View from the cop

By DJ

January 10, 2008 12:24 PM | Link to this

WELL SAID!

By Vicki

January 10, 2008 12:33 PM | Link to this

Anyone know a convenient place to buy pepper spray? I can’t find it at Walmart or Target.

By Dirty Harry

January 10, 2008 12:36 PM | Link to this

1)Obtain a conceled handgun permit, 2)learn how to use a handgun by taking lessons from a professional, 3)buy a handgun you are comfortable with carrying and handling, 4)practice shooting it on a regular basis, 5) always have your handgun with you wherever it is legal to carry, 6) don’t be afraid to use it to protect yourself or loved ones and 7)don’t be afraid to pull the trigger if necessary.

By Dirty Harry

January 10, 2008 12:44 PM | Link to this

Vicki,

Try this internet site. Buy two or three models and practice using it—on calm day preferably!!

http://www.guardian-self-defense.com/peppersprays.htm

DH

By Jimbo

January 10, 2008 12:48 PM | Link to this

My fiancee finds it amusing to watch me go through the motions of figuring out how to get from point A to point B. From what I’m wearing and how I can conceal a weapon, legally of course, to my need to constantly scan for trouble as we’re walking along she just thinks it’s funny. She admits she’s glad I do it though. I just wish she did it more when she was alone. My only complaint is the places you can’t carry.. like parks.. where I’m frankly inclined to carry anyway.

By irish44

January 10, 2008 12:49 PM | Link to this

My sentiments exactly! This is why I work out in the gym, as much as I would like to run or bike outside on a trail this is exactly why I don’t. And don’t count on pepper spray, I remember reading that the woman killed on the Silver Comet Trail had some with her and she still ended up being murdered.

By sws

January 10, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this

As this article states, these are crimes of opportunity. I don’t know how much weapons can help unless you walk aorund with your pepper spray, taser or gun actually drawn. In Meredith Emerson’s case, she knew martial arts, but that is of little help when you are unexpectedly and overwhelmingly attacked, most likely from behind. So, if you are armed in any way, have that defense tool ready to use…not in your purse or pocket. I also reccomend that you LIE. Always be sure to mention that your friends are hiking just behind you, your husband is coming out of the store right this minute, etc…indicate that others are arriving shorlty and NOT that they are ahead of you. If you are alone, never SEEM alone. And wear a whistle around your neck…available at any sporting goods store. Be vigilant in every single way that you can be.

By Mark

January 10, 2008 12:58 PM | Link to this

Well said dirty harry. I carry my concealed handgun EVERYWHERE I go. Be it a national park, or Kroger. I’d rather pay a fine, than pay with my life. There are too many sick, twisted trash out there, and Everyone needs to protect themselves from them.

By JH

January 10, 2008 1:06 PM | Link to this

The point of the article is to be aware of your situation, not to be armed with a weapon. Usually an attack is from behind or when the victim’s guard is down. It’s more important that we understand that when we’re an isolated situations; whether a forest, park, or parking lot, that we increase our opportunity for crime. If someone tries to befriend you in an isolated situation, it’s best to keep moving, keep your distance, and save those friendships when other people are around.

By JH

January 10, 2008 1:09 PM | Link to this

The point of the article is to be aware of your situation. Usually an attack is from behind or when the victim’s guard is down. It’s more important that we understand that when we’re an isolated situations; whether a forest, park, or even a parking lot, that we increase our opportunity for crime. If someone tries to befriend you in an isolated situation, it’s best to keep moving, keep your distance, and save those friendships when other people are around.

By Jimbo

January 10, 2008 1:10 PM | Link to this

Actually, one of my favorite things about winter is that I can carry a pistol in a pocket and keep it in hand almost all the time. My girl knows to stay clear of my right side and I make sure that if I am carry something I carry it in my left hand or make sure it’s something I don’t mind dropping. Paranoia goes a long way to ensuring safety. Also, practice with close quarter drills and making sure to keep people where you’re aware of them.. situational awareness is key. Without it, you’re screwed.

By Jimbo

January 10, 2008 1:12 PM | Link to this

JH, those considerations all figure into it. I think the reason we jump straight to weapons is because common consensus is that it will give you an edge. Situational awareness is something everyone should cultivate but too few of us do.

By Elmo

January 10, 2008 1:23 PM | Link to this

I just wonder how the bunch that screams for eliminating the Death Penalty - feels about Hilton.

By atltvlagt

January 10, 2008 1:24 PM | Link to this

Its sad we live in a so called “open” society where we women should be able to come and go a we please; however must still do as the women in the middle east do to stay safe. ie….not travel alone and tell everyone what our schedule and expected route is. my husband who is very large and i stopped visiting Murphy Candler park with our dog months ago because of other nefarious activity. that’s sad as well…neither of us felt safe in a public park in broad 2pm daylight.i am all for reopening the mental hospitals and strengthening the death penalty.

By b.o.o.h.o.o.

January 10, 2008 1:34 PM | Link to this

the Comment “Women are especially vulnerable because they’re women.” is somewhat incorrect - women are vulnerable beacuse of MEN - and the society we live in that teaches men to disregard and disrespect women as human beings. This is a modern problem based on centuries of women being treated as slaves and possessions, and won’t change until there is new thinking passed on by men to boys and other men.

By Jimbo

January 10, 2008 1:43 PM | Link to this

I’m not sure it’s as much a matter of gender politics as it is physics. If I’m an opportunistic predator I’m going to exploit the weakest possible victim. In this same vein I don’t think the lion hunts the old and the weak because it has ingrained disrespect for the old and the weak because of centuries of their treatment as food at the hands (paws) of other lions.

By David W. Gray

January 10, 2008 1:44 PM | Link to this

This case highlights one of the biggest failures of our concealed weapons laws in Georgia. It is currently against the law to have guns (even with a concealed weapons permit) in our state parks. She did not even have the ability to protect herself because of this, which is sad.

By David W. Gray

January 10, 2008 1:45 PM | Link to this

This case highlights one of the biggest failures of our concealed weapons laws in Georgia. It is currently against the law to have guns (even with a concealed weapons permit) in our state parks. She did not even have the ability to protect herself because of this, which is sad.

By JD

January 10, 2008 1:47 PM | Link to this

One of the best defenses is to make it look like you have a good offense. As a Ga Tech student and a female back in the day when that area wasn’t nice, I always made it a point to be very aware of my surroundings, and just to look like someone who knows how to handle herself. Of course, this doesn’t stop a determined attacker, but it’s a great way to deter the average joe from messing with you. Always know who is around you and what’s going on, even if that means putting away the cell phone or iPod!

