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DEL.ICIO.USTell them we met at Starbucks
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
The dating scene in Atlanta can be unpredictable. People meet in many different ways: at the gym, referral from friends, online dating websites, through blogs, or at church. You never really know how or when you will meet your next great date. Sometimes how and where you meet can set the pace of how two people will transition in the dating stages. The intentions of a person on e-harmony seems easier to gauge then the guy in the grocery store. There may be a few more steps involved in discovering if the guy at Publix actually wants a relationship, or if he just likes looking at melons!
I wonder if how you meet someone makes a difference in how the relationship develops? Let’s see, I met Psycho Cop on I-285. We had matching cars. His blue, mine silver. We called each other on the spot, sitting in traffic. That turned out bad. Really bad. (shudder). I don’t know if it was because I met him off the street, literally, or not. My guess is that he would have been crazy as a fox, whether I met him on 285 or at 2 Urban Licks! I still would have made the same dumb choices. I still would have overlooked red flags waving at me. Things would have likely transpired just as they would have, but who knows for sure?
Then there was First Love, who was related to a family friend. Not an intended match-making referral, we just happened to end up at the same dinner party and sparks flew. That turned out bad too - BUT, I was fresh out of college, young, and dumb. In this instance, it didn’t matter how we met, because we were both clueless and knew nothing about healthy relationships. It’s kind of hard for me to determine if how/where I met someone could be related to the reason things didn’t work out, but maybe it’s worth figuring out.
Do you think that how/where singles meet, hook-up, and find each other makes a difference in a relationship’s life-span? If so, why?
When you are single, can the places you go to meet other singles send a message in what you are seeking, i.e. meaningful vs. momentary?
If you were to reflect on your dating/relationship history, which meet-up turned out to be more successful for you personally?
Are singles still telling their friends “faux” stories when they meet end up with their “soulmates” after meeting them in a bar, or from an online dating site, or through a personal ad?
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By Demigod
June 5, 2006 08:14 AM | Link to this
Morning All
POST: Lurkeville pool is offically close, due to lack of chlorine fund!
By Demigod
June 5, 2006 08:29 AM | Link to this
but the L.L. Class Lurkeville yacht will be leaving port Miami for the Virgin Islands at 500pm…700pm black people time. If you miss the boat, we’ll Hovercraft your asprin to the ship…tardy a$$
adjusting new custom Purple Sea captain Super suit and purple ‘gator
QC,page,vanilla,gavi, and Heaven’n’dem girl, y’all are my sexy sea girls…complete with purple cat suit shorts and matching open toes gators high heels
By sJeaSexyCool
June 5, 2006 08:36 AM | Link to this
greetings, all…
first few times that i met someone online and the couple of times that i met someone hanging out on a chat line…there are some decent guys on there…not JUST the i wanna NSA adult encounter this afternoon types…i would tell people that i met them at the actual place that we arranged our first meet and greet…
i’d be like…where did we meet?…oh, we met at the library….or i was at IHOP getting some breakfast and we started talking…not exactly lies…but…not the truth either…
since i’ve given up meeting people like that…due to the high number of in person disappointments…i no longer have to tell that lie of omission…
i have met people everywhere from the club…to church…to the MARTA…to the gas station…in traffic…in the airport…on the softball field…and i could go on…
so far…no meeting place can really be named a success because the relationships keep ending or transitioning into something else altogether….
thought for the day……um, well…i’m at a loss this morning…i know what…i will go with something different…
summer beauty tip for the day…it’s sandal season, ladies…foot care is of the upmost importance…a pumice stone used at the end of a daily shower combined with a good moisturizer will keep your heels right…also…if you’re wearing flipflops all day…at some point in the day…you’re going to have to find somewhere to wash your feet…
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 08:37 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Everyone!!! It’s Monday bring on the drinks!
By Demigod
June 5, 2006 08:41 AM | Link to this
And yes the yacht is filled with top of the line luxuries for all ATLfinest,it is a L.L. class after all
humming ‘it a beautiful day in the neighborhood….
By mista
June 5, 2006 08:43 AM | Link to this
Wow Wise, a four-part question today! Very thoughtful however, so I’ll give it my best shot!
Does where we meet influence how long we last? I think it does. The places we gather carry stereotypes. Church vs. club for example. It is assumed, by at least me, that a woman I meet at church might be looking for a more grounded and seeking a more stable relationship than a woman I meet at the club. Of course, if I met her at the club then I was there too, but sometimes I wonder if I met that same woman in both places unknowingly, how would my opinions fluctuate? If we both partied our a*******es off on Saturday night and happened to sit on the same pew Sunday morning, would we see each other as peas in a pod?
Does where we go give off anything about what we’re looking for? Hopefully it does. I’d like to think that I’m living the life I want to live, and in the process meeting people that have similar interests as myself. So many times you see a woman who looks out of place, and sometimes a man takes it upon himself to try and change her mood. I’ve learned to stay away from that woman.
Which meetups have been more successful? Historically, the women I met in classroom environments turned out to be the best relationships. We were on the same educational/intellectual path, and the same career path in one instance, and that commonality was beneficial in building a romantic life.
Are people lying about where they meet? Some definitely. I once met a woman at an online site who insisted we tell people that we met at a networking event. After a couple weeks I just let her tell the story of how we met and hearing her freestyle about it eventually became a turn off. In my opinion, those kinds need to get over themselves…everybody is online nowadays.
Sorry for being so long. Great topic!
By QC
June 5, 2006 08:48 AM | Link to this
Morning zzzzzz
Demi it’s good to read you this morning, we went from a “lurking pool” to a “Yatch” i’m sure Musing & Blue_Kollar will enjoy it
I’ll be on the “lower deck” sleeping, so ah Capt Demi please drive safe….have a great day all…..Page, how are you, Demi will you be sure Page gets a nice hot cup of her favorite tea, as she’s still recovering from the SUNS lost this weekend?
GO HEAT, GO HEAT GOOOOOOOOOOO HEAT
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 08:54 AM | Link to this
Morning all. Go Mavs!! Miami will beat Dallas in 6. Steve Nash is a punk and needs to return his MVP trophy A.S.A.P!
demi You crazy dawg. I’m holding on to the key to the big screen room on the yacht. I’ll be on the Xbox handing out Madden lessons!
By QC
June 5, 2006 08:55 AM | Link to this
^5 Mista
By SeanJohnson
June 5, 2006 08:56 AM | Link to this
I really don’t think it makes a difference where u meet a person due to the fact its different type of people everywhere. good people are often in bad places and bad people are often in good places. An example of that would be church or at a club. One of my rules though are never date a person u work with but thats so hard these days when u spend a lot of time there and it seems where u really get to know the person at their guard is down. I know one place that i will never date from and that the net..too much going on and its a rather small circle.
By SeanJohnson
June 5, 2006 08:56 AM | Link to this
I really don’t think it makes a difference where u meet a person due to the fact its different type of people everywhere. good people are often in bad places and bad people are often in good places. An example of that would be church or at a club. One of my rules though are never date a person u work with but thats so hard these days when u spend a lot of time there and it seems where u really get to know the person at their guard is down. I know one place that i will never date from and that the net..too much going on and its a rather small circle.
By QC
June 5, 2006 08:59 AM | Link to this
Runnin you know you gotta show Page some blog-love today
Is the “big screen room” for Men only?
By Della
June 5, 2006 09:02 AM | Link to this
It doesn’t matter how you meet a person or where you meet a person. Really, it doesn’t. It is the character of the person that matters, and all character’s are in every walk of life - which is unfortunate for us morally upright individuals with some common decency and sense.
Anyway, the best thing any man or woman can do, (even if you are not serious about the person), is INVESTIGATE. People lie so much it is a shame. You need to investigate the people you meet. Find out if what they say is true. If its true, proceed. If it is not ture, STOP and MOVE ON. If the relationship starts to get serious, do a thorough investigation, background check, credit check, meet his/her FAMILY, etc. People should willingly and openly share this information with you if they have nothing to hide. If the relationship leads to engagement, then you will not have to worry about any baby-mamma drama, any I have bad credit drama, any oh my mother is in the pysch ward drama, any this is not my car drama, and on and on.
By Randyt
June 5, 2006 09:10 AM | Link to this
Met my ex-wife (we were married a long time so not a failure totally) by getting drunk in college and dialing a wrong number. Any port in a storm so I asked her out anyway. When I got sober, I began to wonder what kind of lady would go out with some drunk who called her on a phone, but it turned out she was great (at least for awhile, nothing like marriage to ruin a good friendship).
Since my divorce, the best ladies I have been out with, I met through the Internet. When you write back and forth for awhile, you get a sense of how articulate the person is, and if she is interesting. The phone calls add more information, and then the dating begins you find out if her pictures are accurate, and you find out if there is ‘chemistry’. One lady I met on line, I dated for two years, another for 5 months, many for a date or two, only two or three were major disappointments, so my experience has been good basically, no psychos or axe murderers yet.
By Demigod
June 5, 2006 09:11 AM | Link to this
If i meet on the streets in buckhead, sex partner
meet you in church, my super freak of the week..(sorry Kym)
At the grocery store, a free meal or cook
at the mall,club, or Popeyes, see first remark
at starbuck, library, or gym, a wifey for the minute.
runnin, boy stop! more like handing out Madden beat down!
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 09:17 AM | Link to this
Goodmorning to the cuties @ WiseDiva - I think it does make a different of where u actually meet the individual. Only because i wouldn’t take the guy as seriously because i would assume i’m not the only chick he macked at the club or same prolly would go for him. It is very shallow but the truth. Now on the other hand if i met him at a restaurant of something,for some reason i would be more loose! I’ve never actually met ppl at all the places u mentioned! Gym yes, other places..um no not really! Heck,i rarely get approached. The crazy cop in u’re case must be cute or soemthing cause i never even look at guys who honk while in their cars!! I did try the online dating and i dont think its a bad place to meet great guys, but just am kinda emberessed to tell ppl,cause looking at me they just assume i’m not single. I just dont wanna come off desperate. so yes i’ve lied bout where i met these great potential guys.
@ Demi - Thanks, but i’m too tired , so won’t be trying to look cute. I will be sun-bathing while listening to some jazz and a glass of cold Veuve Cliquot!!
By Kym
June 5, 2006 09:21 AM | Link to this
@ Demi dont work my nerves today Short-Stack I am in a good mood.
By Jazzyone
June 5, 2006 09:24 AM | Link to this
Good morning every body. I think no matter where you meet a person they could be meant to be in your life for a season or for a reason. I’ve met many people in different places and no matter where some make it some don’t and I don’t mind explaining where i’ve met people.
If you are meeting people on the BLOG beware!…tee hee…Y’all be eazy….
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 09:25 AM | Link to this
Morn’in All,
Said while wearing the white Captain hat to the “late azz folks” Hoovercraft
I think where we meet people can say a little about what we want in a relationship, but ultimatly it depends on what the person wants…I can meet a Woman in church that seems grounded, but, when she gets to my house she’s the biggest freak you could find…On that same note, if you meet somebody in the swingers club, She and you both know what you are getting into…People rarely go places out of their character so if you find someone in a skeptical place they probably belong there!!! LOL
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 09:31 AM | Link to this
QC Now you know if Page even has the guts to come on here today then I’m gonna let her have it!! Taking no prisoners today….lol. And no women in the big screen room because all ya’ll do is complain about how long we play Xbox…lol.
demi Come back to reality son. I’m running a madden train on the Xbox so just get in line, you ain’t ready!!!
As far as the topic, I don’t think it matters. I met my ex-wife during my first try in college. She has a twin sister and I actually meant to holla at her sister. Looking back maybe I should have…lol. I’ve met freaks of the week at church and had a nearly 3 year relationship with a woman I met at the club. I’ve met some cool females at school, nothing serious yet though. Not everyone that goes to the club is looking for a one night stand and not every person in church is all sanctified. As far as the online thing, I’m not an expert and I’ve only met a few women but I haven’t had and bad experiences. I didn’t lie to my friends but if it had become serious and if any one of them were to meet family then I think I might tell a “small white lie”…lol.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 09:31 AM | Link to this
Good Morning fabulous people! I don’t think where you meet a person has anything to do with how long a relationship can last. If you’re not compatible, it doesn’t matter under what circumstances or what setting the two of you met. But if I meet a guy at church or at a book store I am expecting a little more than from the guy I met at the club or at a bar. Some people believe that a relationship is only successful when you all spend the rest of your lives together. I believe that a relationship is successful when it has served it’s purpose, when it ends on a good note, when you can still be friends/cordial and if abuse was not a factor. Oh, and most importantly, if you have learned something from that individual. I would like to think that if I met someone in a romantic way that we “were meant to be together.” But experience has shown me that’s not always how the cookie crumbles. 8 years ago on my way to work, my tire blew in the fast lane on GA 400. I had to pull over on the far left shoulder and didn’t know what to do. Suddenly, this guy pulls over in front of me, gets out, makes sure I was ok, offers me a ride to work, gets my car towed for me and takes me out to lunch the same day. It was romantic. I was the damsel in distress and he was my knight in shining armor. That same guy became my husband four years after that and one of my least favorite people today. I said that to say, just because you meet on beautiful terms doesn’t mean the relationship will grow and prosper in that same manner. Also, I believe if you have to lie about where you met someone, then you met them at the wrong dang place.
