tonight is Bible Study Night @ church, so you’ll on yo best behavior.* LMAO
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this
Kym Who the heck is ST? You had me searching the names for an ST?????
2Can aka ??? What did you do to get banned……… DETAILS PLEASE :-)
Divine In my case some 16-17 years ago the revenge I helped exact made my friend laugh and at the particular moment laughing was all she could do to keep from crying. Was it worth it….. YEP YEP! - Disclaimer - Their son is now 18 and in NAvy Boot Camp. We have laughed at this ish together over the years, they are still friends (thanks to their son) and we have been forgiven!
Musing Welcome back buddy (Thanks for the giggle) at our old buddy 2Can may he blog in peace!
By MusingLee
August 9, 2006 12:06 PM | Link to this
Hearing a knock at the front door MusingLee struts over…gazing from the peep-hole Musing sees two guys in black pinstriped suits….Reluctantly opening the door, the strangers enter the house, beatch slap Musing (as he lets out a shriek) and takes his computer mouse and installs “Net Nanny” not allowing him to blog ever again
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 12:10 PM | Link to this
Candidly
4REAL/4LIFE
REll same thing make you laugh, make you cry THis is my favorite lines when the cards ain’t falling right and I might be losing a game of 5000 or Spades - GRRRRRRRRRRRR I hate to Lose!
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 12:10 PM | Link to this
@Candidly -Yes sir
@JustMe I was abbreviating the word Sneaky Thief but I decided enough, if Single White Female needs to roam around to get her ideas so be it. Heck I would have given it to her if she just asked.
By Time
August 9, 2006 12:11 PM | Link to this
Read between the comments people
1+1=2 got it? good
Enjoy the sunshine today!
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 12:18 PM | Link to this
@ Kym the Tyrant…is that yahoo group worth joining?
By alvin
August 9, 2006 12:22 PM | Link to this
I never hunted the cats who gunned me down and threw me into a ditch…I simply decided to walk away from that life, it was hard, such an additive lifestyle But one week later. One was gunned down, one has AIDS, giving to him as a gift and the last guy is serving life as someone’s Bi——, in the state of Texas.
I use to wonder, ‘Why are some people able to go through a lifetime using other and I myself never catch a break’. God showed me no evil deed goes unpunished, whether you believe in God or not…nature has a way of cleaning itself.
LAH-LAH: where r you?
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this
@Sean I am not a tyrant but I have tyrant tendencies-somedays. That is up to you, pretty slow most of the time, but yesterday the soap opera spilled over there, quite the show, quite the show. And it is free.
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this
What up Peeps? Said as I roll in like Hawk off Spencer.
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this
Morning Folks!
1+1=2 (lolol), Kym, Fyre, 3rd, Musing (missed you boo), Rell, MissU, SeanJ, Runnin, D Dub helllllllooo said as I sashay in with my Organic Green Tea in hand
By storm
August 9, 2006 12:25 PM | Link to this
Demi! Wassup, mayne! Musing, I’m SO glad to read you and, as usual, you have me crackn UP! Did you enjoy your vacation? SUP GP, Fyre, QC and all those lurking and whateva!
THE BEST REVENGE IS LIVING WELL, indeed! I recently ran into a good friend of my exhusband’s and I was looking quite fly, with my teal silk sheath dress, hugging my curves and showing of my athletic calves. Of couse, he remarked how wonderful I look and I know he went back and said something to the ex! rubbing hands together with sinister grin on my face
By 1+1
August 9, 2006 12:27 PM | Link to this
u can be whomever you want to be on the “inanet”…….but I chose to be real!
the truth can’t be silenced. “the light shineth through darkness, and darkness comprehend not.”
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 12:28 PM | Link to this
Kym I’m with you now……. - LOL
Now listen up 1+1 or time or whoever you are PIck a friggin name and stick with it! Here are a few suggestions:
U2B2CPTG or Banned&Back or Blogavelli those are my 3 suggestions, but I can’t keep up with cha if ya changing super suits errr time you post!
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 12:33 PM | Link to this
SeanJ I just invited you to the yahoo group. I am one of the moderators and Blue is the owner of it, so go to your mail box and accept the invite and join in on the fun…LOL!
Hey Blue!
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 12:35 PM | Link to this
Hey QC!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 12:36 PM | Link to this
Man, I ain’t got time for no revenge. I’m with DK when he said that the sweetest revenge is knowing that I came out of it smelling like a rose and my stock price up.
Kym You made your point. Git tah steppin’.
Musing You need to get the jokebox inventories and back in operation there champ. Peeps have been a little irritable up in this camp.
By db
August 9, 2006 12:38 PM | Link to this
Just popped in for a hot second to say hello to everyone!
db
By Candidly Speaking
August 9, 2006 12:40 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Rell Peeing on folks.
OW Good Luck, but won’t miss dem long azz dissertations. Next spot keep it, short and simple, not chapters and volumes. “K”
By Laney
August 9, 2006 12:41 PM | Link to this
THE BEST REVENGE IS LIVING WELL, indeed!
amen Storm!!
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 12:42 PM | Link to this
@Blue you have gotten in your 2.25 worth. Happy?
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 12:44 PM | Link to this
Page Hello 2 U 2 - I signed up for that groups and haven’t heard anything since. How do I find it? Send me an email to the address linked to this blog and I’ll get it tonight!
Alvin Sometimes Mother Nature is our best friend!
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this
@ Kym ..i know you are not THAT bad…But tell me/the blog..the military dude that u was dealing with…did you get any get back at him?
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 12:49 PM | Link to this
JustMe I just invited you…check your email, then accept the invite. Anyone else, holla at me on side bar..lol shseesh! popping gum
By Officer Mancuso
August 9, 2006 12:56 PM | Link to this
Hey Ignatius! Myrna Minkoff says “Hello.”
By QC
August 9, 2006 12:56 PM | Link to this
Hello Page, Storm & db
By Candidly Speaking
August 9, 2006 12:58 PM | Link to this
I’ve been the victim of revenge.
You know when yo expiration date comes, some women, just can’t walk away empty handed. Had mah voicemail tampered with (changed to a female voice), had mah keys thrown in the bushes (had an extra set), tires slit, and such.
All I can say is…”the magic stick…makes’em crazy.” Begging fo mo!!!
By shut up KYM
August 9, 2006 12:59 PM | Link to this
KYM, don’t flatter yourself. The world doesn’t revolve around you. It’s people like you that keep me from posting on this blog. There are some great topics, but then stupid uppity biatches like you come in and act as though everyone owes them something. Get over yourself. If you don’t like the blog or the mods, do us all a favor and leave.
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 01:00 PM | Link to this
Page I didn’t even know about that owner title until yesterday, but it’s not my blog. It’s everybody’s joint.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 01:01 PM | Link to this
@SeanJ I really thought about it. Man did I think about it. But instead I wrote him a nice long letter and killed him with kindness. An let the healing begin..still doesnt change my thoughts on military men though. Time and less visual images of folks being peed on will hopefully heal that
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this
LOL I love it shut up Kym please keep it coming the show goes on and on. Nope the show doesnt revolve around me, but baby I enjoy my name in the lights. Maybe I missed my calling on Broadway Wait Das is that you? LMAO!!!
By Laney
August 9, 2006 01:05 PM | Link to this
hey, hey now. no personal attacks, no cussing, please please please?
