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Are men cheaters?
The Atlanta Journal-Constitution
So what do you make of this discovery? Men are more likely to be devoted and loyal husbands when they lack a particular variant of a gene that influences brain activity, researchers announced Monday — the first time that science has shown a direct link between a man’s genes and his aptitude for monogamy.
The finding is striking because it not only links the gene variant — which is present in two of every five men — with the risk of marital discord and divorce, but also appears to predict whether women involved with these men are likely to say their partners are emotionally close and available, or distant and disagreeable.
What say you?




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By Belinda
September 2, 2008 11:19 AM | Link to this
Men have great PR for excusing their cheating ways.
By one eye bandit
September 2, 2008 11:39 AM | Link to this
I think they should check women for the same gene and if they have it, make them were a sign. Would make life easier for us men.
By lisa
September 2, 2008 11:51 AM | Link to this
I think it’s more of a “Y” chromosome issue.
By Cherish
September 2, 2008 12:20 PM | Link to this
This is ridiculous! There is no such gene. Stop looking for excuses.
By Icy
September 2, 2008 12:23 PM | Link to this
Yes indeed men are cheaters, they can’t help it, they can have everything at home (Sex frequently, a good-loving wife, beautiful healthy kids) and it still isn’t enough. I had a co-worker tell me recently that “NEW” is better, a man will stray for the “NEW” and can still come home to the old like it never happened. If we women would except this behavior frommen as if it is the norm the divorce rate decrease tremendously but what is happening in todays society women are not putting up with it anymore and some of US have started acting like the man by going out and getting a “little bit” on the side. If I had adopted that attitude I would still be married today. Sometimes if you cant join them beat them.
By Icy
September 2, 2008 12:26 PM | Link to this
Yes indeed, men are cheaters, they can’t help it, they can have everything at home (Sex frequently, a good-loving wife, beautiful healthy kids) and it still isn’t enough. I had a co-worker tell me recently that “NEW” is better, a man will stray for the “NEW” and can still come home to the old like it never happened. If we would except this behavior from men as if it is the “norm” the divorce rate decrease tremendously but what is happening in todays society women are not putting up with it anymore and some of US have started acting like the man by going out and getting a “little bit” on the side. If I had adopted that attitude I would still be married today. Sometimes if you cant join them beat them.
By notsureaboutthis one
September 2, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this
I’m not sure I buy this. That being said, if it is so then my first husband has it and my 2nd husband doesn’t (at least I don’t think he does and hope he doesn’t).
By Cynic
September 2, 2008 12:30 PM | Link to this
Finally!
I can blame my drunken philandering on my genetic make-up, not my complete and utter lack of self-control in abating self-indulgent and short-sighted behavior!
By Jo
September 2, 2008 12:51 PM | Link to this
Oh, please! Yet another bogus “scientific study” to excuse iresponsibility & selfishness. Men, it’s not in your genes. It’s in your JEANS. Or, actually, that’s where it SHOULD be.
By KillerT
September 2, 2008 1:02 PM | Link to this
Just like I thought, the blog is dominated by WOMEN, non of you ever have or ever will know what it’s like to be a man so shut the H3LL UP!
I guarantee you if this was a blog about Labor Pains not one man would be in here with his “expert” opinion!
By Mark
September 2, 2008 1:15 PM | Link to this
Why no mention of the cheating w******* wives???
By Mark
September 2, 2008 1:18 PM | Link to this
Of course there is an evolutionary advantage for men to have multiple sex partners. By spreading his genes among different women a man increases the likelihood that his offspring will survive to adulthood and have children of their own.
Conversely, a woman increases the likelihood of successfully passing on her genes if she limits her breeding activity to one male who remains close by to provide for her and the resulting children.
There’s nothing right or wrong or right about the situation. It’s the brutal calculus of natural selection. Humans haven’t been civilized long enough to overcome genetically influenced behaviors programmed over hundreds of thousands of years.
By Tracie
September 2, 2008 1:28 PM | Link to this
ALL MEN MUST HAVE THE SAME GENE THEN!!!
By Jim
September 2, 2008 1:29 PM | Link to this
Heck I don’t know about genes. I do know that I am just horny all the time. Can’t help it! At least I’m honest.
By Caligula
September 2, 2008 1:48 PM | Link to this
Getting strange is the name of the game.
By MB
September 2, 2008 1:57 PM | Link to this
I think scientific research has shown mother nature made females more the philanders across all species as a sub-conscious way to vary the gene pool and thus further enhance the species chances for survival.
By Seriously
September 2, 2008 2:14 PM | Link to this
Absolutely agree, there is also a male gene for beer and porn…c’mon people!
By Tonya
September 2, 2008 2:39 PM | Link to this
Scientist are always coming up with some crap about genetic make up to excuse bad behavior. It’s called self control and everyone need to excercise it male and female alike. Individuals cheap simply because they CHOOSE to. We need to take responsibilty for our own actions. Get some help if needed, but the excuses must end!