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 09:44 AM | Link to this
LOL @ Jazzy, sup boo.
demi Your girl Kym just checked you, short stack….LMAO.
gavi So do you assume that if a man macks on you at a restaurant or some spot that isn’t a club that you are the only one he’s tried that with? Just curious.
By Kym
June 5, 2006 09:50 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All, Okay ajc is having a moment or something. I cosign with mista on the church thing. Have a awesome day!!
By Kym
June 5, 2006 09:54 AM | Link to this
@ Lah Lah nice story. I agree on the lying thing too. If a person is lying about how they met you, then they are not ready for anything serious.
By NoStress
June 5, 2006 09:55 AM | Link to this
@Page - if ya out there - mail call
@runnin - what up folk -
don’t have the time to comment today but I just wanted to shout erybody out - ya’ll have a great one.
What Up DIVA - always a pleasure your majesty! LOL
By chink
June 5, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this
Good Morning All
Alot of my recent boyfriends have been from the club scene or outside of a club. Some were great (love), some lasted awhile, some were losers. And Work those can be very dynamic (up and down) but last a while for me….
what does not work for me …street during the day meeting (I dont know why..never works)…online ( I am very picky and can be shallow :( ….they usually turn out to be friends
There is a stigma attached to telling your friends I met him online …Good Idea Sjea I might use your technique for future use
By mista three thousand
June 5, 2006 09:57 AM | Link to this
An extra thought on where you meet people: If you need to fib about where you met, maybe you don’t need to be there.
Runnin, I gotta disagree with Miami in 6. Dallas has the right mixture of personnel and too much youth that can play. Miami built a team to get this far, but I don’t know if those older guys have it in them to win twice in Dallas.
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 09:58 AM | Link to this
@SeanJ - club = ok, and online = no!! It could be the lady from churn or club online..u may never know! @ Jazzy1 - don’t know bout the guys, but there r some great ladies on this blog.. like lah lah, 3rd, fyre, storm..qc, page and more!!
@ runninA - Most of the ppl at the club r there to have fun and mingle and feel more comfortable @ macking. Not the same vibe at restaurants though u know.. i’m not saying i’m correct, but my resonings make more sense..dont’ they??
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 10:00 AM | Link to this
@ LahLah - that is soo romantic.. like the movies. I once met this attorney, who was working with my parents and i jsut happened to be there at one of the meetings! We dated here n there.. that’s bout the only cutest way i met somebody.
By DASvenus
June 5, 2006 10:00 AM | Link to this
good morning all!
on topic We all have non-traditional lives …. We aren’t attending the same church our parents took us to as we were growing up (if they took us)… we aren’t living in the same neighborhood as grandma and ‘em…. Not even the same state…. Everyone knows not to date anyone on the job, or even in the same building…. Grocery store lines hardly exist… there’s self-check out… and even if there is a line… you’re more focused on lining up your items so you scan easily and can get out the door before someone labels you a moron then you are looking to meet someone…. And though you can join another church, and frequent a chosen grocery store… maybe even signed up for gym membership, that hasn’t worked for me or any of my girlfriends…. so traditional is out and high-tech is in…. and Ive found that telling friends and family that I am using more unconventional ways of meeting people helps when that time comes for me to 1)start talking about who I have met or 2) introducing them. I admit to broadcasting the highlights of having met someone great and downplaying the ‘bad’ bunch….. I soften the actualities, because who wants to hear ‘I told you so.’ And the relationship lasts as long as the maturity of the individuals involved… regardless of how or where you meet. whether meaningful or momentary depends on the mature approach each one comes to the table with.
By Della
June 5, 2006 10:01 AM | Link to this
@all It doesn’t matter where you meet people, because basically whether they are in church, at the bookstore, on the internet, in the gym, or at the resturant, people are either basically looking for a relationship or basically out to get something for themselves. We have a lot of people out to get something for themselves and you can meet those people anywhere. That is why you have to INVESTIGATE the people you are casually dating- AIDS test should be the first thing that you exchange especially if you see yourself sleeping with the person. Condoms are only so effective. That is why it surprises me that people casually date anyone and actually sleep with them as well.
I am not trying to “kill” the conversation, but it is just amazing to me. If I was not married (and you still have to be careful if you are married), I would not sleep let alone date anyone unless we made an appointment at the health clinic toghether and his results were mailed to me and vice versa. Women (especially) have to be careful. To all the women on the blogs, INVESTIGATE these men. INVESTIGATE them.
By anonymousella
June 5, 2006 10:01 AM | Link to this
i think that where you meet matters, only because some places have a built-in excuse for you to get to know someone in a non-romantic way (ex: work, school, volunteering). so you have a sense of who this person is beyond “yeah, he’s fine.” that said: you can meet good folks at the club.
i generally avoid meeting folks on mass transit, at gas stations, or the grocery store. On the train, they’re either broke or crazy, and at gas stations/the grocery store, i’m trying to get in, get out and get the h3ll on. stopping to talk to you is interfering with my operation.
what’s worked for me? the arranged relationship. i met sweetie through a mutual friend who was trying (unbeknownst to either of us) to hook us up.
i think that’s a good way to go as long as the person doing the arranging knows both of you extraordinarily well.
By Thick
June 5, 2006 10:05 AM | Link to this
@Wise Diva
I have never tried online dating, nothing negative, I hear good things about eHarmony. If I did meet a man online or somewhere risky I would be honest about, I think it perpetuates stereotypes to not be honest about where you meet.
By Jazzyone
June 5, 2006 10:05 AM | Link to this
@Gavi…I agree there are some great ladies on the blog and guys as well…
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:05 AM | Link to this
What up erybody. I hope everyone made it back safely and is doing well.
Man, I think that the blog has a new “J” in the janky, dayum.
Anyway, IMO, I don’t think that it matters because you meet all types of people in all types of places. Some turn out great and others not so great. It just depends on the compatibility and timing of the two individuals.
I used to be deceptive to the “where did y’all meet” question when I would meet a chick online. But I let that go because it really was no big deal.
It really doesn’t matter now because I don’t even do the online thing anymore. It takes too much time to check a person’s authenticity - who has time to email and play phone tag for a week or two, just to find out that the broad was fake anyway?! No thanks…
Man tip #8: If the broad is in a compromising position when you meet her, she’s probably not the one.
Example: That bad azz honey that is so attentive in the strip joint is not really feeling you.
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 10:08 AM | Link to this
What the hell is up with all you Junior Walter Mitty’s? The ‘pretend’ stuff was mildly amusing the first 1348394813-4813 times yall did it but now, pathetic.
WD, lol @ you thinking ANY man wouldnt just want to “peruse the melons” when your WMD’s are involved.
In terms of singles the kind of people you date is directly related to the kind of place you find them
In atlanta you can easily figure out what kind broad/dude you gonna deal with by where you go.
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 10:09 AM | Link to this
What’s upGavi!!!
What’s up Jazzy, Runnin, Lah Lah, QC and the rest of the crew!!
@jazzy I have to agree with your comment about meeting people on here….. Some people on here are really genuine and sweet and other people are on here to get freaky…. So far I have had two people email me and ask me if they could tie me up and beat me like a stick…. WTH???? Online dating is fine but it depends on what websites you go to. If you go on eharmony ok because you have to pay a WHOLE lot of money to meet people on there. If you go on Lava Life or Match.com then beware of the freaks that are on there…. Now if I meet someone in a dark alley or on yellow pages.com/escort services then yeah I am going to have to lie…. LOL
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 10:10 AM | Link to this
Over Wait Lovas In Da Houze—-Holla
i met a nice lady @ the all u can eat B-B-Q joint. she had me lickin sauze off her fingers. then she left me for a chef. that’s why i’m here hunt-n for by big babey!!! Holla if u herd me
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this
mista I’m disagreeing right back at ya! Miami is hungry. Wade is a beast and no one can guard him one on one or even double team him. Walker and Payton want rings and Dirk will not hit 50 against Haslam or Posey. Miami in 6 homey, you heard it here first!…lol.
NoStress sup man.
gavi I hear what you are saying. All I’m saying is don’t get caught up in a fantasy that the man the drops the next great line or move on you at the spot has saved this moment all his adult life just for you…lmao. More than likely he’s tried it on others and it’s worked so he’s sticking with it.
By QC
June 5, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this
Thanks Gavi we think you’re great too!
Page, you have your own “private room” on the yatch until further notice, saying that as i find the “secret door” that leads into the “Man Only Big Screen Room” hey Gavi look what i just found
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:11 AM | Link to this
Demi/QC? One of y’all bring back the key to the pool, I don’t do oceans, lakes, rivers, or the like.
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 10:15 AM | Link to this
^secretly loving that broad has become part of the ajc lexicon. What word can I add next? bamma, nah joe, siced, YRB?
By Jazzyone
June 5, 2006 10:16 AM | Link to this
3rd gal..ya’ crazeh….But I’m hearing you….I’m hearing you!
By sJeaSexyCool
June 5, 2006 10:16 AM | Link to this
aggwit…i wudn’t gone say nothing…i’ve been telling myself that folks are entitled to their own brand of humor and entertainment…so, i wudn’t gone say a word…
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 10:21 AM | Link to this
runnin, meanwhile in the last game Dirk had 27 in THREE quarters and dallas beat miamia some thing like 112-78. This series is gonna be a match up nightmare for Miami and Avery johnson might be the better coach. D wade is my favorite player right now, but i just dont see him beating a hungry and focused dallas team by himself. Now if shaq puts up 28-15 ere night all bets are off. But umm again I dont see this happening because this isnt a good series for Shaq. Dallas goes small ball and they will run miami outta the building.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:24 AM | Link to this
Anonymous Now you know that train comment was off the
Third Maybe they wanted to beat some… um m pride into you. And… what makes you think that eHarmony is gonna be any better than any other online service, as if knuckleheads don’t have money, probably a lot more than you.
Agg Man, you know I had to go look up who in the h3ll ‘Walter Mitty’ was right?
By Kym
June 5, 2006 10:25 AM | Link to this
If anyone would like Google classes I will be more than happy to give a few sessions. While I agree with some you have to find out everything you can. Please Please dont become like Carrrie on Sex in the City and look for someone’s inter-freak the first time you meet them. Now I am the google queen but even I wouldnt go so low as to go rambling through a person belongs. I normal do things to check out stories such as I own a business-Sec of State has records of all business licenses. Quick search of the site can yield results. I could go on but you get the idea. Basic research is fine. But I am not asking any dude for a blood test on the first date. I think that is problem with dating to start with, it is not fun anymore. I know times they are a changing but hell we have gone to the extreme. Not every date is a potential Jeffery Dahlmer, and if you ask good questions, and use your instincts then you can pick out the crazies and lazies from the good ones.
By 2 Can Play That Game©
June 5, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this
sup, folks…
AW - ok!!!! all I’ll say on that….
Jazzy, you must know sum’in….ahahahahaah!!!
yep, you can meet folks anywhere….however, I refuse to actively pursue a female that I’ve met in a club though; I like to catch ‘em off guard, if you will…at the gas pump, in line at the grocery store, shoppin for lil mama’s clothes (fellas, if you have a daughter, go shopping for her, and politely ask another female her opinion on lil girls’ clothing - see if your stock doesn’t immediately rise…a freebie, there)….
By Della
June 5, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this
@Anonymousella
Hey, I ride the train and bus everyday (not that I talk to anyone), but I am not “broke or crazy.” ha ha.
Anyway, riding MARTA saves me money, maybe even commute time (really haven’t thought about it). My MARTA pass once a month is $39.50. Not even taking gas into consideration, to park on campus, it is $50.00 a month.