By Candidly Speaking
August 9, 2006 01:06 PM | Link to this
…Dum, D, Dum, Dum, Dummmmmmmmmmm!!!!!
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 01:08 PM | Link to this
Dang Page i dont get an invite to the group.. Dont make me come to Pheonix and byte you..
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 01:08 PM | Link to this
Awww… shut up has some pressing business with Kym
Oh yeah JustMe why don’t you Just Say* “No” to drugs.
SeanJ What up champ?
By JustSayin
August 9, 2006 01:12 PM | Link to this
Kym
*Who do you, who do you, who do you, who do you, think you are…bless your soul….you really think you in control….I thank you crazy!!!! *
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 01:15 PM | Link to this
Yo Rell Let me ask you this… ummmm… that’s aight.
Hey Tazzee You know I had to work hard not to get you on that one right? LMAO
Candid Man spoken many times on the actions of the getbackchick. And I let’s them know that if they have any ideas of donning (sp) that fuccaniccaup suit, I have no time calling my tax dolla recipients down at the city slamma.
By Unsolicited
August 9, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this
off-topic: stumbled across this article this morning and think it relates to yesterday’s topic, and though tangentially, how ethnicity/race colours relationships. oh, and the quote nails some long-standing blog issues as well.
“The problems often develop as men and women grapple over their roles in the marriage — an issue that is exacerbated in the African-American community because of slavery’s legacy, says Patterson, a professor of sociology at Harvard University. “There’s some profound differences in what the appropriate sex roles should be … African-American women have a modern independent view about women’s roles. African-American men — it’s a mix. In some respects, they have a modern view of what women should be: that women should work. But there’s still some male- dominance views that they have that irk black women tremendously and create real friction in the relationships.”“
(http://www.boston.com/yourlife/relationships/articles/2006/08/09/youngerblacksabsorbawarinessofmarriage/)
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this
lawd have mercy…
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this
Olderandwiser I’ll miss youre enlightening comments.. Good luck in your endevours.. Peace and hairgrease as they say..
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 01:18 PM | Link to this
Blue That was cold man! What did I say to derserve that? I don’t feel like scrolling back up to find out ETF you are talking about!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 01:21 PM | Link to this
Takes note of the suckas talking shyt to Kym while standing under the security of their Cyber Hoods.
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 01:23 PM | Link to this
@ BK…in chill mode….full as a tick off off veggies from Q time..
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 01:27 PM | Link to this
LOL Blue you were chosen as the owner a while back, when I was chosen as the moderator…LOL oh well. Infamous! Boo, I’m sorry..i’ll invite you now…yeah, come to Phoenix, but it’s too hot for you…lol…wink…now putting deadly desert scorpions down Infamous’ shirt LOL
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 01:28 PM | Link to this
JustMe That was cold man! What did I say to derserve that?
Something earlier today. I forget. But I know that you deserved it anyway. Kind of like when you got that azz whoopin’ and it came out that you really didn’t do it, instead of apologizing, your folks said some mess like this, “Well… That’s for something that you did that I don’t know about.” LOL
By darkbuty
August 9, 2006 01:29 PM | Link to this
Kym You are hilarious!!
SeanJ/Blue Whassup?
LL Was BED for the grown and sexxy???
JustMe You straight today or are you still thinking about Detroit…I’m going to tell LOL
By cletus
August 9, 2006 01:30 PM | Link to this
THE SWEETEST REVENGEWas seeing that Dingbat Mckinney go down in flames last night. THE PEOPLE HAVE SPOKEN,Oh I’m sure we are going to hear more loonybabble from her as shes unable to control her rants and raving.Simply a classless loser.
By CandidlySpeaking
August 9, 2006 01:31 PM | Link to this
BK Hear Ya, dog.
By darkbuty
August 9, 2006 01:37 PM | Link to this
Thanks Page!
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 01:40 PM | Link to this
Page Ahhh scorpian venom my favorite… Its natures natural viagra. You must do better than that.. Grabbing her hand pulling her close with a tent pole in his slacks, while licking her face preparing her for the Byte..
By MusingLee "Cyber Cop"
August 9, 2006 01:46 PM | Link to this
Wearing metallic Robosuit and driving space age Ford Tauras…RoboMusing shall clean up the blog….Now grabbing the heads of Candidly & 1+1, now banging them together like “click-clacks” and dragging them back outside the blog
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 01:47 PM | Link to this
Hey Dark. And thanks for reminding me about the BS that JustMe posted the other day, about ex-man and the other ex-man and 108 minutes, and was that cheating. Slim, you know dayum well that was foul. But then again, you say that the cab is on the way for your S/O anyway, he just doesn’t know it.
Demi That YRB wasn’t my original, but Agg’s. I just put the light on it for those that wanted the 3rd grade breakdown.
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 01:49 PM | Link to this
LOL Infamous…now finishing kicking rocks at my car and going to find desert lizards, armadillos (lol…do we have those here in Phoenix? I think that’s Texas…lol oh well), and pincher bugs, placing them inside the tent while desperately trying to avoid getting sideswiped by an old 1978 station wagon filled with 30+ illegal immigrants in it LOL
By MeSoDumb
August 9, 2006 01:53 PM | Link to this
don’t know why i try, but let me show my ignorance once more:
marriage article link
By CandidlySpeaking
August 9, 2006 01:54 PM | Link to this
Ahem…MusingLee, you got jokes? Umm…. Mayne, this shiid was polluted b4 I came on the seen.
By Derron
August 9, 2006 01:57 PM | Link to this
@Kym… is that you Cynthia??? What’s with all the venom? Too much time on your hands now that the election is over?
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 01:57 PM | Link to this
@ Darkbuty…whats the business???
Got a revenge story..not mine though..didnt want to share it because it was some of the foulest shyt ive ever seen.
2 ex workers/homegirls where huddled up looking suspicious ..I ask what was up but they told me to stop being nosey..so i was like ok..and left them alone..Later on..the one i am closest to gave me the scoop..The other one who had a baby by her live in was being cheating on..Dude didnt come home some nites..They even spotted his car at the other chicks crib while playing private eye…Well what they were at the desk doing when they told me to back off was typing up a letter..Supposedly from the Dept of Health..saying dude name and adress was giving to them by some with that ninja and is could possibly be infected. The plan was for her..the female being cheated on to get the letter and confront dude and have him scared straight..Once i found out the plan i was like..look…you dont know how dude is going to react..and that that is something you dont want play with..Hell has no fury like a women scorned…lol
By singlemom
August 9, 2006 01:58 PM | Link to this
Good living is the best revenge.
By Derron
August 9, 2006 01:59 PM | Link to this
Kym.. is that you Cynthia? What’s with all the venom. Too much time on your hands now that the runoff is over???
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 02:00 PM | Link to this
Blue Just so I earned it…….. Go Kick Rocks - Now we are even! LOL
Dark We clocked anothe 90+ minutes last night. I think I’m still trippin - LHMOM
about last night I read the post regarding me going on the cruise with my current SO. He’s paying for the whole shabang.
Detroit wants to come to Atlanta for the holiday to see me.
By Shaun
August 9, 2006 02:01 PM | Link to this
@agg witty, the eye of a needle is not the tip of a needle that you sew with, it is the gate to a city that camels had to go through when entering or leaving the city. They had to duck down low to go through it, and this is very difficult for them to pass under. That is what the scripture is saying, idiot.