By Scott

January 10, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this

Good article. Very sad what happened to this young lady. I have a loaded 38 revolver in my house at all times. Most of the time when my wife & go away for the weekend, I will take the gun with us. I would never want to hurt anyone, but if I have to choose between myself & some scumbag, then the answer is obvious. I just don’t trust people anymore. It’s a sad world, but that is reality. I hear all the time about couples being murdered or go missing. I’m determined that will not happy to my wife & I. I would not hesitate one second about putting a bullet in this guy’s head if he tried to harm me or anyone that I cared for.

By LI

January 10, 2008 1:49 PM | Link to this

The creep somehow tricked or convinced her that he was not a threat, and she let her guard down, as well as the dog. When you have let your guard down, a gun does not always protect you, especially if you are attacked from behind, or in a vulnerable position. I bet she felt safe in her capabilities, and with the dog. I know I feel safe when my dog is alongside me. This makes you not trust anyone, and afraid to help someone who may really need it.

By Secur-Tech Man

January 10, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this

Good advice Steve. For all those interested in Mace, Pepper Sprays, Stun Guns, Tasers and other personal defense equipment go to www.secur-techdefense.com and www.secur-techspy.com

Be safe! Be prepared! Be careful!

By Secur-Tech Man

January 10, 2008 1:51 PM | Link to this

Good advice Steve. For all those interested in Mace, Pepper Sprays, Stun Guns, Tasers and other personal defense equipment go to www.secur-techdefense.com and www.secur-techspy.com

Be safe! Be prepared! Be careful!

By Troglodyke

January 10, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this

I carry a concealed weapon (yes, I have a permit) and I have had training on how to use it. I practice as often as I can with it, though there aren’t any gun ranges within an easy drive of my house (intown).

Taking a weapons safety course does more than prepare you to use your weapon. It prepares you to be aware. Your wits are really the only thing you can count on in a situation like this.

I am not the type of woman that predators usually perceive as a victim. I walk with confidence and am always taking stock of my surroundings in addition to being armed most of the time. Most criminals are opportunists, and prey on easy targets.

Do your best to not be a target. Don’t put yourself is dangerous situations just because “you should be able to.” Yeah, you should. But you can’t.

By Cassie

January 10, 2008 2:01 PM | Link to this

To boohoo - this is not a modern problem AT ALL. The problem of violence and evil go back to when man took his first breath.

Steve - very well said. I have to say, I’ve been blogging about Meredith constantly, I can’t get her off my mind. No one deserves such a terrible end. And the man who took her life does not deserve to draw one single breath more.

Ladies: yes, do use some common sense. I walk my neighborhood every day (with our without my dogs). I don’t go up to a car that stops to ask for directions. If I see someone else out on my side of the street I cross to the other. I was thinking of buying a taser prior to Meredith’s murder but this cinches the decision. I also have a .38 and .45 at the house, for domestic protection…and to be honest, whenever I leave town, so do they.

I have a bad feeling that Meredith looked at this man and thought “he has a dog, and he seems harmless enough” and let her guard down just long enough for him to disable and kidnap her. I am hoping, although it’s not realistic to do so, that her three days with him weren’t torture, and that she didn’t see him raise his weapon to end her life. I hope she died with some hope left in her.

Man, I hate his guts.

By pbm

January 10, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE people!!! SITUATIONAL AWARENESS seems to be something that most people are totally unaware of…how ironic. KNOW WHAT’S AROUND YOU…when you’re in a crowded place, when you’re driving, when you’re just going about your business!!!! That’s not ‘living in fear’…that’s being a good citizen of the world! Blithely tripping through one’s surroundings like one lives in a bubble (and is, therefore, impervious to all that ‘other stuff’ out there) is arrogant, is downright stupid, may well lead to things like road rage, and COULD get one killed! Think about it!!! (PS…VERY well said, Steve! Thank you!)

By Secur-Tech Man

January 10, 2008 2:24 PM | Link to this

Good advice Steve. For all those interested in Mace, Pepper Sprays, Stun Guns, Tasers and other personal defense equipment go to http://www.secur-techdefense.com and http://www.secur-techspy.com

Be safe! Be prepared! Be careful!

By Gigi

January 10, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

You used to be able to purchase Pepper Spray from uniform places. You might try that avenue.

By Terry

January 10, 2008 2:25 PM | Link to this

A long time ago, a friend of mine showed me I carried with me everyday a low-tech but highly effective defensive weapon…my car/house keys. He taught me to always slip a key between my index and middle finger, another between middle and ring fingers and make a fist. And if anything ever happened, go for my attacker’s eyes. BTW, the friend was a judo instructor used by law enforcement agencies to train personnel in self defense techniques. Having said that, however, Dirty Harry…in my home…it’s black and holds 16 rounds.

By Joy

January 10, 2008 2:30 PM | Link to this

I have to wonder if Meredith did attempt to make a call to 911. I have been to Blood Mountain and the surrounding area. I’ve also walked the Appalachian Trail from Amicalola Falls in Dawsonville to Blood Mountain. There are some stereotypes out there regarding hikers. Some of them may be true. Not everyone who hikes or enjoys nature is a peace-loving, environmentalist or a vegetarian.

Due to the mountainous terrain, I never could get a signal with my cell phone. It never even occurred to me I wouldn’t be to make a phone call.

I don’t think any offense was meant about predators preying on women, “because they are women”. Just read some of the stories on Court TV’s Crime Library. Many serial killers tend to prey on women, just as some choose children. I don’t think it means the women are not as smart or can’t be powerful. Women are conditioned in our society to be more open and friendlier than men, which often causes them to reject what their instincts are telling them. Children may have safety rules drilled into them these days, but in turn they are taught to obey adults which combined with their innocence could have detrimental results.

Many serial killers tend to be “wired wrong” and have psychological issues related to women, probably stemming from childhood. They may have learned early on that women and children are easier prey than a man.

I will say that I have walked at night in very warm weather, but I carry my very large dogs with me and cell phone with me. I also tell someone where I’m walking and when I expect to be back.

By Joy

January 10, 2008 2:33 PM | Link to this

I have to wonder if Meredith did attempt to make a call to 911. I have been to Blood Mountain and the surrounding area. I’ve also walked the Appalachian Trail from Amicalola Falls in Dawsonville to Blood Mountain. There are some stereotypes out there regarding hikers. Some of them may be true. Not everyone who hikes or enjoys nature is a peace-loving, environmentalist or a vegetarian.

Due to the mountainous terrain, I never could get a signal with my cell phone. It never even occurred to me I wouldn’t be to make a phone call.