Now, believe me MARTA is not “hassle-free” but you get what you pay for.
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 10:27 AM | Link to this
Third I’m on the phone buying some eharmony stock as we speak cuz you are promoting and advertising it like you’re an executive who is gonna be featured on the next commercial…lol.
By Tazzee
June 5, 2006 10:28 AM | Link to this
Well dang! I typed a nice detailed response to all of Diva’s questions and it didn’t show up. Since I’m not going to re-type all of it - so I’ll just say Good Morning Folks and I agree with Della that location doesn’t matter, character does. Oh and I also agree with sJea on wearing flip flops all day.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:28 AM | Link to this
siced? where you from da farms? LOL
By Thick
June 5, 2006 10:29 AM | Link to this
Good Morning Good People
Good Topic Wise
You can meet people anywhere, I don’t that has any effect of the life-span of the relationship, it’s totally up to the individuals. I also must say that whether you take the person seriously or not should not depend where you meet them either. You can get to know someone and I find that they are really compatible.
Best meet-up was a curise ship, Carnival, family vacation. The guy was not what I expected. The realtionship last about two years, I think the distance got the best of us in the end.
Demi I’m catching that yacht, can we get a cruise liner?
Page sorry about those SUNS.
Mista The Talk Black Atlanta was informative, thanks.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:35 AM | Link to this
Anon I was saying that the train comment was off the chain, ‘cause I rides the train (not a broke n*a doh) too and I wish peeps would STFU and just ride sometime. LOL Listened to one dude shoot at a broad from every angle from he relocating, to his pistol, to his job, all the back to going to church.
By Jazzyone
June 5, 2006 10:38 AM | Link to this
@2..no habla english… tee hee…
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:40 AM | Link to this
Tazzee Use your notepad ‘cause when you have a nice post the janky azz blog jacks up the transmission; then you’re like, “I’m not typing all that again, what up yall” LOL
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 10:41 AM | Link to this
Blue I’m glad you looked ol boy up because I was about to google that mess myself…lol.
LOL @2CPTG, appreciate the freebie dawg.
witty et tu brute’? First, whatever happened in the regular season doesn’t matter now. I see Jason Will playing better against Jason Terry than Chauncy Billups, and he still lit up Chancey for 21 the last game. Wade is more than capable of carrying that team and Dallas still doesn’t play good D. Howard is the only obvious matchup problem I see besides Dirk but when Zo comes in the game he will get his 6 fouls and 5 blocks! And yes, Shaq will have 28-15 nights because Dallas doesn’t have a center.
By 2 Can Play That Game©
June 5, 2006 10:42 AM | Link to this
Dallas beatin Miami???? shiiid, I’ll take that bet! AW, not takin nuttin away from Avery, but you forget who’s on that other bench; Mr Armani suit - Pat!!! this is his 9th finals appearance as a coach…..
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 10:46 AM | Link to this
@blue I have was actually on eharmony this weekend and with all the hoops they make you jump through to become a member I don’t see why freaks would take the time to do that. Now meeting people on Myspace.com is scary. I get requests all the time and am always nervous on if this person is really real. I don’t want to end up on Dateline “predators” episode trying to pick up some 13 year old….. Yuck…. Is anyone making drinks today?
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 10:46 AM | Link to this
Blue, nah joe Siced was big in DC when i was growing up. Granted DC is pretty country to be a “northern” city. We do have Barry Farms, but I dont think that counts as a traditional ‘farm’
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 10:51 AM | Link to this
Good morning…how is everyone? Well…I am having one of those days, over here. (sigh).
@ Agg..you are hilarious! umm I figured out long ago that people can drive a bit into the ground on this blog. ..fuh real! I am curious to see how long it/they make it last too..ohh I should make it into a drinking game!
By anonymousella
June 5, 2006 10:51 AM | Link to this
@della : i ride the train 5 days a week myself and for the exact same reasons (you work at tech or gsu?). i am an avid transit rider who will cop to being broke (but i ain’t admittin to crazy).
the sane and unbroke know how to ride a train without bothering other passengers with “hey shawty, whatchonameis?” but i have never, ever, ever been approached by someone on the train who wasn’t broke or crazy — sometimes both.
maaaaan, one dude at king memorial approached me wearing a sneaker on one foot, a soccer slide on the other and had his hand wrapped up in a bandage. his opening pickup line was “is that your real hair?” WTH? now at least his socks matched, but tell me he wasn’t crazy.
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 10:51 AM | Link to this
Runnin* your too funny! I hope I can be a success story on there… Yall keep your fingers crossed!!! And no I don’t work for eharmony on the down-lo….
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 10:51 AM | Link to this
2 can, I get that Pat is over there BUT, Avery outcoached Popovich and right now Pop is the standard for coaches in that he gets the most out of his players. I would like to see Miami win but with Walker and Payton playing head up on devin harris and josh howard/jason terry its gonna be TOUGH.
By mista three thousand
June 5, 2006 10:52 AM | Link to this
Maybe where we meet does not foreshadow what we are looking for, but is it not indicative of at least one similar interest?
Thick, I thought Talk Black Atlanta was informative too. Sorry we didn’t shake hands or something. Shelley Wynter didn’t really add anything. His appearance was more like a favor for a favor.
Runnin, don’t be blind. If Miami can keep the score in the 80s or 90s, maybe they have a chance. But to win the series in six, they must win in Dallas at least once, maybe twice. I don’t see it happening.
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 10:52 AM | Link to this
@ RunninA - yeah, i know.. But i was just saying how the club dude prolly would get no date or play , while the restaurant guy would !! Given that he might’ve just borrowed one of u’re poem that worked before!!
@ 3rd - hai chick @ QC - Wwoooww… all that snoppin we did payed off good.. girl, u’re the bomb!! Dang..look at runninA..i knew he was crazy..but not a freak like this!! OMG
By Della
June 5, 2006 10:52 AM | Link to this
@Kym
No offense, you should not ask for a blood test on the first date, but my husband and I got that out of the way early (I mean early) on in the relationship.
People are just walking around with the virus and do not even know it. Next then you know you are dating, kissing and sleeping with the guy and you don’t know if he has the “monkey” or not.
By Tazzee
June 5, 2006 10:53 AM | Link to this
Go Miami! I just want Zo to get a ring so he can go on and retire.
By Fave
June 5, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this
Traditionally, the vast majority of Georgia couples have met at family reunions.
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this
runnin, like I said to 2, devin harris is too fast for ANY of the points that miami has. Dalls doesnt play D but they held PHOENIX to what 33 points in a HALF to close out the series?
Yall musta forgot that J will and G payton are not real good defenders anymore - Please see the chicago series for evidence. Dirk can score on ANYONE in a miami jersey, Harris and Terry will get in the lane at will. Sorry the rest of yall about all this sports talk.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:55 AM | Link to this
Barry Farms is synonymous with “da farms” LOL
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 10:59 AM | Link to this
Third Now I see why some cat was hitting you up and wanting to “beat you like a stick”. You are definately naive and therefore would be seen by some as an easy “mark”. LOL You might wanna tighten up.
By Techbabe
June 5, 2006 11:01 AM | Link to this
Ok…what’s with not taking a person seriously if you met them in the club? You were also in the club so what does that say about you? I met my husband in a club….never thought I would find my mate in a club. We used to be embarrased about telling people how we met cause they never believed us.
No judgements people…opportunities are everywhere.
By Demigod
June 5, 2006 11:02 AM | Link to this
Sexy Kym can you bring me the bottle of Mo’ please
in your sexy stiletto ‘gators
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 11:08 AM | Link to this
@ 3rd - u r crazy..lol.. no, we really dont wanna see our 3rd on their either.. we just might dis-claim u then.. Here, have some coffee..its only monday..alright.
@ Della - no offense. .Marta is very useful..but not to meet nobody!!
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 11:08 AM | Link to this
I once met a young lady at the traffic light…I was going the opposite direction so I asked for her number, she instead says “give me yours”, she calls me as I make my turn and says “now save my number to your phone.” When she hangs up I look at my cell phone and realize this chick has a private cell number, so there was no way for me to call her back…I’m sure sbe went 2 days wondering why I didn’t call….I said all that to say this…”Ladies, just give me your number, because you seem to overlook the small details it takes to make a date happen”… LOL
By Iluv2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 11:09 AM | Link to this
Morning Folks,
Interesting topic/commentary Wise Diva. I enjoy reading the topic and commentary on the weeks you are the blogs facilitator.
I don’t think I would be to ashamed to let someone know where I met my SO whether it be at the grocery store, the club, in an online chatroom or on my drunken trip to the wrong bathroom. A couple should always be proud of their “Story of Us” because it’s what makes their story unique.
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 11:12 AM | Link to this
Blue, word? I have never heard it called that. we always called it by the whole name. Actually every project was called by the whole name. Columbia heights, mayflower, Clifton Terrace all them joints.
By mickiedee
June 5, 2006 11:14 AM | Link to this
Whenever I talk to an older person (someone over 50) about online dating, they always say why would a man be on there, they can approach a woman anywhere. There must be something wrong with him. Men, would you care to comment? I tried it about a month but I never asked any of the guys why they were there.
By Kym
June 5, 2006 11:18 AM | Link to this
Okay I have to vent. I work customer service and for the better part of the day I take calls. People complaining and such. However, and I am stating this for all women, married, single, dating or shacking up. It works my nerves when a woman calls to handle the business of her man, husband, boyfriend or the like. When I say business I mean personal business, such as child support payments, bills that are in his name, responsiblities that are solely his and that only he can get the answers to. No wonder some men(and I am saying some because I am not sterotyping all men folks) are just downright lazy. Some of these women folks have them by the short-hairs and leading them around. Man up!!!! Man Up!!! Man Up!!! It is the most annoying thing to me to hear some woman say I am calling for my husband Ray-Ray or Bobo or my boyfriend Barney. What is wrong with his dialing finger? Good Gooley Moo!! You wouldnt believe the stuff I hear! Awwww!
Okay I have spoken my piece and counted to 3, back to the regular scheduled blog
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 11:20 AM | Link to this
gavi That’s cool boo, just do you. But then again you are the same one on the blog talking about you never get approached by dudes. Now your M.O. is out there so are you still wondering why you are not getting approached??…lol.
Tazzee I feel you on Zo. He deserves a ring after everything he’s been through.
Witty & mista I hear ya but I’m just gonna sit back and watch D. Wade play the entire Dallas team like a video game, shake em off! Miami is gonna whip Dallas like I’m gonna beat down demi on Madden!
By Della
June 5, 2006 11:21 AM | Link to this
@Anonymousella and Gavi I am a Tech and believe me I ride MARTA just for a ride to work. I do not want to talk to anyone and rarely want to make eye contact.
@MusingLee I agree. Sometimes I forget “little things” about how to make a date happen. My husbands says I forget “little things” about how to order food. I do! Ha, Ha. He really hates for me to place a take out order.
I am a go with the flow type of person, everything does not have to be planned which is funny consider I make “plans” all day at my job.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 11:23 AM | Link to this
Musing I hate to break it to you, but your girl did that shyt intentionally. Females don’t make those kinds of mistakes. She’s probably on another blog telling that same story and laughing with her girls. LOL
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 11:26 AM | Link to this
mickiedee I think there is a negative stigma associated with online dating for older people because it is new technology. There is a huge learning curve for older people when grasping the concept of talking to someone “online”. They often find it harder to filter out the good from the bad. Where as, my generation grew up with computers, video games, and the like. We are more accepting and willing to try buying things, paying bills, and dating online. It’s just another way to meet more people. Kind of like advertising…Instead of going door to door, you can now advertise your “services” without spending all your time in the streets knocking on doors of people who don’t want your “services”…LOL
By Page1908
June 5, 2006 11:30 AM | Link to this
Morning Folks!
Runnin sup boo:)
Hey QC, Jazzy, 3rd, Gavi, Musing
NoStress thanks for the mail call. I am home sick today, so I am looking at it right now and will respond with my thoughts.
Said as I begin to mean-mug everyone who is clownin me about the Suns losing
By Della
June 5, 2006 11:30 AM | Link to this
@Kym You have just called me out. I call places for my husband all the time (places where I know I can call, pay telephone bill, make doctor’s appt. etc). He really thinks I am his assistant. That is just one of his “perks”.
And by the way, when men get married, they lose the ability to dial numbers. As for calling about “personal business” that just goes to show that the husband has no common sense because he should know already that IRS, Social Security, DDS and Fulton County jail are not going to give out his personal informaton.