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 02:01 PM | Link to this
Page The tent pole is undetered by such minimal threats because of its Titanium makeup.. Busting a hole in the slacks and attacks Page giving her a vigorous beating.. Laying there having been beat into submission Page passes out with a smile. The 30+ immigrants watching the incident erupt into a thunderous applause and I begin collecting funds for the show they have just witnessed
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 02:06 PM | Link to this
what you want Blue?
By Jay-Z
August 9, 2006 02:11 PM | Link to this
Somebody @ AJC ain’t on the job today how you gone let BB curse word get through but you banned 2cptg (or you thought you did)
By MusingLee
August 9, 2006 02:11 PM | Link to this
Space age Ford Taurus arriving at the office of unsuspecting blogger…RoboMusing pulls his sidearm and kicks in the office of Kym….Pushing Kym away from keyboard RoboMusing fires 23 automatic rounds into the screen of Kym’s computer and exits the building…Tires screeching away as Kym’s boss wonders WTH was that about
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 02:12 PM | Link to this
LOL Infamous now calling Border Patrol on the 30+ immigrants and glaring at the busted out hole in the church slacks and noticing the black socks and ashy knees too LOL
By Fyrestarrter
August 9, 2006 02:13 PM | Link to this
hi Demi! ** hi Musing, we really missed you sweetie!
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 02:13 PM | Link to this
@ Justme I feel that’s even more reason for you not to go on the cruise…
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 02:14 PM | Link to this
Blue LOL @ U yes my current SO maybe heading for a slow but certain demise. Before I drop the bomb, I want to make sure I’m not having “Bad Boy Syndrome”, to further my cause, he isn’t really making a case for himself either.
Bitter what kind of psycho babble was that! Errrbody know that revenge is not exacted when we are say um ….Happy You must be on some ish today!
By DASvenus
August 9, 2006 02:16 PM | Link to this
kym hint…
because we have to give an email address when we post, scroll and lookup the email addy for 1+1, THEN lookup the email addy for shutupKym…. it should be self-explanatory, but we all know your trouble so speak up if you dont get it
and why would hide behind a screen name when i practically blast you to yo fact on the blog page been is cheerleadin today??
musing you are too funn-ny. your comedy has been missed. glad you back bruh!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 02:22 PM | Link to this
Shaun Whateva the interpretation, why is dude an idiot?
Bitter Now that’s what I call the raw uncut version.
SeanJ Mayne, I always say that females can pull off devious shyt like that because they are closer to the devil than we men are.
Check this… chick got a friend to hook her up with my cell account info. So she’s tracking my phone calls and talking shyt. So when I confront her, she tells me that I left my system up. Now I’m thinking, I ain’t THAT m/fn stupid. Even if I did, the password ain’t on display. So I let that azz know that if I find out that my account is being accessed, I’ma put some heat on both of their azzez. I hope that she don’t think that I was bullshyttin’.
By abc
August 9, 2006 02:22 PM | Link to this
@JustMe, I agree, if you intend to dump him you should do it now and allow him to take someone else on the cruise, lest you have a revenge-minded dude on your hands when you dump him afterwards. Ha!
Revenge like that is strictly for chicks, earning them their title of psycho. Rell, that story is gross, TMI, and makes you out to be a sicko sissy, no offense, but guys don’t go around looking for revenge. That’s what chicks do.
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 02:25 PM | Link to this
God how many morons are there in the world
Shaun…the scripture says “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle, than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God”
Meaning it is, as you stated, VERY DIFFICULT for a camel to get through the eye…but this says that a camel with all its travails of getting through said eye makes it easier through the eye than a rich man will make it into heaven. It is a comparitive analogy.
My point was the bible says this and it is true that rich men have a helluva time entering the kingdom of heaven, even more difficult than a camel has getting through the eye of a needle, but that does not stop the prosperity preaching…Get a clue before you call someone an idiot you anti mensa poster child.
By MusingLee "Cyber Cop"
August 9, 2006 02:26 PM | Link to this
Pulling up to the abandoned car in the desert…Robo walking over to two individuals laying in the sand…Grabbing duct-tape and sealing puncture hole in the pants of Infamous…Taking the PDA of Page after dodging a “squirt”, and cyber kicking it to the curb…Now escorting 30+ illegals back across the border while following in the space age Ford Taurus
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 02:27 PM | Link to this
@Derron-Honey compare me to anyone but Cynthia now that one hurt. As for the cyber attacks, truly am laughing to myself over here, I get offline emails from a nutjob to vent and rage about how I appear on the blog. An how the cheerleaders dont want me in their group Wahhhhh!! HMMMM I guess I would rather appear opinionated, the b word, and any other word you got over there-except Cythinia bless her heart-because to be quite honest I know none of you people. At the end of the day when all is said and done does the opinion of a groupd of faceless strangers matter to me. Nope! But while I am here please feel free, this breaks up the day and is relaxation from the endless phone and meeting calls. This is entertainment folks-nothing personal to me at all.
By say what?
August 9, 2006 02:28 PM | Link to this
Kym, Apparently this other blog that you are referring to was started by Blue and Page. I seriously doubt Laney was informed. So, do you still think she stole your topic.
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 02:28 PM | Link to this
Page The victim Page is delirious because the beatdown was done in 116 degree heat on the asphalt. She attempts to apply cocoa butter to the road rash but it does no good after being drug for miles As for the immigrants we pay border patrol off and go get some cervesas as i am now their national hero bringing their daughters and sisters to meet the almighty tent pole
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 02:31 PM | Link to this
@ BK…i say the same thing…..wasnt Adam who the serpent spit game to…
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 02:33 PM | Link to this
Cracker Jacker I ain’t call you mayne.
By "Longtime Lurker"
August 9, 2006 02:35 PM | Link to this
@darkbuty
Definitely grown and sexy!
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 02:35 PM | Link to this
Officer Musing is allowed to meet the twin sisters Hernandez and changes his tune He was then photographed in the mix with boobies in his mouth thus rendering null and void.
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 02:36 PM | Link to this
Oh and Shaun one more thing about the “eye of the needle” I had never heard the eye was indeed a gate around a city. So I looked it up. Turns out the true believed meaning was that the eye was a small gate that was used for travelers to Jerusalem after the city was locked down for the night, but said travelers would have to unpack their camels and make them get through the gates on their knees (the camels). This however is not founded in any archeological or historic manner and we know that jerusalem still stands, no gate to be found. Do your research before you make ignant azz claims, or make sure you dealing with someone who will not fact check. Jayson Blair junior
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 02:37 PM | Link to this
LMAO @ the misinformed blogger Saywhat? Blue and Page I think they need you to clarify for them. An as for Laney stealing the topic she has assured me offline it was not her, and as I said to her I say to you. Do your research.
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 02:37 PM | Link to this
MUSING! LOL dude, there is no sand here! rolling eyes
Infamous LOL now heading to beauty supply on the South Side of Phoenix to purchase extra strength cocoa buter oil for those ashy knees because I know the immigrants daughters and sisters don’t like ashy knees
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 02:39 PM | Link to this
sicko sissy i love old skool….but hey they wanted revenge stories so i gave them what i had…i tried to give the wisdom but they wanted the dumb ish..so i gave it to them…but i love the way you spread the brush homie…and this whole time i had you for a uppity knee-grow..you got some spunk in you carlton
By danielle
August 9, 2006 02:42 PM | Link to this
Shaun Your 2:01 p.m. post is on point!!!!!!!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 02:43 PM | Link to this
Kym Derron-Honey compare me to anyone but Cynthia now that one hurt.