I don’t think any offense was meant about predators preying on women, “because they are women”. Just read some of the stories on Court TV’s Crime Library. Many serial killers tend to prey on women, just as some choose children. I don’t think it means the women are not as smart or can’t be powerful. Women are conditioned in our society to be more open and friendlier than men, which often causes them to reject what their instincts are telling them. Children may have safety rules drilled into them these days, but in turn they are taught to obey adults which combined with their innocence could have detrimental results.

Many serial killers tend to be “wired wrong” and have psychological issues related to women, probably stemming from childhood. They may have learned early on that women and children are easier prey than a man.

I will say that I have walked at night in very warm weather, but I carry my very large dogs with me and cell phone with me. I also tell someone where I’m walking and when I expect to be back.

By El Bubba

January 10, 2008 2:36 PM | Link to this

Man, this one hit home for me because it’s real close to where I live. I wish I had some answers. What Steve said rings so true, these people don’t belong among the rest of us. Someone else said re-organize our mental health system. We might get some of these people off the streets/trails before they do these terrible things. I have done a lot of outdoor rec activities, here and in third world countries. 99.9% of the people you meet are there for the same reasons you are. It is very common to have a conversation with someone you wouldn’t normally talk to… I can’t stand the fact that we as a society continue to have greater and greater levels of fear and anxiety with each passing year. Not concerning this monster, but concerning many other violent criminals, they generally have poor education. I think one solution would be to really work on our education system. El Bubba

By Nan

January 10, 2008 2:37 PM | Link to this

Well said. Bad stuff can happen anywhere, but using some common sense can reduce the risk.

By Ed

January 10, 2008 2:38 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the great suggestions. I have one further, though. I suggest acquiring a concealed weapons permit, learning to handle a hand gun, and carrying one as a precaution. I am a young woman, avid hiker and cyclist, and outdoor runner. I’ve also been using firearms since I was able to walk. A .38 can deter a potential attacker a lot more efficiently than pepper spray.

By Ed

January 10, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this

Thanks for the great information. I may suggest something else for personal defense. I have a concealed weapons permit and I carry a .38 with me while hiking, biking, and running. It’s compact and easy to strap to clothing. A .38 will stop a potential attacker far more effectively than any taser or pepper spray. Just make sure you are comfortable with the firearm and trained to use it. Also, you have to willing to use it if the situation permits.

By Jason

January 10, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

You can usually buy pepper spray at any gun shop.

By Roswell Ed

January 10, 2008 2:46 PM | Link to this

I appreciate how you highlighted that “looks” don’t matter and one should never let their guard down. I honestly feel it will fall on deaf ears because there are laws being passed against sagging pants and other dumb things which highlight a “look” instead of actions. Sad but true. I personally am always cognizant of my surroundings and armed but anything can happen to anyone on any different day. Yet, we must take the steps to minimize as much as possible via paying attention to surroundings and the like.

The following is something I posted regarding the Northview thieves:

As far as being apologetic, these thieves are not sorry for their actions. They are only sorry for their predicament, which their actions placed them in. Had the parent not come forth, it was clearly stated that their intentions were to sell the stolen items and make a profit. That is the all the information one needs to determine their character (150 cars!?!?). Their race, background, etc. is highly irrelevant but unfortunately, it will play a part in not only other’s thoughts of them, as evidenced by this blog, but also their sentence (prosecutors/judges are not immune to biases).

The problem with judging people based off of their “look” and not character/actions is that a lot of seedy individuals continue to dwell amongst us. Rather they are the beneficiary of a slap on the wrist or the benefit of the doubt, these types of people rarely if ever change their ways and once they are discovered, many are shocked but at the same time can easily reference points in time where the individual’s actions proved their true vile character. Case in point: Gary Michael Hilton. Along with two felonies, he had numerous run-ins with the law whereby he could either have been given harsher punishment (e.g., restitution for 21 counts of solicitation) or arrested (refer to the video on the front of the AJC where he is trespassing…and the officer jokes with him). There are also many on blogs stating that they’ve had run-ins with him and not to mention the Waffle House incident where the server states she was extremely concerned by his mannerisms. End result? Not only Meredith Emerson’s death and decapitation but also the other crimes (murders) that he is being tied to. So might others be alive if he were imprisoned? Might he have recognized, prior to killing others, the error of his ways had he received stiffer punishment? Who knows. What stands out is that he was repeatedly given slaps on the wrist or allowed to walk when his character suggested otherwise.

Another interesting note here is that some of the thieves were charged with ELEVEN FELONY COUNTS of entering a vehicle with each count carrying a maximum of 5 years. So what is the typical punishment for entering a vehicle (felony)? Would one be shocked to know that there are numerous individuals in Georgia who were convicted on only ONE FELONY COUNT of entering a vehicle and received the full 5 year sentence? Or 1 year? 3 years? Or even two felony counts and 3 years? Of important note is that all of the individuals in the examples I listed had NO PRIOR OFFENSES and some of them are or were as young as 16-18 years old when they committed the offenses…just like the Northview crew. Also, those currently incarcerated individuals are white, black, hispanic, etc. I know that there are some non-believers out there who believe my post is rhetoric but I shall continue to stick with my theme of actions speaking louder than words show you all…

-Go to the Georgia Department of Corrections website and click on the link that says “OFFENDER SEARCH”…or you can access it by clicking HERE

-Under “Primary Offense” go to ENTERING A VEHICLE

-You may enter any “AGE RANGE” you wish but I suggest entering 17-22 considering the individuals in question.

-Thereafter, continue clicking “NEXT” until the list of offenders is populated.

-You may then go to each profile seperately.

-There you will see that the majority of them had no prior convictions and were convicted on only ONE FELONY COUNT of entering a vehicle.

Again, character and not look/background should be focused on. The thieves have proven to have very bad character and no I am not suggesting that they not be given a second chance. I am merely stating that they need to pay for what they’ve done and not in the form of restitution and apology letters but via time in prison.

By in agreement

January 10, 2008 2:52 PM | Link to this

I agree with b.o.o.h.o.o. How many women commit attacks on men? When is the last time you’ve heard of a male hiker or park visitor being attacked by a woman?

By BW

January 10, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this

I think women also need to be more careful when they are at home or out in public with their young children. I don’t open the garage door to leave the house until my son and I are both buckled in and the car doors are locked. When we’re out, I get into the car and lock the doors before buckling my son into his carseat - as opposed to leaning over into the car and not being able to see what’s going on around me. I take my son with me to return the grocery cart, rather than leaving him in his carseat, if the cart return isn’t right next to our parking space. And at home I don’t open the door to anyone - no matter how nice they look or what they’re selling - if I don’t know them personally or haven’t asked them to my house to do some work. I actually feel more vulnerable when my son is with me, because I would do anything to keep him from getting hurt - and the violent/crazy people know that.