By anonymousella
June 5, 2006 11:30 AM | Link to this
@della: i work @ tech too. that $50/month for parking is some b.s….lol. i don’t pay to park where i work. it’s bad enough i have to pay for the gas and the car…lol.
nah bk: that’s an honest mistake. otherwise, why would she call?
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 11:34 AM | Link to this
Della I’m glad to hear you admit that..Now tell your hubby “You were right baby”…He’ll appreciate that.
Blue Man I really don’t know…She was cheesing from ear to ear…I thought I had her..Hell, who knows. If she was really interested she could have called me back later in the week…
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this
@ BlueK - lol..u’re mean. @ Musing - she prolly did do that on purpose.. @AggW- girl..lol..that was funny as heck..the homeless guy macking.. once on Marta, i was sitting next to this lady who just started laughing out of now where..and started talking to herself and back and forth..freaky!! & sad..
@ RunninA - lol..i dont’ know man..uhh..what is MO??
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 11:35 AM | Link to this
Ummm Kym That’s not the fault of the sorry azz dude, but that of his overprotective, ‘gotta take care of my baby’ mama. You see this dude was never trained in Basic Man 101 and 102. So the faults of these males that you speak about still rest with a female. LOL
Agg Yeah, slim. LOL But you know they’re knocking them joints down though right? SE gon’ be all white in a minute. LOL
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 11:36 AM | Link to this
Kym, MWp handles most of my stuff becuase she doesnt work. I am too busy blogging and actually working to call for a docs appointment or complain about a bill or anything else. if a broad is at home all day then calling about these kind of things is the least she could do.
By Della
June 5, 2006 11:38 AM | Link to this
@Anonymousella
Now what gets me about the men on MARTA is that they will intentionally sit so as to stare at you. I have changed seats (have no problem with changing seats). I have moved to a new car (have not problem with that either). I have shown my ring (which does not seem to work). But men, get a grip. Every women you see is not interested in you. HINT: If she does not make “constant” eye contact with you, she is not interested.
HINT: If she feels your eyeballs on her and happens to look your way and turns her head, she is not interested in you.
HINT: If she is not smiling, she is not interested in you.
Get a clue! HINT: If I am walking down the street and turn my head before we pass, that means please do not speak to me.
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 11:39 AM | Link to this
Kym Ok, you are definitely talking about me in your vent…lol. I just don’t like calling customer service, no I actually hate it. Especially after my kids go to the doctor and I get a bill and I have to call the insurance company to find out why they haven’t paid the HCP yet, those people are the worst! All insurance claims reps are bad, then the cable people are second worst, then the home phone people, academics and finance office at school, then the cell phone people. So I’m very guilty of trying to pass that off to the person I’m seriously dating…lol. So do I still have to man up or can I get away with really not liking to talk to those people?
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 11:39 AM | Link to this
Sorry all but Heat will crush the Texadexians
Thick: The luxury liner, will be named after you sweetie
im my bassy Prince voice: to all on aboard L.L. class Yacht, Im firing up the grills at this time, thankyou.
By Aggressively witty
June 5, 2006 11:40 AM | Link to this
LOL @ musing driving by that traffic light at the same time for like 3 weeks trying to catch that broad again.
By chink
June 5, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this
Hey Runnin
How was your weekend ..just saw the email ….
By Page1908
June 5, 2006 11:41 AM | Link to this
I am going to disagree with the dude who mentioned that it matters where you meet a person. The location is really not that important to me. The person’s character and the way they treat (or mistreat) people is what I really notice.
Recently a dude that I met seemed to be a nice person (in the beginning), however he clearly had (low) self-esteem issues. When people are not happy with themselves, it doesn’t matter where you meet. It is what takes place after the meeting that is really signficant.
I see once again we have folks being hypocrites again, but then again, what else is new…lol sigh
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 11:43 AM | Link to this
Anon check Musings 11:34 post If she was really interested she could have called me back later in the week…
Chick just was quick witted. And Musing she may have done you a favor by not calling. Now y’all gotta say, that would be some funny shyt to pull on somebody. LOL
What does everyone else think about this female?
By Kym
June 5, 2006 11:44 AM | Link to this
@Della these are not just married folks who call, they are girlfriends, baby mamas, chicks who are “doing him a favor” My God I think my future mate is going to be a 70 year old dude with one foot in the grave, because the picking out hear are slim to none for men who actually have a set of working balls. Geez!!!
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 11:46 AM | Link to this
@DemiG - please make some veggie burgers for me..thanks.. Also complain is that, we need some sexy male masseuse on my side of the deck. Thanks suga.
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 11:46 AM | Link to this
I’m trying 2 meet some body 2 & so far no takers. Why is it fat people have a hard time meet n folk!!
I work, pay bills (most of dem), stay fresh and clean, but no big mama. DAYUUMMM
By Laney
June 5, 2006 11:46 AM | Link to this
morning everyone! Blue_Kolla, I agree with you; I think a lot of people tend to be less honest about where they met their mate if it was an online love connection. I know that when I first started finding dates online I was too embarrassed to admit it and had a lot of vague stories about “friend of a friend” to tell everyone who wasn’t a close buddy of mine! I feel more confident about it now that it’s a more accepted/common practice, but it definitely did take me a while to get there.
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 11:47 AM | Link to this
gavi Are you still covered in whip creme?….Oppps, did I say that out loud???HEHEHE
By Della
June 5, 2006 11:48 AM | Link to this
@Anonymousella When I started at Tech, everyone complained about the parking. Believe me, it is a campus thing. However, when I was at Duke, because of the building that I was in, I only had to pay $13.00 a month. So you know I was not going to pay $50.00.
Hey do you get to flex during the summertime? I work M-Thurs. with Fridays off. I can not complain about Tech too much considering they allow me to flex during the summer.
Also with the week off in December, I am a happy camper. We did not get a week off at Duke.
@MusingLee I like to just go. If we are going to go to the movies. Why do I need to find out where we are going and what time we are going. Let’s just get dress, drive by the threater, check out the time. If one is playing go see, if one is playing later, go eat and then go see.
But hey, that is just me. Other women maybe “planners.”
Travel is the same: once you get hotel, air and ground transporation what more do you need. When you get there ask around. I do not need to plan everyday of what we will do.
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 11:49 AM | Link to this
Hey Funkie thank i’d have a chance on eharmony?
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this
Sup Page
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this
Agg Dude, you are silly as hellz….LMAO…
Now pulling up at traffic light for the 6th time today, waiting on 93’ Light Blue Honda Civic with missing rear spoiler
Blue She surly did me a favor…I am more than happy with my SO right now.
By QC
June 5, 2006 11:51 AM | Link to this
Hey Page
Demi has your own special room on his new luxury yatch, it’s decorated in the SUNS colors just 4 U
Demi, i love your new name
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 11:52 AM | Link to this
Gavi What did I say that was mean. And… I see that you think that the chick did that on purpose as well
Della What you said is exactly why I don’t talk to chicks on the train. They’re all p*ssed off about having to go to work. LOL Besides, it’s a lot easier to play on the Palm Pilot than be nice to some mean azz broad anyway.
By the way, how do you know that they’re looking at you if you’re not looking at them? LOL
By chink
June 5, 2006 11:58 AM | Link to this
@Blue
I agree with u on the chick …can you have your number automatically blocked on a cellphone I was under the impression yu have to dial *67 first…..
By Della
June 5, 2006 11:59 AM | Link to this
@Kym Well, if I am dating someone (sorry runninatl), I am not handling any of his personal business whether he likes calling customer service or not.
Girlfriends think that is cute and that thier man really trust them if he has them calling all over town about his personal business. Girlfriends, get a clue! Your man is lazy. I bet if you asked him to call all over town for you, he would be like “handle your business, girl.”
I even have to “put my foot down with my husband”, because he will call me a work and try to give me a list of things to do (as if I work for him). Women, think on your feet. Have all the numbers that you think he could possibly ask for on hand, so when he calls just give him the number and say you are busy.
By Kym
June 5, 2006 11:59 AM | Link to this
@Runnin no there is no pass for you. I am sure you are wonderful dude. But when it is personal business, like your credit card bills why in the name of all that is holy would you want someone else speaking for you? Now in my job I deal with truly personal stuff, I work for the government. So there is no passing this off to wifey or hubby. You must call and get your own answers.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:00 PM | Link to this
LMAO @Agg LOL @ musing driving by that traffic light at the same time for like 3 weeks trying to catch that broad again.
…Because I (and every other honest dude) have done some dumb shyt like that, after missing the connection.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this
LMAO @Agg LOL @ musing driving by that traffic light at the same time for like 3 weeks trying to catch that broad again.
…Because I (and every other honest dude) have done some dumb shyt like that, after missing the connection.
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 12:03 PM | Link to this
One day I was having lunch at this small but popular inner city restaurant. These two women walked in that were gorgeous and super duper fine. Both had bodies like female super heroes. Every brotha in the place stopped eating and watched these girls walk to the take out counter. While the fellas were still staring with their mouths hanging open, I rushed both of them and asked if they would like to join me. They did and I proceeded to release this gift of gab. One seemed more interested than the other. So I focused my attention on her. About two weeks later, I was in this strip joint having a drink with a potnah and in walks the same young lady wearing a classy silk dress and some stilettos. She sits at a table in the back by herself. The waitress brings her a drink (that I did not see her order). About four or five dancers come up to her, give her a warm greeting, and then hand her stacks of money. She gets up smiles at me and walks out. I looked at my potnah and said “did just see that gansta shyt”. That’s a badd chick. I asked the bartender who she was and if she danced there. He said she never danced, that was not her hustle. fast forward I found her, pulled her, finessed her, fell in love with her, married her, now we have 3 babies and live in a big house in Atlanta. You never know.
By Della
June 5, 2006 12:08 PM | Link to this
@Blue I can feels theys eyeballs on me. LOL. You know how you are looking out the train and you turn you head and some knucklehead is staring at your face. You quickly look back out the window and start frowning giving him the hint to take his eyeballs off you. So a couple of seconds later you turn your head (because looking in one direction the whole time is just not possible) and the fool is still looking at you. The things you want to say to him but instead being a lady, you just turn your head and you keep it that way until it is time for you to get off the train. The discomfort we women have to experience.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:13 PM | Link to this
DuShawn I must say, you keep us with a good story pimpin’.
By queeng
June 5, 2006 12:15 PM | Link to this
Good afternoon everyone. I personally have did the exact same thing as JSC. I have met men at just about everywhere you can imagine. However, initially when I first met someone online, I would say I met him at the place of our initial meeting, which happened to be Starbuck’s. However, the man that I am with now I met online and things are going really well and I am very comfortable telling those close to me where I met him. I don’t think it matters that much because I have met someone at church who had no self-control and the guy that I am with now that I met online he is a man of good character, a man of his word and I am totally satified with the relationship. I have noticed that some on the guys that I have met through mutual acqaintances/family members etc. were the worst. I think you just have to find the right match and go beyond the physical because their are a lot of beautiful people in this world.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 12:15 PM | Link to this
Kym I hear you girl. If I’m not your wife or fiance, then you need to be handling your own business. Oh, or unless I’m benefiting from the service…. he he…
But as women, we are much more smarter than men so they rely on us to handle the business because they know it WILL get done. In relationships, everyone has a role. If one person is good at something, let them do it. So some of those women may just be good at handling the business. I would love to get the cell phone people strait about my man’s account. It’s what I’m good at. But I’m not good at cutting grass and chopping wood and crap like that so that’s when my man would have to MAN UP
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 12:16 PM | Link to this
DAYUM Dushawn!
Im throwing a 52oz steak on the drill for ya bro…thinking to myself I hope I dont read about him in the AJC’s non-living section.
Gavi You need to leave your Morris Chestnut clone along and man the yacht!
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 12:18 PM | Link to this
Blue & Agg Now I didn’t try to scope her out again…But there was a chick on the expressway that I tried to come up on…We exchanged eyes and she and I were smiling down the road at each other…It’s hard to exchange numbers at 70mph…The next day I got off work around the same time hoping I would see her again…But no such luck. I had plenty of time that day so I would have followed her to an exit to get her info…
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:19 PM | Link to this
Della LOL I think that you might be a little anxious on this one. Here’s one for you - maybe he’s actually exchanges pleasantries with the chick behind you. LOL But I will agree there are some weirdos on the train for real.
So are you one of those broads that are trying to run me over trying to get a seat or what?