Ohhhh, no you don’t. Don’t go badmouthing the one Black female that got up in the Big House and wasn’t afraid to shake the trees. Too many folks stand in front of the masses, beggin’ for a chance to stand in the ring, but once they get the nod, ain’t doing nothing but trying to rope a dope for 12 rounds. That’s a loss in my book. Cynthia has made a few questionable calls, but her courage is impeccable.
By darkbuty
August 9, 2006 02:43 PM | Link to this
SeanJ That’s a classic revenge fantasy!! I would love to see old boy’s face…this is the type of stuff we cheer on in the movies!!
Did anyone see my Super Ex-Girlfriend with Uma Thurman….just childish, funny, humor….I know somepeople are going to start crying about how revenge is wrong, blah, blah… if you’re not feeling the topic…just lurk today!
JustMe Girl, the writing is on the wall…so what are you and Detroit going to do when he comes to Atlanta? Because that’s a done deal and old boy is a wrap!
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 02:44 PM | Link to this
blue you stated earlier that you wanted to ax me sumthin…..so i am like what it is….
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 02:46 PM | Link to this
LOL dang, who in the heck is talking about whoever has a Camel Toe?! lawdddd! now going back to watch Lifetime LOL
By MusingLee "Cyber Cop"
August 9, 2006 02:50 PM | Link to this
Revving engine and taking off down street in space age Ford Taurus…Crashing through the wall of Agg Wit’s office and jumping out of Taurus with “Robomut” the Canine RoboDog!…Walking over to computer terminal, noticing several computers running at once, all logged onto the blog….Now shutting down operations of Agg Wit…Allowing “Robomut” to pee onto computers causing them to short circuit and explode….Jumping into car and taking off to next destination
By demigod33
August 9, 2006 02:50 PM | Link to this
guys don’t go around looking for revenge
I have some guys at work that’ll prove you wrong…
Justme, Sooooooooooooo you plan on giving buddy the cruise ride of a lifetime on your ship, then dumping him? That’s not right!
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 02:51 PM | Link to this
I was just reminiscing… A female did make a juvenile attempt at revenge on me once. She and her sorrors threw eggs at my car. I just took it to the car wash and laughed. The only thing I did to deserve this was give her that dismissal conversation we spoke of earlier. If I would’ve just stopped calling her, I could’ve avoided this. When I told her we could no longer see each other, her feelings were hurt. (Granted my timing was bad…I told her a few hours after we had sex). I still got the last laugh. When we parted ways, she was a Miami Heat cheerleader and in Med School. Our paths crossed a few years later. I’m in this strip joint (“The Mint” in Carol City) fresh to death, popin bottles with some potnahs and I see her behind the bar serving drinks. I’m like “damn lil mama, shouldn’t you be doing your residency by now.” She said she worked their part time because the tips were good and hit me with the famous strip club bartender quote “I don’t dance though”.
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 02:52 PM | Link to this
Rell Naah dude, I was messing with Tazzee, but I meant to say Chink. You missed it.
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 02:55 PM | Link to this
@ Darkbuty..that wasnt classic…that coulda turned deadly..lol
@ JustMe…just asking…is the SO giving you money or something?..i know you mentioned a cruise…but its apparent by the fall u will be single…get your multiple dating partner thing going on…just trying to see why u are still there….I would think you would be too progressive to stay in a dead in relationship JUST because..lol…
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 02:55 PM | Link to this
@ Darkbuty..that wasnt classic…that coulda turned deadly..lol
@ JustMe…just asking…is the SO giving you money or something?..i know you mentioned a cruise…but its apparent by the fall u will be single…get your multiple dating partner thing going on…just trying to see why u are still there….I would think you would be too progressive to stay in a dead in relationship JUST because..lol…
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 02:58 PM | Link to this
Kym C’mon now, you come off hard as a brick wall daily, and in all my years, errbody that I have know who has pretended to be invinsible was actually putting up that hard azz front because their feelings are easily hurt. Now true enough, I do not know you from Eve, but all that jazz you are splaying just makes it even easier to see, you are wearing a thick skin to protect the butter that you are made of. Bless Yo Heart! You can catch more fly with honey than with vinegar.
PTB3 If y’all want to make this blog more authentic, then stop letting the posts come in that are linked to jacked up email addresses. If the info doesn’t have to be authentic, why bother with this crap HTML not allowed in comments. Your e-mail address is required. JustWondering
Musing & DK U’all off the chain today!
abc I hear you too! I’ll try to get this out in the open before the cruise. I just hope he doesn’t go into his “Yes Dear” mode and not take stock in my words.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 02:58 PM | Link to this
@Blue I didnt question her courage did I? I however am not happy with her politics. They district she serves needs alot of things done in it and would love for you or anyone else in her district to tell me where she has made some local——not national—local outcry.
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 03:01 PM | Link to this
I voted for Cynthia yesterday.. She is actually a nice person. You have to know her in person.. The media feeds people anything and they believe it.. I bet if the media started to agree with Cynthia today she would be a hero tomorrow.. Alot of you people are sheep following the herd, while I revell in being a lone wolf making my own calls.. I would rather have her than some propped up republican posing as a democrat.. I mean if you folks talking ish would get out and vote none of this would be.. Oh wait they wont provide any proof of who voted for who and the election was stolen in 2000 so whatever. Sheisty is as sheisty does..
By Shaun
August 9, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this
@agg witty, I think you are the one that needs to check out the correct meaning of things you say BEFORE you speak. YOU were the one that made that anology without even knowing the meaning of the eye of a needle!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this
Dark so what are you and Detroit going to do when he comes to Atlanta?
The same thing that they probably did in Detroit, smash pubes. That ain’t the problem though. What gets me is that none of these so-called righteous females are putting the check on ol’ girl. But let just ONE dude, ANY dude say that he’s got a main chick halfway out the door… and a sideline chick trying to get in, and all of a sudden you’ve got all of them, to include those I-lurk-but-don’t-post broads, throwing stones.
By SeanJohnson
August 9, 2006 03:05 PM | Link to this
@ Justme….i know the topic of the day is/was revenge…i dont want see you or your SO..on CNN …missing or thrown from an old folks carnival cruise…said as i whistle the gilligans island theme song
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 03:09 PM | Link to this
JustMe that is just it, I am not trying to catch any flies in here this is entertainment, I am not acting hard or tough this is just me with my opinionated self. Besides someone needs to be the dislike on on any good soap opera it makes for a better show.
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 03:11 PM | Link to this
Blue Kolla Excellent point.
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 03:11 PM | Link to this
Blue I feel you on CMc. I think the 4th CD is going to regret their decision. She’ll be back in a few years!
Dark Wicho dayum presumptios azz… Who said I was going to let Detroit come? (I’m frowning and blusing at the same time) - LOL Me and my SO are still in tact and that’s the bottom line. Blue My having conversation with an Ex is not cheating!!!!! I don’t trip when he tells me an Ex called him. So long as he throws in a “I let her know what time it is” line and answers no to the appropriate questions….. I’m cool.