By Blue
September 2, 2008 2:41 PM | Link to this
This may be the single most stupid thing I have ever heard. This is just one more way for someone to justify his lack of morals. Is this really what America is coming to? Turning to science to come up with some outrageous, idoitic statement to make some adulterors feel better. It’s a choice to cheat on your wife and nothing else. Make better choices!!!! To By Icy: yes men can help it, some are just stupid!
By Jon
September 2, 2008 2:43 PM | Link to this
Hey, it takes “two” to tango!! What about the other half?? How bout the ladies bad genes??
By sunny
September 2, 2008 2:54 PM | Link to this
Please make no excuse, This is what a man want to do when he get ready to do it. You have just as many ladies cheating just like men. A man thinks it’s ok to cheat, but when his wife cheat he’s Ready to put her out.
By KJ
September 2, 2008 3:14 PM | Link to this
Nice post Mark. Everyone blathering about “morals, self-control, etc” just has their head in the sand.
I think some of you would be surprised at just the kind of “moral, in control” man that has cheated on his wife, you’d never know it by looking at him.
Also, nobody’s mentioned the wives that tub up, cut all their hair off, and refuse to give BJs anymore. Cheating would definitely not be as rampant if this weren’t often the case.
By Don KeBallz
September 2, 2008 3:18 PM | Link to this
I knew it!! I have always enjoyed looking at the “menu” but I am scared to death by what my wife would do to me if I acted on it!
By nellie
September 2, 2008 3:28 PM | Link to this
I do not believe that all men cheat. I feel that women and men cheat just as often. That being said I don’t think that there is a gene of the lack of that causes one to cheat. THEY WANT TO DO IT.
By Hilary
September 2, 2008 3:39 PM | Link to this
I believe some men with a certain gene might be more tempted to “stray around” than others just like some people have alcoholism that runs in their family. However, just because people are tempted to do something does not mean that adultery and promiscuity are justified. Unlike animals, human beings were created with a moral conscience and intelligence to refrain from savage behavior.
By cool calm collected
September 2, 2008 4:10 PM | Link to this
Funny you should try to justify such crap.On the contrary my husband just cheated on me. I have been the faithful,devoted wife and I will continue to be in his eyes as he was in mines.(smirk)
By Mark
September 2, 2008 4:54 PM | Link to this
No one is justifying anything. Genetically influenced behaviors are exactly that, influenced. No one is forced to behave in a given way by his or her genes. Modern western society has dictated that marital infidelity is wrong. A signicant percentage of men may be more predisposed to infidelity but that doesn’t excuse their violation of current mores and standards.
By Mark
September 2, 2008 5:02 PM | Link to this
No one is justifying anything. Genetically influenced behaviors are exactly that, influenced. No one is forced to behave in a given way by his or her genes. Modern western society has dictated that marital infidelity is wrong. A signicant percentage of men may be more predisposed to infidelity but that doesn’t excuse their violation of current mores and standards.
By DukeStank
September 3, 2008 12:57 PM | Link to this
During past 3 days I was “picked up” by 2 different hurricane evacuatee females who both were cheating on their husbands and or boyfriends with me. Genetics had nothing to do with it
By Mike
September 3, 2008 1:04 PM | Link to this
What Democrat comes up with this stuff? If it’s a male gene issue, then where’s the explanation for why women cheat? See, there isn’t one. It’s not genes; it’s wants. Want, want want, with no regard for the effects on the spouse, whichever sex, and of course the children. No accountability, as usual.
By Jodi
September 3, 2008 1:05 PM | Link to this
It has nothing to do with a gene….its about “POWER”
Believe that!
By MANGLER
September 3, 2008 1:59 PM | Link to this
Gene or no Gene, it has to do with respect and love for a chosen partner. If you want to continue to experience new people, then don’t get married and don’t have kids. It’s that simple. If you chose to get married and/or if you have kids, then don’t sleep around. It’s really not a complicated issue. I’m willing to bet the scientists who located the gene have all been divorced or are looking for something to back their transgressions.
By KJ
November 27, 2008 3:36 PM | Link to this
ok.. firstly, although science isn’t perfect, evidence of genetic traits doesn’t lie. there is a gene variant that PREDISPOSES you to polygamy, not one that makes you go out and do it. the gene happens to be some kb longer than the “monogamous” variant. so, there is SOME evidence to the genetic theory of monogamy. to say that science is wrong and being made up is very ignorant. obviously people don’t read scientific articles that depict exactly how experiments were carried out and how results were obtained. the articles are not fabricated just to lie to people :S … monogamy is of course a choice, and some people are just predisposed to it. also, a predisposition in women hasn’t been found yet.. but researchers are working on it (if you’ve been keeping up with current scientific literature). all in all, this is not an excuse for men to cheat, and if anything, it’s a way to be more knowledgeable about your genetics and know how to take precautions because of it. genetics is the basis for everything.
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