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 12:19 PM | Link to this
@MusingL - nope..its a new day!! lol.. And i think i seen that car parked at Perimeter mall on Bloomingdale’s side. ( with a dude stealing kisses from the driver )..U’re really wasting Gas sweetie. @ Blue - K - i was talking about u talking to Musing..we both agreed. I just cant believe u confessed to something crazy like what Musing in doing right now!!
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 12:23 PM | Link to this
@DuShawn - how cute. She got game!!
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 12:24 PM | Link to this
What’s up Page Feel better!!
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 12:25 PM | Link to this
um, I just caught your comment Agg, eyeroll…I owe you one chump!
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 12:27 PM | Link to this
Now pulling up to traffic light for the 8th time today..Waiting on ole girl…….Ohh, the cop just pulled up, he giving me a funny look……now his siren is on….I’m now doing 110mph on I20, still bloggin!!!!
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 12:27 PM | Link to this
Gavi we must have been on the same Marta train! I hate when people smelling like pure pee pee try and sit next to you and hold a conservation. I am secretly gagging in my mouth…. yuck!
Blue I am not naive I am just me :o)
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 12:31 PM | Link to this
QC, whats for lunch?
musin the term is call horned-up: any person whom groin area is thinking for them.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:32 PM | Link to this
Gavi Every dude, ummm except DuShawn da Mack has done some wild shyt behind trying to establish that ‘connection’ with some chick. Just part of the game.
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 12:33 PM | Link to this
Big Bubba I don’t know about eharmony… How about you try Match.com or Lava life or better yet Big and Beautiful lovers.com…. That’s a start.. I don’t think anyone is going to take you up on your offer on here….
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:37 PM | Link to this
Third That’s cool. I was just saying that foolz have cash too, and to be careful.
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 12:39 PM | Link to this
ok how about when you meet people at the GoldRush Show Bar or Starship? Do you really tell people you your significant other in those type of places?? Now when I meet day laborers in Quicktrip or in the Home Depot I tell people I met them in Mexico and that they followed me back here. People don’t need to know EVERY detail!!
By Della
June 5, 2006 12:43 PM | Link to this
@Blue Yeah right! LOL.
Actually, I am one of those females wondering why everyone is crowding the entryway when they need to move along down the aisle. I am saying excuse me politely so as to stand (not in the entryway)in the aisle. Give me a break people. Does everyone have to stand at the door of the train or the bus? Move so I can get on!
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 12:44 PM | Link to this
Welcome luv2makeUsmile, you are too kind! Thank you.
By SeanJohnson
June 5, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this
as any one ever dated somone they met on this blog?
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 12:45 PM | Link to this
@ Demi - i see how it is..can a lady ask for some good service without being snapped at?? @ 3rd - girl..maybe..given that my last marta ride was more then a yr ago!! @Blue-K = I bet they’re funny, & crazy as heck. i would love to hear those stories guys!! puhhlezzz share…!!!
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 12:52 PM | Link to this
thinking to myself
Musin how did you get from the traffic light to i20?
as I hum young joc, ‘everybody love me/im so fly’….
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 12:55 PM | Link to this
Della That good and mannerly. When I was bringing my shorty with me, I was hoping that erybody would act right, ‘cause I really didn’t want to have to get physical ‘cause some knucklehead (man or woman) ran over my kid.
By G
June 5, 2006 12:55 PM | Link to this
Sup blog?! Good topic today.
Does where we meet influence how long we last? Clubs have typically been the shortest for me, and work-related have been the longest. I don’t meet any women at church, even though it’s full of women. Without being a member, how would I approach?………Maybe during the meet and greet portion of the service…..”God loves you and so do I; Speaking of which, I would love to invite you to lunch after service.” I don’t think so.
Does where we go give off anything about what we’re looking for? Absolutely. Typically in a club/lounge, you find the most eye-candy. Unfortunately, that’s the highlight and everything else is usually downhill from there. A song from BDP comes to mind…………..
Which meet-ups have been more successful? My better hook-ups have been business related. Women that I’ve met at work / related functions seem to be the most successful. Maybe it’s because the range of interest and discussion tends to be broader. If things don’t work out, I at least have a business network.
The worse meet-ups tend to be at a club. Diversity of people in all senses does exist; however, the majority seems to be club regulars. They speak a whole different language. It’s not that conducive to meaningful conversation because the music is so loud. It’s mostly a physical attraction thing, and other qualities are secondary. Yeah it’s shallow, but it is what it is.
Are people lying about where they meet? Well, only if you’re ashamed of how you met that person.
By Fraud Patrol
June 5, 2006 12:56 PM | Link to this
Sean John, of course; but once they get played out, they change their moniker and come back as someone else; isn’t that right, Luv2makeUsmile?
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 01:01 PM | Link to this
@ Sean…if by dating, you mean knocking boots, it wouldn’t surprise me.
Unfortunately I haven’t hit it with any bloggers, LOL.
By Jazzyone
June 5, 2006 01:03 PM | Link to this
^5 @ Fraud Patrol…
By QC
June 5, 2006 01:03 PM | Link to this
Demi not sure about lunch i’m so swamped here at work today
Gavi, Demi needs a menu along with a waitress to take his order for lunch today….
Musing, you are too funny….
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 01:06 PM | Link to this
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Consider this my official, gentle reminder. Please, Don’t make me have to start banning people today.
By Vanilla1
June 5, 2006 01:08 PM | Link to this
Oh my dayum the “Fraud Patrol” is on the prowl and also on point once again
Hey everyone i hope the day is going well for all of you.
Musing, i’m on the upper deck waiting for you to come “rub me down” ;)
By runninatl
June 5, 2006 01:10 PM | Link to this
Kym Ok, I feel you but I still think I deserve a pass because I’m not trying to dump the real important customer service calls on anyone…lol.
Sup chink, mine was good, how was your weekend?
LOL @ DuShawn, another classic story!
gavi MO is method of operation. I’m just saying if you are pre-screening every single dude then most likely your vibe is saying do no approach me a lot…lol. Like Techbabe said “No judgements people…opportunities are everywhere”.
By Della
June 5, 2006 01:16 PM | Link to this
@Blue Some people will just get on and push through or just stand at the door, but others know how to open their mouths and say excuse me. Some men will even give a lady a seat (very few). If I see a mother and child or someone elderly, I will give them my seat.
Some people are just ignorant and have no manners, and to tie this back in to the topic, that is what you are dealing with when you date people. Do they have manners, morals and common sense? You can meet a guy at a dumpster and if he has manners, morals and common sense, he will remove your trash from your car, talk to you with some common sense and respect you regardless of the “stinky” atmosphere. LOL.
By Fraud Patrol
June 5, 2006 01:21 PM | Link to this
we can get banned for telling the truth? But liars have carte blanche? nice!
By chink
June 5, 2006 01:22 PM | Link to this
runnin
It was alright ..went bowling had fun …relaxed
By chink
June 5, 2006 01:28 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Fraud
By QC
June 5, 2006 01:28 PM | Link to this
Out 2 lunch with my department, we’re celebrating a wedding
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 01:29 PM | Link to this
LOLOL @ Wise I haven’t knocked anyone boots on here but some interesting people have been emailing me… They seem nice and innocent at first but then they turn out to be Freaks They state that they are regular bloggers on here but when I try and look them up they are no where to be found…. and now that school is out we have to be careful about the kids blogging on here and setting up “identities” I better not see anyone on here end up on Dateline!!! I have made some cool new friends on here that I am excited about though!!
Thanks Blue I try to be careful….. I don’t want to end up on a episode of Cheaters
By Thick
June 5, 2006 01:29 PM | Link to this
I go to lunch and come back, WOW, here comes Fraud Patrol with the spill.
DuShawn you off the chain, but you know what you like.
No need to get serious on the blog, write, joke and have fun.
Welcome Luv2makeUsmile!
By SeanJohnson
June 5, 2006 01:29 PM | Link to this
Fraud Patrol man dont do them like that..lol…but on the real thats why i tend not to date off the net…although u can get to know the personality of a female and not just be caught up on looks its too easy to be what ever you want to be on the net. You can be the person u think you are and cover up all the stuff u dont like about yourself…example…females get the best pic at the best angle and post on their profile..and when u meet them they look they COULD be some kin to the person on that pic but not them..lol. and why have i run across so many curious or on the low bi females on the net…one page tsome are single ..educated and looking to meet the same..and another page has a thong pic and looking for your first experience with another female..
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 01:32 PM | Link to this
Fraud patrol, spare me that victim BS, please.
By DASvenus
June 5, 2006 01:38 PM | Link to this
della i been agreeing wit you allll day… lemme give you some dap!
By Thick
June 5, 2006 01:43 PM | Link to this
Dating online is just like any other impersonal situation. You don’t really know a person until you meet them personally and spend time together. So all the emailing and picture swapping is just that until you both meet face to face. For example not many of us on the blog really know each other, were blogging.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 01:44 PM | Link to this
Fraud I’m co-signing your 1:21 post. What’s up with that Wise?
By jon r
June 5, 2006 01:45 PM | Link to this
I met my wife at freanik twelve years ago, (nothing happened, we talk the whole day) so I can honestly say it doesn’t matter where u meet. We’ve been married for the last ten years and have two beautiful kids.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 01:45 PM | Link to this
Dushawn just getting back from lunch great story on that 12:03 post but what was your wife doing? Was she like a stripper pimp? No seriously, I’m lost…..
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 01:48 PM | Link to this
@ QC - Demi can starve..he wasn’t nice to me..so, i’m just gettin back at him.
@ RunninA - i have to do that pre-screening process cause i’m not wanting to waste his/my time. And i guess that’s why i complain bout my delimma’s..oh me, oh my!! what’s gonna happen.. sigh..
By Fraud Patrol
June 5, 2006 01:51 PM | Link to this
it’s your world, Lady in Red; I’ll appease; or aquiese, in this instance. I do find it quite funny that I said nothing out of the way, yet, you made a point to mention me when spitting the rules. I wonder if I was of your gender referring to a TAN, as some of you like to appropriately call them, would I be castigated and warned? Are men simply for fodder here, or is this something like a reverse lil rascals club, the she-man, men haters club? Where you allow your fellow sisters to smash, and bash us at will, but as soon as one of us replies with something of substance, that does not agree with popular opinion, it’s wrong? I got you now, ‘o Wise One.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 01:52 PM | Link to this
Aye Sean that fake pic is called a “Glamour Shot”. When I used to get on, if I saw one of those, I’d just keep it movin’.
Third LOL Cheaters is crazy. Now you know that dude and his crew definately have got some ballz, to be running up bustin’ dudes out and all that.
Vanilla Are you sidekickin’ for Fraud Just askin’, ‘cause you chimed right in on that joint.
By mickiedee
June 5, 2006 01:55 PM | Link to this
Thank you, Lah Lah. I kept waiting for someone to ask that question. Everyone kept saying great story but no one asked what Dushawn’s wife was doing. I kept thinking I must have missed something but I see I’m not the only one.
By Della
June 5, 2006 01:56 PM | Link to this
@DASvenus
Well thank you. The D is dating stands for Dangerous and the A equals Anything can happen.
I usually comment for the women and tell them to BE CAREFUL but I guess I should tell the men as well TAKE CARE OF YOURSELVES. I am just glad I do not have to date anymore, or wait for a call, or wonder if he he has money, if his credit is good, does he have regular check ups, and on and on. Not saying that marriage is a piece of cake but at least you know what you have and what you have to work with (sometimes).
I only dated to get married. That quickly turned a lot of guys off - good, because I knew what I was looking for and I was not out to play games. I did not do all my research beforehand and that is why I caution women today: INVESTIGATE. Know all before you get sucked in.
But if you both are really committed to one another any situation can be worked out together.
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 01:57 PM | Link to this
@ 3rd - girl..u still r watching too much cheaters i say!!
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 01:58 PM | Link to this
Well, if fraud patrol wants to put people on blast, why don’t they tell the entire truth? My guess is, there are half-truths, so FP, should keep it real (as much as one can on a blog, that is). Honestly, it’s not that deep. The blog is supposed to be fun, and I try to keep it positive.
Blue_kolla, there is a line that could get crossed, and I am in charge of preventing it. (You ain’t gotta like it, shoot somedays, I ain’t feelin it either, trust).
I personally would hate to see the blog close because of something ridiculous. Like I said, it was a warning to the people who needed it.
From where I sit, I have a responsibility, (I know, not a fun word like flying capes, podiums, and the other pleasantries we read), so I will handle mine. As visitors to AJC.COM, people should know the rules, that’s part of the experience of being on the website. We are all Adults, so we can handle rules though, right?