Before y’all ask, I did tell Detroit about SO and well……. he just kept right on talking - LOL
Dayum, Musing I hope I’m not on your cyberlist
Demi I am not! I might get him to dump me first - LOL Turn-about is fair play!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:11 PM | Link to this
Kym They district she serves needs alot of things done in it and would love for you or anyone else in her district to tell me where she has made some local——not national—local outcry.
I AM in her district, and on the real we don’t need her to do any LOCAL politicing. That’s why we have Vernon Jones. We need her repping for us up in DC where the establishment is diverting your tax dollas from education for your kid to building hideaways and bank accounts in the middle east.
SeanJ is the SO giving you money or something?
You KNOW that I was gon’ ask JustMe the same thing. So what’s up slim, bruhman forking over them dollas, paying your rent, chippin’ in on the lex note. I mean I’m just askin’…
By aggressively witty
August 9, 2006 03:12 PM | Link to this
What are you talking about dude? The meaning you gave was WRONG. Nothing supports that. There is not ever a mention historically of such a “gate” there is however mention of Needlework in the bible. I hate when a bamma cannot admit he was wrong.
The eye of the needle was the LEAST important thing in what I was saying.
By MusingLee "Cyber Cop"
August 9, 2006 03:14 PM | Link to this
Climbing the outside stairwell and making my way over to the glass skylight….Crashing through the glass landing inches away from a blogging Blue…Blue clutches his laptop in fear…RoboMusing pries laptop from the weak human hands of Blue and touchdown slams the computer into the floor…”No more blogging for you, you’ve been banned!” says RoboMusing…And just as quickly as he came, RoboMusing fires his rocketboots and flies wildly through a wall and lands in the street….But he gets up and limps onto the next target
By demigod33
August 9, 2006 03:15 PM | Link to this
THE INFAMOUS DK the republicans are making a fool out of the 4th district, that’s all to it!
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:16 PM | Link to this
DK The media feeds people anything and they believe it.. I bet if the media started to agree with Cynthia today she would be a hero tomorrow.. Alot of you people are sheep following the herd, while I revell in being a lone wolf making my own calls..
The media feeds people anything and they believe it.. I bet if the media started to agree with Cynthia today she would be a hero tomorrow.. Alot of you people are sheep following the herd, while I revell in being a lone wolf making my own calls..
The media feeds people anything and they believe it.. I bet if the media started to agree with Cynthia today she would be a hero tomorrow.. Alot of you people are sheep following the herd, while I revell in being a lone wolf making my own calls..
Looks like the record scratched. Maybe some of yoll will catch the message.
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 03:17 PM | Link to this
JustMe You playing Babe.. Looking into my Crystal Ball I see you with a well whipped a$$ in the near future.. Then on top of that why would you leave one person to get with another one. I never understand that practice but its you and your stank spot…
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 03:19 PM | Link to this
all i got to say about the sheep you mention DK..is folks need to peep Loose Change….you can watch the whole thing on youtube…..then ask why we need somebody like crazy Cyn…i think she crazy but she has to be fighting the machine…makes one paranoid when they out to discredit and destroy at er turn…and that boot licker that is going to DC is going to set us back some
By Soulfinger
August 9, 2006 03:21 PM | Link to this
While it’s true the best revenge is living well, who are we kidding?? The BEST revenge is seeing the one who wronged you totally defeated and broken. While I have dreamed up several delicious and elaborate revenge schemes, my inflated ego would never allow me to act on them for fear I would look jealous or God forbid show how badly I was hurt. But I must admit, I take a certian joy and its a personal victory everytime I hear about how f**ked up his life is now. I guess the best revenge is living long enough to laugh at thier misery!!! But hey! Thats just my opinion!!!!
By Derron
August 9, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
Standing in the ring doesn’t count for anything unless you accomplish something while you’re there. Most of the other legislators refused to work with her due to her volatile nature, such that she never really got anything done.
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
lol @ BK i said yesterday and today (and I’m not one of those holy roller self righteous GP clique women) that she needs to let the guy go since she’s not in love with him and pining over her ex… but since I’m not egging the situation on like other women on this blog..my post goes unnoticed… I’ll repeat what I said yesterday..
if you have to learn to love him he’s not the one for you… seems like you guys have a don’t ask don’t tell policy regarding conversations with exes…that is not a good thing at all..especially considering that the ex is already inviting you to the “D” for labor day weekend…next thing you know it’ll be picnics in the park over those corn beef sandwiches u were talking about lol…
it’s probably best to walk away from that relationship if you feel that u can’t be fully open and honest with one another..and you see the good in him that’s obviously not enough to enhance your happiness… let it go before he ends up becoming another man who’s view of women becomes jaded due to past relationships
By Page1908
August 9, 2006 03:23 PM | Link to this
LOL at whoever mentioned the bogus email addresses. So far, we have had Janet Jackson, Jay-Z, and who else? LOL I can’t remember…now going to establish bogus email
By darkbuty
August 9, 2006 03:24 PM | Link to this
JustMe Girl, you know the writing is on the wall…but I’ll just sit back until the next episode…
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 03:25 PM | Link to this
@Blue okay I lived in McKinney’s district during her first term and if you think that local that district is doing well look around, look around…not everyone is living pimp my ride buddy…but lets not digress because this is the dating blog and we dont want to invite the conservative right folks over. Well hell that could make show work as well.
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:25 PM | Link to this
RoboMusing forgets that Blue is a technical dude and highly believes in 2nd and 3rd tier redundancy. As he sails away over the wild blue yonder, Blue casually cranks his chair 20 degrees to the left, hits the AUX1 button, and continues to roll unabated towards blogland.
By Shaun
August 9, 2006 03:25 PM | Link to this
You really are an idiot! In biblical times, every city had a wall, and even you should know that with a wall there has to be a gate…. Oh, also if you are going to call someone BAMA, spell it correct. You need a grammar tip.
By MusingLee "Cyber Cop"
August 9, 2006 03:28 PM | Link to this
After making a brief stop at the Robo-body shop of demigod…RoboMusing test his new light speed propulsion system by light speeding his way to the home of JustMe….Lifting cyber hand MusingLee calmly knocks on front door…JustMe answers door with a sweet “hello”…RoboMusing then blast down front door with his laser guided cannon arm…stepping over the unconscious body of JustMe and heading to computer room…RoboMusing sits for 1 or 2 hours to play Xbox360 then smashes it and the laptop he came for with one giant Hulk smash motion…On to the next target
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 03:28 PM | Link to this
SeanJ It’s nothing like that at all. If I need something I can ask and feel reasonably sure he would do it, but that is a very rare for me to do that. I’m an IW (ducking the sticks and stones) My SO is reall very sweet and I really do care about him, but I am not in love with him (yet)
Blue There was no smashing!!! (Ok the hug was long a tight) We passed each other in a downtown parking lot and we both did a double take (We hadn’t seen each other since 1997). We talked for a few minutes and exchanged numbers. It lasted all of 5 minutes. Now the smashing of the day of old would lasts for hours and days….. not minutes - LOL So you guys think he trying to get back in? We broke up in 1993!
Sean J If I go on that cruise, I’ll make sure I get some cruise insurance - ROFLMAO. I don’t do DV! and if my SO even thinks about it, he might want to have the CG come fly him off the boat before I reach dry land, cuz i know a few thugs and you know how dem thugs can be!