I think women need to be more careful when they have their children with them, whether at home or out and about. I see so many women who are distracted by their children and the errands they are doing, and I think it’s easy to forget that we are targets even when we’re not technically “alone”.

By dee

January 10, 2008 2:55 PM | Link to this

It is sad we are no longer safe, not even in our own home. As a woman, I would like to tell my fellow women not to make yourself a target. Don’t go out alone, especially at night. Be aware of your surroundings and those in those surroundings. Carry your cell phone.

Other than that, I have but one other thing to say. You put down a rabid dog or sick animal, why not this beast.

By dee

January 10, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

It is sad we are no longer safe, not even in our own home. As a woman, I would like to tell my fellow women not to make yourself a target. Don’t go out alone, especially at night. Be aware of your surroundings and those in those surroundings. Carry your cell phone.

Other than that, I have but one other thing to say. You put down a rabid dog or sick animal, why not this beast.

By Scott In Jax Beach

January 10, 2008 2:56 PM | Link to this

Steve,

Once again another well written article by yourself. You have a way of putting things in their proper perspective. I have been following this case since day one from down here and every day my heart grieves for this family. The other day I saw where Meredith’s father thanked the volunteers. I say to Meredith’s father, “Thank you Sir for raising such a beautiful and gentle spirit”. The outpouring of generosity and support from Georgians everywhere only tells me more how proud I am to be one!

Keep up the great articles!

By Cindy

January 10, 2008 3:01 PM | Link to this

I was talking to a good friend this morning and told him that I wish he’d been friends with Meridith Emerson. About a year ago, I told him that I was interested in walking a portion of the Appalachian Trail. He simply said “Cindy, no.” I said “but why?” He said that he and a few friends (all grown men) had been up there a while back and someone came up on them in a threatening and very sudden and surprising manner, and they didn’t think they would get out. He said he’d hate to think of what could happen to me. Women do not have the upper hand.

By very concerned woman

January 10, 2008 3:42 PM | Link to this

This is why we have to have much stricter penalties on those who commit such crimes. If there is no death penalty, how do we deter these animals from committing these types of crimes. I say hang him in downtown Atlanta. Maybe others will learn that they will have a similar fate if they commit the same kinds of crimes. A lifetime sentence in jail is filled with surfing the internet, reading books, watchging television, working out, etc. All of which Meredith will never do again. Show him no mercy as he showed his victim(s) none. And, prevent this from happening again by VERY STRICT punishment for committing such a heinous crime! And, a very quick appeal process followed by lethal injection. Let’s learn from Texas, Georgia!

By Scott

January 10, 2008 3:45 PM | Link to this

Hilton was not charged with “allegedly kidnapping” Meredith. There is no alledged involved in the indictment. Let’s stop all of this P.C. criminals rights nonsense.

By very concerned woman

January 10, 2008 3:47 PM | Link to this

This is why we have to have much stricter penalties on those who commit such crimes. If there is no death penalty, how do we deter these animals from committing these types of crimes. I say hang him in downtown Atlanta. Maybe others will learn that they will have a similar fate if they commit the same kinds of crimes. A lifetime sentence in jail is filled with surfing the internet, reading books, watchging television, working out, etc. All of which Meredith will never do again. Show him no mercy as he showed his victim(s) none. And, prevent this from happening again by VERY STRICT punishment for committing such a heinous crime! And, a very quick appeal process followed by lethal injection. Let’s learn from Texas, Georgia!

By KSS

January 10, 2008 3:49 PM | Link to this

Great article. It’s not “living in fear” to be cautious but it certainly is stupid to put yourself or your family at risk. I agree with those who posted about concealed carry. I am a woman with a license to carry a concealed weapon and I carry every where I go and I practice at the range as often as possible. We’ve had muggings in my parking deck at work so I walk to my car with my hand on my pistol at all times. “No guns allowed” is only an invitation to criminals to commit a crime knowing THEIR life is not in danger. Look at Virginia Tech and other school shootings. I’ll carry to protect myself and my family… .Whether that’s in a mall, a park, or Marta. Police do not prevent crimes; they simply rope off the crime scene.

By Cassie

January 10, 2008 3:51 PM | Link to this

As to the earlier post about people who are mentally ill:

Go read Pete Earley’s book “Crazy: A Father’s Search Through America’s Mental Health Madness”. He did a vast amount of research as his son was diagnosed with a mental illness and subsequently entered the “punishment” system. He also spent a year with the Miami-Dade Corrections folks and inmates, and followed several of them as they bounced around in the system.

It makes you sad, really. Unless you have private funding, there’s no way to treat people with mental illnesses. You can’t commit them, even if they are crazy, without the courts declaring that they are not mentally competent - a process that is expensive, and time consuming. We prefer to house people who are disturbed in jails and prisons….

I am certainly not defending Hilton - but the systems of mental health and the judiciary can’t be expected to catch someone like this.

And I too think that three or four hours closer on his trail would have saved her life.

Grrr.

By Van

January 10, 2008 3:55 PM | Link to this

Steve talks about walking into a crime scene. I wonder how many people, if tasked with walking into a real crime scene, would start to think that the violence portrayed in movies like “Saw” is no longer entertaining.

By lawyerdaggett

January 10, 2008 4:01 PM | Link to this

If you wear a whistle, don’t tie it around your neck. It can be used to choke you. Use elastic and tie it onto your wrist and keep it ready in your hand at all times.

By Baba

January 10, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

It’s a shame this pervert who murdered Meredith wasn’t locked up years ago. Watching the sheriff’s video of Hilton saying he is ex-military on “permanent manuevers” was a wake up call that this guy was “off”. I live near the beach and we have lots of scary guys just like him living under the boardwalk. Most of them are harmless but suffer from some kind of mental illness. Your mountains are like our beaches.As a child we would walk on the beach at night enjoying the surf and the stars. No More!!! It is suicidal to THINK about walking on the beach at night…male or female.

By Bryan

January 10, 2008 4:02 PM | Link to this

This is another example of what is wrong with our justice system. We need more of an eye for an eye approach. Let me get this straight, this piece of pond scum that’s not even worthy of being underneath my fingernail decapitates an innocent young girl, and he “might” get the death penalty??? WTF??? Even if he does get the death penalty, it would be lethal injection because we are just so “concerned” about the rights for criminals. Makes me wanna puke! What about Meredith’s right? We have become a very weak society. I say they should cut his head off just like he did to her. Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth. If we had more of a justice system like that, it was would be a huge deterrant to criminals like this guy. You think he would of cut her head off if he knew if caught, that he would have his own head cut off? Just like in the Middle East, you get caught stealing, you get your arm cut off. I would love to have 5 minutes alone with this guy, and a baseball bat. I’m 6’2, and weigh 220 lbs. I’d like to see him try & hurt somebody his own size. This girl was 5’4, 120 lbs. They should just treat him like a rabid dog, and put him down. I mean, how has he contributed or will contribute to our society? It’s just a waste of tax money to keep this idiot in jail.