By Kym
June 5, 2006 02:00 PM | Link to this
@SeanJ LMAO…same can apply for the Twans of the net. You just have to talk and really get to know a person.
I would like to say ^5 to Diva. If you are mad at someone take that mess to the street
By Just wondering
June 5, 2006 02:01 PM | Link to this
Fraud Patrol, did you have a bad experience with someone on the blog and now have them scared to come out lurking and posting under a new moniker because they know you’re waiting to blast them? You speak indirectly but there seems to be a hint of salt in your posts. Is it possible it was an encounter gone bad? Just asking.
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 02:08 PM | Link to this
gavi you want good service?
Im now senting up MR.Marcus to your room now
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 02:10 PM | Link to this
Gavi I’m with Runnin on this one; you might want to stop stereotyping the situation here. Game is everywhere.
Funny Story: I meet this chick at the spot one time. So we’re kickin it and having a good time. It’s about time to roll out, so she writes her number down on a napkin. So I walk her to her car. She’s like, I’m going back to the hotel, call me, come on by for a little nightcap. I’m like, aight cool. Now this chick parked in the opposite direction from where I parked. So I get back to my ride and I’m looking for the number. (Completely out of my norm I had already put the number in my wallet.) So I’m looking everywhere for this number, emptying pockets and shyt. Then I’m like, “Dayum, I must’ve dropped the digitz on the ground.” So what does a brother do in this case? Sheeittt he backtracks to find that number! Now do you know how stupid I must’ve looked at 2 in the morning, I’m out there walking around an empty azz parking lot, picking up napkins and shyt. If I hadn’t been dressed decently, peeps might’ve thought I was homeless or something. Anyway, I don’t find the joint so I chalk that up as a loss and roll back to the ride. I get to my car and something says, “Yo look in the wallet.” I looks in the wallet and there is the napkin, folded up nice and neat. I’m like ain’t this a beyotch.
That’s an example of the dumb shyt that dudes do to make that connection.
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 02:13 PM | Link to this
@Lah Lah good question… Let me preface my answer with this. After I initially gave her my number, it took 3 months for her to call me. I had given up. When she did finally call, she explained that she was in a relationship and wanted to end it respectfully before starting to date someone else. Which I thought was admirable. Additionally, it took another 3 months (and about 50 dates) before we slept together. (That needed to be said, my previous post portrayed wifey as kinda whorish and nothing could be further from the truth.)Now, what she was doing to get that money was providing housing for a lot of the dancers. She owned a few rental properties in the hood and allowed the dancers to rent rooms. Most dancers that come from out of town stay at hotels and have to pay daily. This was much more economical for them and they appreciated it.
By Thick
June 5, 2006 02:13 PM | Link to this
I totally understand what Diva is saying about the rules, you take chances when you internet (Blog) date. And yes, people (men or women) may have a point but you have find a better way of explaining yourself; keep it real, keep it positive, most of all have fun. We all some hypocrites on this blog becasue we are all joking and saying things we probably would say if you met us in public.
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 02:13 PM | Link to this
Vanilla Girl I am on my way up to the Upper Level….I hope you are wearing that cowboy hat like I asked…I’m bringing the saddle and the leather oil…LOL
By js
June 5, 2006 02:15 PM | Link to this
musing do you have a red bike and did the car you pull up on was black…
By Fraud Patrol
June 5, 2006 02:15 PM | Link to this
not at all. It just isn’t hard to decipher the real from the fake. that’s all. I’m married, so no blog hook ups for me.
By Kym
June 5, 2006 02:16 PM | Link to this
Why in the heck are folks coming on here using those replacement club names? What are you scared of? How old are you four, fourteen? Mannnnn you are kidding me? “Singing the respect me as an adult song and yet you are too scared to speak your mind under your original id?” Highschool… just like highschool, all we need is a gym, some bleachers, and a few slam books. Then we would know who did, who under the bleachers after 3rd period lunch.
By storm
June 5, 2006 02:20 PM | Link to this
GOOD AFTERNOON BLOGGERS! Great topic, Diva! I have nothing to add. Everyone has said it, one way or another. It isn’t where you meet, it’s the character of the person and whether or not you vibe that determines whether it works and how long it works. Thanks for the compliment on your early post, Gaavi. Page I’m sorry about your Suns. I would like to understand what happened, though, cause the came out swingin then in the second half, it was like they had been smokn somethin when they came back!
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 02:21 PM | Link to this
JustW I think that it’s self-evident that he’s had an experience with someone on the blog and it’s probably an issue of authenticity, ya think. Now that’s just my common sense deductive reasoning working there.
Wise I hear you, although this blog is no where near as outrageous as some others, but do your job as you see fit. That’s the major perk that comes with being the boss.
Mickie …no comment LOL
By SeanJohnson
June 5, 2006 02:22 PM | Link to this
@Kym…u a fool for calling them Twans..lol..
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 02:23 PM | Link to this
JS You know send me a pic and I’ll tell you if that was my red bike or not….Hehehe
By Kym
June 5, 2006 02:23 PM | Link to this
@Thick Not me! I am a smartass all the time.
By storm
June 5, 2006 02:25 PM | Link to this
DuShawnthanks for clearing that up. I just finished reading that story and was like LahLah, wondering how that ended with a happily ever after! LOL!
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 02:27 PM | Link to this
did somebody say, they job is haveing a buffet? i wanna come. holla @ yo boy.
By storm
June 5, 2006 02:29 PM | Link to this
Off topic: After watching Suns crash and burn, my cousins and I went to Strips to get drinks. Had never been. That place is MEAT MARKET heaven, if there’s a such thing! LOL!
By DASvenus
June 5, 2006 02:29 PM | Link to this
runninatl… comeon, its not just us. your online male counterparts claim to a six-pack… they fail to add “of gum”. and apparently ‘outgoing’ means ‘i will put my hands on you’ and ‘great personality’ is ‘i will be laughing when i do’. we respond to your ad or whatever, agree to give you our personal email addy and im screen-names, but when we say no to a phone call on the second day you call us out our names…. i understand you want to verify that you are speaking with a female, but really how much of lost would it be to wait a couple of more days before insisting on a phone call? also sent a pic, in case you need assurance that us good girls do exist
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 02:30 PM | Link to this
DuShawn WTF? LOL
*I’m gonna retire to the Pool. Smells like Bull Shiznit in here. *
By della
June 5, 2006 02:30 PM | Link to this
@Thick Unless you are just butt ugly. I give people my exact height, weight, skin complexion and so on. I always say I look average as in if you were to put me in a catergory with the Cosby girls. I would be in the Vanessa’s category. When I did the online dating, I took pictures on my camera phone, so they were not glamour shots but people still said I did not look like myself. So you just have to expect you are not going to meet Halle Berry if you do not look like Boris. Plain and simple.
Some people think they look better than they do, especially men so they always want a Vanessa Williams (the singer/actor) when they should be happy with the Vanessa Williams (the actor).
By Ms.Elusive
June 5, 2006 02:37 PM | Link to this
secretly loving that broad has become part of the ajc lexicon. What word can I add next? bamma, nah joe, siced, YRB?
@AggressivelyWitty OMGoodness… I haven’t heard some of those since I was a teen holding it down in PG County. Coulda sworn some of those were specific to the area. You from DC Metro area by chance?
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 02:40 PM | Link to this
Blue_Kolla, thanks..the reason it’s not as bad as the others is because I am busting my hump, and yet…I get questioned on it constantly..like I care, but ..jus saying
LOL @ Fraud, your intention is to post “something of substance”? …I’ll wait for it then
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 02:40 PM | Link to this
@Fraud - Funny - because I came on under another name to mess with my IT department/the people watching my happenings at work. They know I have been accessing this site and since I am home sick I figured it would be better for me to come under another screen name while on today - not because I dated someone on this site. Wow, that was one mystery you did not solve. So now, who am I?
@Wise Diva - You know me very well. Just think Proud Mama and ya got me. People will always try to strike at others uncalled for yes, but they still do it - we know the reasons psychologists have given to explain this type of behavior but it still does not make it right.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 02:43 PM | Link to this
Kym/Storm Y’all stupid! LOL
By storm
June 5, 2006 02:44 PM | Link to this
DASvenus Dats sum funny shyt! ROFLMAO!!
online male counterparts claim to a six-pack… they fail to add “of gum”. and apparently ‘outgoing’ means ‘i will put my hands on you’ and ‘great personality’ is ‘i will be laughing when i do’.
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 02:46 PM | Link to this
@ LahLah - thanks.. i was wondering myself for the rest!! @ Demi - Thanks..Markus fits my type!! I did sent the menu out to u as well. @ Blue K = its hard to do so!! But i will try and NO game ain’t everywhere!! Nice story ..i’m glad u found the number but what happen after that. @ Storm - that place is nice..to the eyes on friday nites girl..and u welcome.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 02:46 PM | Link to this
LahLah You stupid too.
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 02:47 PM | Link to this
Any booty want 2 meet me @ golden corral 4 dinna.
By Vanilla1
June 5, 2006 02:47 PM | Link to this
Blue_Kollar are you going to the pool on the “lower deck”, if so can you bring me some oil i don’t have any more left, thanx!
By Jackie
June 5, 2006 02:47 PM | Link to this
Good Afternoon ALL,
I am lurking today……too busy….just wanted to say Hey and I agree that if doesn’t matter where you meet someone, just be glad you meeting people. I have tried online dating, it can be good or bad depending on how you approach it. I advise that you meet sooner than later to see the real person.
Dushawn Boy, you have THE BEST STORIES. And they always have some unforseen twist…..I would’ve thought your wife was a female pimp,too. Kym, well said.
By Thick
June 5, 2006 02:51 PM | Link to this
@Kym you are hillarious. LOL
@Della I give people the same honest information, but everyone does not do that, true they should. People are just blogging, and in that they over describe themselves. That’s why I said until you meet face to face it’s just a blog, internet dating, etc.
P.S. I think I am beautiful, but beauty is in the eys of the beholder.
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 02:54 PM | Link to this
@Blue Is that so hard to believe? Now on the realla, you know the dancers were trickin out of those boarding houses. But she stayed out of that as long as that rent was paid. However, when I saw what the business was, I had to get in where I fit in. Believe it or not bruh. And to speak on the time frame before we got together, that’s the gospel. I would take her out on a date get home, say our good byes and call over some sho shot action. It took a long time for me to infiltrate this one and I was undefeated, confidence at an all time high. She was different. She was special. (play boy, I ain’t lie to kick it, that’s real talk)
By chink
June 5, 2006 02:55 PM | Link to this
Pics are pretty tricky sometimes….I admit I have a glamour shot pic (its a nice pic..not too much makeup …it was taken because I didnt have nice pictures of myself ….not for online dating) but I look the same well probably better in person ….no pun intended …
Sometimes people look really different in pictures and what they look like in person and I think thats when it is a very sensitive situation
Thats why I dislike meeting people online everything is cool in the beginning than its the share pic stuff and then things change ..oh well .what can u do …
By storm
June 5, 2006 02:57 PM | Link to this
WD handle yo bidnis and regulate!
Sup Blue!
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 02:58 PM | Link to this
Dushawn thanks for clearing that up. Can’t knock that hustle….Smart girl.
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 03:00 PM | Link to this
Hey Gravy
will u and Funkie b my friends. got some buffet coupons, may b we could meet 4 a snack.
Shoot, just look n 4 some fun and good folk.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 03:02 PM | Link to this
Blue why do you say that I’m stupid? Because I’m buying Dushawn’s story? You don’t believe him. you might not want to start talking about that man’s WP
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:05 PM | Link to this
Gavi I knew yo nozey azz wasn’t gonna let that go by without knowing how late I got home. LOL
Vanilla I’m going to the Pool that has some shade. Sunlight makes BullShiznit really stink.
Wise I hear you.
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 03:06 PM | Link to this
Vanilla I brought back some extra oil…I hope you don’t mind peanut?!?!
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 03:07 PM | Link to this
Big Bubba you need Jesus!!!! Don’t nobody want to meet you big greesy, ignorant behind at Golden Coral. You probably sitting at your computer desk right now breathing all hard….. Snoring but you’re wide awake. Trying to find that ham samich you left in one of your rolls….
Sorry Wise I couldn’t help it.
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 03:07 PM | Link to this
Aww Junk, Holla @ yo boy Thick is u thick 4 reel.
i mite have found what i was look n 4. hit me up Big Mama.