Kym Yo azz might be down with the PTB3???
By chink
August 9, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this
Blue
Yeah I knew where you were going with that one ..lol
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this
Demi I just think they are after Cynthia and they use every dirty trick in the book to sabotage her, but people with their EYES WIDE SHUT sit here and play patty cake with them fools.. Man I know our Government is Shady cause my eyes are open and I let me think whatever it is what I want to think not what someone tells me to think..
RELL Loose Change is the truth and everybody associated with it is discredited or made to look crazy.. Dogg the Gov is becoming more powerful everyday and slowly forcing us into a pseudo dictatorship.. I mean Bush is changing laws to make the ish he do right when he know its wrong.. Taking rights away, tapping phones without your knowledge that a plan is coming into existance and god only knows what else.. I just cant believe people cant see it.. Next they will be watching you thru that cable TV or Dish you have on your TV while you and your SO does the grown up and will be able to tell dudes which way its curves or if she needs to shave..
By demigod33
August 9, 2006 03:31 PM | Link to this
Rell(period) It’s no different then the last fake democrat place in office in 2004. Wow, see how quickly my people forget. Slavery does exist in 2006…
By Green Eyes
August 9, 2006 03:31 PM | Link to this
I was friends with this guy for a long time, and after a bad breakup with an old boyfriend of mine, we decided to go out. We ended up having a lot of fun, so we went on a few more dates. Well, after we both realized that seeing each other was making us both happy, and we were both enjoying ourselves, I brought him to meet my parents. He had met them before as my friend, but had not met them as my new mate. On July 4th we hung out all day at the lake together with some other couples. That next day, after leaving his house, I tried to call him around dinnertime and he did not pick up. No sweat off my back. I proceeded to call him the following day, a couple hours after I left work, and he still did not answer. Well, this went on for a couple days, and he finally called. He had a long spat with me about how things were moving to quick and he was not ready for this. This is where the revenge thought set in… He was supposed to get a stereo system put in by my best friend who does that for a living and is famous for it. Well… What is the first thing I do?!?! Call my best firnd and tell him the story. So of course, he does to him what this guy had done to me… He quit answering his phone calls!! He had the balls to try to reach MY best freind through me… That was a joke. He still hasn’t gotten his radio fixed!! HAHA!! REVENGE IS SWEET..
By Green Eyes
August 9, 2006 03:32 PM | Link to this
I was friends with this guy for a long time, and after a bad breakup with an old boyfriend of mine, we decided to go out. We ended up having a lot of fun, so we went on a few more dates. Well, after we both realized that seeing each other was making us both happy, and we were both enjoying ourselves, I brought him to meet my parents. He had met them before as my friend, but had not met them as my new mate. On July 4th we hung out all day at the lake together with some other couples. That next day, after leaving his house, I tried to call him around dinnertime and he did not pick up. No sweat off my back. I proceeded to call him the following day, a couple hours after I left work, and he still did not answer. Well, this went on for a couple days, and he finally called. He had a long spat with me about how things were moving to quick and he was not ready for this. This is where the revenge thought set in… He was supposed to get a stereo system put in by my best friend who does that for a living and is famous for it. Well… What is the first thing I do?!?! Call my best firnd and tell him the story. So of course, he does to him what this guy had done to me… He quit answering his phone calls!! He had the balls to try to reach MY best freind through me… That was a joke. He still hasn’t gotten his radio fixed!! HAHA!! REVENGE IS SWEET..
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:32 PM | Link to this
JustMe So even if he give you the old I-let-her-know-what-time-it-is line, you’d be cool with 108 and 90 minute convos? Hell Naaah. Save that BS for the next lame, ‘cause I ain’t him. Now I’m not checking but you let me find out that my supposed-to-be girl is talking to some dude that long and she’s ex-girl. On top of that, I got a couple of checks that say that you ain’t carrying on these convos while dude is sitting next to you on the couch. You sneakin, and that makes it wrong.
By the way, my appointment is friday.
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 03:36 PM | Link to this
Personally, I don’t Cynthia or Hank will be able to do anything about the $350.00 a week I pay for child care or the $3.00 a gallon I pay for gas. Those are my immediate concerns. The politicians are interchangeable. At the end of the day, I have to handle that.
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:41 PM | Link to this
Chink You know I’m just messin’.
Kym I just want to know what your congress man has done individually for your district.
Rell and that boot licker that is going to DC is going to set us back some
Man, Hank-dude ain’t nothing but a carbon-copy do-boy Majette with an empty nutzack. Tell me he don’t look like that dude off the Uncle Ben’s rice box.
By darkbuty
August 9, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this
Green Eyes That’s a funny story and a really good friend to turn down the loot!
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this
Who or what in the world is the PTB3?
By Dear John Letter Recipient
August 9, 2006 03:44 PM | Link to this
I fantasize about revenge on a woman who dumped me over twenty five years ago. it still hurts. I wonder what she’s doin’ tonight. Yes I wonder….what she’s doin’ tonite…yes I wonder what she’s dooin to niiyight!!
Shana nana nana na
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 03:46 PM | Link to this
Where is Denise Majette? The last propped up politician they put in there, used and discarded like a dirty tampon.. She did nothing for the county.. NOTHING.. Which was all she was supposed to do.. Just vote they way Massa told her to and she was good little girl follwed by a pat on the head.. Man Stop.. I would rather die standing up than live by laying down or on my knees..
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 03:46 PM | Link to this
DK It’s not like that at all. My current SO and I have been on the brink of a BU for a while now I’ve been posting about it for a few weeks now (no kidding). I went back home to Detroit to get my Lil Man, Class Reunion, Uncle’s C’s 70th B-day Dinner and see my parents, brother and his family. Detroit was an act of God! I was walking from the car to the spot my girls and I were going to chill at for a few hours. 30 seconds after I exited the car and made my way towards “Floods” we crossed paths. We didn’t graduate the same year, so it had nothing to do with the reunion, the B-day dinner, or my family, it was a random act of God!
This really could be a sign. a few other strange things have happened over the past few weeks up to and including that night. When I prayed Monday Night, I thanked the Lord for putting me where he wanted me to be and told him his will be done not mine - Amen! So if it is meant to be, then it will be, but I am not dumping one for another
Crim I am not pining……. I did/do enjoy his conversation though. My heart strings are not flailing in the wind. BTW Crim, he wants to come to Atl it’s not like you posted.
Page I mentioned it too (I don’t think I was the first to mention it) but whenever a post looks like it maybe from a reg in disguise, I check the email addy and it’s always some BS email addy. That’s how you know who’s frontin. Now granted my email is my personal addy and I am at work during the day, I will get it eventually!
Dark You sound like my 2 best friends……. they both swear with all the strange things that have been happening……. He’ll be my husband one day.
I had chineses for lunch today………. my fortune cookie said A Pleasant surprise is soon in store for you!” So I guess the story will continue.
By Bible_Questions
August 9, 2006 03:47 PM | Link to this
I thought that bibilcal verse was referring to an eye of a needle, and I think it’s safe to bet that the majority of non-biblical scholars would think the same. Either way, the shoe fits for both analogies.
Anyways, if knowing the bible frontwards and backwards like Shaun and Rell appear to, and turning out the way that you guys are, then why read it? Especially when it condones jackass behavior like ya’llz..