By very concerned woman

January 10, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

We need to learn one thing from the Middle East - take him out to the soccer fields and take care of him! We are too soft on criminals. I don’t care if they are mentally ill. I am a nurse and there are enough community resources out there to get help. Even if you are mentally ill, you know that killing someone is wrong. Seek help because there is plenty available. We live in America, not a third world country! No excuse for this unacceptable crime! And eye for an eye!

By very concerned woman

January 10, 2008 4:11 PM | Link to this

We need to learn one thing from the Middle East - take him out to the soccer fields and take care of him! We are too soft on criminals. I don’t care if they are mentally ill. I am a nurse and there are enough community resources out there to get help. Even if you are mentally ill, you know that killing someone is wrong. Seek help because there is plenty available. We live in America, not a third world country! No excuse for this unacceptable crime! And eye for an eye!

By RM

January 10, 2008 4:14 PM | Link to this

I feel there is not one person out there which has heard of this horrendous crime that is not sickened by it. It is so vile and so needless. I do not understand why a crime such as this cannot get a speedy punishment and one that fits the crime. We are a people of reason but in cases such as this one make a statement to the other sicko’s out there that we will catch you and when we do it will be over quickly but not so painless. The victims deserve no less!

By reader

January 10, 2008 4:23 PM | Link to this

Stiff sentences do not deter these monsters. One who can consider consequences possesses a level of reason. Their behavior is beyond comprehension. They kill for the thrill or some other crazy stimulation. They don’t want to get caught, but they certainly are not thinking of the death penalty consquences when they are stalking their prey. Otherwise, TX and the like would not have any deathrow inmates. If these freaks really were able to be half-rational, they’d probably be more worried about being locked up with other psycopaths who might judge their actions and fear the repurcussions. They are irrational beings. There is no reasoning when it comes to predators.

Roswell Ed: You don’t think that any of those repeat offenders who were jailed/convicted for entering a vehicle pleabargained? Do you seriously think that they went to jail for the act they were sentenced for?

Another thing, we as a society, need to look out for one another. If you see something suspicious, report it. It is so sad to hear that others had encounters with this POS, but did not report his actions. It probably would not have made a difference, but maybe this monster would have moved on and chosen the wrong victim, you know, the one who carries a gun, the one who shoots first and then asks questions.

By NJ

January 10, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

I am so glad that I am hearing everyone say that crime can happen anywhere. I am so sick of hearing places like Alpharetta being described as “Happyville”. Crime can happen anywhere! I guess coming from the North, I don’t trust anyone anyway.

My heart hurts everything I think about Meredith.

By Leanne

January 10, 2008 4:35 PM | Link to this

This is not about being a woman or not. It is about your life and being smart. Become a victim of crime and live to tell about it, you’ll become very aware of your surroundings from then on. I was raised by a cop, and I learned how to shoot a gun at nine years old, and I do it quite well,thank you, but I know that the evil that lurks in this world is diligent in ther hunting of prey and they are VERY aware of their surroundings, so why should I walk around without thinking about my surroundings? That monster not only took Meredith’s life, he also ripped her family’s hearts out. What do the loved ones do with the anger, grief and endless hell on earth? If I pay attention wherever I go, I may see or hear or notice something that might help someone. There will always be good and evil. I am just tired of killers getting to breathe and eat and rest and watch tv, while I am paying for their upkeep.Yep, life’s not fair but I am a firm believer that while we might suffer here in this life, killers will suffer horribly for eternity. I sleep very well at night knowing that.

By Kia

January 10, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

It has all been very sad and the more I read and hear about what happened to Ms Emerson, the more sad it gets. Here in Athens we are searching for another missing young woman who was last seen with her dog in the park. I fear she has met with a similar fate.

Lt. Steve, thank you for your advice and insight. I even appreciate how you said “Gary Michael Hilton, charged with allegedly kidnapping and killing”. I think we all know he did it beyond a doubt, but we have a system to follow and by following it, we put ourselves on a much higher plain than the Gary Hiltons of this world.

Thanks, Lt. Steve.

By Troglodyke

January 10, 2008 4:48 PM | Link to this

This is another example of what is wrong with our justice system. We need more of an eye for an eye approach. Let me get this straight, this piece of pond scum that’s not even worthy of being underneath my fingernail decapitates an innocent young girl, and he “might” get the death penalty??? WTF??? Even if he does get the death penalty, it would be lethal injection because we are just so “concerned” about the rights for criminals. Makes me wanna puke!

I am also sickened and wish someone would shoot the b@st@rd in the head when he was walking into the courthouse (same for Brian wasting-taxpayer-money Nichols…everytime I see his smirking face on TV or in photos, I wish mightily for a sharpshooter).

However, a death penalty ruling for Hilton will mean he gets to waste taxpayer monies too, appealing over and over and waiting years for his sentence to be carried out.

The death penalty needs to be applied within 30 days of losing the 2nd appeal in any case where guilt is absolute. If there are multiple eyewitnesses, video, confession, whatever, and guilt is not in question, execute the scumbags quickly.

Then again, death is too easy. Rotting in jail costs taxpayers money, but I believe it’s more punishing than death for these offenders. Death makes them martyrs.

By Lex Luthor

January 10, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

Here’s something to think about: When a lion hunts it is going to kill something. What is the lion going to kill: The easiest target around.

The idea is never travel around in a situation where preditors will single you out because you’re an easy target.

Also, don’t forget that only one animal regularly preys on humans. Unless you know that animal don’t let your guard down around it.

By Joy

January 10, 2008 4:55 PM | Link to this

I’d say Hilton thought about the death penalty. It came up very quickly. The attorneys are debating whether or not the death penalty can be taken off or on the table easily. He also wanted to know about the jail being nice or not. I find it hard to believe such issues would surface so easily.

If does believe he is “on permanent manuevers”, he probably does have a mental health issue.

I wonder if he took cues from Bundy. Several of the abductions in the murders he committed occurred in parks or recreation areas. I don’t remember if he had a dog, but he did have a fake cast or brace he used to give his victims the illusion of weakness. The dog would give him the illusion of being a nice old man.