By Della
June 5, 2006 03:10 PM | Link to this
@Thick Meet early and you save yourself the hassle. If possible, if you find yourself talking all night long, meet the next day for coffee. Do not waste each other’s time.
@DuShawn Good example that you can meet people anywhere - it is the character of the person that matters, and what each person is looking for in the relationship.
Golden Rule: be honest and up front. If you are just out to have fun, say so. If you are looking for a mate, say so. If you just want someone to go to dinner and the movies, say so (and women so the men will not get the wrong idea, pay for your meal and your movie pass).
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:10 PM | Link to this
@DuShawn Aight champ, you got it. On the real, that whole story sounded like some serious movie material, BUT, since I really don’t know for a fact, we’ll call it a push. Next deal…
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 03:12 PM | Link to this
1 more thing Fraud Patrol it would be in your best interest to know who you are attacking before you attack. Especially, since you could be attacking you had never intended to attack in the first place. I am not your Private Dancer - but only one who loves things that are Divine.
By storm
June 5, 2006 03:12 PM | Link to this
LahLah pay BK no mind! Sounds like he’s been sippn on hateraid.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:17 PM | Link to this
LahLah Stupid as in funny to me. I don’t speak on peeps’ woman, be the wife, girlfriend, mother, sister, chick on the side, or ho. I have a little bit of style.
Chink What you can do is reserve those Glamour Shots for the mantle over the fireplace.
By QC
June 5, 2006 03:18 PM | Link to this
Demi….
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 03:19 PM | Link to this
Blue Cheaters is off the chain!!! Did anyone see this weekend???
By Thick a.k.a.
June 5, 2006 03:19 PM | Link to this
LahLah in regards to Big Bubba, girl Thank You, that’s what I’m talking about crazy, crazy, crazy!!!
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
@Jackie She had other hustles too. She kept good credit. So she would rent cars for dope boys and they would break her off grands upon their return. She had a boosting crew, that would kill mall and flood the block with designer gear. The girl was badd (None of this information was initially divulged, it took years before we trusted one another enough to reveal all of our revenue sources.)As I got to know her and hang out with her, I noticed she was highly respected in many circles. Some hustlers that didn’t know me, knew her. Now both of us have squared up. She’s about to be an RN and I’m doing my corporate/real estate investment hustle. Now that we have the kids, we are like Bonnie and Clyde turned Ozzie and Harriet. But we still wild out when we get the chance.
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
LahLah
u must wanna see what dis b bout. butt u aint redy 4 this heavy duty…sides if u under 200, i ain’t got no love n 4 u.
now get n there an make me 3 ham samiches, wit yo high hills on.
By js
June 5, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
MUSING why don’t u send me a pic…u should already know what i look like if that was really you…
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
Are there any Ladies making drinks for us guys on this cruise? I would like a Starbucks Style Frapicinno….
By QC
June 5, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
Hey D1
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:22 PM | Link to this
ILove2 @Fraud - Funny - because I came on under another name to mess with my IT department/the people watching my happenings at work. They know I have been accessing this site and since I am home sick I figured it would be better for me to come under another screen name while on today - not because I dated someone on this site.
So what does all of that mean, you’ll be And tell us some other yourself when you get back to work and your IT department is checking again. Just so you know, they know everything that you do on their network and can see you, in real time, as you do it. Do not think that by blogging at home that you are messing with them. And while you’re at it, stop fuggin with us, because we’re really not that dumb. LOL
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 03:24 PM | Link to this
Storm I don’t think Blue meant any harm. I’ll let him slide with the “stupid” remark this time. I’m not wounded so I won’t holler. I think he was just saying I was being naive for buying Dushawns story. He just has a poor choice of words sometimes. Right Blue????
By Thick
June 5, 2006 03:25 PM | Link to this
@Della Thanks, I’ll have used the first half of that Golden Rule, but the pay for your meal and movie pass I have not used, I think I’m going to try it on my next date. This will at least let him know that I am not trying to use him for anything.
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 03:28 PM | Link to this
My last comment also goes out to those who co-signed with Mr. Fraud - especially since this person (Mr. Fraud) is using an alias while trying (unsuccessfully this time) to bust others
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 03:29 PM | Link to this
Man Fraud Patrol,as remove my captain uniform and place on my instigator jersey #33, how can we be sure you’re not a fraud yourself?
QC, you are needed in the captain’s jacuzzi
By Kym
June 5, 2006 03:30 PM | Link to this
WD Tell the ajc folks to leave you alone. As a loyal reader since there was a Journal and a Constitution. They need to give it a rest. Go check the nutters over on Mike L’s or some of the other blogs. When Rick Badie does a race story I am pretty sure some flags and robes come out and not the good kind. So tell them to give it a rest.
By chink
June 5, 2006 03:31 PM | Link to this
LOL @ blue
Ok
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:31 PM | Link to this
Storm Don’t trip if you don’t know the lingo. I’ve already given the definition:
stupid = slang term meaning funny, comical
No need for me to hate slim. None of y’all pay any of my light, gas, mortgage, daycare, clubbin, or any other bills. So my care for you is zero.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 03:32 PM | Link to this
blue i got you baby…. I figured you didn’t mean it in a bad way. i didn’t take it personally.
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 03:33 PM | Link to this
js I don’t do the bike thing…I was just fool’in with you…I was in my trunk when I approached that young lady…You can still send me a photo, I’ll give it a rating for you and get back at you…Page by the way, why do you have the same pose for all of your pictures…That must be the tried and tested head turn..LOL…hehehehe
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 03:34 PM | Link to this
LahLah is sipping on vinegar flavored hater-aid.
By Rell
June 5, 2006 03:37 PM | Link to this
i think deshaun is a stand up dude…i believe him more so than your boi LL, one thing about life people…you not always winning..so keep doing your thing and spitting that real dashawn
By storm
June 5, 2006 03:37 PM | Link to this
Worry LahLah had to go back and read what started all that. I knew when he said it to me that he meant funny. And I cosign post on Bubba! LMAO! I’m out. Have a good evening, ALL!
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:39 PM | Link to this
LahLah My mistake is that, When in Rome do as the Romans do, which I have not. I have shown little tact in communicating with the southern female species. You all have taken offense unneccessarily. I am so sorry and do truly apologize.
Y’all know I tried right? But naah, I’ve explained exactly what I meant and if you’re offended my bad (Wise I cleaned that up).
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 03:39 PM | Link to this
hey Blue, if you can try not to use ‘stupid’ if you can. I understand the slang, but it is a an offensive word even for me.
play ‘I hear your body calling’ for QC
By storm
June 5, 2006 03:39 PM | Link to this
Ooops! Meant Sorry, not worry. These Fatazz fingers!
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 03:42 PM | Link to this
What up QC - funny I was just minding my own business trying to comment did not say hello to anyone to draw attention to myself - and get attacked out of nowhere.
@Blue_Kolla - Please tell me why I would fugg wit you? I explained myself and please believe I know what IT is capable of finding out. Unfortunately, one of the people who I know to be an expert did not use his skills today because if he had he would not have made the mistake he made earlier (attacking the wrong person). I have friends in IT who have let me know my profile is being watched so I have not been on here for awhile. I am home sick and figured I would pop on and comment under another name since the one I have used in the past may get me in trouble and out of nowhere here comes Mr. Fraud trying to attack the wrong person. So, BTFU Mr. Blue - I have done nothing to you.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 03:42 PM | Link to this
3rd I didn’t see Cheaters this weekend. What happened? Did anyone get stabbed? Ain’t nothing like a good “shank.” I was tempted to watch it but if I watched Cheaters on a Saturday night, I would be admiting to myself that I had NO LIFE so I just went to sleep. Oh, I’m not saying that if you watch Cheaters you don’t have a life but I feel pretty pathetic if I’m watching it on a Saturday night.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:43 PM | Link to this
Musing/JS Y’all stupid. That’s called ‘baiting a hook’ and ‘No I’m not bitin’ LOL
By storm
June 5, 2006 03:44 PM | Link to this
As I posted to LahLah, BK, I had to go back and read what was written. It was a missunderstanding. But you do soud like you been sippn on hatraid questioning agwit’story. Its just a blog dude! Lighten up!
By QC
June 5, 2006 03:45 PM | Link to this
Demi, i’m trying to balance my report right now so i’m getting off the yatch until tomorrow
Have a great evening all!
By Big Bubba
June 5, 2006 03:46 PM | Link to this
Mr. Frauds
i got a fraud. i want all of the over wait lovas exposed. i no they hideing. List them out. Mr. Fraud, please tell me who they b.
By Page1908
June 5, 2006 03:46 PM | Link to this
So, is lovetomakeyousmile really Divine 1? LOLOL….what is all this mess about people blasting folks, coming in under different names, using 3-5 different names? Sheesh!!
Musing lol it’s not the same pose sweetie…trust there are many more where those came from….rolling eyes
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 03:47 PM | Link to this
musing Page’s pictures are beautiful but I said the same thing. “that must be her signature pose.” Page I’m not hating. I’ve got a signature pose too. If I’m standing up, my hand will no dought be on my hip. It’s just what I do.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:49 PM | Link to this
LahLah I didn’t think that you took that wrong. I think that you and I have an understanding on matters of diction.
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 03:49 PM | Link to this
1 more F’ing thing - It takes a lot to make me mad (those who know me from my posts know I prefer peace to discord) but you are truly about to make the Scorp in me come out. I have done nothing to you but you choose to ride on the back end of someone who for no reason has attacked. WTF - you must have been one of the dudes that was duped by this chick (Private Dancer) because you certainly sound heated. Don’t jump on a bandwagon if you have no idea where it’s going to because you will definitely end up lost, hurt or broken (cuz ya fell off the cliff). As I said before, get with your boy Fraud Patrol - I’m sure he can explain everything!!!!!!
By storm
June 5, 2006 03:50 PM | Link to this
LahLah I hadn’t read what transpired, but you sounded like you were offended. My bad. I knew he meant funny when BK posted that to me, as well.
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 03:57 PM | Link to this
Lah Lah @ your 3:07 post… LOLOL you are soooo wrong but sooo funny for that!!! Speak the truth girl!!!
By Page1908
June 5, 2006 03:57 PM | Link to this
LOL LahLah thanks…lmao. Actually, if anyone has emailed me before, then they may have noticed my email address and would know why I have many poses. The number of poses I have are endless…lol
By Thick
June 5, 2006 03:59 PM | Link to this
“Southern Female Species” calling all takers, and I know it’s some out there. Don’t worry we meeting early so that there will be no misunderstanding about looks, words spoken (body language is present), and who’s who!
@LahLah & 3rd don’t worry I did not watch Cheaters either, I spent all night debating with some freinds about whether marriage was what we wanted and if so how would we go about such a task? Long discussion, but got some good stuff out of it. That Talk Black Atlanta had me thinking.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 03:59 PM | Link to this
Aight Cap’n Save’em I mean Cap’n Demi I’ll go with a better choice of words, just for y’all.
Ilove2 Maybe the “BTFU” was reserved for the wrong individual. I commented on your explaination, which once it hits this board is fair game for all. But as I told DuShawn, we’ll call it a push. Next Deal…
Storm I didn’t question anything that Agg said. What I said was that DuShawn always keeps us with a good story.
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 03:59 PM | Link to this
LahLah - u’re silly girl..and yeah let him know..will ya!!
@ BigB -KFC is having a Sale..i suggest u run!! @ Blue-K = so finish u’re story..i know i’m nosy!!
By Kym
June 5, 2006 04:00 PM | Link to this
Mannnnn this place is exciting. Strippers, Hustler King Pins, men pretending they are superheros, Villians, etc.. Mysteries and secret identities. I think I have walked into the blackhole of blogs. What will pop out next?
By DASvenus
June 5, 2006 04:02 PM | Link to this
blue_k i have watched what went down betw you and lah and i agree you meant no harm… we southern girls arent THAT sensitive… not this is one at least! kisses ( a little love cause brutha you had a loonng afternoon)
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 04:03 PM | Link to this
Ilove2 I didn’t have a ticket for that 3:49 train. Was supposed to get on that one?
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 04:05 PM | Link to this
Ironically, a couple of weeks after that initial meeting with wifey. I was in the same restaurant (it’s called Laguna’s 7th ave and 32nd street in case you’re in the MIA). I met this other young lady. Started dating her. She was always talking about her religious beliefs and her church and pastor. She went on an on about how she was a righteous woman. I started knockin her off in about a week. After about the 4th or 5th time. Church girl told me she was having trouble paying her bills. She asked to borrow a few hundred. I gave it to her. She never paid me back, stopped calling me and moved.