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 03:47 PM | Link to this
Green Eyes I still have a problem with that female logic. The guy decides he no longer wanted to see you, so you felt some sort of revenge was in order…..That doesn’t make sense to me. Why not just acknowledge he wasn’t the one for you and keep it moving?
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:49 PM | Link to this
Dear John Letter Translation: Worrying about some other knucklehead that wronged you is synonymous with stress-induced suicide.
By Jo
August 9, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this
“Hi, Fred? Honey, this is Jo. Remember? The girl you were with 6 months, professed undying love to & then disppeared without a word because you didn’t have the courage to break it off with me to my face? Ohhhh NOOOO, I’m not angry. In fact, I’m calling to apologize. See, I’m guilty of the same thing & I feel TERRIBLE. The whole time we were together I didn’t have the guts to tell you I was cheating on you the whole time & I also didn’t have the guts to tell you the guy I was cheating on you WITH is better-looking, has more money, more brains, a better job, better in bed & has a bigger d$@#%.” I know, but wouldn’t THAT feel great? What’s more effective though is making sure you move on & making sure your chickenshyte ex finds out! I can’t believe y’all are so high-minded you don’t want to see someone hurt who was deliberately cruel to you. That’s human nature, even if you choose not to ACT on it.
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this
GreenEyes You needed to leave him alone cause if he gotta get his stereo fixed by your friend… Puleeze.. I wouldnt let your friend work on my system cause he might be mad I’m smashing anyway and short my car out.. Then again if i did… He would fix it or I would be like Willie Green in Dolemite and turn the place out.. Cause as long as he got a shop he would get tired of me coming thur acting up.. Calling you to make me stop..
By demigod33
August 9, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this
Green Eyes: sound like ole boy just wanted to hit the infamous Green Eyes’s kitty and bounce…sad, friend with you only to hit it
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 03:54 PM | Link to this
dushawn that is false…they can do something…if the governor can suspend the sales tax on gasoline until the state economy can catch up..imagine what that lil keebler elf could do if he were not shitting out his gray matter er day in the oval office bathroom..mind you that gas tax is how the gas stations owner make some of there profit from gasoline sales….so yes it does make a difference
on loose change..if you watch close it shows alot of shady ish…and the audio comes from news, agency and people inside the bldg..it’s just too much for words…but it is funny the debuke the hell out of UFO sitings or the consiparcy behind the WMD but nobody is touching Loose Change…wake up people..
By Fyrestarrter (on location in WACK A$$ Rome!)
August 9, 2006 03:55 PM | Link to this
crimson esq Who told you that b.s. that there was anything Holy or righteous about GP? D-yum can’t people just have friends & be friends for the sake of being friends? Do we not DO the friendship thing anymore?
By chink
August 9, 2006 03:57 PM | Link to this
RFLMAO..@ bible …funny
By Jo
August 9, 2006 03:58 PM | Link to this
“Hi, Fred? Honey, this is Jo. Remember? The girl you were with 6 months, professed undying love to & then disppeared without a word because you didn’t have the courage to break it off with me to my face? Ohhhh NOOOO, I’m not angry. In fact, I’m calling to apologize. See, I’m guilty of the same thing & I feel TERRIBLE. The whole time we were together I didn’t have the guts to tell you I was cheating on you the whole time & I also didn’t have the guts to tell you the guy I was cheating on you WITH is better-looking, has more money, more brains, a better job, better in bed & has a bigger d$@#%.” I know, but wouldn’t THAT feel great? What’s more effective though is making sure you move on & making sure your chickenshyte ex finds out! I can’t believe y’all are so high-minded you don’t want to see someone hurt who was deliberately cruel to you. That’s human nature, even if you choose not to ACT on it.
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 03:59 PM | Link to this
JustMe my fortune cookie said A Pleasant surprise is soon in store for you!”
Fellas Are yoll getting this?! She has a so-called random meeting, gets a fortune cookie, and now the fantasy dream-dude is gon’ magically appear soon. Ohhhh shyt, the sky must be falling. Now ery’body check this out… By 10/15/2006 new-old dude will be hittin da skinz. And by 01/12/2007 he won’t be shyt. And he’s a f** up dude that used her to get swerve on when he first got here and now he ain’t shyt, again… LMAO
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 03:59 PM | Link to this
Musing That wuddn’t my crib dude. I’m still at work! - LOL
Blue True he ain’t there, but we are not cohabitating either. I never ask how long he talks to them. F’it I’m gonna tell him about it (some of it) tonight and see what he says……. Yeah I cool like dat!
By the way, my appointment is friday. I was wondering bout dat Blue - The antibiotics and antifungal creams should clear that right up - ROFLMAO!!!!
This blog has covered LDR in the past, my poistion on LDR’s is this….. they can work, but it takes a lot of trust and a very strong committment from both parties. I don’t expect a LDR 800+ miles to fulfill me very much.
Kym The Powers That Be 3 Wise, Laney and Single Guy
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 04:01 PM | Link to this
Yeah and OIL companies are making record profits and they cant do anything to help out the people in this country.. Man China and Canada has public health and we are the richest country on earth and we cant do it.. I’m telling you greed is killing us all the way down to the family thats why if we arent making money together a divorce is needed because our society dictates that we chase the dollar and step on whoever to get it..
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 04:02 PM | Link to this
BQ…i love it, trying to bait me into a fight..not going to happen….lol
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 04:06 PM | Link to this
Rell I’m well aware of how the political urine trickles down. I also realize the importance of having competent representation in Washington. I’m also a realist. Temporarily suspending state sales tax on gasoline is like putting a band aid on a bullet wound.
By QC
August 9, 2006 04:08 PM | Link to this
Have a safe evening everyone
Hey DASv
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 04:10 PM | Link to this
@ JustMe sorry about the mix up regarding who’s going where..but my opinion still stands.. you guys had a 108 minute convo that you didn’t tell your SO about.. the ex wants to come and visit u labor day weekend…the fact that you’re entertaining any of this proves that you really aren’t feeling your man like that..so to use him for the all expense paid vacation/cruise would be a huge foul on your part…
By Fred
August 9, 2006 04:14 PM | Link to this
JO Oh its Ok I knew you werent ish from the beginning and I lied about loving you.. I knew you were cheating cause it used to stink after you and the other guy had sex, thats why I always had headaches and didnt want to touch you.. You werent even the girl sitting next to the woman.. Did you even know how much money I had? I dont remember sharing that info with a random broad such as yourself.. By the way I married the LOML and I am happy as I can be.. We have a beautiful child and life is good.. I just cant believe you are still crying over little ole me.. So go back to your lonesome hole you crawled out of.. Biaaaaaaaaaatcccchhhh! Love Fred
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 04:14 PM | Link to this
Oh hell naw JustMe who has that much time an effort to put into fake names and switching emails…believe it our not I do work over here!