When I’ve walked my dogs, all sorts of people come up to talk to me that would never talk to me if I was alone. The same thing happens when I take my daughter to the park. All sorts of personal questions are asked that wouldn’t be asked under normal circumstances.

We have also been taught to mind our own business and to excuse away odd behavior. I was at the playground at a local park with my daughter which was very crowded. There was a strange man there who was getting too close to the children and even some adults. He appeared disturbed even at first glance. There wasn’t a child with him. Parents were calling 911 in plain sight and only when police arrived did he move away from the children. He attempted to run and even fought with the officers. I don’t know what happened, but he was taken away in a police car.

By Cassie

January 10, 2008 5:04 PM | Link to this

It’s a sad world we live in.

By heinz

January 10, 2008 5:11 PM | Link to this

The talk about death penalty vs. prison is ridiculous. No punishment can compensate for what happened. Something medieval, like pliers and a blowtorch, is appealing, but I don’t think we want to go the route of Iraq, Iran, etc. A shot to the head is way too humane. Just be glad he is off the street for good.

By Cassie

January 10, 2008 5:19 PM | Link to this

Ah, but hanging, drawing and quartering as much more public appeal.

Even my 82 year old grandmother said he “ought to be dismembered while he’s awake”

By dave

January 10, 2008 5:21 PM | Link to this

*By Kia

January 10, 2008 4:38 PM | Link to this

It has all been very sad and the more I read and hear about what happened to Ms Emerson, the more sad it gets. Here in Athens we are searching for another missing young woman who was last seen with her dog in the park. I fear she has met with a similar fate.

Lt. Steve, thank you for your advice and insight. I even appreciate how you said “Gary Michael Hilton, charged with allegedly kidnapping and killing”. I think we all know he did it beyond a doubt, but we have a system to follow and by following it, we put ourselves on a much higher plain than the Gary Hiltons of this world.

Thanks, Lt. Steve.*

Come on, you idiot. He led the police to her body. You don’t even measure up to your own standard of political correctness — since you say everone should be on a higher plain than him, yet you also say we should treat him as innocent first.

By WHERE AT?

January 10, 2008 5:33 PM | Link to this

Does anyone know where U could see or buy these products in metro Atlanta? I am interested in buying pepper spray and stun gun thanks to this story.

Meredith in passing may save hundreds of us in the future.

God be with Meredith and her family and loved ones.

By WHERE AT?

January 10, 2008 5:33 PM | Link to this

Does anyone know where U could see or buy these products in metro Atlanta? I am interested in buying pepper spray and stun gun thanks to this story.

Meredith in passing may save hundreds of us in the future.

God be with Meredith and her family and loved ones.

By Anonymous Lady

January 10, 2008 5:36 PM | Link to this

I survived being attacked, robbed, and raped - which happened late at night after I drove home alone to my apartment. Let me tell you, this stuff can happen to YOU, and when you find yourself with a knife to your throat, you won’t be going over your feminist political beliefs as you desperately try to figure out how to get out of this alive. When I went to police headquarters to look at line-ups, there were many pregnant women and women with infants in the auditorium - all rape victims - and the detectives told me that pregnant women and women with young children are favorite targets. I’ve heard women say stupid things like - “I’m a good person, so I only attract good people.” I’m as fine a person as you will ever meet, but I was stupid, and I nearly died as a result. Everything that officer said in his post about keeping yourself safe is just commonsense advice, and if a woman wants to ignore it, she is putting her life at risk. Don’t have anything to do with a stranger, and particularly not one of these homeless vagrants - many of them are dangerous, and some of them are fugitives. Keep your distance, and if you feel sorry for them, donate to the shelters and let them handle them. The attitude of not judging somebody by their appearance is so idiotic - some stinky, toothless, gnarly drifter is not to be trusted, dog or no dog. I don’t care how many karate classes a woman takes, she is no match for a predator, even an old crackhead like Gary Hilton. Even a gun won’t help you if you can’t get to it. The best protection is not to let yourself get in one these situations to begin with. I don’t feel a bit sorry for Gary Hilton, and I don’t care that he’s sick - I don’t think any amount of therapy or meds would have made the slightest difference in his evil. I just wish they’d leave his cell door ajar so they could gun him down as he runs away. “Gary Hilton shot multiple times in the back, dies at scene” would be a headline I could enjoy, in contrast to these grim, sad, unbelievable stories about Meredith.

By Stephen

January 10, 2008 5:48 PM | Link to this

Go to your local pawn shop to buy pepper spray.

By Lawrence

January 10, 2008 5:50 PM | Link to this

To those interested in pepper spray. Google, Kimber Lifeact guardian angel. It uses a propellant rather than a trigger spray, which minimizes the posibiltiy of cross contamination. It is effective, even if the person is wearing glasses or ski mask, and will normally diable the person for 30 minutes, plenty of time to retreat and call police.

By Joy

January 10, 2008 5:55 PM | Link to this

Many online stores offer pepper spray and such.

As far as buying locally, I have seen pepper spray for sale at military surplus stores in the past.

I believe Ranger Joe’s in Columbus carries some of these products. I can’t think of other stores in the Atlanta area, but I’m sure they are out there.

Many stores which sell firearms also carry these products.

By to ANONYMOUS LADY

January 10, 2008 5:57 PM | Link to this

Thank You for giving us your comments. I agree with you 99%. I disagree that you were stupid. You were attacked by an evil basterd/bastereds. Don’t blame yourself. I have read your words and they are powerful. God bless and keep you.

By IsItJustMe

January 10, 2008 5:58 PM | Link to this

Is it just me or do crimes of this nature happen pretty often? People go missing and are killed all of the time but death penalty, concealed carry, and other extremists come out only on select occasions. I sympathize with her family but not more so than the person’s family whose story was not shown nationwide. And the audacity of anyone, such as you Dr. Phils, to use the mental card for Hilton is ludicrous. Hilton is a monster. A barbarian. A thuggish rogue. Trash. Scum. All of the above. Even so, he’ll receive three hots and a cot at our expense until he expires or is put to death, which is around 15+ years from now.

By JenA

January 10, 2008 6:11 PM | Link to this

I would have no problem carrying a gun in a state or national park. The thing to remember, though, is not to just pull it out and wave it at someone trying to scare them off. That can easily backfire on you, either because they can track you down later before you have gotten to a safe place, or because it allows them to obtain weapons of their own. The only time you want to show a gun to them is when they have already tried to make their move on you (in one form or another) and by god, you had better go ahead and effectively use it, because it might be your last chance!!!