By Ms.Elusive
June 5, 2006 04:05 PM | Link to this
No need for me to hate slim. None of y’all pay any of my light, gas, mortgage, daycare, clubbin, or any other bills. So my care for you is zero.
Daaayum Blue
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 04:06 PM | Link to this
blue oh so kind you! *as lock the gate to the pool
By 3rdwheelflunkie
June 5, 2006 04:06 PM | Link to this
Lah Lah I know I don’t have a life!! I was doing homework and watching Cheaters. On Saturday it was about two lesbians and a black couple. You know the black couple was off the chain…. I thought she was going to beat him…. Now Jerry Springer was scary… They had this obese woman on there with 5 panis places on her body and she would not keep her clothes on…. I couldn’t sleep after seeing that. Made me want to do sit-ups and break out my theighmaster!! Sleep sounds good right now……. I miss my bed!
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 04:08 PM | Link to this
LahLah girl.. u r making me laugh today..the cheaters one was funny as heck!!
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 04:08 PM | Link to this
Blue do you and js have some history? I don’t want Fraud trying to call me out for something I have no knowledge of….LOL
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 04:09 PM | Link to this
Gavi I said earlier that I have a little bit of style, whereas I should’ve said style, class, and finesse - meaning that’s personal business between two adults and details are not to be discussed with third parties.
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 04:13 PM | Link to this
@*Blue_Kolla - Being that I have been commenting on this board for about a year and a half I know everything is fair game. However, your comment about stop fuggin with us - when I fully explained myself was uncalled for. Your boy (Fraud Patrol) thought he was exposing someone else (Private Dancer), not me and obviously you must have thought the same thing. I have not been on this site for a while and when I come on it’s very brief as opposed to before when I came on pretty much every day. Anyhoo, again all I’m going to say is don’t co-sign anything when you don’t really know the real deal.
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 04:15 PM | Link to this
hey DASv LahLah knows what time it is with me. Just a misunderstanding between Storm and myself; but I think that we have in firmly in hand, right Storm LOL (had to borrow that Lah)
Yo Bubba Just catch the train at 5:00. There are more big babes on there than you can shake a stick at. Just make sure that none of them is named Della. LOL
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 04:18 PM | Link to this
Kym that’s what keeps this blog exciting…All of the characters…LOL
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 04:19 PM | Link to this
Oh no u didn’t!! @ Blue- K ..then why the heck did u start..well i’m just gonna make my own conclusion then!! we don’t appreciate half-way stories!! thanks a bunch !
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 04:19 PM | Link to this
@Blue - YUP!!!!! Again, since you insist on thinking I am someone else ask your boy Fraud who it really is typing these words. OH - That’s right you probably have no clue who Fraud is, do you?
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 04:19 PM | Link to this
Kym you are so right
as I walk through thongs of beautiful blog women
By Tazzee
June 5, 2006 04:21 PM | Link to this
Dang smile (I don’t feel like typing your whole name) that cough medicine must be getting to you becuase I’ve never seen you get that upset about something so meaningless as blogging. Don’t let it get to you lady…
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 04:21 PM | Link to this
LahLah girl when I saw Page’s photos I said..”She went and sent me all the same photos” And not one of them had her in ther Pheonix Suns outfit…Hehehehe
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
MsE All I do is call strikes when I see strikes
Demi Aight bruh, gimme da key dapps
Musing Naah dude, gots no history with JS
ILove2 I’ll be the bigger man and apologize, “My badd” Offers handshake to seal the deal
Third Dayum you make me want to come take you to lunch just on the pick-a-sistah-up tip. Look we gon’ work on that.
By DASvenus
June 5, 2006 04:22 PM | Link to this
dushaw mane, ….. are you serious? why would you give her money, was (it) that good?? (wise one, i kept it clean.)
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 04:23 PM | Link to this
@Fraud Patrol I think you really need to explain yourself while you still can.
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 04:27 PM | Link to this
I need everyone to find a happy hour, go home take an ex-lax, and let ish go.., LOL…seriously!!! It is SOO not that deep!!!!
let’s get back to discussing things that are helpful to people. If we can, that would be great, and I am NOT talking about 8 hrs of talking about JUST dating. We have had great conversations in the last few weeks, before all the juvenile stuff popped off. Let’s upgrade the blog…don’t make me beg!!!
By anonymousella
June 5, 2006 04:30 PM | Link to this
@blue_kolla: i saw musing’s post. it’s also possible that she figured musing wasn’t interested since he didn’t (couldn’t) call her.
@chink: yes, on some phones, it’s possible to change your settings so that your number comes up as private. no need to dial *67 first.
@della: it’s not just a university thing. newspapers do it too. that’s why i started riding marta. i just have a problem giving money back to my employer…LOL. i don’t do flex time, though i may have to consider it. but hell, i’m trying to leave anyway. i’m paid well below market rate for my position and experience.
lol @dushawn: oh lawd, thought you was married to a pimp…lol. … and upon further reading i see you are married to a (formerly?)shady broad. er uh, can she get a hook up on one of them black macbooks? and if not does she know somebody who can?
By Kym
June 5, 2006 04:31 PM | Link to this
I guess Musing it does but it is so entertaining.
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 04:33 PM | Link to this
@Tazz - I know, I know - usually I’m the one trying to calm the situation down between fellow bloggers. However, this situation is a little different - I will call you later. I swear, you know I always keep my cool no matter how deep the situation gets but again I came on under that name for the reason I gave - you know the company I work so you know the deal. It just burns my arse when people attack others for no reason (you of all people should know this is one of my pet peeves) and for someone who I know to do this unknowingly to me is really messing with me. It’s all well and good that he had no clue it was me, but thought it was someone else - but the fact that he had no reason to just burns me up. And then this little BK fella who is just jumping on you-know-who’s band wagon does not know when to concede and let it go. BTW, how are you? Do you check your gmail regularly?
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 04:33 PM | Link to this
Wise It sounds like you need a peanut oil massage…I’ll grab my bottle and be right over…Do I still have to wear that Man thong? They really aren’t that comfy.
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 04:34 PM | Link to this
old great and powerful wise one
For now on, i will act grown!
prep’n LazyBoy for pre-flight check
By gavi1126
June 5, 2006 04:34 PM | Link to this
have a good one ya’ll…
By Fraud Patrol - Sgt
June 5, 2006 04:37 PM | Link to this
a committee has been formed. govern yourselves accordingly.
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 04:38 PM | Link to this
@DASvenusBy the time I gave her the bread, she and I were real cool and I enjoyed her company. Additionally, she was a single mother trying to make ends meet. I know how rough it could be. Back then, I was sittin on many stacks anyway, so I could stand to lose it. But I was surprised at how she went out. I never even asked her for the money back.
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 04:38 PM | Link to this
shaking my head @ Musing and Demi - ya’ll need to find TWO happy hours, LOL. I give up.
By Kym
June 5, 2006 04:39 PM | Link to this
WD Know lets be real for a sec this is the prime example of a bad date right here for us to observe. Man meets Woman-Woman tells lies, Man gets drawn into lies-Woman gets caught in lies. An in the case of this story who knows what happen it could be Man and Woman both lie-then they get caught up and now everyone is salty about the lie so what do you do. Well instead of blasting them on a poster like Samatha did in Sex in the City. You blast them on the blog. Now it would be nice if they would drop the phony names and tell the whole story, maybe Dr. Phil could guest blog and help them. LMAO This is toooooooooo funny!!!
By Thick
June 5, 2006 04:39 PM | Link to this
Okay Diva, Woooosaaaaaaa, Letting it go, please don’t be angry. It’s Parrot Bay night!!!
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 04:39 PM | Link to this
@Wise don’t make me beg!!! That statement gives that impression that you are willing to beg, and if so, beg for what? LOL J/K
@Everyone No need for me to hate slim. None of y’all pay any of my light, gas, mortgage, daycare, clubbin, or any other bills. So my care for you is zero. -Blue_Kolla
I didn’t mean for that to sound that raw. So there is no hate for anyone here and I ain’t got nuthin’ but love for y’all… Have a great evening.
Said as I get ready to roll out…
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 04:42 PM | Link to this
Have a good one Ms. Gavi!!!! Although I thought you left at 5 like me.
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 04:42 PM | Link to this
@Wise Diva - I would like to apologize for my behavior today. I know I’m usually the one trying to diffuse the issues but today was a little too much for me. I’m not going to say another word. As Tazz always says “I’ve got to let grown folks do, what grown folks do”. So again, I apologize.
@Tazz — I just caught what you said. You know, I love my codeine (sp). LOL.
@BK (okay, why am I thinking of the Burger King guy -LOL) - I accept your apology. Now go sit down somewhere and write 100x I will not fugg with all that is Divine. LOL.
By DuShawn
June 5, 2006 04:44 PM | Link to this
@anon She was never shady, just smart.
While most were stuck in traffic on their way to work, We would be on the chalks sea plane going to bimini for lunch.
By Ms.Elusive
June 5, 2006 04:45 PM | Link to this
LOL @ Musing
By Blue_Kolla
June 5, 2006 04:48 PM | Link to this
ILove2 Look here chick, I offered an apology a long time ago. But I see that you want to keep up the drama. You could’ve called your girl on the phone since yall know each other so well or hit her on sidebar. You are full of… I better not say that.
I see Anonymous has the courage to call a strike when she sees one.
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 04:49 PM | Link to this
Wise I will also bring over the Captain Morgans Rum…
Now singing “got a lil’captain in ya” while holding one leg up
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 04:49 PM | Link to this
oh, no anger here.. just trying to help.
By LahLah
June 5, 2006 04:49 PM | Link to this
You all are highly entertaining!!! If we open back up the Lurkesville Community Pool, I may have to hang out there tomorrow after Blue rubs me down with sunscreen If not, I’ll have to get a private room on the yacht so I can get some work done. It’s hard to be fabulous with out a dang job!!! Good night you all and be safe.
By Ilove2makeUsmile
June 5, 2006 04:50 PM | Link to this
@Kym -except you missed the part where it was the wrong woman attacked. LOL. I am not who Fraud thought he was attacking. His beef is with Private Dancer - please check previous post when he outed her last week. Mr. Fraud knows who I am and he really needs to apologize.
By Thick
June 5, 2006 04:50 PM | Link to this
Blog Hug for everyone, we are grown and we can discuss grown-up issues in a friendly, humourous manner without becoming insulting, offended and rude. Let’s try that, I and some other females has a discussion in the mist of the hood on Saturday night with some real thugs who just happen to have grown up to be some decent men. I said all of that to say it can be done.
By Demigod33_Man of the Sea
June 5, 2006 04:51 PM | Link to this
In my bassy Prince voice: L.L. Class Yacht with be leave at this time. Late passagers see Lord musin, at this time. Im Abandoning Ship. Thankyou!
Now aint that same shyt!!!
saying night all, as my chair take off whhoosshhh!!!
Yeeeeaaaaaah!!
By Tazzee
June 5, 2006 04:51 PM | Link to this
smile I can’t check it from work but since I’m home today, you can send an email to my gmail. BTW, the Tom Joyner cruise was off the chain!
By MusingLee
June 5, 2006 04:53 PM | Link to this
Ms.Elusive Don’t be so Elusive tomorrow…I’ll be waiting…
Said in my best Rick James voice
By anonymousella
June 5, 2006 04:54 PM | Link to this
@dushawn boostin crew? sounds shady to me. the real estate part was smart, but boostin? would it be safe to say she has some shady compadres that make her quasi-shady?…lol. (and i still want to know if she can get a hookup on a macbook.)
By Fraud Patrol - Lt
June 5, 2006 05:00 PM | Link to this
private fraud, apologize to that gal before she has a conniption! In order to get promoted, private, you have to expose one fraud, without error! now apologize!
By Wise Diva
June 5, 2006 05:01 PM | Link to this
I can tell things are about to get very interesting, indeed. Oh well.
Have a great evening everyone!
By Dushawn
June 5, 2006 05:03 PM | Link to this
@anon I can’t knock her hustle. If she could mentally manipulate a bunch of females to risk their freedom, go to the mall, steal and bring her back the bread while she sits at home, that is a testament to her strength to me. And to answer your question about the mac book. She can’t put you down with that, but if you have a quarter mill she can put you down with this investment group building a new subdivision in naples, Florida. She has come along way from the boosting crew.