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 04:17 PM | Link to this
that was my point dushawn….if Dubya wanted to something he could…hell he changing the constitution has he goes along why not the gas…naw he rather stage his own personal Pearl Harbor, then lie about WMD kill 6000 of our citizens, and the other half maimed or crazy…all in the name of freedom and democracy…for who….the middle east thats about to explode in a his face..cause his jewish buddies are really letting him know what they thing of him and his little darkie at SecofState…feel me….don’t get me started homie..i held a Top Secret Cleareance for 8 years…i had more access to the info then some reps on capital hill..ever heard of need to know…trust the hoover boys gave me the once over back in 91 and i was clean…so my move to atlanta was monitored and my credit checked…google john walker and you will see the job i held in the service and the importance of the info i had access too…
By THE INFAMOUS DK
August 9, 2006 04:20 PM | Link to this
Whoa Fred and JO where ya’ll come from??
By Blue_Kolla
August 9, 2006 04:20 PM | Link to this
JustMe The antibiotics and antifungal creams should clear that right up - ROFLMAO!!!!
Naah slick. Blue ain’t got no ailments that need that type of attention. You betta watch ya azz, befo’ I be calling you into my office. Now.
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 04:21 PM | Link to this
Blue It’s all true. I swear. We are not even the same age.
Maybe I’ll use the 6 numbers on the back of my fortune to play Win FOr Life in teh Lottery! $1K for life……. I would be straight!
By Rosie
August 9, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
I got revenge once - I was dating/living with a guy who was always accusing me of cheating and I wasn’t. Well come to find out he was cheating on me when he was accusing me of cheating on him. So I had a picture of him in his underwear and he was very good looking, so I made up a bunch of flyers with the picture on it and said FOR A GOOD TIME CALL and put all his phone numbers on it and a friend hung it up in several gay bars. I wonder how many calls he got….
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
@Fyrestarrter I don’t know what the GP abbreviation stands for ..nor do I really care.. I was simply referring to the cliqueish behavior that exists on this blog how I am not a part of said clique… perhaps I should have used my (…) to space out the references that i was making.. I was simply saying
I’m not a holy roller …. self righteous …. or a member of the GP clique …. that’s it that’s all..nothing more.. I’m not throwing salt on your illustrious e-group…
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
SeanJ why did some guy just ask me to trade Santana Moss for some no name reciever?
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 04:28 PM | Link to this
Rell My point was that I’m not confident that either candidate will have a significant impact on the average citizen’s most urgent concerns. Furthermore, if any type of state sales tax is suspended the result would be decreased revenues. Most likely these revenues have been previously budgeted and allocated. If they are not received, other state funded programs would have to be discontinued or cut back to recover the short fall. I was a budget analyst in the government sector for many years. My views on the political process have been tainted. I participate in the system, but rarely expect any tangible results. I agree with your Dubya comments.
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 04:30 PM | Link to this
Crim you really aren’t feeling your man like that I do care about him. Maybe if I say those 3 lil words to him and see how I feel afterwards…..
Kym Next time you read a suspect post, check the email addy. Case in point Fred@fred.com copied from “Fred’s” 4:14 Post
Rell Can you do some PI work for me?
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
August 9, 2006 04:32 PM | Link to this
Hi Just a few thoughts.
First, re the issue of your current SO, it really sounds like it is a matter of ‘how’ and ‘when’, not ‘if’. If that is the case then maybe it is time to take out the scalpel and cut it off before it gets deeper and harder.
Second…maybe it might be prudent to seriously consider what Mr. Ex wants from you. I understand chemistry, believe me, (I had an email today from a lady that I was in a two year relationship with, more or less letting me think she is ‘available’ again…and it is tempting), but I also know that little voice in the back of my head when it is saying “don’t go there, don’t do it”. Old flames are usually in the past for very good reasons…spending some time reflecting on what those things were that ended it before can save some serious hurt in the future.
Just a thought ‘Just’.
By Time
August 9, 2006 04:33 PM | Link to this
crim esq - do you have an attitude, did someone make you mad?
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 04:35 PM | Link to this
Blue I couldn’t resit that one…… U left urself wide open for it - ROFLMAO
Musing Did you fall down and now you can’t get up?
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 04:37 PM | Link to this
Okay I do have one revenge story I am not proud of this But there was a guy I dated awhile who I truly cared about and he up and disappeared. Well he looked me up and said hi, told me he still loved me, but he was married now. We traded a few emails nothing major just good morning stuff and low and below wifey found out..and sent me an email pretending to be him. What she do that for? So I went along with the farce and said ohhh I have pictures for you..sent her/him pictures of two babies about 6months old figure that was the right amount of time he had been out of my life and said here are pictures of Trey(he was a jr) and some other name I made up, with the tagline doesnt he look just like daddy. Never heard from him again. really didnt expect to
By JustMe
August 9, 2006 04:39 PM | Link to this
Randy I thought Mr. Detroit and the revenge factor. I dumped this guy back in the 90’s. We saw each other a few times after the BU and according to him, he visited me at my Town House before I relocated to GA. That makes it 97-98 since we last saw each other. Could he still want revenge after all of these years?
By crimson esq.
August 9, 2006 04:40 PM | Link to this
@ Time no need to assume that futher clarifying a statement so that it doesn’t get misconstrued means that I have an attitude… but to answer your questions.. no I don’t have an attitude.. and no I am not mad… why should I be?
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 04:45 PM | Link to this
@Kym You going to hell for that one…..dayum that’s dirty.
By demigod33
August 9, 2006 04:47 PM | Link to this
DuShawn soooooo, even with the extra cash generated through un-lawful taxing…our government stills find away to stay broken, right?
By Rell(period)
August 9, 2006 04:51 PM | Link to this
i could but it is messing and it cost…alot of legal ramifications comes with counter-intelligence…hell they have people like that everywhere male and female
By Jo
August 9, 2006 04:52 PM | Link to this
Duh!! That was a hypothetical situation, I was just trying to get a point across. I dunno who this “Fred” is who posted at 4:14 but I assure you I’m in a very happy relationship & I never cheated on my man, nor would I. (Rosie, you’re a TRIP! LOL!)
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 04:54 PM | Link to this
@Dushawn I didnt say I was proud of it.
By Randyt (aka Been There, Done That, Got a closet FULL of T-shirts)
August 9, 2006 04:56 PM | Link to this
Not thinking revenge Just*…am thinking does he want something real, or just a quick “roll” and sees vulnerability. What I am suggesting is that you need to decide what you want and then try to figure out if that is what he wants, whether something long term, whether some quick passion and “don’t let the door hit you on the azz when you leave”… what ever you want. I heard once that the way to make smart decisions is to always ask “does this fit in with my long term goals and wants”. Think before you jump.
By DuShawn
August 9, 2006 04:57 PM | Link to this
I never realized how much not having a formal dismissal conversation really affects a woman. Yall act as if that is some truly traumatic shyt. Dayum….Kym prolly changed that man’s life with that “revenge” prank and he’s prolly like what did I do to her to deserve this.
Demi I’m not a defender of the government…I’m trying to stay out of system, under the radar, and get money. I’m trying to leave trust funds for mine.
By Kym aka Most Hated Female Blogger
August 9, 2006 04:57 PM | Link to this
@Dushawn dont throw stones over here preacher man..we all know how that verse goes.
By abc
August 9, 2006 05:06 PM | Link to this
Psycho beeyotches, I reckon… @Kym, that stunt was so out of line, you may have permenantly damaged that guy’s marriage because he wasn’t into you and didn’t do what you thought he should. Now, that’s a constant theme with chicks, to me. If you do something they don’t like, or don’t do something they want the way they want, even little stuff, they go psycho. Sane women are so few and far between!