Sounds paranoid, but it is damn true! Of course, I could probably go to a ton of parks and stand there all day waiting to be attacked, and nothing would come of it, but it is these really horrific one-in-a-million events like that which Meredith experienced, which make me want to buy a gun. Like her, I also love nature, animals, and hiking, and do not want to live in fear or be deprived of my right to be out in the world. I just happen to be one of those women who will do something about it.

By Tom T

January 10, 2008 6:14 PM | Link to this

Take every word Steve wrote above to heart!!! There is no Mayberry anymore. And the bad thing about predators is that they don’t always look like the slobbering hulk monsters that they really are. SO be cautious with EVERYONE. As far as arming yourself, I carry (legally) every day. But before one arms him or her self you need to do some SERIOUS soul searching. If you are not 150% confident that you could pull the trigger if necessary you should not go armed. The only thing worse than getting killed by some predatory dirtbag is having said predatory dirtbag kill you with your own weapon.

By Barney Fife

January 10, 2008 6:21 PM | Link to this

Tom T,

There has never been a Mayberry. It was just television.

Stay strapped, BF

By Fred

January 10, 2008 6:49 PM | Link to this

Dear Boo Hoo and in agreement,

Bite me you feminazi activist. But to answer YOUR question “in agreement” I believe john Wayne Bobitt was the victim of a crime. He had his dick cut off, while he was asleep proving the slimy, cowardly nature of women right? Or maybe not right, maybe it was just one cowardly slimy dick mutilating woman.

You don’t commit assault on me because you CAN’T. If you approached me in a violent manner I would b*** slap you, just as I would a man. Despite your ignorant wishes, women ARE physically weaker than men as a whole. Some weak, despicable men men advantage of this fact. While sad, it’s a fact. Some women prey on men. WHile sad it’s a fact. Get your head out of your a*, quit pushing your stupidassed agenda and focus on the issue at hand. Pay attention to your surroundings.

El bubba,

Ted Bundy was a highly intelligent and educated man. That education thing doesn’t really wash. LOL Hannibal Lector is a psychologist. Lack of education isn’t what makes sick twisted individuals sick twisted individuals, something is missing in their soul much the same as what is missing in the souls of Boo Hoo and in agreement. From their view points they would happily kill and torture every man alive if they could.

By alex

January 10, 2008 7:46 PM | Link to this

This will be an unpopular post, but it can’t be avoided. In my opinion, given only the sometimes contradictory “facts” appearing in the media, Meredith should have been taught to be less positive and less self-confident. Or, at least raised to be anxious enough to have a proper respect for “the gift of fear”. Apparently there were dozens of couples hiking up and down that mountain that day, and I can’t see why she didn’t latch herself onto a passing pair and whisper for a little help, like for being accompanied down the mountain and watched while she got to her car? Why not? Possibly she was overconfident? too proud of her martial arts skills? too loved and protected in her past to suspect lethal treachery in the future?

I believe that skilled pessimism is a more practical defense than firearms. If you want the “joy” of the great outdoors, you’re just going to have to pass it up when you can’t hike with friends. We’re not in Kansas anymore, Dorothy. Hilton won’t be the last anonymous bum who will hear the media calling.

I believe most people are not emotionally fit to handle or to use firearms. It’s a childish cinematic fantasy to the average joe. You can’t truly fathom the blood and noise and imagine the sheriff locking you up instead of the mugger because the creep didn’t have a weapon, only his jailhouse fists, and you didn’t have any wounds or witnesses. All that the responding officer will see is that you have killed so-and-so, a “human being”, wad of rags though he is. You just get yourself locked up for only one night with a pack of hardtimers, while the detectives “sort it out”, and you’ll be wishing you’d pointed that gun at yourself.

You’ve got to know more than just how to shoot paper. You’ve got to know the law. You’ve got to manage and direct your demeanor, as well as your gun. You’ve got to check your range and the shot’s potential background and richochet path, display the firearm, announce your intention, pronounce a verbal warning, not extend your arms, and point only when you are deadset to pull the trigger. Knowing the law and gearing it to your actions in a flash of seconds which are spiked with a kind of terror you have never known is the kind of extreme experience only a few souls are fit for! And these laws are subject to change without notice, and vary from state to state. You can’t rest with reading them once and awhile. You have to keep up with them, as well as your rights and responsibilities, and the authorities don’t make that easy to do so. Why should they? They know better than anybody else that most of us are idiots who shouldn’t be encouraged to even drive, much less purchase a gun. In short, knowing when you can shoot is far more taxing than keeping your shots in a tight pattern— any trained monkey can do that.

Moreover, if everyone starts buying pistols, these ex-cons will have a bonanza—they’ll snatch ‘em and use ‘em against their victims, or steal ‘em out of their houses. Gun ownership has immense ethical ramifications. You can’t just buy a gun, you’ve got to buy a $1000 gun-safe. I know a guy who had his guns stolen from his gun-safe with an acetylene torch. This is not a joke. It is not a rare occurence. Crooks love to steal guns, and now my friend has got to live with knowing that there’s five more guns on the blackmarket to kill quickstop clerks and police officers with that wouldn’t be out there if he’d only chosen to own one gun and to keep it with him constantly, even though it meant he couldn’t always go everywhere he wanted to, when he wanted to. I saw a survey once that said something like 30% of pistol owners wear their pistols around the house all day. Are you ready to do that? or do you want to leave your pistol on the night table where an intruder busting in can lay a hammer across your face and get to your gun before you do, or a curious kid can surreptitiously discover it? A gun can be protection, but it can also be a ball and chain. And should be. Pain is what responsibility is.

So please, let’s not be recommending guns to everybody. It just doesn’t make sense. If you ask me, our only practical safety is the safety of numbers. No more of that “I wandered lonely as a cloud” stuff. Gun or no gun, let’s face it, all that’s over now. To me, it’s only one of Meredith’s gifts to us, but it’s an important one. We’ve got stand together and promise to take better care of each other…in groups.

By Fred

January 10, 2008 8:00 PM | Link to this

Wow Alex, damn fine post. Although I AM highly qualified to carry a weapon and highly skilled with the use of a weapon as well as “blooded” by combat, I choose not to have one. I almost daily question my decision with a wife and a five year old daughter, but it is my choice. I certainly would not encourage my wife to carry a weapon as I have seen her totally freeze up or go hysterical in life threatening danger situations. This isn’t a knock on my wife, who is an amazingly wonderful person, (she puts up with my sorry a*), but a first hand affirmation of what you wrote.

Steve: I forgot to thank you for the wonderful column and the often ignored advise you put in it. You can explain it for people but you can’t understand it for them. Keep up the good work. This one is probably one of your best just for the heartfelt content. As a writer I know how difficult it is to write about something close to your heart and i have no doubt that this issue is close to your heart. Thanks again.

By Cindy

January 10, 2008 8:46 PM | Link to this

Alex, thank you. Excellent post.

Steve, can you give out that info about the pepper spray, so they don’t end up buying crap?

Fred, try to calm down before you bust a blood vessel in your neck.

El Bubba, you have a point with the education but I tend to lean with Fred on this one…

By Meredith's Friend

January 10, 2008 9:39 PM | Link to this

A memorial fund has been established in Meredith Emerson’s name at her local Humane Society in Longmont, CO.

http://www.firstgiving.com/meredithemerson

Please help Meredith’s dream continue to live.

By Mark McCullough

January 10, 2008 10:36 PM | Link to this

“Be safe, buy pepper spray”

I cannot disagree with this more. A bottle of food seasoning is not going to stop a deranged, determined, and lethal animal such as Gary Michael Hilton. If you don’t get a good square-in-the-face spray he’s simply going to get angry.

By Alex

January 11, 2008 1:02 AM | Link to this

Thanks Fred. I feel very strongly about all this. My wife and I both have been mugged and beaten and robbed and have wised up the hard way.

I think we should remind these guys who keep recommending carrying a gun in the parks and national forests that if they get caught—and gun-haters will turn you in so fast!—the fine is, like $2,000, and then the smokies confiscate your $900 pistol, carry license or not, and you never get it back…and you go on the felony list and you’ll never be able to buy another firearm to replace it, for use in your home or anywhere else. These feds and DNR boys are dead serious. Too bad they weren’t there to “confiscate” old rot-mouth and save Meredith! Being a holiday, I guess they were on the snooze.

Or, to be fair, perhaps there was another popular tax-cut which froze their wages and cut off their overtime. After all, unless you do it yourself, law enforcement ain’t free.

If you’ve just got to hike with a gun, take the DNR hunting course, learn all the rules, wear blaze orange, hike only in hunting season, buy a gps, and stay off the trails.

The only exception I have read of— and this is info a year old— is North Carolina. I think they do, or did, allow a .22 caliber rimfire pistol to be carried on the trails by hikers. Of course, if you get scared into popping off your .22 at one of their rambunctious bears without the proper state hunting license, not only will the bear eat you anyway, but you’ll be fined $5,000.

But check this regulation! They’ll change these laws without telling you! And they’ll say, “Ignorance of the law is no excuse.”

By jose

January 11, 2008 4:37 AM | Link to this

Even better than pepper spray, last year I got my wife a stun gun 1,000,000 volts. Heavy duty; it will go thru winter clothes/coat.

check ebay

By jose

January 11, 2008 4:39 AM | Link to this

Even better than pepper spray, last year I got my wife a stun gun 1,000,000 volts. Heavy duty; it will go thru winter clothes/coat.

check ebay

By jose

January 11, 2008 4:39 AM | Link to this

Even better than pepper spray, last year I got my wife a stun gun 1,000,000 volts. Heavy duty; it will go thru winter clothes/coat.

check ebay

By Dirk

January 11, 2008 8:04 AM | Link to this

Some self-defense instructions I hope nobody ever needs:

Link: LawDog Files

By cb

January 11, 2008 9:15 AM | Link to this

When I first heard about Meredith, my friend commented, “I hope that this doesn’t turn into something about how women shouldn’t go hiking.”

We have all got those ridiculous forwards, saying attackers target women with long hair, ponytails, etc. etc. Look, it is important to be aware of your surroundings and have some method of self defense. But let’s remember this guy is also linked to the disappearance/murder of a couple, so obviously it’s not just a “women are weak” thing.

What happened to Meredith was unfortunate, but she told friends where she was going, and she went in daylight hours. Should we all lock ourselves inside our houses and throw away the key?

By Danielle

January 11, 2008 10:56 AM | Link to this

I am a young woman in my early thirties and I always take my gun with me whenever I go hiking alone with my dogs. I usually take it along in case I run into rattlesnakes but it makes me feel much safer especially knowing there are psychos out there. There have been a couple of times when I’ve come across questionable people and I’ve inadvertantly moved my jacket aside so they could see it and believe me they kept on walking.

By CubbyBlues

January 11, 2008 1:46 PM | Link to this

As a former Marine I feel that I am prepared to take care of myself should the need arise. Does that mean I don’t scope out an area? Hell no!

I may make it seem like I am not paying attention but I am very aware of my surroundings at all times. Whether it is looking away from someone suspicious but using my peripheral vision to really check the individual out while he/she walks past me.

This is especially true if I have my child with me. My thoughts are which way do I shove the child to shield them from harms way and take the brunt of what may occur because someone needs money or wants my car.

Even though my child is young I have taught my kid to scream and that the crotch, neck, and eyes are the most vulnerable. So aim for those areas, hit hard, and keep hitting.

Unfortunately there are sickos out there every where, I want to ensure that going into or coming out of a store, restaurant, where ever, that I do my best to protect the things that are most precious to me.

By Cassie

January 11, 2008 4:15 PM | Link to this

What makes me sad is that I feel the GBI was only two or three hours away from actually locating the both of them.

By Fred

January 11, 2008 7:09 PM | Link to this

Dirk: I only read the first entry but based on it, nice website you poster.

Cubbyblues: Us infantry types (and all marines are infantry first no matter what their “specialty is, unlike the Army) had situational awareness beat into our souls and others think we are a little crazy because we practice it.

Cindy: Say what? I AM calm. Never elevated my blood pressure one iota. I told you i was blunt lol.

Cassie: I agree, they were all over it in an amazing way (the GBI and other law enforcement). No one feels worse than they do bgecause they just weren’t in time. I would bet Steve has heard some things he just can’t tell us…………

By Mi

January 19, 2008 11:09 AM | Link to this

Steve said “bad things happen to good people”. Evil has been around since the accounting of Adam, Eve and their children and it comes from our adversary who is out there to kill, steal and destroy. Job referred to: “if I only had a book” to study about his adversary, if we had that book then we would know the secret to “why”. Guns, pepper spray, self defense are all good things to learn and use when needed but the ultimate defense and wall of protection is God (the one in Heaven). His book gives us examples of coming and going 2x2, being prepared, avoiding and overcoming evil, etc. Don’t let your protection be solely based on the devices of Man…sometimes what you are dealing with is a deeper realm of Spirtual matters. Sadly we don’t learn this in our schools, home or in most church’s these days. My supportive prayers go out to all the families that this tragedy and evil soul touched.

By Cindy

January 19, 2008 12:12 PM | Link to this

Mi, Wow. Just wow. I found your writing very eloquent and well thought out. Thanks.